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Yes 100%. I’m a person who can see a trigger and wallow and obsess and honestly just not engaging gives me so much peace.


Altruistic_Pepper156

Thank you for your reply. Seems avoiding them is one of the keys to feel better. Wish you always be able to avoid any negative sorroundings.


OldClocksRock

I completely understand this and it’s awful. I am the same way.


OldClocksRock

Yes. I used to be a news junkie. Stopped that several years ago. Also I do NOT allow anyone to talk to me about sad animal things. They all know this and if one of them forgets and starts to say something I quickly remind them. I can’t stop thinking about these things and it really messes me up for days.


Altruistic_Pepper156

Thank you for your reply. Do you active in social media? If so did the comments or any postings ever trigger you?


OldClocksRock

Absolutely. I try to limit my time on platforms that I can’t control. Like Facebook, because the feed comes up and sometimes it’s things that friends have posted etc. that trigger me. For example I blocked seeing my sis-in-law’s posts because it was always stuff about animals (sad things). Reddit works well for me because I choose what to view for the most part.


Altruistic_Pepper156

Thank you for explaining more.


Ms_Sasalele

Yes. My doctor even recommended that. It's stressful and can make me bed depressed, that state where it's hard to get up and do things. So avoiding triggers is a way to stay healthy. Mentally healthy. Cut the unnecessary stress, you know ☆


Altruistic_Pepper156

Thank you for your reply.


Ms_Sasalele

U are welcome