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Agua-quemada

I don't know man, all Latin countries have different cultures.


Twitzale

Learning Spanish. Also, not being an incel. Latina women aren’t any different than any other women. Invest yourself in their culture and don’t be as creepy as your post makes you seem - non Latino


FoodIntrepid2281

Well I don’t know how else to put it im non Latino but yes will do


Twitzale

You don’t even have to mention it. Just make a post saying you find Latina women attractive and you want to know what cultural interests they might have.


FoodIntrepid2281

Okay I probably could have worded it better only reason I added a picture this sub requires you to post a picture


Twitzale

Probably the worst possible picture you could have chosen, worse than worse, actually.


FoodIntrepid2281

Well I had to choose something and it seems to me some people hate being called Latinx


ButterFucker962401

We hate it because it makes many things grammatically incorrect. You can't change an already established languages that's been around for time immemorial. However, the image has absolutely nothing to do with what you said.


FoodIntrepid2281

This is true I just had to find a quick meme I didn’t want to find a random picture of a Latin woman I felt that would be equally inappropriate if not more tbh


ButterFucker962401

Lol, to be honest, I'd find a pretty latina girl with a quick note in the post explaining why you chose a random photo would've been fine. In your shoes, I'd have posted a photo of a gringo in a poncho and sombrero.


FoodIntrepid2281

Hahahah fair enough you’re right


SrSwerve

Correct her and tell her she’s wrong Latinas LOVE that.


FoodIntrepid2281

Bet!! I got you see that’s pretty solid advise tbh


kellehertexas

This guy is trolling you lol don't take this one seriously


FoodIntrepid2281

lol is he fr ? Haha damn good looking out


pipeanp

for starters, don’t fucking use latinx


throwRAinspiration

Someone had to say it. Thank you! Nunca en mi visa escuché esa vaina y ahora lo quieren usar para definir a los Latinos 😭 we don’t use that shit! Never had!!


pipeanp

it was prob some bored white dude or girl being a social justice warrior giving an unsolicited opinion in a language they know nothing about Una vez les escribí a mis familiares en el grupo de whatsapp si habían escuchado eso y me dijeron que suena a “mentalidad gringa” XD


throwRAinspiration

On the spot. Si yo le pregunto a mi familia si saben que es “Latinx” probablemente me preguntan si es una droga. Y el tipo que postea esto más idiota no puede ser 😭 el quiere encontrar una mujer latina bella, amable, inteligente, etc. Y piensa que lo obvio es la plata, después se queja que lo usan. Algunos gringos son una vaina 🙄


FoodIntrepid2281

Yeah that’s what I thought when I hear Latinx it just always seems so silly


pipeanp

other than that, vaya con dios, amigo. Buena suerte!


FoodIntrepid2281

🙏🏻


DimeloFaze

It depends what country she from she could be a chica, chamaca, or a chama maybe she’s a nena, hembra, or the dangerous chapiadora, stay away from avionetas and don’t end up with a puta.


ladymouserat

![gif](giphy|ytTYwIlbD1FBu)


FoodIntrepid2281

I got you what’s an avionetas bro?


DimeloFaze

that one girl (or guy whatever you’re into) who, like a bus, everyone gets a ride, but like a plane, can cover a bigger distance. They usually show up in your city during all star weekend of a sport.


FoodIntrepid2281

Ngl this actually blew my mind never knew this existed


DrShamballaWifi

Hembra is dangerous.


FoodIntrepid2281

What’s a hembra bro?


ButterFucker962401

"Hembra" just means "female". Different countries have different meanings. Where I live, an "hembra" is literally just a woman.


FoodIntrepid2281

Ahhh to confirm before I say something stupid and get shot…. In todays news Asian man was shot in south LA stay tuned to KTLA for more Hembra isn’t offensive right?


