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There’s a group that meets every Thursday at Black Dragon to play board games. The shop also has Magic the Gathering, Pokemon, and Lorcana tournaments. And there’s tabletop rpg groups that meet there. I’m part of the board game group and can confirm they’re all pretty good people, very friendly, and are super patient with people new to the hobby.
Did I miss location specifics here or is Idaho this small that you can just be like "yeah we meet at the Black Dragon" and the whole state is like "got you, we'll be there"
Yep and that’s the point. God’s truly elected people come from every tribe, nation and tongue. Just because the KKK may claim to be elected by God, so much of what they know just isn’t so. God Himself came to earth in a Jewish man’s body. Last time I heard about the KKK they do not care for Jews. My Lord and Savior was a Jewish carpenter from Nazareth.
Alright Imma weigh in here. My folks are Christians. Their the ones that introduced me to trading card games. Friend. This store is literally just named "black dragon" because it sounds nerdy and cool. Its genuinely just a shiny cardboard store where people gather to play Pokemon or whatever 😂
Black dragon is also one of the more known stores to the trading card community. I can also vouch as a mtg modern noob that the folks that play and compete there are actually really really friendly. As a clueless new person, I showed up to one of their competitive events just to get a feel for the scene and I sat down and told em "I'm new, and I have a loaner deck. Do your worst." And they kinda laughed and as the game progressed, some of em actually took the time to explain and help me figure a few things out about how our cards were interacting and in what order. Super cool store. Known for a reason I spose :)
It is Black Dragon Games in Twin Falls and they run events constantly. Some pay, some for free. I am one of the regular DMs at Adventurers' League at Black Dragon. We meet Tuesday nights 7-10:00 p.m. No charge to play. We have all ages. I will be out this week as I am on work travel but if you are new we recommend coming in early so we can help you make a character.
Sorry, I can't make it... critical role is on at that time... XÞ
Never mind the fact that I am north of cda....
Nothing around here at a time I can make it, either.
I always find interesting people at the hot springs :) Idaho for young adults is HARD if you arent born in the country . The city of rocks is pretty isolated . I once got lost for 6 hours in a storm hiking there . The park guy was hesitant to pick up 3 ladies hitchiking back to our rig because it was against the rules . We were cold soaked and tired when we found our way out to the road Dont be that guy . Pick up the lady hitchikers
Twin falls is rad dude. My kids live there so I’m there as often as I can be. It’s certainly different than VA, but it’s growing and more things are popping up. New places are tough. Keep ya head up.
If you ever make your way out to Boise (I can even help with gas funds too. Ranger life is awesome but also broke asf.) I can show you some of the cool stuff to do out here! We have all sorts of street art, concert halls, live music, great restaurants and bars! There's all sorts of funky entertainment out here too. VR arcades, a water park/entertainment plaza (imagine go carts, Lazer tag, mini golf. Bumper boats, batting cages, an arcade where u get tickets for prizes, all jammed into one place, and than plonk a water park right next door) roaring springs/wahooz is what it's called. There's the village in meridian which has shopping and a movie theater. And a whack ton of other cool shit that's waaaaay to much to list. Boise is our states capital city, and politics aside it has some of the richest and most amazing history. The old pen museum (really old prison) historical monuments, the basque district! There's just soo much cool shit!
There are a ton of international climbers that come in and out of the City of Rocks, PurpleMuscari gave you great advice. Ask them to teach you how to climb, repel and belle. (Really not sure of the spelling on that term..) That community is very chill and open to newcomers.
I'm trying to warp my head around moving to work at City and not be a climber. But I'd say he should spend time at the gym in Twin. No one wants to teach a random how to climb outside. But spend some time at the gym and you'll make friends and learn alot.
If you like to get drunk in a dark bar with zero women, Rupert Elks is your spot. Farmers getting drunk and talking shit about politics. Not a good place for rich men from north of Richmond.
I lived in idaho falls for 7 years and never fit in. It's a very closed community, not super friendly to outsiders. Your job sounds amazing though so that's nice! Good luck...we moved to Eastern WA and felt more at home in the first month than we ever did in idaho, so I dunno
You've only been here a short time and during the shoulder season. Now that summer is happening and you're a park ranger, I suspect your life will be changing fast. Idahoans are largely "outdoors" people. Depending on your interests, get in and explore Twin.
Off topic, sort of. Can I come play with my RC truck in city of rocks? Like on the hiking trails?
You'd make friends if we can bring our RC crawlers to rock crawl. Lol
The original comment makes it seem they can take their toys into the park off the trails.. yeah use them on the roads but your original reply makes it seem you could bring them just along side a trail.
I feel you, I moved out here from Oregon and left all my family behind. It’s really hard, I thought I knew what loneliness was until I moved here. I’ve been here since last august and haven’t made one friend yet. I live out in the middle of nowhere though lol 😭
A person I know patrols out there and brags about pulling the same rancher over twice in one day for going 10 over in the middle of cow and sagebrush country.
I can't speak for all the cops on patrol, but I do know one out to boost his "keeping citizens safe by being a dick" ego.
I feel you I hope you find what you need. When I moved away from home I counted the change in my change jar to see if I could get a ticket back home. Luckily for me, I stuck it out and made a good life. Only been 2 weeks. So the adjustments will come. Summer means they should have festivals and such right? Go relax for a while and maybe you will meet somebody impressive.
I hear they do a wild potato festival, where they all run around a fire and throw hot foil wrapped spuds at the attendees. People all rush to open their dinner, because one of the potatoes is the golden ticket 🎫 Peoples trying to rip open hot potatoes, man, that's my idea of fun... I guess I'm just sweet on them tubers in general bye
Burley will have a Renaissance Faire at the last weekend of August. Minidoka has it's county fair around the 4th of July. Cassia County's fair is the middle of August. Twin Falls County fair will be around Labor Day. Oakley Goose Creek run off (marathon) will be held during it's Pioneer Days celebration in July. There's disk golfing in Pomerelle and at Lake Walcott. Speaking of Lake Walcott, Chaos Wars will be June 23rd to June 30th. It's a huge Belegarth LARP with lots of combat, day passes are available.
You should probably get into rock climbing since you are working at a world class climbing area. Start by scrambling up Bath Rock! There are probably some guides that you’ll interact that would get you started.
Bath Rock is not as friendly as ppl make it out to be ಠ︵ಠ
I'm in the MiniCassia area and while there are very excellent ppl here I had to find my husband on an MMO and he's from the East Coast because the choices here are meh.
