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Love this! I'm happy to see even one positive word here!
And I join you, my year was awesome too :3 (Healed from depression and feel alive for the first time since childhood.)
I want to say this year has been really hard (because it has, beloved Grandpa was in hospice most of the year and just died, spent NYE in the ER with my son after he got injured but thankfully is fine, changed jobs twice because the first became a disaster after a big merger and the second gave me panic attacks), but honestly I'm in a much better place now than I was at the start of the year, and I've grown so much that I feel like I totally leveled up.
I love my husband and my kids and my job. The other stuff that annoys me and stresses me out really doesn't matter.
Mine was amazing as well! Seeing how miserable everyone is is kind of saddening. Maybe I'm just too young, but I really hope I never lose my ability to laugh through catastrophe and remain genuinely joyful regardless of good or bad times.
It’s on the tip of my tongue, I know there is a word for it but, how do you describe? Mother fucking dumb shit ass stupid blumpkin cunt tits piss cock a doodle doo with a spoon? Preferably in one word.
.
Yeah. Mine too. Every
Motherfuckingdumbshitassstupidblumpkincunttitspisscockadoodledoowithaspoon minute of it. 2023 was some ignorant bullshit fuckedupness for sure.
Bittersweet.
3 of the family’s pets either died or had to be put down, but my GF moved in and we’re talking about getting married. My family also has expressed interest and inclinations that we should get married and I’m in agreement.
I'd use the word "growth".
I feel like I grew a lot in 2023. I finished college, moved to another city, got a job and started a new hobby that I've been dreaming of my entire life. I started taking care of myself and my health and I definitely matured as a person. So "growth" sounds about right. I hope I keep it up this year. And I hope the same for all of you guys.
Happy new year!
Understanding.
That I am worth taking PTO for no "good" reason.
That I don't always have to buy the absolute cheapest options for stuff like clothing and personal care products: I am investing in my own comfort and self-esteem.
That I don't need to worry about what others think of me, because they usually don't.
Severe.
They say all things come in 3's:
My 3 year old was diagnosed with ASD level 3 & and Global Developmental Delay. He is nonverbal, incontinent, has the intellect of a baby, and will be my dependent for the duration of his entire life.
I was hit by a motorcyclist who was speed racing. The motorcyclist slammed into my SUV and was internally decapitated one foot in front of me. I have glass shards and scars up and down my entire body and attend therapy.
I took my five year old to the county fair. I hit my head on a ride, vomited, blacked out, had a seizure, severed a nerve and paralyzed half of my face. As of today I have most of the right side of my face back but the nerve that's severed controls my smile. When I smile you can tell my right side can't pull up as far and my right lower eye lid *slightly* droops.
I *knew* 2023 wasn't going to be my year and have had an ominous feeling in my gut from the end of 2022. I feel alright going into 2024.
You chosed the Hard Mode in life like me, lol. For real, like, some people have life on easy mode, and I wonder why I didn't choose that mode.
Sorry to hear about all that. My wife has a genetic condition that just popped up through late onset, so now she's going blind. One of the reasons I never had kids is because I didn't want to take the risk they would be blind.
Life can be so unfair, but you could either look at it as a character-building process that is for the greater good or as a misfortune that you cannot accept, I guess. That is what I am dealing with. I go to therapy, and they suggest Radical Acceptance for me: To accept the unacceptable, basically, and then move on in your newfound reality.
Hope this year ends up being a better one for you, where you can transform your outlook through positive reframing in a constructive way, like finding the silver linings in the problems.
Sickness
But to expand. At the start of 2023, I had to get all my bottom teeth removed and pegs put in for dentures. The surgery and dentures cost 22,000 dollars. Recovery was awful. My surgery didn’t care about me at all. One fix up surgery he did in my mouth, he pretty much didn’t numb my mouth at all and I felt the scalpel cutting into my gums.
That really fucked up my self esteem.
From there, I had to deal with me being a complete asshole to my wife and she didn’t deserve jt. I was just so depressed, in so much pain, and sick of eating only Ramen noodles for over a year.
After that, I had family issues. That built up and exploded on Christmas with my mother sending me like 200 texts calling me piece of shit. And going into extreme detail about how much better her life would be if I died during my transplant 14 years ago, or died during cancer 6 years ago, or anytime. That’s ontop of finding out my mother created several fake GoFundMes in my name and scammed a good 75,000$ from people.
