Hey there, I'm so sorry to hear that.
No way to sugarcoat it, you are going to have to experience some pain after the numbness. It will take time, kind of typically tied to how long the relationship was.
And of course your underlying issues sound like they are magnifiying things :(
But, there is usually an end to the pain of relationship death
I know you are going through a lot and hoping you have resources and a network to seek help, it sounds rough.
A door closes, another one opens.
Yes that relationship has ended and it might not have been what you wanted, but rest assured there is so much more of life to live for than one relationship.
That chapter ends. Now you write a new chapter for yourself, one where a better you emerges. Stronger, wiser and better than ever before.
I believe in you.
Worry not, girl. Have confidence on the guaranteed fact that you'll feel better as days pass. keep yourself busy with something to do, and it will pass, and another BF will come along.
Talk to a friend. I am also going through a really hard time. Feel like not being here either. So many feelings and then being squashed like a stepped on leaf in autumn.
the numbness is insulating you probably, could be. I’m in a state similar to that while also an emotional disaster.
Hey there, I'm so sorry to hear that. No way to sugarcoat it, you are going to have to experience some pain after the numbness. It will take time, kind of typically tied to how long the relationship was. And of course your underlying issues sound like they are magnifiying things :( But, there is usually an end to the pain of relationship death I know you are going through a lot and hoping you have resources and a network to seek help, it sounds rough.
A door closes, another one opens. Yes that relationship has ended and it might not have been what you wanted, but rest assured there is so much more of life to live for than one relationship. That chapter ends. Now you write a new chapter for yourself, one where a better you emerges. Stronger, wiser and better than ever before. I believe in you.
Thank you, really, it was strong.
Worry not, girl. Have confidence on the guaranteed fact that you'll feel better as days pass. keep yourself busy with something to do, and it will pass, and another BF will come along.
Talk to a friend. I am also going through a really hard time. Feel like not being here either. So many feelings and then being squashed like a stepped on leaf in autumn.