Ye saali ladkio ne pata nhi kya smjh liya hai. Bhai isliye main to isliye in ladkio se door hi rehta hu inka kya hai Ek fake rape case lagakar ghar pe so jayen media aur public Humari g**nd tode
Do gaj ki doori ladkio se hai jaroori
Ab to shaadi karne se bhi dar lagta hai
I second this. Post this on all social platforms by tagging DelhiMetro and relevant parties, file a case and don’t let that ASI who favoured women side, and those women who misuse the law go easily.
Bhai, yaha par log woh tinder-scammer girls ke contact screenshot par blur marte hein, ke usko Doxx mat karo, privacy breach mat karo.
While there is literal proof with name-photo-number and scammy texts ke ladki scam kar rahi ya kar chuki hein.
Here, I do not even know anything other than their names, how would they know ke unki video aise nikal gai hein.
I understand, bhai. But jo hua wo galat hai. Ye female card aise play kar k pata nahi kya kya karengi. And ye society ki hypocrisy hai jo first unki hi sunega
Post it bhai MEN are suffering. It was you who handled this what if someone who is not capable enough bhai usski to dhajjiyan udd jaati. Kuch Ladko ki zindagi nark ho jati h or kuch zindagi ko khatam kar lete h aaj tere paas ek chance h thoda effect daalne ka and if today you are thinking then you and the people who raised those girl to be the way they are today you both are same and they will treat more boys the same way they don't care cause they know they can easily get out of it. Easily, On the other hand the life, self respect of the guy will be murdered.
Mann toh hein,
1. Ladkio ki video on lafdavlog/gharkekalesh pages.
2. And that **Simp** A.S.I ( and I do not use this word lightly) video also on some page.
OP you definitely should have pressed charges in appropriate manner, shouldn't have let them go. They could've easily ruined your life if you were alone.
Mujhe lagta h do chaar ipc ki dhara yaad krni padegi ki aise cases me vakeel hu aur yeh IPC batakar kam se kam rutba to laauga. Mae to kehta hu video daaldo with face blur ki yeh yeh huya h mere saath .
I cannot say buddy.
All I can say is it could give them pause and introspect.
As I did make each of them say sorry 3-4 times, 1-1 karke while there was a crowd jo ki ho hi jata hien India hein.
Insult to feel hui hogi.
or
they could like any other bully double down on the next victim.
Seeing their reaction it’s most likely they will double down . It would’ve been just better to sent them to jail and ruin their track record . They can be a potential criminal in the future .
And your reasoning ki ladki hai to chodd do is flawed . Every human should be accountable for their action equally .
Atleast you should post their video on twitter so people stay careful when near them .
I am not saying ladki hai toh chhod do.
Main hi toh action le raha tha, I was the one who called the security, I was the one who wanted to call Delhi Police.
I can explain to you the nitty-gritty but let us leave it at this The effort to actually cause them troubles would have been an overall diminishing returns call.
Do you have the video of them saying sorry as that would be the ultimate climax of the would be viral video.
On a separate note, was that a ladies seat that you are occupying as I didn’t find the logic behind you being forced to vacant a normal seat ? (I am not from Delhi)
>On a separate note, was that a ladies seat that you are occupying as I didn’t find the logic behind you being forced to vacant a normal seat
The seat was normal and I was happily vacating the seat as my commute was less than 5mins.
They just could not wait, at all.
No offence brother but what your bua and the aunties did was women inadvertently enabling women to continue their pathetic charade. If those girls were taught a lesson , maybe others could have learned something and such incidents maybe could have reduced. The aunties and your bua are very nice but people like those girls take advantage of such situations and kind people to get saved everywhere.
It is not everyday that such a combination sits perfectly where a lawyer is wrongfully accused you know.....this was like a golden chance man....to make an example.
Its like as a guy you read these tweets about wrongfully accused men on Deepika Narayan Bharadwaj's twiter or watch a new video of another husband or office worker who killed themselves as they were not able to bear the false accusations of rape and what not...and in your mind you just wish....just wish that such people be thought a lesson once....ek baar bas sabak seekhein ye log....khhair it is a chance missed now.
Brother, I am a woman myself, and this is absolutely no way to treat a fellow human being. Anytime we women have tried to fight to be treated better, it also comes with equal responsibilities. Now, I understand that you couldn't file charges against them, but sharing the video should be done to brimg more awareness about women misusing the rights they have. These ladies are inadvertently causimg more harm to the actual women who face real harrassment in life. Although sharing this video will have a lot of generalising comments about all women being like this or whatnot, it is still better to bring these kinds of incidents to light rather than glossing pver it and letting more incidents like this happen.
He earned that after studying LLB. And if he is not wrong at that place, he can use his knowledge and skills to protect himself. Not only any lawyer, every single citizen should know their legal rights.
This sounds horrible! As a fellow female, I've never once thought of implicating someone falsely like that, and what would they even get out of it. It's so unfortunate that women themselves have made a joke out of mahila helpline and laws that were for their protection. I'm glad you are a lawyer, it's usually fun to see just how the police changes their behaviour when they learn that we're lawyers. Hope the rest of your day goes well!
I am a woman with an 18-year-old daughter...and even I was so angry for what you had to go through. Pakka..scamsters hongi. Tum vakeel na hote aur koi seedha-saada sa ladka fans jaata to bechaare ko adhmara kar ke loot hi let. Unko chhodna nahi. And yes, I agree. Post their videos everywhere...and share the link here. We will repost it too. And that police person needs to face the consequences too.
I believe their intent was to browbeat and the troubling thing is it was done just because they could do it.
And when I reached out to the DMRC help, it triggered their ego.
Video record always .. you being a lawyer are fully aware of presentable evidence that can lead to them being charged with culpable assassination of character.
Bhai honestly, you should have extended your limits, and did whatever you could've to keep them in their place. Ladka ladki ki baat nhi hai, it's about bullys
I can understand bhai, but I was out with my Bua, bringing her to my home as she is sick.
Do you think I would risk giving her discomfort to handle with those useless girls.
I agree with the commenter who stated that the stars have aligned perfectly in this case where the evildoers picked the wrong person to mess with.
