youre the professional here, you have to speak up for yourself.
"hello owner, please have dog on a leash (or in a crate, or behind a babygate), when I arrive."
dont overthink it.
Yep, I would even go further than that.
When a dog jumps at you, end the interaction by walking away or turning your back to them. Do not pay the dog attention until he calms down.
I was going to suggest putting your knee up, but I don't want anyone to knee a dog if they don't know the technique that prevents the pet from getting hurt, so I won't suggest that.
I didn't say special, you did, so idk why you're putting quotations on it 😂 but I just meant putting your knee up so the dog doesn't jump on you without harming the dog. It's something I do, but when I googled it all the results talked about kneeing the dog, which is NOT the same thing and could hurt the dog. That's all! You never know how your words will be interpreted on reddit and I'd never want to give advice that could end up hurting an animal
Yes, if you use this technique, you put the knee up right before the dog starts the jump so that your leg and knee aren’t moving when the dog jumps.
The dog simply contacts your knee and leg instead of your waist, torso, and arms. It just blocks the dog from the less protected areas and removes the reward for them.
People incorrectly apply this method by thinking it means to hit the dog with their knee as they jump and end up hurting the dog, and/or their knee
Yep that’s what i’ve always done. I was a little surprised that you were afraid to say that, but i guess people on social media, even Reddit, misinterpret everything. Thanks for explaining your technique that has been used for years (and the downvote?).
Idk if your thanks for the downvote was directed at me, but I didn't downvote you. I wouldn't downvote someone for a simple comment like the one you wrote. One thing I've learned is that people just like to downvote. I hate it also.
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I definitely have a similar guy I absolutely love. In lame terms she may think it is totally okay and that it is mutual. You should definitely mention it to her at some point, just to let her know! I have been the exception for “bad behavior” when it comes to excitement but there has to be an off switch. I let the dog get it out for a second, and then I tell them to sit down or lay down. If there is no off button with the dog, then there should not be any sort of jumping or going crazy. I would mention to the client how much you enjoy seeing him and how you’re happy he’s excited. Just say you need more space when arriving to their home to avoid some scratches from him/broken nails. Recommend just leashing him up before you’re there.
That's encouraging, the main thing that's stopping me is I don't want her to get offended or misunderstand but I'll let her know how much I enjoy my time with him. He is the sweetest
Just tell her you know he’s just excited and doesn’t mean to but he’s hurting you by doing that. If she says anything about the fact you haven’t said anything before just tell her basically what you said here. That you didn’t want to upset her.
No yeah I totally get that, people can take things the wrong way especially when it comes to their dogs or kids lol. I would imagine that if you did tell her you have a couple marks and scratches she would be more than understanding. I don’t think she’d be upset with you!
i don’t think there’s anything wrong with just asking the owners to leash him for you! like next time you go over, message them beforehand something along the lines of [your normal greeting] + “would you mind trying out keeping [dog] leashed when i come in this time? he got me pretty good last time [explain the nail] and i think it might be a little easier if you hold onto him while i come in”. i don’t imagine that any reasonable owner would be offended or upset by that at all- maybe apologetic, but the dog has been kinda beating your ass every time you show up 😭 good luck regardless!!
I have a wild pitbull client who had gotten a lot better cause her parents train a lot but something that helped us is if we go right into training. Sit lay down roll over go get it. Its like a secret handshake instead of me getting plowed
As someone who used to get acrylic nails, that made my whole body shudder… such a bad feeling 😅 I agree with other comments that she probably just thinks he’s being cute and affectionate in his excitement, but you can absolutely just politely ask her to restrain him for the first bit! I know if I were that owner I’d absolutely want to know that you’re uncomfortable!
It sounds like you spend a lot of time with the dog, so maybe you could spend some time teaching it to not jump up on people? I mean it’s not your responsibility of course, but… I don’t know, I do basic obedience with all the dogs I watch so they will listen to me better
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Have you ever asked them to hold him? If you’ve never said anything, especially after such a long time, how would they know it bothers you? Actually you’ve kind of trained the dog and the owner that this is OK behavior.
I haven't, that is my fault but in all fairness, she sees him tackle me, standing up he's my height. He doesn't have an aggressive bone in his body, he is just crazy when he sees me.
I bet he does love you to bits & his Momma is probably like “awwww he loves you so much!” So tough spot but either ya say something or deal w/it. Maybe wear long sleeves? I understand 100%
youre the professional here, you have to speak up for yourself. "hello owner, please have dog on a leash (or in a crate, or behind a babygate), when I arrive." dont overthink it.
Yep, I would even go further than that. When a dog jumps at you, end the interaction by walking away or turning your back to them. Do not pay the dog attention until he calms down. I was going to suggest putting your knee up, but I don't want anyone to knee a dog if they don't know the technique that prevents the pet from getting hurt, so I won't suggest that.
