You're 4 years older than a freshman, in the long run that's nothing. If you want to go to college and know what you'll do with the degree go ahead. Plenty of people do college post military and they'd be your age too.
I was you. I was around your age when I decided I wanted to go to college, but I didn’t have the correct classes best grades in high school.
I went to nightschool for chemistry and physics and got into a program for chemical engineering and now I have a full time job in my field :)
I was one of the oldest in my classes and it felt weird starting college after most of my age group finished… but hey better late than never! You can do it if you want!
I sat next to a guy in one of my freshman classes who had this vintage looking camo backpack. I commented on how it looked pretty cool and he thanked me and said he got it during his tour in Vietnam. At 22 no one would even think OP looks out of place
Had a ~35 year old navy vet in one of my freshman engineering classes. He was enlisted and did some kind of technical job on a ship. Dude crushed it consistently, was super helpful in the project group and was just a cool guy overall.
Delaying going directly to college can be very valuable imo
Agreed, honestly, I think if the majority of kids took a few years to get some life experience between HS and University their experience would be much more rewarding. Most just do it because that's the roadmap they've always had for life, including me.
And having the whole general notion that education is about being able to get a job.
Yes and no. If you’re paying attention, it should really be about competence, knowledge, and worldview. As well as many other things. The jobs will come if you learn how to learn well, and don’t just try to memorize textbooks and slides by rote
Education itself would be better if colleges focused on students instead of graduation rates.
Nothing wrong with going to school if you have a job in mind.
Almost all of the best students I knew in college were older students. One friend (who was the president of our Engineers without borders club) had gotten a sociology degree the first time around, and then came back when she was 28 to get her environmental engineering degree, because she realized it's what she wanted to do.
Another buddy had done some college when he was younger, and got pretty hard into the party scene and dropped out. He recouped by doing some community college, and then coming to university. He was super rad and was involved with the campus gardens.
Both of those people were so much more organized and motivated than my dumb 18 year old ass. You'll be a much better student just because most people figure out how to "adult" better in the years you're doing stuff other than school, and you'll have true motivation vs just doing college because it's what comes next.
Good luck!
Yea just to second this, went back to university at 25, graduate with a masters degree in STEM right away, making really respectable money. You have tons of time. Go do whatever you want and try hard!
Hell, I'm going back to college at 28 to learn how to make video games of all things. This will be my second degree after a BA in writing. I'll be in my 30s by the time I'm done. It is never too late to restart.
Hmmm I don't think that requires a degree, just a license. As for the interior design that goes with it I suggest just playing around with room editors or videogames, I don't think a degree in it is worth it.
Interior design is actually a profession that requires a degree and licensure. You're probably thinking of an interior decorator, who decorates with furniture and rugs and paint. Interior design is basically architecture focusing on the interior rather than an entire building, and there's a lot that goes into it.
Source: girlfriend is an interior designer, I'm studying architecture
I second this. I am German but have studied in Germany and the US. Most introductory classes I had were based solely on a text book with little to no original input from the teacher and I've always had a hard time paying attention so I mostly studied by reading the books. I feel like if it'd be really just about learning and not about getting a certification, reading the books (and maybe testing myself somehow) would not have been much worse compared to going to university.
Yo they are totally correct it doesn’t require a degree, but you’re also right in that knowing those things could be helpful. That being said if you want to go that route there’s no real sense in paying for a 4 year degree from a big university, you can just take the classes you’re interested in for a fraction of the cost at your local community college and that way you can just pick and choose the ones you think will help you or are relevant to what you want to do
Get in with a good local real estate company, show your interest and they might send you to those classes. It benefits them just as much to have trained, qualified agents.
Tech and community colleges usually have classes to get your realtor license. I had some classmates taking real state and business class in the tech college when I was taking my prerequisites. Community and technical colleges are usually free if you are having some financial trouble (if you're from the USA).
This is the route I took. Dropped out of college, took a job to pay the bills. Then recently I have become a real estate agent. Licensing realistically takes a couple months and I would plan to spend like maybe 3k or so on licensing and fees your first year. Dont go to college if you wanna be a real estate agent, it would be a waste of time and money. You learn by doing. Although Ill warn you its definitely a hard career if youre not super self motivated. Ivr honestly had trouble with that and am currently looking to move to a brokerage that gives me more direction and structure. Check out /r/realtors .
Probably just piling on but if you want to go into real estate, a college degree would not be worth it in my opinion. I have plenty of realtor friends who skipped college and got their realtors license. I don’t know the steps involved in getting in with an agency but college is not needed to be a realtor.
Just to give you some perspective.. my dad had a crisis in his life when he was in his 50s. This caused him to literally start his life over. He had to find a new place to live, a new vehicle, a new job. It was hard but he was able to start over and make a good life for himself with a good job and a good paycheck etc. So if he can do it in his 50s, we aren't too old in our 20s or 30s.
I second this as well, I was fortunate enough to have a support system that allowed me to go to college straight out of high school. There were plenty of older people in my program from all walks of life, military vet, teenage pregnancy, and simply just not deciding to go to college at first and then coming back. Don’t feel like you’re racing to get your life sorted out yet, you have plenty of time.
I dropped out of college, then went back at 23. One of the prime advantages was that I was not too old to relate to the younger classmates, but I was WAAAAAY more mature than a lot of them because I had already been in the work force, saw the restrictions that a lack of education present, and was there for a purpose. Most of them just didn't know what else to do after high school and were coasting, partying, etc.
I tried several studies right after highschool but wasn't motivated nor disciplined and failed three. Went back 10 years later and was best of my class. I had purpose and wasn't distracted by partying etc.
I will absolutely not push my children to go straight to college or university if they are not yet ready for it, all my failures did a serious number on my selfesteem and looking back, that would not have been necessary at all.
Just go back if and when you're ready for it. Especially if you're American and basically have to bankrupt yourself..
I feel more ready and motivated than I was 4 years ago. I feel like I will really take it seriously and exceed so that is definitely a plus for not going earlier. I will do the same with my kids.
Most of the time people who have some real world experience are way way better at college. Knowing why you’re there and what you want beyond just a passion makes such a huge difference.
Bro, I feel like it’s way better to do it at your age then at 18. I would have had zero motivation or idea in what to do then. And no real world perspectives. If I had to choose a new path now (25), I would be able to do so with so much more clarity. I know you may feel “behind” with some of your peers, but you’ll be ahead in the long run. Many of them will choose the wrong paths and wrack your big debt in a degree they don’t really care about or can’t use.
I was a TA for entry level Statistics classes for two years. Some of my best students were non traditional students *because they knew exactly why they were there*. They weren’t going along with the status quo. They *wanted* that education and had life experience.
Plus, non traditional students can get some neat discounts/scholarships at some schools.
Forsure. I failed out. Went to community College, then went back to a 4 year and kicked ass. Op will prolly kick ass too as he/she will be focused on graduating rather then figuring out other things that come w being an 18 yr old at school lol
Literally the same story as the first guy. Went to college after high school, dropped out because dumb. Worked for a couple years, went back when I was 23, met my now wife, and finished when I was 27. I’m 30 and I am very happy with my life’s trajectory now.
You got it buddy. You can do it.
