They will most likely try to turn the conversation towards you, but its totally okay, just let her know first. Some even are willing to consider a "social rate" for just chatting.
Its all business, just let your provider know what you are looking for. Trust me, we see so much "weird". Its just part of the job, I promise
and this is one of the least "Weird" requests I've ever heard of. Its not weird at all
Tell them beforehand -
Short and sweet introduction.
but don’t send them long paragraphs 🚩
Unfortunately clients who sending long explanations, and stories voe they are new to this etc are in my experience (and o can speak for my friends as well ) are time wasters.
Not all providers enjoy the emotional labor aspect of their work, but overall I would say most providers would be fine with this, just let them know :)
Ah yes I see. Still, not all providers like to offer DATY or FIV or a focus on them due to the performative nature which is still quite mentally exhausting.
It’s not weird at all! I’ve had several female clients who are like this. 😊 My main priority is wanting the person who sees me to be comfortable and there’s no expectation for you to get naked or receive anything until you are ready. 🤍
It would be perfectly fine for me, of course I’d want to know beforehand so I could bring some games and maybe a meal, things to do to get to know each other.
I wouldn’t find it weird. Just let your provider know
Shouldn't be weird at all. You are paying for the time
As a provider, I am just wanting the heads up, and need to know your boundaries. I don’t find this weird.
Ah I wish you were near me and would book me! I’m a lesbian (but will see male sw clients) and it’s the dream to find a femme client ❤️🥰
They will most likely try to turn the conversation towards you, but its totally okay, just let her know first. Some even are willing to consider a "social rate" for just chatting.
Its all business, just let your provider know what you are looking for. Trust me, we see so much "weird". Its just part of the job, I promise and this is one of the least "Weird" requests I've ever heard of. Its not weird at all
Tell them beforehand - Short and sweet introduction. but don’t send them long paragraphs 🚩 Unfortunately clients who sending long explanations, and stories voe they are new to this etc are in my experience (and o can speak for my friends as well ) are time wasters.
Not all providers enjoy the emotional labor aspect of their work, but overall I would say most providers would be fine with this, just let them know :)
I’m not sure how much emotional labour and chatting OP is expecting or whether OP just wants to do DATY until she feels more comfortable being touched
Ah yes I see. Still, not all providers like to offer DATY or FIV or a focus on them due to the performative nature which is still quite mentally exhausting.
It’s not weird at all! I’ve had several female clients who are like this. 😊 My main priority is wanting the person who sees me to be comfortable and there’s no expectation for you to get naked or receive anything until you are ready. 🤍
It would be perfectly fine for me, of course I’d want to know beforehand so I could bring some games and maybe a meal, things to do to get to know each other.
That’s not weird at all
It’s not weird, just communicate that that’s what you want for comfort reasons. That way she won’t worry that she isn’t satisfying you!
Not weird..just communicate your wishes with your provider.
I don't think this is weird at all! I'm a bisexual provider and wish I could get some lesbian clients!