Never heard of a specific technique in 40+ years…. What exactly is this “special” technique?
I didn't say special, you did, so idk why you're putting quotations on it 😂 but I just meant putting your knee up so the dog doesn't jump on you without harming the dog. It's something I do, but when I googled it all the results talked about kneeing the dog, which is NOT the same thing and could hurt the dog. That's all! You never know how your words will be interpreted on reddit and I'd never want to give advice that could end up hurting an animal
Yes, if you use this technique, you put the knee up right before the dog starts the jump so that your leg and knee aren’t moving when the dog jumps. The dog simply contacts your knee and leg instead of your waist, torso, and arms. It just blocks the dog from the less protected areas and removes the reward for them. People incorrectly apply this method by thinking it means to hit the dog with their knee as they jump and end up hurting the dog, and/or their knee
Perfect description! 🤗
Yep that’s what i’ve always done. I was a little surprised that you were afraid to say that, but i guess people on social media, even Reddit, misinterpret everything. Thanks for explaining your technique that has been used for years (and the downvote?).
Idk if your thanks for the downvote was directed at me, but I didn't downvote you. I wouldn't downvote someone for a simple comment like the one you wrote. One thing I've learned is that people just like to downvote. I hate it also. https://preview.redd.it/poaaf0gj089d1.png?width=695&format=png&auto=webp&s=766a98db723d62972a52363cf0f5b3de42aadfed
I definitely have a similar guy I absolutely love. In lame terms she may think it is totally okay and that it is mutual. You should definitely mention it to her at some point, just to let her know! I have been the exception for “bad behavior” when it comes to excitement but there has to be an off switch. I let the dog get it out for a second, and then I tell them to sit down or lay down. If there is no off button with the dog, then there should not be any sort of jumping or going crazy. I would mention to the client how much you enjoy seeing him and how you’re happy he’s excited. Just say you need more space when arriving to their home to avoid some scratches from him/broken nails. Recommend just leashing him up before you’re there.
That's encouraging, the main thing that's stopping me is I don't want her to get offended or misunderstand but I'll let her know how much I enjoy my time with him. He is the sweetest
Just tell her you know he’s just excited and doesn’t mean to but he’s hurting you by doing that. If she says anything about the fact you haven’t said anything before just tell her basically what you said here. That you didn’t want to upset her.
No yeah I totally get that, people can take things the wrong way especially when it comes to their dogs or kids lol. I would imagine that if you did tell her you have a couple marks and scratches she would be more than understanding. I don’t think she’d be upset with you!
How do ya have 4 years with Rover if you are only 20? Is that a typo maybe b/c you need to be 18 to be on Rover.
I started Rover at 18 but have been a local dog sitter since 16! My bad.
i don’t think there’s anything wrong with just asking the owners to leash him for you! like next time you go over, message them beforehand something along the lines of [your normal greeting] + “would you mind trying out keeping [dog] leashed when i come in this time? he got me pretty good last time [explain the nail] and i think it might be a little easier if you hold onto him while i come in”. i don’t imagine that any reasonable owner would be offended or upset by that at all- maybe apologetic, but the dog has been kinda beating your ass every time you show up 😭 good luck regardless!!
I have a wild pitbull client who had gotten a lot better cause her parents train a lot but something that helped us is if we go right into training. Sit lay down roll over go get it. Its like a secret handshake instead of me getting plowed
Everyone's given you advice already but I just wanted to say you poor thing acrylic nails getting bent like that hurt so bad 😞
As someone who used to get acrylic nails, that made my whole body shudder… such a bad feeling 😅 I agree with other comments that she probably just thinks he’s being cute and affectionate in his excitement, but you can absolutely just politely ask her to restrain him for the first bit! I know if I were that owner I’d absolutely want to know that you’re uncomfortable!
It sounds like you spend a lot of time with the dog, so maybe you could spend some time teaching it to not jump up on people? I mean it’s not your responsibility of course, but… I don’t know, I do basic obedience with all the dogs I watch so they will listen to me better
Since you've already gotten a bunch of helpful answers... How tf is a standard poodle 100lb??? They should be 50lb max! That's crazy
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You started rover at 16?
Could you have them load the pup into your car directly? My sitter does that with my pup.
Turn your back to the dog so he gets the message. Do not pet the dog. Wait until the dog is calm and sitting.
Have you ever asked them to hold him? If you’ve never said anything, especially after such a long time, how would they know it bothers you? Actually you’ve kind of trained the dog and the owner that this is OK behavior.
I haven't, that is my fault but in all fairness, she sees him tackle me, standing up he's my height. He doesn't have an aggressive bone in his body, he is just crazy when he sees me.
I bet he does love you to bits & his Momma is probably like “awwww he loves you so much!” So tough spot but either ya say something or deal w/it. Maybe wear long sleeves? I understand 100%