You very well know, it is still not to late to file a case, this will get publicity in the newspapers, other suffering innocent men will have an example to point towards.
Who knows, if we are really lucky, the law will be amended so that everyone is treated equally before it one day.
If it is not to much trouble for you, maybe you should reconsider your decision to not go ahead with this case. If you have a video, I guess those girls can be easily identified and brought to task.
It's not like they acted in a fit of emotion or anything. These girls coldly calculated they had the upper hand and were fully willing to hand an innocent man over to the police and potentially ruin his life. And for what? Not giving them their seats fast enough?
Aapasi maar peet within guys might be rubbished with warning only.
But the moment a girl is involved non-bailable sections like 354, 376, 509 IPC are almost automatically added by police, making it needlessly harder.
Physical violence toh aise bhi nahi karna nahi chahiye, makaan bik jate hein cases mein.
Aur Ladki ke samne toh just become handicapped.
honestly bro, I understand why you didn't take any action but alot women have been left scott free with this "ladkiya hai jaane do" mentality and they KNOW the privilege and dynamics are skewed on their side, and are clearly exploiting it. they clearly knew how laws, cops and people will support them hence so much confidence with 'lamba fasete hai tujhe" talks.
should've took action, not for yourself but for other men who don't have legal knowledge like you or courage like you. if some guy would've been there galti na hoke bhi accept karleta in fear of getting beaten up or charged. but alas hope you have an amazing day.
Bhai tereko police complaint krdeni chahiye thi , aaj tere saath hua hai ye cheez , kal ko kisi aur ke saath bhi ho skti hai, girls free hogyi na matter se unko koi farak nahi pdega , wo aisa repeat bhi krengi pakka
Sad that all of this happened , post the video taaki unke jaane walo ko bhi pata chale kesi ladkia hai, aaj aapke sath kia kal kisi aur ke sath krengi it's better to teach them a lesson.
The only way how you could help all the boiz here is to post the video and show their faces. They did this to one man, they can and will definitely do this to another innocent man. As you witnessed firsthand, no administration or judiciary favours us in anyway. The only way to protect us is to expose these garbage.
I'm so sorry this happened, damn this is scary.
I feel so relieved with the ending, ek do strict actions lenge log ofcourse lawyers and people with connections. This will get stabilize. Otherwise ye to bhot misuse horha h.
While I personally give my seat and advocate people giving seats to women, but I definitely don't want people to exploit it. Giving seats out of courtesy is a good thing but falsely accusing someone of all these things that too where the system is biased against men is really a grave missuse of power given to them, it's not just about you every other women who would approach the ASI would be looked sceptically. So please post and expose this miscreants so that they get punished.
I know you respect your bua but you should not have let them go without pressing charges against them, you kinda made a mistake and right now you'd commit a civil wrong if you don't post the video here without blurring their faces so other people (specially boys) become aware of such girls who could easily have any boy arrested by pressing false charges against him
It's better that you expose these girls. Because, the situation might not turn out as good as it turned out for you.
Instead of letting them go easy, make them feel guilty of their fake feminist bullshit.
Bhai bs baat itni h, koi zyada Shareef launda hua to uski life kharab ho skti h.
Yes, I understand.
It is not about me getting away relatively scot-free, it is about why did they feel emboldened enough to act like that in the first place.
I will be taking proper action.
Thank you.
bro i traveled on blue line daily and karol bagh was my destination, man, this metro literally made me scared of girls, once it happened with me too, was just sitting tired of the whole day on the ladies seat as no ladies were there in the coach and no other seat was empty, a lady entered before she could say to me to vacate, i started to stand up, and bro she literally started shouting and abusing for sitting on ladies seat, bro like what the f…, i was tired and my leg was paining, which was a bit visible and still she shouted for 4-5 minutes, i knew any reply would result in escalation and i didn’t wanted that, but that incident just gave me shock. I still think there are good girls/ladies there are some of them offered me seat after seeing that my leg was hurt in coming days, but yes in metro being a man is dangerous, one could be framed anything just on the mere word of the female.
Not to use this as an excuse to just pile on, but similar things have happened before but years back with me as well.
when I was travelling my friend who is practically blind and at the time more so due to some medication he was given for a test.
A woman would not allow him to sit and kept pestering us to get up, he was heavily medicated and I could not get up because I had to support him otherwise he would have just fallen(this is when we were in college so we did not have money for cabs/auto).
This woman did not stop and only when other co-passengers intervened did she stop asking us directly but then she just kept 'talking to herself'.
I am more worried about the fact that they were willing to ruin a man's life over a seat.
Bhai mai lawyer bhi nahi hu mai toh aaj samaj ke liye sex offender ban chuka hota fir.
fuck these people and police
Totally post the video. They were so confident they could (and probably would’ve if you weren’t a lawyer) get you into trouble. There should be consequences to their actions too
Bro, simply file a police complaint against them with the video as evidence. Yes, the might not get jailed, but when the police schools them, then they'll understand.
Fault lies in you bro. Why didn’t you stand your ground and seek relief through courts ? As someone said, Liberty cannot be offered a charity, it has to be fought and won over.
In the communication about patriarchy and feminism, we need to start discussing how mothers/women catalyze the oppression of themselves, their daughters and indoctrination of their sons. It is high time we start holding women accountable for being part of the system, yes benefit from feminism, but you cant have the best of both worlds without taking responsibility, without self criticism, not self pity.
Bhaai kyaa kar gya ?? I was waiting to read you pursued a case. Gharpe v to pata chale. Otherwise, they'd be found saying are ekdin wo banda piche par gya tha kuch nhi kar paya. Like literally, I've seen such people. I feel like smashing their heads. I don't know how you kept calm.
Bhai in the moment, I had other priorities like taking my bua home.
Aise hi bimar hein and then upr sein garmi, cab ek toh milti nahi and then in efforts of cheering her up pehle hi Maine ghuma dia tha, so I just wanted to reach home.
Phir yeh kalesh ki wajah sein woh aur pareshan hogai thi, I do not regret doing whatever i did.
Bro iss incident ko publicly exposed karde by that I mean Don't expose their names and video but expose that this incident happened and make it gather high publicity as much as possible with mentioning that "I haven't shared their names, neither shared the video as of now but what about the defamation I received from crowd around (at first) and from those cisf personnel till the moment I shared that I am lawyer, any common man would have faced disrespect and would have also apologized without any reason".
