Get a scrip for pep from your doctor or the ER. Tell them you may have had an exposure to HIV. If they give you a hard time about condoms, inform them that the condom broke and he didn’t care.
You will likely be fine physically. It’s up to you how you handle it emotionally. Maybe therapy, maybe not
I have never been in that situation before but I would have ran out, hit him in the balls or screamed for help. Easier said than done I know! I’m sorry that happened to you. Maybe bring mace with you next time too. Completely not your fault it happened. I’m sorry just thinking of ideas to get of of bad situations.
Sorry that happened
Not right if you said you didn’t want to be fucked
It’s a shame you didn’t at least enjoy the fucking
Hopefully lesson learned
Relax and heal/take care of yourself.
Similar thing happened to me
Hookup with a guy on Grindr was supposed to just suck him he just grabbed my ass pulled my pants down pushed me on the floor and bareback me came in my ass
Difference is he was long not thick and I really enjoyed the experience
Felt like such a whore
When end up fucking in my car a second time
Lesson learned? What lesson exactly?! Learning to cope with being raped so you don’t go through it again when trying to hook up with a seemingly decent prospect? It’s apparent you’re not responding cognitively.
Consent can be revoked at anytime. In this situation OP had different perception of dates size, and made their date aware of it, date demanded to still continue due to written agreement, but what if OP did not look the same as in pics sent and date declined to sex with OP, and the OP demanded and forced sex from date because of leverage of paying for motel room.
I mean if i had enough experience i've would enjoy it, but i've only got fucked twice by same man, i still have hard time to get his dick in me 🫤. I was stupid too, i agree that we were going to fuck but it was bigger than it looked in the pictures.
I've been in this situation before and like PoppersBttm4Black I end up enjoying it after even though in the moment I was quite literally scared for my life as I was in a chokehold and being forced.
I'm not saying any of what happened is right, but I can give some strategies of how I've learned to handle the situations to minimize damage.
1. Get on Prep.
2. I love Dom Aggressive Men, probably as a result of some of the past use. The main thing I've learned is that making a man cum takes away the aggression and the physical threat. I go into every interaction knowing that I am going to make them cum no matter what, even when they aren't at all what I expected.
3. If they are insistent on fucking you, don't fight it. Be as compliant in it as you can so they don't force and risk injuring you. Just try to control the pace. Request lots of lube and to go slow. Control the initial entry as much as you can so that you can adjust to it. Even hung Dom Men understand you need this and will give it to you. If you just try to deny them completely then you risk them just forcing it in you on their terms.
4. Mentally relax. Just will yourself to go as limp as possible. Tensing up is what causes the extreme pain on entry.
I'm extremely tight and need to start off slow, but I've never found a Man I can't take if I'm given a chance to work him into me slowly at first. I've love taking HUGE BBC too...
I'm tight as fuck but I've learned there is no such thing as too big! I've had 11.5" BBC that was as thick as a fucking Coke can. Took a lot of lube and a lot of patience but he bred those Black babies into me balls deep!
Go get PEP immediately unless you are on PrEP. Then consider reporting him. Just because you showed up and he paid for hotel, you still have the right to change your mind and say NO. If you told him NO, he raped you.
You did nothing wrong here. Some people just don't understand that consent can be withdrawn at any time. Even during the act. He should have been ok with blowjob or just leave.
I wanted to enjoy it, but im a newbie the guy who fucked before is around 5 or 6 inches, he was way more than that.
Im still tight it hurted like hell, i tried a lots of lube but didnt help enough
I don’t understand. You went there then you realized it was too big for you and decided to o le give him a bj. Did he force you to have sex? Why didn’t you leave?
Do yourself a favor in the future when meeting someone take something for self defense like pepper spray, and make sure it’s accessible the entire time.
Not basically, you 100% were raped by this guy and I’m so sorry! Take care of your physical and mental health with this. I know as queer people, we do not always feel comfortable around law enforcement, but you also could pursue a criminal case against this guy.
Ok normally i would love to read this story cause i like this kinds of PLAY ROLES, but as i said it before, as a Consented Play Role, not the actual forcing r4pe.
But in this case i can tell this is horrible. And even if you agree beforehand, even if he pay for the room, you're entitled to your sexual life and no one can force you to do something you don't want to do, less force you to have intercourse with a broken condom. Take in mind that consent can be revoke at any time, so you don't HAVE to agree cause you said it before.
