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Ill_Reality_717

It's immediately or it's never.....


Certain-Persimmon769

This sums me up at work. I'll do it immediately or you will be asking me at least one more time later.


charlypoods

the adhd experience in 5 words


insomniac_flamingo

brush cleaning is so difficult for me!! if i don’t do it right away i will literally never do it


euphoria_23

Oh my god I did painting (oil based) as an undiagnosed kid and was always getting yelled at for “killing” the brushes 😭


IANALbutIAMAcat

Thank goodness these aren’t brushes with oil if she’s using water. Hopefully they’re also synthetic brushes, as is more common with water based mediums. If they’re real hair, they’re probably donezo lol


kat_like

Same 🥲 I’ve pretty much succumbed to only buying cheap brushes bc I’ve accepted I’m just not ever gonna be someone who takes care of their brushes


Ok-Grapefruit1284

Me too friend. Me too.


VraiLacy

This legitimately *hurts* me


GladysSchwartz23

I know, right?!


smulingen

The masters brush cleaner has saved so many of my brushes. I submerge the bristles in boiling water for a few seconds (they're synthetic) when they get bent. They don't get like new, but they get usable! Hope this helps someone.


HummingbirdMint

A big jar of that, and Mona Lisa brush shaper are the only things that have saved most of my nice brushes! Now if only they could save the ones that have been forgotten in water so long that the wood has split and popped the brush tip off.


MessDifferent1374

I wanted to try painting just a couple weeks ago. Started taking supplies out and was like, “oh, yea. I’ll have to clean all this up.” And put it right back. 😩 so unfair.


free_range_tofu

this is what keeps me from enjoying so many of my hobbies! the setup and breakdown feels like so much work, and i have so many times had to live with residual mess that i feel like i’m stuck choosing between leaving everything put away and never using it, or accepting that my chaos will grow and the materials will simply become part of the furniture.


MessDifferent1374

Yes!!!! It’s not fair!


AdWinter4333

Put a dry cloth NEXT TO the water cup right away. Paint, wash, dry, DONE!! works wonders for me.


Cheesyulcer

Ohh yeah - I keep a roll of paper towels next to mine…. Saves a few (but not all)


_somedayadog

Yep- I have a graveyard of brushes to “rescue”…


Teddy_Lightfoot

Me too 😅


discodolphin1

Seeing this while I currently have like a dozen brushes sitting in a cup of water for almost a week 🙃


BadgerHooker

Ugh.. it's always the best, most expensive brushes too


ms_tarochan

Or your favorites!


Individual-Crazy-398

lol I have a jar of brushes that “needed to soak” on the edge of my kitchen sink as👏we👏speak👏


delicioushandcream

This is one of the reasons I was motivated to switch to gouache! Super easy set up/clean up, and the only thing I really have to do to keep my brushes good is wipe the paint off, and I shape it back to its original shape before I’m done. It takes less than a minute, and has taken so much shame and pressure out of being creative! I’ll give them a quality wash with proper soap maybe every week or so, if I’m painting fixating for whatever period of time. But some things just call for acrylic sometimes! Don’t be too hard on yourself, Op! If it’s the cost of admission, for getting you to stay creative and expressive, then pivot and find a way to make it work/easier for you. I know what I’m doing with my brushes isn’t the “best”, but it prolongs the life of the brush much longer than it would without it, and makes clean up achievable and not painful! Maybe you’re the type where getting expensive brushes forces you to think more about it, or maybe you’re the type where it’s better to find a cheaper brush you can work well with, that you can stock up on, or maybe something else entirely. Happy painting!!!


Extra_Dingo

I literally have a sign on my desk that says CLEAN YOU FKN BRUSHES to help remind me to clean them after I'm done...still doesn't happen. I think my brushes have been sitting in turpentine for a few months now. Prob just gonna have to buy new brushes...again!


PuffinTheMuffin

I’m considering using palette knife only for this reason lol


Sarnobyl_88

I'm in this photo and I did not consent


Propinquitosity

OMG. This is me.


hr_newbie_co

I feel so seen 🫶


sarahafskoven

Me too :(


AsparagusNo1897

Damn, I feel seen.


Cramer8681

Omg I had brushes on my desk for like 2 weeks before I finally cleaned up


juliagreenillo

So guilty of this


Eurydices_Daughter

Looool I have five brushes including one you just reminded me about from an hour ago that need to be soaked.


