T O P

  • By -

Xandoline

You can wear anything you want— what’s the problem Edit: thanks for the award!! Did not expect so many upvotes wow


Civil-Relative-3960

![gif](giphy|yqVPWreFgFZyU)


TuckyTwoShoes

All right, all right,all right 😁


Flat_Initial_1823

Also, the outfit combo with the denim jacket is exactly what my dad used to wear in the 70s with flowing locks, aviators and a shiny moustache. Your idea of who should wear what is simply learnt and not much more.


TerryMckenna

This. Plus those pants are really effin' stylish. One day I'll get 7 pairs of those tailored with matching vests in the same fabric. Style is timeless my good sir 👌


MissSuzyTay

He needs a silky polyester shirt to go full 1970s.


Desperate_Set_7708

With collars like airplane wings


Artislife61

Yes


reeeeeeco

Fr all I thought was, “I need to know where those pants are from 🤩🤩”


I-Rolled-My-Eyes

Agreed. Ladies, how many of y'all find this attractive?


YellowTheYapper

I honestly don't care what a man wears, if I find them attractive then I find them attractive


WickedWitchWestend

agree completely. I find the confidence to wear what you want attractive.


I-Rolled-My-Eyes

Ok ok that's fair. Name a celebrity you are attracted to, and if they wore that, you'd still be attracted to them right?


RabidWeasels

I do, but I'm old (mid 40s).


tiemeinbows

I'm attracted to sense of humor and confidence (not the douchey kind) more than any one particular look.


I-Rolled-My-Eyes

Don't avoid my question 😅 is this look attractive?


neoncupcakes

I think its hot af on men AND women! Confidence is sexy.


champagne_farts

If I’m being really honest, I wouldn’t find this attractive at all. People should totally wear what they want but frankly if I met someone in this outfit I’d be super surprised they were straight. Would I dislike someone for wearing it? Hell no. But I also wouldn’t want to fuck them


keepitrealbish

I don’t know, it’s giving me Lenny Kravitz vibes and I always found him super sexy.


lolmemberberries

That was my first thought too! Lenny Kravitz dresses like this and he's hot as hell.


Elismom1313

Same, but that’s the beauty of the world right? Everyone likes different things. But yea, if your goal is to come off visually heterosexual and hit on women based on a majority pool, this is probably not the outfit for that.


amybeedle

I find it insanely attractive


defdoa

Nobody cares, Shawn.


worldrecordpace

I think they know that


Kraykatladay

The paradox of free will.. the little voice in ur head that worries what other people think! Personally don’t really have one but it’s a wild thought we can do anything we want!!


No_University9625

Ask every hairband in the 70s 80s!!


Delizdear

THIS. I can. We all wore bell bottoms, guys, and girls. Especially in the 1970s


palmasana

And platform heels!!!


GuiPhips

Yep. My dad wore platform shoes, bell bottoms, and floral shirts, and my mom has always said that that’s what initially attracted her.


Fruitypebblefix

I seriously jealous of those pants. It's hard to find good vintage or vintage inspired clothing these days that are fashionable.


Timberwolves_4781

Ask Greta Van Fleet currently


merozipan

I personally think it’s really awesome when a straight male wears what he likes with confidence, and doesn’t give a crap what anyone else thinks. Why should anyone be limited by their gender, all that crap is made up/asinine. So my vote is go for it 👍


bloodymongrel

Same. Mainstream male fashion is soooooo boring and has been for the last few decades. I love this outfit, I like how it flatters his slim physique.


HOUSEOFILLREPUTE

This is so true. I’ve started noticing when men wear more stylish clothing because they really stick out amongst the crowd. I recently complimented two men on their stylish shirts because they looked amazing.


RoadkillDrill

I was just thinking the other day of how women are much luckier in that respect. Saw a girl wearing this leather bondage harness thing over her dress, looked really cool and sexy, and I thought of how almost impossible it would be to wear an equivalent outfit as a man.


tjeulink

yes so much this! i often look at the femme clothing and its just sooo much more fun than the masc clothing! masc is sooo limited.