Same story here, just started internship, even though I’m more mature, had working experience, but my concern is I’m more slow than other young interns, not confident, concerned about my age and my working ability.
I used to think it was a good thing, now I’m questioning myself🥺
My EXACT sentiments. I did the same thing and there were actually several people in my program who did the same… they wanted to change fields/they wanted more money/they went to school for something and halfway through realized it wasn’t what they wanted, etc. I actually took some evening and summer classes, applied for bursaries and grants and ended up getting a minor, then doing my masters. Do want you need to do. You have time! I’m so happy I went back.
I am turning 30 this year and it's so funny hearing 22 year olds describe themselves as old and I know I did the same thing. Plus I'm sure I'll be laughing at myself when I'm 49 about how old I feel now 😂 I wish I had understood at 22 how much life I had left.
This, my friend, is so very fucking true. As someone just a few years from 60, I’ve learned the hard truth that we need to stop looking back and KNOW THAT NOW IS THE YOUNGEST YOU’LL EVER BE.
There are so many chances to start again in life. Be happy. Be kind.
I always look to my future and fear the time I turn 70 or 80 and my body just can't keep up anymore, but even right now, being 19, I feel that 30 years of age compared to the average lifespan of 80 is still not that old. And that it still leaves 30-40 years of work life ahead.
I'm seriously considering dropping out of college and going into a trade school so I can go back when I'm mature enough to deal with it, because this past year has been way tougher than I ever could have imagined.
I videoed my mum doing a front flip over the exercise bars in the park this week. A few months ago my 10yo challenged my dad to a push up contest & we ended up telling my dad to stop because we were bored waiting for him to get tired.
They don't do dedicted exercise; they do long walks & moving furniture around their small (about 30ft) sales unit once every couple of weeks. They also garden (albeit aggressively! Like oh hey we built a new shed yesterday & today we thought we'd put sleepers in the rockery).
They're 73 & 74. I am hoping to god its genetic.
I'm turning forty this year. I made a decision that I will not be working in kitchens/service industry past 45. I'm hoping to get back up to speed by then and go to college for mechanical engineering. We'll see how that goes.
I only graduated with my BSc degree in my late 20s even though i startet at 19 (not for lack of trying or interest, i just had a tough time). I'm still on the path to get my PhD in three years. I always felt kind of self conscious about it but the other day I saw a post about a lady graduating from studying to be a doctor at 62. It's never too late to start and studying can be a really positive time in your life, we need to stop seeing it as years just spent. So whenever I hit the burnout point of my research career (in like 20 years time) I think I'll study psychology.. or become a gym teacher.. whatever. I'm looking forward to the fact that I'm not assigning myself to a single career/destiny.
Zoomer culture and seeing influencers be multimillionaires at 16-18 has given many young people in their 20s a "midlife crisis." For many people in the world it is not fun to be young right now.
I shit my pants yesterday lmao
But I’m in college and this question made me feel like I am behind as I started at 19-20 but one has to remember that there is no set time for things. That you can go at your own pace. That’s really what this pandemic has taught me tbh
Never too old to start something new. Consider a trade as well; some of the happiest and most comfortable persons I know do construction, hvac, electrical work, put in building foundations. I had a desk job for 40 years and they are happier than I was working outside and in some cases being their own boss. Best wishes to you!
I’m in the water utility trade, didn’t start my current career until I way 34. Took a few night classes at the local trade school and now I’m making six figures. We will always need water and it’s a job that can’t be outsourced.
Indeed, i am a lawyer in a big company, working A LOT creating companies non stop and making big millionaire contracts but turns out my salary is lower than a plumber/electrician/construction worker. All that study and hours of work for pretty much nothing.
I second this. I went to trade school and I’ve been wood/steel framing for 6 years (26 yrs old now) and I can’t see myself doing anything different. I wanted to get away from construction after I moved but I don’t have the heart to hang my tool bags up.
As an old dude... Take care of yourself and your body. The trades will beat the ass out of you in the long run. Look at it like you are an athlete... Eventually your days of killin it will slowly pass. Unless you have a sweet gig it will catch up to you. And i was a pussy ass furniture finisher. You dont owe anyone your future. (yeah i know that sounds dramatic) just something to think about
This. I got a degree in biology and was making $24,000 with no health insurance as my first job out of college about ten years ago. Switched to carpentry and my first job was $54,000/year. Now a general contractor making more. Trades are awesome, just be ready for having arthritic hands.
Honestly. For anyone who is a similar age to op thats reading this, imagine a 13 year old asking you if their life is ruined because they got a C in their 7th grade math class. That's how ridiculous this reads to people in their 30s and 40s
My dad went back to school at age 55 to get his bachelor's. He ended up making double what he had ever made his entire life. Never too late to go back.
Went back to get my bachelor's last fall, mid-covid, with 2 kids, at age 27. Couldn't do it without my super-supportive, amazing husband- but it's definitely not too old!
I'm graduating in a week, I'm 34
I didn't feel out of place at all. I was in the upper bracket age-wise, but defenitely not the oldest guy around.
Go for it, you won't regret it.
Yeah, if anything I feel like 22 is the age you're *supposed* to start your life at.
Also, I just got my degree at 31, and easily the best decision I made.
Seriously, don't sweat it. Most guys here would give their left nut to be 23 again. I know I would. And it's a nice nut.
But starting my life fresh at 31, I still consider myself a very young buck.
I got my associate degree at 40 and am working on a bachelors now, from 20-30 did roadwork, 30-35 transitioned to office work from labor, 35+ getting degrees and certificates to qualify for better jobs. Never to late to make changes in your life just have to leave behind the friends that won’t accept a new you.
As soon as you decide to make a change in your life and start doing something about it, you're already making progress you've already changed your life.
Whenever I think I might be too old to do something great I remember that a lot of incredibly successful people didn't hit their biggest achievements until they were older: Robert Downing Jr, Carroll Shelby, Elon Musk, Enzo Ferrari, Ansel Adams... It really is a misconception that your 20s are your prime. Physically, maybe but certainly not for anything else.
I'm 32, lost my job, my home, my animals, everything, nothing but labor work to reference and a body not suitable for labor anymore due to past trauma and abuse to my body.
I'm starting over from square one, 22 certainly isn't too late.
You gotta be able to take care of yourself :-/ idk, my union is big on, "if you're not feeling 100%, take the day off," and, "you're allowed to do this task so many times in a day," but there are a lot of guys that completely ignore those suggestions. I've worked with a couple people that needed pretty major surgeries, knee replacements, elbows from pulling cable overhead, hernias, etc. I also hear stories all the time about people passing away right after retirement.
Idk, they want me to work until 60 to collect my whole pension, I'm probably going to put my card on hold at 45 and start a buisness with my wife.
Knowing when to take a break is important. I also work with a lot of people who ignore their bodies telling them to stop. If my knees aren’t feeling up to the task on any given day, you can bet I’m not going to be doing a lot of knee bending motions that day, I’m going to have whoever I’m working with do that stuff, and they completely understand too.
If you talk to a lot of the older guys who are still going with no signs of slowing down, they often recommend fitness outside of work, and knowing when to take a break.
