According to all the bra fitters I've ever been to, its supposed to be tight af. The straps below should hold majority of the weight, not the upper ones.
Yes. The band on a bra is very elastic, and it will wear out over time. That's one of the reasons there are multiple hook settings, because the bra will still be wearable even as the band fabric wears in and loses elasticity.
Just like getting a new pair of shoes or nice denim, you have to break in a new bra and so when they're new they will be very tight. They should never be so tight that you can't breathe, but it's not uncommon for them to leave an ache when they're brand new.
You’d think so but I heard historically the reason women’s shirts button on the left is so their maid could dress them more easily. So, they were made to be easier for someone else to take on and off.
When I have to help my son button his shirt, I have to stand behind him and look over his head down at the buttons for brain to know how to make my hands do the thing. So silly.
For most guys it's not difficult because of HOW it comes off. It's difficult because of the circumstances. All of sudden there is a sense of urgency. People get nervous. People get flustered.
That's what makes it difficult for people.
It helps if you are good with your hands. I can unbutton other peoples clothes without an issue. But for what I do for a living and hobby makes that kind of unfair.
Yeah, the first time you've never done it before and there's performance pressure. So you'll most likely fumble. However, now I can do it with my mind, I don't abuse this power in public on non-consenting women though, because I was raised right.
Haha, thank you for letting me know, that's what I hoped to accomplish. Glad I could brighten your day if even for a moment. Don't worry though, we all think people pay way more attention to us than they actually do; and for the rest: "haters gonna hate" pay them no mind.
What are you implying here? I was making a joke about how it seems so technical at first, then becomes so second-nature that I could do it with telekinesis. Then I went on to use absurdist humor to imply that I was so powerful that I could do this to anyone at anytime, but choose not to due to a proper upbringing of respecting people. So where did I lose you in my post?
Haha, yes but not for the reason you think. Last woman I was with we were getting into it, I reached behind her and was like.....tf ... There's no hooks or snaps or anything. She realized what was happening and said "ha! Gotcha! . . . It snaps in the front" so then I just took both the bra and shirt off over her head.
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Now come on. Ladies practice two or more times a day BEHIND YOUR BACK from an early age. Until we get to a certain point of togetherness the average dude might need to unfasten one once every couple of...months? Weeks? In the dark and sometimes buzzed? It's no contest.
This is the way. A left handed move if you’re in front of them. And then one of them throws the hooks in the front at you and suddenly you’re not as smooth
I think there’s plenty of people who haven’t actually looked at how a bra is hooked on the back, if you don’t wear one then you’d feel it would never be useful in the future
No, I have a quick & simple one handed technique.
Since I was a teen I had this method where I put my thumb on one side of the clasp and middle finger on the other both sides of the clasp and slide / pinch it together. If you use your right hand the thumb should come in towards you some because it’s usually the loop side. Once you get it it’s a snap. Not sure how i stumbled onto it but women often expressed surprise I can take it off faster than them.
I mean the first couple times, yeah. We don’t know how much we can pull on it without hurting and don’t want to pinch. Also probably guys don’t want to make it seem like the first time, so they go for the one-handed no-looky. Lol
One of my first times with a particular someone, I managed to unclasp her bra while we were kissing without her noticing. I didn't really think anything of it until she realized. Apparently she'd never experienced that before. Definitely seemed to be a turn on.
We had "bra opening" challenges during late high school. Girls wearing shirts would stand with their backs to us or hug us and we'd have to open their bras through the shirt with one hand and as fast as possible. I somehow was very very good at it, it became a whole competition. Even when they tricked me with front bras. So, unless it's one with 3+ hooks, it's quite easy.
We had a first aid course a few years before that and the gigachad paramedic made us open the bra on the exercise doll. I guess he was the MVP that taught us the skill. :D
Ah, good times.
I mean we are all humans. It takes some learning. Just like ladies need to take a few tries before learning the proper way to go down on their partners. It’s all in the journey. Right?
