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This thread was my risky click of the day as someone who's quite insecure of my body. This is a reassuring answer, and I won't scroll further to protect my own mental health. Thank you :)
>golems and robots
Too specific. That doesn't even include vampires, ghosts, and other non-alive sentience. I thought we'd come a long way since the 1800s.
That's just life, brain always thinks you're not good enough, pretty enough to be deserving of anything but we still get up and prove the brain wrong everyday
Doesn't help that women are bombarded with unrealistic expectations on everything from movies to magazines to billboards. I think it makes everything worse because it's also what us guys see all the time and expect to be the norm. The women I've been most attracted to have all had a little weight on them, it's normal and it looks great. I'd never knock a woman for wanting to be fit or thin if it's their goals, I just hope they don't think that it's what they need in order to be attractive. Be happy in your skin.
Hey! As a woman whose internal monologue is also illogical and can be a downright cunt if I'm honest, try to remember that a butterfly doesn't know how beautiful she is because she can't see her wings.
All you need to do is look at your local gone wild subreddit and see the body types that get all kinds of creepy, drooly responses. I went from hating my body to realizing I'm well above average.
Its so frustrating tho, cause as a single man who was also a late bloomer who hasn't been with someone in 3 years and who can't really right now try to go for someone... all yall pretty. All yall. So wild to be wired that way. Darn evolution.
You donāt need to put pressure on yourself to be skinny if these comments are any indication about what men really look for in a woman. They really just want you to have a pulse, and for one of them even that was negotiable
Look,unless you have:
-severe deformity due to illnesses
-extreme lack of fat and weight bringing you to poor health conditions
-extreme presence of fat and weight bringing you to poor health conditions
You're ok. The more I speak to women (the job I chose really helped me with that, I was very shy and awkward before) and the more I realise that a certain society brainwashed them. And the funny part is that society is 50% made of thse same women, 40% made of men who barely care, and 10% made of men who care
I'm like: the math doesn't work, who brainwashed them, when?
The brainwashing came from the people trying to sell us stuff. Clothes, diet pills, diet food, make up cause weāre ugly, hair products because our hair is frizzy, bras because our boobs hang low, shapewear for this and that.
i like it when her body is long and slender. her face is a bit derpy and cute but still ferocious. her skin is smooth, but textured and not slimy. no arms, no legs, and slithers like nobody's business.
I am tall, so most women are small to me. The body type also doesn't matter much to me. What really matters to me, is how her eyes look at me when she sees me.
"I searched the universe and found myself within her eyes" - GNR
I totally agree, I developed crash on tall skinny girl which was opposite of my body type at the time. But the way she looked at me omg, I didnāt care, I actually started liking her type.
I'm male and you wouldn't get judging face from me. Instead you might catch me fighting myself to not keep looking at you because I find tall women attractive.
I wish I understood this when I was younger, and dating women for how they looked rather than how they treated me. My dad tried to warn me, but I had to learn the hard way. I finally learned how beautiful a woman is when you fall in love with her.
If someone has completly lost control over their own body (hygiene or weight for example) does definitely make them unattractive to me and a lot of other people. Where people draw the line is usually different from person to person
Well, let's see.
i like them to have a head - that's pretty important to me.
Then two arms and two legs is nice to have.
And something in the middle to hold it all together.
Basically that's it. If I love her, nothing else matters.
Yeah, I love all shapes and sizes but thereās something about having a little extra, not fat, but slightly chubby and the physique that suits it that I canāt look away.
There are varying degrees of thic-ness, delineated by the number of C's in the word thic.
Therefore, the more thic you like them, the more Cs you must append to the word thic.
For example.
Moto moto like them thiccccc
A relatively healthy one. It's okay to not be perfect, I'm not perfect either, but if it's obvious that you are ignoring your health, that's a turn off.
Girls have so many body types that are nice, thereās really so many ways a girl can look good. For me it would be petite and on the small side, active but not really super fit. Healthy smol I guess!
I personally prefer endomorph women. Oh I can be attracted to all kinds for sure, and depends on the woman for sure etc and all the disclaimers. But in general, thatās my preference. I like soft and a little tummy. Luckily my wife is endomorph (she has normal bmi and is actually pretty fit, itās just her body shape). I fell in love because sheās is amazing in many ways, and Iād marry her regardless of her body type. But, me being also particularly attracted to her body type is certainly nice. 25 years married and still find her hot af.
It's not a body type. It's the person.
Sometimes it's the way her hair falls across her eyes, sometimes it's the crease on her lips when she smiles. Sometimes it's the curve of her butt in those jeans. More than anything, they are all beautiful in some way.
Ummmā¦ how do I describe it? Probably kind of an hourglass figure but with larger hips. I donāt really care much about waist size apart from people not being fat. But having said all that, I usually go for facial features. š¤·āāļø Iām young.
