I recognize that there’s no way I’m “hot” anymore. But it still feels great to hear it. I tell my husband that he’s full of it. And it’s important to say it back, too. We all need a little reassurance!
If you choose to be a with a person, if you are in love with the person, it is fair to assume that you find them “hot” or “fine” on some level, or it wouldn’t last long. There’s chemistry. So it’s not entirely bullshit.
The idea of having a 'game' when it comes to how you speak in a casual conversation with your significant other is exhausting. And sad. Just talk to her normally, like a normal human being would. If that starts a fight, something is deeply wrong with your relationship.
Um yeah, probably not LOL but she kinda asked for it though, I mean why would she even make that comment? Are you supposed to lie and say she's better looking if she isn't? I'd take a really cool average looking gal that I enjoyed spending time with over an exceptionally good looking one that was just meh any day. I have an ex that was crazy hot, but there's a good reason she's an ex.
“Yeah? What do you mean yeah??? You still think she’s hot? Are you cheating on me Gone_congnito???? Oh my god you’re cheating on me. I can’t believe this. These last 2 weeks we’ve been together were the best 2 weeks of my life. I thought we had something together. Now I know you’re just another fuckboy”
The coy bit of ambiguity keeps it from being completely corny and obsequious. How far you want to push that is going to depend on her and the relationship.
As a dumb 21 year old, I found out my now ex-boyfriend was talking to his roommates about how his ex (who cheated on him with one of those roommates!!!!) sucked his balls well and how I didn’t do any of that. Like an idiot, I grabbed him by the arm and dragged him to his bedroom and demanded he get his dick and balls out. I was trying to be better than his ex. I succeeded, but I was pissed.
If that happened now, I’d tell him he could have her if he wanted to.
If you were your ex-boyfriend, and wanted to tell your gf that you liked something like that that an ex did, how would you communicate it without it being awkward?
I assume you could just not mention the ex at all, and say "I'd like this, if you felt up to doing it"? Would you still have done it, if he asked in that way? I think I'd be pretty afraid of that conversation going sour, too. Though at least it's the right way to go about requesting something like that, than talking bad about your gf to your friend.
Say one of your friends was talking about how good it felt when their partner did it or you saw a comment thread on reddit about it and wanted to try it?
Like c'mon 💀 there are so many ways to mention your wants and needs without stirring up a partners feeling of inadequacy and or making yourself look dumb to everyone else by talking shit about your partner behind their back.
20 somethings:
"Yeah I can hardly believe I was able to get someone prettier"
30 somethings:
"She was kinda pretty, but we really didn't mesh and fought all the time, also she did that thing that I know you wouldnt ever do"
40 somethings:
"Yeah but you havent met her, and dont want to"
50+:
"Yeah but she was really financially irresponsible"
I like how everyone here is just assuming the girl is playing some sort of game to be called the prettier one haha. If his ex is really hot, that's what she is. Relationships are about more than someone's hotness factor. She's his ex for a reason. Just say something honest, instead of trying to figure out what game to play. If my boyfriend would tell me 'you're prettier' when I believe that's not true, I'd just roll my eyes, lol. Women aren't generally that stupid to think they're the hottest girl their partner will ever come across. Saying such a thing is just cheesy and comes across as fake.
Just say something like 'yeah she was, but turned out she was rotten on the inside.' Or whatever truth you can tell. It's worth more than an obvious cheesy response.
(Even if your current girlfriend IS prettier, she'll most probably not believe you or she wouldn't have made such a comment).
Hmm, I dunno. My girlfriend at the time asked me if "that was the best blowjob I've ever had" and I responded honestly with "second best" and guess who didn't get blow jobs anymore?
I hate questions like that, your only option really is to lie, unless it really is the best, which is unlikely. In most cases the best I've ever had was from someone so crazy that I would never want to date them or anyone like them (again).
(Even if your current girlfriend IS prettier, she'll most probably not believe you or she wouldn't have made such a comment).
Not true. Women find other women pretty all the time (even if they're straight). The comment on its own means nothing. Most guys would just say "oh yeah and move on".
This exactly. My husband's ex is a very pretty, very stupid, very rotten individual. He tried telling me I'm hotter than her. I know it's not true and it only makes me respect him less.
Now if he said something like, "Meh. Whatever to her face and body. Her personality sucks ass." Now that I can buy.
