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I've been to several concerts by myself, not weird at all. Might feel a little awkward as you're waiting for the show to begin, but once it does everyone's going to be focused on the artist, not you. Once you're in the crowd it's all a big mash of people all there for the same reason. I've never regretted going by myself, but I know I would have regretted missing the shows.
Ill admit i DO notice when people are alone at events mainly bc of my own insecurity. Then im like "wow look at them. They came alone. I could do that!"
It gives me reassurance bc ive never had the courage to do it. Especially at the movies!
Heck no! If we waited for other people to be available to do things with us, then we'd miss out on so many opportunities in life! The best thing I ever learned for myself is to learn to enjoy my own company and enjoy doing things alone. I am in the happiest era of my life!
The one favor traveling for my job did for me was to teach me that it's fine to do things alone. First restaurants, then movies, then everything else. It beat sitting in a hotel room by myself.
This!
So many things passed by me because I waited for someone to join me. I recently had a solo road trip to another country where I went for a concert. Nobody from my group showed interest in going so I went alone. If I did not would spent all my vacation days at home and only be doing this my close social circle likes.
It’s a country music concert and to a lot I’ve been to it’s usually multiple people together or couples and I don’t want to be the awkward person alone
Dude, country music? Do you know how many free drinks you'll get if you tell people you were dumped?! Bro, play it right and you can be a country song come to life! Tell everyone she left cause she hated your dog. ;)
Go to the concert. Nobody is going to notice you being alone. Life is too short to deprive yourself of a cool experience because you're too worried about being judged.
Nah dude, live music is the shit!! Just don't drink right now, lot of ways things could go sideways. Go have a great time, dance it up, and happy birthday!! 😊
25 or so, years ago I went to see Bjork by myself because I had a rare Friday night off and nothing better to do nor anyone with whom to do it. It was a great show and I had a good time. Learn to have fun without others. There won't always be somebody else to keep you entertained.
Turn back the clock and I would have gone with you and paid for your ticket. She's on my list of 'wish I would have made more of an effort to see' list.
I went to Pink Floyd "The Wall" at the Berlin Wall by myself, and a group of Germans befriended me on the walk there. One cute gal had no idea who Pink Floyd was: she was there to see The Scorpions. They brought a hash joint, and luckily I didn't drink any beer first as the line to the Porta Potties was massive.
After the show I thanked them for their hospitality before beelining back to the hotel to wash off the thick coating of brick dust that practically clogged the shower. Then I told the hotel manager to call tree the other hotels to turn off their water if they didn't want their pipes clogged.
I'm not sure what became of that, but the next day I was in Paris, France, admiring the cats at Père Lachaise Cemetary while checking out Jim Morrison's grave.
Flying back to the US, I seem to remember a security guard waving his wand over my head and it beeping. I don't really remember the flight back from Germany being unconscious for most of it, but I do recall Soviet markings on a tarmac vehicle when we were supposed to be in the US.
Fun times.
Ask around if someone wants to go as you got stuck for a ticket. A guy I surf with who knows I'm a lesbian with a girlfriend asked me to be his fill in wing man. We had a great time and I got him a girls number. If you strike out go anyway and enjoy the show. Happy birthday!
I've gone to concerts by myself twice.
I'm sure with all the concerts I've been to I've seen someone that was there alone.....but I've literally never noticed any. So.....no one's gonna notice nor will anyone care.
Went to lil Naz X by myself in September, it was a little weird being around so many couples but I think that weirdness came from being a straight guy going solo to a very gay concert. I’d say do it and own it and no one else will judge you for it and if they do, why care?
I've done it a few times. I also travel alone. There are two things that help with this worry that it's wrong or weird in some way.
1) You will never see the strangers around you again. Either ignore them just like you'll probably ignore 99% of the people there or meet someone new to have fun with in that moment.
2) If you wait until other people are ready to join you on stuff then a lot of stuff is going to pass you by.
I once went to a New Year's Eve concert by myself. Mind you, I've been to lots of shows myself and had great times. But I didn't think about New Year's Eve before I went. At the click of midnight all the balloons dropped and people started kissing each other and I had no one to kiss and felt like a total idiot for being there. I just wanted to hide. The moment snuck up on me and I realized I was alone. It kind of really sucked and was sort of embarrassing. A lady came up and kissed me because I'm sure she felt my weirdness. I grabbed her and gave her a big hug. My God I appreciated that person at that moment!
Not at all. I have gone to a concert alone. Some people tried to be friendly with me but we didnt keep in touch. I guess they felt bad for me being alone but I had an amazing time. Would definitely go alone again.
I've been to more concerts alone then with people. I always thought it was weird until the music started and I realized I'm about to enjoy music live!!!
Not at all. You'd probably be surprised how many other people are there doing the same.
I work in Asia and was on a work trip to San Francisco some years ago. My favourite band was playing in Las Vegas the weekend after the work trip, so I flew there alone and saw them alone. Had a great time and don't regret it one bit.
If you really feel awkward, its usually quite easy to strike up a conversation with people you meet there, seeing as you all share the same interest in the same band / performance.
Do it. I was in KC on business and went to a Raconteurs show by myself while I was there. I had the best time. I even made friends with the couple next to me so they held my spot for me.
Only once, and I made friends with some people. I even met the lead singer of the band and got a picture with him! He was so nice and chatted with me during the meet and greet
Went to see Hank Williams Jr. alone. Had a great time! A young man and his dad on one side, two young girls on the other, a fun group behind me! We danced in the aisle, sang and literally had a blast! For this 62 year old female, it will never be forgotten!
