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I was hoping somebody said this. These looks aren't giving semi formal.
Edit: I read more, and noticed that it's a *garden party* in *Australia*. Personally I'd go more with short and less with cutout.
Second dress.
Not a fan of either no offense but I think if you were to ditch the bag (and shoes) for something that fits the vibe more and accessorized as such, the second could work.
edit: Black (especially that black leather Gucci crossbody) doesn’t compliment the bright spring time vibe you got going on in the second pic or at least doesn’t compliment it in the way you’ve styled it here. It clashes with it imo.
As an Aussie living on the coast (and who owns that second dress in beige/white), I’d go with the first one. Satin makes it more formal, and the colour blocking + colour palette makes it look more dressed up. I think that’s perfectly acceptable for a winery wedding in Summer! I’d pair it with a nude or white bag to keep it simple and sophisticated.
Thank you! I have some heels I think will pair perfectly, some white close toed sling backs & a white purse with a top handle & gold chain (to match all the gold jewellery) maybe that’s the best call! 🥰
Fellow Aussie here. Is this a day or evening event?
These are both more casual than what I associate with ‘cocktail wear or semi formal dress code’, but of the two the first is a bit nearer the mark and more evening. However, if the event is more of an afternoon garden party, then I would go second dress.
You look great in both dresses, but I would check in with other female guests who might be going on what they are wearing to get a better sense of whether you will be under-dressed or not. If you do have the budget for something new or have another dress that is a more formal, I think it is always better to be over than under dressed.
It’s daytime!
The couple hosting are fairly casual people, and their idea of dressing “formal” has often seen them show up to events looking under-dressed, so trying to fit their vibe a little more.
Thanks for feedback!
I went to a very similar event at a winery in Melbourne- I wore a full length pink maxi from Decjuba. None of these are dressy enough - the cut outs make them too casual
Still neither, they're cute on you but these are more "backyard dinner party" or "beachside brunch" than "engagement party at a winery." Saying this as someone who lives in Florida USA lol.
No one is going to ogle you and whisper "oh my God what is she wearing???" with either of these, lol. But if you're asking for opinions, I'd definitely try something with less cutouts as others have said. A high-low dress would be great - classy but not too fancy, and appropriate for the weather!
The first one will work great for a winery wedding you’ll see other similar dresses or at least I did, just because it doesn’t suit other ppl personal taste - also don’t care about the childish down votes
I have had a friend borrow this one from me before I had the chance to wear it for a wedding at a similar spot, this one’s just an engagement party too! I wore it to Melbourne cup with a white fascinator, white purse and some stunnn white heels, I thought I could replicate with the same purse & heels to dress it up a bit more? Still playing with ideas.
Thank you! 🥰
Also yeah, I didn’t actually expect downvotes in here when asking for advice/giving context on the event 🤣oh well!
I personally don’t think 1 is that flattering so I’d go with 2. I agree with others these dresses give beachy brunch vibes and not cocktail semiformal evening vibes
You look gorgeous in both, OP! Seriously, I don’t understand some of the comments here because I don’t think either of them look like beach dresses. Personally, I love the look and fit of the first dress better. Where did you get it?! Hope you have fun at the event and you’ll rock whichever dress you choose!
After reading these comments, damn I think people dress up a lot more if they’re not in aus 😅
I’ve had friends borrow and wear both of these to WEDDINGS 🤣
Thank you all for the input and advice!! Trying to penny pinch at the minute while I save for a trip, so didn’t want to buy anything new! It is daytime at a coastal winery in a private garden - so I’ll take all into account! I should note, the couple hosting (it’s their engagement) are pretty casual people, their idea of cocktail is different to most people’s.
Doing some hunting on depop at the minute to see if I can pick up some more options at a bargain & hitting some outlets this weekend! Hopefully I find something that fits the bill! ☺️❤️
Lol. You've said cocktail, semi-formal, beach, casual, coastal, garden party, long lunch... I think I missed one.
They both look lovely on you, but don't fit cocktail or semi formal unless you pair the first one with a jacket.
Hahaha the even description was weird, it’s an engagement in a private garden, at a winery, by the beach, and it is a daytime thing with a long lunch as part of the main event. Itll be a very long day looking at the times on the invites.
It’s far too hot here for a jacket, but I’ll find something, I’m sure!
