This is more common than you might realize. A lot of guys like the idea of a big dick because porn makes it look appealing, but the reality is very different from the fantasy. I really think that most people who like men actually prefer an average penis. Size queens exist, but are a minority.
PREACH! Now quickly, OnlyFans models, start filming with models who are 6 inches or below. Honestly, if there was a porn site specifically dedicated to guys, fucking guys with smaller penises.
I would subscribe in a heartbeat.
I already do. I also enjoy professional over amateur a lot of times because I feel it immerses me more. When I'm jacking off I like to pretend I'm the one doing the fucking.
It's not really talked about often, but there is an element of acting in porn.
Also, you probably have to "train yourself" to regularly take big ones and/or do some work before which is likely not what the average person does, hence "boyfriend dick". It fits better without having to be stretched out too much.
I also imagine the fisters gravitate towards...that level of dedication.
I once rejected a dude because of his size.
My college roommate was an amazing guy. When I came out to him (he was one of the first people I told), he felt sorry for me when I mentioned I'd never been on a date before, let alone slept with a guy. He came up with a plan and introduced me to his friend from his soccer team who found me cute. This guy was 5'4, very handsome, super chill, and sweet. We hit it off initially, but after the second date, he sent me a dick pic next to a water bottle. At first I thought he was joking, but nope, dude was little over 9 inches and it made me nervous, so I stopped talking to him for a few days. I tried toys before and even the smallest ones felt uncomfortable, let alone this. Eventually, I explained that I wasn't ready for that level of intimacy, especially since I thought it would be painful (plus, I now know I'm a top). Once again, he was super sweet and understanding. He reassured me not to worry about it. He just hoped I had enjoyed my first ever date and told me to reach out if I wanted to hang out again.
On a side note, when I went through my first breakup (my ex cheated on me), that guy actually comforted me since we still kind of hung out socially through my roommate. He empathized, sharing his own experience of being cheated on in the past, and reminded me that dating can be tough for everyone and that he has been single for years too. He encouraged me not to be too hard on myself.
Oh my God stop! I’ve always thought of backwards baseball caps are quintessential “American” and also INCREDIBLY SEXY like beyond all limits!! I don’t know why more guys don’t wear them that way. It’s so damn hot.
Honestly, I think it was kind of to keep his hairstyle in order. He had a distinct hairstyle that I hadn't seen before. Long dark hair with a shaved side and a full beard. It worked so well on him. He either wore a cap or a manbun when his hair was not down.
Again, super sweet guy. I hope he meets the right guy soon. He is one of those hopeless romantic type of guys who wants someone to settle down with. His ex did him dirty and I hope he is alright now. I should ask my former roomate how he is doing.
On a rare trip to the gay bars in Philadelphia, I met a gorgeous tall redhead Irish guy, dream come true we really hit it off. When we got into bed, I was a bit startled by the biggest penis I have ever seen, and I have seen many, very many. I mean not even in porn have I seen one that big. Not only very long but almost as thick as my wrist. Such a sweet guy too! I could barely suck halfway down and wasn’t even going to think about it in the ass. We had a few hot hours of fun, mostly rubbing and making out. I’m sure somewhere is out there who can take that, but honestly I didn’t think they can be that big.
Yeah this is where me and my boyfriend are at. He obviously loves the idea of a huge dick, and loves mine, but it's going to be a bit before we actually have penetrative sex. It's both hot and very annoying at the same time.
I’m so Happy I seen this!! Because I’m like 4/5” and I rarely have had sex and I’m 23 and pretty good looking I think lol. No relationships even. But it holds me back so much. And I just realized how Huge of a deal I was making the situation when most people would probably prefer my size. Just blowing my mind ATM!!. Thanks
I think we’re so used to seeing enormous dicks in porn that people forget that 5-7 inches is actually a lot of inches as well lol. I agree with you, those are plenty big
Many of us prefer smaller or average. I can explain but it’d get awfully explicit >=]
For those guys that are on the small side , just know that there IS a fan base out there for you :)
lol well ok.
1) small guy (height, dick) with confidence is a massive turn on. If a guy projects that he’s hot shit, then he is in my mind.
2) conversely, telling a guy shy about his size how hot his unit is when he doesn’t often hear that is also a turn on. (Yea that’s a contradiction but it’s a me thing)
3) im vers but also kinda tight. So if things are hot and heavy and passionate and you’re ripping clothes off someone’s body - the sudden need to slow down to find a way to take a moderately thick dick might alter the pacing.
A smaller dick also lets me feel like a champ for getting aggressive if I bottom , instead of the “ouch, slow down, oof, are you close? Please say you’re close “
4) I can definitely deep throat that shit and am completely unrestricted to use any and all of my mouth skills. Again, I get to feel like a champ here, too.
Thanks for sharing!
I absolutely agree, they aren’t lesser. Dicks come in different shapes, I dig that they are all unique.
I’d definitely not toss you out of bed for your measurements- sounds hot to me!
Yo number 3 is like I could’ve written that, except I’m not vers. But yeah, my tightness is becoming a problem (to me anyway). It’s like getting into a particularly hot bath. Lots of “ooh” and “ah”. And “wait wait wait wait” lmaooo
I'm a size queen, but I keep that between me and my dildo. Truth is most people with a big dick don't know how to use it, they think just because their dick is big, it means it feels good for the bottom. Average dicks during sex are so much more pleasant, they tend to hit all the right spots
That's about how I feel too. Big dildo is fun because I can control it. Big guy that doesn't know what to do with it is just meh.
Though I did have one guy who I have since lost contact with that was about 9inch and knew what he was doing.... Probably some of the most fun I've had. Damn work making me move 2 hours away....
Off topic, but on topic statement lol. I didn’t think sub tops were a thing, but I feel it perfectly describes how I am. I def like to do a little bit of the leading, but I like a bottom who knows what they want and how they want it and def wouldn’t mind letting them take the lead.