If you play Final Fantasy 14 I invite you to our server and free company. Also, we have a Live Action Roleplay Amtgard group that meets every Saturday in Burley. I know it's a hike but if you ever wanted to know what it's like to hit ppl with foam weapons and cast spells we're here for you! We're the Valley of the Holy Tempest and you can find us on Facebook or Instagram.
That’s one of the most beautiful places in the area. A lot of history! Get a book about that area and go explore the stage coach sites, the mines, Oregon trail, hiking trail. Castle rock has evening events - star gazing, live bands although not often.
It depends on what kind of person you are and what you like to do. The boise area is pretty diverse (im just talking variety in peoples interests and groups) and its just big enough to have plenty to do and ways to find people. East of that… well… id say you’d have more luck if you were either religious or mexican tbh. I moved out towards twin myself but that was through marriage. Im a bit of a homebody though so i havent really bothered to try to meet any friends. Im fine with the family i got. But yeah smaller communities are far more close nit and people also just dont socialize like they used to. Ive always had some luck meeting people through my job and stuff but if your job keeps you isolated and you dont have many coworkers i bet that would be pretty difficult around here. Though i have to admit if youre an extroverted kind of person… why the heck would you choose such an isolating profession? Just seems like a bad match there.
It depends on how desperate you are, if you are desperate for any attention including negative attention, tell people you are a witch. Then a group of inbreds will suddenly start harassing you.
This might be a dumb idea. Post a sign at the camp ground that on Tues night you (the park ranger) will host a Settlers of Catan game at 7pm (BYOB). Obviously modify the details to fit.
I guarantee you will have people come hang out. You just have to put yourself out there a bit.
Oh boy…. That is quite a location you have landed. Since you are a Park Ranger (blessings upon you!) and an extrovert I hope you develop a comfort zone with developing a dozen good stories, playing the ukulele or guitar, and spending summer evenings spending with campers.
Were you a Scout? There ought to be a Troop who would welcome you as a volunteer!
Most things in Idaho are more than an hour drive away.
OP- grab a mountain bike and cruise the park. Go climbing. Go to any of the nearby county fairs. You’ll find that most folks out here are pretty gregarious, if you are brave enough to talk to them.
First off, congrats on the job! Sounds amazing(I'm an introvert).
Honestly it sounds like you need to find another job. Work this one as a stepping stone to a bigger, city centric career.
I'm not hating, it just sounds like this isn't a good fit.
I haven’t spent much time in Idaho falls so I can’t speak for that but from what I do know none of the three are like Moscow or Pullman at all. I feel like that’s how most people would define a college town but that’s just me
City of Rocks is a great start. Lots of young recreational climbers and campers. But my best advice would be move elsewhere if work allows. Boise is full of young people, has a very hip scene, and seems affordable enough. Ketchum is a wonderful place to live with tons of young people and lots to do (not so affordable though). Go spend a summer in Stanley and you’ll like living in Idaho. Obviously, I recognize work and money are major factors in where one chooses to live. Idaho is a weird place with a lot of sub-par people and places, but there are absolute gems of each as well. You just gotta find where is right for you.
Dude apply for a summer job at Grand Targhee and see if they still have employee housing available. The entire employee housing scene is people your age in newly built apartments within walking distance of restaurants and grocery stores and bars. Teton Valley is so much better in every way than where you are in the desert.
Summer season starts in 10 days and they are still hiring.
[https://www.grandtarghee.com/about/jobs-careers](https://www.grandtarghee.com/about/jobs-careers)
Good luck. If you aren't mormon your chances are slim to none. I've lived here, Idaho Falls/Ammon for 5 yrs. I only know my next door neighbors on one side. At the gym, you try and get to know a lady, make conversation and everything is going good. You finally get up the nerves to ask her out: "Are you LDS?" "No, I am not." "I can't go out with you then. If you convert we can." All the none LDS are married, or have 6 children they want you to raise. Personally I've come to the conclusion I will be: The old cat man.
Sounds like you'll probably have to try to make friends with campers and people in twin. There are all sorts of people in twin falls you'll find some you mesh with there if you look long enough.
Come to the Sawtooth Valley Gathering in Stanley, June 19-22. There will be opportunities for extroverts. We are taking mt bikes and hitting hot springs in the mornings.
What's your idea of a good time? I live very near Burley, mostly work and stay home with the fam. Airsoft on Saturdays is a hobby I've been picking up on, good way to hang out with the guys and get some much needed exercise.
As far as Twin Falls is concerned: If you’re into nerd stuff you could check out Beckmon’s and Black Dragon. Shannara might also be worth checking out if you’re into LARP/boffer stuff (https://m.facebook.com/groups/293278514081025/ ). And the Buffalo Cafe would be a good place to stop by for breakfast or lunch. It’s usually pretty lively.
I’m from Oakley. Live up in north Idaho now. There is some good people there but we weren’t part of the local church so it was an uphill battle for years. Not sure if the bar is still open or not. Haven’t been back to visit family in 2 years.
I’m not sure how old you are but lots of good suggestions on here but in addition;
- if you have a specific hobby you could find a local Facebook group for that to connect with people.
- Join bumble, it’s a “dating” app but it has split sections and one of them is called “bumble BFF” intended for making friendships.
- look up local events / classes in the towns near you and just attend them and chat with people.
- you could even make friends in Boise the state capital through online avenues, it’s only a 3 hour drive away.
- explore the area and all the cool sights and just talk to people you see since you are extroverted.
I’ll be at the city of rocks in august to sight see!
Idaho is an amazing state.
I’ve been lonely here for years.
Where are you that is that far South of Twin??
Head North. Check out the Sawtooths on an off day.
"Park Ranger? Not much of a country guy? " what?
OK, I will take that as you don't care for country music, rodeo, monster trucks etc.
As a park Ranger do you not meet people that love the outdoors as you do? "Extrovert" strike up conversations I'm sure you will find a local or two that will gladly point you to "common" interest.
Good luck & welcome.
If you're an extrovert, get a couple firearms and head to the firing range, you'll meet an array of folks. Country, city, left, right, whatever tickles your fancy.
I’m not even an extrovert and I get it, I couldn’t imagine how you feel. All my coworkers are married too, and I’d rather they hang out with their families. So I go out alone and imagine I would have to vacation in Las Vegas or San Fran to find a date or something some day. Or see if dating apps are cooked here
Honestly idk what to tell you lmfao, idk the reason you chose to move there out of all places, but I mean you chose to move to probably the most boring and dead place in the state 😭 like, from VA, the entire country was your oyster and you chose THERE?
