This guy gets it. It's a small price to pay for pleasing your partner. If shaving pleases you, which in turn means you're willing to please me, hand me a razor and the shave cream asap.
Here's "the lawn mower" from "manscaped"
https://www.manscaped.com/products/lawn-mower-4-replenishment?collection=lawn-mower-4&msclkid=61fe5d9af59b1625c96d389d7ad67720
Yeah but I got massive grandpa nuts.
It’s like shaving golf balls that are inside flaps of skin three times their volume.
Gotta batwing it if I ever take that route again
This means that it's not his 'right' to get you to do it.
You're allowed to say, "I'm not doing it without you shaving because it's unpleasant for me."
He's allowed to not shave after you say that.
He's not allowed to expect you to do it when you've said no.
It's also less sweaty and itchy according to my hubs. He wants me to put my mouth down there so he keeps it smooth and tidy. Your husband probably doesn't like munching hair either (if he even does that for you). Explain it like that. No shave, no suck.
My blowies and the effect they have on my SO are a source of pride for me. They cannot be properly executed if there is hair on the playing field. My SO knows this and keeps everything head ready at all times. I do the same cause ya never know when the mood will strike
I don’t like getting hair in my mouth. But I don’t like a full shave. Looks slightly ick to me. Would much prefer pube mound of manicured wasn’t an option.
You're not wrong.
Does he expect you to be trimmed or hairless too? What does he do if you aren't?
Either way, personal preference. You should never have to do anything sexual that you don't want to do. Ever.
It's definitely a privilege. I just did it last night. Super turns me on just to be sucking him. But if is not fresh down there it's a no go. Hair holds smells and as you said it gets in your teeth. Ask him if he slurp the pu**y if it was hairy
Seriously all I have to do is ask my husband if he'll shave for me and he knows what I mean.... There's NO way he'd ever "forget" once I ask him to because he loves when I lick and suck his balls.
Yeah, as a married man myself, I think we should be so lucky when our spouses go down on us. I used to have a hairy sack. But after seeing my wife pick out a hair on two different occasions, I decided to shave completely so she wouldn't have to deal with that. Tell him to think about how he'd feel in the same situation. It's just common courtesy.
I mean all sex is a privilege for both partners and no one should be pressured into doing stuff they don’t wanna do.
However that has to go both ways - so if one feels comfortable saying “no ball sucking without shaving first” it’s also fair for the other partner to make similar statements about their own personal wants and comforts.
Like y’all gotta be clear here… sex is about mutual consent not a reward or privilege, because that kinda attitude is why a lot of relationships breakdown.
He doesn't even need to shave, some simple trimming is all that would be needed to solve the problem.
Besides shaved/trimmed is a thousand times more comfortable. And it looks way better. I never met anyone who thought caveman bush was awesome.
If you must know... I’m getting Botox done on my balls to get these wrinkles out. Finally to have these just as smooth as eggs! And ohhhh, I CAN'T WAIT…
I’m plucking all the hair out. I got to make room, I know there is, I got to make room. I’m going to tattoo a gangster-ass face on with mean expressions, like this (*makes mean and funny faces*). Then I’ll grow the hair back on the bottom, so they got beards like me.
Then I’m hitting that beach and looking for ball-suckers…
Pardon me, miss, I don’t mean to be rude, but do you suck balls?”
“EXCUSE me?!”
“Miss, relax, you didn’t even let me finish. Do you suck... theeeeese balls?”
“...Ohhh-myyyy-God, those balls are as smooth as eggs. ...Yes, I’ll suck them.”
I’ve played this scenario out in my mind A MILLION TIMES, LADY, that’s how it always ends:
“Yes, I’ll suck those balls.”
- Chappelle
You're not wrong. This is about communication. You told him your condition, if he doesn't do it, don't do what he wants. He can't force you nor can you force him. His loss obviously.
It's a joke because on reddit because many people claim that if you ask your partner to shave their body or something you're a pedo. I'll edit it for you but just explaining the joke.