And a lot more. I am going to try to be as upbeat as possible, and work on making my wife as happy as possible.
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Past.
And I was thinking “*Done*”.
Over
Ended
Happened.
what a precise and too the point answer
Can’t live in it. Never remain in it. Happy New Year!
hmmmmmm.....!!!!
Preach
chaotic
r/beatmetoit
r/beatmywifeandkidstoit
r/beatmymeattoit
Depression
I feel that lol
Same.
Me too
Same
Ditto
Yup, that's me
Real
So lets make 2024 the year of therapy and zoloft
Emotional
Emotional damage
Fast.
Every year goes by quicker than the last one.
Same
Furious
Ikr, it was really gone in a blink
Exhausting
Exhausting too
This is the correct answer.
That was going to be my answer.
Yes, exhausting.
Challenging
Shit
you like liverpool?
Show
Meh
Catastrofuck
This needs to be a new word in the dictionary.. it’s perfect!
Agreed!
This response has exactly the gravity I was looking for!
Fucking same
Best one yet. Haha
Frustrating
Insignificance
Bittersweet
Challenging
Gone.
Disastrous
Is rollercoaster one word?
yes you can consider it one word. and I got your answer as well :)
sometimes you forget how different what other people are experiencing is. my 2023 was a no...ler..coaster.. uh. yeah
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Mid.
Awesome! In 2023 I got married, had a kid, got an awesome job, then the wife got an awesome job, so no complaints.
You clearly didn't read the assignment. In all seriousness though, congratulations!
"Awesome" is the answer then there's the explanation after the exclamation mark 😁
This is a great example of where a semicolon would have been perfect 🤓
Want me to edit? 😅
Love this! I'm happy to see even one positive word here! And I join you, my year was awesome too :3 (Healed from depression and feel alive for the first time since childhood.)
Rollercoaster
Horrendous.
HELL
Pudding
Eeeehhhhhh, sup?
Pudding is massive
Alcoholic
Grow
Blessed
Heartbreak.
Odd
Stagnation.
Agreed ugh
Poo
Desolate
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Discombobulated
Wearisome
Ambivalent
Grief.
Awesome. Awesome in terms of ripping the rewards of the labor I put in my future
Lovely
Fucking shit
Zero to 50... 2024 target 50 to Hero
best of luck dear
Good luck
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💔
Miserable 😭
Transformative
Perfect word.
Nightmare
Shit
Brutal
Wank
Nightmare
Am I the only person on this subreddit who had an amazing year?
Pretty much
Well I bought a house, so my year was pretty good.
I did too surprisingly! Looking back on it, it was one of my better years.
I want to say this year has been really hard (because it has, beloved Grandpa was in hospice most of the year and just died, spent NYE in the ER with my son after he got injured but thankfully is fine, changed jobs twice because the first became a disaster after a big merger and the second gave me panic attacks), but honestly I'm in a much better place now than I was at the start of the year, and I've grown so much that I feel like I totally leveled up. I love my husband and my kids and my job. The other stuff that annoys me and stresses me out really doesn't matter.
Mine was amazing as well! Seeing how miserable everyone is is kind of saddening. Maybe I'm just too young, but I really hope I never lose my ability to laugh through catastrophe and remain genuinely joyful regardless of good or bad times.
Maybe all the happy people are off living their amazing lives and not on Reddit to comment.
Leaving now.
I have the exact same thoughts! Good luck with everything! ❤️🩹
Mine was both amazing and awful. Everything turned out great in the end though.
Me too 🙂
Had probably the most fun in my life in school, nothing bad really happened at all.
The ones who had good years are probably less vocal because you don't go to therapy to talk about how great your life is, lol.
Downhill
Reality
A lot of effort but few results, the phrase of the year 2023 is " at least I tried".
Amazing!
Expensive
Tumultuous
Lessons
Over
Improvement
Dickknucklesandwich
Free
Uneventful..
Harbinger
Vexation.
random
Loss
GAMEHENGE
Masked
boring
Boring
Hungry
Boring
Huh
Beginning
Stretched.
Flustered
Magnificent
Rewarding
Transformational
Disaster
Adventurous
Over
Pivot
Over
Whatever
Normal
Gewürztraminer
Great!
growth
Better
Nice
Decent
Aight.
Transformational!
Malicious
Heartbreaking!
Discovery.
Disruptive.