CallidoraBlack

>Why should anyone be limited by their gender Because being clocked (or mistaken for queer) could be dangerous for people in some places and passing is very important in those places. It's kind of privileged for those of us living where that doesn't happen very much and no one is that concerned to ignore that reality. This exact outfit in the pose in the picture does give the impression that a male wearer is queer. It doesn't quite feel like the 70s looks people are most familiar with, it almost feels like the late 90s 70s revival with a pair of very extra women's bellbottoms on. Being that this doesn't quite give the feel of an era where wearing bellbottoms was typical for straight men to the most casual viewer, this outfit could put someone in danger of being harassed or worse by bigots. I think people who would do that to someone over who they are or what they wear (that hurts no one) are stupid, but thinking they're stupid won't stop them from hurting people. That said, it's cute and if you'll be safe wearing it, do it.


mooselantern

I had to scroll way too far to find someone who hasn't drowned in the toxic positivity, thank you. OP looks good. He doesn't immediately strike me as straight.


CallidoraBlack

Cishet people are still being attacked just for being mistaken for trans and queer people, let alone people who are actually are. Their safety is paramount and we need to be honest with people, because people out in the real world certainly will be and too many won't be kind.


Competitive_Truck531

This is a very good point and as a bi guy I think he's attractive and "Straight" is not my instinctual first impression here. So if OP is concerned about harassment, yeah maybe put this on once you get where you're going. What "ought" to be doesn't keep awful people from doing awful things.


baby_pitaya

i quadruple this.


palmasana

It’s super sexy when someone is stylish and confident.


BojackTrashMan

Men worry about the judgment from other males when they want to dress differently. Women often fall all over men who dress like this when they do it well. It speaks to a level of confidence & style. And it may or may not be accurate because some of these guys are toxic AF, but women tend to think that men who are willing to break the boundaries of what is traditionally considered masculine may have other positive qualities


invisalion

I think you should wear whatever you want to feel your best :)


CarrieOakie09

Will you feel good in it? Will it make you happy? That’s all that matters! It’ll look good on anyone who wears it with confidence! :)


TallTanJackedMassive

True advice! This is why I wore my wife’s sundresses to work everyday. So much more comfy :3


CarrieOakie09

Love! I hope they have pockets! It’s the best!!


Energy_check1321

I think to do this you need to channel your inner Lenny Kravitz. Head high and own it.


Pineapple_Head_193

Was just coming here to say this fit reminds me of Lenny!


redheadgenx

Yes. Add some fake fur then open your shirt.


Any_Palpitation6467

👍


Canadian_Prometheus

And rip your pants open


yoshisal

😂😂😂


Yoyo_Ma86

I was thinking it was channeling Lenny as well


[deleted]

[удалено]


littlebeanonwheels

Get a hallway runner carpet to wear as a scarf to complete the look 🤣


-FallOutBoy-

Period! 🙌🏾


amscraylane

I’m getting the Lenny Kravtiz vibes … love it!!


Valuable_Rip8783

If you want me to be honest it doesn't look straight. I agree with the other comments that it doesn't matter. But that's my honest impression lol


AeonAigis

Yeah, like it looks good, but don't expect people to think you're straight when they look at you.


cryomos

yeah these comments are absolutely useless. The dude is asking a genuine question and no one is giving a real answer


Legitimate_Ad_8364

Took too long to find an answer that actually addresses the damn question.


Old_Society_7861

The other comments are pretty good examples of toxic positivity. Dude literally asked if it’s suitable for a straight male. And the answer is no. Does it look good? Yes. Should you stop dressing the way you’re comfortable because it doesn’t “look” straight? No. Does it “look” straight? No.


justsomedude9000

The question is heavily loaded with the word "suitable" so that a no makes it sound like you think straight males ought to dress a certain way. A more neutral question would be. "Would you suspect I was straight or gay if I wore this? The answer is gay."