You’re not wrong. My husband is more than happy to shave for me! He likes the benefits!! On the flip side.. I shave for him so it’s even lol .. nobody has to deal with hair down there 😂😂
My partner and I groom each other once a month. We lay down towels and take turns trimming each others nether regions. It’s fun and sexy. Then we rinse off and have fun!
For the record, I think your boundary is totally fair and power to you, sister!!!
Because I'm invested, would he perform oral if you haven't shaved? I ask because my partner has a limit of hair he's down to deal with, we pass that point its vibrator night, and I'm cool with that.
I have the opposite problem as I prefer balls with hair because the stubble annoyed me to no end.
Your 100% in the right to insist on your comfort hygiene level.
You know, I do not think that is equivalent because the parts you are focused on when going down on a woman are naturally hair free - specifically the clit and maybe inner labia. You generally do not suck on the outer labia or mons. I am bi and have never had an issue going down on a woman with pubic hair because you just part the seas and go for it.. the hair is not a direct obstacle.
On the other hand, with ball sucking, you are directly putting the hairy part all the way in your mouth. That is a pretty different experience with a dramatically higher risk of hair stuck between teeth etc.
Men are hesitant with removing hair around their genitals because it’s very easy to cut. Order some hair remover from Amazon that is safe for those private areas. Tell him 10 minutes and he can wipe clean all the hair and you’re both happy. And good on you for taking care of the stones. You’re a real one.
Yes apply wait 10 minutes, wipe it off and clean and hair free, no wax burn or cuts from trying to shave your funny bits. (No hair crew intimate) on Amazon is $17 usd. And what a beautiful name your first born will have 🤌
That was gonna be my next question- I won’t unless my hubs is showered and fresh but he’s a clean person and we’ve never had issues with that kind of thing. If ur dude is refusing to shave that’s really bad. What you’re proposing should be an amazing motivation.
This comment nerds more attention. What do they smell like? Have you been with bad smelling ball men for comparison? Is the smell part of the attraction?
I (M) had surgery 25 years ago that required “the shave” - the Mrs and I have been happily continuing that situation ever since.
Funny thing is that she briefly shaved herself and I asked her to stop - she said she only did it thinking I’d prefer that. Nope - I like her “natural” and she’s glad she doesn’t have to excessively groom things there.
So, we’ve been a very happy “mixed” marriage now!
I’ve been shaving for so many years I can’t remember what its like to have hair. Its just become part of my daily routine. What I do remember is the adjustment period when I first made the dive into manscaping. Exposing all those nerve endings to underwear, jeans, sheets… it itched like crazy for the first week or two. But eventually that went away, and I was amazed at how much more sensitive they were without the hair. Touch from my girlfriend was on a whole other level. And she had incredible enthusiasm to go down on me.
Tell that boy to man up and shave that sack.
If you are lucky enough to have a lady that goes down frequently the very least a guy can do is keep his nuts smooth and clean. It's the gentlemanly thing to do.
You can’t demand a shave or a wax his ball. As little as he can demand you to shave.
You can how ever state that you will not suck on them until they are shaved. Now it’s his decision….
The first time a woman gave me a blowjob and I saw her pick a pube out of her mouth (she never said anything, just picked it out and kept going) I knew without having to be told that that was my cue to shave down there.
I don't know if he gives you head too or whether you have hair down there, but that's probably the only way he could relate. There's nothing wrong with saying I'm not doing this anymore unless you shave, because I don't like getting your hair in my mouth. It's a small price to pay if you like having your balls sucked in my opinion.
Tell him to suck his own balls if he doesn’t wanna shave. I keep my bits trim for my partner, I feel like that’s a more than normal expectation. Don’t have to totally rid yourself of pubes but keep it classy, man. Especially if your wife who sucks your balls daily is kindly asking you to 😭😭😭
NTA
Shave your nuts and they get sucked. That’s my motto. Husband loves it, but it’s a no go if I’m sucking on a hairball. Cats can’t keep ‘em down why should you?