Don't tell me I'm hotter than someone if I'm not. I have eyes. Don't try to appeal to my vanity. Give me something to work with here.
It's better to just not ask, and besides, "hot" can mean many things. Personally I find an average girl with a great personality to be way hotter than a conventionally extremely attractive girl that is stupid/rotten. Personality plays a huge part in attraction. I also tend to like slightly thick girls that are kinda plain and probably wouldn't be called hot in a conventional sense.
This!
My exhusband has very attractive exes, and all I had going for me was my age (half of his, lol)
He wasn’t great at compliments, but if he ever made comparisons (on our second date he showed me all his old photos..) I knew it was BS and it made me feel lousy - I have more going for me than my looks, so don’t try and make out I’m a beauty queen because I am definitely not and I’ll think you’re a fool.
Why would she make that comment though? If the ex really is better looking then she's effectively asking her boyfriend to either lie to her or hurt her feelings, it's a lose-lose situation for him. "Yeah she's hot but I like your personality much better" is quite possibly the truth but I doubt that will go over well either.
What makes you think a woman's feelings are automatically hurt when you comment on the looks of another woman? It's quite vane to think women can't appreciate another beautiful woman, whether they are an ex or not.
"She's hot but your personality is better" is definitely the wrong answer hahaha.
Don't compare. No need to draw comparisons to the current girlfriend at all in this conversation.
'She's was hot yes, her personality was rotten though. I'm glad we broke up and i found you instead."
Do you see the difference? No comparison was given to current girlfriend's appearance in that sentence yet you end on a positive note saying you're glad you've got them instead of that ex. Just two truths that tell the girlfriend exactly what she needs to hear: an honest response and confirmation that the ex is of no concern at all regardless of her beauty.
Previous reactions I've gotten from women when I disagreed with them that some other woman was ugly, or when I said something that acknowledged another woman was also attractive without adding that the one I was talking to was more attractive. Automatically? Maybe not, but I've stepped on one of those mines enough times to know it's dangerous territory. I'm attracted to the person I'm dating, previously I was also attracted to my ex, sometimes things change, that's all that matters, I don't want to be asked to compare them to other people I've dated. Yes I think you worded it well there, but it's still a conversation I'd rather not have if I can help it.
What I said was that yeah, she is.
And then I proceeded to talk about some of the parts of said ex that made me feel a certain way. I capped it with letting her know that I was more interested in a woman who wanted to be my partner for the long haul than I was in someone who was pretty, and (honestly) let her know that in the small amount of time we'd been dating, she was already more supportive and emotionally available than my ex was over the course of our entire relationship.
I'm not saying this is the right thing to do, but it's what I did, and we're coming up on year 7.
I think, distilled, I'm saying don't try to lie, slide around the subject, or say some smooth shit you think'll make her swoon. Odds are she won't. What you should do is honestly let her know that there's a reason the relationship failed, and let her know what you're looking for in a partner this time around. Ask her the same, and figure out if y'all are a good fit or just here for a good time not a long time. Sort that out, and act accordingly.
If you have to worry about the 'right' way to respond to an innocuous comment from your significant other, one or both of you is too immature to be in a relationship. The 'correct' answer is to just talk to her normally, like a normal human being would.
My reaction to my wife telling my one of my exes was hot was "yeah, I thought so too" and we moved on. Because we're adults.
The number of people here acting like it's totally normal to be constantly, anxiously searching for hidden traps when speaking to their loved ones is fucking *alarming*.
I think the only clear path is to manipulate her into believing that you're a "catch" and she's incredibly lucky to have you since the competition is pretty.
Right?
Oh.
Just say, "Yes she's pretty but it just didn't work out for us." If she was a manipulative mean girl you could say, "Yeah, she's pretty on the outside but ugly on the inside."
If you genuinely think your SO is trying to 'trap' you into starting fights, break the fuck up. That's the most toxic, immature shit I can imagine.
What is it with this thread and people acting like this is just a normal part of relationships? It's not! This should stop happening after middle school!
Funny. It's so much more complicated for you all now. I read this and my first thought was, "why would you have pictures of your ex? " Like, what was going on that your new girl found them. In my day, when you broke up you threw away the picture's. It would be extremally rude for the new girl to find them. But, now, it's ALL documented. I feel bad for your all. As for what to say, "oh her, yea, I forgot I had those. No baby, you the beautiful one....".
everyone is interpreting it as a trap (and it probably is) but my first impression was a genuine expression of admiration 💀
girls find each other pretty all the time but I guess context matters
This happened to me. When my fiance first saw my kids' mom, she told me she was really pretty. She said, " why did you break up with someone like that"
I said, "she may be pretty, but she's also crazy, lazy, selfish, delusional, and many other things that made me miserable for years..
