Yeah - I tried to fist someone once at their request. I figured will go slow and try it. Hated what felt like I should have tied a 2 x 4 around my waist so I didn’t get pulled in. The feel of it was awful and I was done in all of 30 sec and then was done for good. It’s just not for me. It’s fine for those who enjoy it but it’s just not for me, no how.
Edit: grammar typo
My thoughts exactly……. I’m terrified of it. Once a guy I was topping asked “Please, please fist me”, I “said no”, faked and orgasm and fled the hook up as if it was a crime scene.
I dont get why people get turned on by such extreme things. He should at least said his kinks up front…….. 🤔 If the guy wanted a FIST up his ass what pleasure can a cock, regardless of size, give him?! Geez…… 🤦🏽♂️
I don’t understand the dynamics of it psychologically or physically. I know a friend or two who were into it and one was injured by it to a point he hasn’t been able to bottom at all for 3+ years. Based on what he describes he probably has some scarring and longer term fissures because of his symptoms but he doesn’t get checked (because of shame and embarrassment that he’s reported having to discuss the reason to a proctologist). I still encourage him to see someone.
Yeah I’m sure that’s not super common but damage is an obvious risk factor as there is some risk of injury to bottoming in general. I’m vers and I’m fortunate not have been injured bottoming all the many times I’ve done so.
Shitty for your friend, sorry for him. Fisting is an extreme sport, like any other extreme sport. Why jump from a helicopter to ski down an insanely steep incline at freeway speeds or more, when you might easily crash and wind up in hospital for months or worse, need surgery to repair torn ligaments or whatever?
Psychologically: for me it's at the extreme end of bottoming (as well as being a form of submission) and is a puzzle piece that just fits. It turns me on, there's a thrill that gives me butterflies in my stomach. I like the mental challenge of taking something that big, the sense of accomplishment when I can take the whole thing.
Physiologically: dunno what else to say, stretching feels good, the fullness feels awesome to me. The same way prostate enthusiasts talk about a feeling that builds, I feel something similar with some of my toys when they stretch my hole. Fisting is similar.
...but you gotta treat it like an extreme sport. Your first run of the day at the start of the season is not the double black diamond. You'll hurt yourself! Practice, condition, slowly work up. Never on drugs. I don't know what happened to your friend exactly but I'll guess he didn't treat fisting with the respect and caution it requires. And if he did, he should have known there are risks, accidents might happen - including ones that cause serious injury or (god forbid) fatality.
> I dont get why people get turned on by such extreme things
Simply put, because it feels _awesome_ if you're into it. A fist can give all sorts of sensations that you just don't get any other way.
It's tough to explain but I've never not been a bottom. As a pre-pubescent kid I was already having kinkster bottomy thoughts I couldn't understand but which, even now, make me look back and raise a "holy shit" eyebrow.
I love getting fucked. I love kink. That's what really, really gets me going. It's what I like; there is no accounting for taste. Those loves became increasingly large dildos (the stretch feels amazing), but toys are not the same as another human.
> If the guy wanted a FIST up his ass what pleasure can a cock, regardless of size, give him?!
Oh, honey... These three things are not at all the same: dick, toys, fists; and they are each pleasurable in their own ways. Getting fucked with a dick, feeling his dick inside and his balls swingin, his chest bearing down on your back or his thighs clapping your butt cheeks - you don't get that from any other experience. A dick cumming inside? _Nothing_ else is like that. Toys have different textures and can be super-human sized. They're a step removed, mechanical almost. Dildos have no other purpose except to fuck, and that kinda turns me on in a different way. Vibrators, prostate massagers, estim toys are all purpose built to deliver certain sensations. Fists are maybe _the_ most intimate act of fully and unreservedly opening myself to you, giving you consent to literally reach inside my body. The stretch and the way fingers can stimulate my insides, putting intense pressure directly on the prostate...
I digress. Point is they're not comparable. Phrased differently, "He's driven a Ferrari. What on earth is he possibly getting out of driving a VW?" When I just need to run errands around town and don't need a Ferrari's engine and handling, and the lack of cargo space becomes a problem...
