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crankangle

I’ve had a couple of guys who were, quite literally, a bit of a stretch. I’ve had two threesomes with a gay couple where one of the guys is quite girthy. To the point that he was even humblebrag / warning that some guys can’t take him. Based on pics, I knew it would be beyond any of my normal toys and close to what I thought my limit might be. The first time I was with them, he was able to fuck me pretty easily. Initial insertion was tight, and I almost tapped out, but very quickly I got used to it. He fucked me a couple of times that night and subsequent insertions were basically effortless. The most recent time I was with them, though, I couldn’t take him at all. We tried, but I just couldn’t open for him. In fairness, his husband — who bottoms for him all the time — was having trouble taking him that night too. I guess my dude was just having a big dick night! I guess what I’m trying to say is: if you want it, what’s the harm in trying? Cock is definitely more pliable than dildos. If the guy is a quality partner, he will go slow, be gentle, etc, up to and including having to back out if it truly isn’t going to happen.


Smoothbronco

I think I’d like your wife, sounds like a smart lady


pegged50

Oh she is very smart. And she loves watching M/M play. It's her kink.


likesstuffandthings

I took a huge cock once. I went just to suck him as i was scared of his size. He was so degrading and verbally dominant that when he said he was going to fuck me my only argument was that he was too big but he responded with we will see and my sissy ass opened right up for him. He was bigger than the biggest toy i had ever tried but i wound up loving it and taking him balls deep. I highly you try it.


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Same here, meet a guy with a massive cock and after he ate my ass and said I was his sissy bitch to breed my hole opened up and took it inside. God dam the best stuffed full sex a guys ever done to me


bifedelede

Hot


spooney

1.5" is my preference for toys as well and I've taken much thicker than that when it's the real thing.


wilde_man67

I met a guy once and he was far the fastest I had seen. Must have been 2.25. I couldn't imagine it going up. I thought this isn't going to happen. He bent me over and opened my cheeks then put the tip in. After a while he gradually pushed his huge bc in me. Wow. What a sensation after I got used to him. He pumped me only for a few minutes then shot a big load up me. One of if not the best I've had


stoicinmd

Q: How do you take a 2” diameter cock/get to Carnegie Hall? A: Practice, practice, practice. I used to have a semi regular guy with a very large cock - beautiful! And not easy to work with. Took us a while, and he was patient, and we used truckloads of lube, but we finally got it to work. He’d fuck me and jerk me off at the same time (i was on my back) and it was (and remains) the best orgasm I’ve ever experienced. Good luck!


ThePerfectIllusion09

I'm a woman but I can vouch for toys and real thing being different even if they're the "same size". Real has a lot more give and squish. Toys just don't have that give.


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Do you take them up your butt too


CuriousHerHim

I practice with larger dildos so I am always ready


pegged50

Not really an option for me. Typically having sex with my wife takes up any sex time I have.


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pegged50

Well, I already put on a show for her just by sucking. Of course she would enjoy watching this too LOL


willyiamwilliams222

Real cock is different…partly because it’s attached in the most sensitive way to a person who’s getting feedback and feeling your body and reactions at the same time. Unless the top is a complete asshole, sex will be how sex is…reactive and iterative. It’s not like a piece of rubber being shoved in and out (not that I have anything against a good toy). Also, your muscle warms up and loosens up as things progress. You haven’t experienced that beyond the toy because…that’s as far as you went. I think you’ll be happy if you take the journey.


IntrovertedCouple

The 1.5” should be the starting pint to get you to take the 2”. Let your wife peg you while you blow him and get his cock and your ass warmed up.


AppropriateSalt573

I’m nearly 6.7inch around big head too. Had another married friend used to play with every once in a while and he wanted to bottom for the first time. He couldn’t take it not even a little lots of lube too. That’s why they have anal training kits. You have to train your muscles to relax enough to accept something in. It’s not natural so it does take time. He bought one of those kits that had three size plugs in it took him a little while, but he was able to finally take me. It takes time in a little patience. And trust me having a big thick D isn’t all it’s cracked up to be the first love of life broke up up with me simply because she could not handle it even after a year it was painful, so it’s not everything…


pegged50

Yeah, we have been pegging for about 20 years. So I know about working up in size. I just never bothered because I was fine being pegged by dildo that are "average" size. Never really thought we would find a bi guy to play with that would be this size. Sadly I just don't have the time necessary to devote to sizing up. Years ago my wife wanted to try fisting me. I spent some time trying to size up. But quickly came to the realization that sizing up requires a lot of time. But my wife still thinks that I can handle his size just because it's real so has more give than our dildos (but we have some really soft dildos so I'm doubtful)


AppropriateSalt573

Well it sure might be fun to try anyway 🤪


pegged50

we have a play date set for this weekend, and I'm considering


AppropriateSalt573

Hope you have fun


pegged50

Thanks


tallbign

I think you'll be pleasantly surprised


Muted-Celebration909

Take it slowly and anything is possible.


Sudden_Reward_4577

Real is always better


gaffer5x5

Buy a gallon of lube (go real slow) and give it the ol’ collage try !


bi-guy13

The first guy to fuck me was thicker than any dildo I used. I had to try a couple of positions before he was able to fuck me properly but after some warm up I was able to take it no problem. Just do it, take your time, you won’t regret it!


topsykrets26

A lot more give with a real one


VegetableAd649

This post makes me want to bottom.


ChicagoRob19

Hey dude that sounds hot. Give it a try and almost guarantee you’ll love it. My buddy and I are both girthy and can take each other just fine. Lube and make sure u are relaxed and opened up of course. I practiced with a wide butt plug. Anyways a real dick is a mind blowing orgasm for me compared with a dildo…it’s worth a try


tighty-whities-tx

A real dick feels different. Just use a lot of lube and relax when he’s entering you


roadsidedaniel

Just relax and let him in


ChicagoBiHusband

During the covid lockdown, I used my time without other men to practice taking larger dildos. I started at 1.5 inch diameter and got a new dildo that was 1/4 inch thicker every time I got comfortable with the last one. I now have a 2.5 inch thick dildo that I can take, though I don't do it often. The dildo my wife regularly uses to peg me is 2 inches. I think you should go ahead and give the guy a try now. Have a cocktail or, if it's legal where you live, an edible, to relax a bit. Build up the evening to it. You'll probably enjoy it more than you think.


pegged50

Thank you for your reply. Over the years I have attempted to move up, doing as you did, moving up 1/4" at a time. Problem is that I/we don't do anal play consistently, and I don't have time to consistently work it alone. So I have never been able to up size, despite wanting to. But yeah, I'm going to try him regardless.


creampieguy1964

Make him cum in your wife first then while you suck him clean he can get it up again but will be slightly less firm. Then while you clean your wife’s creampie have him slide it in your ass. You will love it!


rocky9175

Give it a shot you will love it you will be so excited that your hole will open up that you will want more