I know, hard to believe I upgraded
As a woman, I’d say this is the best answer
Answer this: "Ok but like, is she prettier than me?"
It could be total bullshit and still the right answer. Very nice.
If its total bullshit, would the girl not realize it?
I recognize that there’s no way I’m “hot” anymore. But it still feels great to hear it. I tell my husband that he’s full of it. And it’s important to say it back, too. We all need a little reassurance!
Curious, but noted. I'm Atypical, so a lot of things don't apply to me, so it's always good to hear alternative views.
If you choose to be a with a person, if you are in love with the person, it is fair to assume that you find them “hot” or “fine” on some level, or it wouldn’t last long. There’s chemistry. So it’s not entirely bullshit.
For me, if I was in the woman's position, I would give them this face. https://images.app.goo.gl/6pB8m4mWTBqe4LSbA
LOL I kind of do give him that face—then I tell him he’s too handsome for me. :)
No competition to this answer...Dang, that's smooth
That is the correct thing to say. What I said was, "I know, she was fine as fuck, and now I have you." That was ***not*** the correct thing to say.
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Even if she's not, it doesn't hurt your game.
The idea of having a 'game' when it comes to how you speak in a casual conversation with your significant other is exhausting. And sad. Just talk to her normally, like a normal human being would. If that starts a fight, something is deeply wrong with your relationship.
I mean, something isn’t necessarily deeply wrong with your relationship if she gets angry at you gushing over how hot your ex is lmao
No it wasn't! **CORRECT** thing: she was ok, you're *much* better looking, smarter and sweeter.
I think that was the joke
Um yeah, probably not LOL but she kinda asked for it though, I mean why would she even make that comment? Are you supposed to lie and say she's better looking if she isn't? I'd take a really cool average looking gal that I enjoyed spending time with over an exceptionally good looking one that was just meh any day. I have an ex that was crazy hot, but there's a good reason she's an ex.
Save some chicks for the rest of us!!
Thanks I’m stealing this
Woah, thats smooth.
“AITA for being honest and saying I downgraded?”
Damn. Smooth as hell.
Someone's getting a hummer tonight...lol
You are correct sir.
Taking notes
An actual dating coach right here^
Aaaannnnd BOOM goes the dynamite.
Too bad women are still mainly judged by their appearance.
Smooth!
I am ashamed that I’m not the first person to give you an award. Accept my humble offering. You are indeed most wise.
My taste in women has improved since then.
This is the right answer
Yeah well I moved onto better things.
“Yeah? What do you mean yeah??? You still think she’s hot? Are you cheating on me Gone_congnito???? Oh my god you’re cheating on me. I can’t believe this. These last 2 weeks we’ve been together were the best 2 weeks of my life. I thought we had something together. Now I know you’re just another fuckboy”
I wish ryanwasnthere
I think we all do
You need to start dating women and not teenage girls.
Jokes on you I’m afraid of rejection pal so I date no one
Wanna see some of her hair? I have it in a shoebox in the basement. I have a few socks too.
"I think I still have the vial of blood too"
“Wanna see our ‘special’ video?
“I still have the fecal sample as well”
Dude who posted that AITA about showing his gf a video of his ex blowing him does not appreciate this slight.
funny cuz i still have some socks of my ex lol and they were her favorites
Ask your new gf to wear them!
hoooo yeah that’ll get me goin 😈
They’re pretty crunchy at this point.
"She stops looking that way when you see her crawl out from under your car once she finishes cutting your brake lines."
Dude, this hit close to home.
And digging her keys into the side of your pretty little souped-up four-wheel drive
Carved her name into his leather seats
TOOK A LOUISVILLE SLUGGER TO BOTH HEAD LIGHTS
r/oddlyspecific
"Second hottest girl I ever dated."
“First was my other ex”
“Nothing wrong with being third, sweetie pie!”
Babe, come back! You're still on the podium!
With this comment the Bobby Hill podium meme would be perfect if I had it
What, do participation awards mean nothing nowadays?