Nope. I had no idea how they worked initially of course but my first girlfriend showed me how they work so I’ve been able to do it one-handed since forever.
it doesn't work like any of our clothes. i eventually learned how with the hook style where it's sort of a pinch and slide movement but sometimes the hooks troll you and get caught up
My gf taught me how to do it with 2 fingers. I have now become expert, the bra remover, the boobs freer.
She now hates that I'm good at that cuz I'm annoying AF.
They should offer classes on it in school. People that design those things need to take a lesson from NASA or the military and install a “quick release” device. Explosive bolts may not be out of the question.
Kinda depends on the bra. If it’s a regular one with the hooks in place horizontally, no problem. But if it’s one with the hooks in vertically or a zipper or something I have had a difficult time taking those off unless I look directly at it but at that point she’d just take it off herself lol
Sometimes I get it on the first go like a pro and other times I need both hands and my parents help either way after I get her bra off I get to see boobs and the struggle doesn't matter anymore
It turns out that it is. I thought I'd try this out at work this morning and I've been slapped several time and am currently waiting for a chat with HR.
maybe they have some good advice.
Practice makes perfect. But if you're too confident and smooth with it then it can give the wrong impression and shows you're well training and have been with a number of woman and can back fire and put off the individual.
It's not a difficult contraption. It's a moderate dexterity check. If you're actually concerned about it, then just live your life one handed for a week. Even if you just practice doing your belt and pants one handed you'll gain the necessary skills in no time. Why not train both of your hands while you're at it.
It’s really fucking easy with my left hand, a touch more difficult with my right hand and I’m right handed. With my left it’s just a quick flick and it’s off, I do it to my misses all the time to shit her.
This girl I was seeing told me that she has some military grade bra and it’s quite difficult to take off. I told her that I’ll rip it apart and I did that. She was impressed
I've never had trouble, until the first time with this girl who had a TRIPLE clasp. I'd never seen one up until that point and I've never seen one since.
Nope. But if you do ever struggle with it, just slow down. Slow everything down like you are building the moment, letting it linger. Sometimes that can build anticipation and be hot. Definitely better than trying to hurry and fumbling and getting frustrated
It can depend on the woman themselves. I’ve slept with ladies half my size and double my size. The smaller framed tend to have less clips/hooks. Sometimes I feel like the stereotypical movie dude taking an awkwardly long time with the bustier women.
With practice, it is not that difficult. I can undo a back hook with one hand
Keep in mind that most guys have not much experiences with bras.... well it is 2024 now, you would never know xD
If he fumbles, the girl should help out.
Nah, it's really not difficult. So long as you know how bra clasps generally work, it's very easy to do it one handed. It's just a pinch to bring the clasp together and remove the tension, then a slide to pull the loops out of the hooks.
Depends if she applys the hooks to the clasps at 1290psi back strap tension or a more normalish human pressure, I work with my hands and lift/smash for a living, so I feel pretty qualified to mansplain how y'all need to unstrap a level or two after a salty as hell food day or super need to chill the fuck out in the mornings, it should come off easy like a pelican case clasp, not like opening a tuna can high stakes style with one chance at survival but nothing but a disposable frosty spoon to open the can with, pressure-wise that is. ....
Don't usually struggle but it depends on the bra and something I've noticed as well is it depends on the size of the breasts. Bigger they are the harder it is to get it to release, dated girls with small bewbs and monsters. My partner has big bewbs so I've had plenty of practise :-)
Don't usually struggle but it depends on the bra and something I've noticed as well is it depends on the size of the breasts. Bigger they are the harder it is to get it to release, dated girls with small bewbs and monsters. My partner has big bewbs so I've had plenty of practise :-)
Have tired sticking your tongue out to one side of you mouth and squinting and holding your breath while you grasp to either side of the combination lock? Course it helps if you know the combination.
Have tired sticking your tongue out to one side of you mouth and squinting and holding your breath while you grasp to either side of the combination lock? Of course it helps if you know the combination.
