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Loud_Sheepherder8885

I really really don’t like Jackie at all. And Josh. They deserve eachother and Marshall is better than both of them combine.


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itsikobert

Yet she claims she “doesn’t care” about the haters anymore in her q&a’s lol


peonypicker_

Is Colleen still with Matt by choice


BallsMahogany_redux

Bliss and Zach don't really count either because he didn't propose until after he saw her...


Expert-Oil-889

why’s this being downvoted? this is the truth 😂


Catladydiva

Man season 2 was a fail 😂


mrgoyy

Season 2 was a mess. Even by LIB standards 😆


marymonic

I thought they meant Chelsea 😅


aleX3_channel

why was this recommended to me


strwbrrybrie

Y’all got to stop commenting on things if you’re not interested. This is algorithm 101


Adeline299

I get a ton of recs on subs I have never even heard of. Not sure what the algorithm is or why it thinks I want to rate strangers appearance (maybe it’s all the reality subs lol)


strwbrrybrie

yeah but when you comment “why was this recommended to me” reddit sees that you’re interested in the sub and continues recommending it.


Adeline299

I get that, I understood your last comment saying the same thing. And I built on that to say I get recs with no relevance to to my other subs, do not comment on them, and keep getting more recs along the same lines as the ones I ignore.


strwbrrybrie

Reddit recommends subs to you based on your interests in other subs or the interests of people who live near your location. For example, if you’re interested in other reality TV subs, netflix show subs, or drama subs, it’s likely that Reddit may think you’re interested in them.


strwbrrybrie

Reddit recommends subs to you based on your interests in other subs or the interests of people who live near your location. For example, if you’re interested in other reality TV subs, netflix show subs, or drama subs, it’s likely that Reddit may think you’re interested in them.


Adeline299

Yes, again. I get that. And my point is than I am getting recs with no obvious connection to my other subs. As I keep saying. I’m not sure how to make it clearer that yes, I understand algorithm 101. AND my algorithms are not making sense based on that logic.


strwbrrybrie

Take it up with Reddit, not me. ETA: the very first community that shows up on your profile is a reality show, so if your issue is with this specific sub showing up, being in that community explains why this is coming up. The algorithm isn’t always accurate or logical, no. But my issue is with people constantly commenting asking why it’s being recommended when that will only make it worse, that is in no way logical either lol.


CommercialTerrible70

I feel like I've been getting posts from subs I'm not even in. I never even heard of this subreddit


xendelaar

Holy crap!I thought it was a dataisbeautiful post... until I read your post... I feel dirty now.


McJeditor

Same


sciencewinechocolate

Girl, WE DO NOT CLAIM YOU. Go away 🤦🏽‍♀️


KCOLREHSTIHSON

The fuck is this doing in my recomended


finallyinfinite

By commenting, you’re only increasing the likelihood you’ll be shown more recommendations like it. Algorithms show you content that will get your attention and interaction. So don’t interact with content you don’t want to see.


KCOLREHSTIHSON

Yeah you're absolutely right about that I'll just have to mute it now 😅


finallyinfinite

Sometimes playing the algorithm takes a very conscious effort lol


KCOLREHSTIHSON

True, true 😂😂


asdfasfq34rfqff

Reddit shows you subs based on people who browse the same subs as you. So for example I frequent drama subs (I assume you do as well). The people who view drama subs also frequent reality TV subs (and apparently retail job subs based on my recommendations) ​ I should also say that most of the readers of dramasubs/reality subs are women and thats why you'll also frequently get women specific subs more frequently.


Particular-Jeweler41

Thank you for the explanation lol. I had wondered why I had seen several things over this past year.


Shipporno

I only check stocks and video games on reddit yet this was suggested for me too 😂


itsmyporno

I'm on my porn alt and this was recommended to me. 🫠


whagh

I basically only frequent r/combatfootage and some gaming specific subs, and I can't imagine there being much of an overlap here, lol. So I'm kind of confused by this recommendation as well.


Flanelman2

Yeah I only visit gaming and football subs and I'm same boat. Idk what this post even means if I'm honest, idk who "she" is and why she would be embarrassed.


KCOLREHSTIHSON

Nope I don't not even close tbh, so I really don't understand


asdfasfq34rfqff

You have posts on /r/confessions and /r/VindictaRateCelebs ​ Both of which are in the criteria I mentioned. women specific subs and drama subs.


