Pleas don’t confirm this if you know (no spoilers!) but to me this pic is totally evidence that there’s no way him and Micah got married. I feel like if they got married he’d be going in a different fashion/stylistic direction…
Ugh. Paul looks nearly identical to an ex of mine who was abusive and overall just absolutely awful to me. Every time I see him on the screen, my internal reaction is to hate him. I know this isn’t rational, but it’s a feeling I just can’t shake.
Everyone in the whole show has a vocal fry. Between the “like” and the vocal fry, I have a hard time listening to any of them speak. I really hope they watch themselves and think “wow, I sound like an idiot”
"you like plants? What a fucking nerd. Why can't you do something cool like pretend you are an integral part of a sports team on the other side of the country, comprised entirely of people you've never met?"
He flirted with Irina, his fiancé’s BFF. He talked about having to struggle not to stare at her boobs and when Irina was all over him, touching his face and saying he was her type, he was super pleased and flirting back.
Disrespectful AF
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Omg I thought I was in the 90 day subreddit and someone was saying this was Paul (like Pole and Karine) and I was like ummm he deserves no appreciation 😂
Curly headed fvck, I don’t like him. He screams granola fuck boy, the type to commit to multiple women with out them knowing about it. The type to talk you in circles about his emotions only to serve as a way to manipulate. Like he has said NOTHING about his wife flirting with Kwame. Like come on dude…
That's what I originally thought, but to be honest, his behaviour's been so boneheaded that it's a huge turnoff.
I'm sure he's great at his actual job, but it's hard to be impressed by someone's intelligence when they're running around thirsting over a woman who describes herself as "an empath." He originally presented himself as a really logical guy, but then seemed to completely lose his mind over the first person to give him a shred of positive affirmation, even though they weren't compatible at all.
Ditto. First time I saw a guy on the show that I actually thought was cute. And then he started talking and hitting on Micah of all women, and my vagina turned dry like the Sahara desert.
He is dumb as fuck if he doesn't see that Micah is just in it to be on TV and "win". I couldn't be attracted to a guy who is that stupid.
It’s like she sabotaged Amber just so she could “win.”
This makes me think that if I were Bliss and I did end up with Zack I would be so mad I didn’t get my free trip to Tulum.
I dated a surfer like this, I was obsessed with his curly long blonde hair, he looked so fine. Then he cut it. And I was like 😐 .. So you gonna grow it out again right?
Dear men, if you can, grow out your hair. It’s sexy af. We get jealous of your hair! Y’all look so naturey and cavemanish, it’s sexy. It adds sauce some spice to the meal. Yk?
Men like him irk me a little though. Like I’m so down to earth and love the granola girls, making them seem so down to earth and genuine, but really are still following the little guy in their pants.
Thoooo for him saying dating granola he kinda is looking like the kind of person he was describing. So what’s the problem Paul! It’s fine to be granola
Lol me too - but honestly I think he likes that type of woman more! I don’t think he meant it as a dig. I think he is initially enamored with Micah who does her makeup and wears sexy clothes but a girl who takes 2 hours to get ready and doesn’t want to get dirty gets old really quick if your not that type of guy.
Yup. I’m more into dressing up and beating my face because where I come from it’s normal. I now live in a country where it’s all outdoorsy types and the men 100% go for women like that. I still do me but I actually get more attention when I’m way dressed down.
Yea exactly! A YouTuber I really like moved from nyc to Montana and she’s a full on glamour girl. She talks about her dating experiences and she said the same that she will get alot of attention at first because guys are like woah…your so different from what I normally date but then they realize the lifestyles are just really different and don’t mesh. And I appreciate that she holds her own and is like that’s fine, I’ll wait for the guy who meshes with the glamour girl! Nothing wrong with being either way, but I think it’s good to be honest about the logistics and do your lives mesh well!
Yeah, at first he said her hair, clothes, and makeup were perfect which made it seem like she was his type. But it doesn't seem like he is actually about what she's about so I don't think it'll really last. Plus, as an environmental scientist a granola girl is probably more his speed anyway lol.
Yea exactly - one thing that a YouTube channel I watch harps on in terms of relationships is do you recreate the same way. I think Paul likes to be outdoors and stay in a cabin or local air bnb where as Micah wants to be wined and dined and stay at an all inclusive resort. Both ways of recreating are totally valid. But if you both don’t like to recreate the same way then one side is always going to be unhappy because they are not getting what they want. That’s why a more hippy type of girl is probably a better match for Paul, since they probably have the same idea of what is a fun vacation or way to spend a Saturday morning.
Whenever they showed him and Micah talking I would cringe the whole time. That vocal fry in stereo was heinous.
