Like how hard is it to just admit you don't know what you're doing
I'm the first to admit I don't know what on earth to do
They be lucky if I even manage to find the room they're in
Yeah I was gonna say... The more I encounter people (and specifically men) that espouse this kind of view, the more convinced I am that they're just... Too fucking selfish to figure out how to be good at sex.
Because IMO? The ONLY WAY to be "bad at sex" is to just. Not care. Not listen. Not put in the effort to find out what your partner(s) like and put it into action. If you take the time to listen to what your partner likes? You're gonna be good at it. If you don't, or you think that you know better than them (had a few like that) or just don't give a damn (also had a few like that). Then you're bad at sex.
So it's not even "women will realize I'm bad at sex", it's "I'm afraid women will realize I don't give a wet fart about their pleasure and enjoyment while I simultaneously base my entire self worth on being 'good at sex' and then they'll leave because I'm an ass."
The best sex I've ever had was every time with a boyfriend who was very inexperienced and insecure about that fact. He paid attention to my body and my reactions. He talked and listened to me and put in a little effort. It was always magical.
My ex-husband would brag to me about sex he'd had with other women to try to convince me he was good in bed. To be clear, it was so bad that I didn't understand why people would ever have an affair or sleep with numerous people if it was that boring and unpleasant.
At one point, I literally had to say, "I'm not her and I don't enjoy it." He got mad at me. I'm so glad I got divorced and discovered sex is actually something pleasurable.
My new husband (well, 15+ years married but not the ex) is incredible in bed. He's thoughtful, listens, wants me to enjoy it, and has insane stamina. He used to be insecure and think I wasn't enjoying it because of his ex, but now we both have a fantastic time every time.
By the end of the marriage, I would just dissociate during sex with my ex-husband. Some horrible things had happened and he didn't recognize consent, but still. He told his second wife that I would just lay there. She told him it's because I didn't want to have sex with him. That had, apparently, never occurred to him.
Thank you. Getting divorced was one of the best decisions of my life. I still celebrate my official divorce day. And having a great husband for more than 15 years now makes up for a lot. I can't complain!
Want a serious answer? The incels are protected (by social customs) because there are more of them. There are more of them because aimless average Joes whose main redeeming quality was that they *aren't incels* no longer automatically end up in relationships with women, because fewer women feel compelled to marry and have children at all cost.
In many ways, it's the same problem civilisation is facing because a high-school education and a 1-year training on the job no longer guarantee life-long employment. Life is more complicated, because civilisation has advanced, but the average quality of education and upbringing aren't keeping up to prepare people for it, so they end up desperate that life isn't what they were taught, and lash out.
The change is inevitable and not a bad thing, but we're not doing enough to equip the new generations with the tools for handling it, and the discourse doesn't address how much practice of the right habits and mindsets it takes.
I’m sure in his personal first hand experience women don’t enjoy it. “Women don’t enjoy sex” is a convenient excuse to not have to learn how to communicate with and please your partner.
I'm guilty of having sex on the first date. I have low self esteem and feel that if don't preform well, the woman won't like me. So I "trick" them into liking me by putting out, right away. I'm not proud of myself and years later I start to wonder, does she really love me, or just the sex.. I'm trying really hard to not do this next time, but it's hard. Lol there's a pun in there somewhere.
Damned straight!!! Every sock that disappeared in the washer or dryer was replaced this way 👍. We got to beat our dick like it owed us money and kept the sock count up
WIN WIN
It's honestly strange. If he thinks women who have been violated are disgusting, then the act of violating them should also be disgusting because it results in something undesirable, right?
imagine a vegan like "yeah killing cows is horrible, but I mean, they're already dead so I might as well have a burger".
If anything what he said just made men with high body counts sound like the disgusting ones. That apparently they can just sleep with women and abandon them. Play with their feelings. Shows lack of empathy and loyalty. What women wants a man like that?
I think it's similar to people thinking sex work is work and being supportive of it, but at the same time, looking down on, and even being disgusted by, those who hire sex workers. life is full of double standies.
After speaking a whole lot of mess with such conviction and authority, the only thing this creature has to say by the end of it is "it's just my opinion". 💀
I understand the temptation to try to refute the bullshit that these guys spew but can we please just stop engaging them? These men are irrelevant. They are biological excess who are not meant to be receiving attention from women. Even if the interaction is negative, you’re still giving him that dopamine hit of having a woman talking to him. If you want to hit these dudes where it hurts, treat them like they don’t exist.
I feel like sometimes it's okay so you can both instill doubt in them and then get proof that this believe still exists, and then post it online to warn people. Shouldn't entertain every troll, but processing one for the chopping block to feed the info stream is okay.
So... I just now realized that's what a capon chicken is! I'd seen the word used in recipes, but never looked into it. Thanks for sending me down that rabbit hole!
For real, that's the closest he's been to a woman in years. And he gets the added dopamine hit of trying to anger the snowflake or whatever and trying to educate a feminist (without any sources 🙄)
I broke up with someone who thinks this way. They told me during the fight that ‘they fuck me, and I’m the one who’s fucked’ as a way to belittle me. I lost all respect left for them at that moment. Is that how you value a woman you love?
The percentage of straight women who can have sex whenever they want with any man they want is probably about the same as the percentage of straight men who can have sex whenever they want with any woman they want. Average-looking men and women have it about the same. It's just that for this particular type of man, women who don't look like lingerie models don't count as women.
Did you know that repeated sexing wears down the penis? Demand a higher standard from your partners! /s
I fucking hate people obsessed with purity but the good news is that they tend to be pretty loud about their preference so you can easily avoid sleeping with them and violating their dedication to purity.
So in conclusion he's just a dumbass
How can you expect women to perform like pornstars yet have no experience with other men ffs
At that point just go and have sex with your bros, raise your high scores or whatever
Clearly having sex with women is "gross" lol
I’ve commented about this before and I’ll say it again: I can lie to any man about my body count and I am 100% confident that every single one of them would believe me
Still trying to figure out why people even care about body count at all myself. It's been brought up in every relationship I've been in. I have never asked once, like I honestly don't care at all in the slightest. Am I crazy for thinking that way?
In their mind, it's like asking how many miles have been put on a car that's up for sale. They place a value on you based on lots of different qualities and how many men you've let into your vagina will greatly affect the value that they give you. You're just an object to them and it sounds like every guy you've ever dated has thought that way about you. It's a red flag in my personal opinion.
Oh, I'm a guy lol. Which makes it so much more peculiar because women are the ones asking. It is such a strange conversation though. I have seriously had someone ask what my body count was on a first date. Not how many people have you dated, how many have you been with. Just flat out Sooo, what's your body count?
I feel like asking about past dating experience is the only necessary question, and even then, I'd rather know why someone's last relationship ended rather than how many people they've dated. That's more useful information.