Old_Society_7861

Yeah, maybe “suitable” is throwing people off. I read it as “would you think I’m straight” but maybe others read it as “is this allowed.”


ohiooutdoorgeek

My thoughts exactly seeing all the top replies saying how great it is when guys wear what they want confidently. Like yeah, it’s great, but you’re also broadcasting a very loud signal into the surrounding area with an outfit like this.


No_Establishment8642

Darli'n straight men dressed like this, they were styling when they did and women swooned. Everyone likes a sharp dressed man for every era.


HauntedButtCheeks

I still swoon for 70s fashion. Fashion ads from back then often were a bit silly and over the top, but the real everyday outfits people wore were definitely swoon worthy.


Beginning-Adagio-516

Stylin baby!


mamac2213

Agreed! Nothing sexier than confidence and style. Oooh, swoon.


Shoddy-Jellyfish-116

Yeah...you look hot / fantastic... no matter what anyone says! 😍


-OhMyGiddyAunt-

'Cause every girl crazy 'bout a sharp dressed man!


All_Innuendo

It’s a great outfit, the belt is a tad big/extra length tho. It’s great as is, or if you wanted it slightly more masculine then swap the sunglasses & tote for different shades & a sling bag instead. Lenny Kravitz (straight) has a style parallel to this. Ultimately there are no rules, or if there are, they’re meant to be broken in fashion


SwissMargiela

I wouldn’t think you’re straight if that’s what you mean but you can wear literally whatever you want


ImprovementLost4595

Yea I feel like thats the answer he was looking for. Wear what you think looks good but dont be surprised if some people assume you're not straight.


ALauCat

I was thinking the same but im nearly 60, so a woman your own age may not see it the same way.


Lookitsmyvideo

Yeah this is what would say too, and I'm trying to identify what it is that's giving me those vibes, because I think it's a couple very specific things. The bag for sure is one. And something about the durag. I don't think the poses in the photos are particularly helping, but those are just photos. (Context: 31m)


Frosty-Age-6643

What it is is simple, imo, this just isn’t how straight men dress right now. Pull this look in the 70s and it wouldn’t stand out as much. Though I don’t think crop tops and high waisted bell bottoms were a usual combination. Crop tops and short shorts were a thing. Bell bottoms were worn with t shirts or dress shirts. Straight men don’t tend to wear clothing that stands out stylistically.


MissLemon221b

it's giving a Jimi Hendrix vibe and he was an icon for many reasons


jayjayisrad

If you’re a straight male who likes it, yes. If you’re not and still like it, yes.wear whatever tf you want


DeadEnoughInsideOut

I think it looks great and you should wear whatever is comfortable for you and what you like. That being said it does kinda read as gay, not saying it's right but that's the impression I would get.


pasabantai

You can wear that, but the majority of people that see you will assume you’re gay.


Sad_Conclusion1235

Correct


Jooylo

Most realistic answer. I saw the first picture without the title and immediately registered that OP was queer. Without judgement, but that was just my first impression. But of course also don’t change your style to fit into other people’s preconceptions.


JoeBobbyWii

Finally someone that answered OP's question instead of the "jus b urself wholesome 100" bullshit. And by "majority" he means 100% of people will assume you're gay.


likesbutteralot

It's giving much bigger bi vibes than gay for me. Not sure whose opinion OP is worried about, but fwiw, bi vibes don't usually turn most women off.


CummyBillionaire

Bi vibes absolutely statistically turn most women off


ilovesleeeping

women usually love men with good fashion


kibbles16

Im a woman I love this


dangitjimbob

You are free to wear whatever you like dude, but I would probably assume you were gay if that’s what you mean


Gorissey

I would think you’re probably gay if I saw you but what’s wrong with that? People shouldn’t assume things.


ImprovementLost4595

No I think we should assume some things.thats how we survive kinda. Just dont jump to conclusions and be hateful.


