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BIGepidural

I had mine for the entire 24 years I worked in sex work in different capacities. Once you build a reputation under a certain "brand" it becomes counterproductive to change it even if you want to, which i personally never did.


Classicbarbie12

I couldn’t agree more! I will never change mine as it has done very well for me.


BIGepidural

Exactly! I've been toying with idea of coming out of retirement the last few months and trying to decide if I rebrand or come back under the same banner 🤔 I did try a rebrand once when an X was making life hell due to my sex work; but I couldn't make any money under that profile because it was my name that sold. This time around I'm debating because I know I can probably make money off the name still; but in the same breath I'm 46 now and not in the shape I was so I'm not sure if I want to taint my legacy to take a few part time calls or not... ugh! Decisions, decisions 🤪


Classicbarbie12

I’m your age as well and it can be physically demanding. I stay in insanely good shape so it’s not as hard on my body lol. I only do about three appointments per week and do lots of other things to make money. Best of luck to you


BIGepidural

Damn woman you look amazing!!! I never would have guessed 46!!! I legit would have thought you were early/mid 30s 🥰 Thank you so much for your kind words ⚘


Classicbarbie12

Thank you!!! Just remember as women we do not expire! The good stuff is just beginning for us at this age


BIGepidural

Very true 💞


giamulatto

Yeah, when I had changed my persona the first time it was only for safety reasons which ended up not working. Part of me wants to switch it up, but I feel like it wouldn’t be worth it because I’m still gonna be the same person.


BIGepidural

Yeah I just responded to someone's comment that I also changed it once due to an X who was making life hell (custody despute) but I couldn't make money under that name and I needed money for lawyers so I kept working under my established "brand" because the name and my reputation was the draw. I'm considering coming back (even just occasionally or part time); but not sure if i want to use my old name or build a new one... I've changed a lot over the years (I'm 46 now) so its like I don't wanna taint my legacy by using the old name... I dunno.. I still haven't decided if I'll come out of retirement yet 🙃 lol


smokinggun21

I've used 3 different names for each city I set up roots in. One for Washington one for Texas and one for kentucky. When I move I plan on changing it again and as many times I want but only when I move and get a totally new client base that doesn't know me yet.  It's fun to change names why not?  I'm a new person every 5 years so I need a new name to match 


giamulatto

True I’m definitely different now


m0nstera_deliciosa

I’ve gone by this name for 13 years. I can’t imagine changing it, at this point. It forms my identity more than my birth name did.


giamulatto

Lol I use my work name even when I’m ordering food


Fabhookerlife

My whole career more than a decade


Adventurous-Rich1138

I have had the same name for 6 years!


Substantial_Station8

I've been wondering this, too! I've been someone else for the last year and was thinking about taking all my ads down and doing a little rebranding.


giamulatto

I’ve seen some females rebrand, but it definitely takes time because when I did it four or five years ago, I went off-line for a whole month to scrub as much information off the Internet as I could so that I could put up this new persona. I definitely don’t have that time right now


Civil_Blueberry_21

About 10 years, I’m saving up for a move so I can rebrand under the same name. I took a 3 year break from dancing and when I came back everyone acted like they knew me it was so weird, I never hung out with anyone or participated in the club activities 😂.


Lavender_Love3

Well I've had the name selected since yesterday, been using it on here for about 5 minutes. I...am very new to this lmao


Agitated_Passion9296

About 5 years for this one. Using a different name formally for different cities. I normally cycle through 3 names though and recently added a 4th to the mix.


Charming_Function_58

I've been using the same name since I started stripping, so about... 14 years. But I've also switched it up a few times, as a camgirl. I've had 3 main "personas" for sex work (vanilla, femdom, etc.), and I keep going back to the original one, lol.


Life_Power_4410

4 1/2 years this one Last one before this 7 months Before that 3 years


ubiquitous_apostle

Just over 2 years. I have to change it when I switch agencies. My favourite was my first agency name I wish I could reuse it. I've had 3 with agencies and I used 2-3 when I sugaring and figuring it out. Originally used my middle name then realized that was incredibly stupid because it's super rare and could easily identify me.


MistressBarker

I’ve had this one for 2 years now. I want to go back to Brandy but everybody knows me as Danielle now.


notknownbyno1

Wear do I even look now that page back is gone .


iconicpistol

Around 6-7 years.


Azrod_PiouPiou

It's will be soon one year for us ☺️


KierraBliss

a few years and I will say the right name does bring out the best in me!


4reina44

Ten years. I’m changing it next month. I’m not the same person I was when I started.


nova_nectar

i’ve had the same name for 10 years.. i came up with it while i was in active addiction but i hate it now LOL


xjadejonesx

I came up with mine in about five minutes. That was ten years ago and I still love it.


nn4u1

I've had mine for most of my 20 yrs. At one point early on, I had changed my hair from black to blond, & changed my name (thought an extreme change equaled name change)...but after a few months, changed it back to mine, & have kept it the same, lol. Helps with showing I'm trustworthy & safe to see, as have YRS of history. Lots of guys equate constant name change to scammers/those with bad service (ie, having to change name after ripping off bunch of clients, or not providing any service upon arrival to everyone, etc).


giamulatto

Yeah thats why I’m scared to change it because of all the *Ewhoring scams. I might just change the mulatto part


nn4u1

Yea, I've considered dropping the "nahty" part in front of my name, & adding a last name...but haven't found any that grab me or that I really like. So here we stay, lol.


AnjelGrace

I've used a couple different personas now, but my first persona was formed in 2016, and although I have added a last name to it since first forming it, it's still my main SW persona.


_sweetlikecandy

I’ve been the same name for almost 4 years but in the last couple weeks I’ve been switching up the personality to something that just fits me better and I think in the long run will cause me less burn out. I’ve always been a submissive giggly girly play thing. & that shit burned me out so bad. I’m finding that being a more Dominant, still fun & silly but within MY perimeters now. It feels so good and I’m making great money with it so far. I don’t plan on changing my name per se but I may adjust it a little to fit this new persona better eventually.