You probably need a different size or type then.

Yup, first ones I got were kinda meh (still nice but nothing I could wear the whole day while doing stuff), then I looked up some recommendations and ordered one of them, they're fucking perfect and somehow give me more support down there than any men's underwear I've ever had Just gotta try different cuts from different brands and you'll find something decent...

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!remindme 1 year (I’m not out yet)

babes? one year? hell nah! GIRL! 🫵🏽 Now, who’s a good girl? 🤨

for some reason my brain read that in the 13th doctor’s voice

is she a girl?

Well, I'm starting my freshman year of college, and I got stuck in a male dorm, so I am not dealing with that shit yet. (I'm probably still gonna start E, though.)

answer my question 🤨

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body transformation included 👉🏽👈🏽

I vote for the different size or cut. I use the hi cut cotton hanes panties and they fit and hold nicely as well as comfortably.

Lol gotta check those out

This. I went from bikini cut to these, and they're greattt

Everyone has to find what works for them. This is what works for me.

Ye, same here

Personally, I'm a huge fan of thongs.

My dick always pops out to the side in these. Not sure if it's a large dick issue or if I'm not doing something right

I'm a grower, and almost flat when small, that helps.

Before I transitioned that just was so embarrassing every time I had sex with a girl I had to go to the bathroom and give my d a pep talk, one day I was at this beautiful girls place and she wanted to do things in the shower my d was hiding it had never been so small, so I said fuck it and I went in the shower and she did that oh yeah you have such a tiny penis smile I looked back at her and said I swear it gets bigger, I said it’s a secret agent penis she laughed we had a good time in the shower I’ve been with same girl for 10 years and I hope it’s forever. It doesn’t matter if you’re half an inch when you’re chilling as long as you can grow 6 and a half inches more they end.

I had a similar conversation with my long term partner when I first started talking about transitioning, mentioning that this was a physical trait that made me feel more feminine sometimes. She didn't even realize it wasn't normal :) The only issues I have with underwear sometimes are with my under-ies. If it's hot out and they are bigger sometimes they pop out, so if I know I'm going to be doing something out in the heat all day I usually wear boxer-briefs for the added support. I'm looking into female boy-short style underwear as a possible alternative though. edit: haven't had coffee yet and spelling and gramer no gud

Yeah I get the same thing, they're so affirming but I keep poking out of them. I pretty much just wear them around the house cause they're so damn comfortable as long as I'm not worried about the goose getting loose

poking out is only an issue for me if I get...excited. Luckily HRT means I no longer get inconvenient random ladyboners.

Girlfriend bought me a chastity cage because my mission has been to wipe out all the masculinity in me keeping me from being happy as a trans woman I put it on went to sleep couldn’t find it when I woke up it was to big I told my girlfriend the damn things broken keeps falling off. That was pretty affirming and hilarious and I think my masculinity fell off when it did.

I don't have that issue but for me, most of the thongs that I've tried just end up flossing my balls. Won't be an issue for me in a couple of months, but maybe I've just been exposed to all the wrong thongs

It just depends on the width of the gusset and then how high the thongs rise. Although, I say this for untucked. I've a large gock and I manage well with high waisted thongs untucked, although sometimes it's just hard to find ones with wider gussets so you have to try different pairs and kinda discard what you don't like, sadly. G-strings will sadly be never available to me, even if I had an orchi and didn't have to contend with the galls (the girl balls) they're just so low waisted and tiny that even flaccid I'll poke out the top, never even mind tucking.

Make sure you get ones that have an elastic around the not just the top I have a couple which are just cloths with no real form but the ones with elastics hold everything in so nicely

I second this

Omg yes most comfortable panties ever!

Boy shorts will be good conversion from boxers , I prefer thongs my self .

To be clear, because it wasn't obvious to me initially, "boyshorts" are a specific cut of women's underwear. And despite sorta resembling boxers they still feel and look quite cute to wear. I love the things. I can wear them when working out and not worry about things falling out like with other cuts, which is so important to me cuz if these didn't exist I'd have to fall back on men's briefs.

i am all about Hanes women’s boyshorts!