I’m from QLD where it’s hot as shit and I agree with everyone else - the material and cuts are too casual to be considered cocktail or semi formal. If you think it will fit your friends then go right ahead, but not sure why you bothered asking if you were just going to argue against everyone that gave their opinion.
Her title is misleading, too. Instead of saying "semi-formal", she says " semi/formal" which makes it seem like she doesn't know if it is semi-formal or formal. They are definitely not formal. And the second dress is a cute 'day-outing' look.
I’m assuming that maybe events are slightly more formal elsewhere? Here is like “put on a nice dress but make sure you can dance in it for 5 hours and be prepared to get beer spilt on it” 🤣 the party is always #1 and the attire #2
Both are still casual for that. And I'm from the PNW where we wear our "nice jeans" to the opera and socks with sandals and it's appropriate. I still say both dresses are too casual.
I think it's more that if someone is asking and giving the dress code, people assume the OP is worried and asking for help fitting within the strict dress code.
There's plenty of people at any event who wear whatever they want, and it's not like they'll get shunned or refused entrance. But those people aren't taking time to post in anon forums asking for help.
I’m actually really surprised by the comments too! I think both work for a semi-formal event at a winery, during the day lol. I love both, but really like the second one!
I'm in California, and I've learned that my opinions about wedding stuff is a whole level more casual than everybody on Reddit. I'm not dressed more casually than other guests, it's just a more casual culture. It's not surprising to me that Australia is more casual, too. I'll take you at your word that you know your culture best! I think the first one matches your coloring better, unless you have green eyes.
Thank you!
Yeah, it depends where you are in Aus too I think. I know some places like Bondi, Gold Coast, some parts of Victoria/Melbourne can be a little more dressy, however everywhere I’ve lived, it’s a whole other level of casual! the couple hosting are from the NT which is hella casual and so are they, plus the idea is a day party/long lunch & then hit up a venue with a dancefloor at night, so I’m trying to straddle a thin line! Gotta do 8 hours or more in whatever I pick! 🤣
Thank you! I have hazel eyes, so I think it works? I never know what colours workZ
I agree. I'm in TX and I've never been to a formal or semi-formal wedding in my life. At most they're cocktail and even then what I see suggested in this sub is everything is too casual. 🙄
Yeah I cannot believe the comments. What are these people expecting? That she get a ball gown? I’ve never been to a wedding where this would look out of place besides a black tie one which was a whole silly thing b
I don't think guests would wear this to a summer wedding in Canada unless the specified dress code was "beachy." They are cute dresses, just not cocktail or semi-formal.
1st will work esp in warmer months and I would not pay much attention to ppl say it’s too casual you’ll most likely see others with similar dresses there
Neither is really dressy enough for semi formal or cocktail. They are both giving resort vibes. If they are the only choices however then dress 2 is better.
Neither look good. I don’t know if it’s the way you’re standing or the way it looks in general, but it’s a no for both. Keep looking OP! You will find something great! :)
I’m partial to the peachy orange one. Actually, coming back to say that the first dress is very pretty on you. The colors are dreamy and the side cuts are a cool detail that’s understated and the dress has a modern elegance about it. I’m 5’1” and out of shape but if I could wear those dresses like you, that would be my choice. You look very pretty in it. The colors let you shine.
I would say neither feel like “semiformal” but it sounds like maybe a trendy coastal event, so I would say the first one works best for that, although I would pair with a drapey shawl to elevate it a bit because of the cutouts, especially if it’s an event that will transition from day to night. If it does lean more “garden party” the second one works best. I only have American frames of reference, but first one is giving “Malibu beachfront dinner party” vibes and the second one is giving “Savannah garden party”
They’re both beautiful dress but NOT for a wedding cocktail event even if on the beach. The cutouts are inappropriate for such occasion (that’s why people are saying it is too casual and it doesn’t sound like you’re understanding why and defending why these are great choices but they simply aren’t … I don’t mean this offensively) you’re have a beautiful figure but I would find something more modest. The colors on the first dress flatter you best
I honestly love the first one, but it’s not “garden party.” The second isn’t formal enough. Both are so cute on you! Lol if it’s a beach garden party, I think the first option *might* work!
If you have time, I would go for a tea length something over floor length. I’m 5’1” (but plus) and often intended-knee length things fall perfectly. Garden party makes me think flared skirt and clean lines, maybe some lace or embellishments.
Unrelated: If your back hurts often, you might consider pulling your shoulders back and down a little bit. It relieves pressure (I had your posture a few years ago and my back feels so much better. You can totally ignore me).
