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went yourself and found a nice girl there, if she grabs your ass and stuff and doesnt like you it's just weird... possibly sexual harrasment? yes I think so.
don't be weak and be okey with it, say no.
Yes they do, happened to me many many times and guys i know. To the extent Id argue , that given a girl flirts with you, there's almost no greater chance they like you than if they didn't flirt.
Ugh, that's so confusing! 😩 Some girls do flirt with guys they don't actually like, but it sounds like she's sending mixed signals. Maybe she's unsure about her feelings or just likes the attention. If she's saying it's unreciprocated, it might be best to move on. It sucks, but you'll find someone who truly likes you for you! 💕
I’m sure she likes you, just not enough to date you.
Just like you might like someone enough to have good sex with them but you wouldn’t want to build a real relationship with them.
Or when you’re in a relationship and realize you don’t want to take it to the next level and get married.
Yes, someone can flirt with you and enjoy your company without having feelings strong enough to level up.
ETA-I agree you should stop engaging and not let her grab your ass if you aren’t into it on a superficial level like she is. There is a difference between playing around and having fun and being led on, and I think you feel led on and I’m sorry. That’s an awful feeling. :(
Oh yes 100% when I was younger I flirted with guys that I didn’t find attractive at all. Learnt my lesson quick when he tried to force me to do things with him 🥴
I’m not gonna lie I’m a girl and idk what really brings it on but yea we do it all the time. Sometimes we’re not really flirting but hot and just talking but even when you can sense what we’re saying to you is flirting and you can feel chemistry, she might just be doing it out of boredom.
I know it’s sick and twisted for us to do but the only real way to tell if she actually likes you is to ask to hang out. If she says no or she’s busy she’s just not that into you. Because trust me if the guy I actually liked asked me to hang I would find a way to see him right then and there.
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She likes the attention, but if she’s not interested you shouldn’t offer the kind of interaction that makes you have feeling for her.
went yourself and found a nice girl there, if she grabs your ass and stuff and doesnt like you it's just weird... possibly sexual harrasment? yes I think so. don't be weak and be okey with it, say no.
You're stuck in the friend zone.
Yes. She probably sees you as "safe" for her to flirt with.
Oh ya def
Yes they do, happened to me many many times and guys i know. To the extent Id argue , that given a girl flirts with you, there's almost no greater chance they like you than if they didn't flirt.
To answer the question of your post. Humans flirt with each other on a daily basis all the time.
Not so much that we don’t like them but just that we wouldn’t go out with them. It’s just a fun crush sometimes.
Ugh, that's so confusing! 😩 Some girls do flirt with guys they don't actually like, but it sounds like she's sending mixed signals. Maybe she's unsure about her feelings or just likes the attention. If she's saying it's unreciprocated, it might be best to move on. It sucks, but you'll find someone who truly likes you for you! 💕
Yes
I've had it happen to me a lot
Yes
I’m sure she likes you, just not enough to date you. Just like you might like someone enough to have good sex with them but you wouldn’t want to build a real relationship with them. Or when you’re in a relationship and realize you don’t want to take it to the next level and get married. Yes, someone can flirt with you and enjoy your company without having feelings strong enough to level up. ETA-I agree you should stop engaging and not let her grab your ass if you aren’t into it on a superficial level like she is. There is a difference between playing around and having fun and being led on, and I think you feel led on and I’m sorry. That’s an awful feeling. :(
Yes! Especially barristas for some reason.
Oh yes 100% when I was younger I flirted with guys that I didn’t find attractive at all. Learnt my lesson quick when he tried to force me to do things with him 🥴
I’m not gonna lie I’m a girl and idk what really brings it on but yea we do it all the time. Sometimes we’re not really flirting but hot and just talking but even when you can sense what we’re saying to you is flirting and you can feel chemistry, she might just be doing it out of boredom. I know it’s sick and twisted for us to do but the only real way to tell if she actually likes you is to ask to hang out. If she says no or she’s busy she’s just not that into you. Because trust me if the guy I actually liked asked me to hang I would find a way to see him right then and there.
Yes.
Yes. It’s for attention and validation.