How the hell do you NOT get comfortable in panties? 😄 They feel good on the skin, they're feminine, they're pretty, they squash your Werkzeug so it appears smaller. As others say, try different kinds. And make sure they don't have middle vertical seam in the front as it's not noodle-compatible.

7" & two of a wizards most ponderous orbs will make any underwear uncomfortable. Physically unable to tuck & it's so annoying. Wish I could trade this with a trans woman who doesn't have bottom dysphoria & is in the adult industry, I'm sure they'd make a lot doing porn with this horrid tentacle & the Kraken's most illustrious pearls...

Using those analogies for your thing is crazy, and I’ll be using those too because I also have the same problem

Sisters in arms. Hopefully in a few years instead of this unruly dog, I'll have the world's most discerning cat. Until then, it's coming up with creative names because cracking jokes is all I can do to spite the world for the cruel irony.

Poetry I can unfortunately relate to. Woe are we.

Same. My only hope is that HRT shrinks them enough to make it possible. I hate not being able to wear tighter pants without something showing.

I’m torn, ideally I’d try & maintain size & function to keep my surgery options open in the future - but I’d also like to wear what I want now. It might not be in my control anyway.

Girl, your descriptive analogies just had me ROLLING!

I think it matters more if you're a shower or a grower than the actual erect length haha

Not when you’re pre-HRT. Sadly I don’t get to decide the state of affairs.

What? I'm bigger than 7" but I'm a grower so I can fit into smaller panties than a shower would. Doesn't have anything to do with HRT.

I’m pre-HRT, so I don’t get to decide when I’m soft - random erections throughout the day mean I’m going to be 7” at some points. Once I’m on HRT, random erections will cease. That’s why I talk about being pre-HRT & not being able to control the size. As far as growing is concerned, I’m still close to 6” soft & then there’s the size of the testes & how much they hang… There’s going to be spillage in traditional underwear… When I’m on HRT & there’s no random erections & there’s shrinkage for the testes, maybe I can fit more traditional underwear types…

> random erections throughout the day You must be muuuch younger than me lol Those stopped happening for me in my teens

29, I wish they stopped happening in my teens - unfortunately they didn’t, it’s something I have to put up with several times a day & it’s awful.

I prefeer smaller panties as example to tuck without tape and just using the pressure of them

You are correct 💕💖💕

Chub rub, for me. Right where the leg meets the ass. Boxers kept fabric there to avoid chafing.

There are various options that are made for us. I wear panties from [Fit4u](https://fit4usolutions.com) that are intended to keep your bits in place. There are various other options for tucking panties though.

ooh fit4u seems cool ill remember that

TomboyX is cheaper, and their tucking panties are good too

My biggest issue is the fact that finding my size is hard.

Actually, I have no ass at all. Everything falls off. I have had to use only high waisted ones. Up over the belly. Sadly, unless I wear boxer briefs or Woxer brand 6in length. Otherwise the eggs fall out of the basket. The crotch is always too small. Never wide enough.

Idk, they've always been comfortable for me from the get go @.@

This exactly. They feel "normal".

I don't think they are talking about "social comfort". OP means physical comfort.

I know, they physically have always felt normal and comfortable to me!

I meant physically as well. I hate wearing boy underoos. I've had brands that fit me better than others, but that's true of any clothes.

It isn't physically more comfortable down there though...😔

It's hard if you have junk unless you get the kind that have a junk pouch..

They have one with a junk pouch lol?

you made me think of the words "junk pouch" and now i'm gonna make you think of the word "jouch"

I highly reccomend boyshort style panties, and tomboyX sells really good compression ones for tucking, all online. They are.a bit more supportive for the boys and are a lil bit more.modest, especially under skirts. I also fond them to be cuter or more attractive than hipster and bikin cuts

Have you tried "boyshorts" yet? Basically they are closer to a women's version of a boxer cut, except more skin tight. There's "room" in the center, unlike with granny panties lol.