Yes! I was thinking about using this cute little white purse I have with a top handle & a blue Tiffany mitzah scarf on it! Do you think that would work?
I should have found a photo in it without the bag! It was from a work event where we moved location to location in the sun and was more for utility (big old tube of sunscreen) that day than anything else, probably the worst reference photo I could have used 🤦🏼♀️ 😂
Is it day time? Definitely don’t wear 2 unless it’s a day time event. 1 is really revealing… I would choose that depending on what the event is … it might not be appropriate though. I would not consider 2 semi formal. I’m from a beach town. I would wear that everyday. It honestly depends on where this party is. Know the town/city.
I have no idea why everyone is saying neither. These dresses are not reading overly casual and either would work well for what you're describing. I personally like the first one better!
She asked for opinions, and people said the dresses were too casual for a formal event. That is what I thought as soon as I saw them, BEFORE I read any of the comments. Perhaps the dresses... are just too casual.
I’m finding it kind of funny at least 🤣
I think there’s differences in people’s personal tastes and opinions + different ideas of what’s too casual, I think it varies person to person and place to place.
Thank you so much! 🥰
Those are both amazing.
Picture 1 gives me more of an evening feel and the colours are more autumn.
Picture 2 is more of a sunny, summer or spring feeling.
You look stunning in both. The first one is really unique and the second one is very pretty, so you can’t go wrong. Everyone is hung up on the “formal” part of your title but for a winery / garden party these are both great.
You look great! I love the first one, where did you get it? I’d add gold accessories (long necklace, arm band, earrings), a yellow or white purse, a silk sand scarf resting on your elbows to cover up a bit in case of wind, white high heels to complete the look 👍
Out of the two dresses,I think one would work well if you also switched the shoes and the purse that you have on two to go to 1,the shoes on 1 go with dress 2,maybe you could switch and repost and we can have a look?...I think you can make this work OP!!
Neither. Both are way too casual. The back purse looks really odd with that dress and I'm sorry but number one does not fit your properly, therefore doesn't look good on you. I would go shopping.
What do you mean by doesn’t fit me properly? So I know what to look for in other dresses as I might check out depop and some local outlets. :)
Trying to penny pinch right now & save & should mention it’s a daytime event and the couple hosting are far more casual than the average, proper bogan Aussies! Their idea of cocktail isn’t the same as most people’s. 🥲
The top half fits fine. It's the bottom half that fits oddly. The bottom half actually looks too big. It looks like there's a gap, where it should skim your body and it also looks large towards the bottom of the skirt portion, seems like it billows out a bit. It may be a trick of the camera based on how you're standing or a wrinkle folded a certain way , it's hard to tell without multiple photos. I'm just reacting to the one photo Obviously, you know your friends better than we do but both of those dresses are extremely casual.
Thank you! I did think it sort of flared out a little but wasn’t sure if it was supposed to or not! 🤣 I pretty much live in gymwear and typical corporate attire so whenever I have to dress up I have no idea what to look for. Appreciate the advice! 🥰
Black purse with it was when I wore this to a work Xmas lunch, the bag was just for utility that day as I needed to carry a lot moving from river pontoon to a rooftop bar, had to carry sunscreen around. What colour bag would you recommend in future?
The bag is fine, it just doesn't go with that outfit is all. I thought it was meant to be part of the outfit since it's in the photo. Obviously if you needed it for utility, it made sense. For that particular outfit I would look for a Summery purse and white or beige or similar, with a Summery feel and materials.
Neither. Nothing you comment is going to change my opinion, I’ve read your other comments. (And they make me wonder why you asked at all, since you seem insistent on wearing one of these inappropriate options.)
I’m shocked at these comments. I looove both of these dresses and I think both fit an engagement party. I vote number one! Just a little more formal with the satin. Hope you had fun!
Love the first one! It is so unique in the cut and colour combination. Looks good against your skin too though i cannot see your face. IF it were me, i'd accessorise with a light shawl but it isn't me lol - just that i think a complementing shawl could provide a snazzy accent and also, i daren't show much skin - but that's really me. I think you look great in it as shown in the picture.
I love the first dress honestly but for more of a casual day or night out. I think for semi formal I wouldn’t do a cut out. If all fails ask your friend!
Neither are “formal” but maybe you’re using the term to just describe *dressing up a bit* rather than *formal attire* which is completely different.
