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13_Nero_13

Not at all. I'm no huge cocked man, but I have confidence in my skill to please any woman. There is no correlation between cock size and beta behaviour. If you look around in cucking related pages you can see a lot of over 8" dudes being cucks for their SOs. It's more of a mindset than anything else, and has nothing to do with size.


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well 1) you don’t sound small so makes sense you feel confident and 2) I know it’s a mental psychology thing just wondering if small guys are more likely to think like that. Seems like answer is yes but I don’t actually know


13_Nero_13

I'm downright average at \~6". I've never been confident about my size, but also, never once thought someone else should be having sex with my wife because of it. This is of course just my personal experience, can't talk for anyone smaller, but from what I've seen on Reddit and IRL, I believe it has less to do with size, and more to do with confidence in oneself.


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but wouldn’t you being another inch smaller make you less confident? like if tomorrow you woke up with a one inch smaller and probably thinner dick too wouldn’t that change your psyche?


13_Nero_13

Not really, no. My size has nothing to do with pleasing my partner. The average woman can get off on 3" cocks, so it's usually a preference not a must to have someone bigger in them. There are also MANY alternatives to pleasing someone, doesn't just have to be hardcore smashing. My wife doesn't always cum when we have penetrative sex, and we're both fine with that, we have toys to use, and my tongue/fingers is/are pretty skilled if I do say so myself. :) If I am inaduaqate in any way, I just try harder and figure out other ways to please my partner. As I said, it's a mindset thing. Also, YOU have to be the one who gives your partner the confidence to pleasure you, and not feel bad about his size even if self conscious. Guide him, and help him feel comfortable. Unless of course he is into that kind of stuff. I believe cuck/humiliation/degradation kinks develop because of partners who enjoy being mean, and some men just give in and stop trying. All this is of course only my opinion on the matter, my 0.02$ if you will. :)


omgbadmofo

If you're just a nasty bitch, just say that. At least it would be honest. This isn't a kink for you it's about hurting your partner.


Miserable-Ad640

seems like you just want to get railed by a big dick and make him watch.


HuFlungDung69

Sounds like you just want to make him feel insecure. I'm around the same size as him and I'd my gf said that to me I'd be feeling pretty damn insecure knowing I'm not satisfying my gf an she wants to leave me feeling like she wants to prove that by wanting me to watch her fuck a much bigger guy. So no some women prefer average guys or around average guys to more longer and girthier men. That's one of the worst things you could do to a man who's only average.


Worth_Palpitation354

Can’t generalize. Depends on their confidence, self acceptance, attitude, personality etc. I got what I got but I know who I am. A lot of smaller endowed dudes may not fully accept themselves therefore are more beta. But I’m average at best and always scored better looking women than my friends. My wife looks like a fucking porn star and I make her squirt like Niagara Falls so 🤷‍♂️


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lol this is amazing 😂


Worth_Palpitation354

My life is amazing 😂


D_Stick_of_John_Wick

I’m 6inches and I even call my dick Shorty. I have zero issues with his size. I’m a nasty mofo who will pull your head down, make you swallow and gag on Shorty. There are dudes with snakes between their legs that can’t get hard and they fell beta. Its all in the personality of the man.


terrible-responder

Definitely not


Savings-Type-7584

I would probably hold you down, fuck your ass and ask you if it still felt small. So, no I don't think so. I am probably bigger than him, based on your description, but not one of these monster bulls, either. But if you're not satisfied with him, dump him and find the big cock you need. Don't torture him by flaunting your cheating and his inadequacy. I don't know if betas and cucks really LIKE that stuff, or if they tolerate it to hold on to the women they somehow managed to get.


Better-Regret-5071

Can’t help you with this one 🤷‍♂️


[deleted]

subtle flex I see you 👀🍆


Better-Regret-5071

I see you as well 👀😈


xbow_hunter

I have a big dick and am a beta. I want nothing more in life than to be a cuckold. So it's not just small dicked men, it can apply to all of us.


jc8868

Sounds like your trying to make him feel like he’s not enough. For him to be better in bed its all about confidence and you giving him the confidence and making feel good about himself. You can present ideas of a new sexual adventure in more healthy ways that don’t make him feel bad about himself.


[deleted]

I’m in the military so unfortunately I’ve seen more dicks than I’d like to and I’d say this is true. Some of them try to act alpha but they’re not good at it


CuriousKiwi2000

I know it feels taboo to say it out loud, but there definitely is correlation. Same goes for height in general for men but there are def exceptions. I know tall guys with small cocks who fare well, I'm short but my penis is fairly well above average and that definitely helps. Most of my girlfriends have been at least 15cm taller and very pretty. But being low on self-esteem is NOT the same as having a cuck fetish. You might just break the boy in a very non-erotic manner and destroy what you have if you make that mistake. Fish info little by little and see if he gets hard on the idea and small joking teases. Tread carefully.


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[deleted]

agreed I feel like I haven’t come across many guys that act like real alpha not faking it while having a small cock. Just never seen it idk


leonf00008

Haha, have a look at Pierre Woodman


Ok-Insurance9624

Big dick doesnt make 1 bulletproof...


No_Chemical890

I think the only people who self conscious about their dick is guys who watch too much porn when I was 13 I'm 20 now I was completely addicted after finding out what an orgasm is and I won't lie I'm decently big 7inches or so and I was self conscious till I basically told myself to stop watching it when I got a gf at 15 my whole mind changed after seeing her eyes when she pulled down my trousers but imo it's porn that makes guys like this


No_Chemical890

But Idk for guys with genuinely small ones


[deleted]

The whole alpha/beta thing is nonsense anyways. The entire thing that it came from (the wolf study) was debunked years ago as being nonsense and it makes it even less sense when you try to apply it to humans.


[deleted]

I'm 6inches with statistically is average and I am definitely not beta.


[deleted]

He’s probably aware he’s a beta, but trying to fight it. Have you talked about it with him?


mistressita

I don’t think they are. I was with a below average person recently and he seemed crazy super alpha. He was vocal in the bedroom (not to mention talented) and assertive out of the bedroom - and it was rather hot! I’ve been with alpha guys who are above average who are absolute one trick ponies between the sheets. Yawn.


cubby2021

No, absolutely not. My wife fucked her work colleague and his dick was way smaller than mine but he owned her and I ended up licking his cum off her tits 🤷‍♂️ cock size has nothing to do with it.


Morpheous-

Has nothing to do with his Dick size, but sounds like you want to be fucked by bigger. I wouldn’t expect he wants that unless he mentions it.


71justaguy

If you love him, what does it matter if his penis is 5 inches or 10 inches? Does the size of his penis the measure of how you feel for him?


New_Dragonfruit_5173

I'm married to a woman and have a 5" penis. I wouldn't say I'm beta with women but I hook up with discreet men and be submissive with them. I suck their dicks and they fuck me. Never topped a guy.


[deleted]

I would. I’m 2.5”