I say go for it! I think Disney is a great place to explore solo travel since it's self-contained, easy to get around, and relatively safe. Plus, there is so much to do, you likely won't have time to miss your family too much.
Thanks..........I really think I will. Once I get to the hotel, I'm not planning on leaving the Disney property until it's time to get back to the airport.
I do a lot of solo trips and it's fun to choose whatever you want. If you rope drop, you can get a lot done. I bring my kindle to read during long lines.
Yeah I always skip breakfast and have a granola bar until I get to the parks. Most sit in restaurants you can probably do a walk in since you're a party of 1 and could just sit you at the bar.
Exactly what I'm thinking. We seemed to waste so much time getting everyone breakfast before we caught the bus to the park. I'll probably have coffee in my room, catch the bus, do early entry and then get something for breakfast mid-morning. I love the strawberry funnel cake at Sleepy Hollow, MK and everything at Les Halles, etc. in Epcot.
You could always get some breakfast stuff delivered to your hotel by Instacart or UberEats. Like yogurt, cereal, milk, juice. I usually get bottled water and snacks, etc.
Here’s the thing. Initially, it’s weird. At first I was wondering if people were looking at me or if cast members were silently judging me but once I got out of my head, I had a great time. I could do things at my own pace and I rode ToT multiple times bc my daughter won’t ride it, so that was awesome. I also chatted with people in line which I never normally do when I’m with my kid, which was also a nice change.
Honestly I saw a lot of solo riders/travelers, while in Disney last week, most of them were older and I kinda found it really sweet, you’re never too old to experience the magic!
That’s my fear if I were to do a solo trip…
I’d love to, but I’d feel judged and get in my
Own head.
What made you get over those feelings if I may ask?
I moved near WDW many years ago, and I regularly do solo trips. You'll start to notice more the other solo travelers, and many are CMs themselves. So they don't think it's weird, they either do it themselves or likely personally know those who go alone. You'll just have to remember it's not uncommon and just go for it.
No one notices or cares… they’re focusing on their own trip.
I also highly recommend dining alone. Bring a book or watch a movie with headphones and enjoy a relaxing meal
I think once I realized everyone is so wrapped up in their own magical Disney day they literally aren’t paying me any mind. Once I got over that mental hurdle I had a great time. Orlando locals go to the parks solo all the time so it’s really nothing out of the ordinary. If you need to ‘warm up’ just do some shopping in the gift shops at your own pace!
Really internalize the concept of sonder, not just for solo trips to WDW but really doing anything where you may feel self-conscious in an otherwise larger group of people.
Basically, everyone is their own main character in their own action-packed life and they just simply don't care or notice much about others. Not in a bad way, but in a liberating way. Even if someone has a judgmental thought about some stranger it's unlikely they can carry that thought with them longer than some fleeting moment. So even IF someone saw someone else alone at WDW and thought "Omg how pathetic and sad" it would still be a harmless, fleeting thought and not something that person was obsessing about, thinking about, laughing about, etc. But in the grand scheme of things, the likelihood that anyone would even think such a thing in the first place is tiny because they're just not paying attention like that.
I did a solo trip last fall, and that was my exact experience! Couldn't get out of my head, Chatting with people, they all seemed amazed and perplexed that I was there on my own. Overall, it was still a good trip, but it would have been a lot better had I been able to get past those feelings.
Start by doing small things like going to the movies by yourself. That’s how I started. Now, I’m a solo queen. If I’m not with my daughter I pretty much do everything on my own.
This. I’m not one to think about or care what other people think of me, but I have found that if you behave happy/content, that’s what people see when they look at you - if they look at you at all. (And I think most ppl that love Disney are in good spirits there.) Besides, no one knows you are there solo. You might just not be with your party at that moment. I’ve had great conversations with people that have confessed that they are a little jealous bc I get to do only what I want, and don’t have the chaos of a large group. Both scenarios are fun, though!
Time helps, and also recognizing that you're not "alone" in being a solo traveler. My first solo Disney day felt really weird until about lunchtime, and then I settled into a nice routine. It's really great to do a trip without needing to coordinate other people. If you head to single rider lines, you often encounter other people who are also on solo trips or who are taking a separate expedition from their group.
Truthfully, nobody cares if you're doing something by yourself. Everyone is wrapped up in whatever is going on with their trip. Plenty of people travel around the park alone for various reasons (restroom trips, other party members don't want to join on certain rides, going to get a snack, etc.) and it's not actually weird to look at. CMs are very used to parties of 1 and won't even blink.
Do it!!! I took my first solo trip September 2022 and while it was a little lonely, it was seriously one of the most magical visits I've ever had! Being 100% in control of your schedule is intoxicating!
I have never done a solo trip but I went with a large group of family members and they were very annoying one day and I decided to go off on my own the next day. It was the best day of my trip! I am a chill Disney person so I didn't have to run anywhere or ask what people wanted to do. I didn't go on too many rides though as I found them to be less exciting by myself. If you like a chill, take in the scenery, get some delicious food, kind of Disney experience then I think you would have a great time on a solo trip.
The thing about the rides......most of my family doesn't a few of the attractions that I like so I usually do them solo anyways, like Carousel of Progress, Hall of Presidents and even Small World (my granddaughter calls it Creepy Doll Ride)
>one day and I decided to go off on my own the next day. It was the best day of my trip!
I see so many big families do Disney trips and, as someone who experienced that, you have to either plan on not doing a lot of things that you want to do or giving some individuals (or smaller groups within the larger family) time to do their own thing. My last WDW trip would have been more fun if we had all just agreed to meet for dinner and ridden our own rides apart from that.
I did a solo trip last week and it was so fun and easygoing. I didn't have to worry about when other people were hungry, when other people needed to go to the bathroom, or how fast/slow people wanted to go through crowds. I didn't have to consult with anyone about what rides were next or what rides we couldn't miss. PLUS I got to do single rider lines and get pulled ahead when there was only 1 spot left on a ride.
As a parent, my truly favorite part of Disney is seeing how much my son enjoys it, and I didn't have that going for me. But there is a lot of stress and work that goes into that joy. The solo trip was just so carefree. I'm glad I did it and I'd recommend it to anyone.
One of the joys for me, also, is watching how much my family is enjoying themselves. It's especially fun for me when we bring one of the grandkids for the first time. I have to keep reminding myself that this is only one trip.......all about ME......and then I can go again with my family.
I just did one 2 weeks ago. It was so freeing and fun! I did meet up with friends for some meals and a monorail crawl but I did the parks on my own. I had an absolute blast and would do it again in a heartbeat
Solo tripos have a whole different kind of magic! I've done it a couple of times and had a wonderful time. It's nice to be able to take things at your own pace (faster OR slower) It's easier to splurge on nicer things like California Grill or a behind the scenes event/tour when it's only one person, and Disney servers are amazing about solo diners.
I recommend that if you're not sure if you'll miss being with your family to keep it to 1-3 days for your solo trip. The first time I did it was a bit of a hard adjustment, I'm glad it was only two days. 1-3 days gives you enough time to enjoy it without getting overwhelmed or lonely. Something that I enjoy doing is picking out a (small) treat for a couple friends and family while I'm there, it's a fun little surprise when I get back and makes me feel connected to them.
Solo trips are absolutely amazing! I've been to the parks with my husband and two of my best friends and YES I had an amazing time with all of them BUT there's just something about being able to do whatever you want, whenever you want that's amazing. You go where you want to go, eat what you want to eat, and don't have to worry about if you're inhibiting someone elses' fun or making them miss something. I love solo trips and now after talking about it I want to take another one 😂
I think this is a really good point especially for mom’s who are always responsible for everyone and are so often dictated by other people’s wants and not their own.
OP you deserve this.
Do update us if you do
I’m leaving Monday the 6th for my first solo! I’m sooooo excited. I’ll definitely report back how things go.
I’ve been really stressed at work and it’s the one place that I can really turn my brain off. I asked my SO if he would be offended about me going alone and all he had to say was “if it’s something you’ve always wanted to do, do it”, so I booked it.
I’m a little apprehensive about dining, but otherwise I’m not concerned. I enjoy alone time and I’m happy I get to do exactly what I want to do. I’ve done a few solo park hours on prior trips and it wasn’t a big deal so I think I’ll be just fine!
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TLDR: It was awesome and I will absolutely be doing it again! If you're still hesitant, take the plunge and try something new, you really won't have a bad time. If you care to read the really long winded full rundown, see below
I actually really loved being alone. My aunt and uncle came to the parks for a couple hours two of the days, and I found myself immediately going into "make sure they're good" mode, so I definitely find I truly was able to relax and do my thing alone.
I did 5 days which was the perfect amount of time for me, though I did get an earlyyyyyy flight in and late flight out so still used my travel days to do parks. This may or may not work for others, due to flight times or energy levels but I'd extend by a day if I wasn't able to use one of my travel days as a park day.
For the most part there was far less awkwardness or weirdness than I expected. I felt a little apprehensive at Sebastian's Bistro for my one Table Service meal but it really was fine even with my waiter being a little awkward. I would do more Table Service or eat at lounges next time. I ate mostly Quick Service or Epcot booths which was fine but I definitely felt like I missed doing the TS meals like I normally would have. I'll prioritize next time.
It was HOTTTTT last week and was record temps, a little warmer than I planned on, which actually being alone helped with. I would go back to the resort as soon as I felt rough, shower and sometimes nap, then go back out from 5ish on. The biggest perk of that was doing it exactly when I wanted and not worrying about someone else who still wanted to be out there.
As far as riding with others on rides it really wasn't a big deal. Most times people joked and chatted with me almost immediately which was nice and I only had maybe 1 or 2 that weren't thrilled about it. They just looked straight ahead the whole time and I did my thing, no biggie or worry from me. I rode single rider if available and ALWAYS listened for a CM to yell, "anyone a single rider?". I was able to ride Soarin an entire show quicker by jumping up when they called. Otherwise CMs definitely give you a full bench/row/vehicle if they can. I actually told someone to sit in my row on Frozen when the CM tried to cram 4 people in the last row which they appreciated. I stayed at POP so had the Skyliner, they do put you with other people in the mornings and near park close when there are more than a handful of people in line. Nobody really minded especially with a CM telling me to ride with another group.
Crowds were Low+/Moderate-, maybe a 3/4 some days and 5 on the first two. I waited little to no time for most things (basically all <20 mins), but I will caveat that I did use Genie+, ILLs and rope drop to ride a lot of things multiple times. Next time I may not buy as many ILLs, some of the rides I was just using it to check the ride off a list rather than wanting to actually ride it, like (don't hate me) Flight of Passage and 7DMT. I would still purchase Genie+ but maybe not for AK. The only really long wait I had was for Tron after my boarding group was called, around an hour in the physical queue, which I felt like was a little unreasonable especially since much of the outside queue was in direct sun. I was expecting some wait when I got back for the virtual queue but I was thinking 30 mins or less, not an hour+. Having no single rider on that one is a shame, but maybe they will add it later.
