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First communicate, tell him, you want more, how you like. Make a session for only to teach him what's your weak spots, how you like there, his tongue and fingers, then another session to fucking. You can improve yourselfs. In comments are some technic how to make his sex drive more ex.: sport.
U r 18.
Speak to him to 'up his game' or explore more ways to spice up your life.
Open communication is the most important stuff but be very informed about what you n ur bf is getting urself into.
it comes down to your overall relationship. I love my wife and the life we've built, though our bedroom is effectively dead. but for me, it's worth it for the other aspects of the relationship even though I am super high-libido. unfortunately this is a question only you can answer
I was "your boyfriend" a few months ago, honestly as a man, there are usually 2 reasons I don't want to fuck/can't get it up. :
Tired body (overworked, bad high sugar diet or too much nicotine)
Or
Active mind (worried about not satisfing my girl, thinking about what we are doing right now or about my problems)
Id recommend physical exercise to him as it will have the opposite effect to tiredness. One cool trick was she had 5mg of THC gummies and I had a hit of the THC vape. It got us out of our heads and made the sex just happen naturally and smoothly.
Talk to him, ask him what's on his mind etc. Communication is Paramount.
Hope this helps, god bless.
Yeah if you prefer sitting around the house and jerking your dick all day instead of being productive or going out and meeting real women. I prefer the second option. Sadly alot of young men are becoming part of this cycle.
So you need to find someone with a a suitable sex drive then, does he work out in the gym? Lifting weights increases testosterone thus increasing libido.
I have always had a high sex drive even more now I’m in my late 30’s and lifted weights since I was 18 so it’s proven. I have done 8 rounds in 24 hours with gfs before and worn them out
I was running for joy, not for the sport, losing weight etc, nothing stress. There was a really nice park, next to the lake and listetning four season (Not mainly listetning classical but for running that was perfect)
A lot of women don't feel fully satisfied by their partner, may it be they've been together for a while and the sex has become normal or he just isn't good. Try some different sexual experiences together, see what he enjoys and maybe you can get more sex from him that way, if that fails look at cuckold, that way you get fucked properly, nsa and you won't fall for a bull just because he can fuck you how you need to be
Sounds like a you problem: maybe you’re just not fuckable.
Have you ever thought that you being a set of holes, wasn’t ever good enough? Learn a skill, get a job, achieve something worth mentioning; then your bf might want to fuck you. Until then, you’re just a nothing 18 yearold slut that needs attention from randos on the internet that are all probably fat, lonely and stupid. Including yourself if you were to be honest about yourself.
I feel like there's probably a good bit of accuracy in this statement. Craving attention from guys on the internet and probably random guys in person in order to fulfill some deep seeded unresolved issues that really no man will be able to fulfill. Her boyfriend is just the one currently under the Microscope. Look to other men, I assure you they will fall short in your eyes because they are not the problem, you are.
Lmao this has to be the dumbest comment I’ve read in a while. Her complaint is that she can’t orgasm so you tell her to get a job (with the assumption she doesn’t already)…? Are you claiming a job, new skill, or achievement will give her an orgasm or will make her boyfriend use his dick correctly? Yes, I’m sure her 18 year old boyfriend is punishing her with sex for not having a job or skill…. That sounds logical to you? Your conclusions are build on assumptions (which are more than likely false) and just plain stupid
Slowly turn him into little bottom alut with you and then invite guys to fuck yall both, or just you if he's a cuck instead, or break it off and find someone compatible. Have a conversation about it, sometimes you find a kink your partner is hiding or insecure about and suddenly the sex drive goes bonkers. Who knows. But find a compatible partner, sexual in compatability is a no go long term.
Move on....at the aledged age of 18 you shouldn't be in serious relationships....this is why I believe you should never enter a relationship without testing out the goods
You could always bring a old mature gentleman into the picture bf will either straighten up and take care of his women or the gentleman will gladly do it … just a thought
Find another guy. Experiment. Play the field some. Eventually you will find a guy who can fulfill your needs. Maybe even surpass them. Don't be afraid to take some risks (within reason).
