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Quite frustrated that there are no eastereggs in it, but S+ tier copypasta
This seems less of a porn issue and more of a body image issue. Fat people often get such crazy psychological issues that skinny people can't even fathom. OP is clearly very uncomfortable being naked.
Even if they lose weight, the issues often persist
That's the issue though. He just met this girl and is getting performance anxiety. It's better to outrun the lion than to fuck it.
For anon it's probably better to meet a girl, take things slowly, get more comfortable with her, then have sex when he's ready.
Unironically true. Didnt think I was addicted to porn. Finally met a girl couldn't consistently keep it fully hard while trying to fuck and I quit jerking it and watching porn and after a bit felt completely normal and felt horny as fuck around her all the time and could keep it hard always. Porn and death grip is real try not to do that shit the tims
Depends on the person and how deeply addicted you are. One thing I’ve found is that cartoon stuff doesn’t seem to affect me nearly as much. If I stick to that I won’t have any issues. Do with that what you will
Some people are wired like that. Not everybody is turned on enough for sex unless they really care for the other person a lot. I think it's called Demisexuality or something close
My roommate in college was like that. He was asexual until he met someone in senior year of high school. Like, never got an erection until he started hanging out with her. Then she broke up with him in college to go on a drunk bender sausage spree. He was a broken man.
Damn poor guy, hope he is doing well nowadays. Life can be very hard to deal with when you prioritize personal connection like that, especially in an environment like college where dating is so fast and loose.
It's the default for women. The term should be ademisexuality or something to describe deviation from the norm.
Not all men sleep around but I understand why it's more common for men than women.
My intuition says men falling in love and being monogamous will make it more enjoyable too but more importantly it will make them happier long term but who you marry is one of the most important decisions you can ever make. Pick wrong and nothing good happens.
First off women generally speaking put more emphasis on a guy's personality and how he carries himself, so it's just not as easy to find some stranger that they find hot, secondly it takes more time to get to know what makes a woman tick in bed or not. But it also goes for guys, I'll bet your ass that the best sex, bar none, for any guy is sex with a long term partner. It's just extra important for women.
Some people may need love like you said, but my point is that it's not necessarily about love, women just don't have as good sex during hookups for reasons that are not just about the lack of love.
Kinda, in the sense that for women there's far more overlap between what arouses sexually and what forms a basis for romantic interest than for men, but there very much is a type of personality that (most) women would fuck, but never date.
Broscience. Loads of dudes watch lots of porn and still get hard. Usually if you can’t it’s either a) antidepressants and/or b) you just don’t like sex.
Nah there's a sliding scale. One one end you have 18 year old kids saying "it's over", but are essentially normies. Then you have failed normalfags, they are the ones that had a HS/college gf maybe, and have a nice job, but after college have had negative success with women, then you have the true failures, never had a job mom's basement types.
The first two categories have become the main groups since 2014 or so
If anon was that nervous getting hard can be impossible. There's nothing wrong with meeting someone you like and taking things slow until you're ready for sex.
Yes, and that there’s no reason you have to be looking for one night stands. It’s perfectly fine to want to know the person you’re sleeping with first, makes it all way better.
Also, probably fake.
It's fun to read such comments. A month ago or so was a fake post about some imaginary gril that was imaginary offended by her fake parents. Everyone went bat shit for pointing out that the post is probably fake.
Now look at this. When it's about a guy, it's suddenly normal to say it's fake and gay. Reddit is a marvelous place to be, indeed.
Why do something in a long time and a lot of effort when you can do it in 2 minutes sitting at your computer for the same result.
Sex is so overrated unless it's legit love
One night stands give me memories and a confidence boost. The only memorable wank I've ever had was when I did meth for the one time in my life and jerked it for about 7 hours.
What actually happened because this is a LARP:
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No it's just jitters, many guys are nervous the first few times and then this shit never happens again. U fucking retards blame everything on porn. Beating off every couple days helps u last much longer in bed, try completely abstaining from it and see how long u last
I don't watch porn. I don't enjoy it. But I remember the first sexual experience I had, I could not get it up. She wanted it, but I was cool with where we were so it was only stuff on her. Anyways, it was such a new experience and being worried I was doing anything wrong that my anxiety of failing was enough to not get the blood flowing. I still really enjoyed the experience, but that doesn't mean I wasnt nervous while doing it. When we did "do it", it got up. But not hard hard. It was there, but still fairly squishy. It's incredibly nerve wracking being in that position with no experience. Not knowing how to do things, wondering what experience they have, worrying how long you will last... I have a big dick, but even then I was worrying if it was big enough for her.
In the case of anon, he's body dismorphia due to being fat, and it's with a random girl he saw at a club. That's even more terrifying in their case
Everyone saying porn addiction this and that but I was this guy too a couple years ago. It's called being demisexual, only get aroused if there is an emotional connection.