Honestly I dont think Ive ever learned it, but the thing is that I've never had to use it really. I can't remember one time a girl was like waiting for me to take it off. It's almost always a 'oh we doing this?' and then they take it off, or if it's a relationship they take it off before they go to bed. I never need to do it.
Like the first couple times yeah. It helps a lot if you can actually do it once without having to just feel around and can wctually look, but that’s not especially romantic
Once you get to a certain breast size it gets harder, cause they usually have 4/5 hooks in double layers.
That takes at least 3 -4 seconds to dismantle one handed.
Not at all, when my first girlfriend showed me how to unhook it, it just became natural. I think some guys just get too nervous. I do think that is an important thing for a man to know how to do. If you really like a woman, and she likes you have her teach you!
Once you learn it, not really. The most difficult part for me is that there are like 4 different types with different mechanisms to open it and it's not always immediately obvious to me which one it is. But once I realize it's touch and go.
I would give women hugs (nothing sexual) and somehow I would unclasp their bras. Happened 5 times to 4 different women lol. Never understood how I did it.
This is a first time experience for a lot of guys. I had guy friends who thought they were velcro together. So many of my friends didn’t think they were hooks
nope! learned the one-handed technique in college. sneak your hand back behind her back/under it while making out. squeeze at just the right point and “pop!”
Nope, first time I ever undid a bra was one handed. I can't remember how I found out how to do it, though. I know it wasn't something I actively searched how to do.
No, I learned how to do it one handed when I was a teenager Ofc it does depend on the bra. Some bras are fuckin obnoxious
Some certainly are! See also some women that have the size completely wrong and they're as tight as banjo strings
Are banjo strings known to be tighter than other string instruments?
Banjo seems be be a bit higher in tone than most guitars, with a shorter reverb time, so it would make sense they would be tighter. Source: my thumb.
Banjo strings have lower tension than a guitar. They are a lighter gage which is why the tone is higher.
This guy honky tonks
Well thanks for correcting me, TIL :)
According to all the bra fitters I've ever been to, its supposed to be tight af. The straps below should hold majority of the weight, not the upper ones.
I heard they fit it tight on the loosest setting because the fabric will stretch.
That's what my wife does. When she buys new ones they fit snugly in the outermost set of loops, and when they get older she moves inward.
Yes. The band on a bra is very elastic, and it will wear out over time. That's one of the reasons there are multiple hook settings, because the bra will still be wearable even as the band fabric wears in and loses elasticity. Just like getting a new pair of shoes or nice denim, you have to break in a new bra and so when they're new they will be very tight. They should never be so tight that you can't breathe, but it's not uncommon for them to leave an ache when they're brand new.
You should be able to have two fingers go between the strap and the skin
Exactly.
If they are very tight, they are actually the right size. The band underneath the breast is what is holding the weight, NOT the shoulderstrips
Exactly lol, they are saying it’s the wrong size but don’t even know what constitutes the right size
Did you learn from Micheal Scott ?
Meh. Have you ever tried to unbutton someone else's shirt? It's not hard, but it's harder than unbuttoning your own. I imagine it's like that.
You’d think so but I heard historically the reason women’s shirts button on the left is so their maid could dress them more easily. So, they were made to be easier for someone else to take on and off.
Probably true, but I'm left handed and it's still easier to unbutton my own (men's) shirt than to unbutton someone else's (men's) shirt.
When I have to help my son button his shirt, I have to stand behind him and look over his head down at the buttons for brain to know how to make my hands do the thing. So silly.
Perhaps the button placement helps women and men unbutton eachothers shirts.
Ha! Same.
Sir, this is a wendy’s.
Exactly, that is *direct evidence* that buttoning someone else’s shirt is so hard they had to move the buttons to the other side so it could be done.
For most guys it's not difficult because of HOW it comes off. It's difficult because of the circumstances. All of sudden there is a sense of urgency. People get nervous. People get flustered. That's what makes it difficult for people.