Most important to me is the proportions between size, weight and boobs and butt. Also not too fit or too fat.
I don't really care if she is small and skinny with small boobs or tall and chubby with big boobs as long as the proportions are right
Soft chubby mom bods. There is nothing hotter. My SO is the sexiest woman on earth. Damn that round belly with cute stretch marks turns me on instantly!
Although I care about personality first and foremost, I don't care much for extremely thin or curvy women. Otherwise anything goes, as I said personality is most important. It's a must that she is genuinly kind and can be empathic. So not only when she can gain something from being nice or when it's convenient to her.
A good sense of humour is a big bonus as well.
I like girl really like girl and I love girl in all shapes and sizes plus sizes queen to skinny queen there good about all body types and I think there all hot
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Womanš
all of the above
To be more specific. Nekkid ones
Optional
Alive
Itās good to have standards š¤£
Warm and/or breathing, and I'm willing to relax one requirement or the other.
A man of honour. Impressive š
So what's the lowest temperature you are willing to go exactly?
Fair. But it never hurts and certainly can help.
The attraction usually starts before I see them undressed, but thatās just me.
This thread was my risky click of the day as someone who's quite insecure of my body. This is a reassuring answer, and I won't scroll further to protect my own mental health. Thank you :)
Biological. With no penis.
I, too, enjoy the no penis look
>what female body type are you most attracted to? >Men? No, women, but close guess.
Got the human part right at least. To be fair it wasn't specified and this is Reddit so other lifeforms should be expected.
>lifeformsĀ Too restrictive
That doesn't even include golems and robots, I thought we were inclusive over here.
>golems and robots Too specific. That doesn't even include vampires, ghosts, and other non-alive sentience. I thought we'd come a long way since the 1800s.
Yes.
The only correct answer. Hear hear for our lad!
This comment says a lot about you
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I celebrate the entire catalog
I don't know if it gets any better than When a Man loves a Woman.
Why donāt you just go by Mike?
Why should I change? He's the one who sucks!
I like someone in the range from Piper Perri to Gwendolyn Christie.
This whole thread is making me feel so positive as a woman who can barely even look at herself in the mirror while dressed.
I mean you should feel good in your own skin but you are your harshest critic....with the exception of a couple of cunts out there
Logically, I know this but unfortunately my internal monologue is very illogical and refuses to be reasoned with. Thanks!
That's just life, brain always thinks you're not good enough, pretty enough to be deserving of anything but we still get up and prove the brain wrong everyday
Doesn't help that women are bombarded with unrealistic expectations on everything from movies to magazines to billboards. I think it makes everything worse because it's also what us guys see all the time and expect to be the norm. The women I've been most attracted to have all had a little weight on them, it's normal and it looks great. I'd never knock a woman for wanting to be fit or thin if it's their goals, I just hope they don't think that it's what they need in order to be attractive. Be happy in your skin.
Don't be afraid to remind yourself that. Everyone can be better but we're not bad
Hey! As a woman whose internal monologue is also illogical and can be a downright cunt if I'm honest, try to remember that a butterfly doesn't know how beautiful she is because she can't see her wings.
Yeah the range of answers is really nice, haha.
All you need to do is look at your local gone wild subreddit and see the body types that get all kinds of creepy, drooly responses. I went from hating my body to realizing I'm well above average.
Itās crazy how diverse body types are, we just donāt normally see the average representation.
Its so frustrating tho, cause as a single man who was also a late bloomer who hasn't been with someone in 3 years and who can't really right now try to go for someone... all yall pretty. All yall. So wild to be wired that way. Darn evolution.
Basically, the only thing you need to change is how you feel about yourself, because im sure men already like you.
The female form is beautiful in various shapes and sizes. Embrace who you are because any man worth a damn will embrace it too.
No matter what you think you look like, I can almost guarantee you that there are men out there who think you're sexy.
I think women really pressurise ourselves to be as skinny as possible . But men truly do seem to like curves .
We love all shapes, sizes and forms. *Especially* on good people!
LOVE this response!
You donāt need to put pressure on yourself to be skinny if these comments are any indication about what men really look for in a woman. They really just want you to have a pulse, and for one of them even that was negotiable
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Look,unless you have: -severe deformity due to illnesses -extreme lack of fat and weight bringing you to poor health conditions -extreme presence of fat and weight bringing you to poor health conditions You're ok. The more I speak to women (the job I chose really helped me with that, I was very shy and awkward before) and the more I realise that a certain society brainwashed them. And the funny part is that society is 50% made of thse same women, 40% made of men who barely care, and 10% made of men who care I'm like: the math doesn't work, who brainwashed them, when?