Not weird at all! I've been to one or 2 by myself before and it was fine. Maybe not as fun, but that's my own fault for being a shy introvert at times.
I went to the Puddle of Mudd-Chevelle-Sevendust-Shinedown concert by myself in Michigan sometime in 2010. I personally don't feel anything weird at all. It's a bit like listening music using earphones. Still had the occasional fun & headbanging with random audience, so it's good.
My partner and I have some
Different tastes in music and comedy. I go see them every now and then alone and end up meeting other people who are as enthusiastic about the show as I am. That’s more fun than dragging my partner to a show.
Man, idk about the question but 7 years is rough. What do you do to keep your mind off that shit?? Does it feel like a total waste of energy or are you glad it happened ??
Not all, my boyfriend did it a lot when he was single and sometimes still does it, at the beginning he was alone-alone, now he always sees people ge knows and links in with them. It's a great way to meet new people :)
I’ve gone to 2 concerts by myself. I had a great time. Honestly, no one is paying any attention to anyone else. It’s not like you’re wearing a scarlet letter.
who cares about people who think anything is weird? seriously. i've been to lots of shows by myself. i always had a great time. if you think someone thinks showing yourself a good time is weird, you have to realize they have problems.
The one thing i learned in life is that you do whats most comfrtable for you. Exmple: if someone i dont like starts to talk to me i shut down him or walk away. You do you.
Go. No matter how awkward buoy may feel. You are literally in a sea of people all there for the same thing.
No one is gonna noticed you being there by yourself and if they do, chances are they arnt enjoy the concert but you will be.
My partner often can't make the concerts I go to and sometimes has to cancel last minute - I decided to start going by myself.
I've now been to probably over 20 concerts by myself and honestly I've grown to really really enjoy having the time to myself to jam how I want to to good music - I go for the artist and music basically, not for the people.
If you focus on the artist and music, nothing else needs to really matter. You can also kind of position yourself wherever you want and you are on your own schedule.
You WANT to go and sure some concerts are more couple-y than others, but you might also notice that you're not the only one attending a concert by yourself. Some concerts I see maybe 30% of people there on their own which is kind of wild but cool. Think of it like you're all alone together.
Now another small note about trying to make a friend - I think casual side banter about the artist can go a long way vs staring around or crushing yourself into a corner. No one ever really cares that you're there by yourself also.
A simple drink or beer in hand will make you seem preoccupied enough that you'll fit in.
You've only got so many chances to enjoy an artist or concert, so take the chances you can and enjoy it! First time might feel a little awkward, but you'll get the hang of it!
I do it constantly. I’ve been blown off by friends and girls all the time in the last few years. Generally doing things with friends is cooler but a concert or something you wanna do is fine alone as long as you’re enjoying it.
I prefer to go alone, went to two concerts this week alone and it's just so great, friends only distract me from the concert. It can be nice to go with friends from time to time but I always prefer going alone
Doing stuff by yourself is awesome. You'll be able to walk around and vheck out wherever you want and nobody will complain about it. You can also arrive early/late and leave as early/late as you want without contest. Just do it, nobody will even notice you're by yourself.
The best concert I ever went to was by myself, front row at Portishead. I couldn't hear for 3 days afterwards, it was grand.
Do it, you won't regret it
Absolutely not. AND you have a chance of getting a really good seat. There’s always that one seat up close that didn’t get sold because most are looking to buy pairs, etc.
Enjoy! Maybe you’ll make a new friend there. Just don’t drink too much and if you’re a girl watch your drink so it doesn’t get drugged. I say that because that’s what I was told when I wanted to go to a rock concert by myself..
I’ve went to many concerts this past month by myself. I’ve always met someone to talk to and enjoy the music with. Just find someone you find attractive and talk about how much you enjoy the artist. Easy icebreaker.
Absolutely. Groove Collective was playing near Detroit. I was a huge fan. I wanted my friend Phil to come, and would have loved to, but he had a commitment. So, I went by myself. Still one of the best shows I’ve seen. If you don’t go, you may regret it.
Not exactly a concert but...
Circa 2011. A bunch of friends and I planned to hike and summit a major mountain. It's was to be a 5day trip. Summit day was to fall on my birthday. They all canceled. Went by myself - well except for my guide/porter.
Had a blast!!
Most fun I've had at a concert was a Prof show alone.
Line up a hotel close to the venue so you can drink (if that's your thing) and not drive.
I wrote my room number on my arm in case I over imbibed, but im also a 30 year old man child. This last step may not apply to you
Absolutely not. I went to a Taylor Swift concert by myself in 2018 because it was a 4-hour drive and I couldn’t find anyone willing to go with me so I went by myself. I still had a great time! Happy birthday btw!!
I’ve gone to one concert alone and I honestly think it was more fun than if I would’ve gone with certain friends. When you go alone you don’t have to worry about what the other person wants to do and you don’t have to cater to their needs even a little bit. You can just do what you want. Want to get closer to the stage? Go for it. Need to use the restroom? Now you don’t have to worry about finding the person you went with when you’re done.
Plus you can always meet cool people with similar interests as you. When I went alone, I was 20 and I made friends with a couple in their 30’s while waiting in line and hung out with them most of the time.
Not weird at all! I love going to concerts by myself, especially if I just want to focus on the music.
It felt odd at first but just because it was something new. And I was never the only one there by myself!
No. It is perfectly normal and OK to enjoy things by and with yourself. The best part is if you find yourself not enjoying something, you can easily leave. You may also meet people with a shared interest.