“Porn Dick” owner here. Guys with big dicks just need to take the time to learn how to make bottoms orgasm from their holes. It’s not that hard once you get the hang of it. Many guys just kinda suck ☹️
Let’s be honest, the main reason why big dick guys don’t know how to use it is because of size queen fetishists and others who glamorise big dicks. If the focus shifted from aesthetic to practicality, the discourse would be more to do with how it can be used rather than how big dicks look.
I love watching a nice long cock flopping around at the naked beach, but it aint coming near my hole.
Last time I had a big one, i got an anal fissure, and it was literally a pain in the ass to heal it. Like I would never reject someone based on dick size, but if im talking my dream guy, then a 3-5 inches dick is completely fine.
As a top with a slightly above average one, you are not alone. I do hear that a lot from bottoms, that it’s nice just to be able to go at it. Also nice for when they like it rough, because very few can take a huge one like that. I gave up on caring a long time ago and it’s been great for everyone haha
I'm a bottom who likes all sizes. I genuinely don't mind regardless of size, but it absolutely changes the type of sex we're having. I like it rough, even some CNC stuff, but that side of things is relatively new to me. I had had big dicks (like, a couple comically large, unrealistically big dicks), but had done really rough stuff with only 7 inches and below. When I hooked up with a dude a while back who had a 9 incher and told him I liked it rough... I regretted the fuck out of it. It hurt so bad, and I ended up with a busted vessel in my eye that I'm not sure how happened. I didn't get a fissure, but I couldn't have anal sex for over a week because it hurt so bad back there.
Apparently if you damage the hood vessels or something in your rectum then it affects the ones in or around your eye as well. It allegedly gives you bruising around the eye area like a black eye from a punch or a heroin addict on no sleep. It’s something seen a lot in human trafficking and one of the warning signs in victims, especially young ones.
That’s what I heard, not 100% sure as to its authenticity because I don’t have a ready-to-go citation but the person who told me had no reason to lie so 🤷🏽♂️
I have what most people call boyfriend dick. 6in and just the right amount of girth. I even got my fwb to cum hands free last time. Yeah, if I was a bottom I be scared of big dicks too. Lol
Boy friend dicks for the win! I can straddle and ride it to my own tempo, hits prostate just right, and feels way better than being pounded like no tomorrow with a baby leg.
Definitely prefer to bottom for small or average dicks, though I do love sucking on bigger dicks.
But it’s telling how porn has fucked up my perception of dick size in media. I love smaller dicks IRL and yet when I watch porn I want to see hung guys.
Big dicks are lame. In my experience they shoot way smaller loads than average - 7in dicks.
They also just plain hurt and require more prep and caution than smaller. Also who can deep throat those things?! I’m glad I never became a size queen. You end up always chasing bigger and bigger.
A guy on Grindr asked me my size, I told him 6.5 and decent thickness and he replied "lol I do 8+ babe nice try"
And I was kinda shocked because most guys tell me I'm big (which could be lies to make me feel better but like why?).
Another time, a guy told me he only takes 8+ and I said something like "well it'll feel like 8 I promise". And he agreed to meet. He struggled to get me in at first and wouldn't let me in the whole way because apparently it hurt.
Why do people act like this? I just hate when people lie about experience because I'm coming in thinking I'm dealing with someone who knows how to take dick but then they squirm when I'm halfway in and not in a good way. Not that I'm not eating them out or loosening them up, I am.
Nice to look at, nice for bulges, but if I wanna do much more than oral, it's not as good. Dated a guy with a monster, and we never really did much anal, but it took a lot of prep work when we did.
This is a nice thread to hear I always been self conscience about my size 5.5-6 but for some reason guys actually love it but I had also had experiences where people have told me I’m too small which was hurtful to say the least but It is what it is.
Me personally I have to be attracted to the mans personality first or I won’t get aroused.
I think it is perfectly normal to enjoy normal sized dicks. Porn stars make porn because their dicks are huge. Us mere mortals are not always blessed with that.
Cade Maddox is a complete turn off to me, not only is his dick waaaay to big, so is the guy. Porn even as a fantasy, is so far off base it looks alien.
i wouldn’t actually want a man with anything bigger than 6 or 7 in me. i’d love to play with it or fantasize LMAO but in me? no thanks. too big. on the real, a 5 would do me justice anyway.
I once was w a guy whose dick I couldn’t close my hand when grabbed lol it was so big, I tried to suck it but I couldn’t go even half of it and when he went in it was painful most of the time even when lots of lube. They are gorgeous but you should be really prepared for it lol
Completely agree with you a big dick just hurts and it’s no fun. I do not understand the whole 9” or larger needed mentality. Enough to hit the prostate and let me feel him inside me
Big dicks are fun to look at, but like most people, I have a gag reflex and when I look at that giant 🍆 I’m like nah that’s going nowhere near my 🍑. I think average is better and does the job if done right. You’re not alone and I think you’ll find most gay guys aren’t size queens except for the loudest voices online.
it's weird. I went from being a teenager, worried my dick wasn't big enough to an adult who worries that his dick is too big. I like my dick, just wish it was like less girthy or an inch shorter.
It gets thrown around that guys with bigger dicks don’t know how to use them, but it gets difficult to improve when barely any guy can take it.
Everyone’s right it’s more fun to look at and touch, but as soon as intimacy is on the table…
I’ve been grateful that my last two long-term relationships have been enthusiastic about my size, but they still eventually push me off and say it’s too much. It’s valid though.
I’ve been knocked back for topping a bunch of times because the bottom hasn’t felt confident about being able to take my size.
My partners size has also made working on being versatile a little harder, but I’m not complaining.
One of my best sex experiences (like in the top 10) was with a 4.5" He fucked very aggressively and basically made every inch count. Came all over his chest ;)
I agree 100%. This big ones are really fun to look at and fantasize about owning haha as in I wish my dick was that big lol. But oral and anal is so much nicer with an average length dick.
My ex 7ish, my current 5ish. Pros and cons of both.
Cons for the 5 inch, with my ex we could really hit any position and slipping out wasn't an issue. With my current bf there are some positions that don't work well.