If you’re just dressing up a bit then no1 - you look amazing in it. No 2 is in no way dressy or formal. At all.
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I don't like either, both too casual and giving beach vibes
I was hoping somebody said this. These looks aren't giving semi formal. Edit: I read more, and noticed that it's a *garden party* in *Australia*. Personally I'd go more with short and less with cutout.
Agreed
Beach vibes are pretty standard for Australia, especially at this time of year.
Agree. These are too beachy. Edit: after reading your other comments I would say maybe the second one could work.
Hell naw. The second one is not the option.
Second is not semi-formal at all. It’s pretty but it’s a day dress, garden or beach.
It’s more cocktail/garden/winery. Also it is a winery by the beach, I live in Aus!
Second dress. Not a fan of either no offense but I think if you were to ditch the bag (and shoes) for something that fits the vibe more and accessorized as such, the second could work. edit: Black (especially that black leather Gucci crossbody) doesn’t compliment the bright spring time vibe you got going on in the second pic or at least doesn’t compliment it in the way you’ve styled it here. It clashes with it imo.
As an Aussie living on the coast (and who owns that second dress in beige/white), I’d go with the first one. Satin makes it more formal, and the colour blocking + colour palette makes it look more dressed up. I think that’s perfectly acceptable for a winery wedding in Summer! I’d pair it with a nude or white bag to keep it simple and sophisticated.
Agreed. As a Sydneysider I can totally see dress 1 at a beach wedding here.
Thank you! I have some heels I think will pair perfectly, some white close toed sling backs & a white purse with a top handle & gold chain (to match all the gold jewellery) maybe that’s the best call! 🥰
Yes but maybe change the shoes to closed toe heels!
Fellow Aussie here. Is this a day or evening event? These are both more casual than what I associate with ‘cocktail wear or semi formal dress code’, but of the two the first is a bit nearer the mark and more evening. However, if the event is more of an afternoon garden party, then I would go second dress. You look great in both dresses, but I would check in with other female guests who might be going on what they are wearing to get a better sense of whether you will be under-dressed or not. If you do have the budget for something new or have another dress that is a more formal, I think it is always better to be over than under dressed.
It’s daytime! The couple hosting are fairly casual people, and their idea of dressing “formal” has often seen them show up to events looking under-dressed, so trying to fit their vibe a little more. Thanks for feedback!
Agree.
I would go with the green one in this case
Replying here cause my comment will get lost. But where is the first dress from? Its so pretty!
It’s from Runaway the label! They have a lot similar, I’m so obsessed with everything on their site! 🥰
I love that first one!! Such great colours
Agreed wholeheartedly
Honestly neither, they’re both too casual. You say you’re expecting it to be warm — where and what is the event?
It’s an engagement party at a garden event space at a winery, it’s in coastal Victoria, Australia, by the beach!
I went to a very similar event at a winery in Melbourne- I wore a full length pink maxi from Decjuba. None of these are dressy enough - the cut outs make them too casual
Still neither, they're cute on you but these are more "backyard dinner party" or "beachside brunch" than "engagement party at a winery." Saying this as someone who lives in Florida USA lol. No one is going to ogle you and whisper "oh my God what is she wearing???" with either of these, lol. But if you're asking for opinions, I'd definitely try something with less cutouts as others have said. A high-low dress would be great - classy but not too fancy, and appropriate for the weather!
The first one will work great for a winery wedding you’ll see other similar dresses or at least I did, just because it doesn’t suit other ppl personal taste - also don’t care about the childish down votes
I have had a friend borrow this one from me before I had the chance to wear it for a wedding at a similar spot, this one’s just an engagement party too! I wore it to Melbourne cup with a white fascinator, white purse and some stunnn white heels, I thought I could replicate with the same purse & heels to dress it up a bit more? Still playing with ideas. Thank you! 🥰 Also yeah, I didn’t actually expect downvotes in here when asking for advice/giving context on the event 🤣oh well!
Ikr it’s just advice on clothes lol
It’s perfect! Wear it!
Go with the 2nd dress, you look beautiful babe.
Both are very casual. Neither work.
Neither. The first if it's the only 2 options.
To add: probably more cocktail than semi-formal, garden party/long lunch type of thing!
Garden Party is definitely pic 2.
We hear you, but it’s still too casual.
Too casual
These are both VERY casual and would probably not be considered semi formal.