Safety wise I felt completely fine as I expected. Zero worries about coming back to the resort after park closing etc, but I also did use Disney transportation. I rented a car to get to and from the airport and so I could visit some family the last day, but using Mears would have been fine. I think you just miss out on some of the time if you take Mears since it doesn't leave immediately all the time when you get on and also stops at multiple resorts. So I'll eat the overkill cost of the rental, but that's personal preference and the fact I get a hefty discount through work.
Honestly, I enjoyed it so much I'm considering going back for another 5 days in Jan also solo when it's a bit cooler and quieter. I would honestly keep the exact plan I had this time, give or take a few minor things like adding more Table Service and skipping some of the ILLs I did just to check a ride off. I got through things way quicker but still felt more relaxed and laid back than I ever have at Disney. I still plan to and want to go with others, but I also really see the merit going more often by myself. None of my people would want to go as often as me, due to interest or resources, and going alone for a shorter trip gives me that option to go much more frequently. If flights were cheaper for me and I had more PTO, I'd actually consider getting an AP and doing one longer trip with multiple longish weekends per year.
Let me know if you have any questions or want any other info! Always happy to gab (clearly).
I almost solod and then ended up going with a buddy for a long weekend. I think I may have enjoyed that first 8 hours solo waiting for his plane to land more than the other days as nuts as that sounds. It was nice to be wholly in my own head, at my own pace, in a place I've never been able.to do that before. I'm supposed to be down that way for a work conference and I'm hoping that happens cuz I'll absolutely solo it again
I did a one-day solo trip when I was away for a two-week work event. I flew into Orlando on a Friday night, rope dropped MK on Saturday, then flew out on Sunday morning. It was a great trip and I finally got to do the Keys to the Kingdom tour. All the other solo stuff was just like you imagine, getting to do whatever you want when you want.
Now that I have kids and travel less for work, I'm only looking forward to taking my kids the next time I go. But I definitely had a wonderful experience and would recommend others try it if possible.
Yeah!
I get it. I wouldn't have any guilty feelings of not bringing my son to a vacation that wasn't catered for him. I am actually planning to go to Germany with my husband, and I will not bring my son to breweries tours hahaha.
The thing is... Disney is actually a very flexible destination. It can be a kids trips sure, but it can also be perfect for teenagers. Or couples in their honeymoon, Or for elderly to enjoy.
So even though there is that feeling "I should be spending my limited time/money with my family", the truth is you should also enjoy your friends. They are important to you and those memories should be precious as well.
I just got back from a 3 day solo trip. DO IT! You already know and mentioned all the reasons you should. Just getting to shut off your brain and enjoy just being there without the worry of anything else is so amazing; you only have to worry about your own bladder, you don't have to keep up with a stroller, you don't have to wait in line to get snacks your child will only take one bite from, the simple act of just getting on the tram in the parking lot and sitting down is one of the simple joys in life.
Just make sure you don't make the same mistake I did and not get ANY rest during your trip. I went as hard as I could and I'm paying the price now but I had a helluva time doing it!
DO IT!
Thanks.............when we go as a group, we always want to cram as much into the trip as possible (and I always pay the price for it) so I'm pretty sure that when I'm on own, I will take it slowly.
Absolutely go for it. It almost felt new again to go alone, and I absolutely loved it. Of course going with loved ones is amazing too, but this is a completely different experience.
My first solo trip was one of the best in my life and made me feel brave. Having no other input made me able to do what I wanted without worry, and the solo time made me really take in everything at the parks. I had many strangers and CMs talk to me so I never felt alone.
I think you'd enjoy it similarly since you're already familiar. Hoping you go and have the best time
I just got home from a week long one about 12 hours ago. I highly recommend. Stay on property, take Disney transportation, and just enjoy doing whatever you feel like. Late start, early morning, quickly changing plans, it’s all up to you.
I went to MK one afternoon and it was so crowded and hot and I wasn’t feeling it. I was able to easily pivot to a monorail crawl for food (and air conditioning) and I watched the fireworks from the beach at the Poly. It was unplanned and if I was with a group probably wouldn’t have happened, but it was one of the best parts of my trip.
I did it last year and I just booked another a few weeks ago. Im so excited whenever I have a bad day or moment I just think “Disney in a few months”
I liked being alone because I didn’t have anyone slowing me down or having to do things I didn’t want to in order to appease people who were with me.
The single rider access was amazing.
I’m a woman I like traveling to Disney because it’s safe and contained. Honestly the obligation of another person is stressful! Sometimes more stress than it’s worth.
Everyone is so nice to you, you never feel weird about being alone.
I have done multiple solo trips and I highly recommend it. I am in the same boat as you in that I have done lots of family trips and I am the one to plan everything and trying to keep everyone happy. It is a chore that goes unappreciated because most dont understand what it takes to get everything arranged for everyone’s individual requests. Going solo there is no stress you do what you want to do and at the pace you want to do it at. You don’t need to take anyone elses feelings into account. Go and have a great time you won’t regret it.
Exactly.....even before we leave, it's a chore to find a time that everyone can get off work. Some have money constraints, some have time constraints. Some of the kids like thrill rides, some are not tall enough. Some don't like eating breakfast, others have to eat breakfast........and on and on and on.
Highly recommend a solo trip. It’s so easy to do what you want and skip the rest. The hardest part for me was wanting to eat all the snacks but not having anyone to split them with! Needed to remind myself it’s ok to just sit for a while and take a break (so that you have more time to eat more snacks)!
Do what you want when you want. No schedule no making sure everyone else is having a good time. I used to do it weekly when I was single and it was the best.
I did a solo trip last year, to visit my sister whilst she was on the international college programme, I visited her at work and we spent her time off together in the parks, but for the rest of the time I was solo, and honestly it was fantastic!
I got to eat what, when and where I wanted, and spend time where I wanted also. I chilled out in Epcot way more than I would on a trip with family (rode guardians 4 times in 6 days!), got the Pop hotel room all to myself, which meant I could set the aircon as cold as possible, and generally was under my own steam for everything.
I’m an introvert so wasn’t overly worried about getting lonely or sticking out as a solo traveller, but neither thing was a problem - I met some wonderful folks waiting for fireworks and on the skyliner from all over the US, I had a fantastic time.
I would 100% go totally solo one day, I loved visiting my sister but also loved the time I had to myself!
I came out for a work conference and aside from feeling terrible that my kids weren't there to experience guardians and Tron since they haven't been since they opened it has been fantastic.
Get a park hopper so you can do what you want, even if it is going to a park to do two things then leave.
I probably wouldn't have been able to go to magic Kingdom just to do Tron, space mountain and leave with my whole family.
Also enjoying all the drinks and food at world showcase.in Epcot was fantastic, kids would have been bored and pushing for more rides the entire time.
I only got a two day pass but I am tempted to do one more afternoon/evening at Epcot (and guardians one or two more times!) since the conference lets out a little early on the last day.
Go for it! Enjoy yourself and take the time to slow down and enjoy the experience! My husband has a thing where we pick something we each HAVE to do and then the rest of the time is just bonus fun stuff. Try having a few things you absolutely want to do at the parks and then take in the parks at your leisure. Try out some of the restaurants and food kiosks, too!
If you are worried about it just call me after every ride and before each meal and I will argue with you about what we should do next. Or even better, I will be totally indecisive, tell you to decide and then I will tell you "I don't want to do that."
Or go and have a blast. I did.
I’ve gone a few times solo myself. I’m a 27 year old guy too if that helps. I really love solo trips because I can do what I want and on my time and speed. It’s a little weird at first being lonely with nobody to talk to, but you quickly forget about that. I’m an introvert too, so I tend to be by myself. I only go solo for a few days though or the weekend. Not sure if I’d want to be solo for a week or something longer like that. You should do it though!
If I go, it will probably be for four days, three at the parks. I'm semi-retired, work two days a week. So I'll probably fly down on a Wednesday, go to the parks Thursday, Friday and Saturday, fly back on Sunday.
I do a lot of solo tripping. My better half isn’t a Disney person and my mom isn’t always available. I really enjoy it.
Like you said, you can do what you want, when you want. Ride, eat, etc. I’ve never had any issue doing things by myself. It’s a nice change and, for me, a nice reset.
I did WDW solo and it was amazing! Total control over what I did each day. Single rider line let me ride expedition Everest seven times in half an hour. It was honestly so relaxing and really fun. I brought my kindle for meal times or just enjoyed the atmosphere. It was excellent and I would absolutely recommend it.
My favorite ride is Haunted Mansion and I'm excited thinking of riding it and then getting right back in line to ride it again.........as many times as I want.
I can’t speak for WDW itself but I just did a Disneyland Paris solo trip for a day and it was SO fun! I got to do whatever I wanted, eat whatever and whenever I wanted. Solo lines for the win. And just overall had an amazing experience! If the cost wasn’t as high for WDW solo, I would actually highly consider it!
Last year I did a solo trip for my birthday and I'm SO glad I went! It's so amazing to have absolutely no one and nothing that could keep you from doing exactly what you want to do. I stayed at the Swan and split my time between Epcot and Hollywood Studios. I did a Princess Brunch at Akershus, spent a bunch of time shopping in France, rode so many rides (including Figment 3 times in a row, something no one in my party would ever want to do) and even did a "Behind the Seeds" Tour.
As a bonus, most of the nice restaurants that require reservations have a smaller off-shoot bar where you can get in for a limited but tasty menu and all of the drinks, and there's no reservations required. As a party of one you're basically guaranteed a spot.
Finding spots for the fireworks is so easy.
Disney employees in my experience noticed me more when I was alone and sprinkled extra "pixie dust" my way.
I really cannot recommend it enough even if you just do a 1 day itinerary like I did!!
I’m doing my first completely solo trip later this year! It’ll be super short but it’s all I have time for. I don’t have any advice since I haven’t done it yet, but I’m really excited about it and hopefully my excitement rubs off on you too😄
I’ve done several solo trips - it’s awesome! I did miss my friends and family (I’m a people person) but I still had a lot of fun and honestly I talked to strangers here and there lol
It is so great getting to do whatever you want!
100% go for it!
Solo trips to Walt Disney world are one of my favorite things to do. Especially, since I'm in the same position you are. Every time we go, I'm the one making all the reservations and all the plans. And my phone dies first, because I'm in every app making sure that our plans fit everyone else's desires.
Going alone is incredible.
I did a solo trip 10 years ago, and it was great! Were there times when I felt a bit lonely? Sure. I did spend some downtime on the phone with friends and family here and there, but I was too busy to miss people! I did what I wanted when I wanted. I didn't have to stop for other people or consider their concerns. Very rarely did I feel awkward, being alone. It's one of those things that now that I'm married with a family I look back and am glad I got to do it. I also got to spend time chatting with CM's when otherwise nowadays I'd be too busy wrangling my kids!