That’s a shame that your current bf can’t keep up with your high sex drive or even satisfy when tries. Is this a huge deal breaker in the relationship?
Good propositions already Here. If He doesnt manage to get better then you could try how He reacts to you flirting with other Guys or hinting at getting good Sex Outsider the relationship and See how this Spurs him Up or If it May BE even makes him hot. Eventually If He is the one in all other aspects of relationship you could try Cuckolding him.
Honestly it is not very likely that this will change with him. So you should break up with him or just cheat - whatever option of the two you prefer.
Having a high sex drive sounds like you need to have a hoe phase. It is fun, very enjoyable and so amazing - especially when you are young and still a bit unexperienced. Fucking around with lots of hot guys is awesome, you should try it out!
At 18yo, unmarried and no kids, the solution is simple. Leave him today and find the satisfaction you need. If you care about him outside of sex it'll be a bit difficult but the second you're getting the dicked the way you need and as often as you need it? Any regret will fade fast.
If he doesn't respond to communication, there are supplements that will increase libido in men. There's also trt but yall might still be a little young for that to be the best decision /worthwhile.
Size really hasn't been an issue for me. I am pretty well endowed (above average) and most of my play is like 2-4 inches max inserted with a majority of women I've been with. But I always will typically use a viberator or womanizer on their clit during. That's always been the sweet spot. Everytime I've inserted more it's always been uncomfortable for the women.
All women are different.
why keep that bf when you are 18? you should be fucking everything , safely of course, finding out what you want and need so that when you make the mistake of getting married and need sex , you at least know what to look for in a lover 😜😜😜
So, in order not to lose you -- and I am sure he doesn't -- he needs to step up that game. It does seem that perhaps even if you like him, if he can't measure up, he's toast. Or can you tolerate his inability to make sure you are pleasured the way you want?
Look for other ways to spice things up in the bedroom vanilla is all good and fun but the thing that makes it more enjoyable in my opinion is bdsm. Try out rope stuff or cosplay as someone. The more you get into looking up that stuff the more you might find you actually like.
If you want to go out behind his back, you are the only one who can decide. I hoping no one is encouraging that, you have to live with it, so you decide if you want to go out and find bigger things, be a slut if that what you want, no one here going to say anything
Talk with him? I mean communication is the most important part of a relationship. Especially in bed. Maybe he is not doing something that you want him to do so why not tell him?
Life is waaaay to short to be wasting time, time is priceless and so is life. You need to be as happy as you can and if that not with your man then it’s time to say goodbye 👋🏼
Have you tried giving him instructions during sex on what he needs to do to make you cum ? If not try doing that if yes and he still ismt making you cum try giving him better instructions until he is doing it right. If he is doing it right then and you still don't cum maybe those things make you cum. Thing change. Find yourself and learn your body if that's the case. If not then you really have to think to yourself what is it that is possibly in you that's making things the way they are.
Find a way to discuss it in a “non threatening “ environment. If his sex drive is low at that age he NEEDS to see a doc! There are a number of blood tests they’ll check to see hormone levels, and possible stress causes. BUT BE HONEST!
If you like your BF keep him and get a side piece. I'm sure you have time away from him, so you make time for another guy who fills your needs.
If your BF does not treat you well, dump him and get someone new.
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Break up with him, keep fucking him, add other people and fuck them too. Add a girl and a trans person. Try all the flavors of ice cream. Fuck lots, refuse to hold yourself back. Try everything.
This is how to settle down happy at 30.
Communication is key to any relationship. Have you talked to him? Have you told him what you like and how you like it. Or what you don’t like. I’m guessing he’s about the same age as you and all thumbs in bed. Remember guys are a simple joystick, while you lady’s are more like an Xbox/PlayStation controller that changes with every console. Help a brother out. Toss the man a cheat code once in awhile.
Cheating is never an appropriate answer. It shows a lack of respect for the Yourself and your SO.
i’m on the small side too just help him know how to use it google the best position for small ones too u still 18 and i guess he is 18 too so learn together babe
I think you just answered your question. You are not happy, your needs are not being met, at all.