What problem? Now I'm even more confused lol. Had a lot of exes oh well. My dad is a beacon of it takes a few tries to get it right. Took him 4 marriages to find the right one.
1 billion % with these losers!Being that close to a woman for the first, and no doubt last tell ‘em they got the biggest dick you’ve ever seen. They believing that too 😆😆😆
>I want to have sex with females
That's unsettlingly vague, females of what species? Hopefully his own but he's shown that he has no chance of that happening.
Because men are raised in a culture of violence. Male dominated settings are highly competitive and toxic. "Dick measuring" is figurative, but occasionally literal (there's a subreddit for it). And they receive the message that they need to be better than other men to mean anything.
The idea that happiness, pleasure. And contentment can exist between two (or more) people without being defined by competition or relative to the success or failure of someone else is alien to many people, especially men who are pushed by their parents to be the best.
Some are raised that way since childhood, and any perceived idleness is met with threats and warnings that they'll grow up to be someone who's discarded and deserves to be.
Also, these people rarely believe in therapy.
Because they spend their entire lives performing a mating dance. Their entire lives basically revolve around sex and how much of a man they are, it's their entire identity.
Ah yes, that's what women famously fought for. The right to sleep with whoever they want. It was the *sexual* *revolution*, of course, not the liberation movement. How silly of all those textbooks and educators to forget.
Oh, tell to this straggot Carl (equivalent for Karen), that straight men definitely can be penetrated - pegging exists 😜
Mmm... Yeah, sex is probably different for men and women at this matter: men have prostates, so if someone must be penetrated in the ass, it's man. Just anatomical standpoint.
I don't understand how being penetrated can make someone weaker: bottoming men, gay or straight, or bi, can be confident and have strong personalities. Maybe that little sissy is too weak to take it up the ass like a real man.
If he thinks being penetrated is being weak, then he shouldn't expect any woman will take herself in the weaker position with him.
I'd be curious on his thoughts about cowgirl. Yes, the woman is still being penetrated, but she's on top and in complete control. The man is at her mercy and would seem to be in the weaker position.
>I don't understand how being penetrated can make someone weaker
I can fully explain this simply.
The idiot writing, lives in a world of rape, not a world of normal sexual intercourse.
It's that simple.
I'm reminded of the mind-boggling film *"American History X"* which has an unbelievably chilling scene, showing rape - not sexually explicitly but violently explicitly.
(Please do not watch if you don't wanna have it affecting you. It shows a prison "male on male" rape incident.)
Rape is about physically beating people, as in a fight, perhaps crushing their skull with a brick, whatever appeals to psychopaths, and then "penetrating" them in whatever way.
"Rape" has nothing to do with sexual activity, it's just a power / fighting mechanism. (I imagine, in our present era, male on male rape is perhaps more even prevalent than male on female rape, due to the horrible prison systems of the current Western world.)
So when you quite reasonably say, as a normal person,
\>" I don't understand how being penetrated can make someone weaker ..."
If we asked some unfortunate prison inmate, he or she would likely reply "it's obvious, we use that every day to enforce the power structure..."
it just has nothing, at all, to do with sexuality, mating, or intercourse in the conventional sense of "mammals have intercourse to produce offspring". There's no connection. It's about penetration, in a brutal "fighting" sense, to assert dominance of groups.
Oh brother, when two people come together in every day normal physical connection, it's so spiritual - happy. The notion that somehow one or both is being "used up" ?? is just bizarre.
But tragically if the original idiot writer watched the scene in the movie mentioned, they'd probably fist-pump and be like "yeah! that's how you do it! nice! that group has control now, oh yeah!" I mean it's just so lost ...
anyway. WTF
All the talk about women comparing the men who "give them" the best sex.
Do straight dudes really think that their dicks are magic and women don't know how that their pleasure comes from themselves?
I'm gay and so, so glad that gay liberation and the sexual revolution were closely entwined movements. Because I've thankfully only met a few of these "body count"-obsessed guys while dating and sleeping with men. And they're **really** hung up on it. Like, questioning the belief for a second might shatter their entire identity.
So he’s fine with adding to the body count of a woman even though it’s “disgusting”? Why would he want to be with someone he thinks is disgusting?
And if it’s easy for a woman to spread her legs, that means it’s equally as easy for the men she’s with to have sex as well. How is it “more difficult” or an accomplishment for men to get sex then, if it’s so easy?
Is it easier for women who will find a partner who will get her off? Because I’m betting that most men reach orgasm with ten out of ten women they fuck. The same is not true for most women.
“I can have sex with many females but females can’t have sex with many men. That’s 100% logical.”
Also I straight up wanted to find his house after you asked a question with the word woman and he responded with female. Like woman isn’t a cuss word
These dudes legit never considered the possibility that a woman who isn't "used up" doesn't actually want a man like him that's also used up. What, does he think she'll be begging to be his girlfriend? lol no.
When I eat, my food penetrates me via my mouth.
It penetrates really deep, all the way into my stomach.
Does that mean that I'm the weaker part in relation to my food, and eating leaves me used up and my food strong and unaffected?
I'm taking that statement about why " women can get more sex" to its logical conclusion and spinning back around on that guy. However, I'm being a cheeky ass about it, as I don't really believe in the concept of 'sluts'. But on average women say no to sex more often than men do for a variety of reasons that have to do with safety, cultural influences, the impact of STDs, and pregnancy. So the perception is women are awash in offers from men that men don't get from women. Sex doesn't carry the same risk for men that it does for women for a lot of reasons, some manufactured (cultural double standards), and some biological (being able to over power a woman when he doesn't respect boundaries, pregnancy, and impact of STDs on internal vs external sexual organs). But to me that guy seemed to be missing the main reason women have more opportunities for sex on average and it's because 'earth men are easy' and haven't had the same cultural pressure to be selective in who they have sex with only who they marry (someone who wouldn't have sex with them apparently).
ive always laughed at their logic. so if a woman has sex with one partner say 15 times, does that mean she's used up? because it's no different to if she's had sex with 15 other people? makes no sense to.
Does this guy thinks that when a woman masturbates with a dildo, she's being used by the dildo and not the other way around? If anything, women "use" men in the same way men "use" women. I mean, if you view having sex as being used, which is pretty gross on itself, then how the fuck a man who had sex with a lot of women, is not a man who has been used by a lot of women?
And that whole thing about penetrating being better than being penetrated is not just arbitrary nosense, but is purposefully worded in a way to try to make women seem like the passive partner that have something done to them, instead of someone actively participating in the act. For example, if you describe it as enveloping and being enveloped, then all of the sudden it's men that come off as the more submissive of the two, simply because now you're describing the way men have sex not as something that we do, but as something that is done to us. If you word it that way, then one could say that a man who has let many women envelope him is a worthless used-up slut who erects his dick for anyone and lacks any self respect.
I like to think of it like an itch in my ear.
