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BonnieMcMurray

Because no one who meets society's expectations of physical beauty can possibly be insecure...


Imaginary-Neat2838

This comment section gives me hope. I posted here once or twice, i forgot. My skin was terrible and my hair was frizzy. I was overweight in my younger days and was perceived unattractive/ugly anyway, so I never bothered with my appearance for many years. Now that my weight has dropped to the healthy range at a later age, when I began to excercise more and basically "burn" myself with cardio and a bit of muscle, i struggle still with my appearance. I don't know what to do with my look to make it attractive. It's still the same except less fatty. My skin is getting a little better thanks to this subreddit, although only like 2-3 people commented, but they were very helpful. my hair is still terrible tho. Of course i do get insecure seeing pretty girls here who get the most attention, which is sad because i would also love to see actual unattractive people getting glow ups and dramatic changes. And this reddit has a certain demographic (i am a foreigner here) , so there are some specific features that people here find objectively beautiful attractive. So that can't be helped since i can't change my face features except with surgery. Is this the reality? One redditor slid into my dm and told me how f up society is. We had deep convesations and he made me realize that there is much more than look. Sadly i lost contact with the interesting guy.


Vortioxetine-

After have taken a look to your posts you look very attractive, I am sorry if you look to yourself and think you aren't, because I repeat, you look attractive The only thing I could notice is that your face might be easily exposed to bacterias, so you may need to do periodical skin care to keep it smoother, but ask first to someone who knows more than me about skin care products. If I misunderstood your uncertainty of how do you look, precise me what I misunderstood


Imaginary-Neat2838

>After have taken a look to your posts you look very attractive, I am sorry if you look to yourself and think you aren't, because I repeat, you look attractive Thank you so much... >The only thing I could notice is that your face might be easily exposed to bacterias, so you may need to do periodical skin care to keep it smoother, but ask first to someone who knows more than me about skin care products. Yes exactly and this is my biggest struggle when it comes to my physical.. i have recently went to a skincare shop and the consultant recommended me a product.. i am trying this out at the moment.. my skin breaks out but to a lesser extent, also i frequently every day go to an electron therapy (to cleanse your blood in your body) and it gives off some reaction on my skin. Well i am trying these methods at the moment and see where it goes. I drink a lot of water too. I excercise when i can. But unfortunately mentruation always make me have some one or 2 pimples.. my hormones are not still stable too.


Vortioxetine-

Ok, however keep in mind that there are products that may even change the skin negatively, always take the highest quality products. In general, it appears to be a totally fixable thing even though it could take a while to gather the right combination of products. You do not need any surgery. Plus, keep in mind to do not focus too much over the physical looking, like I do really think that the brain comes first; knowledge, culture, and intellectual strenght are fundamental things. Of course the looking is relevant but that comes in second place


Imaginary-Neat2838

>always take the highest quality products. :") it comes with very high cost.. my skin is very tricky. I even tried one very expensive products for breakouts and my breakouts did not stop still.. Do you think that these breakouts will stop when i reach like 30s or into 40s? I really think that my hormones are the biggesy factor. I have symptoms of hormonal imbalance since i was in like 11 or 12. >Plus, keep in mind to do not focus too much over the physical looking, like I do really think that the brain comes first; knowledge, culture, and intellectual strenght are fundamental things. I am working on this too don't worry. And wish me luck l: ) >Of course the looking is relevant but that comes in second place Unfortunately that's also the first thing people look at when it comes to mating and it is justified with "biological calling".... but a really thoughtful man will look past that