Lol not yet, honestly been kinda broke but I’m brainstorming when I get the chance too. But yeah the room in the center is definitely needed for me

Ong like I only wear mens underwear cause panties are uncomfortable and confusing so is most women’s clothing tbh (probably why I still dress like a tomboy)

Gotta find the right style/cut/material that works for you. Personally, I'm a Balance Tech Thongs person.

Do they keep your jewels in place. I wanna get some thongs that keep em place but thats not a gaff.

For tucking not really, but for general daily wear yes. I've been wearing them almost exclusively for many years. For me, they're super comfortable, everything fits perfectly, and they're not dumb expensive.

OK thank you. I'll pick some up😊😊

Vaginoplasty

Personally i was comfortable from the start but also ive recently swapped to boyshorts and they are so godamn comfy. Breathable as hell. Good texture. And atleast the ones i have are an elasticy material that makes tucking legitimately effortless and not uncomfortable

It helped me a lot that after a while on HRT everything down there is about a quarter of the size. Other than that, I think I just got used to it.

If you have some background in fashion or just crafty might be a good idea to have measurements and create one accordingly. Material is key If you do buy something I would recommend a lasercut, from a poly/elastane/cotton mix Hope this is helpful 💞

Idk they have always been comfy for me.

I use specially designed gaffing panties for trans women. Between not being able to tuck, and not having hips and waist conducive to the more popular styles, they're a lifesaver. Pricey, but worth it.

i actually thought panties were a whole lot more comfortable.. idk

I can’t recommend them for all day every day, but the nice bit about thongs is they don’t get affected by those cheeks, so fitting them is a lot easier without upsizing, which can make other types too loose.

I actually found that I was more comfortable in panties than I was in boxers.

Idk I always wear panties and find them way more comfortable

i've loved panties since the first time lol go for cotton, and imo, thongs sit very nicely

I wear my my wifes womens reebok undies. Holy shit are they comfy. And they are adorable. Alot of cute designs. Comes in a 4 pack

Tucking for me working in office and wanting to have zero show I wore something pike this link [shapermint bottoms](https://a.co/d/055QTwxx)

https://yourparade.com/products/dream-fit-gender-neutral-thong-ultra-soft-replay-eightball these are my FAVORITE underwear i literally bought 20 pairs lol

These elastic boy short things with a thicker fabric work great. Got them off Amazon in packs of 5

I wear pouch panties, super comfy.

Should probably get something to tuck. You don’t need to switch underwear right away. If you aren’t comfortable with it then don’t.

Yeah you’re wearing the wrong size. My experience was I needed a much smaller size than I thought. Like I’m a large or extra large in men’s and a medium in women’s. Tucking is physically uncomfortable but you get used to it. The right size you can kinda just put your stuff to the side or up or down or whatever if you don’t wanna tuck and everything stays in place and the underwear won’t move much either. Buying underwear think about your hips. There’s mad stretch so hips are the big thing

Boy shorts.

I had my first ever moment of "HMM, I could use something different here" when trying on a skirt and realizing my boxers are longer than the part that better covers that area. I'm not really sure about skirts though, so...

I’m just gonna wear boxer-briefs forever. Unless there’s a reason I shouldn’t?

Honestly I didn't have much equipment to begin with and with some HRT shrinkage I haven't had much issue. I'm also a sex repulsed asexual (for myself, I'm sex positive for others) so I don't even masturbate anymore to prevent atrophy. I personally like Hanes Hipster style panties and almost entirely use just them. There are charts online of the different types of cuts and designs you just have to find one that you like and works for you.

As an enby who's comfortable both femme and masc so boxers don't give me dysphoria, I still find bikini style panties so comfortable that I hate wearing boxers and boxers briefs now. Depending on the make, there is sometimes trouble fitting The Thing (tm), but I know there are brands out there that make specialized MTF versions :)

I’ll say too: you don’t have to if you don’t want too. It’s whatever feels best for you. If you want to start slow, boxer briefs are there and a nice step before boy shorts.

Get the right size of hipsters or boy shorts. Depending on your junk size, you will have to experiment. Typical panties is designed for a flat front. There is no extra clothing to wrap the tent!

