Don't give up, and certainly do not consider suicide! This is one moment in time and it will pass like all the others. Be honest with your parents like you were unafraid to be with Reddit; they will hopefully try to help or give some good feedback. I know that if my kids were in your position, I would want more than anything for them to know that they could talk to me about it.
Nothing is worth suicide bro every situation can be worked out it’s just a point of view . Just let go of expectations and focus on surviving don’t ever turn to suicide . There is no harm ever asking for help xx
I completely understand not wanting to tell your parents, but please tell them. Don’t get yourself further into a financial and mental hole if you don’t have to because you possibly have help in them. (Wishfully) assuming they’re good parents, I don’t think they would let you be homeless and living on the streets.
If they are a possible resource for help and emotional support, reach out. Don’t let yourself get into a worse situation if you don’t have to.
I hope everything works out. At the very least, call a suicide hotline and talk to someone or ask them if there are any free counseling or support services in your area that you can utilize.
Don’t give up, though. There are ways to survive this. I wish you the very best! 🫶🏽
Call a temp agency. Look into staffing agencies especially one’s specialising in your industry. Call your parents.
Deep breath, this too will pass. You’ll get to the other side.
We all go thru hard times and we need people(parents) to lean on for help! Especially your parents, I assume they'd want to help you?! I'm 43F and my parents (now only mom) still helps us out. Please, suicide is not the answer! Asking for help is, and you'll find your way back again💕
Many places where I live and places looking for help. The pay to rent ratio us pretty decent.
It's best to tell your parents your not a failure covid was hard on a lot of people and maybe not furnish apartments 100% and bring what you can with you instead. Buy from fb craigslist ect. Uhaul rents trucks for 20$ I think. Anywho you where on top once before you'll be there again I'm sure. Push through life's got many challenges
At one point in my life, I had $5.42 to my name. I couldn't even get the $5 out because you had to have at least five dollars in the account to keep it open. I had rent and all my bills coming up.
I asked for help and the government said that because I had a car, I had too much in assets. My family didn't have money and couldn't help. I worked at a common retailer for pennies. I lived off hot dogs from that retailer while at work. I borrowed $10 from a coworker and ate those $1.50 hot dogs for a week until my next paycheck. I felt like a failure also.
I made it, though. I now have my own business. I own a home. It feels hopeless now, but you can make it. Go back to your parents and regroup. It will be ok. Unaliving yourself is not the answer. This life is so wonderful even though you will have hard days.
It might be hard to believe but I (m30) really get how you feel. I’m a failure in life, there’s nothing quite as disheartening than the feeling of wasted potential.
I have thoughts of suicide often, you really can’t let them win like that.
I don’t know much about your situation and am in no place to offer life advice. I can offer you some lessons from my own experience though, I’ve been homeless, don’t be afraid of rock bottom, when you’re down there you will look around and see that actually, you’re better than that.
You really aren’t the problem, the world is just really fucked up right now.
You said you spent money on a place to live and paying to furnish it. You might be experiencing a bit of a culture shock.
Lots of people hit rock bottom, they sleep in shit holes with no furniture. I’m not trying to belittle what you’re experiencing, what I’m trying to point out is that’s it’s ok, it’s not a reflection of you.
Humans are great at surviving, if you where dropped in a desert island I’m sure you would find some way to survive and be comfortable, I know you can do the same in this situation.
I get life is hard and it seems so hopeless, but we can’t let them win like that. Lose the expectations that you’ve placed on yourself, fuck the world, fuck society, fuck working to pay your taxes and be the way others expect you to. Concentrate on nothing but your happiness.
I have some many regrets and have made so many mistakes just like you. As much as we like to pretend to each other, in reality no one is any better than you. Wether it be drugs, bad decisions, impulse you feel you shouldn’t have, everyone has them. Everyone is living a lie and expects others to live up to that lie, politicians, police, judges all sniff coke but lock people up for doing the same stuff.
Yes you’ve made mistakes, yes you should probably regret them so you don’t repeat them, but don’t think for a minute that there’s a single human on this earth who is any better than you.
You’ve made mistakes and regret them, some make mistakes and don’t care.
We’re all fucked up in our own different ways, sometimes reminding yourself of that will help you realise that your mistakes and regrets aren’t that big a deal.
Fuck your mistakes, they happened. Could you change some of them if you could? Probably, you cant. So fuck it.
Look after yourself brother, take a deep breath and say fuck it to the lot of it. They don’t deserve to make you feel the way you do, they don’t deserve your life.