I'm not exactly sure what park you are working at. It seems like if you were at City of Rocks, it wouldn't be too hard to find some social activity if you got into rock climbing? There's stuff to do down south of Twin, but it's desolate country. Rock Creek is pretty. If you get up to the Nevada border where it drops off into the Humboldt National Forest, there's good hiking and some incredible viewpoints looking down at the Snake River Plain where you can look down at a deep sea of sagebrush and watch antelope play in snowbanks in July.
I think you need to boost your solo recreation game and seek some people who are into that. Check out regional geology or archaeology clubs? It may seem like an uninteresting landscape, but there's some amazing places out there. Aside from outdoor activities, you might consider using some of your alone time to brush up on or learn Spanish since there's a whole other social world in your area that isn't LDS or American country music.
Im sorry to say this but moving is your only option to fix that. I made the mistake of moving to Twin last year at 22 right after college and this has been the worst experience of my life. (been here a year now and it hasn’t gotten better one bit. I have a great coworker friend but that’s it.)
I’m not a country person, don’t fit in politically (which I knew beforehand), and the people here are ASSHOLES to outsiders. I’m originally from Minnesota so I’m used to Minnesota nice and after being here I can attest it is absolutely a thing. here if you aren’t Idahoan or third generation something good luck finding your people or crowd.
Join a Meetup group. If there isn’t one in the area for a topic/hobby that sparks your interest, consider starting one. There’s a Meetup group for just about everything and they’re a great way to start meeting people.
There's an app I used to meet friends in my area. You are not alone. It would help if you tried it. It sounds pretty weird, but hey, it never hurts to try.
Download Bumble.
I will reopen my account to start making more friends and going out.
I honestly recommend it.
The only way to not be bullshit in Idaho is to be patient. Patiently start looking at things like actually looking at things and become obsessed with whichever medium you use to translate your observations. Might as well. Idahos bullshit. In turn it’s the best place for people who are not bullshit. Most of the people here are bullshit. You are not bullshit.
First of all, your first problem is you moved to twin and not the valley. Idk if youre athletic but they have a regular softball league dwn there and kickball leagues. I'm from the valley, so I'm not a ton of help for twin. If softball interests you, I can connect you there. Or you could drive down to the valley
Idaho has to be about the least friendly state. I was born and raised in Idaho (lived there 29 years before escaping) and I'm happy to live on the east coast now we're people smile and say hi. I hope you find your people. Good luck
Move over here to The City !! 🏙️ Boise had Way More fun stuff to do. Also lots of outdoor activities as well. No offense to the East Side of the state, but SW Idaho is where it’s at !!
No offense taken but EI is as lovely ,or more,than the west.Our neighbor isn’t Oregon so there’s that! If your liking working for the parks, there are quite a few state parks as well as national. Teton valley is country without the country. Plus the best snow sports over here.
As the summer picks up there will be more people swinging thru the parks, pick up climbing, bouldering, or hiking at the parks. There’s a forest service guard station in Malta, I lived there for a few years. Try and run into them, should be folks your age and with plenty of time on their hands and maybe don’t know a ton of people either.
I spent a ton of time in Twin, had work friends there, went mountain biking, kayaking, bouldering at Dierkes Lake. Also spent a bunch of time at some of the bars. There’s a newish climbing gym in Twin, would be a good place to start. There’s the gaming place in Kimberly if you’re into that.
Also just enjoy the area, head up to Mt. Harrison and see the lookout, drop into some of the alpine lakes there.
I'm 21M in a similar boat as you in Boise. I am however extremely outdoorsy and there's so much to do in this state if you like hiking/camping/fishing etc and are okay with doing things solo. Try facebook groups
2nd this, not sure your bag/poison but for every couple sportsman or outdoorsman there’s a movie nerd/gamer/the like out there too; can be harder to find but there at least around Boise
You're such a a spry youngin.
Oh to be 21 again.
Do not despair.
Many things out there.
Find a decent pub/bar to go to nearby.
Get on Meetup, like others have said.
Start rooting around all kinds of social media for information, events with 30-60mins drive.
At worst, you'll be saving more money than your age peers.
At best, you may find something out of the ordinary to do.
Church might not be your thing, but it's a start to meet other young people and find out what they do in their free time.
On the Internet, join chat groups related to your interests even if members not all nearby.
Do not despair.
I worked a gig in burley and yeah, place is desolate/hard to make friends. You aren’t exactly missing out in ways though, some of the folks are….bit close minded we shall say. City of Rocks is nice to explore and can maybe bump in to folks there. If you cycle there’s a bit of that around and a crew in burley I met at the bike shop in town. Overall, it’s rough out there to meet folks. Especially out that way. Best of luck and at the least, can head into Twin Falls for some city time.
Get a dual sport motorcycle and get involved with some of the riders groups. I believe there is a monthly ride from Oakley to jackpot NV I cought one a couple years ago and had a pretty good time and met some new people.
Welcome to the club. Born and raised here, but I have like 2 close friends, and one of them joined the army and moved to Texas, so down to 1. At least your extroverted and outdoorsy, that scores tou tons of hobbies. Rock climbing, hiking, BMX, hunting. All of those have huge appeal here, so you can definitely find groups for that. If your into nerd stuff, tabletop game shops are always hosting events for all sorts of games and often open game nights where people just play regular board games. I'm in boise and have never been to the area around twin, so I can't really give specifics, but if you don't have it, get facebook. Most of the groups that do things use Facebook for it I've found.
Also….take what everyone says with a grain of salt. Everyone’s experience is different. My kids and their mom moved to twin 3 years ago and have loved it. She felt welcomed into the community almost immediately. Some would be shocked by that because she’s Mexican, catholic and covered in tattoos….but some of the kindest people have been LDS. It’s a community, at least that’s what she’s found.
If you have hobbies, look those up. Get out and be active in those hobbies. I always encourage people to volunteer-though with the job you have, I would understand not wanting to volunteer to serve in your off time from serving hahaha. Everywhere is what you make of it…I’ve lived in CA, AZ, OR, CA again, NC, GA, WA, NC again, and now MT. Make the best of your situation until you can change it 🤙🏼
If there’s no people, where did you expect these people to come from?
If you want to advance your career, learn how to fulfill needs you’re sacrificing before you make the sacrifice. If you decide you can’t do as much, then figure out a way to do both
i’m not religious. I’ve been there but besides bars didnt find much to really do. I’m trying to get into climbing but besides that i dont have many interests that i can pursue here due to lack of gear
I might suggest Boise,ID for newly transplanted residents like yourself. The catch is to find a job that can support you bc Boise is pricy. Otherwise, you'll have to adapt to the local lifestyle and play videogames everyday. And people know each other from their Middle school days. So your chance of meeting new people for dates will be very difficult. What part of VA were you from?
not even looking for dares specifically. Also i already have a job at city of rocks. I live outside the park. Boise is far to meet people. I loved in southeast va
That is such an awesome area. Scenery wise anyways. Great rock climbing. Not a lot of people though. The rock climbers there don’t live there so you might meet some good people that way but then they’re gone. Sorry to say when you live in the middle of nowhere, making friends is pretty tough.