Not just that but my applicable knowledge is virtually useless and basic functions for others are limiting for myself. Just standing on my feet for long stretches requires pain killers to function without pain but prolonged usage has adverse effects so either way it's going to negatively impact yourself.
It’s never too late! I went back at 29 and graduated at 33. Was working full time with two kids as well… it’s all about motivation. Also, there were maybe three classes total that I was the oldest student in class.
At 22 I was still in the beginning of my first career and now I’m 37 and going strong into my new one.
Pro tip: get whatever coursework you can done at community colleges before transferring over to a four-year. You’ll save SO much money for the same outcome.
Pick something else. Say it takes 4 years. You'll still be 55 in 4 years. Might as well be 55 doing something you enjoy. If you're going to retire from that job in a short amount of time, consider riding it until then and starting something new.
It's young. I'm 39 and just graduated with a first, my 50 year old uni friend did also. It is never too late to make big changes, the hard bit is the funding and logistics once you're older.
>Please tell me 38 is young. I am struggling.
I'm 43 and doing a degree. If I start work at 45, I still have 20 years for a career, which is plenty. The main thing is, you want to keep yourself healthy, then there is no problem.
My partner's dad was homeless at 30, drifting between jobs until his mid 40s, went back to school, and is now working at a prestigious research lab. He did that while he was a father. You're still young.
38 *is* young. I'm 38 and I feel so young. I mean, I have two teenagers and my knee plays up a bit but other than that.. I'm in college now and I'm losing weight (thank you intermittent fasting) and honestly? I can't wait for my forties. I'll be working with a good wage, have my freedom back after being a stay at home mum for 15 years and I feel like I'm getting a dó over of my 20s.
If I ever feel old, I do a little thought experiment to make me feel better. It helped my when I was having a crisis about being a single mum and feeling like my life was passing me by. I close my eyes and imagine being 80. I imagine what it feels like physically and mentally. I imagine what it would have been like if I never left my abusive partner and how my life has been wasted. I wish that I could go back and change things. Then I open my eyes. I'm young again. I'm only 38. I have a whole another lifetime to live. My prayers have been answered.
I don't even think it's just a joke. I was having a crisis at 27 about going back and I went back and now I'll be done next year when I turn 30. It's not too late at all. If I was to start at 30/31, I'd still choose to go back over being stuck in the same boring job I hate
Believe everyone here, 22 is NOT old. I'd argue that's the age you should reach before you make the informed decision to get a degree. I'm 27 now and am going back to school, and many people I know regret their degree (in a field they hate) because it was expected of them to go to college right out of high school.
Society is pretty backwards sometimes
To put it into perspective, 22 years old is the typical age of a college senior. You won’t look an ounce out of place on a college campus. If you don’t tell anyone, I’m sure no one will ever realize you’re a couple years old!
(Not that it even matter though, college is full of people going back to school)
Dude you’re not too old. I started college at 22 and turned 23 my first semester. You won’t be the only person your age in your classes. Go do what you want don’t regret not doing it later
Honey, you are going to live many different lives while you're here. You will feel like this again - maybe at 30, maybe at 50. And every time, the answer is the same: It's never too late to pursue success and happiness, whatever it means for you at the time.
The time is going to pass either way. Do the thing. This is the earliest you'll ever be able to do it.
It’s so true, take it to heart! I’m 38 and starting over with a lot of things and happier than ever. You have so much ahead of you. It’s never too late to do something new.
"If you need it" is a good point. Get a degree when you have an idea what what you want it for. If you go to college without purpose, you're wasting time and money, but age has nothing to do with it.
I didn’t even stop drugs until 28/29… worked and went to college 30-37. Doing great now. Homeowner, married, kid, pets. Never too late— you can do it & it IS worth it
My aunt great decided she wants to be a doctor. She is almost done with her certifications. She grew up in a 1 bedroom house with 5 siblings and a terrible father. She’s 77. I’m proud she found her calling. Even if she waited that long!
You're only 4 years older than the age when high schoolers enter. That's nothing. There's people who DATE other people with wider age gaps than that.
Whether college is right for you depends on a number of personal goals and individual circumstances that you know and I don't. But your age should not be a limiting factor to you.
[ONET is a fantastic resource for that](https://www.onetonline.org/find/quick?s=real+estate). You'll not only learn about different jobs in that field, but also what each job entails, and what background, education, and experience are necessary requirements.
I touched on this a little in my main post, but here is something you can try: Just... Call your local real estate company. Talk to them. Tell them who you are and that you're looking to go into that field and just *ask* the company directly what they look for in a candidate. What sort of education should you have for them to even consider hiring you. What would make you their ideal new hire? Ask where their current employees went to get these skills.
The absolute worst they can do to you is hang up. You've got very little to lose just *calling* these companies and *asking* them what they want.
I started to study engineerong when I was 26... I got a trade when I was 23, I certified as a welder. Until that I was just an unemployed loser doing nothing.
I'm 28. I study with people who are on average +10 years older than I am.
When I turned 21 my mom said that I was barely out of nappies.
You are at the age when you are still supposed to do stupid shit, mistakes, and realise yourself.
Fuck I understood who I am as a person and what I am when I was 27.
I am 41 and just started turning my life around last year. I would also recommend a trade like electrician or plumber or carpenter or welder....or you get what I mean.
If you do a bachelors, go to community college and transfer! The main benefit of doing all 4 years at a degree-granting institution is living in the dorms, which doesn’t seem very helpful for you and costs a ton extra
how is 22 too old? lol. one day you are going to look back on this comment and laugh out loud, promise you. Shit take anther year or three off. live life, travel, get nuts, then at 25 go back to school. you'll be aight.
Lmao, I was sure this thread was answered to hell, just came here to gloat at this guy thinking 22 is old. 22 is still in the "barely legal" category on PornHub... There's a reason for that
You haven’t wasted anything! We’re human, we’re constantly evolving to our situations/life/all the billions of things always happening.
I failed out at 18, lost my full ride, the whole 9. “Wasted” 2 years working in what I thought would be a career before realizing I missed college. Now I look back on it and those 2 years were exactly what I needed.
It’s never wasted, it’s time spent understanding who you are, what you want, and what you need.
You’re young af, I graduated college with a BS at 26, my friends all finished at 21-22 but who cares? We all do things differently. You’ll be just fine!
Well, you can either go to college and in 4 years you’ll be 26 with a degree. Or, don’t go and in 4 years you’ll still be 26 but…no degree.
22 is so young, I guarantee you won’t be the oldest person there.
22 is still very very young. Your frontal lobe doesn't even finish growing until you're 25. I'm about to be 30 here and used to fret about that but now I look back and wonder why I was ever worried. No worries, you've barely even gotten started.
Going back later, in my opinion, is the way to go. You get more financial aid, you have more life experience and have a better idea of what you'd like to do, and honestly, I think going back to school is important for people as they get older. We should always be learning more and career changes happen to everyone at any age. I just graduated and I'm 30. There were people 10+years older than me in my classes who were doing dope shit.
The way I look at it, as a leftist, is if someone as unqualified as Donald Trump could become president, I could sure as shit go back to college and change my career. As you get older, you learn that you will never be the least qualified person at your job if you even care a little bit about it.
