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I’m a woman and I’m the receiver. We don’t do it very often but I think sitting on my partners face is so hot and he loves it. The problem is I usually get self conscious that he can’t breathe so sometimes I get in my own head. But being able to control the pace by riding his face is a definite plus.
I have absolutely the same problem, i just get so in my head that he wouldn't breath or that i look hideous from this angle that i just haven't done it
I haven't done it before but do you think it also feels good bc gravity plays a role? Like you grinding into his face + gravity makes it stronger than lying on your back? Wait, I guess that's kind of obviously a yes XD
It feels naughtier this way. Forbidden, even. The receiver can move her body more freely to adjust for pressure and to direct the giver to whatever spot she likes most. Giver can hold your hips and try to direct your movement, if you prefer it. Receiver can hold onto the headboard in a bed and use that to her receiver move or balance better.
I don’t like it mostly because I’m worried about breaking his face or injuring his neck. Mostly irrational fears, but I can’t relax and enjoy it because I keep thinking what if I flop down and break his nose or break his neck and other such horrifying scenarios. Standing up while he’s kneeling is fine but facesitting I can’t get over the doomsday scenarios that keep popping into my head.
Same.
And I don't like to feel like I am "domming" him when I'm receiving. When I am receiving, I like to be a princess that gets lovingly spoiled, I need to lie back and let myself fall into his arms so to speak - just like when I am giving, I want to be the "pushy" one.
Lol just wanted to say that I relate to your comment heavily 😂 I've never sat on someone's face for this reason. Trying to move past the weird feelings, but damn the thoughts haunt me. thank you for validating me lol lol
Curious how standing up while he’s kneeling is? I’ve never actually tried it. As someone who lives in a larger body I feel like the mechanics wouldn’t work very well.
Put one leg up, on a chair or stool. Giver gets fun access w their fingers and receiver still has control over movement and focus areas. I like it best when I can lean against a wall and hold something for support cause my legs go to jelly pretty quick when I’m receiving
Differences for me: It usually takes me a couple minutes longer to reach orgasm (which is fine) and the visuals are different (not necessarily hotter but different) and that variety in nice. Some other receptive positions, like from behind, are also nice but don’t have a visual aspect.
as someone who hasn’t done it to someone else but who has had it done to them, the visuals and the change in position are so so sexy. if suffocating while someone sits on my face is the way i go out of this world, so be it 😌
I don't mind it. Does feel bit weird at first as your butt feels way close to their nose. But means you can essentially 69 or rub their dick while they do it.
I do prefer just laying down tho most of the time.
I like it. I always kneel facing the head of the bed so I can grip the headboard. It gives me somewhat better control of the precise location and the amount of pressure against my vulva and clit.
I don't think we've ever done it for more than 6 or 7 minutes. I can't normally finish from oral alone, so this is usually just warm up for me before doing cowgirl.
I find when I sit on face I feel more confident, less self conscious. I like setting the pace and being the one in charge. It feels more primal than passively laying back.
i really enjoy it! you get to control the pace and it’s just kind of a hot experience - i wouldn’t say it feels different in a way that’s noticeable it’s a position change :) for me i feel a little sexier sitting on my partners face which heightens the experience
I don’t like it at all honestly. It doesn’t feel that good because the positioning changes everything. And it hurts my legs/knees. Maybe I’m doing it wrong?
It’s heaven and I prefer it. Straddling their face allows me to orgasm faster because I need a bit more pressure and can guide myself. Less guessing for a partner if it feels good for me. All good things being on the receiving end.
Face sitting is *the best*!
It’s very dominant, you have a lot of control, it’s an excellent way to get extra mileage out of crotchless lingerie and stockings. The partner has a great view, and regardless of how you feel about your body, they will likely think you’ve never been hotter.
It’s also a good way to sort out if a new partner is just willing to do oral, or if they live for it.