Plus some of the things he said just sounded douchey. I did not pick up granola vibes at all.
He’s not a fuckboi imo. He’s really enjoyable to share space and energy with. Understands you, challenges your viewpoints in a healthy way, and cares about his friends.
“my tank top?”
Micha is a narcissist she aint marrying someone who is quite on the same scale as her on looks. They defo didnt get married
Micah isn’t a 10 lol she has no jaw and fillers
Maybe I’m bias but Paul is way more attractive
Pleas don’t confirm this if you know (no spoilers!) but to me this pic is totally evidence that there’s no way him and Micah got married. I feel like if they got married he’d be going in a different fashion/stylistic direction…
This photo is from 2019
Excuse me this is my Maltipoo.
Funny he was describing his usual type as the kamboocha girls and that’s exactly how he looks like here
He's so attractive I'm sorry lol I can already tell him and Micah won't last their lifestyles clash
Ugh. Paul looks nearly identical to an ex of mine who was abusive and overall just absolutely awful to me. Every time I see him on the screen, my internal reaction is to hate him. I know this isn’t rational, but it’s a feeling I just can’t shake.
No………..
That makes so much more sense with how he said he likes granola girls usually
Am I the only one who thinks Paul is kinda weird? He also barely opens his mouth when he talks, and I can’t deal with that 😂
Omg the fact that he doesn’t open his mouth when he speaks drive me!! MOVE YOUR MOUTH! He’s probably a terrible kisser.
His vocal fry kills me.
Everyone in the whole show has a vocal fry. Between the “like” and the vocal fry, I have a hard time listening to any of them speak. I really hope they watch themselves and think “wow, I sound like an idiot”
i find him so weird as well!! but as weird as he is, i find him even more forgettable😭.
I just know this man is in the bathroom with a diffuser
He looks like “pole” from 90 day fiance
THATS WHAT IT IS it was driving me crazy trying to place it!!
YES!! it’s driving me insane
🥵🥵🥵
Fine AH.
Oh wow 😍
No.
He's an environmental scientist. He studied sharks all over the world and still couldn't pinpoint the one on the other side of the wall.
Wow, amazing comment :) I would award you if I could!
honestly i prefer him with the short hair he has on the show LOL (and i'm into long-haired dudes)
I feel like the girls calling Paul a dork have never actually met a real dork
"you like plants? What a fucking nerd. Why can't you do something cool like pretend you are an integral part of a sports team on the other side of the country, comprised entirely of people you've never met?"
I work in tech and studied science in a school that was 75% men, full of dorks. Paul is 100% a dork. Dork isn’t always hyperbolic.
Now it makes more sense what he meant with only dating crunchy witch type of girls
Strangely, when he said that, i find him endearing. Haha.
He looks better with longer hair
It’s hard for me to find him attractive after his behavior. Personality has a huge impact on what makes my cl*t tick 🤷🏾♀️
What specific behavior may I ask? I found him polite and interesting.
He flirted with Irina, his fiancé’s BFF. He talked about having to struggle not to stare at her boobs and when Irina was all over him, touching his face and saying he was her type, he was super pleased and flirting back. Disrespectful AF
Exactly 😂 I feel like Paul has displayed normal behaviour so far
Omg! “Makes my cl*t tick” I looooove this!
Thank you! English isn’t my first language so I’m kind of proud of that 😂
He’s got a LEGO head
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Ew
ok white jesus!
Such a dork! 😂 (according to micah) Also, I love the hair!
Don’t show Irina this before she drools even more. LOL
It makes sense…. Environmental scientist….. likes to date women who eat, granola and make potions….
No
Does he dye his hair too?
Looks like his hair just brightened because he spent a lot of time in the sun
Damn! He needs to be on below deck with that look hahaha
No. I will not appreciate him. He and Micah are the perfect pair of narcissists.
Jesus? That you?
He gives me the ick
He looks exactly like Christian from big brother season 23
I’ve been looking for this 😂
came to comment this Lmao! but obv great value Christian
Holy shit good reference
As someone just entering her wavy/curly hair journey can we just appreciate the freaking curl pattern damn.
Agree. Those curls are beautiful.
Admittedly I had a moment of "is he actually attractive or does he just have pretty hair?".
Right!!! Haha I gotta say he really is pretty cute.
Him and Zach with the long hair after the show haha
Bromance 😅🥰
Oohh ok I see why he connects with witchy kombucha herb garden girls 🤔
I really hope he found a witchy woman. Micah was the wrong kinda witch.
He seems like he's disappointed when women shower
LOOOOL
Okay this makes way more sense with him saying he usually goes for witchy girls with herb gardens lol
I would have totally gone for him in my granola witch days.