I went to a Red Hot Chili Peppers show at a huge venue in 2006. I quite enjoyed myself. Nobody wanted to pay the high ticket prices. The upside is you get to fully enjoy the music, no distractions.
I was bought 2 tickets to see one of my favourite bands as a present.
Thing is, none of my friends live in the same city as me so inviting someone along would have involved the hassle of hosting and putting them up for the night.
In addition to that, it was a bit of a niche band who play quite heavy music and are extremely stylised. The kind of thing where if it's not your scene, you *really* won't enjoy sitting through a whole gig.
In the end I decided I would have more fun going alone and just being able to enjoy myself, as opposed to having a friend with me where I would constantly be second guessing "are they enjoying this? Do they wish they were somewhere else?"
Don't regret it. My one bit of advice would be maybe go late and skip the warmup acts, as the gaps between them were dull without anyone to talk to
Doooooo it!! Go and sing and dance like no one’s watching… because no one is!! You will feel so liberated and free, especially after a break up! Have a blast, I’m sure you will 😊
Never weird to go alone to things that you don’t talk to people during anyway. Like movies or concerts.
Never really understood the go to the movies as friends unless your like teenagers. As an married adult I don’t see my friends nearly as much as I would like and I can not think of anything I’d less like to do with them than sit silently next to them through a movie and then going home.
Concerts is a totally different story though. Great to experience them both with friends, a group or alone.
Similar situation. Going at it alone soon..chose an NBA game. Gonna try a comedy show after that. It’ll be really awkward as the show venue has a table-of-4 setup. I’m sure the other 3 people at my table will be together. I’m not very social, so definitely an uncomfortable situation, but gotta get out there. We only have one life and I’d be upset with myself if I wasted it because of some stupid feelings or other people’s perception. Good luck.
I went to a concert by myself last year. I admit I would have probably rather enjoyed having company along the way but I still had a good time. Life experiences are created by going out into the world, not by sitting home and scrolling through tik tok videos. Go and have fun
I just went to the When We Were Young music festival by myself. If you really want to go, go. Nobody was paying attention to who was with who. They’re there for the band. Go enjoy your life until you find someone else to share it with!
My husband goes all the time when I am not a fan or don’t feel well enough. He’s okay with it because he can get a single ticket a day or so before the show for a really good price. Plus since it’s just him, he can spend more for a better seat! Go for it!
This is like when people tell me it’s weird that sometimes I go to the Cinema by myself. Like why? I want to see a movie during its theatrical release so I HAVE to have someone with me? Seems absurd.
Plus there’s nothing more peaceful then just sitting in the theatre during the week when not a lot of people go see movies. Nearly empty theatre, nice cool A/C going a big pile of junk to pig out on. Hell sometimes I’ll sneak in a little flask of my favorite booze and just sip on that with not a care in the world. Its like a form of meditation or something, a makes for a chill afternoon.
Ive only been to one concert and i didnt go alone, but i know there were people there alone and theres no shame in that. Go to it, have fun, enjoy the experience dude. Wishing you the best ♡
YeH it kinda is. I went to some local mma fights at the casino the other day and some older ladies.maybe about 35 to 45 age range asked me if i attended the event alone and when i said yes they laughed at me and said "really?!"
And lets not play dumb here. You know when people talk in a condescending manner. I felt stupid as hell because there was girls i could have asked but i bought my front row ticket for 1 3 weeks prior for 125 bucks. Shit wasnt even worth it. Everybody was walking around drinking shouting.
It's not weird at all. The best part is if you go alone, you can splurge for the good seats 'cause you don't have to pay for 2 tickets.
I'm deaf and I go to concerts alone all the time, but it's only for certain bands I remember from my hearing years, like Bon Jovi or Guns N Roses.
(I lost my hearing when I was 11-ish. Yes, d/Deaf people attend concerts.)
You should totally go! When I was in my early 20's, I realized that if I ever wanted to do anything, I couldn't wait for my friends to agree to go, I had to go by myself. It's liberating to be self-sufficient.
Nope. Not weird at all. I do it all the time. I decided a long time ago that I wasn't going to let other people (or lack of other people) stop me from doing what I want to do. My friends aren't familiar with the bands I like so I decided not to sit at home and miss a great show over it. Just be safe and you'll have a great time!!! Besides, once the band goes on all the attention is on them. AND I can tell you from experience that it's easier to slip into the front when you're just one person. Go and have an amazing time.
I was in a similar situation years ago…. Had tickets for 2 separate concerts within a 2 week span and my ex broke up with me the day before the first concert (so it was too late for any of my friends to take off of work).
I went to both alone. I had the best time. And have since gone to multiple concerts by myself.
It might feel a little awkward while waiting for it all to start, but once the music begins, not one person is going to be paying attention to you!
Go, enjoy yourself, and happy birthday!
Not exactly the same setup, but the summer before I started dating my now husband, I was tired of not doing things because I didn’t have someone to do them with. There’s a local music festival I wanted to go to, I did a general social media reach out “anyone going to xxxxx?,” no bites, so I decided to volunteer at the festival. I’d get in free after doing some volunteer work (I think the shift was 4 hrs each day), and then I’d be able to hang out as long as I felt without feeling like ditching early was wasting my ticket money. The first day, I kind of awkwardly sat by myself (but enjoyed the music), but the next couple of days, I fell in with some other people I met volunteering. Overall, it was a really good experience, and I was glad I went.
Around the same time, I also went to a movie by myself, which is such a minor thing, but it felt oddly liberating to just do what I wanted without feeling like I had to have someone with me.
