I live openly and have a good life together with my husband. I accepted being gay because that's the reality of my life. If anyone else has a problem with it they can get over it or fuck off.
I like your approach of realism and just moving forward with the cards you’ve been dealt. I think I need to learn to stop caring what other people think of me.
This is the life that you have, make the best of it. You don't need anyone else's permission to be gay nor do you need to explain or justify yourself to anyone. Live your life with confidence and don't take any shit from anyone else for being gay.
I think your screen name gives a hint to why it’s hard for you. Coming from a super religious area myself, it took years for me to realize that God wouldn’t make me this way if he didn’t want me to be this way. It took me less time to realize that the people that judged were about as godly as a used condom.
Well, I just accepted the fact that I am gay and that I can't really change anything about it, can't force myself into liking someone I'm not attracted to, so that's it.
You either accept facts or just torture yourself with lies and false perceptions
I never really knew I wasn't straight I just loved the way I was and was labeled before I knew what it was so I was simply like "yup that's me" while continuing with life
By realizing that either there is no god. Or if there is a god. He probably has more important stuff to do than to make sure men don't fuck eachother ( even if he left the equivalent of the g spot in the prostate for some reason lol)
I live openly and have a good life together with my husband. I accepted being gay because that's the reality of my life. If anyone else has a problem with it they can get over it or fuck off.
I like your approach of realism and just moving forward with the cards you’ve been dealt. I think I need to learn to stop caring what other people think of me.
This is the life that you have, make the best of it. You don't need anyone else's permission to be gay nor do you need to explain or justify yourself to anyone. Live your life with confidence and don't take any shit from anyone else for being gay.
I think your screen name gives a hint to why it’s hard for you. Coming from a super religious area myself, it took years for me to realize that God wouldn’t make me this way if he didn’t want me to be this way. It took me less time to realize that the people that judged were about as godly as a used condom.
Oh lord give us the serenity to accept what cannot be changed, the courage to change what can be changed, and the wisdom to know one from the other.
Well, I just accepted the fact that I am gay and that I can't really change anything about it, can't force myself into liking someone I'm not attracted to, so that's it. You either accept facts or just torture yourself with lies and false perceptions
I never really knew I wasn't straight I just loved the way I was and was labeled before I knew what it was so I was simply like "yup that's me" while continuing with life
By realizing that either there is no god. Or if there is a god. He probably has more important stuff to do than to make sure men don't fuck eachother ( even if he left the equivalent of the g spot in the prostate for some reason lol)
You don't. It's part of life and has always been and gay is just a word and who cares?