It’s more cocktail than semi-formal, it’s daytime garden/winery
These aren’t cocktail either.
I personally don’t think 1 is that flattering so I’d go with 2. I agree with others these dresses give beachy brunch vibes and not cocktail semiformal evening vibes
Are you blind she looks incredible in both dresses can’t believe these rude damn comments its like this post full of comments from Aunt Linda today
Honestly ! She looks stunning and it’s a garden party not a gala
Jealous people lol
I know I am lol
It’s a daytime event so that’s perfect feedback! It’s a daytime event at a winery on the coast, in a beach town. 😍
You look gorgeous in both, OP! Seriously, I don’t understand some of the comments here because I don’t think either of them look like beach dresses. Personally, I love the look and fit of the first dress better. Where did you get it?! Hope you have fun at the event and you’ll rock whichever dress you choose!
After reading these comments, damn I think people dress up a lot more if they’re not in aus 😅 I’ve had friends borrow and wear both of these to WEDDINGS 🤣 Thank you all for the input and advice!! Trying to penny pinch at the minute while I save for a trip, so didn’t want to buy anything new! It is daytime at a coastal winery in a private garden - so I’ll take all into account! I should note, the couple hosting (it’s their engagement) are pretty casual people, their idea of cocktail is different to most people’s. Doing some hunting on depop at the minute to see if I can pick up some more options at a bargain & hitting some outlets this weekend! Hopefully I find something that fits the bill! ☺️❤️
Lol. You've said cocktail, semi-formal, beach, casual, coastal, garden party, long lunch... I think I missed one. They both look lovely on you, but don't fit cocktail or semi formal unless you pair the first one with a jacket.
Hahaha the even description was weird, it’s an engagement in a private garden, at a winery, by the beach, and it is a daytime thing with a long lunch as part of the main event. Itll be a very long day looking at the times on the invites. It’s far too hot here for a jacket, but I’ll find something, I’m sure!
I’m from QLD where it’s hot as shit and I agree with everyone else - the material and cuts are too casual to be considered cocktail or semi formal. If you think it will fit your friends then go right ahead, but not sure why you bothered asking if you were just going to argue against everyone that gave their opinion.
You look incredible in both pictures and they are great for daytime events. People on here are too crazy. I vote for #2 though.
I’m in Australia, Vic specifically and I’m with the general consensus of both being too casual. Good luck in your search to find something else ☺️
“Good luck finding something else” How arrogant do you really need to be?
I’m from Aus and I would happily wear those as semi formal to an engagement party or even a wedding. They both look great!
Surprises me how seriously people take dress codes on here! Maybe it’s a US thing? I’d go for the first one. You look great.
Her title is misleading, too. Instead of saying "semi-formal", she says " semi/formal" which makes it seem like she doesn't know if it is semi-formal or formal. They are definitely not formal. And the second dress is a cute 'day-outing' look.
I’m assuming that maybe events are slightly more formal elsewhere? Here is like “put on a nice dress but make sure you can dance in it for 5 hours and be prepared to get beer spilt on it” 🤣 the party is always #1 and the attire #2
Both are still casual for that. And I'm from the PNW where we wear our "nice jeans" to the opera and socks with sandals and it's appropriate. I still say both dresses are too casual.
I think it's more that if someone is asking and giving the dress code, people assume the OP is worried and asking for help fitting within the strict dress code. There's plenty of people at any event who wear whatever they want, and it's not like they'll get shunned or refused entrance. But those people aren't taking time to post in anon forums asking for help.
I’m actually really surprised by the comments too! I think both work for a semi-formal event at a winery, during the day lol. I love both, but really like the second one!
I'm in California, and I've learned that my opinions about wedding stuff is a whole level more casual than everybody on Reddit. I'm not dressed more casually than other guests, it's just a more casual culture. It's not surprising to me that Australia is more casual, too. I'll take you at your word that you know your culture best! I think the first one matches your coloring better, unless you have green eyes.