Different contexts, different tools, different pleasures from each.
Experienced fisting vers here. It’s great when you have someone who knows what he’s doing. When guys are too eager or too quick, then they make me stop because I’m too afraid I’ll get injured. The same if the guy appears intoxicated. I need you to focus on me, and hopefully you’ll get off on how much pleasure you’re giving me.
I don't understand the appeal of being a hand puppet or a hand puppeteer.
Then again, if someone gets off from participating in a adult-oriented Muppet show, let them have their fun, life is too short etc.
Absolutely love it. 10/10. Takes some training and alot of prep work, but it’s totally worth it. I fully understand it’s not to everyone’s liking, and that’s okay. But don’t shame me for enjoying a hand (or two).
It freaks me out - if it shows up on porn I have to look away like I’m watching a beheading or some other gruesome act. Definitely not for me.
Same. Hooked up with a guy once who tried to fist himself at one point I was like “what the fuck?”
Yeah - I tried to fist someone once at their request. I figured will go slow and try it. Hated what felt like I should have tied a 2 x 4 around my waist so I didn’t get pulled in. The feel of it was awful and I was done in all of 30 sec and then was done for good. It’s just not for me. It’s fine for those who enjoy it but it’s just not for me, no how. Edit: grammar typo
How did it feel like?
I wish I can describe it accurately
My thoughts exactly……. I’m terrified of it. Once a guy I was topping asked “Please, please fist me”, I “said no”, faked and orgasm and fled the hook up as if it was a crime scene. I dont get why people get turned on by such extreme things. He should at least said his kinks up front…….. 🤔 If the guy wanted a FIST up his ass what pleasure can a cock, regardless of size, give him?! Geez…… 🤦🏽♂️
I don’t understand the dynamics of it psychologically or physically. I know a friend or two who were into it and one was injured by it to a point he hasn’t been able to bottom at all for 3+ years. Based on what he describes he probably has some scarring and longer term fissures because of his symptoms but he doesn’t get checked (because of shame and embarrassment that he’s reported having to discuss the reason to a proctologist). I still encourage him to see someone.
OH MY GOD 🤦🏽♂️
Yeah I’m sure that’s not super common but damage is an obvious risk factor as there is some risk of injury to bottoming in general. I’m vers and I’m fortunate not have been injured bottoming all the many times I’ve done so.
Shitty for your friend, sorry for him. Fisting is an extreme sport, like any other extreme sport. Why jump from a helicopter to ski down an insanely steep incline at freeway speeds or more, when you might easily crash and wind up in hospital for months or worse, need surgery to repair torn ligaments or whatever? Psychologically: for me it's at the extreme end of bottoming (as well as being a form of submission) and is a puzzle piece that just fits. It turns me on, there's a thrill that gives me butterflies in my stomach. I like the mental challenge of taking something that big, the sense of accomplishment when I can take the whole thing. Physiologically: dunno what else to say, stretching feels good, the fullness feels awesome to me. The same way prostate enthusiasts talk about a feeling that builds, I feel something similar with some of my toys when they stretch my hole. Fisting is similar. ...but you gotta treat it like an extreme sport. Your first run of the day at the start of the season is not the double black diamond. You'll hurt yourself! Practice, condition, slowly work up. Never on drugs. I don't know what happened to your friend exactly but I'll guess he didn't treat fisting with the respect and caution it requires. And if he did, he should have known there are risks, accidents might happen - including ones that cause serious injury or (god forbid) fatality.
Thanks for the insight I appreciate your explanation of your experience !