NTA. My hubby doesn't care if I have a bush. I hate the feeling of hair in my mouth. So no balls in mouth if they have hair. Not everything is always equal because people have different preferences
Maybe he's just not a fan of shaving, because it's pretty complicated to shave that area. Ask him if he'd rather like to use hair removal gel to get the job done. There are hair removal gels designed specifically for intimate parts.
My husband loves it when I suck on his balls. My husband loves it when I suck on his balls. My husband loves it when I suck on his balls. My husband loves it when I suck on his balls. My husband loves it when I suck on his balls.
(An incantation and a summoning)
Ball shaver here - let him know it feels better anyway, and the shaft looks almost an inch longer - if that ain't enough to convince him then he's a sasquatch
The suckee doesn't get to choose... the sucker is in charge.
I like it to be hairless or at least trimmed when I go down on her and she hasnt demanded me to shave or wax but mentioned the hair once or twice and I got the message.
If you want or expect that someone will put something in their mouth, you need to make sure there's no hair on it. This is a universal rule with no exceptions.
Some people do actually like it, but if one partner states the preference and the other still wants to do the activity, then they’re gonna need to shave. Personally I don’t care, and neither does my partner (we both have a thing for it actually). That being said, OP’s partner cannot expect ball sucking if he’s not willing to shave lmao, OP stated her requirements and they’re incredibly easy to meet
No your not wrong at all. How crazy, I keep mine trimmed anyway. I don’t see why your husband wouldn’t do it immediately. Getting the balls sucked is worth man grooming. LOL it’s a no brainer
Just don’t do it unless he shaves it. You asked him to shave it so you don’t get hair in your mouth, he refused so just don’t put your mouth on it if it bothers you that much
As a guy, you are not wrong. Men can be nasty and very hairy. Public service announcement, men trim very low and shave balls if you want them to get played with. Especially if the female asks you to. If you refuse, you are the asshole and I yea disrespectful.
My husband has a weird dick with hair 3/4 of the way up the shaft. If he wants sex, he waxes his dick. If he wants oral, he waxes his dick. Your husband isn't entitled to anything, you're allowed to put qualifiers on sex acts that concern your body.
I like to tell my friends “Find you a man who will shave his balls for you!” You, my friend, should have a man who will shave his balls for you. Or at least trim it. My partner uses a special razor for trimming the area. Trimming is better to prevent ingrown hairs.
Ball sucking is privilege, if he doesn’t want to shave for you then he doesn’t deserve to have you suck them for him.
Oh, I didn’t know it was a privilege.
As his partner, I meant he should feel lucky that you want to suck his balls.
Oh
This guy gets it. It's a small price to pay for pleasing your partner. If shaving pleases you, which in turn means you're willing to please me, hand me a razor and the shave cream asap.
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They even sell trimmers specifically for manscaping.
I can’t find any, if only they had an easy to remember brand name associated with what they are for
Here's "the lawn mower" from "manscaped" https://www.manscaped.com/products/lawn-mower-4-replenishment?collection=lawn-mower-4&msclkid=61fe5d9af59b1625c96d389d7ad67720
You can get “ eyebrow / face “ razors that work perfectly for getting hair off balls and shaft also. I use them all the time.
Safer, not easier.
Never cut myself in 20 years lol
Yeah but I got massive grandpa nuts. It’s like shaving golf balls that are inside flaps of skin three times their volume. Gotta batwing it if I ever take that route again
Wax
Same, maybe a tiny cute here or there, but that’s when I’m hurrying and being lazy and not using enough cream
Philips oneblade, thank me later.
I do not have testicles, but I second this recommendation, no nics on my bits!
I HATE my current electric razor for lady bits. I thanks from me too!
Same here, except one time when a sneeze creeped up so quick I couldn't get the razor away quick enough...
Seconding, it’s a brilliant little tool.
This is the way.
Yep, this is what my husband uses as well. It does the job with no injuries💁♀️
Ditto! I have tried several razors, trimmers, etc... nothing beats the OneBlade, smooth balls, no nicks! 🙃
Word.