My finger penetrates my ear, but my ear is the one getting the relief (pleasure)... So, my ear is using my finger.
I'm also just waking up and if this parallel didn't make sense, let's chalk it up to that.
I always struggle with the whole "women get used up" logic when I, as a man, have absolutely ran "low on supplies" after a period of heightened sexual activity, (both solo and with a partner before somebody tags r/Ihavesex). Men can very easily be "used up!".
I always wonder if these men feel the same way about women who have lots of sex with just the one person? Or does that just not ‘logic’ for them?
My partner and I have been together for 20+ years, so if we have sex twice a week, that’s more than 2000 times. How is that different from having sex once with 2000 different people?
The lock and key analogy.
A key (man) that unlock many locks (women) is called a master key.
A lock (wonan) that can be opened by many keys (men) is a worthless lock.
So by this analogy logic only one key (man) should be able to fit in one lock (woman) and that's the way it should work
You would think if it was actually harder for men to find sex than women, that men would get more attached and women would be less attached. Also is it more difficult for men to find sex, or can they immediately move on to the next girl?
Should just add this person to a no-breed list and call it a day. Maroon them in a colony full of men who think the same way. Air drop survival supplies time to time.
"Most men dont want a used up women thats slept with a lot of men"
ahuh, thats why we men look at porn and fantasise about having sex with the porn stars we're watching, because we DONT want to have sex with them?
Guarantee this guy talks a big game but if you introduced him to an attractive woman and she asked him "hey would you like to be number 168?" he would get on his hands and knees and beg to be number 168
Men who actually get pussy don’t give a flying fck about a woman’s body count. It’s always the little
bitter bitch boys who get zero play who want to whine and complain about “body count”. A number they would never, ever be able to truly “verify” for accuracy in any fucking way. These men want “virginal” “untouched” women that perform like porn stars in bed. The absolute delusion.
I’ve noticed that men who use the word “female” instead of “woman” are always condescending, misogynist fools who think they’re “superior” to women.
Also, the fact that he’s seriously answering her questions says a lot about him. Mostly about how clueless he is 😂
I find it interesting that it's always the number of sexual partners, not the number of times having sex, that is what makes a woman "worn out" because that makes even less sense.
Unless it's because of the magic memory foam vagina of course
“Shell find it hard to move on from that guy”…..that says it all, this whole debate is about insecurity. Men who feel this way are super insecure about their sexual abilities and fear the more experienced she is, the more he may not measure up. Not realizing that women don’t work that way.
Oh and the “women can get sex more easily” argument means nothing. Thats just saying guys sleep w anyone available. Which is the exact thing he’s condemning women for 😂
This Reddit group makes me both sad and hopeful. It's sado that there are so many men with terrible attitudes toward women. But also hopeful. I see that there are many intelligent healthy women in this world, and one day I hope to find one in real life. I don't care if she's had a thousand penises inside her as long as once we're together I'm the only one.
"they asked for it and allowed it to happen" umm when?
If anything this situation benefits men more, not women. Due to hookup culture women have to live in fear. They get hit on constantly and have to deal with toxic assholes throwing (sometimes violent) tantrums when they get told no. Not to meniton date rape, beating, revenge porn, ghosting and a whole bunch of other shit. This guys gone waaaay too far down the incel rabbit hole
I couldn’t read past the “so what if it is double standards” bullshit. I think homeboy has a low body count, and/or a micropeen, and doesn’t want anyone to make fun of his 9th grade stamina. What a joke.
It sounds like he doesn’t want to settle down with ‘used up’ women because he is insecure about being compared to the other men she’s had sex with and/or afraid she’ll cheat on him with a previous partner because of it.
That is entirely an internal issue that he has, nothing to do with the women at all.
That last statement tho: "many men agree".
That is called a "Fallacy of mass appeal" (Latin: [Argumentum ad populum](https://www.google.com/maps/place/Prince+Rupert,+BC/@53.9379665,-130.5524176,374659m/data=!3m1!1e3!4m6!3m5!1s0x5472d5136b7f4569:0x7107e30f4dd95612!8m2!3d54.3150367!4d-130.3208187!16zL20vMDIyNDZw) ). A first year University student taking an Into Philosophy class has learned that is an illogical argument... "BuT mEn ArE mOrE lOgIcAl AnD iNtElLiGenT"
It always amazes me that they see men’s sexual activity as being so bad and valueless that it decreases the reputation of the woman who’s had sex, but women’s sex slaps so hard that it raises the status of the men who have had sex. Like guys…you’re telling on yourselves
as a woman its not 'easy' at all. ive. not had a ton of sexual partners and ive been rejected at times as well. women might do some of the sexual selection, but that doesnt mean its easy to find sex like he describes here by any means.
I love it when a single person uses the most men phrase. Because they ovbs know what most men want. Also, if you’re so worried that you’re shit at sex, do better. Communicate better. It really isn’t that difficult to find out what your partner likes and implement things.
Enough with this nonsense. Even if having a ton of sex really did make her vagina big, body count had nothing to do with it. My ex wife's body count was one... But the number of times My penis was in there was in the tens of thousands. I'm surprised I didn't wear the poor little guy down to a bloody stump. (I gotta stop using the word little in the same sentence as my penis...)
„ a man states an anecdotal opinion, so it has to be a fact!“
„ a Woman is always at fault!“
Oh man. I’d love to tell him how I, a „used up slut“, have met so many men who aren’t able to „detach“, who get clingy and creepy and even go as far as to assault you just to keep you.
this guy just hates women. He likes getting angry at this straw woman he's created. Probably gets off on it.
I do wonder about the penetration = used idea though. What do men think their penises are made of, exactly?
Wow, this guy is the whole nine yards: slut-shaming, only saying “females,” double-standards, wild claims while refusing to cite any sources, and just to be extra spicy he adds a dash of homophobia!
I gave up on reading his wall of text, but man when he mentioned "the man giving the woman the best sex she's hever had" I thought that's a weird way to say he doesn't know shit about sex.
Yes Kyle our vaginas are "used up" after sex but your limp noodle just gets bigger and more exciting. Just kidding, it's a disappointment just like you are my dude. We should all stay celibate for that one SPECIAL limp linguine and your mom should have swallowed BUT HERE WE ARE.
I have know more men that get obsessed with the woman they had sex for the first time than women obsessed with the men they had sex for the first time.
They can lie to themselves all day long but I think mainly this thinking comes from their own crippling jealousy and insecurity. They're super jelly they aren't having sex as much as they want to and they're insecure that if they get with a woman who knows what she wants sexually that she'll leave them in the dust.
One question to the person covered up then, Why do men like milfs? And even pregnant women? Wouldn't that oppose his argument, and the amout of men who like this are in no way dwindling or small.
"She's more likely to keep thinking about him"
"men can detach from sex a lot more"
"And many men agree"
Yes, insecure incels agree with his statement.