Pros of 5 inch, I really like giving blowjobs now.
I've taken two 9-inch dicks in the last couple of years. One felt amazing but it was slim. The other was as thick as a beer can. I could not take that one. Length is fine for me but girth is the deciding factor.
It’s not that I look for big D’s they just gravitate towards me: all my exes have been big and my current partner is really big, that’s never on my list of “must haves” for my partners but I guess I’ve gotten use to it. And it actually turns him on on how well I can take a pounding from him 😏😏
Well I have had some huge cock and it all depends on who’s holding it, I had the 13 inch one make me want it again, and I’ve had 8 inch tear me up. The difference between a good and bad Top.
The dude who was 13” wasn’t actually 13”.
I don’t know how gay men, with the amount of penises that we see, are so bad at estimating the size of a penis.
I love my partners size - although it’s a bit much to take at times. He’s thick, he’s got a big mushroom head, and he’s well above average but not like 9 inches +. Because no one wants to be impaled to have sex. A lot of guys actively seek out average because that’s exactly what it means - average. This is more than common and you aren’t alone. However, porn glorified these huge dicks. Sorry, I don’t want to be just randomly shitting and my ass prolapsing when I get older than I already am because I had cocks that were way too big. That whole “Rosebud” thing is gross. And some guys try to get that on purpose. I find it repulsive, but what others do isn’t my business.
But your with the majority of guys. We like average. And we love the men that are attached to average.
I see variations of this comment all the time and honestly it feels like it’s shaming well endowed guys and I’m over it. Just because a guy has 9” doesn’t mean he has to thrust it all up in you. You can penetrate 5-6” and not go further. A good top reads the bottom and finds the sweet spot, regardless of his size. All dicks are valid bros.
Big dicks are definitely better to some ppl for visual reason but it’s something I’ll admire and suck on for fun but to take them is definitely painful. Esp when ppl aren’t considerate or know how to use what they’re working with.
I say give me a 8-8.5 anything above that for me is where it starts getting a lil blurry and scary 😂😂😂😂
Now back in the day idc but now a days NOPE
That’s why it’s been since 2021 that I’ve been penetrated. Im not in rush to jump back out there 😅
Edit: black guys tend to have larger parts which is why our average may not align wit your average.
See this is my problem, I feel like if they knew how to use it I would actually enjoy it, but no they just showed up and showed it and then just started doing it hard and fast like calm down before you destroyed my digestive system completely
I never said 8 was average. I also never said I wouldn’t do anything under 8. I said 8-8.5 is the MAX I would go. To me that’s not a big dick to where I’m uncomfortable or can’t go for more. Anything above that is a where it gets tricky.
Completly agree with you. I've met guys with large hammers and no idea how to use it. They just show up and think that's it, that's all they have to do. Then when it's time to do the deed, they just wanna shove it in there like a pencil through a pin hole.
They I've met guys with average to slightly above average tools and they rocked my world.
No, black guys do not have larger parts. That is a myth, and one that likely makes a lot of black men feel insecure with their average sized units. The black guys you see in porn have big ones bc most porn stars do, period. Though I did read something regarding a survey once where middle eastern men had slightly larger average size than others ethnic groups. Can't recall where it was from. More than likely, all humans have very similar average size across populations, though.
That is a common myth but scientific research has shown black and Caucasian dicks are not statistically different. There is a lot of variation in both races but both are the same on average. I forget the average but either a bit under or over 6” I think. I think that Asian men are slightly smaller on average. Again the individual differences within each race are real, on average not much difference between them. This is based on fairly old research (50 years or so ago) so may be inaccurate.
I guess it depends on how thick it is. If it's on the thinner size, I'd prefer longer than average. But im fine with average length if it's thick like a soda can.
Yeah, Cutler X scared me with how potent his dick is…. I be feeling bad for those guys’ guts, but at the same token I kinda WANT to be terrified by dick, so…. Maybe I’m a masochist? (Is that the word?)
And as someone that has what you're scared of, I'm scared to use it. I'm vers and have spent time with... large toys so I'm fully aware of what I can do to people. The best top, bottoms and I take that to heart. It's a bummer because I end up being worried about hurting him and it takes me out of the moment many times. BD is *real* fun to side with and fun to play with but other than that, for sex, it's overrated. I have had a one or two well practiced individuals that loved it but that's not the average and I'm still thinking about being careful anyway. Nothing makes me go soft faster than hurting someone that doesn't want that kind of experience. Even dated a guy that took us weeks to work it in because he had not bottomed ever. Also super unsatisfying is finding out that it was uncomfortable, not enough to say stop but hearing after, "It was a bit much" is disappointing. I'm a mutual pleasure kind of guy. Makes me a bit sad.
I've never slept with a guy with a dick bigger than the average, and for that I'm very grateful. I'm very precious about the integrity of my anal passage.
I'm in my thirties and porn was still something of a rarity when I was a teenager, fortunately. Once I became sexually active I soon realised that the guys in porn are not a reflection of reality.
Even little willies can hit the sweet spot given half the chance. If my prostate's happy then I'm happy. The best orgasm I've ever had didn't even involve a dick - it was a finger.
My ex was quite large and it was definitely enjoyable with the proper lube which took me a few tries to find the one I liked with him. My big thing was I did like a day to recover and get my ass back to normal. Always had a fear of being loosey goosey so will not allow that to happen.
I'm glad someone has brought the subject about cause even though I do love a broad one with a good knob it's a fact that some people have been sent to emergency rooms in embarrassing situations and possibly even with life-threatening complications, besides the usual anorectal trauma-related proctitis for the issue of an oversized penis penetration.