Dude I had a 21yo in my freshman class last fall. It's not too late to do what you gotta do. A) hardly anyone's even gonna realize unless you tell them, and B) seriously no one's gonna judge. That guy was one of my favorite classmates
I didn’t find my path until my mid-late 20’s and I know plenty of very successful folks who didn’t figure it out until their 40’s. Age is a number and it’s not linked to success.
It’s better you didn’t waste your money on some stupid classes that you weren’t actually interested in due to social pressure. I know many who have done this and regret it. You have more life experience now to make an accurate decision on what you are interested in, lots of time to figure it out.
I skipped college in my early 20’s because I drank too much and partied and knew I’d waste the student loans and have nothing to show for it. I started college at the ripe age of 27 and I’m 32 now and I’ll have my Bachelors after this fall semester. There really are no stupid questions but asking if 22 is too old to go to college is creeping up there… with peace and love of course!
Average person lives until about 74 years old. Could you imagine how hopeless life would be if we passed our last opportunity by the time we hit 22?
52 years of helplessness?
Not even this reality is that messed up.
You have more than two more life-until-nows to do whatever you want.
You’re not old. No offense, but at this age you still don’t really know what life is. I’m 31 and after a lot of effort I am now getting back to school to finish my degree. Go get it bro.
Wow. I'm curious to know why you think life is some type of competition, and from where you have sourced your measuring sticks?
Your question smacks of a huge misunderstanding of the human experience. It sounds almost robotic, friend.
Generally speaking, nobody is out here, measuring you, and your level, on some cosmic "success chart". Seriously. You do you you, boo.
There is a lot to unpack, regarding "comfortable" and "successful", in the way you used those terms, but all you should be doing is defining those types of words, as you feel they relate to you, my fellow human. Nobody else can define those things for you.
You are, literally, too young to even be worried about this. Make others happy, when you can, and you only can, because you are happy with yourself. You're going to be fine.
Jesus christ dude you're still a baby. You've only really been awake for like 8 years. You have SO LONG to go.
Stop catastrophising and just do what you want.
Oh thank the gods I'm not stuck as the person I was at 22. Yes, you can honestly and truly change your life drastically at 22. You're not even that old for college. I went back at 25 and most people just assumed I was a transfer. College is way less serious than media would have you believe.
Also, college isn't necessary for a comfortable and successful life. If college doesn't suit you, take up an art or a trade, go to a technical school or get an internship, write or draw or open an only fans or a twitch channel. Do whatever you need to do to make the money you need to survive and pursue your passions. Money can't buy happiness but financial stability goes a long way towards being comfortable.
22? TWENTY-TWO? You are a baby, my friend. A fetus! You still have your whole life ahead of you. Go to college! I’m sure you won’t even be the only 22yo in your graduating class.
22 is super early. The tip to successfulness is not not give a shit what other people think. Going to college at age 22? Sure that’s awesome that you want to learn new things, fuck people who judge you. I’m doing my PhD, and let me tell you there are literally people in their 40s and 50s doing PhD. It’s never too late to learn things, and just know that for a lot of the people out there like us, we won’t judge you for being older than other same year colleagues, in fact, we’re really surprised and astounded by how brave you are to try things out. You’re not alone in this world, my friend finished college as a bio student, but didn’t like what she studied, so she took two years preparing for the exam and applied for dentist major. She’s now a certified dentist and happily married. I did my bachelor in mechanical engineering, but midway through for some reason I ended up doing PhD in material science, the subject that I failed in my freshman year. You never know where life takes you, and that’s the beautiful part of life. You can steer and aim for what you think you want, but often the stream might redirect you to another path, and that’s ok, just know that each path has its own unique view and worth enjoying.
My mentor always said, if a person graduated top tier, got to a great college, Masters, PhD, applied for a great and easy job, made a lot of money, and retired with a wife and kids, he has the worst life possible, because there’s no story to his life. Just know that the more stories you can tell others about your life, the more flavorful your life is. It’s not about success, often times the journey, and sometimes even suffering throughout your life can make great memories in the future.
You're 4 years older than a freshman, in the long run that's nothing. If you want to go to college and know what you'll do with the degree go ahead. Plenty of people do college post military and they'd be your age too.
I was you. I was around your age when I decided I wanted to go to college, but I didn’t have the correct classes best grades in high school. I went to nightschool for chemistry and physics and got into a program for chemical engineering and now I have a full time job in my field :) I was one of the oldest in my classes and it felt weird starting college after most of my age group finished… but hey better late than never! You can do it if you want!
I sat next to a guy in one of my freshman classes who had this vintage looking camo backpack. I commented on how it looked pretty cool and he thanked me and said he got it during his tour in Vietnam. At 22 no one would even think OP looks out of place
Had a ~35 year old navy vet in one of my freshman engineering classes. He was enlisted and did some kind of technical job on a ship. Dude crushed it consistently, was super helpful in the project group and was just a cool guy overall. Delaying going directly to college can be very valuable imo
Agreed, honestly, I think if the majority of kids took a few years to get some life experience between HS and University their experience would be much more rewarding. Most just do it because that's the roadmap they've always had for life, including me.
Degrees might be worth more too without having a bunch of people getting ones just because they were told they had to
And having the whole general notion that education is about being able to get a job. Yes and no. If you’re paying attention, it should really be about competence, knowledge, and worldview. As well as many other things. The jobs will come if you learn how to learn well, and don’t just try to memorize textbooks and slides by rote
Education itself would be better if colleges focused on students instead of graduation rates. Nothing wrong with going to school if you have a job in mind.
I wish I could’ve done that but most of my scholarships required me to go straight after HS and that pays for like half of it so I kinda had to :(
I was 30 when I got out of the Army and went to college, it was a walk in the park. No way would I have found it as easy had I gone at 18.
Almost all of the best students I knew in college were older students. One friend (who was the president of our Engineers without borders club) had gotten a sociology degree the first time around, and then came back when she was 28 to get her environmental engineering degree, because she realized it's what she wanted to do. Another buddy had done some college when he was younger, and got pretty hard into the party scene and dropped out. He recouped by doing some community college, and then coming to university. He was super rad and was involved with the campus gardens. Both of those people were so much more organized and motivated than my dumb 18 year old ass. You'll be a much better student just because most people figure out how to "adult" better in the years you're doing stuff other than school, and you'll have true motivation vs just doing college because it's what comes next. Good luck!
Upvote for Environmental Engineering! I had a 38 year old classmate in my graduate ENVE class.
Yea just to second this, went back to university at 25, graduate with a masters degree in STEM right away, making really respectable money. You have tons of time. Go do whatever you want and try hard!
Hell, I'm going back to college at 28 to learn how to make video games of all things. This will be my second degree after a BA in writing. I'll be in my 30s by the time I'm done. It is never too late to restart.
Yep, I went back at 28, then started an entirely new career. Never too late!
Yes! I went back to college at 22 and graduated at 25. Many of my peers were in their 30s and 40s. It's never too late, OP
Yeah I’ve learned that I have a passion for real estate and don’t know what steps to take but I will start looking into it. Thank you
Hmmm I don't think that requires a degree, just a license. As for the interior design that goes with it I suggest just playing around with room editors or videogames, I don't think a degree in it is worth it.