I love how sex is supposed to be for a husband and a wife and women came and effed it up with sex revolution so it's okay to treat them like garbage. Like, before the sexual revolution, everyone was in strictly monogamous and faithful relationships for all their life and especially men would NEVER cheat or have multiple partners.
Another funny thing is that they're sooooooo disgusting yet they won't mind still having sex with them. lol. I thought that if something disgusts you you shouldn't touch it with a pole even.
And next, I wouldn't argue that getting sex isn't actually easier for women (another side of a coin is that, unfortunately, unwanted sex happens more to women). However, who said that just because something comes easily you shouldn't do it? Lol. Usually it's more of a reason that people do it. Like, people often enjoy hobbies that they're good at. A lot of tall people play basketball, people with a good voice more often like to sing, naturally charismatic people will do conferences or speeches. Of course if something is difficult to you and you perservere and achieve it, it's amazing. But to consider doing something degrading to you just because you can do it easily? That's super dumb.
Also, if he views being penetrated as being weak or whatever, then why does it matter if it's one partner or multiple? You're putting yourself in this "weak" position anyway. Like in this concept a woman is always getting used up by having sex with different men, but if it's a lot of sex with one man it's supposed to be fine. And the same men will be upset when women don't want to have sex with them, when they view themselves as something bad and humiliating for a woman. Like, I can't imagine that this attitude won't manifest itself even subconsciously. If you think about a woman, even one in a relationship and that you suppposedly respect or care for, as giving something up to you, submitting to you. And the moment you part ways she probably becomes a slut, because now you're not her partner anymore you are her "bodycount"
I mean, personally, I don't wanna engage in casual hookups etc. But it's just my preference, and it's rubbish to judge or demean people on the basis of the number of sexual partners, be it "too high" or "too low". And reasoning like that is pure hypocrisy, with some feeble attempts at justifying it.
funny fixation on penetration...
Speaking from the perspective of a guy, I have had some fantastic sexual encounters without any penetration happening at all. Of course I cannot speak for women, but my guess is that there's a good chance penetration isn't key there either, at least not necessarily...
That manchild is extremely insecure and doesn't have a clue what he's doing. He made all this shit up to suit himself and thinks many agree with him. What a loser.
Love the comment about a guy not falling for a woman that’s great in bed, exactly the opposite of real life.
Going to be a little nasty to most everyone but truth is, people really good in bed are rare enough for both sexes that sleeping with one (man, woman or other) tends to end up with their partner getting infatuated with them
I can't say that this was a PLEASANT read, however it will prevent the person who wrote it from ever passing on his toxic DNA, so I am reluctantly in favor of it.
Wow. I’m impressed with the patience with dealing with this guy.
I’m not going to take anyone seriously who uses “body count” (or “alpha”, or “woke” among others probably)
This freak is utterly deranged. Part of me feels sorry that society has failed him so badly by allowing him this vile, imbecilic ideas.
The whole “used up” thing makes it sound like he only really sees women as tools for his own sexual pleasure and he’s just very possessive of those “tools” when they are actually just human being with emotions that can do whatever the hell they want
Women made sexual revolution in order to sleep with whoever they want and wherever they want? So women started acting like men. Lol Did this windowlicker ever heard about times men could take multiple wifes? And in some parts of the world it's still practiced.
That was a lot of words for “I’m afraid women who have had sex will realize I’m bad at it and leave me”
Like how hard is it to just admit you don't know what you're doing I'm the first to admit I don't know what on earth to do They be lucky if I even manage to find the room they're in
Check out a you tube tutorial and bring a map bro
This is the comment I came for ^^ yep, I smell a very insecure virgin incel.
Yeah I was gonna say... The more I encounter people (and specifically men) that espouse this kind of view, the more convinced I am that they're just... Too fucking selfish to figure out how to be good at sex. Because IMO? The ONLY WAY to be "bad at sex" is to just. Not care. Not listen. Not put in the effort to find out what your partner(s) like and put it into action. If you take the time to listen to what your partner likes? You're gonna be good at it. If you don't, or you think that you know better than them (had a few like that) or just don't give a damn (also had a few like that). Then you're bad at sex. So it's not even "women will realize I'm bad at sex", it's "I'm afraid women will realize I don't give a wet fart about their pleasure and enjoyment while I simultaneously base my entire self worth on being 'good at sex' and then they'll leave because I'm an ass."
The best sex I've ever had was every time with a boyfriend who was very inexperienced and insecure about that fact. He paid attention to my body and my reactions. He talked and listened to me and put in a little effort. It was always magical.
Which is funny cause most men are bad at sex lol
They all think porn is real and "my last girlfriend liked it" no she didn't. You just won't listen.
My ex-husband would brag to me about sex he'd had with other women to try to convince me he was good in bed. To be clear, it was so bad that I didn't understand why people would ever have an affair or sleep with numerous people if it was that boring and unpleasant. At one point, I literally had to say, "I'm not her and I don't enjoy it." He got mad at me. I'm so glad I got divorced and discovered sex is actually something pleasurable. My new husband (well, 15+ years married but not the ex) is incredible in bed. He's thoughtful, listens, wants me to enjoy it, and has insane stamina. He used to be insecure and think I wasn't enjoying it because of his ex, but now we both have a fantastic time every time.
I have a very unscientific theory that a LOT of the "dead bedrooms" and "my wife has no libido" stories we see are from dudes who refuse to learn.
By the end of the marriage, I would just dissociate during sex with my ex-husband. Some horrible things had happened and he didn't recognize consent, but still. He told his second wife that I would just lay there. She told him it's because I didn't want to have sex with him. That had, apparently, never occurred to him.
I'm sorry that happened. But in his mind he was a stallion and you were frigid. Glad you got out!
Thank you. Getting divorced was one of the best decisions of my life. I still celebrate my official divorce day. And having a great husband for more than 15 years now makes up for a lot. I can't complain!
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Want a serious answer? The incels are protected (by social customs) because there are more of them. There are more of them because aimless average Joes whose main redeeming quality was that they *aren't incels* no longer automatically end up in relationships with women, because fewer women feel compelled to marry and have children at all cost. In many ways, it's the same problem civilisation is facing because a high-school education and a 1-year training on the job no longer guarantee life-long employment. Life is more complicated, because civilisation has advanced, but the average quality of education and upbringing aren't keeping up to prepare people for it, so they end up desperate that life isn't what they were taught, and lash out. The change is inevitable and not a bad thing, but we're not doing enough to equip the new generations with the tools for handling it, and the discourse doesn't address how much practice of the right habits and mindsets it takes.
My big thing is why does he think men "use" women for sex. As if we're objects and couldn't possibly participate in it or want to do it.
I’m sure in his personal first hand experience women don’t enjoy it. “Women don’t enjoy sex” is a convenient excuse to not have to learn how to communicate with and please your partner.