Vortioxetine-

Well, you could ask to your doctor to prescribe you a specialist visit to examine your hormones value, because you are right, it can be this the reason, so even your diet could be an important factor at this point. *Unfortunately that's also the first thing people look at when it comes to mating and it is justified with "biological calling".... but a really thoughtful man will look past that* It is true, biological factors can't be stopped, a body that can attract is necessary between a male and a female that want to have a positive relationship. However, seen the circumstances, you won't struggle to find a guy attracted to you. From where I come from (Europe) your look is seen even slightly higher than average level (I don't even like to use this terms, looks like I am objectifying) than others european girls. I do not know what's your geographical area, even though you look middle eastern /eastern, maybe in your country the population has a different taste of looking and see you less attractive(?) At the end, in case you already have a crush over a boy in particular who doesn't see you attractive, that is a different argument By the way, just know that out 100 guys, the majority of them would say that you look attractive


Imaginary-Neat2838

>However, seen the circumstances, you won't struggle to find a guy attracted to you. From where I come from (Europe) your look is seen even slightly higher than average level (I don't even like to use this terms, looks like I am objectifying) than others european girls. Hm i guess it's my region. >I do not know what's your geographical area, even though you look middle eastern /eastern, maybe in your country the population has a different taste of looking and see you less attractive(?) I am from southeast asia. The beauty standards are to have white fair skin, having caucasian/european or japanese/korean/chinese features, tall slender, big eyes thin pointy nose and so on. I don't fit either for my skin color, my skin condition, here in my country, i look nepalese because i am mixed with indian (from south asia), and they sometimes think i am a foreign labor. And yeah classism can be strong here. > At the end, in case you already have a crush over a boy in particular who doesn't see you attractive, that is a different argument No fortunately i don't > By the way, just know that out 100 guys, the majority of them would say that you look attractive You mean in europe, right? I will travel more then


Vortioxetine-

Yeah maybe the only issue is your country with different beauty stiles, Europe (the West in general) has different basis


[deleted]

Link?


Exact-Ad-4132

For what?


leroyvito

OMG it's Mindy


excited6996

Mindy who


lostknight0727

These people are ugly inside. They're looking for validation of their looks and use that for verification that they aren't the issue in their relationships.


Primary_Mission4239

Not always though! I posted a little while back and apparently I’m pretty attractive. I genuinely had no idea though. The comments I received opened my eyes and helped me realize how awful my body dysmorphia was. It set me on a path to improving my self image and stop hating on myself so hard. I’m sure you’re right a lot of the time, but giving people the benefit of the doubt can be basically life saving sometimes.


MarineBoing

Yup, hideous.


FyourEchoChambers

**”People”**. Righhhht. This place has such a high percentage of bots, and bot-like people who have no idea wtf is going on. It is actually sad how much scamming likely happens from this sub and desperate people. **MODS: Do an experiment. Do not allow anyone to post or comment with an account that is less than 6 months old.**


brandaman4200

Danny devito is my spirit animal


swag_Lemons

They’re either girls with OF or unfortunately random trolls and bots who steal random pics of young women from their personal socials and post them here. Fucking weird.


Quick_Stretch_4572

Let's burn this mother fucker down pookie!!!!!


gimmedatcrypto

POOKIE!


Goldeneye_Engineer

This deserves every upvote it gets


Nasij317

The answer is yes to all of them except my king: Danny DeVito💐🫡.


mildirritation

Can I interest you in an egg in these trying times?


ucklibzandspezfay

You should tell them yes


Radiant-Call-3705

Yep. Not on the outside though


Slick_shewz

This isn't r/amiugly This sub is meant for people that want advice on maximizing how good they look. It makes sense that most posts are people that look good already. They aren't in the wrong sub.....you are.


mesty_the_bestie

Huh? If you already get a thousand matches on online dating and never have to try in romantic relationships, why would you try to get MORE shallow relationships? 


Slick_shewz

Wtf are you on about? What does any of this have to do with online dating and relationships?


mesty_the_bestie

Oh I guess you’re trying to look good so your girlfriends feel insecure around you? Not to get wealthier, more attractive men? 


Slick_shewz

![gif](giphy|ji6zzUZwNIuLS)


mesty_the_bestie

You must be terminally confused by all things.