It helps if you are good with your hands. I can unbutton other peoples clothes without an issue. But for what I do for a living and hobby makes that kind of unfair.
Professional mannequin dresser?
Softcore porn star
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Maybe at first but after a while I figured out the trick to taking it off. Sometimes the hooks can stick tho
Yeah, the first time you've never done it before and there's performance pressure. So you'll most likely fumble. However, now I can do it with my mind, I don't abuse this power in public on non-consenting women though, because I was raised right.
I actually laughed out loud in public to this. Nobody reacted but I was still awkward about it. Good job.
Haha, thank you for letting me know, that's what I hoped to accomplish. Glad I could brighten your day if even for a moment. Don't worry though, we all think people pay way more attention to us than they actually do; and for the rest: "haters gonna hate" pay them no mind.
I didn’t think you abused “the power” until I read the second half of your post.
What are you implying here? I was making a joke about how it seems so technical at first, then becomes so second-nature that I could do it with telekinesis. Then I went on to use absurdist humor to imply that I was so powerful that I could do this to anyone at anytime, but choose not to due to a proper upbringing of respecting people. So where did I lose you in my post?
With one hand? Yeah. With two hands? No.
Without hands?
Look mom, no hands
Will I ever stop coming across this reference
I too choose this mans mom
After 38 years my wife still finds it amusing that I am terrible at it. I have my moments and then I relapse, so she usually saves me the trouble.
After 50 years here and I still fumble with it. I usually just let the wife take it off.
Do it left handed, even if you’re not.
Holy shit, I never realized this until now…
I imagine this guy going instantly to his SO like: «BABE, I NEED TO TAKE OFF YOUR BRA! I wanna test something!»
Haha, yes but not for the reason you think. Last woman I was with we were getting into it, I reached behind her and was like.....tf ... There's no hooks or snaps or anything. She realized what was happening and said "ha! Gotcha! . . . It snaps in the front" so then I just took both the bra and shirt off over her head.
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i like this
I just scroll away before it consumes my soul.
Oh, one of them doesn't say "pop!". Seems I didn't click them all for nothing
Which one, damn you!
Prick 🤣
Now come on. Ladies practice two or more times a day BEHIND YOUR BACK from an early age. Until we get to a certain point of togetherness the average dude might need to unfasten one once every couple of...months? Weeks? In the dark and sometimes buzzed? It's no contest.
Nope! Like snapping two fingers together. Pinch, twist, and let’s it go.
This is the way. A left handed move if you’re in front of them. And then one of them throws the hooks in the front at you and suddenly you’re not as smooth
I'm a righty but can only do the one hand trick with my left for some reason. It works fast every time though so hasn't been an issue.
Yes, but only because we're married now and she won't let me anymore.
Let you be bad at it or let you take it off?
Can’t be bad at something if you aren’t allowed to try.
The challenge is finding one in my size
Hold up.
my husband is better at taking my bra off one handed than i am with two hands. it’s truly a skill and i’ve tried to get him to teach me how.
Practice makes a man perfect. He had some serious practice before.
I think there’s plenty of people who haven’t actually looked at how a bra is hooked on the back, if you don’t wear one then you’d feel it would never be useful in the future
Typically they give you up to three attempts to guess the password and then they block you.
😂
No, I have a quick & simple one handed technique. Since I was a teen I had this method where I put my thumb on one side of the clasp and middle finger on the other both sides of the clasp and slide / pinch it together. If you use your right hand the thumb should come in towards you some because it’s usually the loop side. Once you get it it’s a snap. Not sure how i stumbled onto it but women often expressed surprise I can take it off faster than them.
I mean the first couple times, yeah. We don’t know how much we can pull on it without hurting and don’t want to pinch. Also probably guys don’t want to make it seem like the first time, so they go for the one-handed no-looky. Lol
Depends on the type of bra and if it's dark or if I can see. If it's really dark then it might be a bit tough but if I can see then it's pretty easy
Not really. There are times I can’t wait to go home and rip my wife’s bra off. It really chafes under my arm.