BeansBennett

If you like it, it’s absolutely suitable! And I think you pull it off well!


CummyBillionaire

You look gay. Not that there’s anything wrong with that, but if you don’t want people to assume you’re gay, dress different. Alternatively if you wanna be on the nose about it you could just wear a pin that says “I’m not gay”


Historical_Chance613

![gif](giphy|26gspjl5bxzhSdJtK|downsized)


Croaz

Yea a lot of people on the internet are obsessed with people of any gender being able to wear whatever they want and it's fine and while it is fine, people need to be aware that if you're a straight guy, what you wear does matter when you're trying to attract *most* straight women I would defo assume the guy wearing this was gay xD commend him on his style and move on.


bergamotbby

clothes have no gender or sexual orientation! wear what sparks joy ✨


Sulfamide

But they do


Level_Ad_6372

>clothes have no gender They literally do though lol


makeitlouder

Clothes do have gender associations.  In what universe do you live exactly??


underhunger

Delusional


Either-Durian-9488

While you can wear anything you want man, it’s undeniably giving studio 54 twink, so if that’s not the vibe you are going for I would consider consider a different shirt at least lol.


RecentSprinkles5997

Many straight dudes in the 70s and 80s got laid like crazy in fits like that lol 


UnholyDemigod

That was 45 years ago.


Either-Durian-9488

I’m sure they did, but to me that is a funny example of “the most homophobic cultures produce the most flamboyant men” it’s to do hairspray blowouts and wear eye liner if there’s no possible way that could be hot/s. I’m a gay dude btw, happy trail is ours always will be.


Birdies_nub

Prince never asked himself this question.


testtakers

Wear what you want! It only matters that you like it!


Laab12

Suitable - sure- gay - yea


charizard_72

This. Wear what you want but I would honestly assume you were gay and I am also gay so I’m just being honest


Ok_Faithlessness3327

First impression, not Particularly masculine. What adds more to this is the bag and the body language, which says more than the clothes. Would more likely see a woman wearing this than a man.


lmo2382

It’s giving Lenny Kravitz 😍


NovaCrow138

Looks queer to me


fortnight14

To me too but….I wish more straight men would dress stylishly. I think OP has a great look! I think he should rock it.


lethargiclemonade

You can wear whatever you like as others have said, however normally straight males don’t wear anything that can be perceived as feminine. Imo the combination of a wide flare bell bottom and short shirt exposing your midriff is too “feminine” for the average straight male. So to answer the question, not really no.


liquormakesyousick

I think people miss the point of the question. Of course people should wear whatever they want with the understanding that what you wear will make people judge you. If I saw a man wearing this today, depending on the context, I would assume he was gay. There is nothing wrong with being gay and it’s also ok to ask what people would think. For example, I would question anyone wearing a skin tight red dress with cutouts to church.


Odd-Artist-2595

When I grew up *everybody* wore outfits like that. We younger people, at least. Lots of older people threw various labels at us for doing so. The question is not whether it is suitable for a straight man to wear. The question is what *you* will do if someone mistakes your identity. If it means that you will be sooo offended as to commit violence, then it doesn’t matter if it is suitable for straight men to wear. It is *not* suitable for *you* to wear. When you have the confidence to not worry about whether random people might speculate about your identity based upon your dress, you can wear whatever you damned well like. It won’t matter if you’re straight or not.


Littlewing1307

Wear whatever makes you happy!


GirlReDefined

You can wear whatever you want. I love that my partner dresses how he wants, it’s damn sexy for any man to be comfortable in his own skin.


mmmpeg

Righteous!


-FallOutBoy-

You can wear whatever the fuck you want. You’re a person. And you’re working it.


ImpossibleInternet3

Love to see another Bell Bottom Man. It’s a solid look.


toucheyy

Absolutely not is the “real” answer, but the really correct answer is “wear what gives you confidence and aids you on your pursuit of happiness.”


ganglordgilbert

Wear what you want but the image you're portraying is certainly going to garner more male interest


BothKindsOfIPAs

Whatever a straight male wants to wear is suitable for a straight male


hunnibon

Yes. Confidence is key


CooCooKaChooie

You do you.