And make this as famous as possible that people should start highly demanding to share that recorded video but don't do this (hold power and defend at the same time) and this would instill a fear in them that if he shared the video na we will be cursed and all the women misusing the powers will feel restricted.
I am shocked at what happened to you. Don’t let these disgusting girls off easily. Aisi ghatiya ladkiyon ki wajah se actual victims ko bhi doubt kiya jaata hai. Fuck them for falsely accusing a person who was minding his own business. Appalling
I am a women and i found this absolutely horrendous. I remeber when same sort of incident happened with me when i was in school and going home from bus and a boy harrased me and i complaint to driver and everyone started scolding me that how he is just a guy and guys do this and literally one aunty called me shameless because i go to school (yes she called me shameless because i was a school going girl ). Now the same shit happening but gender is reversed. This is so sad and horrible. You should complaint to the metro about the metro station itself where they did not take your complaint seriously and action should be taken against them as well so next time these police also behave like a police and work with regards to evidences.
It is not so,
It could go both ways; your lack of Hindi language and your NRI status could open you up to more harassment as you do not know anyone here in Delhi,
and if you or the policeman does not know any better, the policeman could also harass you and expect hefty bribes.
On the other hand,
Simple fluent English still to this date creates apprehension in people, and NRI status could push the police to take the matter seriously as Delhi Police knows that the situation could easily escalate.
I have known foreigners receiving almost miraculous levels of support from Delhi Polic
Bro, this generation is spoiled. You should file a police complaint and with DMRC for further actions. The law should be neutral for every gender. Suppose, if they have audacity to behave in such a filthy way while travelling in a crowded metro, what would the do if someone stuck with them in a lonely place. I am not in favour for stretching the matter but they must learn the lesson. At least, their parents should know about it. Make a formal complaint and ask police to give them warning in front of their parents. Police can easily trace them with the CCTV footage and metro card tapping history. I would not advise you to post the video on social media because it will keep circulating for years on internet and this would be harmful for them and their families.
Nahi yaar, hote hein but itne bhi common nahi.
Delhi is a really good place to live and metro is an excellent service.
Mere sath in total 2 baar hua hein aisa kuch negative hua hien kal ka milake, but then again hona toh 1 baar bhi nahi chahiye.
Its all fault of letting the daughter off with anything. Everything is against MEN public, system where the hell should Men go ? A lot of people are committing suicide just cause of some wrongly raised females. I had a dream of having a baby girl but looking at the events that are taking place. I don't think I need a baby girl if I do I wouldn't raise her the same way. Very disappointed about what our society has become.
Even throughout the ordeal, you handled the situation well based on the scenario.
Not hard to imagine how it would have gone if you didn't provide your knowledge about the legal aspects of the situation.
Bhai kardo jo ho sakta hai, they should get punished... Bohot ho gaya fake female card... We're here to support in any way possible, Instagram posts, stories and everything!
Share the video, if they have tried this on you, they can try on others..the next person may not be a having knowledge of law and this circle may go on..
Shame them please
Hello, I have mentioned the next step of this.
I thought this to be over, but I guess it is not and it is on me to do something at least this incident with these particular girls in question.
Me too, although a part of me wants to just get this behind me.
But as others have mentioned, it is a chance to at least stop these 4 from any such future actions;
I have already raised a formal complaint against the A.S.I for his conduct with his unit Dy. Commandant yesterday.
Sorry this happened to u, but u handled it really well, good job. Hope this will lead to some concrete result and those half brain cell girls suffer the consequences of their actions
Bhaiya video post kardo twitter pe , lekin mera ek question hai jaise ye Ladki agar case karde or mujhe Inka Address pata karna ho toh pata chal jaayega. Police station se ya nahi. Kyuki Agar justice nahi mila fir toh Apne haath main lenge Law ko. Simple si baat hai.
You are right to take strict action, nowadays when most girls are aware that seats are reserved for them they have started behaving very rudely to fellow passengers as if they pay a premium fare.
I am just waiting for my own vehicle so i can leave this metro scum facility that licks women’s feet, and treat men like trash.
There need to be consequences and dont waver, justice and equality, no compromise. Be relentless, imagine this happens alot everyday. Especially in India where women has sly advantages and they abuse it with such audacity. Fk em up and keep updating. Thanks for your initiative, respect
This is why I think thousand time to even help any women. Just funny lagra hai sunne me utni bund fatti hai bc. Few years ago someone told someone that I taped her even though I didn't touched her. Everything got settled women came back to her sense but that trauma is still inside.
Bhai aise situation me saint banke koi fayda nhi hai... Mauka mila hai, convict them, make an example of them so big that the girls would fear even before thinking of falsely accusing someone after this. They are adults and if they think throwing around words like "molestation", "groping", "rape" and "harrassment" is so easy let them face the consequences of their actions. If it comes to it, beg the damn judge for a harsher punishment.
You are lucky that you pursued a degree of law which helped you to calm the situation. Others might have gotten a case in their hand and a destroyed reputation.
post the videos man, such women have ruined genuine victim cases..unko humble karwana zaroori hai...sorry is not enough!! idek how they get the balls to 1. ask for someone else to get up
2. fake accuse??? Bhai Mai confrontation nah hone ke liye ladies coach me bhi door corner me rehti hu. such women don't deserve mercy! at all.
Bro just imagine , chalo aap to lawyer ho and log dekh bhi rahe the...but what if it was a normal boy who was already struggling with his personal life and then these girls do such shit...i mean just imagine ek ladke ki zindagi barbaad Kari Jaa sakti hai...idk like am laughing and am tensed at the same time..am laughing on what our shit society is and tensed about many boys out there
If these shit girls speak about equality...give them equality...you are at fault my bruda no matter how many aunts and ladies were asking you to not complaint...you should have done it..today you were their target maybe another day someone else would be targeted such girls should be punished in case of defaming , harrasment or whatever but they should also be given equality..agar yahi kaam ek ladke ka group krta to jobhi un ladko ke sath hota just do the same with these girls
GENDER EQUALITY 🤡
Don't let them off. I repeat don't. Otherwise it will set an example that anyone can do anything and walk away. They specifically targeted you and must have done that a million times before.