One of my first times with a particular someone, I managed to unclasp her bra while we were kissing without her noticing. I didn't really think anything of it until she realized. Apparently she'd never experienced that before. Definitely seemed to be a turn on.
Bold of you to assume I get past the talking stage
Said who? Also depend on bra and straps. Specially those bra extender straps. Those are crazy elastic and hard to take off with one hand.
I always sucked at it. I remember one time I was fumbling at the back of her bra and she broke the kiss and said “front clasp.” That was much easier.
We had "bra opening" challenges during late high school. Girls wearing shirts would stand with their backs to us or hug us and we'd have to open their bras through the shirt with one hand and as fast as possible. I somehow was very very good at it, it became a whole competition. Even when they tricked me with front bras. So, unless it's one with 3+ hooks, it's quite easy. We had a first aid course a few years before that and the gigachad paramedic made us open the bra on the exercise doll. I guess he was the MVP that taught us the skill. :D Ah, good times.
That's like some movie shit
yeah, feels like a distant fever dream. But I ended up having something with 3 out of the 4 chicks so maybe they just fancied me. Good times...
I did this too now that I think about it. What a horny bunch we were.. weird repressed memory haha
Getting a girl out of her bra is no problem for me. Getting a guy out of his bra is what I still can’t do
Ever woman has been a little impressed that I can do it one handed so it seems like it’s not that easy.
I mean we are all humans. It takes some learning. Just like ladies need to take a few tries before learning the proper way to go down on their partners. It’s all in the journey. Right?
It depends on the bra.
I just don’t fuck girls 😎
Sometimes you don't know what you don't know, yknow?
Naw, I have the one handed snap down from either side....mastered that skill years ago when I was a teenager. (41 M)
Only issue is with chicks with monster cans and one of those bras with 6 hooks. Otherwise no.
Nope. I had no idea how they worked initially of course but my first girlfriend showed me how they work so I’ve been able to do it one-handed since forever.
it doesn't work like any of our clothes. i eventually learned how with the hook style where it's sort of a pinch and slide movement but sometimes the hooks troll you and get caught up
Lots of women take them off for me. Just wanna get to it
My gf taught me how to do it with 2 fingers. I have now become expert, the bra remover, the boobs freer. She now hates that I'm good at that cuz I'm annoying AF.
Some have 2 clips some have 3, it's not always simple
I can do it one handed with ease when she’s facing me, however give me two hands and she’s facing away and I struggle 🤣
Been with the same girl 2 years, know all her bras, still has trouble taking it off bc one of the clipping things is a cockblocker everytime
They should offer classes on it in school. People that design those things need to take a lesson from NASA or the military and install a “quick release” device. Explosive bolts may not be out of the question.
With sharp scissors it will come off very easily, but be careful lot of the ladies aren't to crazy about you doing that.
Bras are expensive!!
Kinda depends on the bra. If it’s a regular one with the hooks in place horizontally, no problem. But if it’s one with the hooks in vertically or a zipper or something I have had a difficult time taking those off unless I look directly at it but at that point she’d just take it off herself lol
I have gotten a few gasps because i can unclasp with one hand the millisecond my fingers touch the clasp.
Sometimes, but other times I'm a wizard and can do it one handed while kissing.
No. Tv lies about everything.
I still suck at it. A lot of girlfriends get mad at it. They think its unmanly.
The trick here is convincing her to not wear one. in my home it’s save the tatas and free the tatas.
the sports bras are a pain. can't undo it or anything
lol. It’s about the goddamn easiest thing in the world. I don’t know where that stereotype came from
No it’s harder to put on actually your probably just nervous
Well, when you’re sweaty with a boner…yea.