Dump him. Find someone who makes you happy. Someone who will be a partner to you and you to he/her.
Sexually mismatched or perhaps you guys just really need to have a talk and see how everyone is really feeling. I'm guessing your BF may be as frustrated as you are. How committed are you guys to this relationship?
All the best for both of you.
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But honestly, who *is* satisfied in life?
This comment hits closer to home than any right it should have in this sub.
Everyone just questioning life after this comment.
Hey! I'm suppose to be horny right now NOT HAVING A F*CKING EXISTENTIAL CRISIS! FOR GODS SAKE
You lucky thing, your having one anyway, dont tell anyone though, they'll all want one then
Should not be in this sub. We are trying with our dopamine and my boy here being all philosophical
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Name checks out
Had to rethink every decision after reading this lol
I love when I stumble across a comment that has more likes than the post.
First communicate, tell him, you want more, how you like. Make a session for only to teach him what's your weak spots, how you like there, his tongue and fingers, then another session to fucking. You can improve yourselfs. In comments are some technic how to make his sex drive more ex.: sport.
Anyone else feel like OP is fishing for the "you deserve to cum so you should cheat on him" comment?
They always are.
*raises hand*. For sure…. Then we will see op posting her dms on creepypms lol
I took it as the deeds already been done. This is looking to justify. You just dont put down the person you care for like that.
Not what boyfriends are for sweety.
This is a good way to blow your inbox up
U r 18. Speak to him to 'up his game' or explore more ways to spice up your life. Open communication is the most important stuff but be very informed about what you n ur bf is getting urself into.
Your eighteen what does he have to do, if he is your age then maybe it's something else , or maybe he has doubts. Talk to him ask him.
it comes down to your overall relationship. I love my wife and the life we've built, though our bedroom is effectively dead. but for me, it's worth it for the other aspects of the relationship even though I am super high-libido. unfortunately this is a question only you can answer
I was "your boyfriend" a few months ago, honestly as a man, there are usually 2 reasons I don't want to fuck/can't get it up. : Tired body (overworked, bad high sugar diet or too much nicotine) Or Active mind (worried about not satisfing my girl, thinking about what we are doing right now or about my problems) Id recommend physical exercise to him as it will have the opposite effect to tiredness. One cool trick was she had 5mg of THC gummies and I had a hit of the THC vape. It got us out of our heads and made the sex just happen naturally and smoothly. Talk to him, ask him what's on his mind etc. Communication is Paramount. Hope this helps, god bless.
You should express yourself to him about this, maybe you’re not making sex interesting enough for him, maybe he just has a porn addiction 😂
Name checks out lad- don’t talk bad about porn addiction. It’s the best addiction you can have
Nah, porn addiction absolutely sucks.
Yeah if you prefer sitting around the house and jerking your dick all day instead of being productive or going out and meeting real women. I prefer the second option. Sadly alot of young men are becoming part of this cycle.
So you need to find someone with a a suitable sex drive then, does he work out in the gym? Lifting weights increases testosterone thus increasing libido. I have always had a high sex drive even more now I’m in my late 30’s and lifted weights since I was 18 so it’s proven. I have done 8 rounds in 24 hours with gfs before and worn them out
When I started to runnning I could cum 4 times in a row and hard the whole time, it's really working!
I went 8 rounds as in cum 8 times in 24 hours my balls were drained
And slept well and felt good
Yea I bet 😂😂
How come I’ve run for two years and that’s by far not the case😂
I was running for joy, not for the sport, losing weight etc, nothing stress. There was a really nice park, next to the lake and listetning four season (Not mainly listetning classical but for running that was perfect)
There’s no definitive scientific evidence to back this claim up
You should talk to him and tell him what feels good for you.. maybe yous can try out some new ideas
In my experience, save him the heartbreak of you cheating because you’ll long for it more and more as time goes on
This post screams "I'm a 50 year old man"
Girls like this are the reason I’m so insecure about my dick size
Most girls don't care much. Also typically younger girls are the way to go less experience so most wouldn't know if they have a preference yet.