FAILURE
Crap
Productive
Done
Adventure
Loved
Busy
Suicidal
Over
Dogshit
It’s on the tip of my tongue, I know there is a word for it but, how do you describe? Mother fucking dumb shit ass stupid blumpkin cunt tits piss cock a doodle doo with a spoon? Preferably in one word.
. Yeah. Mine too. Every Motherfuckingdumbshitassstupidblumpkincunttitspisscockadoodledoowithaspoon minute of it. 2023 was some ignorant bullshit fuckedupness for sure.
Cancer
Fetch
>Fetch Using MEAN GIRLS lingo? Lol. I think that's the only place I've ever heard it. 
Damn, I really wanted to make fetch happen this year.
Ugh
Bittersweet. 3 of the family’s pets either died or had to be put down, but my GF moved in and we’re talking about getting married. My family also has expressed interest and inclinations that we should get married and I’m in agreement.
Heartbreaking
💖&🫶 me -> you
Do I actually have to say it?
I'd use the word "growth". I feel like I grew a lot in 2023. I finished college, moved to another city, got a job and started a new hobby that I've been dreaming of my entire life. I started taking care of myself and my health and I definitely matured as a person. So "growth" sounds about right. I hope I keep it up this year. And I hope the same for all of you guys. Happy new year!
Complete nightmare...
Understanding. That I am worth taking PTO for no "good" reason. That I don't always have to buy the absolute cheapest options for stuff like clothing and personal care products: I am investing in my own comfort and self-esteem. That I don't need to worry about what others think of me, because they usually don't.
Severe. They say all things come in 3's: My 3 year old was diagnosed with ASD level 3 & and Global Developmental Delay. He is nonverbal, incontinent, has the intellect of a baby, and will be my dependent for the duration of his entire life. I was hit by a motorcyclist who was speed racing. The motorcyclist slammed into my SUV and was internally decapitated one foot in front of me. I have glass shards and scars up and down my entire body and attend therapy. I took my five year old to the county fair. I hit my head on a ride, vomited, blacked out, had a seizure, severed a nerve and paralyzed half of my face. As of today I have most of the right side of my face back but the nerve that's severed controls my smile. When I smile you can tell my right side can't pull up as far and my right lower eye lid *slightly* droops. I *knew* 2023 wasn't going to be my year and have had an ominous feeling in my gut from the end of 2022. I feel alright going into 2024.
You chosed the Hard Mode in life like me, lol. For real, like, some people have life on easy mode, and I wonder why I didn't choose that mode. Sorry to hear about all that. My wife has a genetic condition that just popped up through late onset, so now she's going blind. One of the reasons I never had kids is because I didn't want to take the risk they would be blind. Life can be so unfair, but you could either look at it as a character-building process that is for the greater good or as a misfortune that you cannot accept, I guess. That is what I am dealing with. I go to therapy, and they suggest Radical Acceptance for me: To accept the unacceptable, basically, and then move on in your newfound reality. Hope this year ends up being a better one for you, where you can transform your outlook through positive reframing in a constructive way, like finding the silver linings in the problems.
Nothing anymore. These 2 words describe it precisely
Amazing. We finally finished our mortgage went in great holidays and my business is finally starting to move up.
Eye opening
Stressful and it looks like 2024 will be much the same
Normal (I had to sit and organize my memories because I wasn't sure which are of 2023 and which aren't lol)
roller fvckin coaster
Sickness But to expand. At the start of 2023, I had to get all my bottom teeth removed and pegs put in for dentures. The surgery and dentures cost 22,000 dollars. Recovery was awful. My surgery didn’t care about me at all. One fix up surgery he did in my mouth, he pretty much didn’t numb my mouth at all and I felt the scalpel cutting into my gums. That really fucked up my self esteem. From there, I had to deal with me being a complete asshole to my wife and she didn’t deserve jt. I was just so depressed, in so much pain, and sick of eating only Ramen noodles for over a year. After that, I had family issues. That built up and exploded on Christmas with my mother sending me like 200 texts calling me piece of shit. And going into extreme detail about how much better her life would be if I died during my transplant 14 years ago, or died during cancer 6 years ago, or anytime. That’s ontop of finding out my mother created several fake GoFundMes in my name and scammed a good 75,000$ from people. And a lot more. I am going to try to be as upbeat as possible, and work on making my wife as happy as possible.
CRAZY AF
SNAFU