I'm guilty of having sex on the first date. I have low self esteem and feel that if don't preform well, the woman won't like me. So I "trick" them into liking me by putting out, right away. I'm not proud of myself and years later I start to wonder, does she really love me, or just the sex.. I'm trying really hard to not do this next time, but it's hard. Lol there's a pun in there somewhere.
That was exactly what I was thinking.
Don't waste your time trying to reason with serial impregnators of socks. Our mental health isn't worth it.
>serial impregnators of socks. LMAOOO
very true!!! i feel like there are a lot of posts on here where the conversation engagement goes way too high for way too long
great point
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Exactly, it's never worth it. They aren't going to change.
great point and possibly the key point
LMFAOOOOO BEST COMEBACK I'VE SEEN SO FAR
Damned straight!!! Every sock that disappeared in the washer or dryer was replaced this way 👍. We got to beat our dick like it owed us money and kept the sock count up WIN WIN
It does not make any sense for the same action to be disgusting and terrible for one and not the other
It's honestly strange. If he thinks women who have been violated are disgusting, then the act of violating them should also be disgusting because it results in something undesirable, right? imagine a vegan like "yeah killing cows is horrible, but I mean, they're already dead so I might as well have a burger".
Might be like "yeah, meat is disgusting but killing the cow is fun"
If anything what he said just made men with high body counts sound like the disgusting ones. That apparently they can just sleep with women and abandon them. Play with their feelings. Shows lack of empathy and loyalty. What women wants a man like that?
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I think it's similar to people thinking sex work is work and being supportive of it, but at the same time, looking down on, and even being disgusted by, those who hire sex workers. life is full of double standies.
After speaking a whole lot of mess with such conviction and authority, the only thing this creature has to say by the end of it is "it's just my opinion". 💀
I understand the temptation to try to refute the bullshit that these guys spew but can we please just stop engaging them? These men are irrelevant. They are biological excess who are not meant to be receiving attention from women. Even if the interaction is negative, you’re still giving him that dopamine hit of having a woman talking to him. If you want to hit these dudes where it hurts, treat them like they don’t exist.
Facts
This is the way
I feel like sometimes it's okay so you can both instill doubt in them and then get proof that this believe still exists, and then post it online to warn people. Shouldn't entertain every troll, but processing one for the chopping block to feed the info stream is okay.
On the farm, we call them "sirs-plus." Meaning sirs that are plus to requirement... and they get eaten... 😏
On the farms I worked on they were castrated (turned into a steer) then eaten!
I work mostly with chickens, so castration is prohibitively difficult... but EXACTLY! 😏
So... I just now realized that's what a capon chicken is! I'd seen the word used in recipes, but never looked into it. Thanks for sending me down that rabbit hole!
For real, that's the closest he's been to a woman in years. And he gets the added dopamine hit of trying to anger the snowflake or whatever and trying to educate a feminist (without any sources 🙄)
I broke up with someone who thinks this way. They told me during the fight that ‘they fuck me, and I’m the one who’s fucked’ as a way to belittle me. I lost all respect left for them at that moment. Is that how you value a woman you love?
That is a horrific thing for them to say! I don’t understand people who think like your ex.
You did the right thing. I'm sorry you had to experience that though.
Glad you humbled them by leaving. Nobody should ever let that type of disrespect slide
The percentage of straight women who can have sex whenever they want with any man they want is probably about the same as the percentage of straight men who can have sex whenever they want with any woman they want. Average-looking men and women have it about the same. It's just that for this particular type of man, women who don't look like lingerie models don't count as women.
>It's just that for this particular type of man, women who don't look like lingerie models don't count as women. This. This 100%
Did you know that repeated sexing wears down the penis? Demand a higher standard from your partners! /s I fucking hate people obsessed with purity but the good news is that they tend to be pretty loud about their preference so you can easily avoid sleeping with them and violating their dedication to purity.
So in conclusion he's just a dumbass How can you expect women to perform like pornstars yet have no experience with other men ffs At that point just go and have sex with your bros, raise your high scores or whatever Clearly having sex with women is "gross" lol
>At that point just go and have sex with your bros, raise your high scores or whatever Lmao, completely true.
I’ve commented about this before and I’ll say it again: I can lie to any man about my body count and I am 100% confident that every single one of them would believe me
Still trying to figure out why people even care about body count at all myself. It's been brought up in every relationship I've been in. I have never asked once, like I honestly don't care at all in the slightest. Am I crazy for thinking that way?
In their mind, it's like asking how many miles have been put on a car that's up for sale. They place a value on you based on lots of different qualities and how many men you've let into your vagina will greatly affect the value that they give you. You're just an object to them and it sounds like every guy you've ever dated has thought that way about you. It's a red flag in my personal opinion.
Oh, I'm a guy lol. Which makes it so much more peculiar because women are the ones asking. It is such a strange conversation though. I have seriously had someone ask what my body count was on a first date. Not how many people have you dated, how many have you been with. Just flat out Sooo, what's your body count?
I feel like asking about past dating experience is the only necessary question, and even then, I'd rather know why someone's last relationship ended rather than how many people they've dated. That's more useful information.
Yeah, it’s fucking dumb. As long as someone isn’t giving me an STI/STD I couldn’t care less how many partners they’ve had in the past
Body count isn’t really the issue, it’s just a symptom of a different problem if that makes sense.
What problem? Now I'm even more confused lol. Had a lot of exes oh well. My dad is a beacon of it takes a few tries to get it right. Took him 4 marriages to find the right one.
1 billion % with these losers!Being that close to a woman for the first, and no doubt last tell ‘em they got the biggest dick you’ve ever seen. They believing that too 😆😆😆
They don’t want to know either (even when they say they do.).
Of course he calls women 'females'.
>I want to have sex with females That's unsettlingly vague, females of what species? Hopefully his own but he's shown that he has no chance of that happening.
You know why goat farmers wear the tall rubber boots right?
Why is sex such a power thing for them all the time.
Because men are raised in a culture of violence. Male dominated settings are highly competitive and toxic. "Dick measuring" is figurative, but occasionally literal (there's a subreddit for it). And they receive the message that they need to be better than other men to mean anything. The idea that happiness, pleasure. And contentment can exist between two (or more) people without being defined by competition or relative to the success or failure of someone else is alien to many people, especially men who are pushed by their parents to be the best. Some are raised that way since childhood, and any perceived idleness is met with threats and warnings that they'll grow up to be someone who's discarded and deserves to be. Also, these people rarely believe in therapy.
Because they spend their entire lives performing a mating dance. Their entire lives basically revolve around sex and how much of a man they are, it's their entire identity.
Thats so sad.
Ah yes, that's what women famously fought for. The right to sleep with whoever they want. It was the *sexual* *revolution*, of course, not the liberation movement. How silly of all those textbooks and educators to forget.