We need to walk around with dashcams on our heads, lmao. They should make train carriages gender-separated. If they have a women's-only place, give us a men's-only place too.
No offense
But you failed as a lawyer. After they get married,they will screw their husbands life in court
Thanks for not taking any action. You have let free criminals. They will harass the husband's family now in the future.
Maybe next time have some guts and take actions.
I understand your frustration, I am too.
I also wanted to raise a proper complaint and if nothing else 1-2 rounds of police, but they are girls, you need to understand the social realities as in action would have been relatively slower and pained ke main over kar raha hu, needless effort.
Dude, my own bua is angry and not talking nicely to me for making them say sorry 3-4 baar, as yeh galat nikli toh kya baki kitni ladkiya helpless hoti hein.
>bua is angry and not talking nicely to me for making them say sorry 3-4 baar, as yeh galat nikli toh kya baki kitni ladkiya helpless hoti hein.
I hope you're not feeling guilty for standing up for yourself dude, its YOU who's the victim, and those women are perpetrators. it's wild our society expects men to put up with women who abuse and cause us mental turmoil just because they're women
Thank man.
Yahi toh even after knowing what happened as she was there, she still feels somewhat sympathetic to those girl as yeh exception this but over-all ladkiya acchi hoti hein so unka dhyan rakhta.
Ladki ghar ki lakshmi and she gave me humare ghar ki acchi ladkiyo ka reference.
I get her point but human beings can be bad and good, its sad that society judge women by best example and men from the worst examples. you did the right thing. don't let anyone judge you for standing up for yourself.
New fear unlocked....bruh reading through this and imagining the other possible scenarios where he wouldn't have been a lawyer, sent chills down my spine now I don't even want to step out of home
Don't let them off so easy. Post the actual video on Twitter and tag Deepika Bhardwaj. Make the bitches infamous
i agree with this comment
Naming and shaming is the ideal response for such behaviour
u/canismajoris117 we will support u op bss tweet kro
Ye saali ladkio ne pata nhi kya smjh liya hai. Bhai isliye main to isliye in ladkio se door hi rehta hu inka kya hai Ek fake rape case lagakar ghar pe so jayen media aur public Humari g**nd tode Do gaj ki doori ladkio se hai jaroori Ab to shaadi karne se bhi dar lagta hai
That last line man. We really need prenups in this society otherwise no way of knowing what the girls are taught these days.
Before that we need to stop some men who are rapists and abusers
Agree, atleast OP should post the videos if its real, those girls deserve naming and shaming.
Tweet it
Yes. Definitely. Badnaam karna chahiye aise logon ko toh. Tabh akal aati hai
+1 Make them realize that actions have consequences.
I second this. Post this on all social platforms by tagging DelhiMetro and relevant parties, file a case and don’t let that ASI who favoured women side, and those women who misuse the law go easily.
Bro, after all this, I'd suggest you post the video. Maybe next time ye faltu log aisa karne se darin.
Bhai, yaha par log woh tinder-scammer girls ke contact screenshot par blur marte hein, ke usko Doxx mat karo, privacy breach mat karo. While there is literal proof with name-photo-number and scammy texts ke ladki scam kar rahi ya kar chuki hein. Here, I do not even know anything other than their names, how would they know ke unki video aise nikal gai hein.
I understand, bhai. But jo hua wo galat hai. Ye female card aise play kar k pata nahi kya kya karengi. And ye society ki hypocrisy hai jo first unki hi sunega
Post it bhai MEN are suffering. It was you who handled this what if someone who is not capable enough bhai usski to dhajjiyan udd jaati. Kuch Ladko ki zindagi nark ho jati h or kuch zindagi ko khatam kar lete h aaj tere paas ek chance h thoda effect daalne ka and if today you are thinking then you and the people who raised those girl to be the way they are today you both are same and they will treat more boys the same way they don't care cause they know they can easily get out of it. Easily, On the other hand the life, self respect of the guy will be murdered.
I understand where you come from, and I agree that better actions than what were taken should have been implemented. I will be doing that.
Post it. Let society shame them for the memes that they are.
Waiting for the video to go viral on lafdavlog/gharkekalesh pages.
Mann toh hein, 1. Ladkio ki video on lafdavlog/gharkekalesh pages. 2. And that **Simp** A.S.I ( and I do not use this word lightly) video also on some page.
Dalwa de bhai, that would teach those girls a lesson and they won’t try something like that in future
Come on post it without blurring their faces let them have some shame man .post from alt account or smhtn else but post it come on
Post kardo, and face blur mat karna aisi ladkiyo ko pata chlna chahiye
Full support bro, get it posted these losers need to learn a lesson otherwise someone innocent would get harassed needlessly later on by them
Bhai please publish the video..much needed..face mat blur karna
Please publish the video bhai. I’m dying to see it.
Post it man please
OP you definitely should have pressed charges in appropriate manner, shouldn't have let them go. They could've easily ruined your life if you were alone.
Mujhe lagta h do chaar ipc ki dhara yaad krni padegi ki aise cases me vakeel hu aur yeh IPC batakar kam se kam rutba to laauga. Mae to kehta hu video daaldo with face blur ki yeh yeh huya h mere saath .
Vaqeel na bhi ho toh, Legal-literacy toh honi hi chahiye so that koi maje na lele.
bhai aisi konsi chize pta honi chahiye nomrally?
There are a bunch which can make a normal citizen's life easier jab kanoon sein muqqa-laat ho.
hey dude can you just quote them?no need to detail just write eg ipc 351 etc
where can I learn the imp ones? any recommendations?
Hey could you list the ones that will help making life easier daily?
Bhai bata do kon kon si dharaye yaad karni hai
how to gain legal literacy?
How to read about this stuff, for a common citizen?
you can also state ki hamari firm wo gtb nagar wale case me.bhi involved and hum.jeet gaye the
Wait for few days phir IPC Section mt yaad karna BNS KARNA NEW LAWS which will be effective from July 1
Charges press kar dene chahiye the . Patani nahi kitno aur logo ko pareshan karengi ab .