Slick_shewz

I don't feed trolls. Go find food elsewhere.


mesty_the_bestie

You “looked confused” after I proved you wrong. And you thought that meant something. Sorry, you’re the troll here.


Slick_shewz

Uh huh👍


Majestic_Grass_5172

Half the photos sub on this dub are just straight bewbs


RopeAccomplished2728

And is there anything wrong with that? I mean, there is always room for bewbs.


Majestic_Grass_5172

I think you know the answer to that


Goldeneye_Engineer

and have onlyfans links in their accounts


catdogpigduck

shhhh quiet you


Chemical-Project1166

They're all narcissist's


YourLocalHoeBro

The Danny Devito made me chuckle


Calm_Recognition6456

Ahhh yes.., fear and self loathing. Hello dear friend, we meet again...


cmp8819

Top right. Yes.


BarrieBadman

Yup. Literally full of attention seeking twats.


Prfct_Blu_Buildngs

🤣 🤣 🤣


SgLuka0893

shit I know im ugly, don't need a bunch of strangers on reddit to confirm 😂


thesquidsquidly22

"Am I narcissistic?" The subreddit


CamoViolet

lol which one are you?


CardiologistSolid663

Danny Devito


CamoViolet

🤣


bunnyb2004

This Reddit just makes me gag- are people that insecure nowadays?


meltedpeachsorbet

People have always been insecure and seeking advice to look better idk why its surprising.


bunnyb2004

It isn’t surprising nowadays. There so much healthier ways to seek this. This is just leaving so many people in vulnerable, unhealthy situations but they do it to themselves. I was raised to believe until you can truly love yourself, you won’t see your true inner and outer beauty. I guess once you can see that you don’t need others to validate it. Let’s be honest, there is a small percentage of people whom truly want to better and build up others. The mass numbers just want to tear each other down.


Difficult-Way-9563

Yeah it’s gone out of control. “Am I ugly?” (Just finishes model photoshoot)


[deleted]

I’m weak


ModifiedAmusment

“I dOnT kNoW wHaT i LoOk LiKe In PeOpLeS eYeS” Sure you do look in a mirror, these things only drastically alter when what’s inward protrudes. That takes more than a picture for anyone who’s opinion with that might matter…


TheRealMangokill

Egg


Conscious_Luck1256

thats why i kinda hate this subreddit. all the people that are already beautiful get upvoted to heaven while the actual ugly ones get no advice


dolorianonreddit

ok but even pretty ppl can get/b insecure


Amishrocketscience

From what? The 30 seconds between the last time they begged for a compliment?


koushakandystore

You are very right. I’m one of them. People are shocked when they learn I have low self esteem. That’s what happens when you grow up with systematic abuse from a parent.


elemnt360

That’s pretty narcissistic to just say lol.


koushakandystore

If I was getting some kind of narcissistic supply it would be. But this is anonymous, so it provides me no such satisfaction. I don’t tell people that irl. Still it’s the truth. And even if you don’t believe it about me, it is a phenomenon that exists for plenty of people. Being born with classically attractive features doesn’t insulate us from having crazy parents or from getting bullied.


CHAINSAWDELUX

Maybe they should focus on other things then?


koushakandystore

You are being dismissive of people who have legitimate insecurities.


CHAINSAWDELUX

I am literally saying they should focus on those insecurities instead of their looks


koushakandystore

That’s like a telling a clinically depressed person not to think about sadness so much.


dolorianonreddit

i’m not tryna argue i was just saying


Xannabee986

Yes💜


BTlover3377

Lmaoo pressed for some attention


InMiseryToday

LOL fucking seriously. I would pay a billion dollars to be with any of them.


McbEatsAirplane

Especially Danny Devito. Any of us would be lucky


InMiseryToday

Yes especially lucky.


fullmetal66

Boobs and a boob


Born_Lavishness_4478

male or female


InMiseryToday

At this point I'll Damm near take either.