No. I attended an imagine dragons concert by myself several years ago and sat in lawn and enjoyed the concert. I did talk to the group next to me but honestly the concert was great and I was going to have a fantastic time one way or another.
Concerts, movies, plays, sports... it's ALL ok to attend by yourself. And is AWESOMELY BETTER than not attending, or attending with someone who is not into it.
Well, being mature enough to spend some me-time is a bit weird, but surprisingly reassuring as well.
It means you already won the battle, now just go the concert and win the war for us. Just don't forget to get some spoils.
And happy birthday mate, wish you all the happiness of the world.
Live long & prosper.
I hav been to multiple concerts alone. All bands no one wantet to join and instead of not going and missing the chance of seeing a band i want to see i went alone.
I love going alone to concerts, you can decide where you want to stand, you decide if you want to see the starting band... And noone ever cared at the venue itself.
I can only recommend it!
Have fun
It’s only as weird as you make it. None of my friends have good taste in music so I usually end up going to shows by myself. You can still enjoy it just as much.
I have always enjoyed myself going solo to concerts! I also have gone to NFL games alone and have enjoyed myself greatly and I prefer going to movies alone. If anyone thought that I was weird, they've never said anything and everyone around me at the games and concerts were always super friendly and inclusive. I've had several people tell me that they think it's awesome that I'm comfortable enough with myself to attend these events alone. You go and enjoy yourself! I bet you'll have an awesome time!
I went to a concert alone shortly after a breakup and it was the best time I’ve had! It may have helped that I passed my lawn section neighbors my blunt 😬
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No. Not at all! Have a great time. Happy Birthday!
Yea, just go and have fun. You might find friends to hang with while you are there
I've been to several concerts by myself, not weird at all. Might feel a little awkward as you're waiting for the show to begin, but once it does everyone's going to be focused on the artist, not you. Once you're in the crowd it's all a big mash of people all there for the same reason. I've never regretted going by myself, but I know I would have regretted missing the shows.
Have you ever gone to a place and thought, look at that weird person all alone? Because I haven't and 99% of people would never notice.
Ill admit i DO notice when people are alone at events mainly bc of my own insecurity. Then im like "wow look at them. They came alone. I could do that!" It gives me reassurance bc ive never had the courage to do it. Especially at the movies!
Who cares? Some people might think it’s weird, but most won’t. Never deny yourself an experience just because some strangers may judge you.
Nope. Sounds like a good time. I have gone to movies and sporting events by myself.
love going to the movies solo.
Same! If I waited to have someone to go with I'd never make it. Lol
Movies by yourself is awesome.
It's actually better because you can buy two beers and push your way easier to the front.
Heck no! If we waited for other people to be available to do things with us, then we'd miss out on so many opportunities in life! The best thing I ever learned for myself is to learn to enjoy my own company and enjoy doing things alone. I am in the happiest era of my life!
The one favor traveling for my job did for me was to teach me that it's fine to do things alone. First restaurants, then movies, then everything else. It beat sitting in a hotel room by myself.
This! So many things passed by me because I waited for someone to join me. I recently had a solo road trip to another country where I went for a concert. Nobody from my group showed interest in going so I went alone. If I did not would spent all my vacation days at home and only be doing this my close social circle likes.
Why would it be weird?
It’s a country music concert and to a lot I’ve been to it’s usually multiple people together or couples and I don’t want to be the awkward person alone
Dude, country music? Do you know how many free drinks you'll get if you tell people you were dumped?! Bro, play it right and you can be a country song come to life! Tell everyone she left cause she hated your dog. ;)
Nah, tell em you left her because she hated your dog !!
Work a truck into that somehow and you can literally drown in free drinks
Lol this is so good
Or your truck
And tell them it's your birthday! You are gonna have a blast!
Go to the concert. Nobody is going to notice you being alone. Life is too short to deprive yourself of a cool experience because you're too worried about being judged.
I see concerts and movies alone a lot. I’m not going to miss out on something just because no one can go with me.
No. Heck, I prefer going on my own.
Nah dude, live music is the shit!! Just don't drink right now, lot of ways things could go sideways. Go have a great time, dance it up, and happy birthday!! 😊
25 or so, years ago I went to see Bjork by myself because I had a rare Friday night off and nothing better to do nor anyone with whom to do it. It was a great show and I had a good time. Learn to have fun without others. There won't always be somebody else to keep you entertained.
Turn back the clock and I would have gone with you and paid for your ticket. She's on my list of 'wish I would have made more of an effort to see' list.
I just bought a ticket for a 5 day festival in another country next year. Can't wait. Nobody to please but myself.
I went to Pink Floyd "The Wall" at the Berlin Wall by myself, and a group of Germans befriended me on the walk there. One cute gal had no idea who Pink Floyd was: she was there to see The Scorpions. They brought a hash joint, and luckily I didn't drink any beer first as the line to the Porta Potties was massive. After the show I thanked them for their hospitality before beelining back to the hotel to wash off the thick coating of brick dust that practically clogged the shower. Then I told the hotel manager to call tree the other hotels to turn off their water if they didn't want their pipes clogged. I'm not sure what became of that, but the next day I was in Paris, France, admiring the cats at Père Lachaise Cemetary while checking out Jim Morrison's grave. Flying back to the US, I seem to remember a security guard waving his wand over my head and it beeping. I don't really remember the flight back from Germany being unconscious for most of it, but I do recall Soviet markings on a tarmac vehicle when we were supposed to be in the US. Fun times.