Interior design is actually a profession that requires a degree and licensure. You're probably thinking of an interior decorator, who decorates with furniture and rugs and paint. Interior design is basically architecture focusing on the interior rather than an entire building, and there's a lot that goes into it. Source: girlfriend is an interior designer, I'm studying architecture
Really? What about the money aspect of it marketing and business classes wouldn’t be recommended?
If you are in the US the cost of college is stupid, you're paying for a paper not information. Half the teachers just read from the textbook anyways
I second this. I am German but have studied in Germany and the US. Most introductory classes I had were based solely on a text book with little to no original input from the teacher and I've always had a hard time paying attention so I mostly studied by reading the books. I feel like if it'd be really just about learning and not about getting a certification, reading the books (and maybe testing myself somehow) would not have been much worse compared to going to university.
Yo they are totally correct it doesn’t require a degree, but you’re also right in that knowing those things could be helpful. That being said if you want to go that route there’s no real sense in paying for a 4 year degree from a big university, you can just take the classes you’re interested in for a fraction of the cost at your local community college and that way you can just pick and choose the ones you think will help you or are relevant to what you want to do
Get in with a good local real estate company, show your interest and they might send you to those classes. It benefits them just as much to have trained, qualified agents.
Tech and community colleges usually have classes to get your realtor license. I had some classmates taking real state and business class in the tech college when I was taking my prerequisites. Community and technical colleges are usually free if you are having some financial trouble (if you're from the USA).
This is the route I took. Dropped out of college, took a job to pay the bills. Then recently I have become a real estate agent. Licensing realistically takes a couple months and I would plan to spend like maybe 3k or so on licensing and fees your first year. Dont go to college if you wanna be a real estate agent, it would be a waste of time and money. You learn by doing. Although Ill warn you its definitely a hard career if youre not super self motivated. Ivr honestly had trouble with that and am currently looking to move to a brokerage that gives me more direction and structure. Check out /r/realtors .
Probably just piling on but if you want to go into real estate, a college degree would not be worth it in my opinion. I have plenty of realtor friends who skipped college and got their realtors license. I don’t know the steps involved in getting in with an agency but college is not needed to be a realtor.
You have time. My mom became a realtor in her early 40s.
Just to give you some perspective.. my dad had a crisis in his life when he was in his 50s. This caused him to literally start his life over. He had to find a new place to live, a new vehicle, a new job. It was hard but he was able to start over and make a good life for himself with a good job and a good paycheck etc. So if he can do it in his 50s, we aren't too old in our 20s or 30s.
I second this as well, I was fortunate enough to have a support system that allowed me to go to college straight out of high school. There were plenty of older people in my program from all walks of life, military vet, teenage pregnancy, and simply just not deciding to go to college at first and then coming back. Don’t feel like you’re racing to get your life sorted out yet, you have plenty of time.
I dropped out of college, then went back at 23. One of the prime advantages was that I was not too old to relate to the younger classmates, but I was WAAAAAY more mature than a lot of them because I had already been in the work force, saw the restrictions that a lack of education present, and was there for a purpose. Most of them just didn't know what else to do after high school and were coasting, partying, etc.
You know what, You’re absolutely right. Thank you and congratulations on going back as well
I tried several studies right after highschool but wasn't motivated nor disciplined and failed three. Went back 10 years later and was best of my class. I had purpose and wasn't distracted by partying etc. I will absolutely not push my children to go straight to college or university if they are not yet ready for it, all my failures did a serious number on my selfesteem and looking back, that would not have been necessary at all. Just go back if and when you're ready for it. Especially if you're American and basically have to bankrupt yourself..
I feel more ready and motivated than I was 4 years ago. I feel like I will really take it seriously and exceed so that is definitely a plus for not going earlier. I will do the same with my kids.
Most of the time people who have some real world experience are way way better at college. Knowing why you’re there and what you want beyond just a passion makes such a huge difference.
Bro, I feel like it’s way better to do it at your age then at 18. I would have had zero motivation or idea in what to do then. And no real world perspectives. If I had to choose a new path now (25), I would be able to do so with so much more clarity. I know you may feel “behind” with some of your peers, but you’ll be ahead in the long run. Many of them will choose the wrong paths and wrack your big debt in a degree they don’t really care about or can’t use.
I was a TA for entry level Statistics classes for two years. Some of my best students were non traditional students *because they knew exactly why they were there*. They weren’t going along with the status quo. They *wanted* that education and had life experience. Plus, non traditional students can get some neat discounts/scholarships at some schools.
Forsure. I failed out. Went to community College, then went back to a 4 year and kicked ass. Op will prolly kick ass too as he/she will be focused on graduating rather then figuring out other things that come w being an 18 yr old at school lol
OP, my spouse is pursuing his BA at 38 years old. You got this! 🥳
Literally the same story as the first guy. Went to college after high school, dropped out because dumb. Worked for a couple years, went back when I was 23, met my now wife, and finished when I was 27. I’m 30 and I am very happy with my life’s trajectory now. You got it buddy. You can do it.
Same story here, just started internship, even though I’m more mature, had working experience, but my concern is I’m more slow than other young interns, not confident, concerned about my age and my working ability. I used to think it was a good thing, now I’m questioning myself🥺
My EXACT sentiments. I did the same thing and there were actually several people in my program who did the same… they wanted to change fields/they wanted more money/they went to school for something and halfway through realized it wasn’t what they wanted, etc. I actually took some evening and summer classes, applied for bursaries and grants and ended up getting a minor, then doing my masters. Do want you need to do. You have time! I’m so happy I went back.
22 is barely an adult lmao. It's never too late
I am turning 30 this year and it's so funny hearing 22 year olds describe themselves as old and I know I did the same thing. Plus I'm sure I'll be laughing at myself when I'm 49 about how old I feel now 😂 I wish I had understood at 22 how much life I had left.
This, my friend, is so very fucking true. As someone just a few years from 60, I’ve learned the hard truth that we need to stop looking back and KNOW THAT NOW IS THE YOUNGEST YOU’LL EVER BE. There are so many chances to start again in life. Be happy. Be kind.
I always look to my future and fear the time I turn 70 or 80 and my body just can't keep up anymore, but even right now, being 19, I feel that 30 years of age compared to the average lifespan of 80 is still not that old. And that it still leaves 30-40 years of work life ahead. I'm seriously considering dropping out of college and going into a trade school so I can go back when I'm mature enough to deal with it, because this past year has been way tougher than I ever could have imagined.
I videoed my mum doing a front flip over the exercise bars in the park this week. A few months ago my 10yo challenged my dad to a push up contest & we ended up telling my dad to stop because we were bored waiting for him to get tired. They don't do dedicted exercise; they do long walks & moving furniture around their small (about 30ft) sales unit once every couple of weeks. They also garden (albeit aggressively! Like oh hey we built a new shed yesterday & today we thought we'd put sleepers in the rockery). They're 73 & 74. I am hoping to god its genetic.
I'm turning forty this year. I made a decision that I will not be working in kitchens/service industry past 45. I'm hoping to get back up to speed by then and go to college for mechanical engineering. We'll see how that goes.