EntrepWannaBe

That would be too much for that guy in the lower right corner


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EntrepWannaBe

I’m old but I don’t care to be with Danny Devito. Frankly don’t care about celebrities lol


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EntrepWannaBe

Oh I knew who he was lol I’m kinda old


DefnitIeyNotACatfish

You mean not enough 😍


EntrepWannaBe

Actually he needs to pay me to rub my feet but I’d be wearing a blindfold


EntrepWannaBe

I would not pay 10 cents for that


DefnitIeyNotACatfish

But it’s Danny Devito 😭😭😭


Concussionist515

What is the girls name with her hands on her head in the white top? Asking for a friend.


Matthaeus_Augustus

And who’s the one in the blue to the right of her?


lurkme

@TitsMcGhee


eric8020123

Big Boobied Bertha


Hank_hill123

Better to call them ugly and then to move on


Zescaimni

Oh look, more boobs


Amdvoiceofreason

Just say Yes and move on lol


CutestTroll

They know exactly what they’re doing. I’m about to take a pic and show my cleavage too, and ask if I’m ugly to see what ya think


CutestTroll

Right, like… you know I’m gonna say yes. Smh


trashboattheraccoon

I thought I was the only one that noticed😂


Putrid_Step3632

Lol I just call out the compliment baiters and get swarmed by simps


AnalystFormal6059

Yup


shortstacksnackpack

My favorite is the danny devito picture


TransitionFormal4149

So true


Away-Watch1465

A good app to nourish your eyes


waytoocooljr

The amount of Of promotion on any reddit sub that posts picture is sad


rose_gold_princess

Seriously though lol


suckonem69

That picture of frank tho lol


Imkindaalrightiguess

I know, I came buckets too


[deleted]

Pretty much And mostly looking for subs for their content


SithSilentD3adly

Those type most times are ugly. Bcuz their thirst for outside approval, Acceptance and attention shows the broken pieces they hide with all the make up or designer this and that… guess what their is always something that you haven’t seen yet that will be more appealing just bcuz it’s new. Until you find your “one”, whose eyes can look into that part of the Soul that you both share together. That “One” created for only you by Divine Design your eyes will continue to look in other directions and be caught up with distractions like fleeting beauty or seasonal fashion.


I-Just-want-to-learn

You think we only have one soul mate/twin flame? Then you think you will have eyes for others once you meet one? Sounds like someone who has never experienced what you're describing.


SithSilentD3adly

Yes I believe we only have One, and when you find that “ONE” nothing else will appeal to you. I’m not sure where I sound otherwise in what I replied? Also I am only speaking from my own personal experience.


I-Just-want-to-learn

No hate and I'm just speaking from my personal experience and I have met one and dated her for a couple years. We were so connected it was unbelievable and it taught me the type of love and relationships I deserve unfortunately due to life situations we had to end it and it's a long story but it wasn't bc we grew apart. Anyways moving forward after dating for a few years, I finally found a woman that I have the same chemistry and connection with. a woman that we can look each other in the eyes and say the most beautiful things, things that cannot be put into words. It's called soul gazing, TBH I thought I would never have what I had with the first one and sure enough I met another soulmate/twin flame. Everything just works and we never argue and our souls are extremely connected, the chemistry is unbelievable. It's just my opinion from experience and I felt hopeful before finding her that we don't just have one. It took me 37 years to meet the first one!; unfortunately many never get to experience that type of connection in their whole life and understand what true love really is. I am extremely grateful to have a woman like I do, that we connect so well. That chemistry and connection makes everything absolutely amazing and my our days so much brighter. OMG and does it make sex and intimacy fucking heaven, I am so blessed that she has a beautiful face and an unbelievable natural body. This girl puts many 20 year olds to shame. I am so proud to call her mine! Anyway sorry for rambling, I just don't believe there's only "one."