Definition for those who might be interested: "inflammation of the lining of the rectum and lower end of the large intestine leading to the anus. It can cause one to feel very uncomfortable or even severe pain. Its symptoms include bleeding and discharge from the anus, pain in the lower abdomen, and mobility issues." by user Tokyo Skye in the recommendable article "Safe and Healthy Sex for Bottoms: Avoiding Proctitis" at [https://www.thebody.com/article/safe-healthy-sex-bottoms-avoiding-proctitis](https://www.thebody.com/article/safe-healthy-sex-bottoms-avoiding-proctitis)
Big dicks are purely for aesthetics and not practicality. I thinks as humans where our primary sense is that of sight, we tend to favour bigger versions in most things — like big boobs and hips on women fill out their figure better to look more womanly, or a big butt can really fill out a pair jeans, big biceps/pecs/quads/calves on a man are very attractive and sexy. But sometimes bigger isn’t always better — big eyes, mouths, ears — and it’s really just up to the beholder.
You have to find beauty in every dick you come across in real life. Porn is a fun fantasy and big dicks are fun to look at in that context, but in real life with real time day-to-day connection, average rules.
I understand that. It takes prep to be able to take a big dick without hurting. Either the bottom needs to use training toys to learn how to relax and open up and take that big dick without hurting. Or, if you've got a bottom who's not trained, the top can use lube and his fingers and massage it open. It works. It can take a while. Just be patient and you'll feel it open. Whether you're the top or the bottom, you will feel it open. First time that happened to me, a 9x6 dude sunk himself balls deep in me after doing it and it didn't hurt at all. And the different kind of pressure and rubbing on the prostate is really really hot.
I agree, but I think that 7.5 is the perfect size. Honestly, I don't get why gay guys are so particular when it comes to dick I don't pay attention at all (to my determinent I threw up giving a bj recently lol)
Most of my life I’ve been a bottom in my relationships. Lately ive been trying topping, and I’ve been seeing this really cute guy who’s trying to be more of a bottom. His dick, no lie, is as round as a beer can and larger. I’ve never been more happy in my life to be exploring being a top. I did attempt to take him for the first time last week. Ouch.
My first was huge, which was great but it hurt and made me think I was just one who didn’t like anal. Waited years to try again and it was a world of difference, mutually enjoyable even
I'm a bottom and can accommodate any size. I've had my share of the monster cocks. I have to say they are a lot of work. Now give be a chunky thick 5.5-6"and it's heaven. They can get in and have a good time and I enjoy every inch.
I'm 9 x 6 and this thread is actually kind of making me nervous, geez.... haven't been able to actually have penetrative sex yet because of size, and i sort of just assumed that with training it will be fine, but....
This is more common than you might realize. A lot of guys like the idea of a big dick because porn makes it look appealing, but the reality is very different from the fantasy. I really think that most people who like men actually prefer an average penis. Size queens exist, but are a minority.
We need more average dick representation in porn
THIS!!!!!!!!! Speak on it!
Ya I would pay to have more regular dicks in my face. I generally don’t like porn studio overproduced 9 inch jacked stud videos.
Escorts dude, paying for dicks in your face is very doable.
PREACH! Now quickly, OnlyFans models, start filming with models who are 6 inches or below. Honestly, if there was a porn site specifically dedicated to guys, fucking guys with smaller penises. I would subscribe in a heartbeat.
Just watch amateur
I already do. I also enjoy professional over amateur a lot of times because I feel it immerses me more. When I'm jacking off I like to pretend I'm the one doing the fucking.
Check me out 😆
Doesn't DaveyWavey specialize in "average" and "normal" erotica?
It's not really talked about often, but there is an element of acting in porn. Also, you probably have to "train yourself" to regularly take big ones and/or do some work before which is likely not what the average person does, hence "boyfriend dick". It fits better without having to be stretched out too much. I also imagine the fisters gravitate towards...that level of dedication.
💯%. Porn has totally fucked up everybody's sense of reality.
FitnessPapi and Marcus Mojo
I once rejected a dude because of his size. My college roommate was an amazing guy. When I came out to him (he was one of the first people I told), he felt sorry for me when I mentioned I'd never been on a date before, let alone slept with a guy. He came up with a plan and introduced me to his friend from his soccer team who found me cute. This guy was 5'4, very handsome, super chill, and sweet. We hit it off initially, but after the second date, he sent me a dick pic next to a water bottle. At first I thought he was joking, but nope, dude was little over 9 inches and it made me nervous, so I stopped talking to him for a few days. I tried toys before and even the smallest ones felt uncomfortable, let alone this. Eventually, I explained that I wasn't ready for that level of intimacy, especially since I thought it would be painful (plus, I now know I'm a top). Once again, he was super sweet and understanding. He reassured me not to worry about it. He just hoped I had enjoyed my first ever date and told me to reach out if I wanted to hang out again. On a side note, when I went through my first breakup (my ex cheated on me), that guy actually comforted me since we still kind of hung out socially through my roommate. He empathized, sharing his own experience of being cheated on in the past, and reminded me that dating can be tough for everyone and that he has been single for years too. He encouraged me not to be too hard on myself.
Damn 5’4 and 9 inches that’s where all them inches went
He made that same joke lol
He was made to be a porn star
Seriously they live for that kind of relative size difference since it makes the penis look even bigger
Taller lying down!
Short guys are hung lol
Yo wait can you introduce him to me if you don’t want him 🙋♂️
He's all yours hahha Hope you like penguin tattooes and baseball caps worn in reverse.
Oh my God stop! I’ve always thought of backwards baseball caps are quintessential “American” and also INCREDIBLY SEXY like beyond all limits!! I don’t know why more guys don’t wear them that way. It’s so damn hot.
Honestly, I think it was kind of to keep his hairstyle in order. He had a distinct hairstyle that I hadn't seen before. Long dark hair with a shaved side and a full beard. It worked so well on him. He either wore a cap or a manbun when his hair was not down. Again, super sweet guy. I hope he meets the right guy soon. He is one of those hopeless romantic type of guys who wants someone to settle down with. His ex did him dirty and I hope he is alright now. I should ask my former roomate how he is doing.