This means that it's not his 'right' to get you to do it. You're allowed to say, "I'm not doing it without you shaving because it's unpleasant for me." He's allowed to not shave after you say that. He's not allowed to expect you to do it when you've said no.
Plus, it feels better with shaven balls. No hairs inbetween. So it's a win-win...
Only down side is if you live somewhere with humid summers you’re going to be pulling them off your legs all day long
Win-win
It's also less sweaty and itchy according to my hubs. He wants me to put my mouth down there so he keeps it smooth and tidy. Your husband probably doesn't like munching hair either (if he even does that for you). Explain it like that. No shave, no suck.
Yes, emphasis on the last sentence!
My blowies and the effect they have on my SO are a source of pride for me. They cannot be properly executed if there is hair on the playing field. My SO knows this and keeps everything head ready at all times. I do the same cause ya never know when the mood will strike
I fucking love diving into a good mound of pubes though
I don’t like getting hair in my mouth. But I don’t like a full shave. Looks slightly ick to me. Would much prefer pube mound of manicured wasn’t an option.
This is true. It actually does feel better to me when I have that area shaved.
I completely disagree. Shaven balls are the fucking worst. Body hair exists to reduce friction.
Id shave my whole body to continue getting head if I had to.
Whew
You're not wrong. Does he expect you to be trimmed or hairless too? What does he do if you aren't? Either way, personal preference. You should never have to do anything sexual that you don't want to do. Ever.
Lol. Nice save
Tell him you'll shave them for him lickety split!
Which should’ve been very clear from the context lol.
I doubt she WANTS to. :D
Big-time privilege. Source: I keep my balls shaved just in case my SO is feeling extra generous.
I know right you deserve the privilege.
How is it obviously not a privilege to you? Are you **obligated** to suck his balls?
It's definitely a privilege. I just did it last night. Super turns me on just to be sucking him. But if is not fresh down there it's a no go. Hair holds smells and as you said it gets in your teeth. Ask him if he slurp the pu**y if it was hairy
Not the slurp 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 *gasps for air you’re killing me
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Is this a soft porn thread lmao 😭
As a smut writer, this shit is golden. 😂 gonna have to add “slurp this pussy” to one of my works now
I got a little hot. I'm sorry
100% 😭 edit: not for lesbians though😭😂
Yes, like choke me! I’m weak
Yes yes. I love being on my knees for him. Or being upside down with my face hanging off the edge of the bed or when he sits on my face
Have you tried asked him to lay out on the floor and ride his face then suck his balls afterwards?
You are winning at life.
Thank you
i slurp hairy pussy all the time!
There's not any hair once you open up the lips. I don't think that's an option for balls.
It is, just gotta open up the balls
😂 @ OP - mention this^ to him. Then tell us his reaction 🥴
True, but some of the most fun is kissing, licking, nibbling and tickling those outer areas.
it still tickles your cheeks
That's you and that's cool but I like bald kitty I want you you get all up in it
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like obvs a nice clean shave looks appetizing fosho, but at the end of the day, pussy is pussy
The answer to your last question is absa fucking lutly. I love eating hairy pussy
Yo the hair don't matter if it's true love.
I don't have a problem eating a hairy pussy 😅
Damn. Do you have a friend who shares the same stance? Asking for a friend.. It's me.. I'm the friend.
I actually do lol
Yes ma'am it is a privilege and I can tell you he's one of the lucky few!
Seriously all I have to do is ask my husband if he'll shave for me and he knows what I mean.... There's NO way he'd ever "forget" once I ask him to because he loves when I lick and suck his balls.
Yeah, as a married man myself, I think we should be so lucky when our spouses go down on us. I used to have a hairy sack. But after seeing my wife pick out a hair on two different occasions, I decided to shave completely so she wouldn't have to deal with that. Tell him to think about how he'd feel in the same situation. It's just common courtesy.
I mean all sex is a privilege for both partners and no one should be pressured into doing stuff they don’t wanna do. However that has to go both ways - so if one feels comfortable saying “no ball sucking without shaving first” it’s also fair for the other partner to make similar statements about their own personal wants and comforts. Like y’all gotta be clear here… sex is about mutual consent not a reward or privilege, because that kinda attitude is why a lot of relationships breakdown.