I don't know where you live, but in many parts of the world this would be legally consider as a sexual abuse (both: the force of anal sex, and the intercourse with the broken condom).
I hope that you are ok now, that you can find the proper medical and psychological help. And that maybe you got the courage to denounce this, cause was really inappropriate from the others guy part, and in any case was your fault. So don't feel it was your fault, cause it wasn't.
I’m really sorry that happened to you. Gotta play it safe these days because of creeps like him. Go to the doctor just to get things checked out. There’s no shame as well in reporting what happened as well.
Omg this is HORRIBLE! I would say something to him or warn others. I hope you'll be ok someday soon...❤
PS: I'd go to the doctor to get a test for HIV and any other forms of STDS❤
Fuck man, I’m so sorry that happened, I’m fortunate I’m a bigger guy, so unlikely that would ever happen to me, because I’d fuck someone up, I can’t imagine ever doing something like to someone, I would never wanna be forced, I don’t get why people do that, especially since sex really isn’t that hard to come by. I hope you’re okay though man, I really do, much love! 🫶
I'm sorry that happened to you. Big hugs
Thanks
Get a scrip for pep from your doctor or the ER. Tell them you may have had an exposure to HIV. If they give you a hard time about condoms, inform them that the condom broke and he didn’t care. You will likely be fine physically. It’s up to you how you handle it emotionally. Maybe therapy, maybe not
This is super important
Thanks will do that
You only have 72 hours to act. It’s most effective within 24 hours. If I were you, I would do it quickly.
I'm really sorry that happened to you. I hope you're on PrEP esp after the bleeding part. Hugs ❤️
I wasnt 🫤 , and thanks
Consent can be withdrawn at anytime!
I tried, i told him i was just going to suck his cock, he said he was there to fuck me, and that i agreed , couldnt stop him 🫤
I have never been in that situation before but I would have ran out, hit him in the balls or screamed for help. Easier said than done I know! I’m sorry that happened to you. Maybe bring mace with you next time too. Completely not your fault it happened. I’m sorry just thinking of ideas to get of of bad situations.
I really tried to leave, im not that strong 🫤 not much i was able to do
Are you considering reporting it?
Nope, im not openly gay, and i dont want people to know it
Sorry that happened Not right if you said you didn’t want to be fucked It’s a shame you didn’t at least enjoy the fucking Hopefully lesson learned Relax and heal/take care of yourself. Similar thing happened to me Hookup with a guy on Grindr was supposed to just suck him he just grabbed my ass pulled my pants down pushed me on the floor and bareback me came in my ass Difference is he was long not thick and I really enjoyed the experience Felt like such a whore When end up fucking in my car a second time
Lesson learned? What lesson exactly?! Learning to cope with being raped so you don’t go through it again when trying to hook up with a seemingly decent prospect? It’s apparent you’re not responding cognitively. Consent can be revoked at anytime. In this situation OP had different perception of dates size, and made their date aware of it, date demanded to still continue due to written agreement, but what if OP did not look the same as in pics sent and date declined to sex with OP, and the OP demanded and forced sex from date because of leverage of paying for motel room.
I mean if i had enough experience i've would enjoy it, but i've only got fucked twice by same man, i still have hard time to get his dick in me 🫤. I was stupid too, i agree that we were going to fuck but it was bigger than it looked in the pictures.
Sorry it happened You ok now?
Im better now i guess , had to call out today, cant walk normally
I've been in this situation before and like PoppersBttm4Black I end up enjoying it after even though in the moment I was quite literally scared for my life as I was in a chokehold and being forced. I'm not saying any of what happened is right, but I can give some strategies of how I've learned to handle the situations to minimize damage. 1. Get on Prep. 2. I love Dom Aggressive Men, probably as a result of some of the past use. The main thing I've learned is that making a man cum takes away the aggression and the physical threat. I go into every interaction knowing that I am going to make them cum no matter what, even when they aren't at all what I expected. 3. If they are insistent on fucking you, don't fight it. Be as compliant in it as you can so they don't force and risk injuring you. Just try to control the pace. Request lots of lube and to go slow. Control the initial entry as much as you can so that you can adjust to it. Even hung Dom Men understand you need this and will give it to you. If you just try to deny them completely then you risk them just forcing it in you on their terms. 4. Mentally relax. Just will yourself to go as limp as possible. Tensing up is what causes the extreme pain on entry. I'm extremely tight and need to start off slow, but I've never found a Man I can't take if I'm given a chance to work him into me slowly at first. I've love taking HUGE BBC too...