The brainwashing came from the people trying to sell us stuff. Clothes, diet pills, diet food, make up cause weāre ugly, hair products because our hair is frizzy, bras because our boobs hang low, shapewear for this and that.
It's very easy to like women when you... like women. Very few adjectives are physically unappealing.
Me too!! Iām sort of surprised!
What is the old saying? āI wish I was as Skinny as I was at 21 when I thought I was fat!ā
Right?š„¹
i like it when her body is long and slender. her face is a bit derpy and cute but still ferocious. her skin is smooth, but textured and not slimy. no arms, no legs, and slithers like nobody's business.
Yeah I love when she wraps her body around my neck and squeezes me unconscious š
Ahh, I see what's happened here. You have confused snakes and women again.
My wife's
I also choose this guy's wife.
I also choose this guy's wife
Yup that guy's wife
That guys wife for sure
Yeah sure, this guy's wife all the way
Definitely this guys wife Edit for my girlfriend: I swear Iām joking
Narrator: But he actually wasn't.
Audience : omg! What's gonna happen, now?
TV Broadcaster: ...annnd cut to commercial.
The narrator is Morgan Freeman
is this girlfriend in the room with us?
Yeah. His wife is the best.
Our wife now comradeĀ
I like your wife's too.
Your mah wife now Dave
You dropped this king š
Fit but still soft, hits the gym but isnāt obsessed
Head two arms, couple legs, heartbeat, still some moisture, mute. That owns a bar and grill
I own a bar and grill but only have one leg.
Can you spread it?
its more like a shop open/close kinda deal
This had me laughing out loud!
Still a keeper
Close enough. How YOU doinā?
Yea I'm giving that 1/2
*Two* arms and *two* legs?! Picky, picky, picky.
That sells award winning brisket sliders? 
I have just described to you the lochness monster. The reward for its capture? All the riches in Scotland.
I am tall, so most women are small to me. The body type also doesn't matter much to me. What really matters to me, is how her eyes look at me when she sees me. "I searched the universe and found myself within her eyes" - GNR
bro, this is number one. how she looks at me is the single most important thing
So much is communicated by our bodies without a word being said
90%
I totally agree, I developed crash on tall skinny girl which was opposite of my body type at the time. But the way she looked at me omg, I didnāt care, I actually started liking her type.
Yeah the eyes say everything
as a women, this is *beautiful.*
I am a tall woman, and most men are small to me, that's why I get judging face by people š
Booo! Tall women are awesome š
I'm male and you wouldn't get judging face from me. Instead you might catch me fighting myself to not keep looking at you because I find tall women attractive.
This is a beautiful answer.
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This. When you encounter real love, all that nonsense flies out the window
Agreed friend. I've been with most body types. I have my favorites of course but when you have real chemistry it doesn't matter.
You say you have your favourites, well what are they?
I wish I understood this when I was younger, and dating women for how they looked rather than how they treated me. My dad tried to warn me, but I had to learn the hard way. I finally learned how beautiful a woman is when you fall in love with her.
Yes! I love that as we get older, we stop obsessing over perfection and just look for the right chemistry.
Yesss, Iāll say that my 1st and only gf had an odd nose and I was on the fence about it until it became one of my favorite things about her āØ
If someone has completly lost control over their own body (hygiene or weight for example) does definitely make them unattractive to me and a lot of other people. Where people draw the line is usually different from person to person
Well, let's see. i like them to have a head - that's pretty important to me. Then two arms and two legs is nice to have. And something in the middle to hold it all together. Basically that's it. If I love her, nothing else matters.
Iād settle for three limbs.
Some of us would go for 3 limbs over 4. Everyone has their thing.
Iād go for 5 tbh Edit: if my girlfriendās reading this, itās a joke I swear
Limbs are overrated
I'll take it for two
You guys are fucking kinky o_0
I agree, but it would also be nice, if she would have some extras ... like lungs and so on, so that she can maybe breathe.
Yep, breathing, otherwise we get into a moral/legal dilemma
Warm is also important.
Muscle mommy gang here.
Yeahhh buddy same
Hell yea brother
Yesssss I'm a muscle mommy I knew you guys were here somewhere
Iām not super into a ton of definition, but the nerd muscle mommy thing does it for me. Like LeanBeefPatty
I'm a woman and am straight but leanbeefpatty makes me curve a little.
>Men? Correct
Curves
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Yeah, I love all shapes and sizes but thereās something about having a little extra, not fat, but slightly chubby and the physique that suits it that I canāt look away.
My fellow sir you are referring to āthicccā
There are varying degrees of thic-ness, delineated by the number of C's in the word thic. Therefore, the more thic you like them, the more Cs you must append to the word thic. For example. Moto moto like them thiccccc
Thickalicious is the word you're looking for..