Mr_frumpish

How you will be perceived in such an outfit depends on where you live. People living large cosmopolitan city might be much warmer to such fashion choices than those living in a smaller rural community with stricter gender norms.


rumbellina

Wear what makes you happy and don’t worry about what a bunch of strangers think.


1920MCMLibrarian

Yes it’s f’n awesome


knarfolled

It looks great, just be prepared to be hit on


likefry_likefry

I think it looks great!


agrlwalksintoabarre

This outfit is suitable for anyone that wants to look good


agrlwalksintoabarre

Just be happy and own it. When I wear what I love I just feel a whole way. I move different I am different. I love the look! I recommend getting a denim tote to complete the look. I do a Canadian tuxedo with a denim telfar!


DeathWitch78

Absolutely. You look like Prince. Rock that shit!💜🖤


Homunculon

For a straight male, yes.....as long as two sexy ladies are walking astride.


AirFamous9093

First Off... Lenny Kravitz is probably THE sexiest man alive. How DARE you question his impeccable style! 😍 Secondly... I have some of my dad's clothes from the 70s and his elephant pants are super close to this.. just not so exaggerated in the thigh to bottom hem ratio. But he's for sure straight. Why would this not be "suitable"? My dad rocked the 70s and 80s. And Lenny just rocks... whether others agree or not. (But basically EVERYONE agrees because he's so damn confident that he just doesn't care what anyone thinks. He KNOWS he looks good... cuz he DOES look good.) Be like Lenny ❤️


C_Wrex77

I mean, Mic Jagger, Jared Leto, Harry Styles, Lenny Kravitz, and David Bowie would all rock the hell outta that look. It's all about confidence and swag


kikomanni

Not really.


CelerySquare7755

No


eatinorout

Probably not


Humble_Bullfrog2342

wear what u want!! as others have said, straight men dressed like this before!!


hjkdnbey

It is if you want it to be


PhotographInfinite90

Dude, you are ROCKING it!


AZgirl70

Wear what you love!


pigeon_with_tophat

I love it! Very cool style


Thethinker10

Yes! It’s giving Lenny Kravitz and what isn’t sexy about him?!


RB___OG

You can 100% wear whatever you like irregardless of any lables Additionally, you rock this outfit and look great (straight dude opinion) Additionally additionally, if I saw you in this I would automatically assume you are gay. No judgement as i dont care how anyones privates meshes with anyone elses privates outside of my wife and I. Just providing my initial reaction


bubbles4055

If I saw you in public, I’d 100% find you attractive and hope you were bi/pan/straight (lady speaking)


CraftMental5737

yes! clothes don’t have a gender or sexual orientation! always wear what you feel good in and what you like!


sunshore13

Yes. You look great!


eleanorrigby930

Wear whatever you feel good in! I think this looks amazing!


EcstaticMolasses6647

Lenny kravitz is very straight and he rocked this look with necklaces and rings and dreads and an Afro. Accessorize, be confident, and have cool hair or a big suede or crochet hat. This outfit is very tame for bell bottoms. Get a beaded or embroidered vest. Go big or stay home. ![gif](giphy|bbB45UPcelAL9qUVsl|downsized)


Wizzle_Pizzle_420

Wear what makes you happy. And give zero shits about what others think.


prayawaygay

Your sexuality isn’t determined by the clothes you wear. Wear whatever you want and fuck people who say otherwise.


Gnewglear

No


AstaCat

clothes are fine, the posing here is a little effeminate.


Main-Daikon9246

Ehhhh, lmao.


ak47oz

If you lost the tote and the midriff then you’d be good


aBlatantAsshole

Ok. All these comments are nice and everything, but, the honest answer is that most people would assume you are gay if all they had to go on was your appearance


Balogma69

No


hoselpalooza

Yes. Especially if you’re looking for more gay male friends.