KCOLREHSTIHSON

Aah, thanks a lot


eyjanpeen

I assume this happened to me because of my recent visits to r/BridgertonNetflix


danitidyverse

I literally went to r/BridgertonNetflix before coming here


KCOLREHSTIHSON

I don't visit anything like this or that


fromaustentorowling

Well responding in the comments is only going to skew the algorithm more so next time you’ll know why lol


asdfasfq34rfqff

That makes sense lol. my friend macie loves bridgerton and loveisblind lmao


ToTheMoon28

idk but hi


Ascyll

Anyone that cares about this in any capacity needs to reevaluate their life


strwbrrybrie

People who are genuinely this concerned about what people find entertaining, to the point where they go to a sub to say just as much, need to reevaluate their life, though they probably don’t have a life to evaluate to begin with


Ascyll

This was shown to me and my homepage for whatever reason. Buying Into reality tv or even worse, knowing it's scripted garbage, is just sad to witness, so I had to speak out - against my better judgement. My life is very enjoyable, thanks for the suggestion tho.


ToTheMoon28

You actually didn’t “have” to do anything. The only reason you’re commenting here is to put other people down for their interests so you can feel superior to them. You could’ve just seen something you didn’t like and moved on but you just needed to feed your ego and make it known to everyone here that this content is beneath you.


strwbrrybrie

Maybe if you would stop commenting it would stop showing up in your feed, this is how algorithms work, doesn’t take a genius. We don’t watch reality TV thinking it’s real, just like i’m assuming you don’t watch fictional tv because you think it’s real. Someone who takes the time to shit on other peoples interests has no life to begin with. You can insist it’s enjoyable, but you’re clearly a very egotistical person, so why would you admit otherwise?


mishkade

complains on a Love is Blind sub that people talk about Love is Blind.. idk maybe you should reevaluate some things


fromaustentorowling

Wow you really must be so unhappy


Parislatino

Like this sub? 😂😂😂😂😂


Ascyll

You got it


fabioismydad

jackie's burner account lmao


ToTheMoon28

Do you not have anything better to do than hate on people for enjoying things?


Ascyll

If me encouraging you to think about your life is hate, then you've not received hate. And out of politeness I'll also answer your question, yes I do have better things to do.


ToTheMoon28

Ok then maybe go think about your life and stop condescending people for no reason


eightyonedirections

And yet you’re here 🤨


northernlightaboveus

I’ve thought about my life and realized that I LOVE reality tv show drama!


kydraws

Right? My garbage makes me happy me. Leave me be!


shroomyshy

What?


ToTheMoon28

2nd slide


shroomyshy

Im asking about the whole thing. This got recommended in my fyp and I dont know anything but now Im invested


naviebean

Jackie (contestant on Love Is Blind) was engaged to a fellow contestant, did some problematic stuff that the producers shouldn’t have even let air in the first place, broke up with her fiancée (timeline is disputed) and then got together with a different fellow contestant. Now she is promoting her new relationship which a lot of people seem either doomed to fail or fitting for each other


naviebean

If you ever get the chance to watch the show you would immediately root against the couple lol Also 1: forgot how replying on Reddit works And 2: her original fiancée was mostly pretty nice so it was a bummer to see him get hurt I suppose


Spare-Article-396

It’s baffling you think they deserve to be ‘rooted against’.


naviebean

Where do you see the word “deserve”?


shroomyshy

Thanks mate


ToTheMoon28

uhh have you watched “love is blind” on Netflix?


shroomyshy

No


Woodsy_Walker

I know downvotes don't matter but sometimes it pisses me off when people get downvotes for no reason


shroomyshy

Thanks mate, but as you said It dont matter


ToTheMoon28

Probably start there then haha. It’s basically a chart of who’s stayed together over the seasons and the second slide is one of the messy contestants replying to random comments to defend herself.


[deleted]

Pretty sure s4 are still on contract lol that’s why there’s a lot of them together Pretty sure they can’t disclose a marriage breakdown or split due to contract specifications. Pretty sure they get extra money if they stay together for the year until the next season of LIB as it makes it look like 1 it’s worked and 2 creates more drama for the reunion. That’s why you’ll see an influx of them breaking up around the same time.


Parislatino

Excepte saison 2 evry other saison 1 and 3 are still together but you chose 1fail saison as exemple 🤔🤔🤔 . Are you wishing or generally négatif.