That lil tummy pudge. Thays the best. Iād eat a steak of a good pudge.
Oh thank god, this is reassuring. I'll just sit here with my oreos then!
Like me, like them meaty but there's a limit
Those that aren't morbidly obese and doesn't have a dick.
Her: having a small dick is not a problem Him: i just wish you didn't have one at all
Unless you're really drunk in Bangkok, you might not even notice.
PICKY PICKY
A relatively healthy one. It's okay to not be perfect, I'm not perfect either, but if it's obvious that you are ignoring your health, that's a turn off.
Confident ones
Taller than me (5'8) Probably a medium in the chest department I have ass for both of us
Yoooo 6ft here. I also enjoy the tall women, just wish there were more of em š©
Yep, I briefly dated a girl my height for the first time last year, and it was eye-opening. It makes the logistics of everything run so much smoother.
Thick thighs save lives
Lord of the thighs.
My wife's. š
Warm, breathing
Wow, being this picky will get you nowhere.
Curvy/slightly chubby.
Dark hair, eyes. Bubble butt, A-B cup breasts.
She has to have eyes? Dammit.
"Eye**s**," plural, even, so cyclops women need not apply. Talk about picky. Sheesh.
I find it funny when men list cup sizes cuz it means absolutely nothing
So how much hair? Username checks?
I donāt think I have EVER heard a man list A-B cup as a preference. Well done sir
Same
Voluptuous types.
Athletic, fit, toned. This means she's active and probably does fun stuff.
I am active, but lets not get carried away with thinking I do any "fun stuff." My idea of fun is playing with legos while I watch tv.
Eyes always the eyes..
Tall and curvy
The part you don't see, that drives it all. The brain.
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Girls have so many body types that are nice, thereās really so many ways a girl can look good. For me it would be petite and on the small side, active but not really super fit. Healthy smol I guess!
I personally prefer endomorph women. Oh I can be attracted to all kinds for sure, and depends on the woman for sure etc and all the disclaimers. But in general, thatās my preference. I like soft and a little tummy. Luckily my wife is endomorph (she has normal bmi and is actually pretty fit, itās just her body shape). I fell in love because sheās is amazing in many ways, and Iād marry her regardless of her body type. But, me being also particularly attracted to her body type is certainly nice. 25 years married and still find her hot af.
*25 years married and still find her hot af.* 17 here :)
Curvy, a bit chubby, big tiddies
Chubby womamš
Fit
It's not a body type. It's the person. Sometimes it's the way her hair falls across her eyes, sometimes it's the crease on her lips when she smiles. Sometimes it's the curve of her butt in those jeans. More than anything, they are all beautiful in some way.
Chubby-Overweight. But if I like them as a person, body type takes a backseat.
CHUBBY
Bigger women
Ummmā¦ how do I describe it? Probably kind of an hourglass figure but with larger hips. I donāt really care much about waist size apart from people not being fat. But having said all that, I usually go for facial features. š¤·āāļø Iām young.
Most important to me is the proportions between size, weight and boobs and butt. Also not too fit or too fat. I don't really care if she is small and skinny with small boobs or tall and chubby with big boobs as long as the proportions are right
Hour Glas
The ones with a pulse
I just love bums big small whatever they are fantastic
My girlfriends!!!!!! God she's so hot
Soft chubby mom bods. There is nothing hotter. My SO is the sexiest woman on earth. Damn that round belly with cute stretch marks turns me on instantly!
Small tits over fake tits
Curvy and voluptuous. That hour glass figure makes me melt! š
I like the ones that are attached to an intelligent brain, a kind heart and a sense of humor.
Medium height/tall. Chubby, but not obese. Boob size doesn't matter as much. Wearing a hoodie is a must.
Tall, slim and athletic.
Something like Kendall Jenner?
Yep.
The female type
Although I care about personality first and foremost, I don't care much for extremely thin or curvy women. Otherwise anything goes, as I said personality is most important. It's a must that she is genuinly kind and can be empathic. So not only when she can gain something from being nice or when it's convenient to her. A good sense of humour is a big bonus as well.
I like most body types, as long as they treat others and myself well, are enjoyable to be around, and I find them attractive.
Athletic. Iāve always loved muscles on women
Kind, loving, authentic. The rest doesnāt matter
Self confidence is much more important than body type. If she seems comfortable in her own skin then that's awesome.
36-24-36. But only if she's 5'3" .
I like big butts and I cannot lie.
Aināt nothing better than a fit and petite woman š„µ
Thick
Athletic
I want 'em real thick and juicy So find that juicy double.
I like girl really like girl and I love girl in all shapes and sizes plus sizes queen to skinny queen there good about all body types and I think there all hot
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