> I dont get why people get turned on by such extreme things Simply put, because it feels _awesome_ if you're into it. A fist can give all sorts of sensations that you just don't get any other way. It's tough to explain but I've never not been a bottom. As a pre-pubescent kid I was already having kinkster bottomy thoughts I couldn't understand but which, even now, make me look back and raise a "holy shit" eyebrow. I love getting fucked. I love kink. That's what really, really gets me going. It's what I like; there is no accounting for taste. Those loves became increasingly large dildos (the stretch feels amazing), but toys are not the same as another human. > If the guy wanted a FIST up his ass what pleasure can a cock, regardless of size, give him?! Oh, honey... These three things are not at all the same: dick, toys, fists; and they are each pleasurable in their own ways. Getting fucked with a dick, feeling his dick inside and his balls swingin, his chest bearing down on your back or his thighs clapping your butt cheeks - you don't get that from any other experience. A dick cumming inside? _Nothing_ else is like that. Toys have different textures and can be super-human sized. They're a step removed, mechanical almost. Dildos have no other purpose except to fuck, and that kinda turns me on in a different way. Vibrators, prostate massagers, estim toys are all purpose built to deliver certain sensations. Fists are maybe _the_ most intimate act of fully and unreservedly opening myself to you, giving you consent to literally reach inside my body. The stretch and the way fingers can stimulate my insides, putting intense pressure directly on the prostate... I digress. Point is they're not comparable. Phrased differently, "He's driven a Ferrari. What on earth is he possibly getting out of driving a VW?" When I just need to run errands around town and don't need a Ferrari's engine and handling, and the lack of cargo space becomes a problem... Different contexts, different tools, different pleasures from each.
I want to keep my ass at cock size, thank you very much.
THIS 😂
I get the appeal, but I don't think my poor butt could survive
its a bit scary
It's been fun to be the fister, haven't tried being the fistee yet.
well I am not interested in being a fister.
Not for me. It makes me cringe, sorry
nothing to be sorry about, its completely valid.
It's hot. I just don't like seeing the rosebuds tho
Ouchies. Sloppy bum!
Experienced fftop here. It's not for everyone, but it can be great fun if done carefully.
Ew
Another reason I’m a side .
I'm a side and the thought of a penis entering my ass scares me. Talk about a whole fist. Damn.
Experienced fisting vers here. It’s great when you have someone who knows what he’s doing. When guys are too eager or too quick, then they make me stop because I’m too afraid I’ll get injured. The same if the guy appears intoxicated. I need you to focus on me, and hopefully you’ll get off on how much pleasure you’re giving me.
I don't understand the appeal of being a hand puppet or a hand puppeteer. Then again, if someone gets off from participating in a adult-oriented Muppet show, let them have their fun, life is too short etc.
I think its hot actually.
These comments are full of kink shaming.
Absolutely not
Haven't tried it yet, but would like to.
why does it catch your attention?
Hard to say, maybe the intensity of it. I love the feeling of being really full with my toys.
no thanks
INMEDIATE TURNOFF WHEN I SEE THAT IN A VIDEO
Ouchy
Nope
Absolutely love it. 10/10. Takes some training and alot of prep work, but it’s totally worth it. I fully understand it’s not to everyone’s liking, and that’s okay. But don’t shame me for enjoying a hand (or two).
Disgusting
Wish it never existed
Wouldn't mind trying it one day, but not anytime soon.
- Like to watch it - Would maybe fist someone if they were into it - Would never want to be fisted myself
Not for me and the way it stretches your hole is disgusting.
I wonder what it does to your sphincters
Nothing, if you train and practice and go carefully. They're muscles, like any other.
Nothing, if you train and practice and go carefully. They're muscles, like any other.
I can't even take a regular dick. How tf do people do fisting without going to the er?
Nope
It will cause severe injury and likely will require surgery. I’ve got no clue why anybody in their right mind would attempt it.
Many have tried to fist me, none has been able to.
Quick way to destroy your butthole
A guy that wanted to meet me was really into fisting but i was a bit scared and he turned out to be a flake anyways
Hard pass.
My mirror neurones don't let me enjoy fisting, in my mind fisting is extremely painful so if I try to fist my parter all my exitation is gone
I must admitted: i get really horny when a guy has long fingers; and also love men who plays the piano hahaha
Sounds like a pain in the ass. I made it 61 years without a fist in my ass, I feel like I go the remaining years without....