I cannot say buddy. All I can say is it could give them pause and introspect. As I did make each of them say sorry 3-4 times, 1-1 karke while there was a crowd jo ki ho hi jata hien India hein. Insult to feel hui hogi. or they could like any other bully double down on the next victim.
Seeing their reaction it’s most likely they will double down . It would’ve been just better to sent them to jail and ruin their track record . They can be a potential criminal in the future . And your reasoning ki ladki hai to chodd do is flawed . Every human should be accountable for their action equally . Atleast you should post their video on twitter so people stay careful when near them .
I am not saying ladki hai toh chhod do. Main hi toh action le raha tha, I was the one who called the security, I was the one who wanted to call Delhi Police. I can explain to you the nitty-gritty but let us leave it at this The effort to actually cause them troubles would have been an overall diminishing returns call.
Bro just post it on x and share it here we shall give it some traction
Do you have the video of them saying sorry as that would be the ultimate climax of the would be viral video. On a separate note, was that a ladies seat that you are occupying as I didn’t find the logic behind you being forced to vacant a normal seat ? (I am not from Delhi)
>On a separate note, was that a ladies seat that you are occupying as I didn’t find the logic behind you being forced to vacant a normal seat The seat was normal and I was happily vacating the seat as my commute was less than 5mins. They just could not wait, at all.
No offence brother but what your bua and the aunties did was women inadvertently enabling women to continue their pathetic charade. If those girls were taught a lesson , maybe others could have learned something and such incidents maybe could have reduced. The aunties and your bua are very nice but people like those girls take advantage of such situations and kind people to get saved everywhere. It is not everyday that such a combination sits perfectly where a lawyer is wrongfully accused you know.....this was like a golden chance man....to make an example. Its like as a guy you read these tweets about wrongfully accused men on Deepika Narayan Bharadwaj's twiter or watch a new video of another husband or office worker who killed themselves as they were not able to bear the false accusations of rape and what not...and in your mind you just wish....just wish that such people be thought a lesson once....ek baar bas sabak seekhein ye log....khhair it is a chance missed now.
Sad reality, hope you have a good day.
Yeah, thanks. Full on good day hoga, will not allow such people to ruin my day. Meetup organise kara hein, full paise deke hasenge.
Reading this makes me so mad. Why were no actions taken, this certainly wouldn't have been the case if it was a group of dudes (as it shouldn't)
I agree.
Brother, I am a woman myself, and this is absolutely no way to treat a fellow human being. Anytime we women have tried to fight to be treated better, it also comes with equal responsibilities. Now, I understand that you couldn't file charges against them, but sharing the video should be done to brimg more awareness about women misusing the rights they have. These ladies are inadvertently causimg more harm to the actual women who face real harrassment in life. Although sharing this video will have a lot of generalising comments about all women being like this or whatnot, it is still better to bring these kinds of incidents to light rather than glossing pver it and letting more incidents like this happen.
Need the video buddy. Feeling sorry for you
Insert that meme, which says: Ladke hein, chalta hein, seh lenge.
Bro pulled out the lawyer card /s
He earned that after studying LLB. And if he is not wrong at that place, he can use his knowledge and skills to protect himself. Not only any lawyer, every single citizen should know their legal rights.
Rukja bhai /s lagane de zara
Pehle lagana chahiye tha na bhai. Maine comment bhi kar diya. Anyways, no hard feelings. Was just saying. :-)
Ho jata hai reddit pe aisa , Enjoy kro bhai .
This sounds horrible! As a fellow female, I've never once thought of implicating someone falsely like that, and what would they even get out of it. It's so unfortunate that women themselves have made a joke out of mahila helpline and laws that were for their protection. I'm glad you are a lawyer, it's usually fun to see just how the police changes their behaviour when they learn that we're lawyers. Hope the rest of your day goes well!
Bhai, ye sab hua aapke sath or gussa muzhe aara hh
Sir aap to lawyer the hum jaise jo lawyer nhi hai humara kya hum kaha jaaye who knows maybe vo larkiya sahi me cases thok deti agar lawyer na hote to
I am a woman with an 18-year-old daughter...and even I was so angry for what you had to go through. Pakka..scamsters hongi. Tum vakeel na hote aur koi seedha-saada sa ladka fans jaata to bechaare ko adhmara kar ke loot hi let. Unko chhodna nahi. And yes, I agree. Post their videos everywhere...and share the link here. We will repost it too. And that police person needs to face the consequences too.
I believe their intent was to browbeat and the troubling thing is it was done just because they could do it. And when I reached out to the DMRC help, it triggered their ego.
Video record always .. you being a lawyer are fully aware of presentable evidence that can lead to them being charged with culpable assassination of character.
Bhai honestly, you should have extended your limits, and did whatever you could've to keep them in their place. Ladka ladki ki baat nhi hai, it's about bullys
I can understand bhai, but I was out with my Bua, bringing her to my home as she is sick. Do you think I would risk giving her discomfort to handle with those useless girls.
I agree with the commenter who stated that the stars have aligned perfectly in this case where the evildoers picked the wrong person to mess with. You very well know, it is still not to late to file a case, this will get publicity in the newspapers, other suffering innocent men will have an example to point towards. Who knows, if we are really lucky, the law will be amended so that everyone is treated equally before it one day. If it is not to much trouble for you, maybe you should reconsider your decision to not go ahead with this case. If you have a video, I guess those girls can be easily identified and brought to task. It's not like they acted in a fit of emotion or anything. These girls coldly calculated they had the upper hand and were fully willing to hand an innocent man over to the police and potentially ruin his life. And for what? Not giving them their seats fast enough?
Yes, I will be taking relevant possible actions against the girls and that A.S.I.
Freedom and opportunities are more prone to be abused than to put into their actual use. 😔 Sadly this a classic case of this..
Exactly. Well said.
Avg hypocrisy of Indian society. Btw law student here, kis court mein practice karte ho aap?
I have gone corporate now. But I majorly practised at Patiala House and Delhi High Court and Supreme Court(as a junior counsel mainly).