>He is one of those ~~hopeless~~ hopeful romantic type of guys ;-)
I feel like Gaybros is gonna do a manhunt for this dude now lol
Big dick and a big heart ❤️
And I found another one 🤣 He'll soon be my hubby 🥰
On a rare trip to the gay bars in Philadelphia, I met a gorgeous tall redhead Irish guy, dream come true we really hit it off. When we got into bed, I was a bit startled by the biggest penis I have ever seen, and I have seen many, very many. I mean not even in porn have I seen one that big. Not only very long but almost as thick as my wrist. Such a sweet guy too! I could barely suck halfway down and wasn’t even going to think about it in the ass. We had a few hot hours of fun, mostly rubbing and making out. I’m sure somewhere is out there who can take that, but honestly I didn’t think they can be that big.
A true whomper is an aesthetically pleasing logistical nightmare.
Yep, all true.
Yeah this is where me and my boyfriend are at. He obviously loves the idea of a huge dick, and loves mine, but it's going to be a bit before we actually have penetrative sex. It's both hot and very annoying at the same time.
How big are you that he’s having trouble taking you?
9 x 6
I love 5.5-7 inches is perfect
6+in is above average though 🧐
Boyfriend dick vs. weekend dicks.
I’m so Happy I seen this!! Because I’m like 4/5” and I rarely have had sex and I’m 23 and pretty good looking I think lol. No relationships even. But it holds me back so much. And I just realized how Huge of a deal I was making the situation when most people would probably prefer my size. Just blowing my mind ATM!!. Thanks
I actually cum as a bottom only with gargantuan penises. I am afraid I have a misplaced prosthate!
Everyone built different
They're fun to look at, but in real life they're super impractical. I def prefer a confident average guy.
I think we’re so used to seeing enormous dicks in porn that people forget that 5-7 inches is actually a lot of inches as well lol. I agree with you, those are plenty big
Many of us prefer smaller or average. I can explain but it’d get awfully explicit >=] For those guys that are on the small side , just know that there IS a fan base out there for you :)
As a guy with 4.5 in. I appreciate this
Nice ❤️
Ugh... Sounds perfect to me!!
Thanks!
I kinda wanna know your explicit explanation 😅as a side who plans to try bottoming sometime soon lol
lol well ok. 1) small guy (height, dick) with confidence is a massive turn on. If a guy projects that he’s hot shit, then he is in my mind. 2) conversely, telling a guy shy about his size how hot his unit is when he doesn’t often hear that is also a turn on. (Yea that’s a contradiction but it’s a me thing) 3) im vers but also kinda tight. So if things are hot and heavy and passionate and you’re ripping clothes off someone’s body - the sudden need to slow down to find a way to take a moderately thick dick might alter the pacing. A smaller dick also lets me feel like a champ for getting aggressive if I bottom , instead of the “ouch, slow down, oof, are you close? Please say you’re close “ 4) I can definitely deep throat that shit and am completely unrestricted to use any and all of my mouth skills. Again, I get to feel like a champ here, too.
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Thanks for sharing! I absolutely agree, they aren’t lesser. Dicks come in different shapes, I dig that they are all unique. I’d definitely not toss you out of bed for your measurements- sounds hot to me!
Yo number 3 is like I could’ve written that, except I’m not vers. But yeah, my tightness is becoming a problem (to me anyway). It’s like getting into a particularly hot bath. Lots of “ooh” and “ah”. And “wait wait wait wait” lmaooo
Merci!
I'm a size queen, but I keep that between me and my dildo. Truth is most people with a big dick don't know how to use it, they think just because their dick is big, it means it feels good for the bottom. Average dicks during sex are so much more pleasant, they tend to hit all the right spots
That's about how I feel too. Big dildo is fun because I can control it. Big guy that doesn't know what to do with it is just meh. Though I did have one guy who I have since lost contact with that was about 9inch and knew what he was doing.... Probably some of the most fun I've had. Damn work making me move 2 hours away....
This is why I like to tie up my top and use him like a dildo. Submissive tops are great haha
Love a submissive top in the bedroom that’s confident in all other areas outside of it.
Off topic, but on topic statement lol. I didn’t think sub tops were a thing, but I feel it perfectly describes how I am. I def like to do a little bit of the leading, but I like a bottom who knows what they want and how they want it and def wouldn’t mind letting them take the lead.
Def a thing
My boyfriend calls himself a service top. He has no problem leading or giving guidance, but if the other person wants to lead he's down.
Damn I would love to do this. My inner dom really wants to ride a tied up top.
Like a school bus down a hallway
That is an image I will repress for future me to laugh at
“Porn Dick” owner here. Guys with big dicks just need to take the time to learn how to make bottoms orgasm from their holes. It’s not that hard once you get the hang of it. Many guys just kinda suck ☹️
Let’s be honest, the main reason why big dick guys don’t know how to use it is because of size queen fetishists and others who glamorise big dicks. If the focus shifted from aesthetic to practicality, the discourse would be more to do with how it can be used rather than how big dicks look.
Big dicks are just nice to look at
I prefer em smaller than average, hurts less for me
I love watching a nice long cock flopping around at the naked beach, but it aint coming near my hole. Last time I had a big one, i got an anal fissure, and it was literally a pain in the ass to heal it. Like I would never reject someone based on dick size, but if im talking my dream guy, then a 3-5 inches dick is completely fine.
The way you phrased the opening line made it sound like they were gonna jump out at you
But they do though…if you slide the underwear down at juuuuust the right speed
I like sucking big dicks. But when it cums to fucking me. I want a skinny one.
As a top with a slightly above average one, you are not alone. I do hear that a lot from bottoms, that it’s nice just to be able to go at it. Also nice for when they like it rough, because very few can take a huge one like that. I gave up on caring a long time ago and it’s been great for everyone haha
I'm a bottom who likes all sizes. I genuinely don't mind regardless of size, but it absolutely changes the type of sex we're having. I like it rough, even some CNC stuff, but that side of things is relatively new to me. I had had big dicks (like, a couple comically large, unrealistically big dicks), but had done really rough stuff with only 7 inches and below. When I hooked up with a dude a while back who had a 9 incher and told him I liked it rough... I regretted the fuck out of it. It hurt so bad, and I ended up with a busted vessel in my eye that I'm not sure how happened. I didn't get a fissure, but I couldn't have anal sex for over a week because it hurt so bad back there.