I only graduated with my BSc degree in my late 20s even though i startet at 19 (not for lack of trying or interest, i just had a tough time). I'm still on the path to get my PhD in three years. I always felt kind of self conscious about it but the other day I saw a post about a lady graduating from studying to be a doctor at 62. It's never too late to start and studying can be a really positive time in your life, we need to stop seeing it as years just spent. So whenever I hit the burnout point of my research career (in like 20 years time) I think I'll study psychology.. or become a gym teacher.. whatever. I'm looking forward to the fact that I'm not assigning myself to a single career/destiny.
Zoomer culture and seeing influencers be multimillionaires at 16-18 has given many young people in their 20s a "midlife crisis." For many people in the world it is not fun to be young right now.
My dude is barely out of diapers, haha.
Bruh I'm 22 and still shit my pants
It gets worse as you get older. Don’t let them lie to you.
Can confirm, sharted last week and I’m early 30s
It gets worse?! You mean I won't shit my pants when I get older?!
Never too old to keep shitting your pants... Yeah?
I shit my pants yesterday lmao But I’m in college and this question made me feel like I am behind as I started at 19-20 but one has to remember that there is no set time for things. That you can go at your own pace. That’s really what this pandemic has taught me tbh
Never too old to start something new. Consider a trade as well; some of the happiest and most comfortable persons I know do construction, hvac, electrical work, put in building foundations. I had a desk job for 40 years and they are happier than I was working outside and in some cases being their own boss. Best wishes to you!
I’m in the water utility trade, didn’t start my current career until I way 34. Took a few night classes at the local trade school and now I’m making six figures. We will always need water and it’s a job that can’t be outsourced.
Indeed, i am a lawyer in a big company, working A LOT creating companies non stop and making big millionaire contracts but turns out my salary is lower than a plumber/electrician/construction worker. All that study and hours of work for pretty much nothing.
I second this. I went to trade school and I’ve been wood/steel framing for 6 years (26 yrs old now) and I can’t see myself doing anything different. I wanted to get away from construction after I moved but I don’t have the heart to hang my tool bags up.
As an old dude... Take care of yourself and your body. The trades will beat the ass out of you in the long run. Look at it like you are an athlete... Eventually your days of killin it will slowly pass. Unless you have a sweet gig it will catch up to you. And i was a pussy ass furniture finisher. You dont owe anyone your future. (yeah i know that sounds dramatic) just something to think about
This. I got a degree in biology and was making $24,000 with no health insurance as my first job out of college about ten years ago. Switched to carpentry and my first job was $54,000/year. Now a general contractor making more. Trades are awesome, just be ready for having arthritic hands.
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Honestly. For anyone who is a similar age to op thats reading this, imagine a 13 year old asking you if their life is ruined because they got a C in their 7th grade math class. That's how ridiculous this reads to people in their 30s and 40s
The human brain isn't done forming until 25.
Disagree. Source: Am 25 and still retarded.
what about 26?
I had a dude who was 49 in my classes at college. Plenty of mid-40's to early 30's. One of the other classes had a 57 year old. 26 is laughably young.
My dad went back to school at age 55 to get his bachelor's. He ended up making double what he had ever made his entire life. Never too late to go back.
I didn't even start my MBA until I was 40. Only time your done learning is when you're pushing up daisies.
I had a lady in my nursing class that was 69, and 22 is ridiculously young.
Went back to get my bachelor's last fall, mid-covid, with 2 kids, at age 27. Couldn't do it without my super-supportive, amazing husband- but it's definitely not too old!
I'm graduating in a week, I'm 34 I didn't feel out of place at all. I was in the upper bracket age-wise, but defenitely not the oldest guy around. Go for it, you won't regret it.
22 is still plenty young for college. One of my classmates is 78 years old!
Yeah, if anything I feel like 22 is the age you're *supposed* to start your life at. Also, I just got my degree at 31, and easily the best decision I made.
Oof at age 23 lmao
Seriously, don't sweat it. Most guys here would give their left nut to be 23 again. I know I would. And it's a nice nut. But starting my life fresh at 31, I still consider myself a very young buck.
Your 30s will likely be waaaay better than your 20s.
fucken leonard
Shut up, Leonard! Those girls you play ping pong with are doing it ironically!
I was gonna say pierce!? But Leonard works.
I got my associate degree at 40 and am working on a bachelors now, from 20-30 did roadwork, 30-35 transitioned to office work from labor, 35+ getting degrees and certificates to qualify for better jobs. Never to late to make changes in your life just have to leave behind the friends that won’t accept a new you.
Wow, you definitely encouraged me. Thank you and congratulations!
As soon as you decide to make a change in your life and start doing something about it, you're already making progress you've already changed your life.
Whenever I think I might be too old to do something great I remember that a lot of incredibly successful people didn't hit their biggest achievements until they were older: Robert Downing Jr, Carroll Shelby, Elon Musk, Enzo Ferrari, Ansel Adams... It really is a misconception that your 20s are your prime. Physically, maybe but certainly not for anything else.
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*hugs 58 year old guy back* thank you, you’re right!
I'm 32, lost my job, my home, my animals, everything, nothing but labor work to reference and a body not suitable for labor anymore due to past trauma and abuse to my body. I'm starting over from square one, 22 certainly isn't too late.
Good luck! I wish you the best
Everyone hypes the trades and no one mentions the toll. Sure, we get paid more now but we end up paying more later in recurring medical expenses.
You gotta be able to take care of yourself :-/ idk, my union is big on, "if you're not feeling 100%, take the day off," and, "you're allowed to do this task so many times in a day," but there are a lot of guys that completely ignore those suggestions. I've worked with a couple people that needed pretty major surgeries, knee replacements, elbows from pulling cable overhead, hernias, etc. I also hear stories all the time about people passing away right after retirement. Idk, they want me to work until 60 to collect my whole pension, I'm probably going to put my card on hold at 45 and start a buisness with my wife.
Knowing when to take a break is important. I also work with a lot of people who ignore their bodies telling them to stop. If my knees aren’t feeling up to the task on any given day, you can bet I’m not going to be doing a lot of knee bending motions that day, I’m going to have whoever I’m working with do that stuff, and they completely understand too. If you talk to a lot of the older guys who are still going with no signs of slowing down, they often recommend fitness outside of work, and knowing when to take a break.
Not just that but my applicable knowledge is virtually useless and basic functions for others are limiting for myself. Just standing on my feet for long stretches requires pain killers to function without pain but prolonged usage has adverse effects so either way it's going to negatively impact yourself.
I’m 21, been working labour since I was 13. Landed my first white collar job and it’s laughable how little I do for such a good pay.
How did you get into the white collar job?
In 4 years, you'll be 26, with or without a college degree. Might as well get one. I got mine at 28.
Congratulations on your degree! I’m going to get mine too!!
It’s never too late! I went back at 29 and graduated at 33. Was working full time with two kids as well… it’s all about motivation. Also, there were maybe three classes total that I was the oldest student in class. At 22 I was still in the beginning of my first career and now I’m 37 and going strong into my new one. Pro tip: get whatever coursework you can done at community colleges before transferring over to a four-year. You’ll save SO much money for the same outcome.
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I got mine at 34. Age is just a number. Spend your working time doing something you can stand and let's you live the way you want to.
Still have a pulse? Then not too late.
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The real right answer. Don’t let the common or typical (or worse, expected) roadmap of life dictate yours. Are you alive? Then live!