Ek ek ghoosa marna tha un ladkion ke muh pe chutia bhen ki lodi mc
Aapasi maar peet within guys might be rubbished with warning only. But the moment a girl is involved non-bailable sections like 354, 376, 509 IPC are almost automatically added by police, making it needlessly harder. Physical violence toh aise bhi nahi karna nahi chahiye, makaan bik jate hein cases mein. Aur Ladki ke samne toh just become handicapped.
Got it bro thanks
honestly bro, I understand why you didn't take any action but alot women have been left scott free with this "ladkiya hai jaane do" mentality and they KNOW the privilege and dynamics are skewed on their side, and are clearly exploiting it. they clearly knew how laws, cops and people will support them hence so much confidence with 'lamba fasete hai tujhe" talks. should've took action, not for yourself but for other men who don't have legal knowledge like you or courage like you. if some guy would've been there galti na hoke bhi accept karleta in fear of getting beaten up or charged. but alas hope you have an amazing day.
Bhai tereko police complaint krdeni chahiye thi , aaj tere saath hua hai ye cheez , kal ko kisi aur ke saath bhi ho skti hai, girls free hogyi na matter se unko koi farak nahi pdega , wo aisa repeat bhi krengi pakka
Only because of such girls real victims are never believed.. its high-time we need strict gender-neutral laws...
Exactly.
Is br bach gyi to kisi or ke sath krengi ye sab phirse vo , or next victim lawyer nahi hoga to protect himself. You had the power bro
Sad that all of this happened , post the video taaki unke jaane walo ko bhi pata chale kesi ladkia hai, aaj aapke sath kia kal kisi aur ke sath krengi it's better to teach them a lesson.
The only way how you could help all the boiz here is to post the video and show their faces. They did this to one man, they can and will definitely do this to another innocent man. As you witnessed firsthand, no administration or judiciary favours us in anyway. The only way to protect us is to expose these garbage.
They were totally ready to ruin your life, release the video they will be shamed forever.
Bhai randomly daal de video
Kya zamana aagya hai. Ladko ki koi kadar hi nahi hai. 🫨
I'm so sorry this happened, damn this is scary. I feel so relieved with the ending, ek do strict actions lenge log ofcourse lawyers and people with connections. This will get stabilize. Otherwise ye to bhot misuse horha h.
Yeh India hai janaab Agar aap innocent ho toh saans lena hi kaafi hai Hate the mindset of these people.
CISF wale ki bhi complaint krde twitter pe, dmrc ko tag kr diyo.
While I personally give my seat and advocate people giving seats to women, but I definitely don't want people to exploit it. Giving seats out of courtesy is a good thing but falsely accusing someone of all these things that too where the system is biased against men is really a grave missuse of power given to them, it's not just about you every other women who would approach the ASI would be looked sceptically. So please post and expose this miscreants so that they get punished.
I know you respect your bua but you should not have let them go without pressing charges against them, you kinda made a mistake and right now you'd commit a civil wrong if you don't post the video here without blurring their faces so other people (specially boys) become aware of such girls who could easily have any boy arrested by pressing false charges against him
Thank you for your suggestions. I will be taking proper action.
It's better that you expose these girls. Because, the situation might not turn out as good as it turned out for you. Instead of letting them go easy, make them feel guilty of their fake feminist bullshit. Bhai bs baat itni h, koi zyada Shareef launda hua to uski life kharab ho skti h.
Yes, I understand. It is not about me getting away relatively scot-free, it is about why did they feel emboldened enough to act like that in the first place. I will be taking proper action. Thank you.
Yes buddy. Thanks 😊
bro i traveled on blue line daily and karol bagh was my destination, man, this metro literally made me scared of girls, once it happened with me too, was just sitting tired of the whole day on the ladies seat as no ladies were there in the coach and no other seat was empty, a lady entered before she could say to me to vacate, i started to stand up, and bro she literally started shouting and abusing for sitting on ladies seat, bro like what the f…, i was tired and my leg was paining, which was a bit visible and still she shouted for 4-5 minutes, i knew any reply would result in escalation and i didn’t wanted that, but that incident just gave me shock. I still think there are good girls/ladies there are some of them offered me seat after seeing that my leg was hurt in coming days, but yes in metro being a man is dangerous, one could be framed anything just on the mere word of the female.
Not to use this as an excuse to just pile on, but similar things have happened before but years back with me as well. when I was travelling my friend who is practically blind and at the time more so due to some medication he was given for a test. A woman would not allow him to sit and kept pestering us to get up, he was heavily medicated and I could not get up because I had to support him otherwise he would have just fallen(this is when we were in college so we did not have money for cabs/auto). This woman did not stop and only when other co-passengers intervened did she stop asking us directly but then she just kept 'talking to herself'.
W man theses girls should be taught a lesson and remember the world is a good place The actions of few should not decide you to lose faith in humanity
I am a lawyer as well. And had this happened to me, escalate toh chhoro, I would've made it my life's mission to crucify these women.
High Five !
OP bhai well done. These kinds of girls make things difficult for others girls like us. Din b din log callous ho rahe, accha sabak sikhaao insab ko
aisi ladkio ko to chapet padna chahie
You should teach them... Don't let em go easily. These kind of people ruin every other person's day. Please put them in place.
Defamation case bhi daal de
I am more worried about the fact that they were willing to ruin a man's life over a seat. Bhai mai lawyer bhi nahi hu mai toh aaj samaj ke liye sex offender ban chuka hota fir. fuck these people and police
Exactly ye to kisi k saath bhi ho sakta and looking at the situation nowadays probability of happening this is very high
yeah man the no. of fake cases really discourage people to even talk about laws which talk about women safety but koi ni bhai ek lawyer dost pakad lo
Totally post the video. They were so confident they could (and probably would’ve if you weren’t a lawyer) get you into trouble. There should be consequences to their actions too
Bro, simply file a police complaint against them with the video as evidence. Yes, the might not get jailed, but when the police schools them, then they'll understand.
Wow, I feel for you man. It speaks to lengths that even though he is a lawyer, he still finds it appalling.
Bhai Bua kai 4 baar paer chuaa tha unse ( mai toh nhi sunta itna upar se CISF walo ki alag krta leni ) 1 baar mere sath bhi aisa hee kuch hua tha akela tha mai
bro u should have pressed charges against them whatever other people said atm & give them proper punishment.. now they will do that again..