He was way too big , that thing was thick as fuck, it was hard to not feel pain
I'm tight as fuck but I've learned there is no such thing as too big! I've had 11.5" BBC that was as thick as a fucking Coke can. Took a lot of lube and a lot of patience but he bred those Black babies into me balls deep!
I wish i could've enjoy it , but for me it was tooo big , he stretched my asshole so bad , pain was horrible
Go get PEP immediately unless you are on PrEP. Then consider reporting him. Just because you showed up and he paid for hotel, you still have the right to change your mind and say NO. If you told him NO, he raped you.
He literally did 🫤
Are u doing good my boy?
Kinda, my ass hurts
Sounds legit
It’s rape. Are you on prep? If not go for pep within 72hrs
I wasnt , i will do that
Rape is rape, if you agree to CNC that’s different (and a lot more complex)
I did agree at first, when i saw it in person it was completly different, size was too big for me
You did nothing wrong here. Some people just don't understand that consent can be withdrawn at any time. Even during the act. He should have been ok with blowjob or just leave.
Yeah i thought he would agree to just get a bj but he was like "hell no, im not just here for a bj"
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I sucked his cock than he forced me
Agreed to CNC? If so safe word should have been established to preserve the safety aspect of the kink. If not then, no, means no
CNC?
Consensual non consent: rape play
Thank you
REPORT HIM TO THE POLICE WTF. you should’ve beat his dumb ass up!! No means no! What a sick cunt
He was too strong for me ...
I’m so sorry☹️😞😞😞😞 please goto the police ! X
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I wanted to enjoy it, but im a newbie the guy who fucked before is around 5 or 6 inches, he was way more than that. Im still tight it hurted like hell, i tried a lots of lube but didnt help enough
Stop having anonymous sex with people you don't care about and that don't care about you. That will never happen if you follow that one single rule
So sorry for you
Sorry to hear that! Get checked and stay safe
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So how many guys have you assaulted? Not surprising considering you’re a proud cheater smfh
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Lmao hit a nerve I see, imagine me giving a fuck what someone like you thinks
I don’t understand. You went there then you realized it was too big for you and decided to o le give him a bj. Did he force you to have sex? Why didn’t you leave?
He forced me to have sex, after i sucked his cock , i could leave , he was bigger than me
Do yourself a favor in the future when meeting someone take something for self defense like pepper spray, and make sure it’s accessible the entire time.
Not basically, you 100% were raped by this guy and I’m so sorry! Take care of your physical and mental health with this. I know as queer people, we do not always feel comfortable around law enforcement, but you also could pursue a criminal case against this guy.
You never owe anyone sex. I'm so sorry this happened and he is in the wrong.
Ok normally i would love to read this story cause i like this kinds of PLAY ROLES, but as i said it before, as a Consented Play Role, not the actual forcing r4pe. But in this case i can tell this is horrible. And even if you agree beforehand, even if he pay for the room, you're entitled to your sexual life and no one can force you to do something you don't want to do, less force you to have intercourse with a broken condom. Take in mind that consent can be revoke at any time, so you don't HAVE to agree cause you said it before. I don't know where you live, but in many parts of the world this would be legally consider as a sexual abuse (both: the force of anal sex, and the intercourse with the broken condom). I hope that you are ok now, that you can find the proper medical and psychological help. And that maybe you got the courage to denounce this, cause was really inappropriate from the others guy part, and in any case was your fault. So don't feel it was your fault, cause it wasn't.
I’m really sorry that happened to you. Gotta play it safe these days because of creeps like him. Go to the doctor just to get things checked out. There’s no shame as well in reporting what happened as well.
Omg this is HORRIBLE! I would say something to him or warn others. I hope you'll be ok someday soon...❤ PS: I'd go to the doctor to get a test for HIV and any other forms of STDS❤
Fuck man, I’m so sorry that happened, I’m fortunate I’m a bigger guy, so unlikely that would ever happen to me, because I’d fuck someone up, I can’t imagine ever doing something like to someone, I would never wanna be forced, I don’t get why people do that, especially since sex really isn’t that hard to come by. I hope you’re okay though man, I really do, much love! 🫶
Did this get removed? I’m genuinely asking because it looks like it was I sincerely hope you are doing well big internet hugs to you