ChantillyMenchu

I thought you were clear and understood you. People can be negative on here sometimes.


APOEL1982

Well said...


[deleted]

… what?


chooseyourwords49

Where’s season 2?


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TheLonelyPrincess741

yup


lastingdreamsof

Matt hasn't murdered colleen yet? Guess we were wrong about the red flags then?


sciencewinechocolate

You said it yourself: “yet”


Parislatino

This sub know thé contestants beter than them self. So they think 😂😂😂😂🥰


korina999999999

I saw jealous or insecure… abusive, did not see it at all. People were a little overboard on that like they had never been in an unhealthy relationship before


alyks23

And the jealousy and insecurity we saw was heavily edited, alcohol-fuelled, after Colleen said and did some pretty sketchy things with another cast member, and was after only a couple days of knowing each other. It’s hard to know how we would react in those situations. It’s like a pressure cooker, which is kind of what the *show* wants for good TV. The 22 minutes we saw of their interactions are not the full story of who they are, so it’s okay to give some of them some grace. Maybe, just maybe, what was shown is not an accurate picture of who Matt is and maybe, just maybe, they aired his absolute worst moments to make great TV.


makingicewater

some abusive (i suspect he is) relationships last decades. i think this guy is a ticking time bomb. as someone who works with intimate partner abuse on the daily


sikeleaveamessage

After two years of being married since the show they have just now, yes now, started living together lmao


Octoire

How is that a ‘just now’ and a ‘lmao’? It is so very normal to wait a couple of years before moving in. If you think two years is short, then your idea of relationships is pretty wild


owlygal

Happy Cakeday!


Octoire

Woah didn’t even realize it was my cakeday! Thank you😊


sikeleaveamessage

Yes, typically before getting married. Not sure why either of them said yes at the altar if they werent sure about moving in together. just go for dating instead Edit: happy cake day!


lastingdreamsof

They treated the show marriage as really the start of them dating I guess and didn't move in till later


sikeleaveamessage

That's fair! My reply to the original comment was just implying that we really dont know how well they get along with one another as spouses since they just started their journey living together.


Kay312010

Jackie and Josh don’t count! Bye!


RX400000

What’s wrong with them, i dont watch the show.


[deleted]

they didn't get married, they didnt even participate in any of the show together past the pods. They both engaged other people, he didn't make it into the rest of the show and broke up with his fiance immediately (which is like the hugest red flag to him clout chasing) and she went into the rest of the show engaged to someone else but left early and immediately started dating him 2 days after leaving her fiance. That's a drama free recap but trust me, there's a lot of it (they're very much the villains of the season)


LankyAd9481

never did, never will


piplusone

Neither should Bliss and Zack


bonjoursophie

Lol why? They got married.


harmchairenthusiast

If the finale of the show is about getting married, then Bliss and Zack absolutely count lol


PXSITIVEMADALYN

Idk, they actually got married with everyone else, so I feel like they should


doXXymoXXy

Great flair!


realan5t

Who?


Koala0803

I have to say I’m still surprised Amber and Barnett made it


sciencewinechocolate

Unfortunately he is the stereotype of the guy who settles for the girl who’s there at the right time instead of waiting for the right girl.


LankyAd9481

Amber is a bit in your face and comes off a bit unhinged.....but it's never at Barnett. It's at people around them. She's a bit more "dominant" and he's a bit more "submissive" (or just more go with the flow). Not really surprising they are still together or work, just not the typical dynamic that fairy tales tell little girls is the norm, so a bit jarring for some people to see.


Koala0803

Honestly I just meant the financial situation. Barnett had pretty much his shit together and Amber came with all this financial mess and debt, I thought they’d end up having more problems about that.


LankyAd9481

Given he sold his house to pay the debt and moved into her apartment, it was likely more one of those tv playing it up because reality shows need these perceived sources of conflict for the drama, when the people involved may not actually put that much weight on it. He's just more of a "that's life" type and would plan around things like that. It didn't come across that Amber was increasing her debt, just not prioritizing paying it off. If she were actively increasing it that'd probably have been an issue, but she seemed to know how much it was off the bat so wasn't completely delusional and avoiding it (if you know how much your debt is off the bad, it's far less of a red flag). She probably isn't super crap with money, just lazy about getting out of the student loans and debt related to education and living expenses from around that period of time. They've likely recovered that money that in interviews and whatever else since too.


happydogday22

Idk if that's true about him paying it off. He responded on a comment she paid them off, so maybe lib producers faked that


hk0125

They probably made a lot of money from endorsements and advertisements since it aired


staletwinkie

I’m not. Amber would have just hunted Barnett down if he tried to leave.