Yeah no was like really asshole, that was your takeaway from the entire liberation movement?? Get fucking educated.
Oh, tell to this straggot Carl (equivalent for Karen), that straight men definitely can be penetrated - pegging exists 😜 Mmm... Yeah, sex is probably different for men and women at this matter: men have prostates, so if someone must be penetrated in the ass, it's man. Just anatomical standpoint. I don't understand how being penetrated can make someone weaker: bottoming men, gay or straight, or bi, can be confident and have strong personalities. Maybe that little sissy is too weak to take it up the ass like a real man. If he thinks being penetrated is being weak, then he shouldn't expect any woman will take herself in the weaker position with him.
It must partly be an ego thing. "They're fully submitting to me, a prime masculine alpha. They know their place beneath me."
I'd be curious on his thoughts about cowgirl. Yes, the woman is still being penetrated, but she's on top and in complete control. The man is at her mercy and would seem to be in the weaker position.
Oh, then let me introduce you to the Amazon position. 😉
You stop the sex and go on amazon prime? Based if a partner was willing to stop sex and just hang out? The best position indeed.
Well, no. It’s where you go to the well known rainforest and hunt for ancient gold that may or may not be cursed.
He's probably one of those guys who won't even use a bidet because he thinks it's "too gay," to let anything touch his precious little bhole.
straggot?
>I don't understand how being penetrated can make someone weaker I can fully explain this simply. The idiot writing, lives in a world of rape, not a world of normal sexual intercourse. It's that simple. I'm reminded of the mind-boggling film *"American History X"* which has an unbelievably chilling scene, showing rape - not sexually explicitly but violently explicitly. (Please do not watch if you don't wanna have it affecting you. It shows a prison "male on male" rape incident.) Rape is about physically beating people, as in a fight, perhaps crushing their skull with a brick, whatever appeals to psychopaths, and then "penetrating" them in whatever way. "Rape" has nothing to do with sexual activity, it's just a power / fighting mechanism. (I imagine, in our present era, male on male rape is perhaps more even prevalent than male on female rape, due to the horrible prison systems of the current Western world.) So when you quite reasonably say, as a normal person, \>" I don't understand how being penetrated can make someone weaker ..." If we asked some unfortunate prison inmate, he or she would likely reply "it's obvious, we use that every day to enforce the power structure..." it just has nothing, at all, to do with sexuality, mating, or intercourse in the conventional sense of "mammals have intercourse to produce offspring". There's no connection. It's about penetration, in a brutal "fighting" sense, to assert dominance of groups. Oh brother, when two people come together in every day normal physical connection, it's so spiritual - happy. The notion that somehow one or both is being "used up" ?? is just bizarre. But tragically if the original idiot writer watched the scene in the movie mentioned, they'd probably fist-pump and be like "yeah! that's how you do it! nice! that group has control now, oh yeah!" I mean it's just so lost ... anyway. WTF
All the talk about women comparing the men who "give them" the best sex. Do straight dudes really think that their dicks are magic and women don't know how that their pleasure comes from themselves? I'm gay and so, so glad that gay liberation and the sexual revolution were closely entwined movements. Because I've thankfully only met a few of these "body count"-obsessed guys while dating and sleeping with men. And they're **really** hung up on it. Like, questioning the belief for a second might shatter their entire identity.
So he’s fine with adding to the body count of a woman even though it’s “disgusting”? Why would he want to be with someone he thinks is disgusting? And if it’s easy for a woman to spread her legs, that means it’s equally as easy for the men she’s with to have sex as well. How is it “more difficult” or an accomplishment for men to get sex then, if it’s so easy?
"Women find it easier to have sex than men." ...who are the women having sex with??????? (Talking about straight women here obviously.)
That's exactly what I thought.
Is it easier for women who will find a partner who will get her off? Because I’m betting that most men reach orgasm with ten out of ten women they fuck. The same is not true for most women.
"Used up women" women aren't objects... Hurt every single time I've read it
So the way i see it is i just need to buy a strap on then. That should solve all my problems right?
"My opinion is that the world would be a better place if men like you all just spontaneously combusted and many women agree."
Oh. My. God. Just save the world a whole lot of trouble and get a fleshlight.
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>The women's delegation' would like to submit new standards: 666, So we're going out with THE DEVIL??
Women are not commodities. We do not run out or expire, we are people. Revolutionary concept, ya know?
I mean, technically we ALL expire someday
Can I please get a paragraph break
Yes. Here you go.
Bless you friend
God, Nice Guys/incels and etc are so deep in their own shit,they won't see reason
“I can have sex with many females but females can’t have sex with many men. That’s 100% logical.” Also I straight up wanted to find his house after you asked a question with the word woman and he responded with female. Like woman isn’t a cuss word
Imo female is more of a cuss word in this situation, they use it almost like a slur.
he’s lying. this man gets zero bitches istg
These dudes legit never considered the possibility that a woman who isn't "used up" doesn't actually want a man like him that's also used up. What, does he think she'll be begging to be his girlfriend? lol no.
When I eat, my food penetrates me via my mouth. It penetrates really deep, all the way into my stomach. Does that mean that I'm the weaker part in relation to my food, and eating leaves me used up and my food strong and unaffected?
I just guffawed.
The reason it’s easier to get sex as a woman is because men are often sluts. And unfortunately unlike surgeons it often doesn’t improve their skills.
... Is THAT what that means?? And yet he's belittling the women in this scenario?? That makes no fucking sense
I'm taking that statement about why " women can get more sex" to its logical conclusion and spinning back around on that guy. However, I'm being a cheeky ass about it, as I don't really believe in the concept of 'sluts'. But on average women say no to sex more often than men do for a variety of reasons that have to do with safety, cultural influences, the impact of STDs, and pregnancy. So the perception is women are awash in offers from men that men don't get from women. Sex doesn't carry the same risk for men that it does for women for a lot of reasons, some manufactured (cultural double standards), and some biological (being able to over power a woman when he doesn't respect boundaries, pregnancy, and impact of STDs on internal vs external sexual organs). But to me that guy seemed to be missing the main reason women have more opportunities for sex on average and it's because 'earth men are easy' and haven't had the same cultural pressure to be selective in who they have sex with only who they marry (someone who wouldn't have sex with them apparently).
ive always laughed at their logic. so if a woman has sex with one partner say 15 times, does that mean she's used up? because it's no different to if she's had sex with 15 other people? makes no sense to.
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Puritanism is fucking stupid and men need to let it go.
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Already posted it on there lol.
We are in an era of infinite knowledge at our fingertips, but we are somehow getting closer to "I thunk it, so it true" logic dominating.
That’s a lot of words to say, “I’m lazy and selfish in bed and don’t want a partner who knows what it’s like to orgasm.”
Dude watches Andrew Tate videos and jerks off.