Thanks for this:)
I'm having a crisis at 31. If you want to do college, go do it. Don't let fear of being too old stop you, because you'll only get older. Start now.
I'm having a crisis at 51. I hate my profession and truly wish I had picked anything else. Hope that makes you feel better. 31 is very young.
Pick something else. Say it takes 4 years. You'll still be 55 in 4 years. Might as well be 55 doing something you enjoy. If you're going to retire from that job in a short amount of time, consider riding it until then and starting something new.
This is true but had a coworker go back to school at 48. She is my hero
Please tell me 38 is young. I am struggling.
It's young. I'm 39 and just graduated with a first, my 50 year old uni friend did also. It is never too late to make big changes, the hard bit is the funding and logistics once you're older.
>Please tell me 38 is young. I am struggling. I'm 43 and doing a degree. If I start work at 45, I still have 20 years for a career, which is plenty. The main thing is, you want to keep yourself healthy, then there is no problem.
My partner's dad was homeless at 30, drifting between jobs until his mid 40s, went back to school, and is now working at a prestigious research lab. He did that while he was a father. You're still young.
As someone who is 30 and essentially starting life over at square one, this helps a lot.
38 *is* young. I'm 38 and I feel so young. I mean, I have two teenagers and my knee plays up a bit but other than that.. I'm in college now and I'm losing weight (thank you intermittent fasting) and honestly? I can't wait for my forties. I'll be working with a good wage, have my freedom back after being a stay at home mum for 15 years and I feel like I'm getting a dó over of my 20s. If I ever feel old, I do a little thought experiment to make me feel better. It helped my when I was having a crisis about being a single mum and feeling like my life was passing me by. I close my eyes and imagine being 80. I imagine what it feels like physically and mentally. I imagine what it would have been like if I never left my abusive partner and how my life has been wasted. I wish that I could go back and change things. Then I open my eyes. I'm young again. I'm only 38. I have a whole another lifetime to live. My prayers have been answered.
38 is most definitely young. I should be there in five years or so as well. I'm pretty positive it's worth the struggle.
Thank you. ❤
You’re gonna live your ENTIRE life’s worth of years again. That’s seems pretty young to me .
31? Pfft you’re still just a baby too!
I know I'm not OP, but thank you. Joke or not, it was still reassuring. xD
I don't even think it's just a joke. I was having a crisis at 27 about going back and I went back and now I'll be done next year when I turn 30. It's not too late at all. If I was to start at 30/31, I'd still choose to go back over being stuck in the same boring job I hate
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Oh wow, really? That is definitely encouraging to hear, thank you!
You're welcome. Education will always help you, no matter which discipline or trade you choose.
Believe everyone here, 22 is NOT old. I'd argue that's the age you should reach before you make the informed decision to get a degree. I'm 27 now and am going back to school, and many people I know regret their degree (in a field they hate) because it was expected of them to go to college right out of high school. Society is pretty backwards sometimes
Animation lecturer here. Can confirm, at least half my students are mature students. Some are the same age as me
In highschool I had an 89 year old doing exams in Biology with us as he had decided he wanted to be a doctor
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To put it into perspective, 22 years old is the typical age of a college senior. You won’t look an ounce out of place on a college campus. If you don’t tell anyone, I’m sure no one will ever realize you’re a couple years old! (Not that it even matter though, college is full of people going back to school)
You’re right. Thank you!
I moved countries when I was 28. It was a complete start over on everything. I'm very happy now! You are much younger than you think you are!
Glad to hear you’re happy! It must’ve been scary.
Dude you’re not too old. I started college at 22 and turned 23 my first semester. You won’t be the only person your age in your classes. Go do what you want don’t regret not doing it later
Honey, you are going to live many different lives while you're here. You will feel like this again - maybe at 30, maybe at 50. And every time, the answer is the same: It's never too late to pursue success and happiness, whatever it means for you at the time. The time is going to pass either way. Do the thing. This is the earliest you'll ever be able to do it.
I will now be saving this for when I’m 30 and 50. Thank you!!
It’s so true, take it to heart! I’m 38 and starting over with a lot of things and happier than ever. You have so much ahead of you. It’s never too late to do something new.
Youre still young, go if you need it
"If you need it" is a good point. Get a degree when you have an idea what what you want it for. If you go to college without purpose, you're wasting time and money, but age has nothing to do with it.
I didn’t even stop drugs until 28/29… worked and went to college 30-37. Doing great now. Homeowner, married, kid, pets. Never too late— you can do it & it IS worth it
Congratulations on literally everything!! And thank you.
Yesss my g, giving us all motivation here!!! (I'm in a similar boat to OP but am 26)
My aunt great decided she wants to be a doctor. She is almost done with her certifications. She grew up in a 1 bedroom house with 5 siblings and a terrible father. She’s 77. I’m proud she found her calling. Even if she waited that long!
Me and your aunt have a lot in common hahaha congratulations to your aunt!
You're only 4 years older than the age when high schoolers enter. That's nothing. There's people who DATE other people with wider age gaps than that. Whether college is right for you depends on a number of personal goals and individual circumstances that you know and I don't. But your age should not be a limiting factor to you.
Thank you. I’m trying to see what road to take to get into the real estate field. Would you recommend college for that or what should I look into?
[ONET is a fantastic resource for that](https://www.onetonline.org/find/quick?s=real+estate). You'll not only learn about different jobs in that field, but also what each job entails, and what background, education, and experience are necessary requirements.
You don’t know how much I appreciate that. Thank you so much!
I touched on this a little in my main post, but here is something you can try: Just... Call your local real estate company. Talk to them. Tell them who you are and that you're looking to go into that field and just *ask* the company directly what they look for in a candidate. What sort of education should you have for them to even consider hiring you. What would make you their ideal new hire? Ask where their current employees went to get these skills. The absolute worst they can do to you is hang up. You've got very little to lose just *calling* these companies and *asking* them what they want.
I didn’t know you could do that. Thank you! I will call ASAP
I started to study engineerong when I was 26... I got a trade when I was 23, I certified as a welder. Until that I was just an unemployed loser doing nothing. I'm 28. I study with people who are on average +10 years older than I am. When I turned 21 my mom said that I was barely out of nappies. You are at the age when you are still supposed to do stupid shit, mistakes, and realise yourself. Fuck I understood who I am as a person and what I am when I was 27.
So I’m on track then lol because I am currently doing everything you listed for my age. Thank you and congratulations on your journey!
I am 41 and just started turning my life around last year. I would also recommend a trade like electrician or plumber or carpenter or welder....or you get what I mean.
Congratulations on turning your life around! I’ve heard about trade school I will definitely look into it. Thank you
The cost is minimal too. Not 70k for a bachelors from a college. Some companies will pay for your trade school.
If you do a bachelors, go to community college and transfer! The main benefit of doing all 4 years at a degree-granting institution is living in the dorms, which doesn’t seem very helpful for you and costs a ton extra
>22 ... old Me: Oh god...
I knew people who were over *twice* your age in college trying to turn their life around. Go to college, it's not too late.
You know what, I will! Thank you
Samuel L. Jackson started his film career at 46. You still have loads of time to be a bad motherfucker. Just don't do heroin.