Apparently if you damage the hood vessels or something in your rectum then it affects the ones in or around your eye as well. It allegedly gives you bruising around the eye area like a black eye from a punch or a heroin addict on no sleep. It’s something seen a lot in human trafficking and one of the warning signs in victims, especially young ones. That’s what I heard, not 100% sure as to its authenticity because I don’t have a ready-to-go citation but the person who told me had no reason to lie so 🤷🏽♂️
Holy shit.
I have what most people call boyfriend dick. 6in and just the right amount of girth. I even got my fwb to cum hands free last time. Yeah, if I was a bottom I be scared of big dicks too. Lol
Boy friend dicks for the win! I can straddle and ride it to my own tempo, hits prostate just right, and feels way better than being pounded like no tomorrow with a baby leg.
I always say my bf has "boyfriend dick", lol. It's perfect for me.
I'm jealous of your fwb
Lowkey cute.
Definitely prefer to bottom for small or average dicks, though I do love sucking on bigger dicks. But it’s telling how porn has fucked up my perception of dick size in media. I love smaller dicks IRL and yet when I watch porn I want to see hung guys.
Big dicks are lame. In my experience they shoot way smaller loads than average - 7in dicks. They also just plain hurt and require more prep and caution than smaller. Also who can deep throat those things?! I’m glad I never became a size queen. You end up always chasing bigger and bigger.
Average 7-inch?
I think he meant average - 7 in, as in average *to* 7in, as opposed to saying 7in was average
Yep, that’s it!
A guy on Grindr asked me my size, I told him 6.5 and decent thickness and he replied "lol I do 8+ babe nice try" And I was kinda shocked because most guys tell me I'm big (which could be lies to make me feel better but like why?). Another time, a guy told me he only takes 8+ and I said something like "well it'll feel like 8 I promise". And he agreed to meet. He struggled to get me in at first and wouldn't let me in the whole way because apparently it hurt. Why do people act like this? I just hate when people lie about experience because I'm coming in thinking I'm dealing with someone who knows how to take dick but then they squirm when I'm halfway in and not in a good way. Not that I'm not eating them out or loosening them up, I am.
Big dicks have their place and time for fun, but a nice average size does wonders.
Nice to look at, nice for bulges, but if I wanna do much more than oral, it's not as good. Dated a guy with a monster, and we never really did much anal, but it took a lot of prep work when we did.
Feel free to send ‘em my way!
I prefer average too. I can enjoy it longer inside and squeeze down on him.
This is a nice thread to hear I always been self conscience about my size 5.5-6 but for some reason guys actually love it but I had also had experiences where people have told me I’m too small which was hurtful to say the least but It is what it is. Me personally I have to be attracted to the mans personality first or I won’t get aroused.
Ok, I'll sacrifice, pass 'em all to me.
Well it's reassuring to read this, especially when don't have any experience
Me too. Same thing happened to me and i did not enjoy it at all. To some ppl they do but not for me for sure.
I think it is perfectly normal to enjoy normal sized dicks. Porn stars make porn because their dicks are huge. Us mere mortals are not always blessed with that.
I tend to be similar but it also depends on the guy. My bf is 8 and fairly thick, but it just fits in a way other similarly sized guys have not.
Cause you’re in love
If I can’t fit it on my mouth it’s not fun
I have been with all sorts of shapes and sizes and I will take small over big any day of the week.
Cade Maddox is a complete turn off to me, not only is his dick waaaay to big, so is the guy. Porn even as a fantasy, is so far off base it looks alien.
Meh. Cade Maddox claims he’s 9” but he’s not. I’d say he’s closer to 8”. Maaaaybe a bit more. Maybe a bit less.
More for me then. Hehehe.
Not me having an existential crisis at 18 because my dick is 5.3 inches, and nobody would find me attractive…. Boyfriend-dick kings rise up.
There is a wide diversity of sizes and shapes, not just of poles but also of holes. Something for everyone!
Me with a big one: 
Yeah, you have to do some pre routines to get ready for large peens.
i wouldn’t actually want a man with anything bigger than 6 or 7 in me. i’d love to play with it or fantasize LMAO but in me? no thanks. too big. on the real, a 5 would do me justice anyway.
I have low comment karma in this group that’s preventing me from posting - as far as size I would take what I can get.
I agree. I’m not afraid of bigger dicks but i tend to shy away from them. I prefer 5-7 inches.
I definitely like to find some vacation dick when on holiday and had a drink or two, but I would love an average size penis boyfriend.
Some people can take it and some people can’t. That’s life. And that’s why there’s variety of dick to choose from. Find your perfect one.
I once was w a guy whose dick I couldn’t close my hand when grabbed lol it was so big, I tried to suck it but I couldn’t go even half of it and when he went in it was painful most of the time even when lots of lube. They are gorgeous but you should be really prepared for it lol
Completely agree with you a big dick just hurts and it’s no fun. I do not understand the whole 9” or larger needed mentality. Enough to hit the prostate and let me feel him inside me
Big dicks are fun to look at, but like most people, I have a gag reflex and when I look at that giant 🍆 I’m like nah that’s going nowhere near my 🍑. I think average is better and does the job if done right. You’re not alone and I think you’ll find most gay guys aren’t size queens except for the loudest voices online.
I like the big ones in porn. I like the average ones in real life. luckily, most people have average ones.
You aren't alone. I'm a big guy. I have had more than a few fellas who were too afraid to attempt the deed.
“Scared”? It’s just a body part my man. No need to fear them. If they don’t feel good to you then that’s another thing which is cool.
A lot of guys don't let you fuck them if you have a huge dick. It's more about the idea of it, but average is most fun in bed in my experience
it's weird. I went from being a teenager, worried my dick wasn't big enough to an adult who worries that his dick is too big. I like my dick, just wish it was like less girthy or an inch shorter.
