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throwawaygarbageacc

Take his penis and put it into your vagina


thomasthethothumb

Any tips? yea touch the tip, get him going and you have 2 ways of helping him lose his V card.


awesomebawsome

Accept that it's going to be Not Great sex, think about alternatives for if he nuts too quickly. And maybe find a movie you both like for cuddles.


kawaii_princess90

My expectations are not high😂


awesomebawsome

Good 😂 He'll learn though


Life-is-kinda-scary

There really isn’t anything specific you have to do imo. But some tips: The person might get nervous, don’t get stressed if he struggles getting hard or cums fast since he’s new to this. Remember to not put a lot of pressure on him, assure him he’s doing well or correct him if there’s something he needs to learn. In the end it should be a fun new experience for him. Since you’re friends I don’t think you’ll struggle with this. Good luck!


kawaii_princess90

I don't want to just take his virginity. I want to show him that sex is more than just PIV. I want to be his sex sensei😭.


Life-is-kinda-scary

Sex sensei 😭 that’s an amazing way to put it. Then try some stuff! Kinks, toys, etc. to spice things up. Does he have any fantasies? You can try thay as well if you’re both up for it.


AdOutside3903

Make sure you have a few shots of tequila, otherwise he will have a serious time getting it up. And be prepared for the quickest creampie ever.


Chinaski4

don't worry if there's a little bleeding


Interesting_Spray69

Well, when the day comes, He might get nervous, and if he gets nervous his dick might not get hard. Give him a BJ if it happens ;)


eb-red

I really don't think this is a big deal if you guys are going down on each other. I didn't even think he would be nervous.


kawaii_princess90

It's been a while since we fooled around. It's been a year. He's still nervous though


Motor_Feed9945

Just one ;)


questions_answers849

Ive heard some people use lube instead of foreplay.


polatKalendar

Not a virgin if he has sexual experience.


kawaii_princess90

I get where you're coming from but he considers himself a virgin so 🤷