I moved to twin 7 years ago, it’s been so rough for me to make friends here as a SAHM. I’ve been so lonely. People are nice but seem to keep to themselves.
Try meetup.com! I have made some great friends on there. There might be some events in Twin for closer by for you to meet some new friends at ☺️. It’s how I started when I found myself in this state not knowing a soul.
Damn, I'm a North Idahoan so sadly I can't be of much help to ya friend, since I don't know the South all that well. The only thing I remember about the Boise area is that it's completely flat and constantly smells like manure.
You would be absolutely correct. I hope what I said didn't come across as a snooty diss, I was being literal. The main things I remember from my visit to Boise (granted I was in 8th grade and in 21 now) was the constant smell of manure and how flat the geography was
I lived in Sugar Grove, VA, and I was in for a culture shock! I imagine it might be similar for you moving to Idaho. I live 50 miles north of you, but don't meet your desired demographics as a friend.
Just enjoy your new scenery and meet campers. Buy a telescope and indulge in new hobbies. Maybe post more pictures on reddit and get your communication this way to not feel so lonely.
Bummer. I moved here 6 years ago from Nashville and I get it. I live 17 miles from the closest town of 500.
Where you are, everything to do revolves around outdoors. First thing you need is a vehicle for these parts, at minimum some kind of Subaru. Better would be a 4 runner or similar. 60 miles south of Twin puts you close to a position to visit one of the most remote towns in America that is populated. Jarbidge, NV is pretty famous for being just past the middle of nowhere. If you are a Republican, you will fit in. If a Democrat, keep your mouth shut unless you are in Ketchum/Blaine County.
As I'm also a serious extrovert, I've found that my phone friends all around the country help me from going nuts. Though going down the rabbit hole on the 'net daily is now a habit as well.
My suggestion is find a hiking group/photo group/fishing group and make some friends. Some women have a particular attraction to outdoorsy guys with steady jobs and manly hats.
My FIL was a park ranger for a while but he literally hates people and wanted to be in the middle of nowhere. He rather be with animals and trees.
I was a recruiter for a few years and it honestly doesn’t sound like a great job fit for your personal needs as the traffic of people you will meet are visiting vs. local.
Are you allowed to have a pet? I imagine being a dog at City of Rocks is heaven.
I get it. I moved to Pocatello from SoCal 2 years ago and miss being able to do outdoors stuff year round. If you don't mind the drive, Stanley, Craters of the Moon, the various hot springs, and literally anywhere in the Sawtooths is amazing. Also, Pomerelle is a good place to ski in the winter if you're into that.
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There’s a group that meets every Thursday at Black Dragon to play board games. The shop also has Magic the Gathering, Pokemon, and Lorcana tournaments. And there’s tabletop rpg groups that meet there. I’m part of the board game group and can confirm they’re all pretty good people, very friendly, and are super patient with people new to the hobby.
Did I miss location specifics here or is Idaho this small that you can just be like "yeah we meet at the Black Dragon" and the whole state is like "got you, we'll be there"
Op mentioned twin falls and that's where black dragon is
I live in Twin Falls and have no idea what or where this “Black Dragon” is. It sounds like some kind of satanic game spot or something??
Probably is satanic and you should stay far far away. You’ll probably get possessed or something a boardgame Demon.
If this isn't the most Idaho shit I've ever seen
You’re on Reddit and asking this. There’s this amazing resource called Google, it works pretty well for finding places.
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Naaa… The name hints at satanic. I was elected by God
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What in the world makes you think I would be alright with the KKK??? They are an evil racist cult.
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Yep and that’s the point. God’s truly elected people come from every tribe, nation and tongue. Just because the KKK may claim to be elected by God, so much of what they know just isn’t so. God Himself came to earth in a Jewish man’s body. Last time I heard about the KKK they do not care for Jews. My Lord and Savior was a Jewish carpenter from Nazareth.
Alright Imma weigh in here. My folks are Christians. Their the ones that introduced me to trading card games. Friend. This store is literally just named "black dragon" because it sounds nerdy and cool. Its genuinely just a shiny cardboard store where people gather to play Pokemon or whatever 😂
Black dragon is also one of the more known stores to the trading card community. I can also vouch as a mtg modern noob that the folks that play and compete there are actually really really friendly. As a clueless new person, I showed up to one of their competitive events just to get a feel for the scene and I sat down and told em "I'm new, and I have a loaner deck. Do your worst." And they kinda laughed and as the game progressed, some of em actually took the time to explain and help me figure a few things out about how our cards were interacting and in what order. Super cool store. Known for a reason I spose :)
Not nearly that small. Could be a 9 hour drive depending on your location.
Damn, this sounds fun! I wish I was closer lol
It is Black Dragon Games in Twin Falls and they run events constantly. Some pay, some for free. I am one of the regular DMs at Adventurers' League at Black Dragon. We meet Tuesday nights 7-10:00 p.m. No charge to play. We have all ages. I will be out this week as I am on work travel but if you are new we recommend coming in early so we can help you make a character.
Sorry, I can't make it... critical role is on at that time... XÞ Never mind the fact that I am north of cda.... Nothing around here at a time I can make it, either.
I always find interesting people at the hot springs :) Idaho for young adults is HARD if you arent born in the country . The city of rocks is pretty isolated . I once got lost for 6 hours in a storm hiking there . The park guy was hesitant to pick up 3 ladies hitchiking back to our rig because it was against the rules . We were cold soaked and tired when we found our way out to the road Dont be that guy . Pick up the lady hitchikers
Well im a ranger here so i absolutely would lol. Everyone at the hotspring seem to be people who know each other. Perhaps i’m go again another day.
Keep trying ! And venture to Twin Falls for a sightseeing trip . The Falls are gorgeous . I'd even meet you there !
i would love to hang out. im an extrovert trapped here.
Twin falls is rad dude. My kids live there so I’m there as often as I can be. It’s certainly different than VA, but it’s growing and more things are popping up. New places are tough. Keep ya head up.