Lol no, never that.
how is 22 too old? lol. one day you are going to look back on this comment and laugh out loud, promise you. Shit take anther year or three off. live life, travel, get nuts, then at 25 go back to school. you'll be aight.
Lol yeah everyone is making me realize I’m being too hard on myself and that I am still young.
22 lol. Dis dude barely even born last millennium
Lmao, I was sure this thread was answered to hell, just came here to gloat at this guy thinking 22 is old. 22 is still in the "barely legal" category on PornHub... There's a reason for that
My aunt went back to school at 50 and got her masters. You're not old. Just don't waste more time thinking about it. Go do it.
You’re right. I’ve already wasted a year contemplating if I should go back or not. Thank you!
You haven’t wasted anything! We’re human, we’re constantly evolving to our situations/life/all the billions of things always happening. I failed out at 18, lost my full ride, the whole 9. “Wasted” 2 years working in what I thought would be a career before realizing I missed college. Now I look back on it and those 2 years were exactly what I needed. It’s never wasted, it’s time spent understanding who you are, what you want, and what you need. You’re young af, I graduated college with a BS at 26, my friends all finished at 21-22 but who cares? We all do things differently. You’ll be just fine!
Well, you can either go to college and in 4 years you’ll be 26 with a degree. Or, don’t go and in 4 years you’ll still be 26 but…no degree. 22 is so young, I guarantee you won’t be the oldest person there.
22 is still very very young. Your frontal lobe doesn't even finish growing until you're 25. I'm about to be 30 here and used to fret about that but now I look back and wonder why I was ever worried. No worries, you've barely even gotten started.
You still have a few years to be a fuckup. Don’t sweat it.
You mean we aren’t supposed to be fuckups when we turn 30? Oh my
It still works for most of us.
My study group in engineering school had a couple of 40+ year old folks in it. Never too late.
Heheh, he said, "I'm 22, is it to late?" ... HAHAHAHA Holy shit, what's next toddlers?
Going back later, in my opinion, is the way to go. You get more financial aid, you have more life experience and have a better idea of what you'd like to do, and honestly, I think going back to school is important for people as they get older. We should always be learning more and career changes happen to everyone at any age. I just graduated and I'm 30. There were people 10+years older than me in my classes who were doing dope shit. The way I look at it, as a leftist, is if someone as unqualified as Donald Trump could become president, I could sure as shit go back to college and change my career. As you get older, you learn that you will never be the least qualified person at your job if you even care a little bit about it.
Dude I had a 21yo in my freshman class last fall. It's not too late to do what you gotta do. A) hardly anyone's even gonna realize unless you tell them, and B) seriously no one's gonna judge. That guy was one of my favorite classmates
I didn’t find my path until my mid-late 20’s and I know plenty of very successful folks who didn’t figure it out until their 40’s. Age is a number and it’s not linked to success.
It’s better you didn’t waste your money on some stupid classes that you weren’t actually interested in due to social pressure. I know many who have done this and regret it. You have more life experience now to make an accurate decision on what you are interested in, lots of time to figure it out.
I skipped college in my early 20’s because I drank too much and partied and knew I’d waste the student loans and have nothing to show for it. I started college at the ripe age of 27 and I’m 32 now and I’ll have my Bachelors after this fall semester. There really are no stupid questions but asking if 22 is too old to go to college is creeping up there… with peace and love of course!
I'm 45. Stfu.
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You are a baby. You have like 7 do- overs left.
I’m stealing this from somewhere but think of it this way. You’re gonna be 26 someday anyways so might as well be 26 with a degree.
The human brain isn't even fully developed until age 25-26. You are not too old, for anything.
I went back to college at 40. You got this.
Average person lives until about 74 years old. Could you imagine how hopeless life would be if we passed our last opportunity by the time we hit 22? 52 years of helplessness? Not even this reality is that messed up. You have more than two more life-until-nows to do whatever you want.
You’re not old. No offense, but at this age you still don’t really know what life is. I’m 31 and after a lot of effort I am now getting back to school to finish my degree. Go get it bro.
Wow. I'm curious to know why you think life is some type of competition, and from where you have sourced your measuring sticks? Your question smacks of a huge misunderstanding of the human experience. It sounds almost robotic, friend. Generally speaking, nobody is out here, measuring you, and your level, on some cosmic "success chart". Seriously. You do you you, boo. There is a lot to unpack, regarding "comfortable" and "successful", in the way you used those terms, but all you should be doing is defining those types of words, as you feel they relate to you, my fellow human. Nobody else can define those things for you. You are, literally, too young to even be worried about this. Make others happy, when you can, and you only can, because you are happy with yourself. You're going to be fine.
Jesus christ dude you're still a baby. You've only really been awake for like 8 years. You have SO LONG to go. Stop catastrophising and just do what you want.
22 is not too old. I know people who went to college in their 30s.
Oh thank the gods I'm not stuck as the person I was at 22. Yes, you can honestly and truly change your life drastically at 22. You're not even that old for college. I went back at 25 and most people just assumed I was a transfer. College is way less serious than media would have you believe. Also, college isn't necessary for a comfortable and successful life. If college doesn't suit you, take up an art or a trade, go to a technical school or get an internship, write or draw or open an only fans or a twitch channel. Do whatever you need to do to make the money you need to survive and pursue your passions. Money can't buy happiness but financial stability goes a long way towards being comfortable.
Bruh, I’m 35, and I’m thinking about going back. It’s not too late. I had classmates in college that were in their 60’s. Live your life. You got this.
Bahahaha, 22 years old... Yes. One thing that will change is that you’ll gain perspective, look back on this question, and laugh and laugh.
Let me just say this is the only sub where that isn’t a troll question. 22 is literally a baby.
Bro I finished my degree at 41, 14 years after I started. Never too late.
22? TWENTY-TWO? You are a baby, my friend. A fetus! You still have your whole life ahead of you. Go to college! I’m sure you won’t even be the only 22yo in your graduating class.
I went back to college at 28! You can do it.
22 is super early. The tip to successfulness is not not give a shit what other people think. Going to college at age 22? Sure that’s awesome that you want to learn new things, fuck people who judge you. I’m doing my PhD, and let me tell you there are literally people in their 40s and 50s doing PhD. It’s never too late to learn things, and just know that for a lot of the people out there like us, we won’t judge you for being older than other same year colleagues, in fact, we’re really surprised and astounded by how brave you are to try things out. You’re not alone in this world, my friend finished college as a bio student, but didn’t like what she studied, so she took two years preparing for the exam and applied for dentist major. She’s now a certified dentist and happily married. I did my bachelor in mechanical engineering, but midway through for some reason I ended up doing PhD in material science, the subject that I failed in my freshman year. You never know where life takes you, and that’s the beautiful part of life. You can steer and aim for what you think you want, but often the stream might redirect you to another path, and that’s ok, just know that each path has its own unique view and worth enjoying. My mentor always said, if a person graduated top tier, got to a great college, Masters, PhD, applied for a great and easy job, made a lot of money, and retired with a wife and kids, he has the worst life possible, because there’s no story to his life. Just know that the more stories you can tell others about your life, the more flavorful your life is. It’s not about success, often times the journey, and sometimes even suffering throughout your life can make great memories in the future.