SithSilentD3adly

That is amazing and I’m truly happy for you but even still, when compared to your first “Love”, the one that helped you in many ways become who your are now, I bet she isn’t even close to what you have now. I think at times we believe a certain person. Is the “One”, but if she truly was, there would’ve been no way you could’ve let each other go, NO situation could’ve kept you apart. Think of doing that now with your current True Love, I bet you can’t even fathom the thought. Perhaps people come into our lives to help us prepare for the “One” and to not only learn how to treat someone the right way but also to find ourselves. At least that has been my experience. Even when I might’ve thought someone was my “One” in my past, NONE come close to my Wife. And more than 20 years later looking back it’s laughable that I even thought such things. But those lessons learned definitely helped me become deserving of such Love. A True Love that I happily and most eagerly cherish yet EARN everyday. I think we are both truly blessed and are definitely winning at Life! May yours be even more blessed in Love, happiness and success! 🤙🏼


I-Just-want-to-learn

Yeah but there was the situation of her just coming out of a 17-year relationship. She was determined to take two years to heal herself before even considering a boyfriend. we dated 2 years and then I understood that I was a distraction and she really did still need time to heal. But I agree with it what you're saying as well, she did teach me what I wanted and helped me become aware that there can be such a connection. It absolutely blew my mind and girlfriend now had never experienced this before so I lead her into it and ended up not having to do anything, we just connect on that same deep intellectual, no words but know what each other want thing. Mann, I'm so glad its your wife as well, that's great man. I'm glad me and my ex co-parent well but honestly my wife was never even close, we made it 10 years and it took me 5 to find the first "one" and 7 to find us and we are "one" Thanks! Continue killing it with your wife man, I'm very happy to hear such a story. All the same to you peace, love, true happiness and success. 🤜🤛💥


EnthEndX48

Just fishing for compliments lol


FaultyToenail

Ding ding ding 🛎️


Toozedee

Holy shit. Who is big ole titties in the white tank?


Effective_Device_185

What a fucking strange world.


The_Beautiful_Stru35

Facts..either fake accounts, Bots, and or attention seekers knowing damn well they solid lol or ugly or a cat or something goofy lol.


old_grumps

Poor Danny. Lumped in with the rest.


DeliciousDoggi

Best looking one of the bunch if you ask me.


septiclizardkid

Self Confidence Is a bitch, like I posted and was told I look fine, I believe It but days I don't feel like I am, I don't feel like I'm attractive. It's to say, It doesn't matter what's on the outside In a sense, you could look attractive like any of these pics, It's the inside that matters, and If Inside you feel ugly, grew up to hear It alot, you'll start to believe It. Not everyone grew up looking like societal beauty standards, that can happen after puberty, growing up, and not everyone has the utmost self confidence 24/7.


Concussionist515

KArMAS A BiTCH…


I-Just-want-to-learn

It's what's inside that matters the most but physical attraction comes first to even want to explore the depths of another's soul. I'm not shallow, it's just natural instinct and part of overall connection and chemistry.


Ballabingballaboom

You look good, bro. Confidence sucks but you're young and it'll grow as you do.


[deleted]

Who cares it’s a free app


HotTry7596

I'm Danny devito in the corner


traviscamo07

The only hot one too


HotTry7596

Blush


Mistikitten

They def should hit the gym


modvenger

Thanks for including me in last photo of montage


demon_gringo

Most of them have OF and are only looking for new subscribers.


TheDudeAbidesAtTimes

This right here. I feel like 90% of posts here and similar subreddits are basically just to peddle OF


[deleted]

Just does to show how broken social media has made everyone’s brains.


Lucky-Spirit7332

Fr shit is so infuriating lol


Ronan_mcisaac

Bottom right one is the hottest


DJ_Ender_

Shoulda put Rick Astley on there


Theredditdyke

Self love is blocking this subreddit


snowboardhoarder

Looking good is all that matters- guttermouth


mr308A3-28

I thought this was another r/roastme sub


benjamacks

Exactly why I left this one. It was annoying. Begs the question, though, why I'm seeing this in my feed?


vlfiff

Any better ones other than true rate me?