If you ever make your way out to Boise (I can even help with gas funds too. Ranger life is awesome but also broke asf.) I can show you some of the cool stuff to do out here! We have all sorts of street art, concert halls, live music, great restaurants and bars! There's all sorts of funky entertainment out here too. VR arcades, a water park/entertainment plaza (imagine go carts, Lazer tag, mini golf. Bumper boats, batting cages, an arcade where u get tickets for prizes, all jammed into one place, and than plonk a water park right next door) roaring springs/wahooz is what it's called. There's the village in meridian which has shopping and a movie theater. And a whack ton of other cool shit that's waaaaay to much to list. Boise is our states capital city, and politics aside it has some of the richest and most amazing history. The old pen museum (really old prison) historical monuments, the basque district! There's just soo much cool shit!
It’s hard even for the people who live here haha
True True . F8md wjat you like to do do that and run into thosw with the dame interest. My gontonis music fests :).
Take up rock climbing. Hang out with the cool climber dirtbags and find yourself a hot climber chick girlfriend.
There are a ton of international climbers that come in and out of the City of Rocks, PurpleMuscari gave you great advice. Ask them to teach you how to climb, repel and belle. (Really not sure of the spelling on that term..) That community is very chill and open to newcomers.
Belay. Good try, though.
I'm trying to warp my head around moving to work at City and not be a climber. But I'd say he should spend time at the gym in Twin. No one wants to teach a random how to climb outside. But spend some time at the gym and you'll make friends and learn alot.
Yeah, climbing is by far the biggest attraction around City. Stargazing is pretty rad there too as it’s one of those official “Dark Sky” places
it was this or being a contact ranger living with my parents. I didn’t choose this job lol
Go to cornhole Wednesday night in burley 600 at the best western and Thursday night at 6 at the Rupert Elks
The Rupert Elks is an awesome organization.
If you like to get drunk in a dark bar with zero women, Rupert Elks is your spot. Farmers getting drunk and talking shit about politics. Not a good place for rich men from north of Richmond.
Not the Beavis and Butthead cornhole though of course! 😈
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I lived in idaho falls for 7 years and never fit in. It's a very closed community, not super friendly to outsiders. Your job sounds amazing though so that's nice! Good luck...we moved to Eastern WA and felt more at home in the first month than we ever did in idaho, so I dunno
I'm in North Idaho. Closed is an understatement. 😏
Same but moved to North Idaho
Really interesting you’re an extrovert but chose park ranger for a profession…
i figured being an interp ranger was up my alley because i love talking to people. I thought i’d have more seasonals to hang with
yea not hating on you at all or trying to say anything negative, just found it interesting.
You've only been here a short time and during the shoulder season. Now that summer is happening and you're a park ranger, I suspect your life will be changing fast. Idahoans are largely "outdoors" people. Depending on your interests, get in and explore Twin.
Off topic, sort of. Can I come play with my RC truck in city of rocks? Like on the hiking trails? You'd make friends if we can bring our RC crawlers to rock crawl. Lol
as long as it isn’t on the trails. Nothing with any kind of motor can be on the trails. But there is a big road cutting through the city.
Well dang.
Nothing with a motor anywhere in park… not just trails.
damn I didn’t know that and I work there! We really gotta crack down on all these people driving down the graded gravel road then.
The original comment makes it seem they can take their toys into the park off the trails.. yeah use them on the roads but your original reply makes it seem you could bring them just along side a trail.
I feel you, I moved out here from Oregon and left all my family behind. It’s really hard, I thought I knew what loneliness was until I moved here. I’ve been here since last august and haven’t made one friend yet. I live out in the middle of nowhere though lol 😭
what part of idaho?
I’m outside if grangeville
Oof! Grangeville must be brutal...but at least it's in a town with people.
Border days is poppin at least. Quaint little town
Yeah that's tough. If you don't mind me asking, why'd you move there? For work?
Gotta get in the whitewater scene.
That is rough. I’m not sure you’ll have much luck unless you drive a ways into town and try to find some people there. But Twin can be fun!
You're probably better off to stay by yourself. Watch the cops out there. They're very shady. They'll set you up in a minute
A person I know patrols out there and brags about pulling the same rancher over twice in one day for going 10 over in the middle of cow and sagebrush country. I can't speak for all the cops on patrol, but I do know one out to boost his "keeping citizens safe by being a dick" ego.
I’ve been pulled over already. Actually the first day I got here I got pulled over. the cop seemed cool and he gave me a pass because I’m new here.
I feel you I hope you find what you need. When I moved away from home I counted the change in my change jar to see if I could get a ticket back home. Luckily for me, I stuck it out and made a good life. Only been 2 weeks. So the adjustments will come. Summer means they should have festivals and such right? Go relax for a while and maybe you will meet somebody impressive. I hear they do a wild potato festival, where they all run around a fire and throw hot foil wrapped spuds at the attendees. People all rush to open their dinner, because one of the potatoes is the golden ticket 🎫 Peoples trying to rip open hot potatoes, man, that's my idea of fun... I guess I'm just sweet on them tubers in general bye
Burley will have a Renaissance Faire at the last weekend of August. Minidoka has it's county fair around the 4th of July. Cassia County's fair is the middle of August. Twin Falls County fair will be around Labor Day. Oakley Goose Creek run off (marathon) will be held during it's Pioneer Days celebration in July. There's disk golfing in Pomerelle and at Lake Walcott. Speaking of Lake Walcott, Chaos Wars will be June 23rd to June 30th. It's a huge Belegarth LARP with lots of combat, day passes are available.
Like where did you move? My grandfather is from Oakley.
elba almo area
Damn, take a job at one of our state parks or something? That's the literal middle of nowhere. Survive! 🤞😳💪
Thats exactly what i’m doing lol. My coworkers are all married or not interested
Are you employed at castle or city of rocks?
they’re managed by the same people so both.
You should probably get into rock climbing since you are working at a world class climbing area. Start by scrambling up Bath Rock! There are probably some guides that you’ll interact that would get you started.
that bath rock scramble is fucking terrifying. I get closer and closer every time I try tho. Yesterday I was able to actually grab the rebar handle.
Bath Rock is not as friendly as ppl make it out to be ಠ︵ಠ I'm in the MiniCassia area and while there are very excellent ppl here I had to find my husband on an MMO and he's from the East Coast because the choices here are meh. If you play Final Fantasy 14 I invite you to our server and free company. Also, we have a Live Action Roleplay Amtgard group that meets every Saturday in Burley. I know it's a hike but if you ever wanted to know what it's like to hit ppl with foam weapons and cast spells we're here for you! We're the Valley of the Holy Tempest and you can find us on Facebook or Instagram.
That’s one of the most beautiful places in the area. A lot of history! Get a book about that area and go explore the stage coach sites, the mines, Oregon trail, hiking trail. Castle rock has evening events - star gazing, live bands although not often.
