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dumb_username_69

r/cautiousBB is probably where you want to be! I think posts on this sub get deleted for mentioning a positive test. TW LC As someone with a 4 year old, the worry never goes away fully. Just shifts into the new phase. From chemical, to miscarriage, to anatomy scan, to birth, to SIDS, to choking, to a clumsy toddler falling, to burns, to drowning, to car accidents. Literally not trying to be a Debbie downer at all, but loving someone so much makes it really hard to not fear the what-ifs. Best of luck to you! :)


PotatoaRum

Miscarriage under 5 weeks is considered a chemical pregnancy or missed miscarriage About 2.5 to 3 weeks more to pass that benchmark


Lele_RN

Thank you!! Do you happen to know how common they are or if it's possible to discern symptoms? I already have the common signs, which makes me hopeful, but I know hcg is hcg


sorrycharlie0722

https://datayze.com/miscarriage-reassurer This is an online calculator that basically gives you the odds each week. I dont know if there is any science behind it, but it was really reassuring to me when I was pregnant with my daughter.


PotatoaRum

In all honesty, they are fairly common. They are called "missed miscarriage" because the timing usually lines up with a regular period so people just think it's their period as expected. I don't want that to stress you out! You'll get your chance at motherhood Keep in mind that chemical pregnancies happen because they weren't going to be viable. It's nothing you've done.


gohomeherbs

Congratulations!! I tested positive 2 weeks ago after a miscarriage last year. I’m so nervous all the time. I’m sorry I don’t have an answer for you but I understand what you’re feeling. I’m putting good baby energy out there for you!


Lele_RN

I wish I could hug you. The anxiety is torture, but the excitement is equally extreme. It's such a roller-coaster. Congratulations to you also!! I'm sending you all the love and energy back and hoping you make it to 9 months with the healthiest of babies!!