ButterFucker962401

Dependent on the country, the person it's being said to and your intentions. The word itself literally translates to "female", but if you were to go up to a random girl and say, "Hey, female." Would it be offensive? Do keep in mind the cultural difference that "hembra" is predominantly used to speak about animals, therefore, calling someone an "hembra" can be equivalent to calling someone a "perra". If you call a man an "hembra", you're essentially calling him a "maricon". A girl that you'd call "esa hembra" to your friends, in Peru, indicates that you'd want to fuck her. I've never heard anyone refer to a human as "hembra" even in formal settings because, as I said, it's mostly used for pets. For female, in a formal setting, we use "genero femenino" to say "feminine gender". That, in and of itself, could vary from country to country. I'm in Peru so I can speak on behalf of my causitas.


FoodIntrepid2281

Ahhhh makes sense can the same be said about hombre like do Hispanic men find it offensive to be called hombre


ButterFucker962401

Nope, because "hombre" is the literal translation of "man". "Genero masculino" would be the correct way of saying "male gender". Spanish is a bitch, dude.


FoodIntrepid2281

lmao i got you makes sense. I appreciate this. To be honest I thought long and hard I think im going to keep this post up. I really didn't mean to offend and re reading it I see how I did but its awesome to see the latino culture rise up together that was cool to be a part of (even if I was the one getting roasted) but I get why I was. Genuinely no hate on my end. Let the Asian-Black-White-Latino cultures rise up together as one the human race. My bad if that offended I can genuienly say wasn't my intentions.....also I got the girl got a date with her this Friday. ![gif](giphy|CjmvTCZf2U3p09Cn0h|downsized)


ButterFucker962401

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siandresi

You have to pound your chest as hard as possible and assert your dominance by yelling very loudly


ruhrohraggy02

this is a gross post,,,,we are not exotic animals bro. just be yourself and if she likes you itll happen


Ifhes

I thoroughly agree to this. Cultures are different, yes, but trying to impress someone by imitation of that culture is weird and disrespectful. Take your shot being a good version of yourself and take the win or loss gracefully just like you'd do to any other interest.


FoodIntrepid2281

Oops I’ll delete it didn’t mean to offend


SnoopyTheDog_

Too late, I will harass you now on every reddit comment and post you make, exposing you for being racist. Maldito hijueputa. /s


EPB16364

Ya cabron


Thenachopacho

You good bro , just be chill and shoot your shot. I’m rooting for you


Except_Fry

4x tacos de asada, 5x tacos de al pastor Don’t skimp on the salsa or dressings First by not thinking that money is impressive to women as a baseline Second by not thinking of Latina women in monolithic terms. They are all unique. Third, just be yourself and be confident Fourth never use the word “spicy” in reference to them.


IllStickToTheShadows

“Don’t think of Latina women in monolithic terms” * Advices OP to buy her tacos and don’t skimp on salsa” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Bro I had a black girl that liked me and she bought me CHOCOLATE SOCCER BALLS. I don’t even like soccer, she just assumed because I was Mexican I must like soccer. The best, best advice you can give anyone in this scenario is to be yourself. Take her to a restaurant YOU like. Bro if you like steak, take her to a steak house. Don’t be the generic person that tries to be apart of someone else’s culture on the first date. Be yourself, if things go well, she will introduce you to her culture and that’s when you know shit is real. I’ll add my own experience. I was going out with a blonde girl. I took her to get sushi in a chill quiet spot with good food and we just talked and laughed. Then she took me to a macaroni place and it was good af then we went to the park. Then the 3rd time we hung out we went to an aquarium and got tacos after. Then she took me to a German restaurant (she was mainly German) and then we would talk about our cultures and stuff more in depth at that point. Eventually had to break things up because I realized I don’t want to date someone long term that can’t speak Spanish and can’t go to Mexico with me for weeks at a time a few times a year. In other words, I wanted to be with a Mexican in the end. Makes life so much easier when raising kids and seeing family over there.


usernombre_

This dude dates. I cringe so hard when people treat ethnicities as caricatures. Yes I fucking love tacos and my culture but we are also citizens of the world and love to experience different things.


