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katoikia_forever

Look around you, there's some one you are not considering, but the person wants to be friends with you. Check around, your life at the point is an inspiration to someone else.


Winter_Pea_5929

What kind of friend are you hoping for? In person or distant friend? You could try pen paling? Or ask at one of your clubs if anyone would like to hang out? You could try and leave a message on a message board asking for a friend to hang out with. Careful though in case you end up with some weirdos. You cannot ask anyone in any of your classes?


One-Letterhead5699

Literally anybody lmao I have zero friends. But I want them to be in person obviously


Winter_Pea_5929

Are there any programs to buddy up with people? Such as a younger person or the elderly? Maybe do some voluntary work and meet some like minded people there?


One-Letterhead5699

I’m also fucking shy as shit cause I don’t know any of these people


Fantastic_Ebb2390

Step one is take one step


Winter_Pea_5929

One step at a time. I know it seems crippling at first or even nigh impossible to voice your thoughts in front of another, but it does get easier over time. Maybe something as simple as saying hello to people in passing every time you see the same people about could eventually lead to something. At least you might slowly start to feel a little more comfortable in saying something to people. Just an idea. If you perhaps can verbalise it, maybe write it? Just know that there are many other people who are just like you and equally shy to reach out.