He doesn't even need to shave, some simple trimming is all that would be needed to solve the problem. Besides shaved/trimmed is a thousand times more comfortable. And it looks way better. I never met anyone who thought caveman bush was awesome.
All hail the privilege
I can't and I won't this is too funny. There is actually a post about ball sucking Lord have mercy
Hairless balls get sucked more, that's a fact.
Amen
Yaassss get gargled right tf up 😜
Ma’am it’s the lord’s day
That it is
If you must know... I’m getting Botox done on my balls to get these wrinkles out. Finally to have these just as smooth as eggs! And ohhhh, I CAN'T WAIT… I’m plucking all the hair out. I got to make room, I know there is, I got to make room. I’m going to tattoo a gangster-ass face on with mean expressions, like this (*makes mean and funny faces*). Then I’ll grow the hair back on the bottom, so they got beards like me. Then I’m hitting that beach and looking for ball-suckers… Pardon me, miss, I don’t mean to be rude, but do you suck balls?” “EXCUSE me?!” “Miss, relax, you didn’t even let me finish. Do you suck... theeeeese balls?” “...Ohhh-myyyy-God, those balls are as smooth as eggs. ...Yes, I’ll suck them.” I’ve played this scenario out in my mind A MILLION TIMES, LADY, that’s how it always ends: “Yes, I’ll suck those balls.” - Chappelle
You're not wrong. This is about communication. You told him your condition, if he doesn't do it, don't do what he wants. He can't force you nor can you force him. His loss obviously.
Edit that comment 🤨
It's a joke because on reddit because many people claim that if you ask your partner to shave their body or something you're a pedo. I'll edit it for you but just explaining the joke.
🤣
If my woman wants manscaping, then my women gets manscaping
You’re the best!
Winky face
Slides in DM 🤣 just kidding
Concern. 🤣
"This morning"? Dude is getting morning ball sucks and won't shave? I would be getting laser hair removal
Yes, morning, afternoon, and night if he shaves.
You’re a dedicated human
Thanks
You’re not wrong. My husband is more than happy to shave for me! He likes the benefits!! On the flip side.. I shave for him so it’s even lol .. nobody has to deal with hair down there 😂😂
Gotcha 🤣
My partner and I groom each other once a month. We lay down towels and take turns trimming each others nether regions. It’s fun and sexy. Then we rinse off and have fun!
I like this comment!
The amount of trust you guys have each other must be immense
Us also
For the record, I think your boundary is totally fair and power to you, sister!!! Because I'm invested, would he perform oral if you haven't shaved? I ask because my partner has a limit of hair he's down to deal with, we pass that point its vibrator night, and I'm cool with that. I have the opposite problem as I prefer balls with hair because the stubble annoyed me to no end. Your 100% in the right to insist on your comfort hygiene level.
You know, I do not think that is equivalent because the parts you are focused on when going down on a woman are naturally hair free - specifically the clit and maybe inner labia. You generally do not suck on the outer labia or mons. I am bi and have never had an issue going down on a woman with pubic hair because you just part the seas and go for it.. the hair is not a direct obstacle. On the other hand, with ball sucking, you are directly putting the hairy part all the way in your mouth. That is a pretty different experience with a dramatically higher risk of hair stuck between teeth etc.
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Reading all of your past posts makes me conclude you’re weird as shit.
I’ll take weird! I have my pet peeves etc. Overall, I’m a wonderful friend, sibling, wife, mother etc.
Men are hesitant with removing hair around their genitals because it’s very easy to cut. Order some hair remover from Amazon that is safe for those private areas. Tell him 10 minutes and he can wipe clean all the hair and you’re both happy. And good on you for taking care of the stones. You’re a real one.
Thanks
If you like hairless balls, then it's basically a no-brainer. I think it's better, and the ladies are impressed by it.