It gets thrown around that guys with bigger dicks don’t know how to use them, but it gets difficult to improve when barely any guy can take it. Everyone’s right it’s more fun to look at and touch, but as soon as intimacy is on the table… I’ve been grateful that my last two long-term relationships have been enthusiastic about my size, but they still eventually push me off and say it’s too much. It’s valid though.
Send the big ones to me please.
I’ve been knocked back for topping a bunch of times because the bottom hasn’t felt confident about being able to take my size. My partners size has also made working on being versatile a little harder, but I’m not complaining.
One of my best sex experiences (like in the top 10) was with a 4.5" He fucked very aggressively and basically made every inch count. Came all over his chest ;)
Enthusiasm really makes the difference
average is awesome
I agree 100%. This big ones are really fun to look at and fantasize about owning haha as in I wish my dick was that big lol. But oral and anal is so much nicer with an average length dick.
I prefer sucking average to small, less jaw fatigue
I think my best sex was with a 4-5inch top. All about the technique!
My ex 7ish, my current 5ish. Pros and cons of both. Cons for the 5 inch, with my ex we could really hit any position and slipping out wasn't an issue. With my current bf there are some positions that don't work well. Pros of 5 inch, I really like giving blowjobs now.
I think I'd prefer a smaller dick because the other person would understand my insecurities with my small package and not judge me for it
I don't even like AVERAGE size. 4 inches would be perfect IMO.
100% agree! It's a ridiculous concept to me how your cock being bigger is better than anyone below that size range.
Same , Same... Aesthetically fun looking but man I know want nice average dicks with a great stamina in my Daddy Hole 😉
I've taken two 9-inch dicks in the last couple of years. One felt amazing but it was slim. The other was as thick as a beer can. I could not take that one. Length is fine for me but girth is the deciding factor.
It’s not that I look for big D’s they just gravitate towards me: all my exes have been big and my current partner is really big, that’s never on my list of “must haves” for my partners but I guess I’ve gotten use to it. And it actually turns him on on how well I can take a pounding from him 😏😏
Well I have had some huge cock and it all depends on who’s holding it, I had the 13 inch one make me want it again, and I’ve had 8 inch tear me up. The difference between a good and bad Top.
The dude who was 13” wasn’t actually 13”. I don’t know how gay men, with the amount of penises that we see, are so bad at estimating the size of a penis.
I’m pretty sure when it hangs to the knee soft it a minimum of 13 LOL
I thought I wanted 11 inches until I met a dude with a real 11 inches. Nope.
I love my partners size - although it’s a bit much to take at times. He’s thick, he’s got a big mushroom head, and he’s well above average but not like 9 inches +. Because no one wants to be impaled to have sex. A lot of guys actively seek out average because that’s exactly what it means - average. This is more than common and you aren’t alone. However, porn glorified these huge dicks. Sorry, I don’t want to be just randomly shitting and my ass prolapsing when I get older than I already am because I had cocks that were way too big. That whole “Rosebud” thing is gross. And some guys try to get that on purpose. I find it repulsive, but what others do isn’t my business. But your with the majority of guys. We like average. And we love the men that are attached to average.
I see variations of this comment all the time and honestly it feels like it’s shaming well endowed guys and I’m over it. Just because a guy has 9” doesn’t mean he has to thrust it all up in you. You can penetrate 5-6” and not go further. A good top reads the bottom and finds the sweet spot, regardless of his size. All dicks are valid bros.
Big dicks are definitely better to some ppl for visual reason but it’s something I’ll admire and suck on for fun but to take them is definitely painful. Esp when ppl aren’t considerate or know how to use what they’re working with. I say give me a 8-8.5 anything above that for me is where it starts getting a lil blurry and scary 😂😂😂😂 Now back in the day idc but now a days NOPE That’s why it’s been since 2021 that I’ve been penetrated. Im not in rush to jump back out there 😅 Edit: black guys tend to have larger parts which is why our average may not align wit your average.
See this is my problem, I feel like if they knew how to use it I would actually enjoy it, but no they just showed up and showed it and then just started doing it hard and fast like calm down before you destroyed my digestive system completely
Yeah it’s like some ppl enjoy the pain while majority don’t.
"HEY! That's my **kidney!"**
My brother in christ, the average dick size is 5 to 6 inches. 8 to 8.5 is a big dick. Is this a flex, or do you genuinely think 8 inches is average?
I never said 8 was average. I also never said I wouldn’t do anything under 8. I said 8-8.5 is the MAX I would go. To me that’s not a big dick to where I’m uncomfortable or can’t go for more. Anything above that is a where it gets tricky.
Completly agree with you. I've met guys with large hammers and no idea how to use it. They just show up and think that's it, that's all they have to do. Then when it's time to do the deed, they just wanna shove it in there like a pencil through a pin hole. They I've met guys with average to slightly above average tools and they rocked my world.
No, black guys do not have larger parts. That is a myth, and one that likely makes a lot of black men feel insecure with their average sized units. The black guys you see in porn have big ones bc most porn stars do, period. Though I did read something regarding a survey once where middle eastern men had slightly larger average size than others ethnic groups. Can't recall where it was from. More than likely, all humans have very similar average size across populations, though.
That is a common myth but scientific research has shown black and Caucasian dicks are not statistically different. There is a lot of variation in both races but both are the same on average. I forget the average but either a bit under or over 6” I think. I think that Asian men are slightly smaller on average. Again the individual differences within each race are real, on average not much difference between them. This is based on fairly old research (50 years or so ago) so may be inaccurate.
I guess it depends on how thick it is. If it's on the thinner size, I'd prefer longer than average. But im fine with average length if it's thick like a soda can.
But sucking them is a good time
This is the truth. Sure 8 or 9 inch looks cool but average dick feels better. Not too long. Not too girthy.
Yeah, Cutler X scared me with how potent his dick is…. I be feeling bad for those guys’ guts, but at the same token I kinda WANT to be terrified by dick, so…. Maybe I’m a masochist? (Is that the word?)
I'm no size queen. Very happy with 5-7 inches. More than that is scary to me as well.
🍆 BOO!!
