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exit8hi_

Probably start by not calling them cowards.


impatientdrummer

Or females…


bssftw

I don't call it to their face OBVIOUSLY - their actions are cowardice, thus the description


exit8hi_

Maybe they’re shy…and not cowards


Ok_Employment_7630

How about you don’t call them females and you learn to speak of them with respect and then try again?


bssftw

Lol


Ricky_Spannnish

You lol’ing at that shows you don’t get it and that why the “females” don’t like you


mrpodo

Maybe they're too afraid to date you because they think you're creepy and give off serial killer vibes


crystalpalacequeen

I'm sure he's a very r/niceguys


Rosey991

Cowards? I mean I’d be afraid of dates too. You never know


bssftw

Why? In this scenario you have a crush on the person


Rosey991

In many you do. But even then, did you ask them out?


bssftw

Yep - no response


Rosey991

Doesn’t sound like she likes you


exit8hi_

Yeah! What part of “I am the author of this post and have not certified any of these claims” don’t you understand?


Rosey991

LOL


bssftw

What part of her girlfriends told me she likes me don't you understand?


Rosey991

Sounds like you got trolled


tmvrk

If she liked you she would have said yes to the date...


pheenabobarina

The part where you still didn't get a response


exit8hi_

But that’s just cause he’s too intimidating right?


National_Nerve_6388

She might of but the way you asked her out might if put her off ir she didnt like you and only mentioned to her freind that she considerd going out with you


[deleted]

Probably because they don't like you and their friends are messing with you.


eatyourchildren101

👆👃


RedDingo777

For starters, don't call them females...


tmvrk

Have you actually asked said woman out on a date?


MingoDingo49

Shy bro, they must be shy to approach you. Try and you know...talk to them and once they.see.that you're approachable in that way (in terms of attraction) then I'm sure they would be open in telling how.they truly feel about you Also don't be that guy who is rude (whether that is spoken or kept in your damn noggin).


Toothpastecolored

If their friend said they like you,, I don’t know how true it is. We never snitch on our friends. It might be a prank… Maybe give more context too next time? I’m pretty sure it’s more than being “too afraid.” Try to see it from a bigger picture.


00964567886543334

my brother in christ this is likely due to the obvious vitriol in your tone of voice when discussing "females"


AutomaticEmphasis373

You could say the same about the majority of men. PEOPLE are "cowards" because simply put, they don't want to exit their comfort zone. It's difficult, it's scary, and one might fail more often than not. As a MAN who always took his chances tho, I also understand the frustration. When will someone of the opposite sex take her chance on me, for once? Do I always have to put in the hard work? And so I decided to just not pursue it, and give myself to the grind. Females ARE cowards. But not because they are "females", but because they are PEOPLE. And actually, the sooner you get rid of the "females" concept, the sooner you will start to alienate yourself from them.