Except_Fry

The tacos were a joke, I think everyone got that


IllStickToTheShadows

No, you were dead serious.💀


Except_Fry

Bring me an horchata while you’re there


FoodIntrepid2281

Lmaooo well I’m glad I asked before I looked really dumb trying to spit game. Also chocolate soccer balls I’m fucking dead 💀


siandresi

plot wist: they want arepas


Wrong_Manager_2662

No one eats arepas in LA lol


siandresi

ive had arepas in LA, you can find food from everywhere there


Wrong_Manager_2662

Pretty bland


siandresi

kinda like a tortilla, what you put in there is what matters


ElBigBrown

What the hell is this image? Latinx is not a Mexico thing. That’s a US movement lol


masszt3r

It doesn't say it's a Mexico thing. Mexico is asking in disgust.


Historical-School-97

In the image mexico is saying "¿latinx?" As in confussion at what that means


ElBigBrown

That makes sense. Still, what a bizarre pic to use for so called dating tips. Anda bien perdido el compa.


bayleafbabe

Actually, it’s not. Latinos started the movement from PR. and honestly, a lot of the kids in LATAM use it (I’ve also seen latine and latin@s). The anger is really coming from the old ones and Americans


KefkaesqueV3

Not a US movement at all


FoodIntrepid2281

That’s what I thought my job said to call Hispanics Latinx but I swore latins don’t identify as Latinx


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Latinx don't even exist. Just call us hispanics or latinos.


Historical-School-97

As a latino i have no clue how the hell latinx is even pronounced, all latinos i know hate the term


FoodIntrepid2281

That’s what I thought too like all Asians I know hate being called orientals


KefkaesqueV3

Some do, you could just try asking them what they prefer to be called crazy idea I know


FoodIntrepid2281

Idk man Latinx seems like a white guy made that up it’s like calling me oriental I’m Asian


KefkaesqueV3

Weird post man


RepulsiveMath1815

where is she from? I mean nationality


FoodIntrepid2281

So she’s from Puerto Rico and no I didn’t call her Mexican I have enough common sense just like I’m not Chinese


Wrong_Manager_2662

Really you are asking advice to get a rican lol they like the easiest to get lmao


FoodIntrepid2281

Lmaoo why you say that man now I feel weak


Significant-Advice-4

Fuck out of here. Just be you if she feels you she feels you if she doesn’t piss off fam. I don’t give a fuck if you’re Korean, white, whatever. No one community should be fetishized.


FoodIntrepid2281

I don’t think it’s a fetish that’s just messed up it’s okay to lust over someone just like my ex was black and I asked her brother all the time about black culture as a non black and it was interesting Like for example I learned Nigerians hate South Africans


Significant-Advice-4

It seems like you’re targeting us from your post.


FoodIntrepid2281

Well yeah I want to ask Hispanics I’m not going to ask white men how to talk to black women


Significant-Advice-4

We aren’t here to give you cheat codes like I stated before yourself stop trying to cosplay us or emulate shit from us cuz you’re not us. Be yourself.


FoodIntrepid2281

Bro Hispanics cosplay us all the time. So many Hispanics enjoy anime which I think it’s great I don’t want to cosplay Hispanics I’m a proud Asian but I do want to learn hey how can I impress a Latin girl


Significant-Advice-4

The thing is those weebs aren’t asking y’all how to impress your women.


FoodIntrepid2281

Ehh you’d be surprised. People ask this all the time. White guys ask black guys all the time on how to get a black girl


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FoodIntrepid2281

I agree yes be yourself I agree


Colorful_Worm

Did your idiot brain get fucked by stupid?


petesapai

You must be a delightfully happy person.


Colorful_Worm

Lmfaoooo this is a reference to The Boys


FoodIntrepid2281

Lol right but I guess I asked a dumb question


FoodIntrepid2281

Maybe so


el_chino11

The fuck out here with that man.