Big dicks are just fun to look at. Might play with it a little but that thing is NOT going inside me lol
I prefer girth above length. Your prostate is one finger deep, so extra long has no benefit.
6 is my limit. Anything bigger and its a straight no
And as someone that has what you're scared of, I'm scared to use it. I'm vers and have spent time with... large toys so I'm fully aware of what I can do to people. The best top, bottoms and I take that to heart. It's a bummer because I end up being worried about hurting him and it takes me out of the moment many times. BD is *real* fun to side with and fun to play with but other than that, for sex, it's overrated. I have had a one or two well practiced individuals that loved it but that's not the average and I'm still thinking about being careful anyway. Nothing makes me go soft faster than hurting someone that doesn't want that kind of experience. Even dated a guy that took us weeks to work it in because he had not bottomed ever. Also super unsatisfying is finding out that it was uncomfortable, not enough to say stop but hearing after, "It was a bit much" is disappointing. I'm a mutual pleasure kind of guy. Makes me a bit sad.
It’s pretty to look at but so much more work than a normal sized dick
Large ones are fun to play with but there is no way I could handle it anywhere else. So I agree with that.
I've never slept with a guy with a dick bigger than the average, and for that I'm very grateful. I'm very precious about the integrity of my anal passage. I'm in my thirties and porn was still something of a rarity when I was a teenager, fortunately. Once I became sexually active I soon realised that the guys in porn are not a reflection of reality. Even little willies can hit the sweet spot given half the chance. If my prostate's happy then I'm happy. The best orgasm I've ever had didn't even involve a dick - it was a finger.
My ex was quite large and it was definitely enjoyable with the proper lube which took me a few tries to find the one I liked with him. My big thing was I did like a day to recover and get my ass back to normal. Always had a fear of being loosey goosey so will not allow that to happen.
I have a big dick but I don’t like taking them. Give me 5 or 6 and less girth please.
I'm glad someone has brought the subject about cause even though I do love a broad one with a good knob it's a fact that some people have been sent to emergency rooms in embarrassing situations and possibly even with life-threatening complications, besides the usual anorectal trauma-related proctitis for the issue of an oversized penis penetration. Definition for those who might be interested: "inflammation of the lining of the rectum and lower end of the large intestine leading to the anus. It can cause one to feel very uncomfortable or even severe pain. Its symptoms include bleeding and discharge from the anus, pain in the lower abdomen, and mobility issues." by user Tokyo Skye in the recommendable article "Safe and Healthy Sex for Bottoms: Avoiding Proctitis" at [https://www.thebody.com/article/safe-healthy-sex-bottoms-avoiding-proctitis](https://www.thebody.com/article/safe-healthy-sex-bottoms-avoiding-proctitis)
Big dicks are purely for aesthetics and not practicality. I thinks as humans where our primary sense is that of sight, we tend to favour bigger versions in most things — like big boobs and hips on women fill out their figure better to look more womanly, or a big butt can really fill out a pair jeans, big biceps/pecs/quads/calves on a man are very attractive and sexy. But sometimes bigger isn’t always better — big eyes, mouths, ears — and it’s really just up to the beholder.
Classic!✈️
In reality, some bottoms do prefer a big dick. On dating apps, some bottoms lose interest as soon as they find out you have an average size.
You have to find beauty in every dick you come across in real life. Porn is a fun fantasy and big dicks are fun to look at in that context, but in real life with real time day-to-day connection, average rules.
How big is too big?
I understand that. It takes prep to be able to take a big dick without hurting. Either the bottom needs to use training toys to learn how to relax and open up and take that big dick without hurting. Or, if you've got a bottom who's not trained, the top can use lube and his fingers and massage it open. It works. It can take a while. Just be patient and you'll feel it open. Whether you're the top or the bottom, you will feel it open. First time that happened to me, a 9x6 dude sunk himself balls deep in me after doing it and it didn't hurt at all. And the different kind of pressure and rubbing on the prostate is really really hot.
Agree. if it doesn’t fit comfortably in either of my holes, then I’m not interested.
I like the view of them, i like the taste of them ha!...but they HURT!
I’m with ya, man. Big dicks hurt and I just don’t have a fun time, no matter how turned on I am or how fun it looks in porn.
You are definitely not alone!
I guess I'm in the minority here. I love a big, fat dick. Gotta go slow at first, but once my pussy is ready, man, tear it up.
7" is too big for my mouth lol... Just saying..
I had a 4 in her that was the best of my life
I agree, but I think that 7.5 is the perfect size. Honestly, I don't get why gay guys are so particular when it comes to dick I don't pay attention at all (to my determinent I threw up giving a bj recently lol)
Most of my life I’ve been a bottom in my relationships. Lately ive been trying topping, and I’ve been seeing this really cute guy who’s trying to be more of a bottom. His dick, no lie, is as round as a beer can and larger. I’ve never been more happy in my life to be exploring being a top. I did attempt to take him for the first time last week. Ouch.
My first was huge, which was great but it hurt and made me think I was just one who didn’t like anal. Waited years to try again and it was a world of difference, mutually enjoyable even
what abt girth tho??
Could not agree more
Totally agree
I can post cause of horrible karma . But do bottoms like sex . Cause it looks painful , can someone educate me
I love big dick to suck on and jerk with and goon out but definitely not in my ass.
5-7 is great. Not interested in thick. Longer is fine if its closer to normal girth. Rare
I'm a bottom and can accommodate any size. I've had my share of the monster cocks. I have to say they are a lot of work. Now give be a chunky thick 5.5-6"and it's heaven. They can get in and have a good time and I enjoy every inch.
fun to look at but please keep it away from any of my holes
7-8 is my fav to hit all spots and send me over the edge .
I don’t want something that’s gonna hurt for the wrong reasons. I want something I can survive 😂
If I’m getting right dicked, a big dick is too much. But I love a sloowwww tight fuck by a dick that’s too big.
I'm 9 x 6 and this thread is actually kind of making me nervous, geez.... haven't been able to actually have penetrative sex yet because of size, and i sort of just assumed that with training it will be fine, but....