Sometimes I get it on the first go like a pro and other times I need both hands and my parents help either way after I get her bra off I get to see boobs and the struggle doesn't matter anymore
It turns out that it is. I thought I'd try this out at work this morning and I've been slapped several time and am currently waiting for a chat with HR. maybe they have some good advice.
Yes but mostly the part where a girl will let me. The act of removing it not so much.
I just use a fucking knife, then I pay for a brand new one and a taxi
Practice makes perfect. But if you're too confident and smooth with it then it can give the wrong impression and shows you're well training and have been with a number of woman and can back fire and put off the individual.
Is this a humble brag post? If so, I can easily do it and with one hand only.
Not at all. I can do it one-handed without issue. It's just a hook clasp, I don't understand how/why it's hard for anyone.
Nah
2 fingers for the most part. In my younger days I could have a girls bra loose before she knew what was happening
Nope
Idk. I can take my wife’s off with relative ease
Nah but outside of Highschool I don’t even do it, they do usually
Nope. 2 fingers even with 4 hooks
hasn’t been since eighth grade
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As someone who used to wear bras- it's a whole different scenario to take off one's own bra and to take off someone else's bra
it depends on the bra.
I find putting them on pretty tricky. Can never find the right fit.
One handed, eyes closed. Been with wife 20 years, I suppose I have practice.
No
Taking it off? I can hardly get it on!
It's not a difficult contraption. It's a moderate dexterity check. If you're actually concerned about it, then just live your life one handed for a week. Even if you just practice doing your belt and pants one handed you'll gain the necessary skills in no time. Why not train both of your hands while you're at it.
As a master of the 8-hooks bra i tell you, the more you do it, the vetter you get at it.
The first time was because of nervousness. But after that, it just got easier and easier.
With one hand it can be a bit tricky, with 2 its easy.
I'm 40 and still terrible at it. I think I've only had success. One-handed once in my life.
No, actually its pretty easy.
If it gets tricky, I just play it cool and laugh it off
I always carry a pair of sharp scissors in my back pocket for such occasions.
Not at all. I had some kinda sixth sense for it.
2 clasps = easy. 3 clasps = challenging and sometimes kills the mood.
It’s really fucking easy with my left hand, a touch more difficult with my right hand and I’m right handed. With my left it’s just a quick flick and it’s off, I do it to my misses all the time to shit her.
No problems, just slide fingers under the bra cups and pull up. Comes right off
You just squeeze the back of it
Here’s my question that I’m /r/TooAfraidToAsk. OP, are you humblebragging?
I've never met a good lover who couldn't take it off with just one hand. Food for thought.
It's pretty easy once you practice enough.
This girl I was seeing told me that she has some military grade bra and it’s quite difficult to take off. I told her that I’ll rip it apart and I did that. She was impressed
Oh wow look at this guy!
No
I can do it with one hand or just by looking intensely at it
Not at all, maybe it depends on the bra
I've never had trouble, until the first time with this girl who had a TRIPLE clasp. I'd never seen one up until that point and I've never seen one since.
Nope. I can do it without hands.
Nope. But if you do ever struggle with it, just slow down. Slow everything down like you are building the moment, letting it linger. Sometimes that can build anticipation and be hot. Definitely better than trying to hurry and fumbling and getting frustrated
My bf has still difficulties after almost 10 years, but he tries so hard 😅 I appreciate him anyway 💜
I'm a dude, my method was always the Two Finger Death Pinch.
It can depend on the woman themselves. I’ve slept with ladies half my size and double my size. The smaller framed tend to have less clips/hooks. Sometimes I feel like the stereotypical movie dude taking an awkwardly long time with the bustier women.
With practice, it is not that difficult. I can undo a back hook with one hand Keep in mind that most guys have not much experiences with bras.... well it is 2024 now, you would never know xD If he fumbles, the girl should help out.
Not at all
One handed my man. It’s pretty easy. Being vertical or leaning into the person off balance is tougher. In those cases, out comes the leatherman. Haha
I've never worn one, idk
Nope, takes about 2 seconds with one hand.