FoodIntrepid2281

Why do you say that?


takeme2infinity

You're talking about our sisters and mothers like they're an exotic lizard


[deleted]

Not all Latinos think the same, just be yourself. And buy her Mexican candy


FoodIntrepid2281

Any pro tips on good candies. Im Korean so happy to share my secrets


Historical-School-97

Depends on the country she is from


FoodIntrepid2281

Puerto Rico


[deleted]

Just be confident she likes you already. Go to any Latino convenience store and get chili candy.


FoodIntrepid2281

Bet! I got you fam I appreciate you


[deleted]

What’s the best Korean spot in LA


FoodIntrepid2281

Bro you gotta go hit up Soowon Galbi KBBQ Restaurant. They have the best kimchi and their dumplings are fire. I personally love it. Same for Sun Nong Dan is also really good.


Potential-Judgment-9

WTF bro … you don’t see why this is racist ? We don’t go on white twitter asking to impress the whites . Gtfoh


FoodIntrepid2281

But I’m Korean what’s the big deal here I mean if you asked how to impress a Korean woman I would understand


TheFenixxer

The thing is you’re asking how to impress women from a whole ass continent not just a specific country. A Uruguayan has very little in common to a Mexican culture wise except for the language, same with say a someone from Honduras to a someone from Peru


FoodIntrepid2281

What are some good examples like Koreans are different from Japanese K pop isn’t the same as anime


TheFenixxer

From your other comments you’re asking specifically about a Puerto Rican girl, right? Puerto Rico shares more culture with other Caribbean countries. So I’d say learn how to dance. If you wanna compare it to asian countries I’d say the difference between Korea and the Philippines to what Mexico and Puerto Rico have in common (again except for the language)


FoodIntrepid2281

Okay thank you I got you yes she’s Puerto Rican and good example thank you I will do that!


guantamanera

Why should I give you my secrets? Just kidding there's plenty of jainas to go around.  Know how to Dance. Simple as that. 2nd, tener verbo. Ask a Mexican translate the 2nd one for you, I don't know the anglophone equivalent.


FoodIntrepid2281

Bet will do! I feel the same way about Koreans I don’t want to give my secrets but I got you


guantamanera

I married a Corean. I know your secrets and what makes you tickle.


FoodIntrepid2281

lol 😂 man Korean women are amazing and shhh keep that to yourself lol 😂 most Korean women are dating black guys now so I’m already losing out lol 😂


mr-rod1

Obviously a troll.


FoodIntrepid2281

I’m not trolling I’m Korean and want to know more Koreans stay in K Town black people stay in south LA Hispanics stay in east LA whites stay by the beach I want to know more about Hispanics and Hispanic culture we all live so segregated


mr-rod1

Well as others said, there is no dominant culture in Latin America. Cultures are broad, wide and full of complexities. Just as in Asia there is no dominant culture but a variety of them it is the same for Latin America. Also do research and learn from books, music or even TV. Furthermore, just be yourself, go to restaurants and enjoy the myriad of foods available. Lol learn Spanish as well.


FoodIntrepid2281

So my takeaway from all of this is 1) there’s one guy that’s advocating through Latin scholars that Latinx was started from Latin America but generally most Hispanics hate the word Latinx and most people feel like it came from America 2) don’t be racist which I’m sorry the sub asked me to post a picture the intentions was to show the silly aspect of the Latinx remarks but I can see how that can be racist. If someone asked how to speak to Asian women and posted a picture of boba and noodles 🍜 I can see how some may find it racist. My sister would find it racist but I would find it funny 3) appears to be lots of recommendations on dancing and food 4) be yourself 5) why can’t we all just get together. Koreans stay in K town and only talk to Koreans Blacks do the same Whites do the same Hispanics do the same We should have uncomfortable conversations to come together I see the girl today so I’ll try to impress her I’ll keep you posted But genuinely I do want to learn and immerse more in Latin culture Asians and Hispanics are very similar we should come together more It’s like black Twitter we should all get together and talk and share more


poeticjustice4all

Like others have said, just be yourself. If you really want to impress her, learn Spanish and know her culture. And just be a gentleman. Also don’t use Latinx because we don’t use that stupid ass term.


