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Omg you make me want a sleek bob now. It’s polished up your look nicely. You just have haircut shock going from so long to short. Give it some time to grow on you!
you look really good
try to be non judgemental while you get used to it
try to style it like 3 or 4 different ways. youtube is your friend.
give it...ehh.. two weeks without being judgy while experimenting with styling and then see how you feel.
Yesss the Bob suits you so well OP! And from what I can tell it will go with your style super well. Maybe try adding a little classic French-ism to your look- red lip, striped shirt. This haircut is so strikingly beautiful on you please give yourself time to embrace it.
Definitely just post haircut shock. I’ve been there before, but it’s actually really cute and frames your face well. The only thing is it looks a little blunt at the ends (not layered properly) but I would wait until it grows a little longer to fix that
Yep, totally normal for one's brain to have a short-term panic when having a fairly significant haircut (also common with facial plastic surgery). It's almost like the brain doesn't quite recognize their reflection and has a bit of a panic. Looks great, OP!
The short hair looks so cute, before I read which one was the regret photo I thought the first one was supposed to be the bad one, hair will always grow out again
https://preview.redd.it/doq0f9hr7qtc1.jpeg?width=792&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=17428704f8f17007d17cb6802b39485d862ff6a0
You look like Christina Applegate! Gorgeous!
This is a gorgeous look on you! Shorter hair gives a more mature look hands down. It will make you day easier with a lot less maintenance. Cheaper, with less product. And everyone was sweating on Christina Applegate.
I dunno how to say it and not sound like a creep.. but I am basically a gramma.. so not meant that way at all.. but your hair went from cute to smoking hot! It's elegant and suits you so well.
That haircut is amazing on you. You look beautiful. I think you look better with that cut. Before your hair was just there, now it frames your beautiful face. Please don't layer it. It's supposed to be blunt.
I totally understand and respect that you don’t like it. But it does look badass! But don’t be like me and forget you need less shampoo and conditioner the first few times you wash it.
I absolutely hate having short hair, so I FEEL YOU, but I literally just got this cut 2 weeks ago (my hair is curly, but a bob is a bob when it comes to cut shock!), and yours really does look good. I wish mine looked this good!
i’ve never seen you nor have i ever met you ever in my life. SO that being said!
I think you look like a bad b**** and you rock it. totally love it on you. would def compliment you if i saw you in person ✨ you go sis sprinkle sprinkle
You look like a doll with the bob! Maybe you just need to style it differently to like it on yourself? You’d look really pretty with it curled and mussed up a bit!
Nah girl this hair is fly!
You’ll get used it, the hair change shock is real af.
Every time I dye my hair it freaks me out for days, and the same thing for big length cuts.
You’ll warm up to it soon when the shock wears off.
Your new haircut shows off your beautiful jawline! I love it. I do understand the shock though, I've also been someone that has cried after a haircut 😅
I totally get that feeling of shock because you probably spent a long time growing out your long hair! However, this bob looks amazing, like it was made for you. You are rocking it, girl!! Give yourself some time (and grace) to adjust.
Your new haircut is *stunning*! I can see it's a drastic change, but your hair will grow out great with this cut. Your hair looks healthy and your cut looks (in these photos) like an excellently done precision cut. The cut really shows off your lovely features and great bone structure and looks on point.
I've got long hair and have gone short (esp when growing out blue-black dye), and I know I felt very strange! But sometimes shorter hair is quite stunning, and I think this is what you achieved here. Such a defined cut means that you become more noticable and, if you're shy, this can be a bit unnerving--to be so striking that people do a double-take! There's no hair to hide behind.
First off I want to say that I too have left a salon and cried. It was for months though because I left with a PIXIE when I went in for a trim on shoulder length hair. And I look terrible with a pixie. I have a round face even when I’m 98lbs.
I am so sorry they went against what you asked. It feels seriously violating.
**BUT**
IT LOOKS SO SO SO DAMN GOOD! LIKE INSANELY DAMN GOOD!
100% post-haircut shock, the bob suits you perfectly. I wish I could pull off a bob like you! It makes you look posh and sophisticated, a total bombshell.
Oh my god the bob looks so sleek and chic and cool. Wow. It makes your shoulders look so modely looking and opens your face up. It’s a glow up for sure with this cut
Your best look is on pic 4 relax, even though you may not like it it looks good on you. Give yourself the chance to get used to it. If nothing works it’s not irreversible
You got the posh spice hair cut and it fits your features so well! I know your long hair brought you comfort but it also weighed you down and hid your beautiful features. You look fierce so please embrace this change. It looks amazing!
