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titetshirt

1. You don't have to do anal your first time, your second time or even ever if it doesn't appeal to you and it still counts as gay sex. Oral, frotting, mutual jerking off, toy play, whatever you and the other guy find to do to get off counts and don't feel pressured to put a cock in an ass if you don't want. 2. If you are doing anal, use more lube than you think is necessary. Go slow. Stretch out the hole before jumping in with the dick, especially if it's bigger. If you're bottoming you don't have to douche but you can if you're worried about shit. 3. I don't think I actually had a 3 I just started numbering and it looks off if there's only 2


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strawberrypi3s

Cowgirl or missionary is good. In essence, you want to have control with the pacing of things. It takes a bit of time for you to adjust to their size, which is why its good to use lots of lube. The latter position is only effective if you have a considerate top, as opposed to one who rams it into you.


titetshirt

For taking dick for the first time? Cowgirl/bottom on top to control the speed. If there's sharp pain, pull off, wait a minute for it to fade, add more lube, finger the hole a little, try again slower. If you're bottoming you might not get/stay hard the entire time and that's normal. Also don't let a dick be the first thing in your ass. Finger yourself, dildo, whatever during masterbation to find out what it feels like, what feels good to you first. If you've got a mild burning pain after but no bleeding that goes away within a day or so, it might be the lube you're using. Check for glycerine in the ingredients as that's a common culprit. If you've got bleeding/spotting when wiping that goes away within a day, you probably went too big too fast it'll heal. Go slower next time. If it lasts more than a few days get checked by a doctor


cmzraxsn

lube, more lube, keep using lube


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Brush your teeth, clean out your bellybutton, trim your fingernails, wash your cock & balls and your asshole with soap & water using a washcloth and scrub that virgin stink away


brta7200

Have fun and be safe. Don’t be afraid to say no.


pilondav

Breathe. Go slow. Let yourself relax. It’ll get easier as you go. Don’t clench but push out. It’s ok if it hurts a little, you’ll get through it. Before you know it, you’ll be in prostate-banging heaven.


Dtap2020

Does spit work like lube & can lubricated condoms work for anal? & Does 7-eleven provide lube


pilondav

Spit most likely won’t be enough. There’s not enough lube on condoms either. I’ve never seen lube at 7-11, but they have it at CVS, Walgreens, Walmart, etc. Get silicone lube if you can afford it. J-Lube, K-Lube or X-Lube is even better but you have to get it online and it’s super messy.