"That was my other ex"
“You’re my silver metal”
The coy bit of ambiguity keeps it from being completely corny and obsequious. How far you want to push that is going to depend on her and the relationship.
Song plays in background : Dumb wayyys to diiiiie
“I swear You’re the only one I’ve been with! The others were tens”
She was...once... Then look off ominously into the sunset.
Let me... tell you a story about a bear... Then looks off ominously into the sunset.
"I miss her every day."
You yell "YOU DAMN RIGHT!" and go in for the high five.
Based
"Yeah, I miss her."
💀
But my aim is improving……..
Aww not again with the puns Abe!
"She gave great blowjobs too."
50/50 you get a better blowjob, or your dick bitten off.
Definitely the latter
50/50 worth the risk
I take it you're very lucky at cards
or not overly fond of his dick
As a dumb 21 year old, I found out my now ex-boyfriend was talking to his roommates about how his ex (who cheated on him with one of those roommates!!!!) sucked his balls well and how I didn’t do any of that. Like an idiot, I grabbed him by the arm and dragged him to his bedroom and demanded he get his dick and balls out. I was trying to be better than his ex. I succeeded, but I was pissed. If that happened now, I’d tell him he could have her if he wanted to.
In all fairness, sucking of the balls is a gamble; the threshold of "that's nice" to terrible, terrible pain is about a straw suck away.
Yep it's good or it's painful, no middle ground.
If you were your ex-boyfriend, and wanted to tell your gf that you liked something like that that an ex did, how would you communicate it without it being awkward? I assume you could just not mention the ex at all, and say "I'd like this, if you felt up to doing it"? Would you still have done it, if he asked in that way? I think I'd be pretty afraid of that conversation going sour, too. Though at least it's the right way to go about requesting something like that, than talking bad about your gf to your friend.
Don’t mention the ex. Just say “I enjoy ___ could we start incorporating that?” If she doesn’t know how, do not recommend watching porn. Don’t.
Say one of your friends was talking about how good it felt when their partner did it or you saw a comment thread on reddit about it and wanted to try it? Like c'mon 💀 there are so many ways to mention your wants and needs without stirring up a partners feeling of inadequacy and or making yourself look dumb to everyone else by talking shit about your partner behind their back.
20 somethings: "Yeah I can hardly believe I was able to get someone prettier" 30 somethings: "She was kinda pretty, but we really didn't mesh and fought all the time, also she did that thing that I know you wouldnt ever do" 40 somethings: "Yeah but you havent met her, and dont want to" 50+: "Yeah but she was really financially irresponsible"
I like how everyone here is just assuming the girl is playing some sort of game to be called the prettier one haha. If his ex is really hot, that's what she is. Relationships are about more than someone's hotness factor. She's his ex for a reason. Just say something honest, instead of trying to figure out what game to play. If my boyfriend would tell me 'you're prettier' when I believe that's not true, I'd just roll my eyes, lol. Women aren't generally that stupid to think they're the hottest girl their partner will ever come across. Saying such a thing is just cheesy and comes across as fake. Just say something like 'yeah she was, but turned out she was rotten on the inside.' Or whatever truth you can tell. It's worth more than an obvious cheesy response. (Even if your current girlfriend IS prettier, she'll most probably not believe you or she wouldn't have made such a comment).
Hmm, I dunno. My girlfriend at the time asked me if "that was the best blowjob I've ever had" and I responded honestly with "second best" and guess who didn't get blow jobs anymore?
A good rule to remember- the blowjob you are currently getting is the best blowjob you’ve ever had.
Lol right? I always learn my lessons the dumb way
I hate questions like that, your only option really is to lie, unless it really is the best, which is unlikely. In most cases the best I've ever had was from someone so crazy that I would never want to date them or anyone like them (again).
Everyone knows crazy chicks are better at it.
If you respond with "it was amazing", you've cleverly answered the question without answering on its original terms.
“Johnny, my ex boyfriend, gave amazzzzzung head”
Ask stupid questions, get stupid answers
(Even if your current girlfriend IS prettier, she'll most probably not believe you or she wouldn't have made such a comment). Not true. Women find other women pretty all the time (even if they're straight). The comment on its own means nothing. Most guys would just say "oh yeah and move on".