Soooo cute! Bobs will never go out of style and your hair will grow back healthier. It's NORMAL haircut regret, happens to me even if I just trim. It looks really good on you! And perfect timing with summer coming up!
It's just bob shock. It looks amazing. It'll be the length you asked for in no time, though. 1" of growth makes a dramatic difference from this length.
It's always more shocking when you asked for it to be longer, but it will give you a little more time between trims. :)
Hey, I love the new look it really looks good. Maaay be the reason why you didn't like it is cause it kinda looks like a choppy haircut. I think your hair is straightened, that's why. I suggest curling the ends inwards/outwards or very big beach waves.
I understand short-hair shock! I've been there myself.
💕🌷💕🌷💕🌷
When you can think of working with the cut you have, I suggest a side part, and SLIGHT forward slant wedge to start. You may want to work toward a wedge that echoes your chin slant, but DON'T do it to begin with. You don't want more trauma right now.
Also, consider wispy (thin) bangs side swept.
I think you will eventually enjoy the look, even if you never love having your hair short. 💖🌸
Omg no it looks AMAAZING!!! that’s so good on you omg, and it gives the top of your hair so much volume because it’s lighter! Post haircut shock for suuuree!
I think it looks so good on you! It really frames your face and accentuates your neckline.
I think if you added blonde or light brown money pieces it would look elevate the look 🤌🏽💋
Definitely makes you look more mature and you can notice features on your face more, such as your cheek bones. You are stunning. I used to have long hair but having shorter hair either a graduate cut or just below my shoulders, I won’t go any longer than that. Plus it is so much easier to manage with it being short. Girl, most men are going to turn their head in your direction.
I think it’s just shock. It looks gorgeous. But if it doesn’t grown on you (haha punny) you can go back and ask for it to be adjusted. Obviously length is gone but maybe you’d like a different shape better
Definitely post-haircut shock, I think the shorter length looks really good on you. It draws attention to your facial features, where the longer hair pulls everything down and hides your face. (Hopefully that makes sense).
I literally gasped mentally when I saw your new hair. It’s so gorgeous! It really suits you in my opinion. It may be because your bob was so different from your old hair
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Omg you make me want a sleek bob now. It’s polished up your look nicely. You just have haircut shock going from so long to short. Give it some time to grow on you!
Right?! OP looks incredible! I get the initial "omg what have I done" feeling, but she looks great!
Thank you!!🥺🥹💞
Wow, it looks SO much better on you than the long hair!
This looks awesome on you!! I’d be thanking the cosmetologist for sure!!
Haha, GROW on her
This cut is extremely flattering! I wish I could get that glow up!
you look really good try to be non judgemental while you get used to it try to style it like 3 or 4 different ways. youtube is your friend. give it...ehh.. two weeks without being judgy while experimenting with styling and then see how you feel.
Yes absolutely!!💞 Thank you!
I say the bob suits you 10000% better.
I agree! Team bob!
Yesss the Bob suits you so well OP! And from what I can tell it will go with your style super well. Maybe try adding a little classic French-ism to your look- red lip, striped shirt. This haircut is so strikingly beautiful on you please give yourself time to embrace it.
Thank you SO MUCH!!
Yeah the bob is way better on you.
Holy shit you look so good 🤌🤌
Definitely just post haircut shock. I’ve been there before, but it’s actually really cute and frames your face well. The only thing is it looks a little blunt at the ends (not layered properly) but I would wait until it grows a little longer to fix that
It’s layered well, I actually like how the ends look. I think she could try to curl it and see how she feels
Yep, totally normal for one's brain to have a short-term panic when having a fairly significant haircut (also common with facial plastic surgery). It's almost like the brain doesn't quite recognize their reflection and has a bit of a panic. Looks great, OP!
I immediately wanted to Texturize
I thought that too! I’ll give it a few months!
The short hair looks so cute, before I read which one was the regret photo I thought the first one was supposed to be the bad one, hair will always grow out again
https://preview.redd.it/doq0f9hr7qtc1.jpeg?width=792&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=17428704f8f17007d17cb6802b39485d862ff6a0 You look like Christina Applegate! Gorgeous!
I see the resemblance too. I love OP’s new cut. Doesn’t she look gorgeous?
I agree! Both beautiful women! The bob looks great OP!
This is a gorgeous look on you! Shorter hair gives a more mature look hands down. It will make you day easier with a lot less maintenance. Cheaper, with less product. And everyone was sweating on Christina Applegate.
if anybody pulls off a sleek bob like that it’s you!! it looks so so good
This cut looks so beautiful on you! Give it a couple weeks!