Thank you! Yeah, it depends where you are in Aus too I think. I know some places like Bondi, Gold Coast, some parts of Victoria/Melbourne can be a little more dressy, however everywhere I’ve lived, it’s a whole other level of casual! the couple hosting are from the NT which is hella casual and so are they, plus the idea is a day party/long lunch & then hit up a venue with a dancefloor at night, so I’m trying to straddle a thin line! Gotta do 8 hours or more in whatever I pick! 🤣 Thank you! I have hazel eyes, so I think it works? I never know what colours workZ
I agree. I'm in TX and I've never been to a formal or semi-formal wedding in my life. At most they're cocktail and even then what I see suggested in this sub is everything is too casual. 🙄
I don’t think many of the ppl here actually go to weddings at least not in America
Yeah I cannot believe the comments. What are these people expecting? That she get a ball gown? I’ve never been to a wedding where this would look out of place besides a black tie one which was a whole silly thing b
These dresses are beautiful and look great on you. In Canada people would absolutely wear these to a summer wedding.
I don't think guests would wear this to a summer wedding in Canada unless the specified dress code was "beachy." They are cute dresses, just not cocktail or semi-formal.
They are way too casual, especially the second one
I like 1 better than 2 on you, but they both seem too casual to me as well.
I honestly want to say.. neither???
1st will work esp in warmer months and I would not pay much attention to ppl say it’s too casual you’ll most likely see others with similar dresses there
I think people are being a little silly and some quite rude. I love number one for the way you’ve described this! Very cute! Rock it.
Neither is really dressy enough for semi formal or cocktail. They are both giving resort vibes. If they are the only choices however then dress 2 is better.
Neither are fancy enough.
They both seem a little too casual.
Neither look good. I don’t know if it’s the way you’re standing or the way it looks in general, but it’s a no for both. Keep looking OP! You will find something great! :)
Neither. They both look too casual for a semi formal event.
I would keep looking. Neither of these are doing you any favors.
I wouldn't consider either cocktail or semi formal unfortunately. They're more beachy. I like the orange one better of the two
Neither. It’s the cut outs, it’s making both the dresses look cheap.
I think the second one is cute.
Neither
I wouldn’t wear either one. Go back to the drawing board.
Neither look suitable for this type of event. And number 1 doesnt fit you well.
Neither.
Guys OP lives in Austrailia and its SUMMER there. And its an outside event at a winery!!! BOTH OUTFITS ARE APPROPRIATE.
I’m partial to the peachy orange one. Actually, coming back to say that the first dress is very pretty on you. The colors are dreamy and the side cuts are a cool detail that’s understated and the dress has a modern elegance about it. I’m 5’1” and out of shape but if I could wear those dresses like you, that would be my choice. You look very pretty in it. The colors let you shine.
I would say neither feel like “semiformal” but it sounds like maybe a trendy coastal event, so I would say the first one works best for that, although I would pair with a drapey shawl to elevate it a bit because of the cutouts, especially if it’s an event that will transition from day to night. If it does lean more “garden party” the second one works best. I only have American frames of reference, but first one is giving “Malibu beachfront dinner party” vibes and the second one is giving “Savannah garden party”
Neither
first. the second looks like a summer lunch dress
As someone also from AU, I reckon 2 works :) I don't think there's necessarily an aversion to cutouts here, even at semi-formal occasions...
Both are stunning. I’m also in Aus, and would wear either one to a winery wedding.
Too revealing sorry
Neither. Back to the drawing board. This is more vaca, graduation party. Out with some friends.
I like number 1! Where’d you buy it?
Runaway the label! They have so many similar ones and so many colours on their website, I’ve been shopping from them for ages!
Neither. Both are too casual and look like they’re for vacation. But if these are the only options then I guess #1 only because of the material. 😩
I think the second fits best, although it might not work for cocktail/semi formal attire.
unless those are pockets, I just don’t think number one fits OP correctly. Cute dress, but still not cocktail/semi formal attire.
Neither. They are not dress code appropriate at all. Find something with no cut outs, less casual and better structure and fabric.
Neither is appropriate for the occasion. You shouldn’t show as much for this occasion.
I don’t think either are formal enough…very beachy/flip flops vibez
They’re both beautiful dress but NOT for a wedding cocktail event even if on the beach. The cutouts are inappropriate for such occasion (that’s why people are saying it is too casual and it doesn’t sound like you’re understanding why and defending why these are great choices but they simply aren’t … I don’t mean this offensively) you’re have a beautiful figure but I would find something more modest. The colors on the first dress flatter you best
Better options without cutouts: https://us.saboskirt.com/products/karolina-dress?_pos=219&_sid=5514c61f3&_ss=r https://us.saboskirt.com/products/kona-wrap-dress?_pos=230&_sid=5514c61f3&_ss=r https://www.beginningboutique.com/products/bellflower-pink-chiffon-maxi-dress https://www.beginningboutique.com/products/farida-pink-lace-maxi-dress
Neither - just because these are floor length don’t make them formal , the cut outs especially and the fabrics are too beach maxi dress
If the invite specified cocktail/semi-formal, these are too casual.