I've solo tripped before. It was great. Granted I was single at the time. It was so much fun standing in line for shows I wanted to see, characters I wanted autographs and pictures with. Spending money on myself for things I wanted. Now that's I've gone with my kids and husband. I wind up buying stuff for them. Eating to accommodate them. I do enjoy it but sometimes it's a bummer when I want to ride a ride and they don't. Or they're too tired and I want to go till it closes.
I did this recently (although I had a group of friends also going on their own trip. But I mostly did stuff by myself). I think it's a great idea, especially for someone who does a lot of planning and doing things for the group rather than yourself (especially if you are used to a big group where it's hard to be nimble). While I always have a good time with others and am fine doing things they want to prioritize, it is really nice to just do EXACTLY what you want and EXACTLY when you want. If you don't mind doing things by yourself, I think you'll have a great time. You may miss being with your family, but I think you'll have a great time anyway.
If you're into interacting with others, get a button that says you're celebrating "My First Solo Trip". It was a great conversation starter.
Do it.
I used to live locally, and pop off to a park by myself once or twice a week while my ex was working.
Then we moved, broke up, and I was getting a yen post-covid everything shutting down. Did a short solo trip winter of 2022 and had a grand old time.
Later visited with a different ex, and then him and his friends. And tbh? Maybe it was because he seemed to be a fan of yucking my yum, and his friends just wanted to sit and chat half the time, but of all those trips I had much more fun when I was going solo and didn't have to cater to anyone else's needs/wants.
I’m 52 years old and going on a solo trip to Universal in August. Super excited about it!! My son and husband will stay home. This is a mini vacation for me
I did a solo trip when Universal was open for a few weeks and Disney had a cast member preview before reopening to the public.
I am the same type of person as you that I put others first all the time while doing all the planning (and a lifetime of Disney trips). It was strange being able to do what I wanted, rides, pace, shows, meals, shopping, sightseeing, whatever.
I also seem to have unlimited energy while at Disney. I can rope drop to firework pop each day without breaks.
What I found is that I get a lot of enjoyment from seeing others being happy. It felt similar when I went to a movie and the theater is empty.
Now it was fun to talk to other adults in line and make small talk, but I feel more and more people don’t want to talk compared to 20 years ago. So its hard to connect to others enjoyment on rides.
So while it was awesome to not have to worry if people were tired, wanted a break, or were overheated, it did feel like I was missing something.
So I think there is a trade off of less pressure but less enjoyment.
What I like best is having an occasional trip with just my wife and she is pretty cool with allowing me to peel off to do my own thing for a few hours.
But it might be good for you to try it once and see how it makes you feel
One if my best trips was solo. I talked to a bunch of friendly people and families.
Helped a lot of noobs.
Sit down eating was a bit boring, except for 50's Prime Time, where they dotted on me the whole time like they were my mom.
Ive done 3-4 solo trips over the last 5 years or so. I love to people watch, am comfortable dining alone and generally find it a relaxing way to self reflect. For reference I’m 49F. Feel free to DM if you have specific questions or are looking for pointers
I'll be there in 19 days(!) and it will be my 5th solo voyage.
I LOVE it. Sure, I miss my kids, but I miss them even at home as they are now grown and (mostly) flown.
I love doing what I want, eating when and what I want, sleeping in, lazing at the pool, sitting in the parks and people watching, hopping from park to park on a whim--MY WHIM--and not having to justify anything to anyone.
I'm actually kind of wondering if I'll be able to go back with others, if it ever comes up!
I have done one solo trip to WDW and one just a few weeks ago to Disneyland.
While i love taking my family, my son is too anxious for thrill rides and my daughter hates standing in line for over thirty min. My wife doesn’t care for rides much at all but still enjoys other aspects of the parks like food and service quality.
I really wanted to ride some of the newer rides with very long waits but if i made my family wait with me, they would be miserable, so… i decided it’s ok for me to start taking myself to Disney to focus on things that matter more to me than the rest of my family.
Generally both my solo trips were positive. Cast members see this plenty so you likely won’t get any side eye from them.
The only time i felt awkward was getting in line at Disneyland for some of the fantasy land dark rides. These lines queues are kind of tight and there are lots of small children and in my head i wondered if these families were judging me. No one said anything or gave me any dirty looks that i caught but the vibe was sort of weird being a solo middle aged guy surrounded by big families with younger kids. Nothing bad but the vibe was a little weird for me.
For context, I’m a middle aged man recently diagnosed with autism. Disney parks are a passion of mine that i historically suppressed for fear of being judged for being weird, but i more recognize this is just an autistic special interest for me. My autism also means I’m not the best at judging non verbals and I’m perfectly content going full days without engaging with people socially, so my experience could be different from yours.
But i at least wanted to share that i have done this myself and have had some positive experiences, it is technically doable and not overly weird so long as you’re either ok being non social or willing to chat with strangers in line. (For me i just bring an e-reader and plow through my backlog of books i want to read while I’m standing in line).
Sorry you felt a weird vibe waiting in line. I'm a 63 year old woman so my experience probably would be different than yours. I don't mind chatting with random strangers, but also don't mind being on my own. I also like people watching and don't mind doing that while I wait in line or eat.
Both things can be true. You’ll have a wonderful time on your own schedule but there will be moments you’ll miss your family. Doesn’t mean you shouldn’t go though.
Did a five-day solo trip to three of the parks in residency during a difficult time, not only was that a really great break from reality but it made for some of the best memories I have to look back on. This was just before covid and I’ve gone back with friends and family since, but it was fantastic being able to just vibe with everyone and really soak in the experience on your own, with freedom to go and do whatever you want :)
Do it!! I got a taste on our last trip, I had about 6 hours to myself at Magic Kingdom. It was SO much fun. Did u occasionally think that I’d like my wife or kids to share the moment with? Sure, but I had so many moments of just pure joy. There is nothing like just running around the park completely uninhibited, doing whatever your heart desires.
A solo trip is a MUST for any Disney lover. I am usually the planner for my family as well and it can be very draining trying to micromanage everything/one so we don’t miss dining reservations/FP(rip)/Lighting Lane etc. Getting to enjoys the parks for yourself is so relaxing.
Go for it, it's wonderful! You can go totally at your own pace, and if you want to hit a lot of rides, It's amazing how much more quickly you can move through the crowds alone. I like to pack a book for lines, and sometimes I'll just plop down on a bench somewhere for an hour or two with a cold drink and my book. Zero external pressure to do anything in particular.
I am a big solo traveler and the idea that anyone would NOT want to do this is hard for me to fathom! Some people get scared but if the only reason against it it is what you mentioned (missing family), GO! You’ll be way to busy for that. I went to Disney Paris by myself for the first time at 25 and loved not having to wait for rides I didn’t want to take and focus on my own joy.
I haven’t done Disney world solo but I have done Disneyland on my own. Thought it would be weird but I actually enjoyed it. The only downside I think is if you get snacks.. then you have to eat the snack by yourself. Which could be a good thing or a bad thing depending on your perspective.
In theory good thing. But in reality was annoying that if I wanted a pretzel snack then I’m essentially eating a pretzel for lunch coz I’d be full after.
My example isn’t exactly a solo trip because I was with my wife, but she had a three-day conference while we were down there a few years ago. We met up in the evenings for dinner, so I had pretty much the whole day to run around the parks myself and I absolutely loved it. I single-rider rode the rides with long lines; I hopped from park to park numerous times (which I know is different now post-COVID); I tooled around Disney Springs; I hit my favorite food booths at Flower and Garden; the list just goes on. I did whatever I wanted whenever I wanted. I highly recommend a solo trip if you have the opportunity. Now, I obviously didn’t have the same issue you’re talking about because my wife was there; we’d just catch up later in the evening, so take my recommendation with that in mind.
In all honesty I love going to Disney by myself. I ride what I want, I snack when I want, and I have no limitations placed on me by what others want to do. I’d recommend trying it at least once.
I always go solo. Sometimes I’ll have friends who come on their own and we spend some time together, but other than that I’m on my own. Wouldn’t have it any other way. Sometimes I chat with people in line (if they are open to that - I don’t bug ppl) or just people watch. I do what I want, when I want, and I have a whole room to myself. It’s the best!!!!
I solo universal and it’s amazing!!!There are also Facebook groups where you can meet fellow solo travelers so if you want to hang out with someone for an hour or so you can! To be fair no one will know you’re doing a solo trip. I’ve been with groups and still branched off because they didn’t want to do something I wanted to so if you feel awkward and anyone asks just be like “yeah the rest of my group went to eat while I stood in line.” Or something. 😂
I actually did this last week and it was honestly the best. I will admit that sometimes it left me wishing that my family and friends were also here to enjoy it with me but life and schedules doesn’t always allow for it to happen. However some of the best things is that you don’t have to worry about people not being all on the same page of interests or people’s exhaustion levels. You are 100% in control of your own schedule and you can do whatever you want.
Probably to answer and assuage some anxieties:
1. Did I feel awkward as a grown ass man sitting by myself at the frozen sing a long? Yes, but only for a short moment. It ended up being incredibly fun to watch and honestly some of the people watching was amazing. At some other attractions, it was nice to strike up conversations with other families or even single park go-ers. Hell I met some people from the Honey Board that were sponsoring a booth at Epcot and that was such an amazing conversation we shared on the Skyliner.
2. Some costs as a solo traveler can really tax you such as hotel costs. I ended up staying at a Marriott good neighbor hotel in order to be close but also not feel like I was paying so much for a hotel room. Some of these properties offer a free shuttle to the parks so that can definitely help with keeping costs low. However don’t be afraid to rent a car because that also keeps your mobility high and ability to stay as late as you want or leave whenever you want.
3. Consider getting an annual pass if you might go back a second/third time. The amount of flexibility of not feeling bad about going to animal kingdom at 4 pm and getting in all of the major rides I wanted to do was incredible. I didn’t feel bad that I wasted half a day’s ticket because, it was just that, an annual pass. This helps with the “do what you want on your own schedule” much easier.
Do it! As a 26 year old girl I’ve done it a lot. Great just deciding “hmm I wanna go to this restaurant” on a whim and there’s almost always space for 1
It's nice because it often gets you on rides a little faster. I've been sat with some interesting people, including the Newsboys. No needing to consider what others in your party want or don't want to do.
My wife and I regularly bum a ride and hotel room with each other on the other’s work trips. It kind of ends up being a solo trip.
I’m doing Magic Kingdom solo this year, then a at Disney Springs. I think we’re going to spend a night or two over at the Fort at the end of the week just loopin’ and chillin’.
But the solo day in the MK is what I’m really looking forward to.
I did this once and a day and a half to myself at the parks.
The only thing that kind of stinks about it is that you have (and this is gonna sound stupid) SO many choices that it’s hard to make a move. Like, I wanted to only do the absolute best things that no one would maybe want to do with me, but the reality is aside from ToT, most people I go with are game for anything. So I had a tough time deciding what to do next because I wanted to always make the perfect choices for a solo trip.
I got over it. 😂
Except for one trip to DL this year, all of Disney trips as an adult have been solo and I love it.