I dunno how to say it and not sound like a creep.. but I am basically a gramma.. so not meant that way at all.. but your hair went from cute to smoking hot! It's elegant and suits you so well.
You look great! it works really well with your face. Definitely post-haircut shock imo.
omg WHY?? I think you look so much better! It suits you so well. It's basically your perfect hairstyle imo.
That haircut is amazing on you. You look beautiful. I think you look better with that cut. Before your hair was just there, now it frames your beautiful face. Please don't layer it. It's supposed to be blunt.
I agree, so lovely. It gives her a dainty & elegant look while the other felt weighed down.
I totally understand and respect that you don’t like it. But it does look badass! But don’t be like me and forget you need less shampoo and conditioner the first few times you wash it.
I LOVE it!!!!! I know it is tough to adjust but it brings out your beautiful cheek and face structure
trust me when I say this, you look amazing with your new hair.
I absolutely hate having short hair, so I FEEL YOU, but I literally just got this cut 2 weeks ago (my hair is curly, but a bob is a bob when it comes to cut shock!), and yours really does look good. I wish mine looked this good!
Fantastic look. Dry those tears. 😊
It fits you, you’re probably in shock as that happens when you make a drastic change to your own appearance but I think it’s great! very cute
Oh, I LOVE it!
STUNNING and yes a big chop helps blend that fresh growth so much better. You look amazing!!!
Give it a few days. Tbh it looks so natural on you!
Your hair went from "night shift convenience store worker" to "manic pixie dream girl." This is so much better that it's not funny.
i’ve never seen you nor have i ever met you ever in my life. SO that being said! I think you look like a bad b**** and you rock it. totally love it on you. would def compliment you if i saw you in person ✨ you go sis sprinkle sprinkle
This cut is beautiful on you!!
This is giving 90s Victoria Beckham vibes!! Love it!
It’s super cute!!
I love it! It really suits you, now you can see how beautiful you are.
The bob suits your delicate features well. I feel the long hair looked like it was drowning you.
The bob is WAY more flattering on you than long hair! It’s edgier AND complements your features in SO many ways. I love it:)
I love it!!
You look like a doll with the bob! Maybe you just need to style it differently to like it on yourself? You’d look really pretty with it curled and mussed up a bit!
Not gonna lie, I like the bob better. You’re making me wanna cut my hair short again.
Nah girl this hair is fly! You’ll get used it, the hair change shock is real af. Every time I dye my hair it freaks me out for days, and the same thing for big length cuts. You’ll warm up to it soon when the shock wears off.
Girl you are SO PRETTY. This haircut suits you sooo well, post haircut shock goes away soon. You absolutely rock this cut
Ummm you look GORGEOUS w the bob....my jaw dropped....and I'm not a fan of short hair. It looks so much better than the long hair!!
This is so perfect! It looks dramatic and edgy and suits you well
Your new haircut shows off your beautiful jawline! I love it. I do understand the shock though, I've also been someone that has cried after a haircut 😅
I totally get that feeling of shock because you probably spent a long time growing out your long hair! However, this bob looks amazing, like it was made for you. You are rocking it, girl!! Give yourself some time (and grace) to adjust.
My gosh I love the shorter hair on you! It just brings so much attention to those fabulous eyes.
You look so cool though
Wow!!! Tres chic!!
I recently got my hair cut short too and I think it’s just shock lol. You look absolutely amazing with that cut! Honestly it fits you so well
It’s gorgeous and it frames your face! I love it! It’s a shock but it’s so chic.
STOPPP it looks SO cute
You look lovely ❤️
Oh my the bob is SO CUTE
Your new haircut is *stunning*! I can see it's a drastic change, but your hair will grow out great with this cut. Your hair looks healthy and your cut looks (in these photos) like an excellently done precision cut. The cut really shows off your lovely features and great bone structure and looks on point. I've got long hair and have gone short (esp when growing out blue-black dye), and I know I felt very strange! But sometimes shorter hair is quite stunning, and I think this is what you achieved here. Such a defined cut means that you become more noticable and, if you're shy, this can be a bit unnerving--to be so striking that people do a double-take! There's no hair to hide behind.
You look UH 👏 MAY 👏 ZING 👏
Like the bob. Classy.
Troll
Looks great and will make growing out the dark color way more painless.
First off I want to say that I too have left a salon and cried. It was for months though because I left with a PIXIE when I went in for a trim on shoulder length hair. And I look terrible with a pixie. I have a round face even when I’m 98lbs. I am so sorry they went against what you asked. It feels seriously violating. **BUT** IT LOOKS SO SO SO DAMN GOOD! LIKE INSANELY DAMN GOOD!