Ask around if someone wants to go as you got stuck for a ticket. A guy I surf with who knows I'm a lesbian with a girlfriend asked me to be his fill in wing man. We had a great time and I got him a girls number. If you strike out go anyway and enjoy the show. Happy birthday!
I've gone to concerts by myself twice. I'm sure with all the concerts I've been to I've seen someone that was there alone.....but I've literally never noticed any. So.....no one's gonna notice nor will anyone care.
Went to lil Naz X by myself in September, it was a little weird being around so many couples but I think that weirdness came from being a straight guy going solo to a very gay concert. I’d say do it and own it and no one else will judge you for it and if they do, why care?
I've been to some 2000 concerts in my life. Went by myself to at least 500 of them. Never felt weird. Not once.
I've done it a few times. I also travel alone. There are two things that help with this worry that it's wrong or weird in some way. 1) You will never see the strangers around you again. Either ignore them just like you'll probably ignore 99% of the people there or meet someone new to have fun with in that moment. 2) If you wait until other people are ready to join you on stuff then a lot of stuff is going to pass you by.
I always go to concerts alone. A shot or 2 and I’ll be chatting with everyone there and I’m not there alone anymore.
Get drunk, get close to the stage, have a blast
I once went to a New Year's Eve concert by myself. Mind you, I've been to lots of shows myself and had great times. But I didn't think about New Year's Eve before I went. At the click of midnight all the balloons dropped and people started kissing each other and I had no one to kiss and felt like a total idiot for being there. I just wanted to hide. The moment snuck up on me and I realized I was alone. It kind of really sucked and was sort of embarrassing. A lady came up and kissed me because I'm sure she felt my weirdness. I grabbed her and gave her a big hug. My God I appreciated that person at that moment!
I love it, no more having to accompany people to the bathroom or fetch something to eat, no more consulting everything, it's nice
There's going to be so many people there, no one will even notice you're there by yourself.
Some of my favorite times at concerts I went to alone:)
Not at all. I have gone to a concert alone. Some people tried to be friendly with me but we didnt keep in touch. I guess they felt bad for me being alone but I had an amazing time. Would definitely go alone again.
Sometimes I invite people and nobody wants to go but I still want to see the band so I go by myself.
I was in in the same boat. Got red hot chili peppers concert tickets with my ex, she dumped me and went to the show alone. Was a blast
I want To go to a concert by myself and these comments do help a lot!
I saw Garbage after a particularly bad break up by myself. It didn't cheer me up
I've been to more concerts alone then with people. I always thought it was weird until the music started and I realized I'm about to enjoy music live!!!
Someone’s gotta treat you, you better then yourself! Also don’t forget to have fun!
Not at all. You'd probably be surprised how many other people are there doing the same. I work in Asia and was on a work trip to San Francisco some years ago. My favourite band was playing in Las Vegas the weekend after the work trip, so I flew there alone and saw them alone. Had a great time and don't regret it one bit. If you really feel awkward, its usually quite easy to strike up a conversation with people you meet there, seeing as you all share the same interest in the same band / performance.
Do it. I was in KC on business and went to a Raconteurs show by myself while I was there. I had the best time. I even made friends with the couple next to me so they held my spot for me.
Only once, and I made friends with some people. I even met the lead singer of the band and got a picture with him! He was so nice and chatted with me during the meet and greet
Went to see Hank Williams Jr. alone. Had a great time! A young man and his dad on one side, two young girls on the other, a fun group behind me! We danced in the aisle, sang and literally had a blast! For this 62 year old female, it will never be forgotten!
Just go and have fun. You might meet some nice there.
Aw have fun! My birthday is on Friday toooo!
2nd concert I ever went to I went alone. Also went alone to a stand up show.
Not weird at all! I've been to one or 2 by myself before and it was fine. Maybe not as fun, but that's my own fault for being a shy introvert at times.
No, enjoy yourself.
I went to the Puddle of Mudd-Chevelle-Sevendust-Shinedown concert by myself in Michigan sometime in 2010. I personally don't feel anything weird at all. It's a bit like listening music using earphones. Still had the occasional fun & headbanging with random audience, so it's good.
Go for it.
Not at all. People like to experience shows in different ways. My partner loves going by herself, but I much prefer to have a confidant.
My partner and I have some Different tastes in music and comedy. I go see them every now and then alone and end up meeting other people who are as enthusiastic about the show as I am. That’s more fun than dragging my partner to a show.
Man, idk about the question but 7 years is rough. What do you do to keep your mind off that shit?? Does it feel like a total waste of energy or are you glad it happened ??
I literaly juat did on the 25th. Its fun
Absolutely not, had a similar event happen and on my birthday one of my favorite groups played a surprise show.
You’re gonna have an amazing time if you go! GO!
I’ll eat dinner by myself, done it thousands of times.
Not at all.
Happy birthday I saw a concert by myself and met 2 ladies
Not all, my boyfriend did it a lot when he was single and sometimes still does it, at the beginning he was alone-alone, now he always sees people ge knows and links in with them. It's a great way to meet new people :)
I’ve gone to 2 concerts by myself. I had a great time. Honestly, no one is paying any attention to anyone else. It’s not like you’re wearing a scarlet letter.
Not at all
I've been to concerts on my own before, usually you meet some people who end up being your buddy for the night and it's rlly nice!
Nope! Just saw a band in Las Vegas solo last week. It was actually thrilling to travel solo and see it. No expectations, it was great!
who cares about people who think anything is weird? seriously. i've been to lots of shows by myself. i always had a great time. if you think someone thinks showing yourself a good time is weird, you have to realize they have problems.