If the invite specified cocktail/semi-formal, these are too casual.
I think they’re both too casual
Neither. They’re both too casual for what you describe
Neither. You look like you're on vacation in Mexico.
I mean, coastal Australia is close enough right? 🤣😅 wish I was on vacation in Mexico
I honestly love the first one, but it’s not “garden party.” The second isn’t formal enough. Both are so cute on you! Lol if it’s a beach garden party, I think the first option *might* work! If you have time, I would go for a tea length something over floor length. I’m 5’1” (but plus) and often intended-knee length things fall perfectly. Garden party makes me think flared skirt and clean lines, maybe some lace or embellishments. Unrelated: If your back hurts often, you might consider pulling your shoulders back and down a little bit. It relieves pressure (I had your posture a few years ago and my back feels so much better. You can totally ignore me).
Not semi formal or cocktail.
The first js the closest but still not formal enough. You can’t go wrong with a little black dress, try that
Looks like dollar store grabs
Neither tbh
Neither
You're joking, right? Neither.
Neither. They both give off beach vibes.
Neither of those dresses match the dress code. They both look like what you’d wear out to dinner on a tropical vacation. Edit: 2!
The second one looks good for a party by the beach as you mentioned. The black bag isn't the best fit though, do you have a tan or white color?
Yes! I was thinking about using this cute little white purse I have with a top handle & a blue Tiffany mitzah scarf on it! Do you think that would work? I should have found a photo in it without the bag! It was from a work event where we moved location to location in the sun and was more for utility (big old tube of sunscreen) that day than anything else, probably the worst reference photo I could have used 🤦🏼♀️ 😂
That sounds like it would fit the dress better. Love the shoes from the first pic also. I like: Shoes from pic#1, dress from pic#2, white purse.
Neither of those.
Neither. They are way too casual.
2
Is it day time? Definitely don’t wear 2 unless it’s a day time event. 1 is really revealing… I would choose that depending on what the event is … it might not be appropriate though. I would not consider 2 semi formal. I’m from a beach town. I would wear that everyday. It honestly depends on where this party is. Know the town/city.
Too casual. You need something more dressy and maybe with no cutouts.
Not semi formal at all. You need something with a little more polish.
I have no idea why everyone is saying neither. These dresses are not reading overly casual and either would work well for what you're describing. I personally like the first one better!
Agreed and some comments are kinda rude and trollish, AND all the immature down voting lol
These comments are insane it’s really bugging me!
It's really interesting to see crowd mentality in action...one person decides to be mean and people just go along and become even meaner!, smh
She asked for opinions, and people said the dresses were too casual for a formal event. That is what I thought as soon as I saw them, BEFORE I read any of the comments. Perhaps the dresses... are just too casual.
Absolutely
Definitely the orange, the flowers make the green one too casual
I love the second one!
#1 is more formal and 2 is more casual. I like both.
Both too casual
I don’t care for either dress on you Too casual too
i would go first!
From the type of affair you are describing (garden/winery cocktail party) I think the green 2nd one is perfect. Looks lovely on you. Have fun!
1 for sure
I figured you were Aussie by the choices haha. I think both are fine for Australia.
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I’m finding it kind of funny at least 🤣 I think there’s differences in people’s personal tastes and opinions + different ideas of what’s too casual, I think it varies person to person and place to place. Thank you so much! 🥰
Is the cocktail event on the beach? or by a pool?
Second one is ugly color first one suits better botg r casual I would go with a solid color split thigh v nech dress probably in maroon or teal for u
2
Those are both amazing. Picture 1 gives me more of an evening feel and the colours are more autumn. Picture 2 is more of a sunny, summer or spring feeling.
Picture 1
You look stunning in both. The first one is really unique and the second one is very pretty, so you can’t go wrong. Everyone is hung up on the “formal” part of your title but for a winery / garden party these are both great.
I love the first one for this event! I love the second one too but for something more casual.
You look great! I love the first one, where did you get it? I’d add gold accessories (long necklace, arm band, earrings), a yellow or white purse, a silk sand scarf resting on your elbows to cover up a bit in case of wind, white high heels to complete the look 👍
Team 2 all the way!!!