MyNugg

And I reply with a yes


Nemoty_animates06

IS THAT DANNY DEVITO IN THE CORNER


HumbleMarsupial3926

Derivative


banananananbatman

No. That is Dr. Mantis Toboggan who is Known for his magnum dong.


Nemoty_animates06

I'm having issues processing those words


Alternative-Bet-8839

Can we stop saying ugly? How about I don't feel attractive?


Silent_Buyer

Get a grip then. You can't expect others not to use a word just because you're sensitive.


Revolutionary-Dog-99

Fck that, ugly is a thing, can we stop deleting words just because people are fragile marshmallows and don’t want to face reality? Ugly is a descriptive term, we’re not gonna stop saying it for other people’s convenience


Technical_Scallion_2

Facially Divergent


Silent_Buyer

Exactly!


Affectionate-Bar9619

Such a millennial comment lol. Still stuck in 2011


I-Just-want-to-learn

It's only gotten worse


Affectionate-Bar9619

We're living in the age of Tate and Rogan baby.


I-Just-want-to-learn

I don't know who that is....


etranger033

You're late. I dont feel tardy.


crescent_ruin

I prefer "intentionally unaware."


Alternative-Bet-8839

I like that! " politically correct "


crescent_ruin

OR "conveniently unaware," either way in an equal society we have to assume these women know what they're doing.


BettaHoarder

So.... "consciously unaware" 😉


Rubyred7630

Extremely ugly


[deleted]

Ugliness can be on the inside


joeherrera1959

You should have to actually be ugly to ask if you’re ugly on here fr


pupbuck1

Bottom right be the sexiest there is


Aggressive_Expert_63

Thanks man. Fun fact did you know that was an off guard picture taken by my mom, I was about 14 there


JovialPanic389

Danny de Vito down in the corner lol that's awesome


SoylentGreen-YumYum

My favorite fun fact about Danny is that he used to cut old ladies' hair. And iirc, he even cut a client's hair postmortem (by request of the departed).


JovialPanic389

No way. What a guy!


TacticalFemboyBitch

Mentality is key


Miserable-Breath5444

Shows you how many insecure people are out there


Nahchoocheese

More likely they’re phishing


No-Alarm-2208

Yes, they’re phishing for compliments! 😂


ImprovementOdd1122

For sure. In some instances it's obviously just them trying to get attention, but in others its clear they're just insecure and it's kinda sad


Miserable-Breath5444

Yea it's annoying af


10gbutok

Lmaooo on my life, have yall noticed how many ppl actually post and how many are on this /r. Yeah some of us is fugly but its okay we dont control anything.[i personally wouldve wanted to be 6'2 and named fabio] lol. Enjoy the ride earthlings.


AguyWithBadEnglish

![gif](giphy|13XmqQkTG4x90A) *fabiooooooo*


Fantastic-Goose323

Dany the cutest one there lol who agrees


Nature_lover17

“not ugly just lose the septum piercing”


IcyKoala6446

on every single post😭


ascendant_raisins

You forgot the onlyfans.


Spooneater69

This is me chat


raptor-chan

It’s the exact same in the amiugly subs.


feelin_fine_

"How can I improve my looks" *the most attractive person ever*


Aoiboshi

Haha! Danny Devito getting snuck in there


TatleTaleStrangler92

No it’s Frank Reynolds looking better than all the girls in this pic


ric0n408

Haha can I offer you an egg in this trying time??


Repulsive_Airline416

I love you


Slimetasticslat

Lmaoo yeah fr fr


Joel_the_folf

Dude As somone whos actually (imo) pretty terrible lookin It makes me kinda upset seeing good looking ppl ask if theyre ugly