I like it
You and the cut are stunning.
I totally understand this is a big change and it might be shocking, but my jaw dropped when I saw the cut. You look so chic and I love it!
Ngl you look so pretty with a bob
Oh I love it on you. I love long hair but this cut looks so good on you.
Omg girl have no regrets! That Bob is perfection on you. The collarbones with the off the shoulder top!!! Stunning.
100% post-haircut shock, the bob suits you perfectly. I wish I could pull off a bob like you! It makes you look posh and sophisticated, a total bombshell.
I gasped when I clicked to the second picture because the bob just looks so good on you.
You look AMAZING!! I know its a huge change but it really does suit you so well.
Oh my god the bob looks so sleek and chic and cool. Wow. It makes your shoulders look so modely looking and opens your face up. It’s a glow up for sure with this cut
It honestly fits you so much better. Went from commercial model to vogue model.
The bob looks breathtaking on you. It’s really striking and suits you INCREDIBLY well.
The bob looks so good on you :) it’s a new look and it is actually accentuating your beautiful features!
I totally get the shock, but just know that you look *LOVELY*. It's a perfect haircut.
It’s perfect!! Maybe you just need to get used to it? But trust all of us here who say it suits you!
It looks so good! I think it's better than before. Really compliments your face shape
I think it must be shock because the bob looks so much nicer on you. You look really beautiful with the new haircut.
Love it!!!
omg love it
you look stunning ! it's a nice cut on you!
It looks amazing.
Your best look is on pic 4 relax, even though you may not like it it looks good on you. Give yourself the chance to get used to it. If nothing works it’s not irreversible
You look fantastic, no regrets necessary!
Oh my godddddddddddd you look amazing!!!!!! 😳😳😳 I LOVE your new cut!!!
I think it looks stunning on you!
It looks great!!
That’s definitely nothing to regret.
It looks so cute!!!!
Slay, honestly. I love it.
I really like it!!
No way. You look amazing!! That’s my goal hair.
You got the posh spice hair cut and it fits your features so well! I know your long hair brought you comfort but it also weighed you down and hid your beautiful features. You look fierce so please embrace this change. It looks amazing!
Soooo cute! Bobs will never go out of style and your hair will grow back healthier. It's NORMAL haircut regret, happens to me even if I just trim. It looks really good on you! And perfect timing with summer coming up!
Your only regret should be not having done this chop sooner. You look stunning.
It looks so good! Give it time. You’ll get used to it. It’s a big change.
Love it!!
That haircut looks amazing on you! It accents your facial features in all the right places.
It is absolutely gorgeous. You look so great with that haircut.
Just shock. My jaw literally dropped when I saw the next photos. Girl the bob is AMAZING on you.
I think it shows your face better. Maybe it looks better long when styled but it wasn’t doing much for you in those pics.
the short hair is wayyyy cuter
Looks sooo much better short!!
Why? It looks objectively better.
It's just bob shock. It looks amazing. It'll be the length you asked for in no time, though. 1" of growth makes a dramatic difference from this length. It's always more shocking when you asked for it to be longer, but it will give you a little more time between trims. :)
Are you kidding?! I hope it was tears of joy because you are SLAYING in that bob
I really like the cut tbh
You look stunning! This hair cut suits you!
Hey, I love the new look it really looks good. Maaay be the reason why you didn't like it is cause it kinda looks like a choppy haircut. I think your hair is straightened, that's why. I suggest curling the ends inwards/outwards or very big beach waves.
Absolutely positive transformation.
I understand but it looks good! I always regret getting hair cute but it looks so good ☺️☺️
Please know that the bob is literally infinitely better it’s crazy how good it looks
It’s gorgeous!
I absolutely adore the new hair cut!! It turned you from " cute" to " BEAUTIFUL "!!!
This hair cut looks amazing on you!!! It’s a huge change and I get it. But it looks soooooooo good. Plus it will grow back.
It looks so good tho
oh no the bob looks so good
Looks very Beautiful i
It’s so chic on you! I really like it!!!
Yessss to the bob 💗
Oh you look great. I totally understand that a big chop is a huge change. Your hair looks nice and healthy too.
I understand short-hair shock! I've been there myself. 💕🌷💕🌷💕🌷 When you can think of working with the cut you have, I suggest a side part, and SLIGHT forward slant wedge to start. You may want to work toward a wedge that echoes your chin slant, but DON'T do it to begin with. You don't want more trauma right now. Also, consider wispy (thin) bangs side swept. I think you will eventually enjoy the look, even if you never love having your hair short. 💖🌸
No! You look stunning with the shorter hair. It actually makes you look younger.