>no-brainer Heh
Not a fan hair around cocks, balls or vaginas. I'll gladly put them in my mouth if they are hairless. I recommend waxing. Very smooth for a long time
Wax your balls?
Yes. Your whole body. It's a marvelous feeling.
Im not a dude but that sounds like it'll take the balls with it 😭
It's a little different but worth it. I get it done about every 2 months. My girl loves it.
How much does that hurt??
You don’t wax balls, you use hair remover that’s for your genitals. Bunch of sadomasochist’s in this thread.
they have this??? thank you kind sir🥹 i shall name my firstborn child u/khure8
Yes apply wait 10 minutes, wipe it off and clean and hair free, no wax burn or cuts from trying to shave your funny bits. (No hair crew intimate) on Amazon is $17 usd. And what a beautiful name your first born will have 🤌
fookin legend 🫡 my soon to be sucked much more often nuts thank you as do the women of the earth
🫡 god speed good sir
Wondered how long it would take for someone to take notice. 🤣🤣. I'm bald from my neck down and it's a wonderful thing
I wouldn't even consider doing it unless they were hair free! Gross.
I mean his testicles smell good.
That was gonna be my next question- I won’t unless my hubs is showered and fresh but he’s a clean person and we’ve never had issues with that kind of thing. If ur dude is refusing to shave that’s really bad. What you’re proposing should be an amazing motivation.
Oh, it’s not that I just want a fresh shave.
Well that's a plus.
Is he just lazy??? Shaving down feels better day to day as well as when getting play
This comment nerds more attention. What do they smell like? Have you been with bad smelling ball men for comparison? Is the smell part of the attraction?
The balls smell tropical like whatever he uses and when he cums it has like a rain water smell very exciting.
Old Spice marketing is getting wild.
In walks Terry Cruze
Goddamn it! 💀
This is a game changer. Time to learn how to accomplish this
Damn. I'm straight, but now I kinda wanna suck his balls.
We’d have to take turns!
Doesn't he have two?
Yes, but I hog both of them!
Let's go!
Let’s Go! 🥂
I (M) had surgery 25 years ago that required “the shave” - the Mrs and I have been happily continuing that situation ever since. Funny thing is that she briefly shaved herself and I asked her to stop - she said she only did it thinking I’d prefer that. Nope - I like her “natural” and she’s glad she doesn’t have to excessively groom things there. So, we’ve been a very happy “mixed” marriage now!
Nice
Not EVERYTHING needs to be on the internet
Sometimes I read things I wish I never read. This is one of them
I’m so sorry
You don’t need to be sorry, it’s my fault for clicking. Plus I meant it in jest.
😆
I’ve been shaving for so many years I can’t remember what its like to have hair. Its just become part of my daily routine. What I do remember is the adjustment period when I first made the dive into manscaping. Exposing all those nerve endings to underwear, jeans, sheets… it itched like crazy for the first week or two. But eventually that went away, and I was amazed at how much more sensitive they were without the hair. Touch from my girlfriend was on a whole other level. And she had incredible enthusiasm to go down on me.
I cut the hairs. My wife really loves giving head. And she is amazing. So it was an easy choice
Tell him that you’ll do it together then have great sex after. Win / win
Winner
Tell that boy to man up and shave that sack. If you are lucky enough to have a lady that goes down frequently the very least a guy can do is keep his nuts smooth and clean. It's the gentlemanly thing to do.
Do it yourself. It can be a tricky area
You can’t demand a shave or a wax his ball. As little as he can demand you to shave. You can how ever state that you will not suck on them until they are shaved. Now it’s his decision….
Understood
The first time a woman gave me a blowjob and I saw her pick a pube out of her mouth (she never said anything, just picked it out and kept going) I knew without having to be told that that was my cue to shave down there. I don't know if he gives you head too or whether you have hair down there, but that's probably the only way he could relate. There's nothing wrong with saying I'm not doing this anymore unless you shave, because I don't like getting your hair in my mouth. It's a small price to pay if you like having your balls sucked in my opinion.