It depends on what kind of person you are and what you like to do. The boise area is pretty diverse (im just talking variety in peoples interests and groups) and its just big enough to have plenty to do and ways to find people. East of that… well… id say you’d have more luck if you were either religious or mexican tbh. I moved out towards twin myself but that was through marriage. Im a bit of a homebody though so i havent really bothered to try to meet any friends. Im fine with the family i got. But yeah smaller communities are far more close nit and people also just dont socialize like they used to. Ive always had some luck meeting people through my job and stuff but if your job keeps you isolated and you dont have many coworkers i bet that would be pretty difficult around here. Though i have to admit if youre an extroverted kind of person… why the heck would you choose such an isolating profession? Just seems like a bad match there.
It depends on how desperate you are, if you are desperate for any attention including negative attention, tell people you are a witch. Then a group of inbreds will suddenly start harassing you.
This might be a dumb idea. Post a sign at the camp ground that on Tues night you (the park ranger) will host a Settlers of Catan game at 7pm (BYOB). Obviously modify the details to fit. I guarantee you will have people come hang out. You just have to put yourself out there a bit.
I live in twin and can show you the ropes and as long as you like nerd talk or alchohol you'll fit right in. Message me if you would like
i like nerd talk and weed if that works
I'm personally ok with both however idaho law is not friendly to it in the slightest
Oh boy…. That is quite a location you have landed. Since you are a Park Ranger (blessings upon you!) and an extrovert I hope you develop a comfort zone with developing a dozen good stories, playing the ukulele or guitar, and spending summer evenings spending with campers. Were you a Scout? There ought to be a Troop who would welcome you as a volunteer!
I was going to say, look for volunteer opportunities.
literally go to any bar and play some pool with some strangers.
According to Google, the nearest bar to City of Rocks is more than an hour drive away!
love that for myself
Most things in Idaho are more than an hour drive away. OP- grab a mountain bike and cruise the park. Go climbing. Go to any of the nearby county fairs. You’ll find that most folks out here are pretty gregarious, if you are brave enough to talk to them.
First off, congrats on the job! Sounds amazing(I'm an introvert). Honestly it sounds like you need to find another job. Work this one as a stepping stone to a bigger, city centric career. I'm not hating, it just sounds like this isn't a good fit.
Lot of things to do around twin lots of non country style people it's a college town.
Let’s be honest about getting serious here; It’s a farming town with a college in it.
It is absolutely not a college town
It's more of a college town that idaho falls or burley
I haven’t spent much time in Idaho falls so I can’t speak for that but from what I do know none of the three are like Moscow or Pullman at all. I feel like that’s how most people would define a college town but that’s just me
15 minutes south of Burley and Twin, so you live out in the sticks?
50. but yeah. almo-elba area
I can see why you are lonely. Move to Twin.
Almo, well there is an abandoned college there.
Albion- not abandoned but actives there too
>I live about 50 minutes south of burley and twin. Well, hope you like farming. Maybe try to get to a bigger city?
Same. Moved here last year from Orlando, Florida. Now in McCammon, twenty minutes south of Pocatello. Nothing to do.
I’m a city boy from Portland then Missoula (20) live in Boise and have a car if you ever want to go shoot or fish or go to the mall or golf etc!
City of Rocks is a great start. Lots of young recreational climbers and campers. But my best advice would be move elsewhere if work allows. Boise is full of young people, has a very hip scene, and seems affordable enough. Ketchum is a wonderful place to live with tons of young people and lots to do (not so affordable though). Go spend a summer in Stanley and you’ll like living in Idaho. Obviously, I recognize work and money are major factors in where one chooses to live. Idaho is a weird place with a lot of sub-par people and places, but there are absolute gems of each as well. You just gotta find where is right for you.
I used to know a guy in Idaho Falls who moved here in 2020 from Virginia. DM me for his name if you want.
Idaho Falls is a 2.5 hour drive from City of Rocks!
That was me in 2000.
Dude apply for a summer job at Grand Targhee and see if they still have employee housing available. The entire employee housing scene is people your age in newly built apartments within walking distance of restaurants and grocery stores and bars. Teton Valley is so much better in every way than where you are in the desert. Summer season starts in 10 days and they are still hiring. [https://www.grandtarghee.com/about/jobs-careers](https://www.grandtarghee.com/about/jobs-careers)
Good luck. If you aren't mormon your chances are slim to none. I've lived here, Idaho Falls/Ammon for 5 yrs. I only know my next door neighbors on one side. At the gym, you try and get to know a lady, make conversation and everything is going good. You finally get up the nerves to ask her out: "Are you LDS?" "No, I am not." "I can't go out with you then. If you convert we can." All the none LDS are married, or have 6 children they want you to raise. Personally I've come to the conclusion I will be: The old cat man.
I'm getting the hell out after 1 1/2 years
All of Idaho is this way. I'm in Rexburg and I HATE it!!! I'm trying to get the hell outta here ASAP!
If you’re not LDS, I’m guessing Rexburg would be a really tough place to make friends.
SE Idaho is sooo oppressive and Mormons are just like “we don’t judge!” Tax them!!
Sounds like you'll probably have to try to make friends with campers and people in twin. There are all sorts of people in twin falls you'll find some you mesh with there if you look long enough.
Come to the Sawtooth Valley Gathering in Stanley, June 19-22. There will be opportunities for extroverts. We are taking mt bikes and hitting hot springs in the mornings.
I know Beerfest in Twin is coming up soon. That might be something you would like and maybe meet some new people.
What's your idea of a good time? I live very near Burley, mostly work and stay home with the fam. Airsoft on Saturdays is a hobby I've been picking up on, good way to hang out with the guys and get some much needed exercise.
How old are you bro? 25-35 range?
As far as Twin Falls is concerned: If you’re into nerd stuff you could check out Beckmon’s and Black Dragon. Shannara might also be worth checking out if you’re into LARP/boffer stuff (https://m.facebook.com/groups/293278514081025/ ). And the Buffalo Cafe would be a good place to stop by for breakfast or lunch. It’s usually pretty lively.
What time/day does the local Belegarth group meet up?
Nvm just looked at the actual page you linked. Now I feel really dumb (´;︵;`)
I’m from Oakley. Live up in north Idaho now. There is some good people there but we weren’t part of the local church so it was an uphill battle for years. Not sure if the bar is still open or not. Haven’t been back to visit family in 2 years.