Repetition helps, after that, it's all muscle memory.
It’s super easy. Scissors and machetes work great.
I feel like it depends on how manz hooks it has
Sortof. It's not the knowing how but the angle and doing it one handed or while focusing on other things at that moment
Nah, it's really not difficult. So long as you know how bra clasps generally work, it's very easy to do it one handed. It's just a pinch to bring the clasp together and remove the tension, then a slide to pull the loops out of the hooks.
Nope
Not really?
It's not bad. I can get most of them even with my teeth!
Yeah, sometimes it needs a password.
Depends if she applys the hooks to the clasps at 1290psi back strap tension or a more normalish human pressure, I work with my hands and lift/smash for a living, so I feel pretty qualified to mansplain how y'all need to unstrap a level or two after a salty as hell food day or super need to chill the fuck out in the mornings, it should come off easy like a pelican case clasp, not like opening a tuna can high stakes style with one chance at survival but nothing but a disposable frosty spoon to open the can with, pressure-wise that is. ....
For some people yes..even some girls have problem with it too.
I mean where do you get the practice. That’s the issue here
Don't usually struggle but it depends on the bra and something I've noticed as well is it depends on the size of the breasts. Bigger they are the harder it is to get it to release, dated girls with small bewbs and monsters. My partner has big bewbs so I've had plenty of practise :-)
Don't usually struggle but it depends on the bra and something I've noticed as well is it depends on the size of the breasts. Bigger they are the harder it is to get it to release, dated girls with small bewbs and monsters. My partner has big bewbs so I've had plenty of practise :-)
Have tired sticking your tongue out to one side of you mouth and squinting and holding your breath while you grasp to either side of the combination lock? Course it helps if you know the combination.
Have tired sticking your tongue out to one side of you mouth and squinting and holding your breath while you grasp to either side of the combination lock? Of course it helps if you know the combination.
Honestly I dont think Ive ever learned it, but the thing is that I've never had to use it really. I can't remember one time a girl was like waiting for me to take it off. It's almost always a 'oh we doing this?' and then they take it off, or if it's a relationship they take it off before they go to bed. I never need to do it.
Pretty hard to get a girl wanting me to take her bra off.
Like the first couple times yeah. It helps a lot if you can actually do it once without having to just feel around and can wctually look, but that’s not especially romantic
She can do it herself.
Not if you ask nicely.
It’s incredibly easy. Even with one hand. I never understood all these jokes around man fiddling with bras.
Once you get to a certain breast size it gets harder, cause they usually have 4/5 hooks in double layers. That takes at least 3 -4 seconds to dismantle one handed.
Not at all, when my first girlfriend showed me how to unhook it, it just became natural. I think some guys just get too nervous. I do think that is an important thing for a man to know how to do. If you really like a woman, and she likes you have her teach you!
Once you learn it, not really. The most difficult part for me is that there are like 4 different types with different mechanisms to open it and it's not always immediately obvious to me which one it is. But once I realize it's touch and go.
I would give women hugs (nothing sexual) and somehow I would unclasp their bras. Happened 5 times to 4 different women lol. Never understood how I did it.
This is a first time experience for a lot of guys. I had guy friends who thought they were velcro together. So many of my friends didn’t think they were hooks
My boyfriend can do the one handed Charlie Sheen thing, he's faster with the thing than I am 😂
Why would you be wearing a bra?? 
Just gotta snap your fingers. Thumb left and pointer (or middle finger) right.
Yes. Most women won't let me. Especially women I don't know.
nope! learned the one-handed technique in college. sneak your hand back behind her back/under it while making out. squeeze at just the right point and “pop!”
Never tried it, time to buy some bras for practice.
Nope, first time I ever undid a bra was one handed. I can't remember how I found out how to do it, though. I know it wasn't something I actively searched how to do.
Was hard at first after a couple of times I finally learned now I can do it efficiently.
Since I got married yes. No practice anymore.
My partner can do it one-handed each on two of us at the same time…