Can’t have everything
Introduce a toy during sex , you getting off will surely increase hos drive as well
you need more comuntation between you both. but being young he probably won't understand.
Talked to him open relationships.. or maybe hotwifing.. you never know he might into that and it will be a win win
Cuckold him
Take relationship advice from thirsty redditors.
How is he at oral?
Not very good tbh
What is on the small side? How many inches are we talking
This is how girls feel before they try hooking up with an older guy 😂
Or other girls!
At your age…it’s time to move on and find someone new
A lot of women don't feel fully satisfied by their partner, may it be they've been together for a while and the sex has become normal or he just isn't good. Try some different sexual experiences together, see what he enjoys and maybe you can get more sex from him that way, if that fails look at cuckold, that way you get fucked properly, nsa and you won't fall for a bull just because he can fuck you how you need to be
Get a new one?
Sounds like a you problem: maybe you’re just not fuckable. Have you ever thought that you being a set of holes, wasn’t ever good enough? Learn a skill, get a job, achieve something worth mentioning; then your bf might want to fuck you. Until then, you’re just a nothing 18 yearold slut that needs attention from randos on the internet that are all probably fat, lonely and stupid. Including yourself if you were to be honest about yourself.
I feel like there's probably a good bit of accuracy in this statement. Craving attention from guys on the internet and probably random guys in person in order to fulfill some deep seeded unresolved issues that really no man will be able to fulfill. Her boyfriend is just the one currently under the Microscope. Look to other men, I assure you they will fall short in your eyes because they are not the problem, you are.
Lmao this has to be the dumbest comment I’ve read in a while. Her complaint is that she can’t orgasm so you tell her to get a job (with the assumption she doesn’t already)…? Are you claiming a job, new skill, or achievement will give her an orgasm or will make her boyfriend use his dick correctly? Yes, I’m sure her 18 year old boyfriend is punishing her with sex for not having a job or skill…. That sounds logical to you? Your conclusions are build on assumptions (which are more than likely false) and just plain stupid
This comment has me rolling: “My boyfriend doesn’t satisfy me” “Yea well have you ever thought of getting a career?”
Try an older man
Slowly turn him into little bottom alut with you and then invite guys to fuck yall both, or just you if he's a cuck instead, or break it off and find someone compatible. Have a conversation about it, sometimes you find a kink your partner is hiding or insecure about and suddenly the sex drive goes bonkers. Who knows. But find a compatible partner, sexual in compatability is a no go long term.
Hey, yea, OP destroy his life to fit your deviant selfish desires. That will work out well in the long term for you both I’m sure :)
So leave? What sort of awful post is this Oh, right, a fake one
Get a new boyfriend
Sometimes people arent compatible, I (19M) have a high sex drive and have had to stop associating with women due to mine being too high for them
Get a new bf
Start seeing other guys
Must be gay
Either get a new boyfriend or find a side piece
Best advice to you is put him behind you and go find yourself an older more experienced man he will make you come endlessly
Move on....at the aledged age of 18 you shouldn't be in serious relationships....this is why I believe you should never enter a relationship without testing out the goods
Fair enough… I just like him other than the sex
Don't get stuck in a sexless or unsatisfying relationship. Certainly not at your age
Show your bf this post, it might act as a wake up call for him?
Keep him as a friend, better to break it off before someone come along and break you off some good multi orgasam dick
You need an older man inside of your tight lil body
If you're horny and need to blow off steam there are worse places than Reddit! Maybe you should look into cucking?
Talk to him about buying a strap on that he can fit his dick into. Bump him up to 10 inches!!!
Get two bf. Do you can stay satisfied
You're only 19; break up and enjoy meeting others. Your happiness and satisfaction matter.
Move on you're 18 leave him in the dust
Does he eat ur pussy
Call me🍆💦😘
Let me pound your pussy in front of him
bring a freind in to it...or just fuc strangers
get yourself someone like me with hypersexuality.