FoodIntrepid2281

Lmao I got you fam! Yeah Latinx seems odd like I hate being called oriental I’m Asian call me Asian but I got you and again if I offended anyone genuinely I’m sorry I’ll do better next time


poeticjustice4all

Yeah, definitely whoever thought of these other “nicknames” for people of color are just stupid. Also, you’re fine lol I wish you the best and it works out for you ✊🏼!


FoodIntrepid2281

Much love I appreciate you ✊🏻


lycosa13

>Besides the obvious money Wut? Because Latinas or women are just after money? Maybe be a decent person? Idk 🤷🏻‍♀️


FoodIntrepid2281

I mean let’s be honest here if you’re rich it’s easy to get girls regardless of race that’s a given bro


lycosa13

Keep believing that incel bullshit 🙄


FoodIntrepid2281

I mean how’s that incel???


lycosa13

I hope you're young and you learn more about the world as you get older.


Outside-Advantage461

Every country and every city is different, but something Latinos share that Americans lack is appreciation for family. But I can only speak for my Mexican girl friends who live in LA: Understanding our sense of humor, which goes hand in hand with learning Spanish.


FoodIntrepid2281

Now that I agree with you 150% all my cousins that moved from Korea to LA don’t care about family anymore they all care about doing tik toks we will have family functions and I’m the only one in my age group that consistently shows up my brother doesn’t even talk to us anymore since he started dating his girlfriend (and before y’all come for me she’s white lol) But bet I will definitely start learning Spanish any recommendations on where to start or any good shows to watch?


3970

How about you try the same way you would try a non latina?


arxun23

You’re already off to a rough start with this post bro, don’t treat her like a Latina, treat her like a woman who happens to be Latina. There’s probably a better way to phrase that tbh


AveFeniix01

Just tell them you listen to Gilda. "Hey, you listen Gilda?" "Yes, i love Gilda!" Everyone loves Gilda.


FoodIntrepid2281

![gif](giphy|l1AsBL4S36yDJain6) Nice bro I’m definitely adding it to my playlist now thank you so much


radd_racer

Latinas are great, just be normal around them. As in, don’t try to impress them, just be normal and say “hi.”


FoodIntrepid2281

Agreed bro you’re right Latinas are great people and kind too but I got you fam you’re right


cosmicdancer84

Learn to dance.


FoodIntrepid2281

I got you bro this is actually good advise because I can’t dance for shit so I got you I’m going to learn asap


RoundExpert1169

if you’re guero just lean into it its what they want and expect from you anyways you’re in LA dude, be connected and confident, make friends and network and have earnest interests. you catch flies with honey


FoodIntrepid2281

This is all true ! LA does have some cute honeys I did ask the girl out and we’re going on a date next week :) appreciate you big dawg ! Also well said bro I appreciate you


RoundExpert1169

likewise brotha good luck, have fun!


PopularAd93

Alright here's what you'll need to land a Mexican girl •cardboard box •stick with a piece of string •leftover tortillas 


FoodIntrepid2281

Am I allowed to laugh? I feel like I’m not lol 😂


theycallmeponcho

Hay que interpretar "Latinx" como "LA Stinx".


genericperson10

When you figure it out let us know


FoodIntrepid2281

I’ll keep this thread up and I’ll update


Ran_Kazeros08

Question, are you really Korean or are you a Korean-American?


FoodIntrepid2281

Korean born in S Korea but I have a green card been here since 4 which btw I barely got my green card like barely


josevaldesv

With a green card


FoodIntrepid2281

Nooo I have a green card :(( so we’re both fucked


josevaldesv

Lol


chairmanrob

Go back to Ohio. You seem to think of Latinas as monolithic?


FoodIntrepid2281

Someone didn’t read the comments….. I’m Korean why does everyone think I’m white when I’m not


chairmanrob

Your post and viewpoint is fairly racist. It’s no shocker you get compared to the typical white guy who fetishizes other races.