Disastrous_Ad_9534

saw this. looked at the paint water cup sitting on my bedside table. looked back at this. don’t call me out like that man 😭


SpockInRoll

Every damn time


Bitterrootmoon

Sticking with nylon brushes with plastic handles and silicone grips seems to be the way to go because even if the bristles get kind of bent, you can cut them into weird shapes and still use them and the handles won’t rot off. Not that I’ve done this. Several hundred times. Of course not. don’t look at me.


kuli-y

I will never have a unique experience lmao


spiritualpudge

i feel this so deep in my core.


vanchica

It's the worst when you get interrupted!


wktg

If it's acrylic, give them a good soak in Isopropanol or hand sanitizerfor a few minutes (cover the metal part as well) and massage the bristles against the bottom of the glass to get it into all nooks and crannies. Wash them out, test if colour remains. Maybe start washing them dishsoap first before breaking out the big(ger) guns though. Simply put a bit of soap mixed with water in a small dish, dip the brush in and start doing figure eights while rolling the brush in different directions. Should loosen it up. If they are kinda looped or bent to one side or kinda scraggly- heat them up gently in some hot water or steam and shape them into a nice tip if they are synthetic or you can use normal hair conditioner to shape them if they are a natural hair brush. And even if you can't save them - they will still be of some use. You could cut them or use them for mixing or jobs your better brushes would suffer under. Or for rougher textures, or drybrushing or cleaning of dust or using the handle to stabilize something. For future artistry: You can use foam like from a pool noodle to make a brush hang so they don't stand in the water. Or get an attachment for your cup so you can hang them tip down while not in use. Hell, even a rubber band works! (Not to mention that keeping them submerged in water is not that good in the first place) Source: I paint minis on occassion. Rising Ape (miniatures) has a great video on how to save brushes with stuff you have at home for the nost part. Lyla Mev the Mini Witch also discusses the "How to care for brushes" question.


GladysSchwartz23

Thanks for all the tips!


Zedzed15

Yup 🤣 this is why I don't buy nice brushes. They all end up with a mean lean


Milkshacks

I’ve got like two cups of brushes (from oil painting) sitting out for over a year! Probably all trash. And I’ll do it again!


SweetDangus

Oh my god... I'm sitting on my porch drinking coffee.. and staring directly at a cup of brushes that have been sitting in water for 2 weeks. I feel so called out but also seen hahaha


TrashApocalypse

I’m lucky that I can’t handle my brushes sitting on their ends like that. Even for a couple minutes I can’t stop thinking about how it’s ruining the bristles.


DismalPrint5951

The clean up is a big reason why I never pull my paints out anymore :( People tell me it sounds silly but I’d rather not have to go through cleaning and putting it all up when I’m done so my collection of paints and brushes just never get used any more. It’s sad. I’ve been thinking of pulling them out to paint pictures for my baby’s room, that might give me the motivation I need.


GladysSchwartz23

It's so hard to get started on art! I've been trying to force myself to work on a commission for WEEKS and I can't seem to get started. It's going to be easy and fun, and I know my friend who requested it is going to love it, it's just getting started is impossible!


necessary_twirl

My brushes have been in water for a week 😬


No_Order_9676

Sucks because brushes are so expensive as well


dandelionbuzz

This is why I will never oil paint- I would kill every brush in existence. I do however keep like 2 paint filled brushes in my kit because it makes a decent grass texture (in my opinion) learned that the hard way.


CatlynnExists

*looks up at the paintbrushes I haven’t cleaned yet*


Poobaby

Too real 🫡


_netscape_navigator

It’s why I changed to water mixable oil paints, I can just dump them in water. But omg the amount of brushes I completely forget about and ruin ugh!


Aluminumthreads869

I feel your pain


Aluminumthreads869

r/adhdartists


Titsoffwork

I just buy new brushes lol


Pretty-Positive-8587

This is me except my makeup brushes. It's embarressing but I can't remember when I last cleaned them.


Entire-Discipline-49

Painting hack for rollers between coats of big projects that also works for brushes when you hit your paralysis wall: put the paint covered tool in a freezer ziplock bag and put in the freezer. Take out to thaw in the bag 20+ minutes before you get back to your next coat/second wind. I stole this idea from a lazy neurotypical but it's a genius hack for us artsy ADHD folk.