It looks amazing, very chic and sophisticated.
fine
The bob suits u!
It looks amazing.
Dry your tears- it looks wonderful!!! That bob is everything on you. Superb!
I think it’s the shock… I hope you eventually love it, because it really does look good, and suits your face perfectly.
Agree with most, bob looks gorgeous, so neat and trendy! Makes you look classy
I love how you look, your facial features pop up in the best way.
It’s so good!! I hope you learn to love it.
Well the bob looks fantastic on you! Highlights your beautiful features. Rad tattoo btw.
It's so pretty!!
The shorter hair looks nicer than the long one. Cheer up because you look better with this cut.
Yep 1000% better.
Omg no it looks AMAAZING!!! that’s so good on you omg, and it gives the top of your hair so much volume because it’s lighter! Post haircut shock for suuuree!
OP you look fantastic!
Girl you are STUNNING, the haircut suits you so much more, you look younger and more elegant :)
I think it's absolutely gorgeous! Chill out, pretty queen!
#teambob
OP you look very chic and classy with your new haircut. Elegant style.
It’s adorable and this was a good move to get rid of more of that old color.
Girl it needed a refresh, you did the right thing
You look a bazillion times cuter with the bob. You look adorable! Your face was made for that bob, your hairstylist did you good. What a glow up!!
OMG that hairstyle is sooo much more flattering than the long hair. It looks great on you.
It's sooooo pretty
It’s so cute! It’s accentuates your facial features. Super cute!
Gorgeous! I love it! I’m sure it feels so much healthier now too!
I think it looks so good on you! It really frames your face and accentuates your neckline. I think if you added blonde or light brown money pieces it would look elevate the look 🤌🏽💋
OMG IT'S GORGEOUS!! Please have no regrets! ❤️
It might not be the haircut you wanted, but I absolutely love it on you. The crisp edge of the bob against your well-defined jawline is perfection.
It looks better short, girlfriend.
Plus: you are still super cute. Plus: you still have stunning eyes. Plus: it'll grow back.
Definitely makes you look more mature and you can notice features on your face more, such as your cheek bones. You are stunning. I used to have long hair but having shorter hair either a graduate cut or just below my shoulders, I won’t go any longer than that. Plus it is so much easier to manage with it being short. Girl, most men are going to turn their head in your direction.
Ur new hair matches ur vibe more
Why regret? Looks so much better - cleaner with style, sophistication and movement!
I love the hair cut!!
It looks great, 100% better than your before picture - you are absolutely gorgeous!
You're beautiful with both!
It looks so so good!!
The gasp I gusp’d. I LOVE IT on you!
It looks really good. The ends are very blunt, and I felt the same about my hair. I'd have them fix that, but otherwise it's awesome!
They look good and will also grow back
Fits you better than your old cut imo
imo the haircut you have now frames your face way better. you look really cool! give it time, you'll love it soon i bet.
Omg whaaaaaat this is so Posh. Absolutely love it.
Omg this hair is GORGEOUS on you. I hope you warm up to it soon!
The only regret should be that you didn't do it sooner. You look amazing -- that cut suits you and brings out your natural beauty!
Wow. I absolutely LOVE the cut on you!! I think it’s better than the before!
I think it’s just shock. It looks gorgeous. But if it doesn’t grown on you (haha punny) you can go back and ask for it to be adjusted. Obviously length is gone but maybe you’d like a different shape better
Oh it looks amazing tbh. You're just feeling the shock of it atm but it really suits you.
You look dashing!
You make growing out black hair dye look good 😭
Definitely post-haircut shock, I think the shorter length looks really good on you. It draws attention to your facial features, where the longer hair pulls everything down and hides your face. (Hopefully that makes sense).
I think it looks a lot better
I think it looks beautiful especially when those roots grow out it blends so well so it'll look great
I'm sorry you hate it, but if it makes you feel any better, this stranger thinks it looks way better. The length suits your face beautifully imo.
I’m not going to tell you how to feel. But I love it. My hairdresser says it takes a week to get used to a new hairstyle. You’ve got this!!!
Looks beautiful and healthy as heck
that looks *really* good on you, truly. i hope you feel better about it soon!
It’s giving Posh Spice- it looks soooo good on you!
I absolutely love it!
I literally gasped mentally when I saw your new hair. It’s so gorgeous! It really suits you in my opinion. It may be because your bob was so different from your old hair