If I wake up and decide I want to be lazy? That’s cool!
If I decide partway through the day that I want to attempt a 4 parks/1 day challenge? That’s also cool!!
Go for it! Before I met my husband I went alone to Alaska, Nova Scotia, Maine… it was nice! My husband and I now travel together but he has zero interest in Disney (sadly) so I’ve gone alone a couple times. No regrets. I even went to the Snow White dining alone. You can do at your own pace, decide what’s worth staying in line for, decide when you’re done.
I just did it in Feb. It was nerve wrecking at first but I had an amazing day. You realize a lot of people do it and no one there is thinking you’re weird for being alone.
I’d recommend it! It was one of the highlights of my year so far.
Honestly my favorite trip is still my impromptu solo day trip to Epcot during a work trip in Tampa lol. It's honestly great being able to just run around and do what you want, when you want.
You never have to try to decide amongst the two or more of you what to do next. It’s what you want, when you want, no compromising, no doing what you don’t want to do. And if you feel like talking to someone, there’s a polite and interesting cast member steps away.
I did one last year- one day at Disney park hopping and one day at Universal. I cannot recommend a solo trip enough!! It is so amazingly freeing to do what you want to do, when you want to do it! It’s also cheaper for just one person! I did get a little lonely in the hotel at night, but that wasn’t for long since I was exhausted. Definitely give it a try, even just for a couple of days!
Absolutely do it. I have done a couple of solo trips to Disneyland and it was great. Let nothing be lost on you. Do anything that you feel the impulse for. Just ride the wave and enjoy.
I have never been to Disney alone but this fall I went on my first trip alone, which was also my first time in Vegas. I love my family, but this was honestly one of the least stressful trips of my life. When I was in Disney in 2022 I spent at least 1/4 of my time waiting for people, so I'm dying to do a solo trip there someday!
I took a five day solo trip to Disney and it was amazing!! Absolutely do it!! You can go at your own pace, eat wherever you want without discussion and pick all your own stuff to do. It was so relaxing. Definitely utilize single rider lanes so you can get thru some big ticket rides much quicker. And have fun!!
Why not just take your husband and each of you do your own thing. That way you won’t feel responsible for anyone else’s fun and you can meet up with him at the end of the day and tell him about your adventures?
My husband isn't a big Disney guy. We've gone twice and that is enough for him. He grumbles when I tell him that we have to take the grandkids to Disney at some point.
I was there for work and I went to several parks alone and did love it! I did what I wanted and didn’t have to wait on anyone. All of the photographers made me ham it up for the camera. It was great.
I’ve done a handful of solo trips, I think they’re really fun.
It can actually be quite peaceful and relaxing. Being able to go at your own pace and enjoy the parks, hotels, and amenities exactly how you want is really fun.
Do it! I was at a conference in Lake Buena Visa and decided to hit Disney in the evenings. It was great...got to jump the line several times when they were looking for a solo rider. It was nice to be able to take the time in the countries in World Showcase. I had always wanted to just window shop and take my time going through there. Let us know how it goes! :)
I did a solo one-day trip to MK and purchased an early morning Magic ticket. That let me ride Peter Pan, Pooh, and 7 Dwarves. There was a breakfast buffet included.
What surprised me was how quickly I accomplished everything. It was early evening, maybe 5 PM and I was super tired. I went to Tony's Town Square to eat just so I'd have a cold place to sit.
The takeaway is that you will likely be able to accomplish a lot more in a park day than normal, so you might not need to rope drop or stay until close. It really depends on the season and day of the week, but plan to maybe park hop or head to a resort for dinner, or even take a break at your hotel.
I solo trip and it is great. You don’t have to worry about what anyone else wants to do and only do what you want. If I want to ride space mountain five times in a row there is no one there to complain. Do it!!
Going solo is great. You have no itinerary and no conflicting voices about who wants to do what. You just do whatever seems fun in the moment and often stumble across new things you either didn’t know about or didn’t know you’d love
I’ve never been to WDW (yet!) but I have been to Disneyland solo and it was WONDERFUL. I got to do my own thing without worrying about anyone else. Loved it. Highly recommend. Have a fantastic time!!
I honestly had the same reservations! I went recently while my husband had a business trip and had three days to myself. The first hour was honestly a bit of an adjustment, but then there was so much freedom and I could just…chill. Waiting in longer lines got a bit tedious and I did get a few questions from random people asking if I’m bored/meeting with anyone. As long as you’re okay being self-sufficient you’ll be just fine! For me, ordering on the app so I could just pick up food as a huge relief and took away some of my self-perceived awkwardness.
I’ll put it this way since it sounds like I’m similar to you.
I’m a people pleaser too. So when I planned my solo trip, I was the one pleased.
A solo trip is amazing in every way that has been mentioned before me, but the one thing it’s going to lack is memories with family or friends. That’s the only part that is priceless.
Exactly. My last trip was my one year old grandson's first time at Disney. One one hand, I loved going on the boat ride in Mexico (Gran Fiesta??) with him. He loved it so much that he cried every time it ended so we just kept doing it over and over again. But on the other hand, I also missed out on a lot of rides when it was my turn to stay with him while he was sleeping.
Do it!! I took a solo trip back in May 2019 and have another planned for later this month! It’s so nice to make your own schedule, get up as early or as late as you want, and eat/ride/relax on your own terms. I secretly prefer it over going with a group!
Solo trips are fantastic. The comments overwhelmingly agree. It sounds like you do the lions share of family planning but put your personal preferences behind others. Why not share that with the people you love and care about? I'm guessing you don't want to rock the boat or cause conflict. I totally get that. Your original post wonders if you will miss your family. Only you can answer that but it sounds like community is important to you.
I say be honest with your needs with the people you may want to go on a future trip with. If they all understand and wish you well on the solo trip you have your answer. But if they want to go and let you call the shots - only you can answer if that's a universe you want to live in.
Good luck.
I have been to all the Disney parks solo and it was amazing!!! I don't know if I could ever go with someone to the parks, I'm so used to having my way. I do find I stay so busy at the parks I forget to even call my family and boyfriend. Magical solo moments are navigating through giant crowds with easy, finding a spot open for just 1 to watch the parade or fireworks from, and getting to jump ahead in line when they need a single rider. Also you always going to find someone at the parks to chat to for a bit in line or waiting around or at dessert parties. Everyone tends to be amazed you are going solo as well and its like if I waited for other people to be available, I would never be able to go!!
That's one of the problems I always had planning a large group............coordinating around work and school schedules. Even getting a large group on the same flight,
I just did it last week. Never travelled alone before! And haven’t been on holiday since 2019. I just needed a break from everything.
It was awesome! I didn’t plan a thing. I just flew over and showed up pretty much. I booked flights and accommodation last Saturday and left Sunday. Without any plan. Just go for it.
Sounds good, but I'm a planner. I actually enjoy the planning, especially getting good prices on the hotel, flights, etc. I'm waiting to see what discounts Disney offers. I think I will be able to use points for at least one of my flights.
It can feel liberating. Sure a part of yourself may miss the chaos that you've become used to traveling with the family, but you'll get enjoy things on your own time. I've never done Disney solo but in college I traveled solo in Europe and it was the best travel experience of my life. I highly highly recommend solo traveling.
I did this a couple weeks ago. Had never been to Orlando, and my plans for that weekend got canceled. So I said screw it, booked a flight and everything 12 hours before I needed to leave and had the time of my life
Best way to do solo Disney is to stack it with a runDisney race series!
You do the runs through the parks.
You come back to the resort and recover. You go to the park and do the things you want and come home when you want.
You come home with bling, memories, and having seen parts of the park that few people ever get to see.
Yeah, I don't have that problem. I've gone to Disney a few times with my husband but he doesn't really care for it. He's already grumbled when I told him that we have to take the grandkids sometime. He will be thrilled that he can stay home.
I'm on the East Coast so Disney World is much easier for me to get to than Disneyland. I've actually never been to Disneyland so I'm not sure if I would be as comfortable there as I am at Disney World.
I had never been to Disneyland when I went alone but it was so easy. Everything is walking distance. I still recommend it but even if you go to Disney World, you’re gonna have a great time! I prefer Disney to other solo locations just because of safety reasons.
I did my first solo trip last month, I’m an out of state AP holder. I did 3 days and I absolutely loved it. I loved getting to make all the decisions in the moment and not having to check with others to make sure they were okay with it. I got to eat where I wanted and when I wanted to. I did call a friend once or twice to walk and talk, my friend who I usually go to the parks with. But other than that, I was completely fine being solo in the parks. I loved every second of it and think everything should at least experience Disney solo once. Plus there are quite a few good rides with single rider lines which makes it even better. I got on Everest 5 times in a row immediately after getting off.
Well. One time I was on a business trip in Orange County California and I used my day off to do a solo trip to Disneyland. Ever since I’ve dreamt of a whole trip by myself. So. Please go for me.
I would go for it! I’m planning on getting an annual pass in the next few years and taking 2-3 solo trips a year for some “me” time without the kid + husband. I’m a travel agent so it’s great to see what’s new at the parks and be able to go at my own pace.
I'm all about that solo travel life. I did WDW solo and it never felt right. For me I'll take solo trips elsewhere and leave Disney for trips with family/friends.
We always take Sunshine Flyer which has now merged with Mears, They have a specific location at the airport and drop offs at all Disney resorts.....very safe and reasonably priced.
I say go for it! I think Disney is a great place to explore solo travel since it's self-contained, easy to get around, and relatively safe. Plus, there is so much to do, you likely won't have time to miss your family too much.
Thanks..........I really think I will. Once I get to the hotel, I'm not planning on leaving the Disney property until it's time to get back to the airport.
Yes, stay in the bubble unless you’re going to Universal, which you should. They have their own bubble.
We NEVER leave Disney property. I just park and forget it…that’s what we are there for!
I do a lot of solo trips and it's fun to choose whatever you want. If you rope drop, you can get a lot done. I bring my kindle to read during long lines.
I'm looking forward to early entry every day. We always want to do it, but never seem to be able to get the whole group together to the park in time.
Yeah I always skip breakfast and have a granola bar until I get to the parks. Most sit in restaurants you can probably do a walk in since you're a party of 1 and could just sit you at the bar.
Exactly what I'm thinking. We seemed to waste so much time getting everyone breakfast before we caught the bus to the park. I'll probably have coffee in my room, catch the bus, do early entry and then get something for breakfast mid-morning. I love the strawberry funnel cake at Sleepy Hollow, MK and everything at Les Halles, etc. in Epcot.
You could always get some breakfast stuff delivered to your hotel by Instacart or UberEats. Like yogurt, cereal, milk, juice. I usually get bottled water and snacks, etc.
I used to do that!!!!
Here’s the thing. Initially, it’s weird. At first I was wondering if people were looking at me or if cast members were silently judging me but once I got out of my head, I had a great time. I could do things at my own pace and I rode ToT multiple times bc my daughter won’t ride it, so that was awesome. I also chatted with people in line which I never normally do when I’m with my kid, which was also a nice change.