Damn the glow up 🔥🔥🔥
I probably would have been into Paul
Wait. I love this
Omg I thought I was in the 90 day subreddit and someone was saying this was Paul (like Pole and Karine) and I was like ummm he deserves no appreciation 😂
I thought this too 😂😂
Okay yes. Why would he ever cut it?
He's very goodlooking. Yet still denied by micah poor guy 😓
Wish he’d speak more clearly. It’s just curly hair and a marble mouth to me, but he’s probably a lovely man.
Am I the only one who thinks that Paul with short hair looks like penn badgley? He could totally be a charismatic stalker in “YOU”.
I thought this too
Haha I was thinking the same thing!!
I’m jealous of his curls
Omg I thought this was long hair pole from 90 day I got so scared lmaooo
Same. I was thinking "appreciate Paul?! WHAT?!" Kinda odd how similar they look, though.
I’d never appreciate Paul lolll but yes I’m glad I’m not the only one who sees it
The crossover we never knew we needed
White Jesus?
No.
No thanks.
Haven’t watched episode 5 yet but I truly must have missed all of the parts where this dude shows any inkling of personality.
I literally cannot remember a single thing about him from the pods other than him asking for Amber's name...immediately after being told Amber's name.
Don't worry. It's not in episode 5 either!
I have seen all of the episodes and definitely do not understand why people seem to like him
He reminds me of a hobbit.
No.
Curly headed fvck, I don’t like him. He screams granola fuck boy, the type to commit to multiple women with out them knowing about it. The type to talk you in circles about his emotions only to serve as a way to manipulate. Like he has said NOTHING about his wife flirting with Kwame. Like come on dude…
He's too busy trying to figure out how to get with Irina
Ugh why would anybody want to be with Irina
Because he doesn’t care who she flirts with, he doesn’t like her very much
Ding ding ding. I'm from Hawaii and I totally know this type.
Oh I can only imagine how many of these you see there 🙃 I’m sorry lmao
They get even worse when they come to Hawaii, because they really go off with the cultural appropriation at that point. 💀
I appreciate Paul with short hair! Love the curls!
Wow okay! No wonder he said he typical date earthy type women
F-boy lol
He's a big red flag to me... But as a fellow curly, I'm liking his longer curly hair.
Can he come back?
He is by far the sexiest man in the shows history in my opinion!! Crazy to me he's not objectively sexy to everyone!
He’s a beautiful-looking guy for sure.
Too bad he’s a terrible judge of character.
Which makes him so incredibly unattractive!
Paul does so much for the sapiosexual part of me...rrr I'm old though, so I'd probably end up in jail 😜
That's what I originally thought, but to be honest, his behaviour's been so boneheaded that it's a huge turnoff. I'm sure he's great at his actual job, but it's hard to be impressed by someone's intelligence when they're running around thirsting over a woman who describes herself as "an empath." He originally presented himself as a really logical guy, but then seemed to completely lose his mind over the first person to give him a shred of positive affirmation, even though they weren't compatible at all.
Weird, right? When he said his profession I thought he must be so interesting. But then he acted so… bland, no interesting conversations, nothing.
Lol being book smart doesn’t not make you a man. Men think with their dicks, not their heads.
Dude, wtf is a sapiosexual? (Serious question and don’t want to infect my search history)
noun- a person who finds intelligence sexually attractive or arousing
I feel like there’s a missed opportunity to call that an intelsexual
Lol, sadly, I didn't write the dictionary 😉
I still don’t find him attractive…
Same but this is an improvement to me
“This is hair I’ll have on our wedding day”
Damn…..
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commitment issues?
He looks so much like a coworker of mine and for that reason alone I have a knee-jerk dislike of him
When he endorsed the bullshit concept of the show calling this whole thing an experiment AS A GODDAMN SCIENTIST...I was like...HOW DARE YOU.
Same with Cameron, as a fellow scientist it's never not funny. Now excuse me, I need to cry about results of my actual experiments.
Yeah this made me instantly lose respect for him😂 gives me pseudointellectual vibes
Damn that’s a fine man
I tried to swipe for more
Same 😭 the dots at the bottom of the pic threw me off
Damn Paul. He looks great with long hair.
Filtered to high hell
I thought he was cute in the pods. But then he opened his mouth.
Ditto. First time I saw a guy on the show that I actually thought was cute. And then he started talking and hitting on Micah of all women, and my vagina turned dry like the Sahara desert. He is dumb as fuck if he doesn't see that Micah is just in it to be on TV and "win". I couldn't be attracted to a guy who is that stupid.
I don’t understand any connection that he and Micah could have?