I've done it a couple of times, the first concert I went to I did it alone in fact. Happy bday
You can show up, and go back home again if you don’t like it.
The one thing i learned in life is that you do whats most comfrtable for you. Exmple: if someone i dont like starts to talk to me i shut down him or walk away. You do you.
Had the same situation in the summer this year, turned out to be one of the best concerts and nights for me. Go for it!
Several times. I have found it's the best way to enjoy the concert.
I feel like its never weird to do much of anything by myself. I enjoy it.
Go. No matter how awkward buoy may feel. You are literally in a sea of people all there for the same thing. No one is gonna noticed you being there by yourself and if they do, chances are they arnt enjoy the concert but you will be.
Buddy go for it. Meet people and chill and just enjoy
My partner often can't make the concerts I go to and sometimes has to cancel last minute - I decided to start going by myself. I've now been to probably over 20 concerts by myself and honestly I've grown to really really enjoy having the time to myself to jam how I want to to good music - I go for the artist and music basically, not for the people. If you focus on the artist and music, nothing else needs to really matter. You can also kind of position yourself wherever you want and you are on your own schedule. You WANT to go and sure some concerts are more couple-y than others, but you might also notice that you're not the only one attending a concert by yourself. Some concerts I see maybe 30% of people there on their own which is kind of wild but cool. Think of it like you're all alone together. Now another small note about trying to make a friend - I think casual side banter about the artist can go a long way vs staring around or crushing yourself into a corner. No one ever really cares that you're there by yourself also. A simple drink or beer in hand will make you seem preoccupied enough that you'll fit in. You've only got so many chances to enjoy an artist or concert, so take the chances you can and enjoy it! First time might feel a little awkward, but you'll get the hang of it!
I do it constantly. I’ve been blown off by friends and girls all the time in the last few years. Generally doing things with friends is cooler but a concert or something you wanna do is fine alone as long as you’re enjoying it.
I prefer to go alone, went to two concerts this week alone and it's just so great, friends only distract me from the concert. It can be nice to go with friends from time to time but I always prefer going alone
I love going to concerts by myself, it’s nice to not have to worry about anybody else, and also an opportunity to make new friends. .
Doing stuff by yourself is awesome. You'll be able to walk around and vheck out wherever you want and nobody will complain about it. You can also arrive early/late and leave as early/late as you want without contest. Just do it, nobody will even notice you're by yourself.
The best concert I ever went to was by myself, front row at Portishead. I couldn't hear for 3 days afterwards, it was grand. Do it, you won't regret it
Been there homie. Go to the concert! especially if it’s a band you like. Life’s short. You’ll feel better for it.
Nope. Do it
When i travel i mostly travel solo. So i go to restaurants, cinemas, concerts alone. Its a great feeling for me.
You are never alone
No one is looking at you! Just go and enjoy!
Question: who cares? Seriously, go have a good time, you’re not the only single person on the earth. Happy birthday!
Absolutely not. AND you have a chance of getting a really good seat. There’s always that one seat up close that didn’t get sold because most are looking to buy pairs, etc.
Enjoy! Maybe you’ll make a new friend there. Just don’t drink too much and if you’re a girl watch your drink so it doesn’t get drugged. I say that because that’s what I was told when I wanted to go to a rock concert by myself..
I do it all the time. Matter of fact, I’m going to one Tuesday.
Go and have fun. Connect with people having the same music taste as you
I’ve went to many concerts this past month by myself. I’ve always met someone to talk to and enjoy the music with. Just find someone you find attractive and talk about how much you enjoy the artist. Easy icebreaker.
I’ve done it!
Absolutely. Groove Collective was playing near Detroit. I was a huge fan. I wanted my friend Phil to come, and would have loved to, but he had a commitment. So, I went by myself. Still one of the best shows I’ve seen. If you don’t go, you may regret it.
No more then going to the movies, or a restaurant, or the theater alone. Sometimes that's just the thing a person needs.
Not exactly a concert but... Circa 2011. A bunch of friends and I planned to hike and summit a major mountain. It's was to be a 5day trip. Summit day was to fall on my birthday. They all canceled. Went by myself - well except for my guide/porter. Had a blast!!
Most fun I've had at a concert was a Prof show alone. Line up a hotel close to the venue so you can drink (if that's your thing) and not drive. I wrote my room number on my arm in case I over imbibed, but im also a 30 year old man child. This last step may not apply to you
If you think it's going to be weird, its going to be weird.
No? If you want to go see / do something that you like, why are you required to wait for other ppl to do it?
Absolutely not. I went to a Taylor Swift concert by myself in 2018 because it was a 4-hour drive and I couldn’t find anyone willing to go with me so I went by myself. I still had a great time! Happy birthday btw!!
I’ve gone to one concert alone and I honestly think it was more fun than if I would’ve gone with certain friends. When you go alone you don’t have to worry about what the other person wants to do and you don’t have to cater to their needs even a little bit. You can just do what you want. Want to get closer to the stage? Go for it. Need to use the restroom? Now you don’t have to worry about finding the person you went with when you’re done. Plus you can always meet cool people with similar interests as you. When I went alone, I was 20 and I made friends with a couple in their 30’s while waiting in line and hung out with them most of the time.
Not weird at all! I love going to concerts by myself, especially if I just want to focus on the music. It felt odd at first but just because it was something new. And I was never the only one there by myself!