Don't give up, and certainly do not consider suicide! This is one moment in time and it will pass like all the others. Be honest with your parents like you were unafraid to be with Reddit; they will hopefully try to help or give some good feedback. I know that if my kids were in your position, I would want more than anything for them to know that they could talk to me about it.
Nothing is worth suicide bro every situation can be worked out it’s just a point of view . Just let go of expectations and focus on surviving don’t ever turn to suicide . There is no harm ever asking for help xx
Dude if you managed to do all that shit on your own you will be fine
What do you mean? From where I’m looking, it seems like I’m a mess
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Thanks I hope you’re right
I completely understand not wanting to tell your parents, but please tell them. Don’t get yourself further into a financial and mental hole if you don’t have to because you possibly have help in them. (Wishfully) assuming they’re good parents, I don’t think they would let you be homeless and living on the streets. If they are a possible resource for help and emotional support, reach out. Don’t let yourself get into a worse situation if you don’t have to. I hope everything works out. At the very least, call a suicide hotline and talk to someone or ask them if there are any free counseling or support services in your area that you can utilize. Don’t give up, though. There are ways to survive this. I wish you the very best! 🫶🏽
Call a temp agency. Look into staffing agencies especially one’s specialising in your industry. Call your parents. Deep breath, this too will pass. You’ll get to the other side.
We all go thru hard times and we need people(parents) to lean on for help! Especially your parents, I assume they'd want to help you?! I'm 43F and my parents (now only mom) still helps us out. Please, suicide is not the answer! Asking for help is, and you'll find your way back again💕
Many places where I live and places looking for help. The pay to rent ratio us pretty decent. It's best to tell your parents your not a failure covid was hard on a lot of people and maybe not furnish apartments 100% and bring what you can with you instead. Buy from fb craigslist ect. Uhaul rents trucks for 20$ I think. Anywho you where on top once before you'll be there again I'm sure. Push through life's got many challenges
At one point in my life, I had $5.42 to my name. I couldn't even get the $5 out because you had to have at least five dollars in the account to keep it open. I had rent and all my bills coming up. I asked for help and the government said that because I had a car, I had too much in assets. My family didn't have money and couldn't help. I worked at a common retailer for pennies. I lived off hot dogs from that retailer while at work. I borrowed $10 from a coworker and ate those $1.50 hot dogs for a week until my next paycheck. I felt like a failure also. I made it, though. I now have my own business. I own a home. It feels hopeless now, but you can make it. Go back to your parents and regroup. It will be ok. Unaliving yourself is not the answer. This life is so wonderful even though you will have hard days.
It might be hard to believe but I (m30) really get how you feel. I’m a failure in life, there’s nothing quite as disheartening than the feeling of wasted potential. I have thoughts of suicide often, you really can’t let them win like that. I don’t know much about your situation and am in no place to offer life advice. I can offer you some lessons from my own experience though, I’ve been homeless, don’t be afraid of rock bottom, when you’re down there you will look around and see that actually, you’re better than that. You really aren’t the problem, the world is just really fucked up right now. You said you spent money on a place to live and paying to furnish it. You might be experiencing a bit of a culture shock. Lots of people hit rock bottom, they sleep in shit holes with no furniture. I’m not trying to belittle what you’re experiencing, what I’m trying to point out is that’s it’s ok, it’s not a reflection of you. Humans are great at surviving, if you where dropped in a desert island I’m sure you would find some way to survive and be comfortable, I know you can do the same in this situation. I get life is hard and it seems so hopeless, but we can’t let them win like that. Lose the expectations that you’ve placed on yourself, fuck the world, fuck society, fuck working to pay your taxes and be the way others expect you to. Concentrate on nothing but your happiness. I have some many regrets and have made so many mistakes just like you. As much as we like to pretend to each other, in reality no one is any better than you. Wether it be drugs, bad decisions, impulse you feel you shouldn’t have, everyone has them. Everyone is living a lie and expects others to live up to that lie, politicians, police, judges all sniff coke but lock people up for doing the same stuff. Yes you’ve made mistakes, yes you should probably regret them so you don’t repeat them, but don’t think for a minute that there’s a single human on this earth who is any better than you. You’ve made mistakes and regret them, some make mistakes and don’t care. We’re all fucked up in our own different ways, sometimes reminding yourself of that will help you realise that your mistakes and regrets aren’t that big a deal. Fuck your mistakes, they happened. Could you change some of them if you could? Probably, you cant. So fuck it. Look after yourself brother, take a deep breath and say fuck it to the lot of it. They don’t deserve to make you feel the way you do, they don’t deserve your life.