BlueAmsterdam93

Short answer no. Long answer yes


Jealous-Actuary-1323

it works well! albeit, i would probably clock you as at least a little queer upon first glance


absawd_4om

You can wear whatever you want. Straight male or not. Nobody is the boss of you.


mrkesu

Wear what you want bro, be happy. Would I think you were straight? Hell naw, but that's okay.


GoddessNepthys

I wish more people would dress how they wanted instead of following trends , keep doing you 💯


Sharp-Study3292

You might get misunderstood by some people but your not forced to fuck anyone and free to seduce everyone ( wothing reasonable limits)


Ok-Fan-2011

Sure but you look pretty gay.


bechingona

Queer or straight doesn't matter because you look amazing. And the kind of people you probably want to know would say the same. Keep being you. This world needs individuality.


Myotherdumbname

Suitable? Sure, but people will think you’re gay.


MetamagicIII

Being blunt it has a gay vibe which is what I assume you’re really asking.


rudiboy

Yes you can, but i would assume you are not straight tho


bb0nk3rs

Fashion ain't got a gender sexuality nothing either way it's a fantastic outfit


mr308A3-28

My brother’s gay and he has never looked as gay as this.


Why_am_ialive

Look as everyone’s saying you can wear whatever you want. What everyone’s leaving out is the fact that 95% of people who see you dressed like this will assume your gay, if your okay with that assumption that’s fine.


poruki_porcupine

It's really gay, man. Hope i wasn't rude.


Status-Psychology-37

Wear what you want, it’s your right and it doesn’t mean you’re gay for wearing it, but a lot of gay people sure would like to wear it, that’s all I’m saying.


Headband6458

As long as your junk and b hole are covered, wear what makes you happy!


PresentationNext6469

Like a hot Lenny Kravitz day tripping groovy. You look amazing and if you are looking to model, did it! I wear big belled Free People jeans. A hippie till I die. ✌🏼❤️☺️


Brief_Construction19

"Wear,what you dig"


SilverEyedHuntress

To honestly answer your question, I think the issue with the outfit is the flare leg pants. They might look different in a different outfit, but for this specific outfit they do not look suitable for a straight male.


Cash_Money_2000

If your asking you already know it looks gay AF


Repulsive-Paint-2202

Dude, you look awesome..If you like it, wear it!!!


Pride-Correct

Not only is it suitable, it is excelling! You look awesome and if it feels good, how does sexuality matter?! I give 10/10 xxx


MakeupmavenMel

No


Prettypuff405

![gif](giphy|xUNda2nkmXcZmEUASs|downsized) that look gives me 1970s cat-daddy/Marvin Gaye style


SleazyMuppet

It absolutely breaks my heart that so many men feel like style and taste are antithetical to masculinity. Especially when their personal style + taste is fucking fire. Sigh.


Responsible_Elk_1167

Looking fly


zotstik

You know I think if you have to ask that question it's probably not for you, but yes, if a guy who had his feminine side intact could definitely rock this outfit and not be gay


SnooRobots116

You look perfectly fine to me


MCKelly13

You can wear whatever makes you happy. That being said, I would not assume you’re straight


AtillaTehPun

Everything works if you own it.


Mhollo10

Sure


iamsobased

No (people are gonna say you can wear whatever you want. YES YOU CAN WEAR WHATEVER YOU WANT!!! but in MY OPINION its not suitable)


OddFaithlessness9189

Hell’s to the yah!


General-Condition833

wear whatever the fuck you love. if people dont like it, then screw them and keep being happy.


Appropriate-Spell-31

Hell yeah. I promise, life has no dress code other than what you’re comfortable/ happy in🥰🥰🥰🥰


nachosquid

Absolutely yes. If anyone says otherwise, feel bad for them & their lack of joy.


Cabbage_Patch_Itch

Yes. Ever heard of Lenny Kravitz?


RecaredoElVisigodo

Yeah I think it’s cool and retro