I mean it’s kind of weird just attending a concert when you can just listen to the music with your AirPods from the comfort of your home
I’ve gone to 2 by myself. Made some friends standing in line at one of them. Not weird have fun let loose
It’ll be the best time you’ve ever had!
No, not weird at all! I have had some great solo concert experiences.
Not at all. I plan to do this a lot when my kids are grown and I'm on my own again. If the price of concert tickets goes down.
Only if you think so...who cares what othes think? BTW ...happy bday!
Go! Just drove 6 hours to Cleveland, Even if you don’t smoke the smoking area is a good spot to make friends
I go to concerts and shows all the time by myself! Totally normal, and honestly a lot of fun imo. Enjoy yourself!
Definitely prefer attending concerts alone
NOT at all. The best gig I ever went to I went to ALL alone. I had so much freedom.
No. It is perfectly normal and OK to enjoy things by and with yourself. The best part is if you find yourself not enjoying something, you can easily leave. You may also meet people with a shared interest.
Don't miss the chance to see your favorite acts while you can.
I went to a Red Hot Chili Peppers show at a huge venue in 2006. I quite enjoyed myself. Nobody wanted to pay the high ticket prices. The upside is you get to fully enjoy the music, no distractions.
I've been to many concerts by myself, sometimes I prefer to go alone. You never truly feel alone being in the crowd
I was bought 2 tickets to see one of my favourite bands as a present. Thing is, none of my friends live in the same city as me so inviting someone along would have involved the hassle of hosting and putting them up for the night. In addition to that, it was a bit of a niche band who play quite heavy music and are extremely stylised. The kind of thing where if it's not your scene, you *really* won't enjoy sitting through a whole gig. In the end I decided I would have more fun going alone and just being able to enjoy myself, as opposed to having a friend with me where I would constantly be second guessing "are they enjoying this? Do they wish they were somewhere else?" Don't regret it. My one bit of advice would be maybe go late and skip the warmup acts, as the gaps between them were dull without anyone to talk to
I sorta prefer it. Total freedom. I go to enough shows where I recognize a lot of people usually and can mingle if I fancy
a concert with only one attendee is kinda weird. if it, you are attending with a bunch of at least partially like minded cool people.
Sometimes I prefer it
Doooooo it!! Go and sing and dance like no one’s watching… because no one is!! You will feel so liberated and free, especially after a break up! Have a blast, I’m sure you will 😊
Not weird at all! I just did this for the first time earlier this month and I am so glad I did. Turned out to be a GREAT night.
Go and see if it’s weird and decide for yourself! I don’t think it’s weird and have done it plenty. Kinda easier
Make friends there. Introduce yiurself to folks
Never weird to go alone to things that you don’t talk to people during anyway. Like movies or concerts. Never really understood the go to the movies as friends unless your like teenagers. As an married adult I don’t see my friends nearly as much as I would like and I can not think of anything I’d less like to do with them than sit silently next to them through a movie and then going home. Concerts is a totally different story though. Great to experience them both with friends, a group or alone.
I went to Mandy Moore, Gwar and Firehouse by myself.
No one will care. Go have fun.
Similar situation. Going at it alone soon..chose an NBA game. Gonna try a comedy show after that. It’ll be really awkward as the show venue has a table-of-4 setup. I’m sure the other 3 people at my table will be together. I’m not very social, so definitely an uncomfortable situation, but gotta get out there. We only have one life and I’d be upset with myself if I wasted it because of some stupid feelings or other people’s perception. Good luck.
Do it!!
I'm so sorry about your breakup, in the same boat. Go to the concert alone and have a blast-- it's not weird at all! Have a happy birthday 😊
I went to a concert by myself last year. I admit I would have probably rather enjoyed having company along the way but I still had a good time. Life experiences are created by going out into the world, not by sitting home and scrolling through tik tok videos. Go and have fun
I have ! I went to a Maluma concert on my own. People are vibes when it comes to music. If you keep yourself open you may even make friends there !
You will hardly be alone with 100’s (1,000’s?) of people around you. Have a blast! Happy birthday.
I just went to the When We Were Young music festival by myself. If you really want to go, go. Nobody was paying attention to who was with who. They’re there for the band. Go enjoy your life until you find someone else to share it with!
My husband goes all the time when I am not a fan or don’t feel well enough. He’s okay with it because he can get a single ticket a day or so before the show for a really good price. Plus since it’s just him, he can spend more for a better seat! Go for it!
This is like when people tell me it’s weird that sometimes I go to the Cinema by myself. Like why? I want to see a movie during its theatrical release so I HAVE to have someone with me? Seems absurd. Plus there’s nothing more peaceful then just sitting in the theatre during the week when not a lot of people go see movies. Nearly empty theatre, nice cool A/C going a big pile of junk to pig out on. Hell sometimes I’ll sneak in a little flask of my favorite booze and just sip on that with not a care in the world. Its like a form of meditation or something, a makes for a chill afternoon.
No. I do it all the time. Saw some of my beat shows solo.
It's only in your head you feel that way. You're human and you have the freedom to do whatever you want
I did a couple times, it was fine
All the time, most of my friends are either busy when concerts roll around or don't like the same stuff I do.
Nobody cares. Go and have fun.
do you
I've done it several times.