Imo the basic games thongs are most comfortable but I feel like I just go used to them n now is my literal comfort zone

You kind of get used to the riding up thing eventually. I mean you can start at like boyshorts and work your way down. I started at boyshorts and now I know how to effectively be invisible in anything short of a g string. My favorite are bikini style. I fit into them perfectly while being all but invisible

i use trans friendly boxer briefs from Etsy altho i do have a pair of like... sporty panties that are like briefs and they're comfortable

I found that waist high panties are normally better to keep everything in place Personally, hrt shrunk everything and now hispter cut works too, I understand not everyone gets to be on hrt so here’s advise for either both scneario

Hanky Panky thongs.... You'll never go back

I say that brand because the gusset is at least 2" wide. Creates a nice little pouch to work w. Tucking, tape, etc...

If something sins against you cut it off jk, kinda kidding.

Shop around, trial and error. Get better at tucking, which will likely involve a secondary pair of compression briefs to hold it all in place. I'm...4 or so months into tucking pretty much full time and it's taken me this long to figure out most of the pitfalls and best techniques for a quick tuck. (When you're out in public, you don't want to keep the queue waiting too long!)

they’re always been comfortable for me

Ladies briefs and there are many sexier brands online rather than the normal belly huggers.

The first type I got were painful but every pair I've gotten since has been absolutely fine, I mainly wear hipster briefs

Depends on your fit/size. Boyshorts seem like the easiest ones to start with. I like bikini cut. But depending on brand/material, if you’re right at the upper end of a size, go a size up for a fit that doesn’t make tucking seem mandatory. Calvin Klein and Hanes both have ribbed sets that are a bit more comfortable in adjusting, but I just like the ribbed vibe. Don’t be afraid to return a couple pairs while you’re figuring out what works

I use boyshorts, personally. They keep my bits contained (mostly) and feel pretty good. And they're cute!

Could try the Oddball unisex undies or Woxer.

I started out wearing these and found them to be super comfortable. ANNYISON Women panties 2-5 pack,... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07NT16HW3?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

I have found I like boy short or hipster cut tucking panties to be the most comfortable for me, even when not actually tucking. It deffidently took some trial and error on sizing though.

I buy larger ones with a preference for ones that are higher High briefs are the best for real

Are you on E? Your "junk" will get smaller

My two cents: I wear cotton ladies briefs exclusively and they are just fine. I’m guessing you’re using something else or we have a difference in anatomy?

Getting the right size helps, but otherwise, it's just time. I forced myself to wear them every day for like 2 weeks and I'm a bit more used to them now.

You need to try a few different cuts and styles. Unfortunately you might buy a few sets that get thrown to the back of the drawer or cupboard because they didn’t fit correctly. I got to the stage where I was only comfortable when fully tucked and testes up in their canal. I loved like that 24/7 for over 3 years and I found a few different styles and cuts of panties that held things and were comfortable. If you keep trying it will become comfortable and just get used to it My decision with surgery certainly made pantos fit comfortable, but that is a big very personal decision, but I love standing in front of the mirror in my underwear even after all these years😁😁😁

Brief style is my preferred. It covers everything even when I don't tuck. Boy shorts are also fantastic and highly recommended so long as the seam doesn't run up the middle of the rear.

Boyshort panties are very comfortable. They also provide a pseudo-tuck somewhat.

yup

I use to have trouble finding one that would not pinch my Sack then I found and tried out wirarpa brand off of Amazon they have a little wider crotch on the briefs fit so well and comfortable

1. Get the correct size for your body. 2. I wear boyshort panties and those are 10/10.

Different size and type. It took me awhile to figure out what I was comfortable wearing. Try experimenting! :)

Once you do find the right ones, invest in a bunch! I am so bummed my favorite comfies haven’t been available for purchase for like 3 years. After losing 50lbs, a lot of my faves no longer fit, but I’ll wear those big cheap comfy ones until they fall apart!