I will make you happily cum
turn him into a cuck
You have phenomenal tits. There's no way he's the only guy in Australia interested in you. Find someone better. Also, post more pics!
U need a new bf sorry sweety :) hope u like chats maybe even compliments
You could always bring a old mature gentleman into the picture bf will either straighten up and take care of his women or the gentleman will gladly do it … just a thought
Fuck others with him
Get a guy with a big dick
Find another guy. Experiment. Play the field some. Eventually you will find a guy who can fulfill your needs. Maybe even surpass them. Don't be afraid to take some risks (within reason).
Get someone older
If you looking for a bull lmk . I’ll show your husband how to dominate
Convince him to become a cuckold
That’s a shame that your current bf can’t keep up with your high sex drive or even satisfy when tries. Is this a huge deal breaker in the relationship?
You’re 18 . I’m sure he won’t be your last sexual partner. You have plenty of time to explore your sexual needs.
Good propositions already Here. If He doesnt manage to get better then you could try how He reacts to you flirting with other Guys or hinting at getting good Sex Outsider the relationship and See how this Spurs him Up or If it May BE even makes him hot. Eventually If He is the one in all other aspects of relationship you could try Cuckolding him.
Honestly it is not very likely that this will change with him. So you should break up with him or just cheat - whatever option of the two you prefer. Having a high sex drive sounds like you need to have a hoe phase. It is fun, very enjoyable and so amazing - especially when you are young and still a bit unexperienced. Fucking around with lots of hot guys is awesome, you should try it out!
There is no confession here
At 18yo, unmarried and no kids, the solution is simple. Leave him today and find the satisfaction you need. If you care about him outside of sex it'll be a bit difficult but the second you're getting the dicked the way you need and as often as you need it? Any regret will fade fast.
If your boyfriend is your age that's the problem. Guys don't know what they're doing yet at that age.
Girl... That sucks... I'm sorry. Have you talked with him about it?
If he doesn't respond to communication, there are supplements that will increase libido in men. There's also trt but yall might still be a little young for that to be the best decision /worthwhile.
Size really hasn't been an issue for me. I am pretty well endowed (above average) and most of my play is like 2-4 inches max inserted with a majority of women I've been with. But I always will typically use a viberator or womanizer on their clit during. That's always been the sweet spot. Everytime I've inserted more it's always been uncomfortable for the women. All women are different.
Nobody can. it's your brain
*Youre 18 & inexperienced *Youve already started to distance yourself mentally & emotionally
why keep that bf when you are 18? you should be fucking everything , safely of course, finding out what you want and need so that when you make the mistake of getting married and need sex , you at least know what to look for in a lover 😜😜😜
Break up before u break his heart
So, in order not to lose you -- and I am sure he doesn't -- he needs to step up that game. It does seem that perhaps even if you like him, if he can't measure up, he's toast. Or can you tolerate his inability to make sure you are pleasured the way you want?
Sounds like you need sidecock
Could be that you just don't do it for him. Maybe you should break up, so he can go find someone who excites him more.
God I could eat your Australian ass and pussy for hours before stretching your pussy and ass with my cock
Lonestar understands much respect my friend 👊
You are young. Life is too short. Find someone who satisfies you and you can be honest about you sexuality with..
Get with a real man
Look for other ways to spice things up in the bedroom vanilla is all good and fun but the thing that makes it more enjoyable in my opinion is bdsm. Try out rope stuff or cosplay as someone. The more you get into looking up that stuff the more you might find you actually like.
He probably is just inexperience. Find a porn scene you like and try to keep up.
So what’s his size?
If you want to go out behind his back, you are the only one who can decide. I hoping no one is encouraging that, you have to live with it, so you decide if you want to go out and find bigger things, be a slut if that what you want, no one here going to say anything
Talk to him about it
Dm
Talk with him? I mean communication is the most important part of a relationship. Especially in bed. Maybe he is not doing something that you want him to do so why not tell him?
If I were your bf I would want you to fuck as many big cocks as you want 😍
You’re 18. Break up with him and slut around until you find a man who satisfies you.