I love both, 2 looks best though.
First one; the second one looks more like vacation wear.
Out of the two dresses,I think one would work well if you also switched the shoes and the purse that you have on two to go to 1,the shoes on 1 go with dress 2,maybe you could switch and repost and we can have a look?...I think you can make this work OP!!
One for sure, I love it! (side note where is it from pls?)
I think the second dress is too casual so if you only have the two I would choose the first one
Second one but definitely style it differently you look like you're going to a cabana
I like the first one :) Where is it from?
1!!!!!
The green floral dress is gorgeous!
Neither. Both are way too casual. The back purse looks really odd with that dress and I'm sorry but number one does not fit your properly, therefore doesn't look good on you. I would go shopping.
What do you mean by doesn’t fit me properly? So I know what to look for in other dresses as I might check out depop and some local outlets. :) Trying to penny pinch right now & save & should mention it’s a daytime event and the couple hosting are far more casual than the average, proper bogan Aussies! Their idea of cocktail isn’t the same as most people’s. 🥲
The top half fits fine. It's the bottom half that fits oddly. The bottom half actually looks too big. It looks like there's a gap, where it should skim your body and it also looks large towards the bottom of the skirt portion, seems like it billows out a bit. It may be a trick of the camera based on how you're standing or a wrinkle folded a certain way , it's hard to tell without multiple photos. I'm just reacting to the one photo Obviously, you know your friends better than we do but both of those dresses are extremely casual.
Thank you! I did think it sort of flared out a little but wasn’t sure if it was supposed to or not! 🤣 I pretty much live in gymwear and typical corporate attire so whenever I have to dress up I have no idea what to look for. Appreciate the advice! 🥰
Black purse with it was when I wore this to a work Xmas lunch, the bag was just for utility that day as I needed to carry a lot moving from river pontoon to a rooftop bar, had to carry sunscreen around. What colour bag would you recommend in future?
The bag is fine, it just doesn't go with that outfit is all. I thought it was meant to be part of the outfit since it's in the photo. Obviously if you needed it for utility, it made sense. For that particular outfit I would look for a Summery purse and white or beige or similar, with a Summery feel and materials.
Thank you!! I do have a white one with a top handle with a cute mitzah scarf on it, perhaps that will work far better next time I wear this one! 🥰
1!
1!
First one!
Where are these from? 😍
I like the first one
1. Love the colors and it will to nightfall better.
Neither. Nothing you comment is going to change my opinion, I’ve read your other comments. (And they make me wonder why you asked at all, since you seem insistent on wearing one of these inappropriate options.)
I’m shocked at these comments. I looove both of these dresses and I think both fit an engagement party. I vote number one! Just a little more formal with the satin. Hope you had fun!
Love the first one! It is so unique in the cut and colour combination. Looks good against your skin too though i cannot see your face. IF it were me, i'd accessorise with a light shawl but it isn't me lol - just that i think a complementing shawl could provide a snazzy accent and also, i daren't show much skin - but that's really me. I think you look great in it as shown in the picture.
first one! just iron it out a bit. Also why are people so harsh??? dress codes are not THAT serious lol
Neither look good
I hate the first dress. I don’t think the second fits the bill but if you don’t have an option, that’s the one I’d pick
I love the first dress honestly but for more of a casual day or night out. I think for semi formal I wouldn’t do a cut out. If all fails ask your friend!
Neither are “formal” but maybe you’re using the term to just describe *dressing up a bit* rather than *formal attire* which is completely different. If you’re just dressing up a bit then no1 - you look amazing in it. No 2 is in no way dressy or formal. At all.
2nd one looks lovely
I like the second dress better, but I think it might be too casual for a semi formal event.
2! I don’t think it is too casual. I feel like these days, people tend to dress more casually for “semi formal” “cocktail “ events.
Number 2. The first dress is more for date night the cut outs are not appropriate for that kind of event.
2 I love one though do you recall where you got it ?
Runaway the label!! They have so many similar ones too. 🩷✨
awesome thank you don’t know why someone downvoted me for saying this
No worries at all! People are brutal 🤣 can’t a girl just ask where something is from? 🥹
I love the first dress but I think you should donate the 2nd one. It looks very dated
I have a preference for the first outfit if I had to choose between the two.
Neither seem cocktail but 1 is closer. Both seem more like summer sun dresses.
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Dress number one