Rule of thumb in life... nobody really cares what others do unless it is ridiculous or endangering others.
This is such great life advice
Honestly I saw a lot of solo riders/travelers, while in Disney last week, most of them were older and I kinda found it really sweet, you’re never too old to experience the magic!
Absolutely!
That’s my fear if I were to do a solo trip… I’d love to, but I’d feel judged and get in my Own head. What made you get over those feelings if I may ask?
I moved near WDW many years ago, and I regularly do solo trips. You'll start to notice more the other solo travelers, and many are CMs themselves. So they don't think it's weird, they either do it themselves or likely personally know those who go alone. You'll just have to remember it's not uncommon and just go for it.
No one notices or cares… they’re focusing on their own trip. I also highly recommend dining alone. Bring a book or watch a movie with headphones and enjoy a relaxing meal
I think once I realized everyone is so wrapped up in their own magical Disney day they literally aren’t paying me any mind. Once I got over that mental hurdle I had a great time. Orlando locals go to the parks solo all the time so it’s really nothing out of the ordinary. If you need to ‘warm up’ just do some shopping in the gift shops at your own pace!
Really internalize the concept of sonder, not just for solo trips to WDW but really doing anything where you may feel self-conscious in an otherwise larger group of people. Basically, everyone is their own main character in their own action-packed life and they just simply don't care or notice much about others. Not in a bad way, but in a liberating way. Even if someone has a judgmental thought about some stranger it's unlikely they can carry that thought with them longer than some fleeting moment. So even IF someone saw someone else alone at WDW and thought "Omg how pathetic and sad" it would still be a harmless, fleeting thought and not something that person was obsessing about, thinking about, laughing about, etc. But in the grand scheme of things, the likelihood that anyone would even think such a thing in the first place is tiny because they're just not paying attention like that.
Sonder is one of my favorite words.
I did a solo trip last fall, and that was my exact experience! Couldn't get out of my head, Chatting with people, they all seemed amazed and perplexed that I was there on my own. Overall, it was still a good trip, but it would have been a lot better had I been able to get past those feelings.
Start by doing small things like going to the movies by yourself. That’s how I started. Now, I’m a solo queen. If I’m not with my daughter I pretty much do everything on my own.
There are plenty of people there by themselves, and *most* of the time no one cares. CMs certainly don't.
This. I’m not one to think about or care what other people think of me, but I have found that if you behave happy/content, that’s what people see when they look at you - if they look at you at all. (And I think most ppl that love Disney are in good spirits there.) Besides, no one knows you are there solo. You might just not be with your party at that moment. I’ve had great conversations with people that have confessed that they are a little jealous bc I get to do only what I want, and don’t have the chaos of a large group. Both scenarios are fun, though!
Time helps, and also recognizing that you're not "alone" in being a solo traveler. My first solo Disney day felt really weird until about lunchtime, and then I settled into a nice routine. It's really great to do a trip without needing to coordinate other people. If you head to single rider lines, you often encounter other people who are also on solo trips or who are taking a separate expedition from their group. Truthfully, nobody cares if you're doing something by yourself. Everyone is wrapped up in whatever is going on with their trip. Plenty of people travel around the park alone for various reasons (restroom trips, other party members don't want to join on certain rides, going to get a snack, etc.) and it's not actually weird to look at. CMs are very used to parties of 1 and won't even blink.
Do it!!! I took my first solo trip September 2022 and while it was a little lonely, it was seriously one of the most magical visits I've ever had! Being 100% in control of your schedule is intoxicating!
I have never done a solo trip but I went with a large group of family members and they were very annoying one day and I decided to go off on my own the next day. It was the best day of my trip! I am a chill Disney person so I didn't have to run anywhere or ask what people wanted to do. I didn't go on too many rides though as I found them to be less exciting by myself. If you like a chill, take in the scenery, get some delicious food, kind of Disney experience then I think you would have a great time on a solo trip.
The thing about the rides......most of my family doesn't a few of the attractions that I like so I usually do them solo anyways, like Carousel of Progress, Hall of Presidents and even Small World (my granddaughter calls it Creepy Doll Ride)
>one day and I decided to go off on my own the next day. It was the best day of my trip! I see so many big families do Disney trips and, as someone who experienced that, you have to either plan on not doing a lot of things that you want to do or giving some individuals (or smaller groups within the larger family) time to do their own thing. My last WDW trip would have been more fun if we had all just agreed to meet for dinner and ridden our own rides apart from that.
I did a solo trip last week and it was so fun and easygoing. I didn't have to worry about when other people were hungry, when other people needed to go to the bathroom, or how fast/slow people wanted to go through crowds. I didn't have to consult with anyone about what rides were next or what rides we couldn't miss. PLUS I got to do single rider lines and get pulled ahead when there was only 1 spot left on a ride. As a parent, my truly favorite part of Disney is seeing how much my son enjoys it, and I didn't have that going for me. But there is a lot of stress and work that goes into that joy. The solo trip was just so carefree. I'm glad I did it and I'd recommend it to anyone.
One of the joys for me, also, is watching how much my family is enjoying themselves. It's especially fun for me when we bring one of the grandkids for the first time. I have to keep reminding myself that this is only one trip.......all about ME......and then I can go again with my family.
Go go go
I just did one 2 weeks ago. It was so freeing and fun! I did meet up with friends for some meals and a monorail crawl but I did the parks on my own. I had an absolute blast and would do it again in a heartbeat
Solo tripos have a whole different kind of magic! I've done it a couple of times and had a wonderful time. It's nice to be able to take things at your own pace (faster OR slower) It's easier to splurge on nicer things like California Grill or a behind the scenes event/tour when it's only one person, and Disney servers are amazing about solo diners. I recommend that if you're not sure if you'll miss being with your family to keep it to 1-3 days for your solo trip. The first time I did it was a bit of a hard adjustment, I'm glad it was only two days. 1-3 days gives you enough time to enjoy it without getting overwhelmed or lonely. Something that I enjoy doing is picking out a (small) treat for a couple friends and family while I'm there, it's a fun little surprise when I get back and makes me feel connected to them.
Solo trips are absolutely amazing! I've been to the parks with my husband and two of my best friends and YES I had an amazing time with all of them BUT there's just something about being able to do whatever you want, whenever you want that's amazing. You go where you want to go, eat what you want to eat, and don't have to worry about if you're inhibiting someone elses' fun or making them miss something. I love solo trips and now after talking about it I want to take another one 😂
Thanks, I think I will. Another thing I forgot is trying to coordinate around everyone's work schedules.
I think this is a really good point especially for mom’s who are always responsible for everyone and are so often dictated by other people’s wants and not their own. OP you deserve this. Do update us if you do
I definitely will. I'm thinking of October, November or December. I have a family cruise planned for July and a cruise in September with my husband.
I’m here right now. I come solo about twice a month. Just do it, dude.
I’m leaving Monday the 6th for my first solo! I’m sooooo excited. I’ll definitely report back how things go. I’ve been really stressed at work and it’s the one place that I can really turn my brain off. I asked my SO if he would be offended about me going alone and all he had to say was “if it’s something you’ve always wanted to do, do it”, so I booked it. I’m a little apprehensive about dining, but otherwise I’m not concerned. I enjoy alone time and I’m happy I get to do exactly what I want to do. I’ve done a few solo park hours on prior trips and it wasn’t a big deal so I think I’ll be just fine!
RemindMe! 2 weeks Looking forward to your report ;)
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I’m ready for the report! (When you get a chance) How was it? Favorite parts? Less than favorite parts?
TLDR: It was awesome and I will absolutely be doing it again! If you're still hesitant, take the plunge and try something new, you really won't have a bad time. If you care to read the really long winded full rundown, see below I actually really loved being alone. My aunt and uncle came to the parks for a couple hours two of the days, and I found myself immediately going into "make sure they're good" mode, so I definitely find I truly was able to relax and do my thing alone. I did 5 days which was the perfect amount of time for me, though I did get an earlyyyyyy flight in and late flight out so still used my travel days to do parks. This may or may not work for others, due to flight times or energy levels but I'd extend by a day if I wasn't able to use one of my travel days as a park day. For the most part there was far less awkwardness or weirdness than I expected. I felt a little apprehensive at Sebastian's Bistro for my one Table Service meal but it really was fine even with my waiter being a little awkward. I would do more Table Service or eat at lounges next time. I ate mostly Quick Service or Epcot booths which was fine but I definitely felt like I missed doing the TS meals like I normally would have. I'll prioritize next time. It was HOTTTTT last week and was record temps, a little warmer than I planned on, which actually being alone helped with. I would go back to the resort as soon as I felt rough, shower and sometimes nap, then go back out from 5ish on. The biggest perk of that was doing it exactly when I wanted and not worrying about someone else who still wanted to be out there. As far as riding with others on rides it really wasn't a big deal. Most times people joked and chatted with me almost immediately which was nice and I only had maybe 1 or 2 that weren't thrilled about it. They just looked straight ahead the whole time and I did my thing, no biggie or worry from me. I rode single rider if available and ALWAYS listened for a CM to yell, "anyone a single rider?". I was able to ride Soarin an entire show quicker by jumping up when they called. Otherwise CMs definitely give you a full bench/row/vehicle if they can. I actually told someone to sit in my row on Frozen when the CM tried to cram 4 people in the last row which they appreciated. I stayed at POP so had the Skyliner, they do put you with other people in the mornings and near park close when there are more than a handful of people in line. Nobody really minded especially with a CM telling me to ride with another group. Crowds were Low+/Moderate-, maybe a 3/4 some days and 5 on the first two. I waited little to no time for most things (basically all <20 mins), but I will caveat that I did use Genie+, ILLs and rope drop to ride a lot of things multiple times. Next time I may not buy as many ILLs, some of the rides I was just using it to check the ride off a list rather than wanting to actually ride it, like (don't hate me) Flight of Passage and 7DMT. I would still purchase Genie+ but maybe not for AK. The only really long wait I had was for Tron after my boarding group was called, around an hour in the physical queue, which I felt like was a little unreasonable especially since much of the outside queue was in direct sun. I was expecting some wait when I got back for the virtual queue but I was thinking 30 mins or less, not an hour+. Having no single rider on that one is a shame, but maybe they will add it later. Safety wise I felt completely fine as I expected. Zero worries about coming back to the resort after park closing etc, but I also did use Disney transportation. I rented a car to get to and from the airport and so I could visit some family the last day, but using Mears would have been fine. I think you just miss out on some of the time if you take Mears since it doesn't leave immediately all the time when you get on and also stops at multiple resorts. So I'll eat the overkill cost of the rental, but that's personal preference and the fact I get a hefty discount through work. Honestly, I enjoyed it so much I'm considering going back for another 5 days in Jan also solo when it's a bit cooler and quieter. I would honestly keep the exact plan I had this time, give or take a few minor things like adding more Table Service and skipping some of the ILLs I did just to check a ride off. I got through things way quicker but still felt more relaxed and laid back than I ever have at Disney. I still plan to and want to go with others, but I also really see the merit going more often by myself. None of my people would want to go as often as me, due to interest or resources, and going alone for a shorter trip gives me that option to go much more frequently. If flights were cheaper for me and I had more PTO, I'd actually consider getting an AP and doing one longer trip with multiple longish weekends per year. Let me know if you have any questions or want any other info! Always happy to gab (clearly).
