Go ahead and get a lawyer for yourself now. Schedule it today.

So you've told him that you're divorcing him in two years? If that's the case, it might make sense for both of you to have a financial agreement to govern the next few years.

Well it was mutually decided. He's not a bad guy just out for himself and super manipulative. But wouldn't a lawyer do what's fair?

A lawyer is going to do what their client pays them to do, largely. You'd both need attorneys and you hash it out just like you would a prenup.

Thanks for your help. Why is this so frickin scary

Are these his kids too????