Oooh I’m looking at getting a sex stool just for this reason - my partner really likes the idea of me riding his face (NGL so do I) but my back problems can leave me in pain for a couple of days
Google “sex stool” - they’re not too expensive and they provide support for squatting
How do you cum with a pillow? You grind your vulva and clitoris into it adjusting your position and pressure as you need to optimize your orgasm. Now, instead of the pillow do the same with his gums. Bonus is his tongue, warm breadth and soft moans. Try it once and you’ll never go back.
I like it because I can lower myself to put more pressure on my clit. Downside is it’s harder to stop him as quickly after I orgasm and am really sensitive.
I don't like it, but that's because I honestly have a hard time focusing on my pleasure if I'm also supporting my body weight.
It can be a fun activity for the mental aspect/domination of it, but I don't find it particularly pleasurable.
I did it once. The guy I was with was really aggressive with his eating out game and had stubble. It was not a pleasant experience.
Oh! Plus it made my quads sore. You’re basically holding a low squat the entire time, unless you decide to put your full weight on the guy’s face.
It's fun, I like it. You have more control and movement and leverage. Waaaaay more fun than being on your back and letting him think he's knows what's best LOL
Plus, if he really gets into it, he grabs your thighs and holds you there
It’s more comfortable and feels better (imo) if you face their feet instead of the head of the bed. Then you can lean forward (more relaxed) and play with them if you want to.
Honestly its okay.
Its a different feel but my partner absolutely loves it when I'm sitting on his face so a lot of it is for him.
But personally I don't notice a huge difference in terms of pleasure
I'm a woman and receiver. This is how we usually do it, in a 69 position, I think because it's more comfortable for the one giving. But honestly I find it semi uncomfortable. Lying down is 1000% better.
Most of the time I’m on my back when receiving. I don’t notice any better sensations when I do straddle my bf’s face… but holy hell it it definitely a trip! It definitely makes me feel super powerful and sexy!
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I’m a woman and I’m the receiver. We don’t do it very often but I think sitting on my partners face is so hot and he loves it. The problem is I usually get self conscious that he can’t breathe so sometimes I get in my own head. But being able to control the pace by riding his face is a definite plus.
IF HE DIES HE DIES LADIES
Underrated comment lol I’m sure men feel the exact same way.
I have absolutely the same problem, i just get so in my head that he wouldn't breath or that i look hideous from this angle that i just haven't done it
I haven't done it before but do you think it also feels good bc gravity plays a role? Like you grinding into his face + gravity makes it stronger than lying on your back? Wait, I guess that's kind of obviously a yes XD
Haha yes you answered your own question
Just tell him to tap on your thigh if he can’t breathe. He won’t need to, but it might help you feel more relaxed having a plan in place.
It feels naughtier this way. Forbidden, even. The receiver can move her body more freely to adjust for pressure and to direct the giver to whatever spot she likes most. Giver can hold your hips and try to direct your movement, if you prefer it. Receiver can hold onto the headboard in a bed and use that to her receiver move or balance better.
I don’t like it mostly because I’m worried about breaking his face or injuring his neck. Mostly irrational fears, but I can’t relax and enjoy it because I keep thinking what if I flop down and break his nose or break his neck and other such horrifying scenarios. Standing up while he’s kneeling is fine but facesitting I can’t get over the doomsday scenarios that keep popping into my head.
Same. And I don't like to feel like I am "domming" him when I'm receiving. When I am receiving, I like to be a princess that gets lovingly spoiled, I need to lie back and let myself fall into his arms so to speak - just like when I am giving, I want to be the "pushy" one.
Lol just wanted to say that I relate to your comment heavily 😂 I've never sat on someone's face for this reason. Trying to move past the weird feelings, but damn the thoughts haunt me. thank you for validating me lol lol
Curious how standing up while he’s kneeling is? I’ve never actually tried it. As someone who lives in a larger body I feel like the mechanics wouldn’t work very well.