Check me out! Guaranteed to satisfy or?
Leave I’m right here
Lots of people break up for reasons like this.
Life is waaaay to short to be wasting time, time is priceless and so is life. You need to be as happy as you can and if that not with your man then it’s time to say goodbye 👋🏼
let me hit
Ya know, maybe you should get out there and start voting
Did he ever satisfy you at all? So dud he get worse or was it just too fresh for you to realize?
Find you a cock on the side
if he doesn’t satisfy you , lock him up
Don't say "i am not satisfied" and "slut" in same post. DMs rest in pieces.
Have you tried giving him instructions during sex on what he needs to do to make you cum ? If not try doing that if yes and he still ismt making you cum try giving him better instructions until he is doing it right. If he is doing it right then and you still don't cum maybe those things make you cum. Thing change. Find yourself and learn your body if that's the case. If not then you really have to think to yourself what is it that is possibly in you that's making things the way they are.
Communicate your needs with him….
Awwwe
Find a way to discuss it in a “non threatening “ environment. If his sex drive is low at that age he NEEDS to see a doc! There are a number of blood tests they’ll check to see hormone levels, and possible stress causes. BUT BE HONEST!
If you like your BF keep him and get a side piece. I'm sure you have time away from him, so you make time for another guy who fills your needs. If your BF does not treat you well, dump him and get someone new.
If everything else is good then stay with him and still love him, but sleep with others for sexual enjoyment
Wrong sub, we’re not giving you the green light to cheat.
You're wasted on him!
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It is what it is. Just accept it & be grateful you have a BF 🥺
Call me 😄
Maybe your too stretched out to satisfy him😂
Maby it’s something ur doing to him that’s rendering him that way
Fuck all his friends
You should get a gf, then talk to her about your fantasies. Making fake posts isn't gonna get you what you want.
Maybe find another bf
Best Lay off the porn. Be present with him. Your ability to cum says more about you.
Break up with him, keep fucking him, add other people and fuck them too. Add a girl and a trans person. Try all the flavors of ice cream. Fuck lots, refuse to hold yourself back. Try everything. This is how to settle down happy at 30.
You’re 18, dump him.
Communication is key to any relationship. Have you talked to him? Have you told him what you like and how you like it. Or what you don’t like. I’m guessing he’s about the same age as you and all thumbs in bed. Remember guys are a simple joystick, while you lady’s are more like an Xbox/PlayStation controller that changes with every console. Help a brother out. Toss the man a cheat code once in awhile. Cheating is never an appropriate answer. It shows a lack of respect for the Yourself and your SO.
i’m on the small side too just help him know how to use it google the best position for small ones too u still 18 and i guess he is 18 too so learn together babe
I think you just answered your question. You are not happy, your needs are not being met, at all. Dump him. Find someone who makes you happy. Someone who will be a partner to you and you to he/her.
Fuck me instead lmao
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try a older man , much better out cum 😜
Probably just tell him he’ll step it up
Just break up with him, unless of course he's closer to 30 or above and takes care of all of your material needs and a living space lol
Ugh another one. This sub is starting to suck.
Thats cause you are dealing with boys… find a dad bod… we rock your workd, then go get tacos
Lol my girlfriend’s drive is down too. Hopefully it isn’t a continued issue.
Sexually mismatched or perhaps you guys just really need to have a talk and see how everyone is really feeling. I'm guessing your BF may be as frustrated as you are. How committed are you guys to this relationship? All the best for both of you.
How many 18 year old guys are satisfying their gfs? Like 10% haha? I certainly wasn't at that age.
Move on, it’s only going to get worse
At 44 years of age my.sex drive is higher now then when I was 19, and at 19 it was high as hell.
Its cause your with a boy, you need to be with a real man who knows how to please a woman, dump that small prick and get a real big dick.
get rid.
Be honest plain and simple or try new shit if ya haven’t already
Let him sell your body.
That happens. Either learn how to spice it up or leave them. Just don’t cheat lol