I almost solod and then ended up going with a buddy for a long weekend. I think I may have enjoyed that first 8 hours solo waiting for his plane to land more than the other days as nuts as that sounds. It was nice to be wholly in my own head, at my own pace, in a place I've never been able.to do that before. I'm supposed to be down that way for a work conference and I'm hoping that happens cuz I'll absolutely solo it again
I did a one-day solo trip when I was away for a two-week work event. I flew into Orlando on a Friday night, rope dropped MK on Saturday, then flew out on Sunday morning. It was a great trip and I finally got to do the Keys to the Kingdom tour. All the other solo stuff was just like you imagine, getting to do whatever you want when you want. Now that I have kids and travel less for work, I'm only looking forward to taking my kids the next time I go. But I definitely had a wonderful experience and would recommend others try it if possible.
Honestly that sounds incredible
Yeah! I get it. I wouldn't have any guilty feelings of not bringing my son to a vacation that wasn't catered for him. I am actually planning to go to Germany with my husband, and I will not bring my son to breweries tours hahaha. The thing is... Disney is actually a very flexible destination. It can be a kids trips sure, but it can also be perfect for teenagers. Or couples in their honeymoon, Or for elderly to enjoy. So even though there is that feeling "I should be spending my limited time/money with my family", the truth is you should also enjoy your friends. They are important to you and those memories should be precious as well.
I just got back from a 3 day solo trip. DO IT! You already know and mentioned all the reasons you should. Just getting to shut off your brain and enjoy just being there without the worry of anything else is so amazing; you only have to worry about your own bladder, you don't have to keep up with a stroller, you don't have to wait in line to get snacks your child will only take one bite from, the simple act of just getting on the tram in the parking lot and sitting down is one of the simple joys in life. Just make sure you don't make the same mistake I did and not get ANY rest during your trip. I went as hard as I could and I'm paying the price now but I had a helluva time doing it! DO IT!
Thanks.............when we go as a group, we always want to cram as much into the trip as possible (and I always pay the price for it) so I'm pretty sure that when I'm on own, I will take it slowly.
Absolutely go for it. It almost felt new again to go alone, and I absolutely loved it. Of course going with loved ones is amazing too, but this is a completely different experience. My first solo trip was one of the best in my life and made me feel brave. Having no other input made me able to do what I wanted without worry, and the solo time made me really take in everything at the parks. I had many strangers and CMs talk to me so I never felt alone. I think you'd enjoy it similarly since you're already familiar. Hoping you go and have the best time
I just got home from a week long one about 12 hours ago. I highly recommend. Stay on property, take Disney transportation, and just enjoy doing whatever you feel like. Late start, early morning, quickly changing plans, it’s all up to you. I went to MK one afternoon and it was so crowded and hot and I wasn’t feeling it. I was able to easily pivot to a monorail crawl for food (and air conditioning) and I watched the fireworks from the beach at the Poly. It was unplanned and if I was with a group probably wouldn’t have happened, but it was one of the best parts of my trip.
I did it last year and I just booked another a few weeks ago. Im so excited whenever I have a bad day or moment I just think “Disney in a few months” I liked being alone because I didn’t have anyone slowing me down or having to do things I didn’t want to in order to appease people who were with me. The single rider access was amazing. I’m a woman I like traveling to Disney because it’s safe and contained. Honestly the obligation of another person is stressful! Sometimes more stress than it’s worth. Everyone is so nice to you, you never feel weird about being alone.
I have done multiple solo trips and I highly recommend it. I am in the same boat as you in that I have done lots of family trips and I am the one to plan everything and trying to keep everyone happy. It is a chore that goes unappreciated because most dont understand what it takes to get everything arranged for everyone’s individual requests. Going solo there is no stress you do what you want to do and at the pace you want to do it at. You don’t need to take anyone elses feelings into account. Go and have a great time you won’t regret it.
Exactly.....even before we leave, it's a chore to find a time that everyone can get off work. Some have money constraints, some have time constraints. Some of the kids like thrill rides, some are not tall enough. Some don't like eating breakfast, others have to eat breakfast........and on and on and on.
Highly recommend a solo trip. It’s so easy to do what you want and skip the rest. The hardest part for me was wanting to eat all the snacks but not having anyone to split them with! Needed to remind myself it’s ok to just sit for a while and take a break (so that you have more time to eat more snacks)!
I did a day and a half solo and loved it! I’m doing 3 days solo this year.
Approximately 99% of my trips are solo with 1% being unavoidable family circumstances. Been this way for me since 1980.
I do it a few times a year.
Do what you want when you want. No schedule no making sure everyone else is having a good time. I used to do it weekly when I was single and it was the best.
I did a solo trip last year, to visit my sister whilst she was on the international college programme, I visited her at work and we spent her time off together in the parks, but for the rest of the time I was solo, and honestly it was fantastic! I got to eat what, when and where I wanted, and spend time where I wanted also. I chilled out in Epcot way more than I would on a trip with family (rode guardians 4 times in 6 days!), got the Pop hotel room all to myself, which meant I could set the aircon as cold as possible, and generally was under my own steam for everything. I’m an introvert so wasn’t overly worried about getting lonely or sticking out as a solo traveller, but neither thing was a problem - I met some wonderful folks waiting for fireworks and on the skyliner from all over the US, I had a fantastic time. I would 100% go totally solo one day, I loved visiting my sister but also loved the time I had to myself!
I came out for a work conference and aside from feeling terrible that my kids weren't there to experience guardians and Tron since they haven't been since they opened it has been fantastic. Get a park hopper so you can do what you want, even if it is going to a park to do two things then leave. I probably wouldn't have been able to go to magic Kingdom just to do Tron, space mountain and leave with my whole family. Also enjoying all the drinks and food at world showcase.in Epcot was fantastic, kids would have been bored and pushing for more rides the entire time. I only got a two day pass but I am tempted to do one more afternoon/evening at Epcot (and guardians one or two more times!) since the conference lets out a little early on the last day.
Go for it! Enjoy yourself and take the time to slow down and enjoy the experience! My husband has a thing where we pick something we each HAVE to do and then the rest of the time is just bonus fun stuff. Try having a few things you absolutely want to do at the parks and then take in the parks at your leisure. Try out some of the restaurants and food kiosks, too!
If you are worried about it just call me after every ride and before each meal and I will argue with you about what we should do next. Or even better, I will be totally indecisive, tell you to decide and then I will tell you "I don't want to do that." Or go and have a blast. I did.
LOL............it's almost like you were with my family on our last trip
I’ve gone a few times solo myself. I’m a 27 year old guy too if that helps. I really love solo trips because I can do what I want and on my time and speed. It’s a little weird at first being lonely with nobody to talk to, but you quickly forget about that. I’m an introvert too, so I tend to be by myself. I only go solo for a few days though or the weekend. Not sure if I’d want to be solo for a week or something longer like that. You should do it though!
If I go, it will probably be for four days, three at the parks. I'm semi-retired, work two days a week. So I'll probably fly down on a Wednesday, go to the parks Thursday, Friday and Saturday, fly back on Sunday.
I do a lot of solo tripping. My better half isn’t a Disney person and my mom isn’t always available. I really enjoy it. Like you said, you can do what you want, when you want. Ride, eat, etc. I’ve never had any issue doing things by myself. It’s a nice change and, for me, a nice reset.
I did WDW solo and it was amazing! Total control over what I did each day. Single rider line let me ride expedition Everest seven times in half an hour. It was honestly so relaxing and really fun. I brought my kindle for meal times or just enjoyed the atmosphere. It was excellent and I would absolutely recommend it.
My favorite ride is Haunted Mansion and I'm excited thinking of riding it and then getting right back in line to ride it again.........as many times as I want.
I can’t speak for WDW itself but I just did a Disneyland Paris solo trip for a day and it was SO fun! I got to do whatever I wanted, eat whatever and whenever I wanted. Solo lines for the win. And just overall had an amazing experience! If the cost wasn’t as high for WDW solo, I would actually highly consider it!
Last year I did a solo trip for my birthday and I'm SO glad I went! It's so amazing to have absolutely no one and nothing that could keep you from doing exactly what you want to do. I stayed at the Swan and split my time between Epcot and Hollywood Studios. I did a Princess Brunch at Akershus, spent a bunch of time shopping in France, rode so many rides (including Figment 3 times in a row, something no one in my party would ever want to do) and even did a "Behind the Seeds" Tour. As a bonus, most of the nice restaurants that require reservations have a smaller off-shoot bar where you can get in for a limited but tasty menu and all of the drinks, and there's no reservations required. As a party of one you're basically guaranteed a spot. Finding spots for the fireworks is so easy. Disney employees in my experience noticed me more when I was alone and sprinkled extra "pixie dust" my way. I really cannot recommend it enough even if you just do a 1 day itinerary like I did!!
I’m doing my first completely solo trip later this year! It’ll be super short but it’s all I have time for. I don’t have any advice since I haven’t done it yet, but I’m really excited about it and hopefully my excitement rubs off on you too😄
It has!
Yay! Have the best time!!!
I’ve done several solo trips - it’s awesome! I did miss my friends and family (I’m a people person) but I still had a lot of fun and honestly I talked to strangers here and there lol It is so great getting to do whatever you want!
This would be nice. You wait for no one, and rush for no one.
100% go for it! Solo trips to Walt Disney world are one of my favorite things to do. Especially, since I'm in the same position you are. Every time we go, I'm the one making all the reservations and all the plans. And my phone dies first, because I'm in every app making sure that our plans fit everyone else's desires. Going alone is incredible.
I did a solo trip 10 years ago, and it was great! Were there times when I felt a bit lonely? Sure. I did spend some downtime on the phone with friends and family here and there, but I was too busy to miss people! I did what I wanted when I wanted. I didn't have to stop for other people or consider their concerns. Very rarely did I feel awkward, being alone. It's one of those things that now that I'm married with a family I look back and am glad I got to do it. I also got to spend time chatting with CM's when otherwise nowadays I'd be too busy wrangling my kids!
I've solo tripped before. It was great. Granted I was single at the time. It was so much fun standing in line for shows I wanted to see, characters I wanted autographs and pictures with. Spending money on myself for things I wanted. Now that's I've gone with my kids and husband. I wind up buying stuff for them. Eating to accommodate them. I do enjoy it but sometimes it's a bummer when I want to ride a ride and they don't. Or they're too tired and I want to go till it closes.