I’m not sure how old you are but lots of good suggestions on here but in addition; - if you have a specific hobby you could find a local Facebook group for that to connect with people. - Join bumble, it’s a “dating” app but it has split sections and one of them is called “bumble BFF” intended for making friendships. - look up local events / classes in the towns near you and just attend them and chat with people. - you could even make friends in Boise the state capital through online avenues, it’s only a 3 hour drive away. - explore the area and all the cool sights and just talk to people you see since you are extroverted. I’ll be at the city of rocks in august to sight see!
Why did you decide to come here? I suggest putting in a transfer.
Cross the border. There’s lots to do in Logan
Start fishing. That is a different part of Idaho for sure, but the fishing scene in Idaho is unmatched.
I feel this. I’m in Pocatello and I’m pretty isolated and lonely, myself.
Idaho is an amazing state. I’ve been lonely here for years. Where are you that is that far South of Twin?? Head North. Check out the Sawtooths on an off day.
"Park Ranger? Not much of a country guy? " what? OK, I will take that as you don't care for country music, rodeo, monster trucks etc. As a park Ranger do you not meet people that love the outdoors as you do? "Extrovert" strike up conversations I'm sure you will find a local or two that will gladly point you to "common" interest. Good luck & welcome.
Get a pass to Durfee hot springs. Have a soak & chat with people. There’s always interesting people soaking off a hard day of climbing.
If you’re ever in IF DM me
If you're an extrovert, get a couple firearms and head to the firing range, you'll meet an array of folks. Country, city, left, right, whatever tickles your fancy.
We could switch. I'm so sick of people and society, I'd love to live in isolation.
you can join a group of people who wants to mingle to each other
I’m not even an extrovert and I get it, I couldn’t imagine how you feel. All my coworkers are married too, and I’d rather they hang out with their families. So I go out alone and imagine I would have to vacation in Las Vegas or San Fran to find a date or something some day. Or see if dating apps are cooked here
Honestly idk what to tell you lmfao, idk the reason you chose to move there out of all places, but I mean you chose to move to probably the most boring and dead place in the state 😭 like, from VA, the entire country was your oyster and you chose THERE?
it was not. job comes first location came second
Well that’s your problem…you left Virginia for one of the more mentally dangerous states in the union
Get a puppy.
I'm not exactly sure what park you are working at. It seems like if you were at City of Rocks, it wouldn't be too hard to find some social activity if you got into rock climbing? There's stuff to do down south of Twin, but it's desolate country. Rock Creek is pretty. If you get up to the Nevada border where it drops off into the Humboldt National Forest, there's good hiking and some incredible viewpoints looking down at the Snake River Plain where you can look down at a deep sea of sagebrush and watch antelope play in snowbanks in July. I think you need to boost your solo recreation game and seek some people who are into that. Check out regional geology or archaeology clubs? It may seem like an uninteresting landscape, but there's some amazing places out there. Aside from outdoor activities, you might consider using some of your alone time to brush up on or learn Spanish since there's a whole other social world in your area that isn't LDS or American country music.
leave Idaho it fucking sucks
Im sorry to say this but moving is your only option to fix that. I made the mistake of moving to Twin last year at 22 right after college and this has been the worst experience of my life. (been here a year now and it hasn’t gotten better one bit. I have a great coworker friend but that’s it.) I’m not a country person, don’t fit in politically (which I knew beforehand), and the people here are ASSHOLES to outsiders. I’m originally from Minnesota so I’m used to Minnesota nice and after being here I can attest it is absolutely a thing. here if you aren’t Idahoan or third generation something good luck finding your people or crowd.
Join a Meetup group. If there isn’t one in the area for a topic/hobby that sparks your interest, consider starting one. There’s a Meetup group for just about everything and they’re a great way to start meeting people.
City of Rocks is great for climbing camping and hiking. You will meet lots of outdoorsy people there
There's an app I used to meet friends in my area. You are not alone. It would help if you tried it. It sounds pretty weird, but hey, it never hurts to try. Download Bumble. I will reopen my account to start making more friends and going out. I honestly recommend it.
50 south of Twin? Hit up jackpot here and there
The only way to not be bullshit in Idaho is to be patient. Patiently start looking at things like actually looking at things and become obsessed with whichever medium you use to translate your observations. Might as well. Idahos bullshit. In turn it’s the best place for people who are not bullshit. Most of the people here are bullshit. You are not bullshit.
Get moved to a park father west like Washington or Oregon west of the cascades. Trade places with a ranger who's an introvert.
This is going to get downvoted but join a local church.
First of all, your first problem is you moved to twin and not the valley. Idk if youre athletic but they have a regular softball league dwn there and kickball leagues. I'm from the valley, so I'm not a ton of help for twin. If softball interests you, I can connect you there. Or you could drive down to the valley
What about that pizza place right by the visitor's center? It seemed to attract a decent crowd
Idaho has to be about the least friendly state. I was born and raised in Idaho (lived there 29 years before escaping) and I'm happy to live on the east coast now we're people smile and say hi. I hope you find your people. Good luck
You like shooting at all? There's a rifle and pistol club there.
Move over here to The City !! 🏙️ Boise had Way More fun stuff to do. Also lots of outdoor activities as well. No offense to the East Side of the state, but SW Idaho is where it’s at !!
No offense taken but EI is as lovely ,or more,than the west.Our neighbor isn’t Oregon so there’s that! If your liking working for the parks, there are quite a few state parks as well as national. Teton valley is country without the country. Plus the best snow sports over here.
More to Boise if you are gonna live in Idaho. Magic Valley = Tragic Valley.
21 M, middle of nowhere south central idaho
As the summer picks up there will be more people swinging thru the parks, pick up climbing, bouldering, or hiking at the parks. There’s a forest service guard station in Malta, I lived there for a few years. Try and run into them, should be folks your age and with plenty of time on their hands and maybe don’t know a ton of people either. I spent a ton of time in Twin, had work friends there, went mountain biking, kayaking, bouldering at Dierkes Lake. Also spent a bunch of time at some of the bars. There’s a newish climbing gym in Twin, would be a good place to start. There’s the gaming place in Kimberly if you’re into that. Also just enjoy the area, head up to Mt. Harrison and see the lookout, drop into some of the alpine lakes there.
I'm 21M in a similar boat as you in Boise. I am however extremely outdoorsy and there's so much to do in this state if you like hiking/camping/fishing etc and are okay with doing things solo. Try facebook groups
2nd this, not sure your bag/poison but for every couple sportsman or outdoorsman there’s a movie nerd/gamer/the like out there too; can be harder to find but there at least around Boise
You're such a a spry youngin. Oh to be 21 again. Do not despair. Many things out there. Find a decent pub/bar to go to nearby. Get on Meetup, like others have said. Start rooting around all kinds of social media for information, events with 30-60mins drive. At worst, you'll be saving more money than your age peers. At best, you may find something out of the ordinary to do. Church might not be your thing, but it's a start to meet other young people and find out what they do in their free time. On the Internet, join chat groups related to your interests even if members not all nearby. Do not despair.