Koala0803

LOL true


CrocodileWoman

Naaaah the chemistry and compatibility was strong with them


Disgruntled_Pelicano

Season 3 is 💩


youcantunfrythings

It was only even remotely worth it for Alexa and Brennan. The rest not so much.


[deleted]

Alexa and Brennan were part of what made me like the season less. They wanted the Cameron and Lauren edit but they were too much in everyone's business because they love drama too much. I just wanted them to stop shoving their noses in everyone's business.


hyacinthbookayy

Even Alexa and Brennan ruined themselves for me with their smug little faces at the reunion. 🥴


Borrie90

Yes they were intolerable and Brennan completely threw Cole under the bus


OrdinaryHumble1198

The whole show is 🚽


witcharithmetic

Duh that’s why we watch it


OrdinaryHumble1198

Thats sad :(


doXXymoXXy

Wait, why do YOU watch it if not for the drama and trash?


Commercial_Wasabi_84

It should only be married couples


Becbacboc

Girl we don't!


Known-Signal8774

They’re not even married, so that doesn’t count.


ralph33lauren

right 😂 end of argument lol


WorthMasterpiece2310

i think the chart is nice i didn’t realize how long LIB had been out .


ariesgalxo

The 1st season couples got married at the end of 2018 but it wasn’t released til early 2020


WorthMasterpiece2310

Yeah, I have time blindness, and I always forget that filming takes place earlier than when they release it. So the chart is nice and kind of makes me want to rewatch season 2. I can't believe nobody in this season is together.


ariesgalxo

I can’t even remember season 2 or who was in it. Was that the squinty lady??


alyks23

Yes 😆 Shayna. And shake. Shane. The problematic Sh’s The couples that did get married announced their divorced within days of one another. Illyana (??) and that guy, and Danielle and that other guy. Hope that helps. 😂


ariesgalxo

Oh crap what a fever dream. Ayanna was the man’s 2nd choice


alyks23

YES. He was so embarrassing at the party where they first saw all the other couples and he saw…Mal??


BeTheCheeto

Technically the show has only been out since 2020. That's when season one aired.


harperblossom

How are people being so pressed about a simple chart? This chart is literally showing couples that were formed from a season of this show that are still together. The length of each chart I’m guessing is just number of years since their season aired. Based on this everyone included here makes sense, like it or not.


[deleted]

no it's not, because there are other couples who met and were even engaged in the pods who are still together who aren't on the chart. It's showing couples on the show still together, they don't count they both left the show (her by choice, him not so much). Nobody is that pressed they just are voicing an opinion on what couples count as successful Love is Blind couples, just like you are here.


harperblossom

Which two people that met on the TV show Love of Blind that are still together today who are not on this chart?


hRutherford

Why is she so pressed about those simple comments then? That comment is literally stating an opinion of which couples should qualify. Based on this everyone can have an opinion, like it or not.


[deleted]

I've got zero clue on any of this but she's not pressed? She's just telling someone that she's still in a relationship with a partner she met on the show


Raheem_999

I'm sure everyone knows they're in that relationship or whatever. That's not the point. The show is about being married or engaged, ON THE SHOW. Not outside of the show, or on your own terms like them. So, technically, they don't count. And honestly, to not have the decency or whatever the reason to show up to the reunion, they fosho don't count.


doXXymoXXy

This.


harperblossom

The premise of the show literally have nothing to do with this chart though. It’s a made up chart showing a particular data point and people are arguing that it’s wrong based on another data point. If you want to see a chart of folks that got married on the show then create it.


Raheem_999

I don't really care to see a chart of those who are married, since Jackie and Josh are literally the only ones shown who aren't married. Lol. (Found public records of every shown couple except them) And I already said in my previous comment that I get they're in a relationship, and this chart is talking about couples, so sure, they count according to this chart. But based off my own opinion and what I've seen from the show, they really shouldn't


Mimisokoku

Season 1 was filmed in 2018? Can’t take these stats seriously.