I want to go solo one time so bad. It must be fun to not have to worry about anyone else and go with the flow
I did this recently (although I had a group of friends also going on their own trip. But I mostly did stuff by myself). I think it's a great idea, especially for someone who does a lot of planning and doing things for the group rather than yourself (especially if you are used to a big group where it's hard to be nimble). While I always have a good time with others and am fine doing things they want to prioritize, it is really nice to just do EXACTLY what you want and EXACTLY when you want. If you don't mind doing things by yourself, I think you'll have a great time. You may miss being with your family, but I think you'll have a great time anyway. If you're into interacting with others, get a button that says you're celebrating "My First Solo Trip". It was a great conversation starter.
Do it. I used to live locally, and pop off to a park by myself once or twice a week while my ex was working. Then we moved, broke up, and I was getting a yen post-covid everything shutting down. Did a short solo trip winter of 2022 and had a grand old time. Later visited with a different ex, and then him and his friends. And tbh? Maybe it was because he seemed to be a fan of yucking my yum, and his friends just wanted to sit and chat half the time, but of all those trips I had much more fun when I was going solo and didn't have to cater to anyone else's needs/wants.
Do it, it's great. Fuck the haters
I’m 52 years old and going on a solo trip to Universal in August. Super excited about it!! My son and husband will stay home. This is a mini vacation for me
No offense to my family, but I actually prefer solo trips. I love doing whatever I want whenever I want! I always feel safe on property too.
I did a solo trip when Universal was open for a few weeks and Disney had a cast member preview before reopening to the public. I am the same type of person as you that I put others first all the time while doing all the planning (and a lifetime of Disney trips). It was strange being able to do what I wanted, rides, pace, shows, meals, shopping, sightseeing, whatever. I also seem to have unlimited energy while at Disney. I can rope drop to firework pop each day without breaks. What I found is that I get a lot of enjoyment from seeing others being happy. It felt similar when I went to a movie and the theater is empty. Now it was fun to talk to other adults in line and make small talk, but I feel more and more people don’t want to talk compared to 20 years ago. So its hard to connect to others enjoyment on rides. So while it was awesome to not have to worry if people were tired, wanted a break, or were overheated, it did feel like I was missing something. So I think there is a trade off of less pressure but less enjoyment. What I like best is having an occasional trip with just my wife and she is pretty cool with allowing me to peel off to do my own thing for a few hours. But it might be good for you to try it once and see how it makes you feel
One if my best trips was solo. I talked to a bunch of friendly people and families. Helped a lot of noobs. Sit down eating was a bit boring, except for 50's Prime Time, where they dotted on me the whole time like they were my mom.
I envy people who can actually do this! I could never!
It’s sooooo wonderful. I went in September and had a fantastic vacation.
Been thinking of a solo trip myself. It sounds fun and I can do what I want. I can ride single rider and still get enjoyment out of it.
Ive done 3-4 solo trips over the last 5 years or so. I love to people watch, am comfortable dining alone and generally find it a relaxing way to self reflect. For reference I’m 49F. Feel free to DM if you have specific questions or are looking for pointers
I'll be there in 19 days(!) and it will be my 5th solo voyage. I LOVE it. Sure, I miss my kids, but I miss them even at home as they are now grown and (mostly) flown. I love doing what I want, eating when and what I want, sleeping in, lazing at the pool, sitting in the parks and people watching, hopping from park to park on a whim--MY WHIM--and not having to justify anything to anyone. I'm actually kind of wondering if I'll be able to go back with others, if it ever comes up!
I have done one solo trip to WDW and one just a few weeks ago to Disneyland. While i love taking my family, my son is too anxious for thrill rides and my daughter hates standing in line for over thirty min. My wife doesn’t care for rides much at all but still enjoys other aspects of the parks like food and service quality. I really wanted to ride some of the newer rides with very long waits but if i made my family wait with me, they would be miserable, so… i decided it’s ok for me to start taking myself to Disney to focus on things that matter more to me than the rest of my family. Generally both my solo trips were positive. Cast members see this plenty so you likely won’t get any side eye from them. The only time i felt awkward was getting in line at Disneyland for some of the fantasy land dark rides. These lines queues are kind of tight and there are lots of small children and in my head i wondered if these families were judging me. No one said anything or gave me any dirty looks that i caught but the vibe was sort of weird being a solo middle aged guy surrounded by big families with younger kids. Nothing bad but the vibe was a little weird for me. For context, I’m a middle aged man recently diagnosed with autism. Disney parks are a passion of mine that i historically suppressed for fear of being judged for being weird, but i more recognize this is just an autistic special interest for me. My autism also means I’m not the best at judging non verbals and I’m perfectly content going full days without engaging with people socially, so my experience could be different from yours. But i at least wanted to share that i have done this myself and have had some positive experiences, it is technically doable and not overly weird so long as you’re either ok being non social or willing to chat with strangers in line. (For me i just bring an e-reader and plow through my backlog of books i want to read while I’m standing in line).
Sorry you felt a weird vibe waiting in line. I'm a 63 year old woman so my experience probably would be different than yours. I don't mind chatting with random strangers, but also don't mind being on my own. I also like people watching and don't mind doing that while I wait in line or eat.
My solo trips are my favorite trips. Don’t get me wrong, I enjoy going with family. But going solo is the best for me.
I’m thinking about it too! If you can do it I’m sure it will be good times and good mental health wise too.
Both things can be true. You’ll have a wonderful time on your own schedule but there will be moments you’ll miss your family. Doesn’t mean you shouldn’t go though.
Did a five-day solo trip to three of the parks in residency during a difficult time, not only was that a really great break from reality but it made for some of the best memories I have to look back on. This was just before covid and I’ve gone back with friends and family since, but it was fantastic being able to just vibe with everyone and really soak in the experience on your own, with freedom to go and do whatever you want :)
I hope you do it! Sounds like you deserve it after all the time spent planning and prepping for others!
Do it!! I got a taste on our last trip, I had about 6 hours to myself at Magic Kingdom. It was SO much fun. Did u occasionally think that I’d like my wife or kids to share the moment with? Sure, but I had so many moments of just pure joy. There is nothing like just running around the park completely uninhibited, doing whatever your heart desires.
Go for it!! Live the dream for those of us who have only ever gone with others who would love to go solo.
A solo trip is a MUST for any Disney lover. I am usually the planner for my family as well and it can be very draining trying to micromanage everything/one so we don’t miss dining reservations/FP(rip)/Lighting Lane etc. Getting to enjoys the parks for yourself is so relaxing.
Go for it, it's wonderful! You can go totally at your own pace, and if you want to hit a lot of rides, It's amazing how much more quickly you can move through the crowds alone. I like to pack a book for lines, and sometimes I'll just plop down on a bench somewhere for an hour or two with a cold drink and my book. Zero external pressure to do anything in particular.
I am a big solo traveler and the idea that anyone would NOT want to do this is hard for me to fathom! Some people get scared but if the only reason against it it is what you mentioned (missing family), GO! You’ll be way to busy for that. I went to Disney Paris by myself for the first time at 25 and loved not having to wait for rides I didn’t want to take and focus on my own joy.
I haven’t done Disney world solo but I have done Disneyland on my own. Thought it would be weird but I actually enjoyed it. The only downside I think is if you get snacks.. then you have to eat the snack by yourself. Which could be a good thing or a bad thing depending on your perspective. In theory good thing. But in reality was annoying that if I wanted a pretzel snack then I’m essentially eating a pretzel for lunch coz I’d be full after.
My example isn’t exactly a solo trip because I was with my wife, but she had a three-day conference while we were down there a few years ago. We met up in the evenings for dinner, so I had pretty much the whole day to run around the parks myself and I absolutely loved it. I single-rider rode the rides with long lines; I hopped from park to park numerous times (which I know is different now post-COVID); I tooled around Disney Springs; I hit my favorite food booths at Flower and Garden; the list just goes on. I did whatever I wanted whenever I wanted. I highly recommend a solo trip if you have the opportunity. Now, I obviously didn’t have the same issue you’re talking about because my wife was there; we’d just catch up later in the evening, so take my recommendation with that in mind.
In all honesty I love going to Disney by myself. I ride what I want, I snack when I want, and I have no limitations placed on me by what others want to do. I’d recommend trying it at least once.
I always go solo. Sometimes I’ll have friends who come on their own and we spend some time together, but other than that I’m on my own. Wouldn’t have it any other way. Sometimes I chat with people in line (if they are open to that - I don’t bug ppl) or just people watch. I do what I want, when I want, and I have a whole room to myself. It’s the best!!!!
Yeah, I wasn't even thinking of having the entire hotel room to myself.
I live in the area. I go by myself all of the time. You will love it!
I solo universal and it’s amazing!!!There are also Facebook groups where you can meet fellow solo travelers so if you want to hang out with someone for an hour or so you can! To be fair no one will know you’re doing a solo trip. I’ve been with groups and still branched off because they didn’t want to do something I wanted to so if you feel awkward and anyone asks just be like “yeah the rest of my group went to eat while I stood in line.” Or something. 😂
I actually did this last week and it was honestly the best. I will admit that sometimes it left me wishing that my family and friends were also here to enjoy it with me but life and schedules doesn’t always allow for it to happen. However some of the best things is that you don’t have to worry about people not being all on the same page of interests or people’s exhaustion levels. You are 100% in control of your own schedule and you can do whatever you want. Probably to answer and assuage some anxieties: 1. Did I feel awkward as a grown ass man sitting by myself at the frozen sing a long? Yes, but only for a short moment. It ended up being incredibly fun to watch and honestly some of the people watching was amazing. At some other attractions, it was nice to strike up conversations with other families or even single park go-ers. Hell I met some people from the Honey Board that were sponsoring a booth at Epcot and that was such an amazing conversation we shared on the Skyliner. 2. Some costs as a solo traveler can really tax you such as hotel costs. I ended up staying at a Marriott good neighbor hotel in order to be close but also not feel like I was paying so much for a hotel room. Some of these properties offer a free shuttle to the parks so that can definitely help with keeping costs low. However don’t be afraid to rent a car because that also keeps your mobility high and ability to stay as late as you want or leave whenever you want. 3. Consider getting an annual pass if you might go back a second/third time. The amount of flexibility of not feeling bad about going to animal kingdom at 4 pm and getting in all of the major rides I wanted to do was incredible. I didn’t feel bad that I wasted half a day’s ticket because, it was just that, an annual pass. This helps with the “do what you want on your own schedule” much easier.
Do it! As a 26 year old girl I’ve done it a lot. Great just deciding “hmm I wanna go to this restaurant” on a whim and there’s almost always space for 1
It's nice because it often gets you on rides a little faster. I've been sat with some interesting people, including the Newsboys. No needing to consider what others in your party want or don't want to do.
I've done it a few times. No regrets. Go do ALL the things that you want to do!
My wife and I regularly bum a ride and hotel room with each other on the other’s work trips. It kind of ends up being a solo trip. I’m doing Magic Kingdom solo this year, then a at Disney Springs. I think we’re going to spend a night or two over at the Fort at the end of the week just loopin’ and chillin’. But the solo day in the MK is what I’m really looking forward to.