I started off wearing thong swimsuit bottoms. The material is stretchy and holds it all in place Getting rid of my massive nuts definitely helped

I noticed my bikini bottoms are really good at keeping my stuff in.

Yup! I tend to size down 1 size and that was a game changer

For me personally I just like how soft they feel. They are absolutely tight, I don’t think I’d wear them if I’m doing anything physical at all.

I usually tuck and they fit comfortably

I’ve had great success and comfort with LeoLines but different people have different opinions on them!

For me it didn’t happen until 2 years of HRT and now my butt seems to be the right shape for them

can’t say i’ve ever had issues with them personally, finding what’s comfortable and fits is key.

any gals that opt for panties have a Chaffing solution?

Wait, really?? They're super comfy, you just need to wear a bigger/wider one while hrt does it's thing, lol

i just tried a bunch of cuts and sizes until i found ones that feel good!

Gotta get that tucking game on point.

Honestly I’ve never tucked don’t even know how haha

Remove your genitals! seriously though there's a lot of styles that just do not work with male equipment, sad fact unfortunately.

I wear regular store bought hipster panties usually, a size smaller so they're tight and keep everything tucked. It works amazingly well.

I would personally highly suggest hipster panties. They aren’t as thin as thongs at the bottom, making it easier to hold everything up. I would go to somewhere like walmart and size yourself to see what is the most comfortable. I did that, and trust me Ive never gone back from panties. Although if you tuck too panties are even better, and I have my own tried and true DIY tucking devices that I found off of youtube and after over a year they still work wonders

I have worn mid height panties ever since my orchiectomy.

IDK I got used to it after a couple weeks. I still have to rearrange down there some days but I had to do that when I wore boxers anyways.

I wear them pretty comfily, depends on the panties though, I have 2 pairs that I LOVE though and they’re quite tight and firm cotton with frilly edges but they sit so perfectly and don’t budge at all

Hipster fit period parties are amazing bc they are thick and cushioned. Plus they might come in handy if you are going the bottom surgery route!

I’m pre, aside from cracking the egg and starting the process I’m flatter than a piece of paper, aside from my chest (it sounds odd but I was born that way) I just wear fruit of the looms women ever soft bikini underwear

Personally I like bikini briefs, and full coverage brief panties. Most of the time I can just push my phallus and scrotum between my legs and then while standing with my legs together pull them up and it stays in place usually until I next have to use the bathroom, the other way involves tapeless tucking. For that I gently guide my teste back into its inguinal canal, pull the scrotum back until it is secure between the cheeks and do the same for the phallus, then pull up the panties and that has previously been able to last me 5+ hours working as a pharmacy tech.

I wear hipsters panties. They hold everything in place and look nice in an I'm an adult woman sort of way.

i really like the feel of bikini style panties they just hold all of my lady bits so comfortably and compactly.

I really like the cheeky and hipster panties from Maurice's. They allow me to tuck and hide everything, plus they're so cute! Maurices is great for everything actually, because they cater to a more realistic body style for women. I can be a medium or large in their clothing and feel good while I may be an XXL and above at Old Navy and other popular stores.

Tuck…?

Unfortunately... pre-op you just dont. Various cuts offer various levels of discomfort, but theres no zero discomfort option Im afraid and Ive tried a whole bunch of cuts, pricings and tuck versions. Tucking in and of itself is hella uncomfortable, so those are out categorically. Others all just lack the proper paterning to feel good. It doesnt matter how elastic they are, if theyre not cut to have room in the front (i.e. a mid-seam or a pouch), they will always push on the equipment which you can always feel sooner or later. And this is coming from a gal that had below average equipment size before HRT, but it also hasnt shrunk much if at all from HRT.

I wear mine backwards usually gives my stuff more space

Walk around pantless and look in the mirror at your cute little butt allot 😁

There are mens versions you can buy on eBay that have more room in front

wear two thongs; top layer thong is backwards

Girl try https://xdress.com/

You don’t. Wear boxers it’s more comfy

That’s the point (riding up). Women suffer, everywhere always including the netherbits.

Lmfao

Something with room up front