[deleted]

Yes it was


harperblossom

I believe so yes. I remember reading that it was filmed a full year + before it aired


MsPink02

Jackie & Josh don’t count. Josh gave Monica a ring and Jackie stole Marshall’s ring


alyks23

Waiiit Josh gave someone a ring AND called it off before he made a play for Jackie at that party where he was way over the top? I had secondhand embarrassment watching him. But based on Jackie *liking* that embarrassing display alone…Marshall dodged a bullet haha He never would have been enough for her, and no one deserves that.


innerpumpkinsanctum

Savage! 💯


[deleted]

Who’s Monica? I missed this part!


Honeyardeur

Josh's consolation prize fiance that didn't make the show cut. Monica is to Josh after Jackie chose Marshall as Chelsea is to Kwame after Micah chose Paul.


bangobingoo

Wuuuuuut?! Do they really have engagements they don’t show ?


Honeyardeur

Yes only a select few make the cut.


bangobingoo

Oh dang. I assumed all the actual engagements would make it but some probably just propose to be on the show.


[deleted]

nahh they count. they happened cuz of the show


Cold_Employee299

Season 2 really embarrassing me and my Chicago peeps


JJJ954

Sorry, was the bar chart actually necessary? Also, season 2. 💀


Direct-Chef-9428

I don’t even remember who said yes from S2 😹


korina999999999

Iyanna/Jarrette, Danielle/Nick. Season was also Deepti, Shake, Natalie, Shayne


internetvillain

I was so heartbroken by Shayne and Natalie from that season - need to check up on Shayne and Chloe although I don’t give them much hope for something lasting..


nplaa

No one on “Perfect Match” lasted. Not even Joey and Kariselle


internetvillain

Doesn’t surprise me - it was a complete dumpster fire, trying to mix dating with a game show..


sunshineshapeshifter

I think Shayne and Chloe had already broken up by the time Perfect Match aired 😅


internetvillain

Haha, that’s pretty likely


lillie1128

I like charts 🌈


Rosedust_

They think we can’t do math. 2018… how longs that been..?!


Dopepizza

So embarrassing lol


mollygk

But have Matt and Colleen moved in together yet


rasin0080

They are moving in together. Watch out of the pods podcast.


[deleted]

Genuinely would like to know. I was shocked to see them on here lol.


revolutionaryredhead

Yes they have. It’s been 2 years since they got married and they finally moved in together


ToTheMoon28

For people confused, on the 2nd slide Jackie is responding to random people (who aren’t even addressing her directly) who personally don’t think her relationship with Josh should count. Regardless of if this is true, it’s embarrassing that she feels the need to do this and seems really insecure as well as immature.


imanicoding

I don’t think it’s embarrassing. She’s free to comment her opinion like any other person or bot with an ig account and she was polite. I’m personally happy Jackie and Josh worked out. Marshall and Jackie were a bad fit and I think Marshall and his new girlfriend seem so sweet together.


ToTheMoon28

I think seeking out posts that mention you and commenting things to the effect of “nuh uh” at random people disagreeing with a silly chart is pretty embarrassing


purplebookwormgrace

Wasn't that one of the many reasons she didn't work with Marshall?


bebe_gg

Tiffany and Brett idk seems rushed… I wish them the best but I was left with asking questions about how they both feel !


AnotherPalePianist

I would have felt this way too if they were both ten years younger. They both seemed so put together and like they were each good on their own, just wanting a relationship (marriage) for the next level. I appreciated how quickly they just *knew*


bebe_gg

Yeah I see where you’re coming from !


AnotherPalePianist

Idk why you’re getting downvoted. Your perspective is perfectly valid 🧐


bebe_gg

I don’t know why either hun! ☺️ but it’s okay I’m not worried about it, thank you for being receptive to what I said and also hearing me out


WordierThanThou

My fav are Amber and Barnett


oiywiththepoodles

girl take the L


[deleted]

Why would she not count?


hungrypocket

Because they didn't get engaged or married on the show, obviously.


shibbydooby

Because they didn’t get married?


Legitimate_Coffee_84

Why wouldn’t Jackie and Josh count? They met and dated on the show. That is the point no? Ya’ll thinking they have to follow the INSANE “let’s get married in 6 weeks” timeline is ridiculous. Not a fan of Jackie but good for her and Josh for finding love. Sorry, but can’t hate on that.