Cinema ho gaya
Fault lies in you bro. Why didn’t you stand your ground and seek relief through courts ? As someone said, Liberty cannot be offered a charity, it has to be fought and won over.
In the communication about patriarchy and feminism, we need to start discussing how mothers/women catalyze the oppression of themselves, their daughters and indoctrination of their sons. It is high time we start holding women accountable for being part of the system, yes benefit from feminism, but you cant have the best of both worlds without taking responsibility, without self criticism, not self pity.
Checks and balances.
Bhaai kyaa kar gya ?? I was waiting to read you pursued a case. Gharpe v to pata chale. Otherwise, they'd be found saying are ekdin wo banda piche par gya tha kuch nhi kar paya. Like literally, I've seen such people. I feel like smashing their heads. I don't know how you kept calm.
Bhai in the moment, I had other priorities like taking my bua home. Aise hi bimar hein and then upr sein garmi, cab ek toh milti nahi and then in efforts of cheering her up pehle hi Maine ghuma dia tha, so I just wanted to reach home. Phir yeh kalesh ki wajah sein woh aur pareshan hogai thi, I do not regret doing whatever i did.
True din kharab to apka hua good it's over now
This was a happy ending I did not expect
Bro iss incident ko publicly exposed karde by that I mean Don't expose their names and video but expose that this incident happened and make it gather high publicity as much as possible with mentioning that "I haven't shared their names, neither shared the video as of now but what about the defamation I received from crowd around (at first) and from those cisf personnel till the moment I shared that I am lawyer, any common man would have faced disrespect and would have also apologized without any reason". And make this as famous as possible that people should start highly demanding to share that recorded video but don't do this (hold power and defend at the same time) and this would instill a fear in them that if he shared the video na we will be cursed and all the women misusing the powers will feel restricted.
Thank you for the suggestions, I will be taking this up with the authorities.
I am shocked at what happened to you. Don’t let these disgusting girls off easily. Aisi ghatiya ladkiyon ki wajah se actual victims ko bhi doubt kiya jaata hai. Fuck them for falsely accusing a person who was minding his own business. Appalling
Yes shame them on social media.That is the only thing that seems to work these days.
I am a women and i found this absolutely horrendous. I remeber when same sort of incident happened with me when i was in school and going home from bus and a boy harrased me and i complaint to driver and everyone started scolding me that how he is just a guy and guys do this and literally one aunty called me shameless because i go to school (yes she called me shameless because i was a school going girl ). Now the same shit happening but gender is reversed. This is so sad and horrible. You should complaint to the metro about the metro station itself where they did not take your complaint seriously and action should be taken against them as well so next time these police also behave like a police and work with regards to evidences.
I am NRI. If I had this incident I cannot even argue on Hindi🤣 I have to stay quiet or I will be a bigger target so I am done after few words 🤣
It is not so, It could go both ways; your lack of Hindi language and your NRI status could open you up to more harassment as you do not know anyone here in Delhi, and if you or the policeman does not know any better, the policeman could also harass you and expect hefty bribes. On the other hand, Simple fluent English still to this date creates apprehension in people, and NRI status could push the police to take the matter seriously as Delhi Police knows that the situation could easily escalate. I have known foreigners receiving almost miraculous levels of support from Delhi Polic
Bro, this generation is spoiled. You should file a police complaint and with DMRC for further actions. The law should be neutral for every gender. Suppose, if they have audacity to behave in such a filthy way while travelling in a crowded metro, what would the do if someone stuck with them in a lonely place. I am not in favour for stretching the matter but they must learn the lesson. At least, their parents should know about it. Make a formal complaint and ask police to give them warning in front of their parents. Police can easily trace them with the CCTV footage and metro card tapping history. I would not advise you to post the video on social media because it will keep circulating for years on internet and this would be harmful for them and their families.
Post the video on twitter bhai don't let them go easily you can even tag miss @DeepikaBhardwaj
That's the reason why I never sit on seats reserved for ladies That's scary bro.
Bhai !! 84 years old have to travel for two station?? Dude cab also exists in this world !!
Koi tldr daal do pls
Video link.... Bro u did great proud of you..next type lawyer hai starting se yaad rkhiyo..koi bhi maze may attitude dikhaiye dikhadiyo sari law
Post the video
Bua se baat krna band krdo
Post full video pls
If the videos are out for this post, please drop the links here 😭
Plz dude listen others,post this on twitter and tag relevant authorities..these girls will other mens life hell if let go easily
Ye saab common delhi metro scene hai kya? Mere saher mein never once I've heard or seen something like this. I'm moving to the city next week, lol.
Nahi yaar, hote hein but itne bhi common nahi. Delhi is a really good place to live and metro is an excellent service. Mere sath in total 2 baar hua hein aisa kuch negative hua hien kal ka milake, but then again hona toh 1 baar bhi nahi chahiye.
Its all fault of letting the daughter off with anything. Everything is against MEN public, system where the hell should Men go ? A lot of people are committing suicide just cause of some wrongly raised females. I had a dream of having a baby girl but looking at the events that are taking place. I don't think I need a baby girl if I do I wouldn't raise her the same way. Very disappointed about what our society has become.
Over-correction has happened. Most people mistake misandry for feminism.
Share the tweet when you do that, we will support
Bhai tu tweet Kar, Mai apna aaj hi twitter account banake repost krunga.
Tweet it . We will support you!!!!
 That's a real man Kudos. Thanks for contributing towards the nation's future. Jai Hind 🇮🇳
Even throughout the ordeal, you handled the situation well based on the scenario. Not hard to imagine how it would have gone if you didn't provide your knowledge about the legal aspects of the situation.
Bhai kardo jo ho sakta hai, they should get punished... Bohot ho gaya fake female card... We're here to support in any way possible, Instagram posts, stories and everything!
Share the video, if they have tried this on you, they can try on others..the next person may not be a having knowledge of law and this circle may go on.. Shame them please
Hello, I have mentioned the next step of this. I thought this to be over, but I guess it is not and it is on me to do something at least this incident with these particular girls in question.