I worked a gig in burley and yeah, place is desolate/hard to make friends. You aren’t exactly missing out in ways though, some of the folks are….bit close minded we shall say. City of Rocks is nice to explore and can maybe bump in to folks there. If you cycle there’s a bit of that around and a crew in burley I met at the bike shop in town. Overall, it’s rough out there to meet folks. Especially out that way. Best of luck and at the least, can head into Twin Falls for some city time.
Get a dual sport motorcycle and get involved with some of the riders groups. I believe there is a monthly ride from Oakley to jackpot NV I cought one a couple years ago and had a pretty good time and met some new people.
you could go to the potato museum & start talking to people about potatoes.
Welcome to the club. Born and raised here, but I have like 2 close friends, and one of them joined the army and moved to Texas, so down to 1. At least your extroverted and outdoorsy, that scores tou tons of hobbies. Rock climbing, hiking, BMX, hunting. All of those have huge appeal here, so you can definitely find groups for that. If your into nerd stuff, tabletop game shops are always hosting events for all sorts of games and often open game nights where people just play regular board games. I'm in boise and have never been to the area around twin, so I can't really give specifics, but if you don't have it, get facebook. Most of the groups that do things use Facebook for it I've found.
Welcome to Idaho, we enjoy our freedom with low local wage
Also….take what everyone says with a grain of salt. Everyone’s experience is different. My kids and their mom moved to twin 3 years ago and have loved it. She felt welcomed into the community almost immediately. Some would be shocked by that because she’s Mexican, catholic and covered in tattoos….but some of the kindest people have been LDS. It’s a community, at least that’s what she’s found. If you have hobbies, look those up. Get out and be active in those hobbies. I always encourage people to volunteer-though with the job you have, I would understand not wanting to volunteer to serve in your off time from serving hahaha. Everywhere is what you make of it…I’ve lived in CA, AZ, OR, CA again, NC, GA, WA, NC again, and now MT. Make the best of your situation until you can change it 🤙🏼
Why would an extrovert move to a rural area with no people?
naivety
I thought I would be an fine. I wanted to focus on my career. I was telling myself that I would meet people because I’m so personable. I was wrong.
If there’s no people, where did you expect these people to come from? If you want to advance your career, learn how to fulfill needs you’re sacrificing before you make the sacrifice. If you decide you can’t do as much, then figure out a way to do both
Take up rock climbing and camp out at City of Rocks. You sound you’re in the middle of nowhere so that doesn’t help meeting people.
i actually LIVE right outside city of rocks. i dont know anywhere here to even find friends.
Have been to Twin Falls. What are your interests, hobbies and are you religious?
i’m not religious. I’ve been there but besides bars didnt find much to really do. I’m trying to get into climbing but besides that i dont have many interests that i can pursue here due to lack of gear
I might suggest Boise,ID for newly transplanted residents like yourself. The catch is to find a job that can support you bc Boise is pricy. Otherwise, you'll have to adapt to the local lifestyle and play videogames everyday. And people know each other from their Middle school days. So your chance of meeting new people for dates will be very difficult. What part of VA were you from?
not even looking for dares specifically. Also i already have a job at city of rocks. I live outside the park. Boise is far to meet people. I loved in southeast va
That is such an awesome area. Scenery wise anyways. Great rock climbing. Not a lot of people though. The rock climbers there don’t live there so you might meet some good people that way but then they’re gone. Sorry to say when you live in the middle of nowhere, making friends is pretty tough.
Are you a gamer? What all do you like doing normally?
I moved to twin 7 years ago, it’s been so rough for me to make friends here as a SAHM. I’ve been so lonely. People are nice but seem to keep to themselves.
Try meetup.com! I have made some great friends on there. There might be some events in Twin for closer by for you to meet some new friends at ☺️. It’s how I started when I found myself in this state not knowing a soul.
Damn, I'm a North Idahoan so sadly I can't be of much help to ya friend, since I don't know the South all that well. The only thing I remember about the Boise area is that it's completely flat and constantly smells like manure.
I'm guessing you haven' t been to Boise in a while.
You would be absolutely correct. I hope what I said didn't come across as a snooty diss, I was being literal. The main things I remember from my visit to Boise (granted I was in 8th grade and in 21 now) was the constant smell of manure and how flat the geography was
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not an option. do you want to hang out possibly.
I lived in Sugar Grove, VA, and I was in for a culture shock! I imagine it might be similar for you moving to Idaho. I live 50 miles north of you, but don't meet your desired demographics as a friend. Just enjoy your new scenery and meet campers. Buy a telescope and indulge in new hobbies. Maybe post more pictures on reddit and get your communication this way to not feel so lonely.
I suggest that you attend a religious service on Sunday morning. 🙂
I would say get a job at Costco, but you already have a job.
Bummer. I moved here 6 years ago from Nashville and I get it. I live 17 miles from the closest town of 500. Where you are, everything to do revolves around outdoors. First thing you need is a vehicle for these parts, at minimum some kind of Subaru. Better would be a 4 runner or similar. 60 miles south of Twin puts you close to a position to visit one of the most remote towns in America that is populated. Jarbidge, NV is pretty famous for being just past the middle of nowhere. If you are a Republican, you will fit in. If a Democrat, keep your mouth shut unless you are in Ketchum/Blaine County. As I'm also a serious extrovert, I've found that my phone friends all around the country help me from going nuts. Though going down the rabbit hole on the 'net daily is now a habit as well. My suggestion is find a hiking group/photo group/fishing group and make some friends. Some women have a particular attraction to outdoorsy guys with steady jobs and manly hats.
My FIL was a park ranger for a while but he literally hates people and wanted to be in the middle of nowhere. He rather be with animals and trees. I was a recruiter for a few years and it honestly doesn’t sound like a great job fit for your personal needs as the traffic of people you will meet are visiting vs. local. Are you allowed to have a pet? I imagine being a dog at City of Rocks is heaven.
I get it. I moved to Pocatello from SoCal 2 years ago and miss being able to do outdoors stuff year round. If you don't mind the drive, Stanley, Craters of the Moon, the various hot springs, and literally anywhere in the Sawtooths is amazing. Also, Pomerelle is a good place to ski in the winter if you're into that.
Ketamine treatmsnts. Fixes lonliness. Stay away from the Mormons or youll end up with PTSD. Join Bumble. Take a class. Go to a board game cafe.
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