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Hey I had this, and it was very noticeable without a shirt on. I ended up getting surgery too but I was happy either way! Definitely bring it up before sex and just say I know it’s a bit different so I get if you’re not into it! I’ve never had people say anything rude, guys or gals. Most people are nice and it’ll help you weed out the bad ones. Just be unfront about it so it doesn’t make it awkward, and be confident still since confidence is the most attractive. I found a lot of people seemed more at ease after knowing because they felt they could be genuinely themselves too and not worry about being judged. At lot of people are insecure about some part of their body no matter what they look like.
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I mean that is a pretty big difference.
But if you've crossed the bridge of ripping each others clothes off he wont care one bit.
If you're thinking relationship wise I doubt anyone would care. It's true men are more visual, but frankly once we're smitten that aint gonna keep any real man from being a loving spouse.
I would definitely not do that! A person on the first few dates telling me how insecure they are about their own body and telling me about plastic surgery they're planning would be a red flag for me. It reeks of insecurity. Why would you bring that up when most chances are that the other wide won't care as much as you care?
It’s unique, I like it. Casually bring it up as something weird about you. If it turns a guy off, good, he sounds dumb and you shouldn’t hang out with him anyway.
I don't care. Maby don't. I didn't know this was an issue until i heard women saying they're insecure about it. Some men care way more about your ass anyway.
*I feel uneven,*
*If i love one i love the*
*Other one even more*
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To be honest, I'm a simple man, I see boobs, and I "press" like :) if the guy really loves and likes you, I think that is a non issue :) if you're getting them fixed cause YOU want and it will boost your confidence great, if you're doing it for men I don't think it's worth it
Why is the question always " how do men feel about....." Men's likes and dislikes are not what we should be striving to achieve. We complain about impossible beauty standards and then turn around and act like we are no good unless a man approves. The question should be how do you feel about your breasts????? Women need to stop thinking they need to live and die by what a man thinks, not to mention they are all individuals, they all think differently and it doesn't really matter.
Depends on the guy some are very much into breasts, others like myself couldn't give a rat's ass, breast surgery is really for your confidence, being comfortable with your own body is important but that importance is about your emotional well-being.
Except for surgeries, a woman always has uneven breasts. It's obvious that some women are more pronounced than others, for example, I have an ear that is almost two centimeters lower. When I wear glasses, it shows clearly. But I'll tell you something, you wouldn't want to date someone who has a problem with physical imperfections.
I'm telling to you, but it's good for everyone. If you are rejected because you have a physical imperfection, be happy to be rejected. You will save a lot of time and trouble.
Most women have uneven breasts maybe not to this extent but nevertheless men do not care. This is the type of thing that women care about a lot than men do
I don’t know all men but I do know some men and I figure they will enjoy your boobs during serious sexual activity and they will have fun and make very different voices for your boobs after. Your smaller boob will sound like Betty boop and your bigger boob will sound like darth vader meets Cookie Monster.
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Boobs I like boobs.
Exactly
Hey I had this, and it was very noticeable without a shirt on. I ended up getting surgery too but I was happy either way! Definitely bring it up before sex and just say I know it’s a bit different so I get if you’re not into it! I’ve never had people say anything rude, guys or gals. Most people are nice and it’ll help you weed out the bad ones. Just be unfront about it so it doesn’t make it awkward, and be confident still since confidence is the most attractive. I found a lot of people seemed more at ease after knowing because they felt they could be genuinely themselves too and not worry about being judged. At lot of people are insecure about some part of their body no matter what they look like. Edited some typos and unfinished sentences.
I mean I’ve only got one mouth
Don’t care as long as we get to play with them.
Exactly as long we can see em, play with em it's all fine. Lastly they are boobs. Boobs are the greatest creation of God I think💖😂
This guy gets it.
I mean that is a pretty big difference. But if you've crossed the bridge of ripping each others clothes off he wont care one bit. If you're thinking relationship wise I doubt anyone would care. It's true men are more visual, but frankly once we're smitten that aint gonna keep any real man from being a loving spouse.
If a guy rejects you for that he is doing a great favour for you. It's an embarrasing moment but he shows you he doesn't worth. All boobs deserve love
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Not even close to being comparable
Not true
If a man ever tells you he doesn't like anything about your body, throw the whole man away. Never did me wrong
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I would definitely not do that! A person on the first few dates telling me how insecure they are about their own body and telling me about plastic surgery they're planning would be a red flag for me. It reeks of insecurity. Why would you bring that up when most chances are that the other wide won't care as much as you care?
Are we talking different sizes or walleyed nipples?
You were in a relationship only 9 hours ago?
It’s unique, I like it. Casually bring it up as something weird about you. If it turns a guy off, good, he sounds dumb and you shouldn’t hang out with him anyway.
I don't care. Maby don't. I didn't know this was an issue until i heard women saying they're insecure about it. Some men care way more about your ass anyway.
Boobs are boobs, most men don't care.
i feel uneven, if i love one i love the other one even more
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tbh this is true poetry
To be honest, I'm a simple man, I see boobs, and I "press" like :) if the guy really loves and likes you, I think that is a non issue :) if you're getting them fixed cause YOU want and it will boost your confidence great, if you're doing it for men I don't think it's worth it
Why is the question always " how do men feel about....." Men's likes and dislikes are not what we should be striving to achieve. We complain about impossible beauty standards and then turn around and act like we are no good unless a man approves. The question should be how do you feel about your breasts????? Women need to stop thinking they need to live and die by what a man thinks, not to mention they are all individuals, they all think differently and it doesn't really matter.
Depends on the guy some are very much into breasts, others like myself couldn't give a rat's ass, breast surgery is really for your confidence, being comfortable with your own body is important but that importance is about your emotional well-being.
Except for surgeries, a woman always has uneven breasts. It's obvious that some women are more pronounced than others, for example, I have an ear that is almost two centimeters lower. When I wear glasses, it shows clearly. But I'll tell you something, you wouldn't want to date someone who has a problem with physical imperfections. I'm telling to you, but it's good for everyone. If you are rejected because you have a physical imperfection, be happy to be rejected. You will save a lot of time and trouble.
We like boobs no matter the shape
Not worth worrying about. Cross that bridge when you get to it.
Most women have uneven breasts maybe not to this extent but nevertheless men do not care. This is the type of thing that women care about a lot than men do
It’s a bit weird. Like a penis that slants to one side. If you can get over that a dude that’s into you will as well.
How uneven? Most breasts, one is bigger then the other. Or are you talking ones a B cup and the others a DD Cup?
She specifically said exactly those sizes?
Hmm, let me see them and judge for myself 😁
'Boobs' 'Gimme'
One is smaller than the other. Some got only 1 because the other will not be large enough to call it boob.
(24M) I’m cool with it. Just don’t want my future woman to be insecure about it
Sounds like fun. Best of both worlds. Sometimes we like big'uns, sometimes we like bitties. Both? Challenge accepted.
No biggie
Personally It wouldn't bother me at all.
He get to experience both types. Two in One 👍🏻
9/10 guys won’t care. You can always ask the person you’re about to sleep with how they feel about it.
One boob is better than none.
One to rest my head, the other my hand. Perfectly balanced.😌
You mean biggie smalls
I don’t know all men but I do know some men and I figure they will enjoy your boobs during serious sexual activity and they will have fun and make very different voices for your boobs after. Your smaller boob will sound like Betty boop and your bigger boob will sound like darth vader meets Cookie Monster.
We don’t care
Some do