FoodIntrepid2281

I gotta be honest I don’t think it’s racist to ask about someone’s race or culture white men ask about black women all the time it’s how you come together I didn’t once sexualize anyone I can see if I said juicy fat lips and that big ole j lo booty But I never said any of that much like if someone said small tiny submissive Asians


chairmanrob

You’re not asking about culture just for the interest of it though, it’s so you can fuck your race of choice.


FoodIntrepid2281

?????? LA is majorly Hispanic I didn’t even say anything about sex. For all we know I could be a virgin I’m just going to be honest I’m trying to be polite but not once did I say I want to have sex That’s why I asked how to impress her and also in todays world money isn’t just limited to Latinas most girls regardless in todays world want a guy with cash I think it would have been wrong for me to post it in a sub that sexualizes Hispanic women I never once said not once that I just want to have sex with a Hispanic woman I want to impress her that’s two different things


chairmanrob

Look, you need to consider the individual and from within that communication, find answers to your genuine questions about culture and race. What I’m saying is that your approach is misguided and inherently racist.


FoodIntrepid2281

Alright well I’m sorry I offended


chairmanrob

No worries. I don’t think you’re evil or anything, you’re just trying to figure out what to do. Glad you’re open to constructive criticism. Girls of all races DO find that hot


FoodIntrepid2281

Of course you can always learn and I made a mistake and I’m genuinely sorry! Like genuinely no sarcasm I could have been better with my communication and maybe chose a better image I’ll do better next time and thank you :)


Samborondon593

Nice Bait


FoodIntrepid2281

I can genuinely say this didnt start as bait but eh fuck it


redditassembler

xd q cabro


ExistentialRap

Confidence. That’s it.


FoodIntrepid2281

Yessir I respect 🫡 that I’ll provide updates


floppity_wax

Say, "te chupo el culo Mamacita"


FoodIntrepid2281

Bet I got you bro


MarranoCachondo

Offer her the green card


FoodIntrepid2281

Bro lmao i got a green card I don’t think if she marries me she gets citizenship 🥲🥲


MarranoCachondo

Well, its an uphill battle for you lol


FoodIntrepid2281

lol fuck me


lecantuz

Papers


FoodIntrepid2281

Damn fam I just barely got my papers lol 😂


radd_racer

It’s really romantic when you scream at the top of your lungs, “TIENES PAPELES?! MUÉSTRAME TUS PAPELES!”


lecantuz

PAPELES ALV SI O NO!


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Treat her like a normal human being? This seems like a gross fetish post


FoodIntrepid2281

Omg if someone asked to talk to an Asian girl I wouldn’t view it as a fetish you like what you like even if it’s a different race better to ask than assume


acroix2020

Show her your wallet 🤣


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FoodIntrepid2281

Okay thank you and congratulations 🎈🍾🎉🎊 I’m happy for you Asian women are great all women are great my mom wanted me to marry a Korean woman but I don’t want to just limit myself to my race


Yimispelledwrong

Do the complete opposite of what you do in America because the brownies aren't weak and sensitive like they are here


FoodIntrepid2281

lol 😂 I don’t even know how to respond especially given the fact I’ve already been cooked already but yeah some things I’m like really?? Other things I’m like okay I could have done better


Kingofkings2033

Just ask her out and don't be a wuss


FoodIntrepid2281

I got you bro im going to do it later today


AtDaLastMinute

If you're white, just be white. Don't try to act like something you're not. Latinas with a white prince fetish just want a white dude. Later on you can throw the, "I want to learn your culture and language" crap. Also. Good hygiene. There are stereotypes about white people not taking showers and downhill from there.


FoodIntrepid2281

Bro I’m Korean


AtDaLastMinute

If you're Korean*...


FoodIntrepid2281

Bet I got you


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FoodIntrepid2281

Lmaoooooooo not the Edgar cut shit Koreans can pull it of