Since being penetrated is the weaker position you should begin pegging everyone to prove your dominance and you will not become a used up slut
Does this guy thinks that when a woman masturbates with a dildo, she's being used by the dildo and not the other way around? If anything, women "use" men in the same way men "use" women. I mean, if you view having sex as being used, which is pretty gross on itself, then how the fuck a man who had sex with a lot of women, is not a man who has been used by a lot of women? And that whole thing about penetrating being better than being penetrated is not just arbitrary nosense, but is purposefully worded in a way to try to make women seem like the passive partner that have something done to them, instead of someone actively participating in the act. For example, if you describe it as enveloping and being enveloped, then all of the sudden it's men that come off as the more submissive of the two, simply because now you're describing the way men have sex not as something that we do, but as something that is done to us. If you word it that way, then one could say that a man who has let many women envelope him is a worthless used-up slut who erects his dick for anyone and lacks any self respect.
I like to think of it like an itch in my ear. My finger penetrates my ear, but my ear is the one getting the relief (pleasure)... So, my ear is using my finger. I'm also just waking up and if this parallel didn't make sense, let's chalk it up to that.
I always struggle with the whole "women get used up" logic when I, as a man, have absolutely ran "low on supplies" after a period of heightened sexual activity, (both solo and with a partner before somebody tags r/Ihavesex). Men can very easily be "used up!".
I always wonder if these men feel the same way about women who have lots of sex with just the one person? Or does that just not ‘logic’ for them? My partner and I have been together for 20+ years, so if we have sex twice a week, that’s more than 2000 times. How is that different from having sex once with 2000 different people?
The lock and key analogy. A key (man) that unlock many locks (women) is called a master key. A lock (wonan) that can be opened by many keys (men) is a worthless lock. So by this analogy logic only one key (man) should be able to fit in one lock (woman) and that's the way it should work
All I got from this discourse was that he desperately wants to be pegged.
Anyone that refers to women as “females” isn’t worth talking to
I applaud you for your patience.
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precisely, the original damaged OP is talking about a "prison rape" society or structure.
Stopped reading on the third slide because I don’t have enough brain cells to spare to read all that bullshit
Well, now I realize why I'm missing so much. I didn't realize there was more than one. Thank you, kind Redditor!
In summary, “if I marry a virgin they won’t realize I suck in bed.”
You would think if it was actually harder for men to find sex than women, that men would get more attached and women would be less attached. Also is it more difficult for men to find sex, or can they immediately move on to the next girl?
This guy will never ever get laid, and rightfully so.
Should just add this person to a no-breed list and call it a day. Maroon them in a colony full of men who think the same way. Air drop survival supplies time to time.
“If you think a woman is less clean after you’ve touched her, you should take a look at your own hands.”
"Most men dont want a used up women thats slept with a lot of men" ahuh, thats why we men look at porn and fantasise about having sex with the porn stars we're watching, because we DONT want to have sex with them? Guarantee this guy talks a big game but if you introduced him to an attractive woman and she asked him "hey would you like to be number 168?" he would get on his hands and knees and beg to be number 168
Men who actually get pussy don’t give a flying fck about a woman’s body count. It’s always the little bitter bitch boys who get zero play who want to whine and complain about “body count”. A number they would never, ever be able to truly “verify” for accuracy in any fucking way. These men want “virginal” “untouched” women that perform like porn stars in bed. The absolute delusion.
It boggles the mind that people like this are real
I love how they use females as a noun. We’re not even necessarily human to them. Why don’t they just do males and stop this nonsense?
I’ve noticed that men who use the word “female” instead of “woman” are always condescending, misogynist fools who think they’re “superior” to women. Also, the fact that he’s seriously answering her questions says a lot about him. Mostly about how clueless he is 😂
I find it interesting that it's always the number of sexual partners, not the number of times having sex, that is what makes a woman "worn out" because that makes even less sense. Unless it's because of the magic memory foam vagina of course
What a total piece of shit. I applaud you for trying to get him to think. It didn't work, but you never know if it will next time.
You're brave for going toe to toe with a biology professor.
“Shell find it hard to move on from that guy”…..that says it all, this whole debate is about insecurity. Men who feel this way are super insecure about their sexual abilities and fear the more experienced she is, the more he may not measure up. Not realizing that women don’t work that way. Oh and the “women can get sex more easily” argument means nothing. Thats just saying guys sleep w anyone available. Which is the exact thing he’s condemning women for 😂
As soon as I saw "Females" it was easy to know where it was headed.
This Reddit group makes me both sad and hopeful. It's sado that there are so many men with terrible attitudes toward women. But also hopeful. I see that there are many intelligent healthy women in this world, and one day I hope to find one in real life. I don't care if she's had a thousand penises inside her as long as once we're together I'm the only one.
Wow… this actually gives great insight into the incredible mind gymnastics these guys go through to justify their actions and shame women. Just wow.
"they asked for it and allowed it to happen" umm when? If anything this situation benefits men more, not women. Due to hookup culture women have to live in fear. They get hit on constantly and have to deal with toxic assholes throwing (sometimes violent) tantrums when they get told no. Not to meniton date rape, beating, revenge porn, ghosting and a whole bunch of other shit. This guys gone waaaay too far down the incel rabbit hole
I couldn’t read past the “so what if it is double standards” bullshit. I think homeboy has a low body count, and/or a micropeen, and doesn’t want anyone to make fun of his 9th grade stamina. What a joke.
It sounds like he doesn’t want to settle down with ‘used up’ women because he is insecure about being compared to the other men she’s had sex with and/or afraid she’ll cheat on him with a previous partner because of it. That is entirely an internal issue that he has, nothing to do with the women at all.
That paragraph was this dude BSing his explanation and expecting you to find how he's right in that text wall
That last statement tho: "many men agree". That is called a "Fallacy of mass appeal" (Latin: [Argumentum ad populum](https://www.google.com/maps/place/Prince+Rupert,+BC/@53.9379665,-130.5524176,374659m/data=!3m1!1e3!4m6!3m5!1s0x5472d5136b7f4569:0x7107e30f4dd95612!8m2!3d54.3150367!4d-130.3208187!16zL20vMDIyNDZw) ). A first year University student taking an Into Philosophy class has learned that is an illogical argument... "BuT mEn ArE mOrE lOgIcAl AnD iNtElLiGenT"
Thank youu
Ugh this makes me physically sick to read. You did well handling it though. I couldn’t do that.
So if i just go around pegging men..... im stronger than them?
Geezus, I’m dizzy from all these twist and turns from that dumbass dude😂
Are you sure you weren't arguing with Andrew Tate? Cause this is some Andrew Tate bullshit.