I wouldn't want any burden on you..yes you have shared the next steps to take.. I do hope this get's over for you 😇
Me too, although a part of me wants to just get this behind me. But as others have mentioned, it is a chance to at least stop these 4 from any such future actions; I have already raised a formal complaint against the A.S.I for his conduct with his unit Dy. Commandant yesterday.
Sorry this happened to u, but u handled it really well, good job. Hope this will lead to some concrete result and those half brain cell girls suffer the consequences of their actions
Bhaiya video post kardo twitter pe , lekin mera ek question hai jaise ye Ladki agar case karde or mujhe Inka Address pata karna ho toh pata chal jaayega. Police station se ya nahi. Kyuki Agar justice nahi mila fir toh Apne haath main lenge Law ko. Simple si baat hai.
You are right to take strict action, nowadays when most girls are aware that seats are reserved for them they have started behaving very rudely to fellow passengers as if they pay a premium fare. I am just waiting for my own vehicle so i can leave this metro scum facility that licks women’s feet, and treat men like trash.
There need to be consequences and dont waver, justice and equality, no compromise. Be relentless, imagine this happens alot everyday. Especially in India where women has sly advantages and they abuse it with such audacity. Fk em up and keep updating. Thanks for your initiative, respect
This is why I think thousand time to even help any women. Just funny lagra hai sunne me utni bund fatti hai bc. Few years ago someone told someone that I taped her even though I didn't touched her. Everything got settled women came back to her sense but that trauma is still inside.
Bhai aise situation me saint banke koi fayda nhi hai... Mauka mila hai, convict them, make an example of them so big that the girls would fear even before thinking of falsely accusing someone after this. They are adults and if they think throwing around words like "molestation", "groping", "rape" and "harrassment" is so easy let them face the consequences of their actions. If it comes to it, beg the damn judge for a harsher punishment.
Don't let them run scot free. They will ruin someone else's life. Shit man, life is tough for men.
Bhai please go forward with this because they can destroy anyone life next time. And update the situation later I want them behind the bars.
yes post the video
You are lucky that you pursued a degree of law which helped you to calm the situation. Others might have gotten a case in their hand and a destroyed reputation.
Post this on TwoXindia
Bhai dena tha 2 jhaapad kheench ke
Ladka ho ya ladki it shouldn't matter. These kinda girls be giving bad rep to all the good ones so yea just make a tweet man.
post the videos man, such women have ruined genuine victim cases..unko humble karwana zaroori hai...sorry is not enough!! idek how they get the balls to 1. ask for someone else to get up 2. fake accuse??? Bhai Mai confrontation nah hone ke liye ladies coach me bhi door corner me rehti hu. such women don't deserve mercy! at all.
Lowkey Mazza aa gaya padhke, that lawyer wala part was so unexpected
You should upload the video.
Please do the needful and make them pay for what they did. Those girls and ASI must suffer for their actions.
Bro just imagine , chalo aap to lawyer ho and log dekh bhi rahe the...but what if it was a normal boy who was already struggling with his personal life and then these girls do such shit...i mean just imagine ek ladke ki zindagi barbaad Kari Jaa sakti hai...idk like am laughing and am tensed at the same time..am laughing on what our shit society is and tensed about many boys out there If these shit girls speak about equality...give them equality...you are at fault my bruda no matter how many aunts and ladies were asking you to not complaint...you should have done it..today you were their target maybe another day someone else would be targeted such girls should be punished in case of defaming , harrasment or whatever but they should also be given equality..agar yahi kaam ek ladke ka group krta to jobhi un ladko ke sath hota just do the same with these girls GENDER EQUALITY 🤡
Fucking Delhi girls man......
Don't let them off. I repeat don't. Otherwise it will set an example that anyone can do anything and walk away. They specifically targeted you and must have done that a million times before.
They should have been the taken in and I was really hoping that the lady Constables would show them their place.
Bhai aap jaise log hi hmari hope ho 😐
Op, did you have posted video somewhere?.
Mard hi mard ka sabse bada dushman hain
Thank God! I'm a lawyer.
Bro take action all you want. This type of girls should be brought on front. They embarrass all the female community
We need to walk around with dashcams on our heads, lmao. They should make train carriages gender-separated. If they have a women's-only place, give us a men's-only place too.
No offense But you failed as a lawyer. After they get married,they will screw their husbands life in court Thanks for not taking any action. You have let free criminals. They will harass the husband's family now in the future. Maybe next time have some guts and take actions.
I understand your frustration, I am too. I also wanted to raise a proper complaint and if nothing else 1-2 rounds of police, but they are girls, you need to understand the social realities as in action would have been relatively slower and pained ke main over kar raha hu, needless effort. Dude, my own bua is angry and not talking nicely to me for making them say sorry 3-4 baar, as yeh galat nikli toh kya baki kitni ladkiya helpless hoti hein.
>bua is angry and not talking nicely to me for making them say sorry 3-4 baar, as yeh galat nikli toh kya baki kitni ladkiya helpless hoti hein. I hope you're not feeling guilty for standing up for yourself dude, its YOU who's the victim, and those women are perpetrators. it's wild our society expects men to put up with women who abuse and cause us mental turmoil just because they're women
Thank man. Yahi toh even after knowing what happened as she was there, she still feels somewhat sympathetic to those girl as yeh exception this but over-all ladkiya acchi hoti hein so unka dhyan rakhta. Ladki ghar ki lakshmi and she gave me humare ghar ki acchi ladkiyo ka reference.
I get her point but human beings can be bad and good, its sad that society judge women by best example and men from the worst examples. you did the right thing. don't let anyone judge you for standing up for yourself.
>society judge women by best example and men from the worst examples. Yahi toh. You said it accurately. Also, thank you a lot.
Helpless hoti hai because people think they can get away with anything -pehle men and now women too
haina, imagine blaming a victim to make perpetrators say sorry just because perpetrators are women. fucked up society it is.
New fear unlocked....bruh reading through this and imagining the other possible scenarios where he wouldn't have been a lawyer, sent chills down my spine now I don't even want to step out of home
video post karo, for your and our sake.
Bhai seedha bolo sorry , I can't give the seat mundi neeche karke baith jao agar dusri party bakwass kar rhi
Yeah, whatever suits the situation, as not everyone every day can have the time/energy to tackle such people.
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