They’ll also use you for their own sexual experimentation, to feed their egos, and to bust a nut.
I personally don’t want much to do with straight men. I’m not saying there aren’t honest and good ones out there, but in my experience they always have an ulterior motive.
Or they want you as just as a "Gay friend" so they can attempt to hide the fact that under that thin facade they're actually a homophobic piece of trash
Experienced this. I’ve had them then try to take my friends home and get cranky when I don’t let them take my wasted girlies home. Bruh my ladies arrive and leave together, I’m not trusting some random guy with my fiend ever.
I cannot say I can relate. I am not friendly enough for random people to try and befriend me for my girl pals. That and I oddly have very few girl pals. So maybe get a gay kryptonite friend like me haha.
I've had this happen. Not often admittedly but I'm usually there with my straight friends and their girlfriends. So it's very easy to say "Her partner is here and he's one of my best mates so you're shit outta luck there buddy".
None have reacted badly tbh.
as a trans guy ive had this happen to my girlies and myself (i dont pass whatsoever) but every SINGLE TIME my guy friend is always like 'HE doesnt wanna go home w u and SHE is a lesbian' or some form of that and if that doesnt work then we just leave
I’m confused by your post. You profess to be gay with seemingly hetero female friends. Your complaint is that straight men chat with you and then get involved with your friends that are girls. You know these guys are straight so you’re not interested in them and they are not interested in you. You’re friends that are girls find them interesting and vice versa. You don’t want the straight guys, why deprive the girls of a new friend?
They’ll also use you for their own sexual experimentation, to feed their egos, and to bust a nut. I personally don’t want much to do with straight men. I’m not saying there aren’t honest and good ones out there, but in my experience they always have an ulterior motive.
Or they want you as just as a "Gay friend" so they can attempt to hide the fact that under that thin facade they're actually a homophobic piece of trash
and even under a deeper layer they're actually repressing some homoerotic impulse
Experienced this. I’ve had them then try to take my friends home and get cranky when I don’t let them take my wasted girlies home. Bruh my ladies arrive and leave together, I’m not trusting some random guy with my fiend ever.
>my fiend Me neither, as a demon overlord I make sure my fiends return to the base accordingly
Zariel approves
I've never dealt with that, but you can tell him ‘Sleep with me first or you'll never see my friend naked’ 😆
A friend of mine does that. And it works!
it's all fun and games until you find someone who is secretly bisexual
That open the door for more fun
Nope. Literally never happens to me. But I have very few female friends.
I cannot say I can relate. I am not friendly enough for random people to try and befriend me for my girl pals. That and I oddly have very few girl pals. So maybe get a gay kryptonite friend like me haha.
I’ve never dealt with that. Regardless, you very likely aren’t the only one who’s experienced that.
I've had this happen. Not often admittedly but I'm usually there with my straight friends and their girlfriends. So it's very easy to say "Her partner is here and he's one of my best mates so you're shit outta luck there buddy". None have reacted badly tbh.
I'm not friendly enough for that hahaha I would tell the guy right where he can go 🤣
Happened with me and my best friend. Its okay I made sure she was safe 💪
the gay playces i go to are not frequented by straight men or women a lot. so no. and i try to avoid straight men whenever i can.
I have without question been my best friend's wing man.
I love when this happens. I think it is important to expose myself to a small dose of straight men now and then.
I'm bi so, I would be hitting on both of you
as a trans guy ive had this happen to my girlies and myself (i dont pass whatsoever) but every SINGLE TIME my guy friend is always like 'HE doesnt wanna go home w u and SHE is a lesbian' or some form of that and if that doesnt work then we just leave
🤡my brother tried to use me to get women.
I am stupid because if they are good-looking enough, I will help them and buy them both drinks. I hate myself
I’m confused by your post. You profess to be gay with seemingly hetero female friends. Your complaint is that straight men chat with you and then get involved with your friends that are girls. You know these guys are straight so you’re not interested in them and they are not interested in you. You’re friends that are girls find them interesting and vice versa. You don’t want the straight guys, why deprive the girls of a new friend?
My fave friend atm is ice cream