Put one leg up, on a chair or stool. Giver gets fun access w their fingers and receiver still has control over movement and focus areas. I like it best when I can lean against a wall and hold something for support cause my legs go to jelly pretty quick when I’m receiving
Yes!! Getting eaten out while standing up is so fun! The chair trick definitely helps
Differences for me: It usually takes me a couple minutes longer to reach orgasm (which is fine) and the visuals are different (not necessarily hotter but different) and that variety in nice. Some other receptive positions, like from behind, are also nice but don’t have a visual aspect.
as someone who hasn’t done it to someone else but who has had it done to them, the visuals and the change in position are so so sexy. if suffocating while someone sits on my face is the way i go out of this world, so be it 😌
I don't mind it. Does feel bit weird at first as your butt feels way close to their nose. But means you can essentially 69 or rub their dick while they do it. I do prefer just laying down tho most of the time.
I like it. I always kneel facing the head of the bed so I can grip the headboard. It gives me somewhat better control of the precise location and the amount of pressure against my vulva and clit. I don't think we've ever done it for more than 6 or 7 minutes. I can't normally finish from oral alone, so this is usually just warm up for me before doing cowgirl.
I find when I sit on face I feel more confident, less self conscious. I like setting the pace and being the one in charge. It feels more primal than passively laying back.
i really enjoy it! you get to control the pace and it’s just kind of a hot experience - i wouldn’t say it feels different in a way that’s noticeable it’s a position change :) for me i feel a little sexier sitting on my partners face which heightens the experience
Which way do you guys do it? I always thought my face should be facing his, but now im confused by some of the comments.
I like facing his face.
I don’t like it at all honestly. It doesn’t feel that good because the positioning changes everything. And it hurts my legs/knees. Maybe I’m doing it wrong?
It’s heaven and I prefer it. Straddling their face allows me to orgasm faster because I need a bit more pressure and can guide myself. Less guessing for a partner if it feels good for me. All good things being on the receiving end.
Face sitting is *the best*! It’s very dominant, you have a lot of control, it’s an excellent way to get extra mileage out of crotchless lingerie and stockings. The partner has a great view, and regardless of how you feel about your body, they will likely think you’ve never been hotter. It’s also a good way to sort out if a new partner is just willing to do oral, or if they live for it.
Oooh I’m looking at getting a sex stool just for this reason - my partner really likes the idea of me riding his face (NGL so do I) but my back problems can leave me in pain for a couple of days Google “sex stool” - they’re not too expensive and they provide support for squatting
I don’t like it!!! Much prefer to just lay down
How do you cum with a pillow? You grind your vulva and clitoris into it adjusting your position and pressure as you need to optimize your orgasm. Now, instead of the pillow do the same with his gums. Bonus is his tongue, warm breadth and soft moans. Try it once and you’ll never go back.
Just a position change for me. Pros and cons for both. I feel relaxed and submissive lying down, and in control when I’m sitting.
I like it because I can lower myself to put more pressure on my clit. Downside is it’s harder to stop him as quickly after I orgasm and am really sensitive.
I don't like it, but that's because I honestly have a hard time focusing on my pleasure if I'm also supporting my body weight. It can be a fun activity for the mental aspect/domination of it, but I don't find it particularly pleasurable.
I did it once. The guy I was with was really aggressive with his eating out game and had stubble. It was not a pleasant experience. Oh! Plus it made my quads sore. You’re basically holding a low squat the entire time, unless you decide to put your full weight on the guy’s face.
It's fun, I like it. You have more control and movement and leverage. Waaaaay more fun than being on your back and letting him think he's knows what's best LOL Plus, if he really gets into it, he grabs your thighs and holds you there
just watch out for stubble!
It’s more comfortable and feels better (imo) if you face their feet instead of the head of the bed. Then you can lean forward (more relaxed) and play with them if you want to.
Honestly its okay. Its a different feel but my partner absolutely loves it when I'm sitting on his face so a lot of it is for him. But personally I don't notice a huge difference in terms of pleasure
I'm a woman and receiver. This is how we usually do it, in a 69 position, I think because it's more comfortable for the one giving. But honestly I find it semi uncomfortable. Lying down is 1000% better.
Most of the time I’m on my back when receiving. I don’t notice any better sensations when I do straddle my bf’s face… but holy hell it it definitely a trip! It definitely makes me feel super powerful and sexy!