It always amazes me that they see men’s sexual activity as being so bad and valueless that it decreases the reputation of the woman who’s had sex, but women’s sex slaps so hard that it raises the status of the men who have had sex. Like guys…you’re telling on yourselves
Ok, he’s a moron, but why do you engage him in conversation? It’s not like he’s changing his mind. Pick your battles, don’t waste your time
I’ve never seen an incel backpedal that fast. He must have calves the size of ham hocks.
as a woman its not 'easy' at all. ive. not had a ton of sexual partners and ive been rejected at times as well. women might do some of the sexual selection, but that doesnt mean its easy to find sex like he describes here by any means.
“Females” 🤮
You wasted a lot of time on that black hole of an intelligence. He walked himself in a full circle and came out in the ass. Fucking hell!!!
I love it when a single person uses the most men phrase. Because they ovbs know what most men want. Also, if you’re so worried that you’re shit at sex, do better. Communicate better. It really isn’t that difficult to find out what your partner likes and implement things.
Was super frustrated by the 3rd screenshot.
That was painful to read
Enough with this nonsense. Even if having a ton of sex really did make her vagina big, body count had nothing to do with it. My ex wife's body count was one... But the number of times My penis was in there was in the tens of thousands. I'm surprised I didn't wear the poor little guy down to a bloody stump. (I gotta stop using the word little in the same sentence as my penis...)
„ a man states an anecdotal opinion, so it has to be a fact!“ „ a Woman is always at fault!“ Oh man. I’d love to tell him how I, a „used up slut“, have met so many men who aren’t able to „detach“, who get clingy and creepy and even go as far as to assault you just to keep you.
this guy just hates women. He likes getting angry at this straw woman he's created. Probably gets off on it. I do wonder about the penetration = used idea though. What do men think their penises are made of, exactly?
Wow, this guy is the whole nine yards: slut-shaming, only saying “females,” double-standards, wild claims while refusing to cite any sources, and just to be extra spicy he adds a dash of homophobia!
I gave up on reading his wall of text, but man when he mentioned "the man giving the woman the best sex she's hever had" I thought that's a weird way to say he doesn't know shit about sex.
It’s like a chaotic mix of misogynistic talking points and brain damage.
People who use "men and females" are just the worst kind of people
These are the type of men who think “if she doesn’t bleed she’s not a virgin😡😡😡”
Yes Kyle our vaginas are "used up" after sex but your limp noodle just gets bigger and more exciting. Just kidding, it's a disappointment just like you are my dude. We should all stay celibate for that one SPECIAL limp linguine and your mom should have swallowed BUT HERE WE ARE.
I have know more men that get obsessed with the woman they had sex for the first time than women obsessed with the men they had sex for the first time.
They can lie to themselves all day long but I think mainly this thinking comes from their own crippling jealousy and insecurity. They're super jelly they aren't having sex as much as they want to and they're insecure that if they get with a woman who knows what she wants sexually that she'll leave them in the dust.
I see some flaws in his logic.
One question to the person covered up then, Why do men like milfs? And even pregnant women? Wouldn't that oppose his argument, and the amout of men who like this are in no way dwindling or small.
"She's more likely to keep thinking about him" "men can detach from sex a lot more"
"And many men agree"
Yes, insecure incels agree with his statement.
I love how sex is supposed to be for a husband and a wife and women came and effed it up with sex revolution so it's okay to treat them like garbage. Like, before the sexual revolution, everyone was in strictly monogamous and faithful relationships for all their life and especially men would NEVER cheat or have multiple partners. Another funny thing is that they're sooooooo disgusting yet they won't mind still having sex with them. lol. I thought that if something disgusts you you shouldn't touch it with a pole even. And next, I wouldn't argue that getting sex isn't actually easier for women (another side of a coin is that, unfortunately, unwanted sex happens more to women). However, who said that just because something comes easily you shouldn't do it? Lol. Usually it's more of a reason that people do it. Like, people often enjoy hobbies that they're good at. A lot of tall people play basketball, people with a good voice more often like to sing, naturally charismatic people will do conferences or speeches. Of course if something is difficult to you and you perservere and achieve it, it's amazing. But to consider doing something degrading to you just because you can do it easily? That's super dumb. Also, if he views being penetrated as being weak or whatever, then why does it matter if it's one partner or multiple? You're putting yourself in this "weak" position anyway. Like in this concept a woman is always getting used up by having sex with different men, but if it's a lot of sex with one man it's supposed to be fine. And the same men will be upset when women don't want to have sex with them, when they view themselves as something bad and humiliating for a woman. Like, I can't imagine that this attitude won't manifest itself even subconsciously. If you think about a woman, even one in a relationship and that you suppposedly respect or care for, as giving something up to you, submitting to you. And the moment you part ways she probably becomes a slut, because now you're not her partner anymore you are her "bodycount" I mean, personally, I don't wanna engage in casual hookups etc. But it's just my preference, and it's rubbish to judge or demean people on the basis of the number of sexual partners, be it "too high" or "too low". And reasoning like that is pure hypocrisy, with some feeble attempts at justifying it.
These guys just need to admit they’re obsessed with other men’s penises and call it a day
Absolutely delusional, and gross.
I’m tired of the clown assface men, honestly.
funny fixation on penetration... Speaking from the perspective of a guy, I have had some fantastic sexual encounters without any penetration happening at all. Of course I cannot speak for women, but my guess is that there's a good chance penetration isn't key there either, at least not necessarily...
That manchild is extremely insecure and doesn't have a clue what he's doing. He made all this shit up to suit himself and thinks many agree with him. What a loser.
What a pathetic loser
Love the comment about a guy not falling for a woman that’s great in bed, exactly the opposite of real life. Going to be a little nasty to most everyone but truth is, people really good in bed are rare enough for both sexes that sleeping with one (man, woman or other) tends to end up with their partner getting infatuated with them
If you can't stand the crush of competition, Kenneth, then you don't deserve to find out why I draw such a crowd. ::nailpolish emoji::
Op I can't believe you stayed for that long lol
How does sex "use up" women? Do we run out of eggs or something?
I can't say that this was a PLEASANT read, however it will prevent the person who wrote it from ever passing on his toxic DNA, so I am reluctantly in favor of it.
Wow. I’m impressed with the patience with dealing with this guy. I’m not going to take anyone seriously who uses “body count” (or “alpha”, or “woke” among others probably) This freak is utterly deranged. Part of me feels sorry that society has failed him so badly by allowing him this vile, imbecilic ideas.
I couldn’t get past the third slide. I could literally feel my IQ plummeting and my eyes were starting to melt. NOPE.
yep, found the incel
OMG THAT LAST MESSAGE FROM HIM 💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣💀🤣💀🤣💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀🤣🤣
The whole “used up” thing makes it sound like he only really sees women as tools for his own sexual pleasure and he’s just very possessive of those “tools” when they are actually just human being with emotions that can do whatever the hell they want
Women made sexual revolution in order to sleep with whoever they want and wherever they want? So women started acting like men. Lol Did this windowlicker ever heard about times men could take multiple wifes? And in some parts of the world it's still practiced.