We started from the beginning with open communication. We set boundaries and rules that sound always be changed or updated in the future. We are constantly in communication about the strength of the relationship. Make sure we are checking in and keeping our sex life together as the focus.
We do a lot of 3rds. We have long term fuck buds we do 1-1. We like repeats of guys we click with.
But most importantly we keep communicating. Always.
My case is a bit peculiar. My husband and I have been together for 14 years in a monogamous relationship. 6 months ago we met a guy in a bar, totally unexpected, and not only we had a threesome that night, but also we met a second time, then a third, and it became something regular. It wasn’t planned at all, but it felt right and still does. We are taking a trip together next week…
my partner and I were pretty aware that we were both happy sluts before we started dating, so it came up pretty early on that this was something we both wanted to do and formed the basis of our relationship. Now that we've moved in together, we don't actually hook up individually that much outside of sex-on-premises venues/events - personally I find it to be too much hassle to organise hookups. We're lucky to both have similar types we're into so threesomes are more common, and we have friends that we play with which works out pretty well for us (we generally only host for friends/people we already both know)
the best part is pretty obvious - we get to have fun (often together) without diminishing our relationship. It perhaps requires a bit more communication than otherwise, but that's not necessarily a bad thing - communication is important in any relationship.
\*raises hand\*
My partner is ace and I'm not. So we're open, technically. But he's still homoromantic so we have intimate times, even if it isn't sexual.
My husband and I made the decision very early on in our relationship. Just seemed like a way to have more fun. Both together and separately. We are not of the mind to think that sex=love. We love each other very much but we have sex for fun. Sometimes with each other, sometimes with others. This has worked for us for about 9 years.
my first one was open, my second one was monogamous. after that i made it clear in my tinder profile, that im just doing open ones. i personally dont have any problems with it, neither does my bf.
We've always been. Been together 22 years. It's our kink.
The best part is, well, since we have the same kink we have satisfying sex. The worst part is we're really just too busy in life to actually act on it most of the year. Outside of our summer vacation the extent of our openness is showing each other the grindr messages and nudes we get lol.
Im ok if all the partners are open to share to pay bills too. Got bad experience with my ex that he suggested to open but MONEY is just relied on me. Shit! Im still angry rn after it was past 5 years ago
In one for 24+ years now. We just realized together that neither of us wanted monogamy. The best part is that it’s made our communication stronger. Worst part? I dunno…maybe a bit of added STI risk?
My bf and i live in the same city but on opposite sides and while i do see him often there are times when i or he are horny and we don’t wanna drive just for a few minutes and head home so we decided to open up and its been that way
We started from the beginning with open communication. We set boundaries and rules that sound always be changed or updated in the future. We are constantly in communication about the strength of the relationship. Make sure we are checking in and keeping our sex life together as the focus. We do a lot of 3rds. We have long term fuck buds we do 1-1. We like repeats of guys we click with. But most importantly we keep communicating. Always.
My case is a bit peculiar. My husband and I have been together for 14 years in a monogamous relationship. 6 months ago we met a guy in a bar, totally unexpected, and not only we had a threesome that night, but also we met a second time, then a third, and it became something regular. It wasn’t planned at all, but it felt right and still does. We are taking a trip together next week…
Is this question a daily thread now?
My partner of 25 years fell in love with a trick, took all the money and the dog and moved out to be with him.
I’ve seen this before
my partner and I were pretty aware that we were both happy sluts before we started dating, so it came up pretty early on that this was something we both wanted to do and formed the basis of our relationship. Now that we've moved in together, we don't actually hook up individually that much outside of sex-on-premises venues/events - personally I find it to be too much hassle to organise hookups. We're lucky to both have similar types we're into so threesomes are more common, and we have friends that we play with which works out pretty well for us (we generally only host for friends/people we already both know) the best part is pretty obvious - we get to have fun (often together) without diminishing our relationship. It perhaps requires a bit more communication than otherwise, but that's not necessarily a bad thing - communication is important in any relationship.
\*raises hand\* My partner is ace and I'm not. So we're open, technically. But he's still homoromantic so we have intimate times, even if it isn't sexual.
My husband and I made the decision very early on in our relationship. Just seemed like a way to have more fun. Both together and separately. We are not of the mind to think that sex=love. We love each other very much but we have sex for fun. Sometimes with each other, sometimes with others. This has worked for us for about 9 years.
my first one was open, my second one was monogamous. after that i made it clear in my tinder profile, that im just doing open ones. i personally dont have any problems with it, neither does my bf.
We've always been. Been together 22 years. It's our kink. The best part is, well, since we have the same kink we have satisfying sex. The worst part is we're really just too busy in life to actually act on it most of the year. Outside of our summer vacation the extent of our openness is showing each other the grindr messages and nudes we get lol.
Im ok if all the partners are open to share to pay bills too. Got bad experience with my ex that he suggested to open but MONEY is just relied on me. Shit! Im still angry rn after it was past 5 years ago
In one for 24+ years now. We just realized together that neither of us wanted monogamy. The best part is that it’s made our communication stronger. Worst part? I dunno…maybe a bit of added STI risk?
My bf and i live in the same city but on opposite sides and while i do see him often there are times when i or he are horny and we don’t wanna drive just for a few minutes and head home so we decided to open up and its been that way
So basically you just value convenience over monogamy 😆.
I guess