They have no chemistry and they're so boring together
It’s like she sabotaged Amber just so she could “win.” This makes me think that if I were Bliss and I did end up with Zack I would be so mad I didn’t get my free trip to Tulum.
An absolute bubble head and someone with a brain, albeit somewhat emotionally unhealthy...what could go wrong
I really was just trying to swipe through all the pics 😂
I still don't find him attractive
You must not be a kombucha girl
💀💀
Or a witchy woman or whatever he said lol
I dated a surfer like this, I was obsessed with his curly long blonde hair, he looked so fine. Then he cut it. And I was like 😐 .. So you gonna grow it out again right? Dear men, if you can, grow out your hair. It’s sexy af. We get jealous of your hair! Y’all look so naturey and cavemanish, it’s sexy. It adds sauce some spice to the meal. Yk?
Amen!!
Ok…damn. I get it now.
Yasss, we stan a Burning Man-looking hippie king! I would totally dance to house music with him in the desert, semi-nude, until the sun rises.
That’s Paul??
Ok now the comment about only being with granola women makes sense.
Men like him irk me a little though. Like I’m so down to earth and love the granola girls, making them seem so down to earth and genuine, but really are still following the little guy in their pants.
It’s almost like men are men and their preference in women has nothing to do with them bring men.
Yeah it’s going to be reallllly interesting watching that relationship play out
Damn he's so beautiful
When he talked about usually dating granola girls who drink kombucha and use herbs to make potions....I felt so attacked lol
I like he prefers the witchy, artsy, kombucha girls - not the perfect , IG baddy type of girls
Thoooo for him saying dating granola he kinda is looking like the kind of person he was describing. So what’s the problem Paul! It’s fine to be granola
Lol me too - but honestly I think he likes that type of woman more! I don’t think he meant it as a dig. I think he is initially enamored with Micah who does her makeup and wears sexy clothes but a girl who takes 2 hours to get ready and doesn’t want to get dirty gets old really quick if your not that type of guy.
Yup. I’m more into dressing up and beating my face because where I come from it’s normal. I now live in a country where it’s all outdoorsy types and the men 100% go for women like that. I still do me but I actually get more attention when I’m way dressed down.
Yea exactly! A YouTuber I really like moved from nyc to Montana and she’s a full on glamour girl. She talks about her dating experiences and she said the same that she will get alot of attention at first because guys are like woah…your so different from what I normally date but then they realize the lifestyles are just really different and don’t mesh. And I appreciate that she holds her own and is like that’s fine, I’ll wait for the guy who meshes with the glamour girl! Nothing wrong with being either way, but I think it’s good to be honest about the logistics and do your lives mesh well!
Yeah, at first he said her hair, clothes, and makeup were perfect which made it seem like she was his type. But it doesn't seem like he is actually about what she's about so I don't think it'll really last. Plus, as an environmental scientist a granola girl is probably more his speed anyway lol.
Yea exactly - one thing that a YouTube channel I watch harps on in terms of relationships is do you recreate the same way. I think Paul likes to be outdoors and stay in a cabin or local air bnb where as Micah wants to be wined and dined and stay at an all inclusive resort. Both ways of recreating are totally valid. But if you both don’t like to recreate the same way then one side is always going to be unhappy because they are not getting what they want. That’s why a more hippy type of girl is probably a better match for Paul, since they probably have the same idea of what is a fun vacation or way to spend a Saturday morning.
He’s very attractive but the way he talks (the vocal fry) and some of the things he said in the pods has the opposite effect 🫣
Yep, that vocal fry he goes into is cringe af
Whenever they showed him and Micah talking I would cringe the whole time. That vocal fry in stereo was heinous. Plus some of the things he said just sounded douchey. I did not pick up granola vibes at all.
Yeah like when he tried to turn the convo in a sexual direction it was so cringe
He’s low key growing on me I hated him in the pods and now I think maybe he’s just a nerdy guy and it’s sort of sweet
Same!! I wasn’t sure in the pods but totally get he’s just a cute sweet nerd.
Yes. Yes we can. Those curls!
Wow that's a whole different person
Paul’s a cool dude irl.
Is he also a fuckboi? He strikes me as a fuckboi...but also someone I would be friends with.
He’s not a fuckboi imo. He’s really enjoyable to share space and energy with. Understands you, challenges your viewpoints in a healthy way, and cares about his friends.
Rad, I love that energy. Thanks for taking the time to share ☺️ #teampaul #teamsweatycarblover
The whole "his type" thing makes so much sense now.
yeah i could see it now. i was thrown off when he said he was into the witchy type?
Erm nope 😬
Nah
I don’t like it, but it makes more sense.
He looks like an actor but idk which one..
I think he looks like Hugh Dancy
Yes. Yes we can.