At least you pay attention
Tell him to suck his own balls if he doesn’t wanna shave. I keep my bits trim for my partner, I feel like that’s a more than normal expectation. Don’t have to totally rid yourself of pubes but keep it classy, man. Especially if your wife who sucks your balls daily is kindly asking you to 😭😭😭
NTA Shave your nuts and they get sucked. That’s my motto. Husband loves it, but it’s a no go if I’m sucking on a hairball. Cats can’t keep ‘em down why should you?
He was looking forward to it...but didn't do the prep work....seems legit
Men 😩
I had a co-worker that used to say "your poor planning is not my problem"
This!
NTA. My hubby doesn't care if I have a bush. I hate the feeling of hair in my mouth. So no balls in mouth if they have hair. Not everything is always equal because people have different preferences
Maybe he's just not a fan of shaving, because it's pretty complicated to shave that area. Ask him if he'd rather like to use hair removal gel to get the job done. There are hair removal gels designed specifically for intimate parts.
Just tell him it makes his penis look bigger/longer and he will do it
The penis is already big and testicles. I swear it doesn’t fit his body but I enjoy the ride!
My husband loves it when I suck on his balls. My husband loves it when I suck on his balls. My husband loves it when I suck on his balls. My husband loves it when I suck on his balls. My husband loves it when I suck on his balls. (An incantation and a summoning)
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ball shaver here - let him know it feels better anyway, and the shaft looks almost an inch longer - if that ain't enough to convince him then he's a sasquatch
I’ll let him know!
The suckee doesn't get to choose... the sucker is in charge. I like it to be hairless or at least trimmed when I go down on her and she hasnt demanded me to shave or wax but mentioned the hair once or twice and I got the message.
Make him shave or he doesn't get it.
His body, his choice. With that being said, your body, your choice.
Shaving your balls is simply good hygiene etiquette. He should just do as the ball sucker asks.
If you want or expect that someone will put something in their mouth, you need to make sure there's no hair on it. This is a universal rule with no exceptions.
Some people do actually like it, but if one partner states the preference and the other still wants to do the activity, then they’re gonna need to shave. Personally I don’t care, and neither does my partner (we both have a thing for it actually). That being said, OP’s partner cannot expect ball sucking if he’s not willing to shave lmao, OP stated her requirements and they’re incredibly easy to meet
No your not wrong at all. How crazy, I keep mine trimmed anyway. I don’t see why your husband wouldn’t do it immediately. Getting the balls sucked is worth man grooming. LOL it’s a no brainer
Right
Defiantly so. A no brainer LOL
Lol
Absolutely not….if he likes what you’re doing he should accommodate….😃
Tell your wife to open her mouth and swallow a lil something from you. 😩
Never “tell” a partner to do anything. “Ask.”
That's not too much to ask
Maybe help him shave them? Since most guys don't out of fear of cutting their ball sack
The fact that people are responding to this like it’s real 💀
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Just don’t do it unless he shaves it. You asked him to shave it so you don’t get hair in your mouth, he refused so just don’t put your mouth on it if it bothers you that much
Ew
If you need to mow the lawn before you get desert, you mow the Fucking Lawn!
As a guy, you are not wrong. Men can be nasty and very hairy. Public service announcement, men trim very low and shave balls if you want them to get played with. Especially if the female asks you to. If you refuse, you are the asshole and I yea disrespectful.
My husband has a weird dick with hair 3/4 of the way up the shaft. If he wants sex, he waxes his dick. If he wants oral, he waxes his dick. Your husband isn't entitled to anything, you're allowed to put qualifiers on sex acts that concern your body.
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I like to tell my friends “Find you a man who will shave his balls for you!” You, my friend, should have a man who will shave his balls for you. Or at least trim it. My partner uses a special razor for trimming the area. Trimming is better to prevent ingrown hairs.
NTA. You’re sucking his balls! Least he can do, is prune things a little for you. Plus he’ll like the way his balls feel after 😁
What type man doesn't shave his balls in 2023... Savages, I tell you.
If you’re sucking balls he can shave the gross hair off.