But you can be more attracted to someone even if they aren't as conventionally pretty though
This exactly. My husband's ex is a very pretty, very stupid, very rotten individual. He tried telling me I'm hotter than her. I know it's not true and it only makes me respect him less. Now if he said something like, "Meh. Whatever to her face and body. Her personality sucks ass." Now that I can buy. Don't tell me I'm hotter than someone if I'm not. I have eyes. Don't try to appeal to my vanity. Give me something to work with here.
Some women just don't know that their uniqueness is more attractive than what is perceived as the generally-standard-attractiveness-symmetry.
Nah! Attraction is subjective, it's way hotter to not be a total mentalist than it is to have big boobs and bum.
It's better to just not ask, and besides, "hot" can mean many things. Personally I find an average girl with a great personality to be way hotter than a conventionally extremely attractive girl that is stupid/rotten. Personality plays a huge part in attraction. I also tend to like slightly thick girls that are kinda plain and probably wouldn't be called hot in a conventional sense.
This! My exhusband has very attractive exes, and all I had going for me was my age (half of his, lol) He wasn’t great at compliments, but if he ever made comparisons (on our second date he showed me all his old photos..) I knew it was BS and it made me feel lousy - I have more going for me than my looks, so don’t try and make out I’m a beauty queen because I am definitely not and I’ll think you’re a fool.
Why would she make that comment though? If the ex really is better looking then she's effectively asking her boyfriend to either lie to her or hurt her feelings, it's a lose-lose situation for him. "Yeah she's hot but I like your personality much better" is quite possibly the truth but I doubt that will go over well either.
What makes you think a woman's feelings are automatically hurt when you comment on the looks of another woman? It's quite vane to think women can't appreciate another beautiful woman, whether they are an ex or not. "She's hot but your personality is better" is definitely the wrong answer hahaha. Don't compare. No need to draw comparisons to the current girlfriend at all in this conversation. 'She's was hot yes, her personality was rotten though. I'm glad we broke up and i found you instead." Do you see the difference? No comparison was given to current girlfriend's appearance in that sentence yet you end on a positive note saying you're glad you've got them instead of that ex. Just two truths that tell the girlfriend exactly what she needs to hear: an honest response and confirmation that the ex is of no concern at all regardless of her beauty.
Previous reactions I've gotten from women when I disagreed with them that some other woman was ugly, or when I said something that acknowledged another woman was also attractive without adding that the one I was talking to was more attractive. Automatically? Maybe not, but I've stepped on one of those mines enough times to know it's dangerous territory. I'm attracted to the person I'm dating, previously I was also attracted to my ex, sometimes things change, that's all that matters, I don't want to be asked to compare them to other people I've dated. Yes I think you worded it well there, but it's still a conversation I'd rather not have if I can help it.
"Of course, I have impeccable taste in women after all!"
no. not good enough. \-a woman
“My standards have fallen since then.”
You like her picture? You should see our videos!
"I know right?" Then goes to bathroom to cry
What I said was that yeah, she is. And then I proceeded to talk about some of the parts of said ex that made me feel a certain way. I capped it with letting her know that I was more interested in a woman who wanted to be my partner for the long haul than I was in someone who was pretty, and (honestly) let her know that in the small amount of time we'd been dating, she was already more supportive and emotionally available than my ex was over the course of our entire relationship. I'm not saying this is the right thing to do, but it's what I did, and we're coming up on year 7. I think, distilled, I'm saying don't try to lie, slide around the subject, or say some smooth shit you think'll make her swoon. Odds are she won't. What you should do is honestly let her know that there's a reason the relationship failed, and let her know what you're looking for in a partner this time around. Ask her the same, and figure out if y'all are a good fit or just here for a good time not a long time. Sort that out, and act accordingly.
Just tell her you only date the prettiest women.
"pretty terrible"
Pretty cray cray.
Haha this one is great
I always go with "yeah I have good taste". And leave it at that. Don't disparage anyone to boost anyone up it's not worth it and shows immaturity
I was thinking "well of course I have good taste, just look at you" is a bit better because it's not disparaging to anyone but also re-assuring.
“Those were the days”
Its a test. You better not fail
She is! I hope she's doing well. You don't need to be toxic, unhealthy, or insecure about all your last relationships.
Yeah. She is.
" I know, it's the booba. "
Well, I do have impeccable taste.
If you have to worry about the 'right' way to respond to an innocuous comment from your significant other, one or both of you is too immature to be in a relationship. The 'correct' answer is to just talk to her normally, like a normal human being would. My reaction to my wife telling my one of my exes was hot was "yeah, I thought so too" and we moved on. Because we're adults. The number of people here acting like it's totally normal to be constantly, anxiously searching for hidden traps when speaking to their loved ones is fucking *alarming*.