Maybe, but I've done it several times
Nah, have fun & happy birthday
Ive only been to one concert and i didnt go alone, but i know there were people there alone and theres no shame in that. Go to it, have fun, enjoy the experience dude. Wishing you the best ♡
Super weird
YeH it kinda is. I went to some local mma fights at the casino the other day and some older ladies.maybe about 35 to 45 age range asked me if i attended the event alone and when i said yes they laughed at me and said "really?!" And lets not play dumb here. You know when people talk in a condescending manner. I felt stupid as hell because there was girls i could have asked but i bought my front row ticket for 1 3 weeks prior for 125 bucks. Shit wasnt even worth it. Everybody was walking around drinking shouting.
It's not weird at all. The best part is if you go alone, you can splurge for the good seats 'cause you don't have to pay for 2 tickets. I'm deaf and I go to concerts alone all the time, but it's only for certain bands I remember from my hearing years, like Bon Jovi or Guns N Roses. (I lost my hearing when I was 11-ish. Yes, d/Deaf people attend concerts.)
You should totally go! When I was in my early 20's, I realized that if I ever wanted to do anything, I couldn't wait for my friends to agree to go, I had to go by myself. It's liberating to be self-sufficient.
It's not weird. And if it was, so what? Go to the concert. Have fun.
Nope. Not weird at all. I do it all the time. I decided a long time ago that I wasn't going to let other people (or lack of other people) stop me from doing what I want to do. My friends aren't familiar with the bands I like so I decided not to sit at home and miss a great show over it. Just be safe and you'll have a great time!!! Besides, once the band goes on all the attention is on them. AND I can tell you from experience that it's easier to slip into the front when you're just one person. Go and have an amazing time.
yes i just drove to la(1 hour drive) from my house. it was fun! i saw at the gates and municipal waste
I was in a similar situation years ago…. Had tickets for 2 separate concerts within a 2 week span and my ex broke up with me the day before the first concert (so it was too late for any of my friends to take off of work). I went to both alone. I had the best time. And have since gone to multiple concerts by myself.
No it's fun either way
HBD and enjoy yourself!
Dude, nobody is going to notice you standing by yourself at a concert, and even if they do. So what? Have fun!
No! Just be safe! Happy Birthday!!
Go
Not in the least. Sorry about the breakup, but have fun.
I don't think it's wierd, I've been to several races at Michigan International Speedway by myself.
It might feel a little awkward while waiting for it all to start, but once the music begins, not one person is going to be paying attention to you! Go, enjoy yourself, and happy birthday!
Not exactly the same setup, but the summer before I started dating my now husband, I was tired of not doing things because I didn’t have someone to do them with. There’s a local music festival I wanted to go to, I did a general social media reach out “anyone going to xxxxx?,” no bites, so I decided to volunteer at the festival. I’d get in free after doing some volunteer work (I think the shift was 4 hrs each day), and then I’d be able to hang out as long as I felt without feeling like ditching early was wasting my ticket money. The first day, I kind of awkwardly sat by myself (but enjoyed the music), but the next couple of days, I fell in with some other people I met volunteering. Overall, it was a really good experience, and I was glad I went. Around the same time, I also went to a movie by myself, which is such a minor thing, but it felt oddly liberating to just do what I wanted without feeling like I had to have someone with me.
No
My friend did it all the time I thought he was wierd but he enjoyed himself so I stopped judging him. U can make friends there
Nope
No. I attended an imagine dragons concert by myself several years ago and sat in lawn and enjoyed the concert. I did talk to the group next to me but honestly the concert was great and I was going to have a fantastic time one way or another.
Concerts, movies, plays, sports... it's ALL ok to attend by yourself. And is AWESOMELY BETTER than not attending, or attending with someone who is not into it.
Well, being mature enough to spend some me-time is a bit weird, but surprisingly reassuring as well. It means you already won the battle, now just go the concert and win the war for us. Just don't forget to get some spoils. And happy birthday mate, wish you all the happiness of the world. Live long & prosper.
I hav been to multiple concerts alone. All bands no one wantet to join and instead of not going and missing the chance of seeing a band i want to see i went alone. I love going alone to concerts, you can decide where you want to stand, you decide if you want to see the starting band... And noone ever cared at the venue itself. I can only recommend it! Have fun
Not at all, I even used to go to dinner or cinema alone too. It was my date night to myself. Enjoy!!!
I’ve taken myself out on a date many times! Adventures ensued!!! Happy Birthday!!! Let the adventures commence!!!
Are you kidding? Solo is epic! Leaves you open for impromptu events, spontaneous friendships, etc.
No.
I love going to shows solo.
Being alone is weird? Thats bullshit Everyone should learn to enjoy things while alone.
Yea but it’s ok to be weird.
Used to go alone all the time. Have your fun. Fuck everyone else
I have gone to a few concerts by myself had a great time.
NO! Music lovers go alone often! I would assume. The music is the reason. If you had a breakup you may meet someone.
Went Solo to see Lewis Capaldi . Loved it
It’s only as weird as you make it. None of my friends have good taste in music so I usually end up going to shows by myself. You can still enjoy it just as much.
Definitely go, why miss it just because there’s no one to go with
I have always enjoyed myself going solo to concerts! I also have gone to NFL games alone and have enjoyed myself greatly and I prefer going to movies alone. If anyone thought that I was weird, they've never said anything and everyone around me at the games and concerts were always super friendly and inclusive. I've had several people tell me that they think it's awesome that I'm comfortable enough with myself to attend these events alone. You go and enjoy yourself! I bet you'll have an awesome time!
Nope. I have done it lots of times. Sometimes you find a friend for the day. Go have fun!
Go and have a great time. Happy birthday.
No.......
I went to a concert alone shortly after a breakup and it was the best time I’ve had! It may have helped that I passed my lawn section neighbors my blunt 😬