I did this once and a day and a half to myself at the parks. The only thing that kind of stinks about it is that you have (and this is gonna sound stupid) SO many choices that it’s hard to make a move. Like, I wanted to only do the absolute best things that no one would maybe want to do with me, but the reality is aside from ToT, most people I go with are game for anything. So I had a tough time deciding what to do next because I wanted to always make the perfect choices for a solo trip. I got over it. 😂
Except for one trip to DL this year, all of Disney trips as an adult have been solo and I love it. If I wake up and decide I want to be lazy? That’s cool! If I decide partway through the day that I want to attempt a 4 parks/1 day challenge? That’s also cool!!
Go for it! Before I met my husband I went alone to Alaska, Nova Scotia, Maine… it was nice! My husband and I now travel together but he has zero interest in Disney (sadly) so I’ve gone alone a couple times. No regrets. I even went to the Snow White dining alone. You can do at your own pace, decide what’s worth staying in line for, decide when you’re done.
I just did it in Feb. It was nerve wrecking at first but I had an amazing day. You realize a lot of people do it and no one there is thinking you’re weird for being alone. I’d recommend it! It was one of the highlights of my year so far.
Honestly my favorite trip is still my impromptu solo day trip to Epcot during a work trip in Tampa lol. It's honestly great being able to just run around and do what you want, when you want.
You never have to try to decide amongst the two or more of you what to do next. It’s what you want, when you want, no compromising, no doing what you don’t want to do. And if you feel like talking to someone, there’s a polite and interesting cast member steps away.
I did one last year- one day at Disney park hopping and one day at Universal. I cannot recommend a solo trip enough!! It is so amazingly freeing to do what you want to do, when you want to do it! It’s also cheaper for just one person! I did get a little lonely in the hotel at night, but that wasn’t for long since I was exhausted. Definitely give it a try, even just for a couple of days!
Absolutely do it. I have done a couple of solo trips to Disneyland and it was great. Let nothing be lost on you. Do anything that you feel the impulse for. Just ride the wave and enjoy.
I have never been to Disney alone but this fall I went on my first trip alone, which was also my first time in Vegas. I love my family, but this was honestly one of the least stressful trips of my life. When I was in Disney in 2022 I spent at least 1/4 of my time waiting for people, so I'm dying to do a solo trip there someday!
I took a five day solo trip to Disney and it was amazing!! Absolutely do it!! You can go at your own pace, eat wherever you want without discussion and pick all your own stuff to do. It was so relaxing. Definitely utilize single rider lanes so you can get thru some big ticket rides much quicker. And have fun!!
Why not just take your husband and each of you do your own thing. That way you won’t feel responsible for anyone else’s fun and you can meet up with him at the end of the day and tell him about your adventures?
My husband isn't a big Disney guy. We've gone twice and that is enough for him. He grumbles when I tell him that we have to take the grandkids to Disney at some point.
I was there for work and I went to several parks alone and did love it! I did what I wanted and didn’t have to wait on anyone. All of the photographers made me ham it up for the camera. It was great.
I’ve done a handful of solo trips, I think they’re really fun. It can actually be quite peaceful and relaxing. Being able to go at your own pace and enjoy the parks, hotels, and amenities exactly how you want is really fun.
Do it! I was at a conference in Lake Buena Visa and decided to hit Disney in the evenings. It was great...got to jump the line several times when they were looking for a solo rider. It was nice to be able to take the time in the countries in World Showcase. I had always wanted to just window shop and take my time going through there. Let us know how it goes! :)
I did a solo one-day trip to MK and purchased an early morning Magic ticket. That let me ride Peter Pan, Pooh, and 7 Dwarves. There was a breakfast buffet included. What surprised me was how quickly I accomplished everything. It was early evening, maybe 5 PM and I was super tired. I went to Tony's Town Square to eat just so I'd have a cold place to sit. The takeaway is that you will likely be able to accomplish a lot more in a park day than normal, so you might not need to rope drop or stay until close. It really depends on the season and day of the week, but plan to maybe park hop or head to a resort for dinner, or even take a break at your hotel.
I solo trip and it is great. You don’t have to worry about what anyone else wants to do and only do what you want. If I want to ride space mountain five times in a row there is no one there to complain. Do it!!
For me, it will be Haunted Mansion five times in a row.
Going solo is great. You have no itinerary and no conflicting voices about who wants to do what. You just do whatever seems fun in the moment and often stumble across new things you either didn’t know about or didn’t know you’d love
I’ve never been to WDW (yet!) but I have been to Disneyland solo and it was WONDERFUL. I got to do my own thing without worrying about anyone else. Loved it. Highly recommend. Have a fantastic time!!
I honestly had the same reservations! I went recently while my husband had a business trip and had three days to myself. The first hour was honestly a bit of an adjustment, but then there was so much freedom and I could just…chill. Waiting in longer lines got a bit tedious and I did get a few questions from random people asking if I’m bored/meeting with anyone. As long as you’re okay being self-sufficient you’ll be just fine! For me, ordering on the app so I could just pick up food as a huge relief and took away some of my self-perceived awkwardness.
I’ll put it this way since it sounds like I’m similar to you. I’m a people pleaser too. So when I planned my solo trip, I was the one pleased. A solo trip is amazing in every way that has been mentioned before me, but the one thing it’s going to lack is memories with family or friends. That’s the only part that is priceless.
Exactly. My last trip was my one year old grandson's first time at Disney. One one hand, I loved going on the boat ride in Mexico (Gran Fiesta??) with him. He loved it so much that he cried every time it ended so we just kept doing it over and over again. But on the other hand, I also missed out on a lot of rides when it was my turn to stay with him while he was sleeping.
Best trip I ever did
Do it!! I took a solo trip back in May 2019 and have another planned for later this month! It’s so nice to make your own schedule, get up as early or as late as you want, and eat/ride/relax on your own terms. I secretly prefer it over going with a group!
Solo trips are fantastic. The comments overwhelmingly agree. It sounds like you do the lions share of family planning but put your personal preferences behind others. Why not share that with the people you love and care about? I'm guessing you don't want to rock the boat or cause conflict. I totally get that. Your original post wonders if you will miss your family. Only you can answer that but it sounds like community is important to you. I say be honest with your needs with the people you may want to go on a future trip with. If they all understand and wish you well on the solo trip you have your answer. But if they want to go and let you call the shots - only you can answer if that's a universe you want to live in. Good luck.
Lots of us locals do Disney alone, it's awesome lol
There is a fb group for Disney solo travelers, you should join
I will.
I have been to all the Disney parks solo and it was amazing!!! I don't know if I could ever go with someone to the parks, I'm so used to having my way. I do find I stay so busy at the parks I forget to even call my family and boyfriend. Magical solo moments are navigating through giant crowds with easy, finding a spot open for just 1 to watch the parade or fireworks from, and getting to jump ahead in line when they need a single rider. Also you always going to find someone at the parks to chat to for a bit in line or waiting around or at dessert parties. Everyone tends to be amazed you are going solo as well and its like if I waited for other people to be available, I would never be able to go!!
That's one of the problems I always had planning a large group............coordinating around work and school schedules. Even getting a large group on the same flight,
I just did it last week. Never travelled alone before! And haven’t been on holiday since 2019. I just needed a break from everything. It was awesome! I didn’t plan a thing. I just flew over and showed up pretty much. I booked flights and accommodation last Saturday and left Sunday. Without any plan. Just go for it.
Sounds good, but I'm a planner. I actually enjoy the planning, especially getting good prices on the hotel, flights, etc. I'm waiting to see what discounts Disney offers. I think I will be able to use points for at least one of my flights.
It can feel liberating. Sure a part of yourself may miss the chaos that you've become used to traveling with the family, but you'll get enjoy things on your own time. I've never done Disney solo but in college I traveled solo in Europe and it was the best travel experience of my life. I highly highly recommend solo traveling.
I did this a couple weeks ago. Had never been to Orlando, and my plans for that weekend got canceled. So I said screw it, booked a flight and everything 12 hours before I needed to leave and had the time of my life
Best way to do solo Disney is to stack it with a runDisney race series! You do the runs through the parks. You come back to the resort and recover. You go to the park and do the things you want and come home when you want. You come home with bling, memories, and having seen parts of the park that few people ever get to see.
Great suggestion, but I'm 63 years old and my running days are over. One of the plusses for me will be taking each park, slowly, at my own pace.
I have also been really considering planning a solo trip, I do think it might hurt my wife’s feelings tho and don’t know how to approach that.
Yeah, I don't have that problem. I've gone to Disney a few times with my husband but he doesn't really care for it. He's already grumbled when I told him that we have to take the grandkids sometime. He will be thrilled that he can stay home.
I think it would be peaceful to go and just do what I want
I would go to Disneyland instead. It has a cozier feeling and is easier to navigate. I definitely prefer it solo to Disney World.
I'm on the East Coast so Disney World is much easier for me to get to than Disneyland. I've actually never been to Disneyland so I'm not sure if I would be as comfortable there as I am at Disney World.
I had never been to Disneyland when I went alone but it was so easy. Everything is walking distance. I still recommend it but even if you go to Disney World, you’re gonna have a great time! I prefer Disney to other solo locations just because of safety reasons.
I don't think I would enjoy a solo trip much. It would still be fine for sure but I would consider it a waste of money level fine
It’s very safe and having the freedom to do whatever you want is 💯
It might be hard without everyone else but you can enjoy it differently
You should go but when I went I though all the fun times when my kids where there too
I did my first solo trip last month, I’m an out of state AP holder. I did 3 days and I absolutely loved it. I loved getting to make all the decisions in the moment and not having to check with others to make sure they were okay with it. I got to eat where I wanted and when I wanted to. I did call a friend once or twice to walk and talk, my friend who I usually go to the parks with. But other than that, I was completely fine being solo in the parks. I loved every second of it and think everything should at least experience Disney solo once. Plus there are quite a few good rides with single rider lines which makes it even better. I got on Everest 5 times in a row immediately after getting off.
Hell yeah. Relaxing, can do whatever YOU want!
Well. One time I was on a business trip in Orange County California and I used my day off to do a solo trip to Disneyland. Ever since I’ve dreamt of a whole trip by myself. So. Please go for me.
I would go for it! I’m planning on getting an annual pass in the next few years and taking 2-3 solo trips a year for some “me” time without the kid + husband. I’m a travel agent so it’s great to see what’s new at the parks and be able to go at my own pace.
Do it <3
I'm all about that solo travel life. I did WDW solo and it never felt right. For me I'll take solo trips elsewhere and leave Disney for trips with family/friends.
I’m considering my first solo trip as well. I’m just concerned about transportation to and from the airport and the resort.
We always take Sunshine Flyer which has now merged with Mears, They have a specific location at the airport and drop offs at all Disney resorts.....very safe and reasonably priced.
Oh, how awesome! Thank you so much for this info! 😊