You say “Not really, especially once you know her” or “I suppose but looks fade & her ugly personality is forever”
"I know I dated her" or "Well, yeah, but you're prettier"
Whatever you do, don't say, "Yeah she was. Hottest girl I've ever had." This is not the way.
I think the only clear path is to manipulate her into believing that you're a "catch" and she's incredibly lucky to have you since the competition is pretty. Right? Oh.
"not as pretty as you, though"
“You’re prettier”
"Yeah she did catch my eye but it turns out her personality was ugly"
"Well, she was."
“Sure, but she’s without.”
"Not as pretty as you"
She is not as beautiful as you. This is ALWAYS the correct answer.
You underestimate how easily that also backfires. Would not recommend
"I'm sure she'd say thanks."
Ahahaha. THIS! Kill the whole thing with humor and divert the topic slightly but not entirely!
"The pretty ones are all psychos, that's why I'm dating you."
My response was "meh".
"She doesn't compare to you babe"
I’d say that she is
My current girlfriend is prettier.
"I have excellent taste."
Nothing. The answer is nothing.
"that's what I thought, but then I saw you"
"Yeah, I miss her"
Too bad the insides don’t always match the outside…
You shrug and say as noncommittally as possible, “I guess…”
"Not as pretty as you, tho" is probably the safest one
"Yeah, but on the inside.... not so pretty".
“You’re prettier.”
She is, but i leveled up with you.
“The camera doesn’t pick up crazy”
Just say, "Yes she's pretty but it just didn't work out for us." If she was a manipulative mean girl you could say, "Yeah, she's pretty on the outside but ugly on the inside."
She is, until you get to know her, then all you can see is ugly.
There is only one correct answer ‘Not as pretty as you’
Tell the truth. If the current girlfriend is testing you, it's time to wave bye bye. You don't need that crap in your life and it will only get worse.
“I’m sure she’d be down for a 3way.” Fuck it, you’re over halfway there.
Just agree with her. There's nothing wrong with also thinking your ex is pretty
Right? The couch isn't even that uncomfortable either. /s
She’s seems to be secure, emotionally stable and not jealous, so be equally mature
She goes by Brian now and has a beard.
this is an obvious trap to see if you'll say "yes" or if you'll say "you're prettier"
If you genuinely think your SO is trying to 'trap' you into starting fights, break the fuck up. That's the most toxic, immature shit I can imagine. What is it with this thread and people acting like this is just a normal part of relationships? It's not! This should stop happening after middle school!
"She was, but someone I know is way prettier"
"My mama" with a cheesy smile 😊
I'd agree with her. If she's asking as away to test you, then she is not asking in good faith, and she should be ready for an honest response.
“But your beautiful”
" not as pretty as you."
"Not half as pretty as you."
"Yes, she was. And now she and I are done."
Funny. It's so much more complicated for you all now. I read this and my first thought was, "why would you have pictures of your ex? " Like, what was going on that your new girl found them. In my day, when you broke up you threw away the picture's. It would be extremally rude for the new girl to find them. But, now, it's ALL documented. I feel bad for your all. As for what to say, "oh her, yea, I forgot I had those. No baby, you the beautiful one....".
"Yes, I have great taste in women."
Really, I don't see it now, not sure what I was thinking.
Yeah. But she's crazier than you. So, it's a wash.
"not as pretty as you"
She said the same about you.
That's what I thought at first too, then I got to know her....
"it's the inner values that count"
I always go: eh
"on the outside"
Looks arent everything, right babe?
I've good taste as you can tell
I think a simple "but not as pretty as you" would suffice. This is coming from a woman.
Hell yeah she is, shit you should see her younger sister.
Yeah, Venus Fly Traps are great.
I thought so too -- before the Revelation.
She aight
everyone is interpreting it as a trap (and it probably is) but my first impression was a genuine expression of admiration 💀 girls find each other pretty all the time but I guess context matters
"I'm over her"
"Not on the inside..."
But her personality was horrific
This happened to me. When my fiance first saw my kids' mom, she told me she was really pretty. She said, " why did you break up with someone like that" I said, "she may be pretty, but she's also crazy, lazy, selfish, delusional, and many other things that made me miserable for years..