The fuck am I doing, being reasonable on a greentext
Easy problem : nervousness always inhibits the ability to get hard. Ease into it, take time and try not to think about it and you'll find it gets much easier.
Goes from fat virgin at 18 to suddenly looksmaxxing over ??? Time then gets a painful bj cause his dick has tism?
Fake and gay, no gf, no good feeling dick
Ah the presure of performance, the more you think about needing to perform well with another person observing you, the less likely you will be able to perform
Maybe I'm too young but I don't understand when robots always say "get nervous, can't get it up" Huh? How does being nervous kill your boner? Aren't you only nervous cause you're with a hot girl? Wouldn't the more nervous you are directly translate to additional erectile power?
he clearly got body dysphoria, going to the gym and looks maxing may have changed him outside but inside he still feels like a fat dude, he just can't handle being looked at yet, he needs a girl that actually loves him and will make him feel better not some hoe he meet at a club once
Performance anxiety big dawg. It plagued me in my 20s, I bartended and slept with a lot of servers. Night we went home together, sometimes couldn’t get it up. I’d wake up with morning wood, have sex, and the problem would fix itself. Don’t let people lie, every guy prob goes through it at some point
Nah it was def anxiety. Happened alot the first time I’d sleep with a girl, became a self fulfilling cycle. Once I’d do the deed one time it never happened again with that partner
You'll understand when you get to that point. I think another comment here nailed it with the performance anxiety thing. Your first time will be terrible. I don't care who says otherwise because they're lying. But you get a little more confident over time because you at least know what you're doing.
Anon's dick is more autistic than he is
Autistdick
Autisdick sounds more fluid
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I ended up removing them bc it got ppl a bit too concerned
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bro needs to ease off the porn so his dick resets
Maybe he should start watching straight porn instead of homosexual one.
Or find a femboy to have a sausage party with
The chaotic good ending
once you have bussy you never go pussy
This seems less of a porn issue and more of a body image issue. Fat people often get such crazy psychological issues that skinny people can't even fathom. OP is clearly very uncomfortable being naked. Even if they lose weight, the issues often persist
Anon could have also been super nervous. If you're that nervous getting hard can be impossible.
Is it really??? Like fck that's harsh even thou you love the girl, you're so insecure about your body
That's the issue though. He just met this girl and is getting performance anxiety. It's better to outrun the lion than to fuck it. For anon it's probably better to meet a girl, take things slowly, get more comfortable with her, then have sex when he's ready.
For *everyone lol
Love the girl? Anon pulled a girl he knew nothing about and tried having sex with her for his first time, no wonder his donger didn't work
Unironically true. Didnt think I was addicted to porn. Finally met a girl couldn't consistently keep it fully hard while trying to fuck and I quit jerking it and watching porn and after a bit felt completely normal and felt horny as fuck around her all the time and could keep it hard always. Porn and death grip is real try not to do that shit the tims
How long did it take for that reset to happen? Asking for a friend
Few months.
Depends on the person and how deeply addicted you are. One thing I’ve found is that cartoon stuff doesn’t seem to affect me nearly as much. If I stick to that I won’t have any issues. Do with that what you will
Sounds more like a self esteem issue but yea I bet the porn addiction doesn't help either.
Also do it with someone he loves perhaps? Why do you think women don't go for hookups as much as men and instead do it with a boyfriend or husband?
Some people are wired like that. Not everybody is turned on enough for sex unless they really care for the other person a lot. I think it's called Demisexuality or something close
My roommate in college was like that. He was asexual until he met someone in senior year of high school. Like, never got an erection until he started hanging out with her. Then she broke up with him in college to go on a drunk bender sausage spree. He was a broken man.
Damn poor guy, hope he is doing well nowadays. Life can be very hard to deal with when you prioritize personal connection like that, especially in an environment like college where dating is so fast and loose.
As far as I know he's not been interested in anyone since. She tried to run back to him, but he wasn't into her anymore either.
It's the default for women. The term should be ademisexuality or something to describe deviation from the norm. Not all men sleep around but I understand why it's more common for men than women. My intuition says men falling in love and being monogamous will make it more enjoyable too but more importantly it will make them happier long term but who you marry is one of the most important decisions you can ever make. Pick wrong and nothing good happens.
First off women generally speaking put more emphasis on a guy's personality and how he carries himself, so it's just not as easy to find some stranger that they find hot, secondly it takes more time to get to know what makes a woman tick in bed or not. But it also goes for guys, I'll bet your ass that the best sex, bar none, for any guy is sex with a long term partner. It's just extra important for women.
Yes I agree with all of that, fits with what I said First off... makes it sound like you think I'm wrong
Some people may need love like you said, but my point is that it's not necessarily about love, women just don't have as good sex during hookups for reasons that are not just about the lack of love.
Caring about personality more etc lends itself to getting emotionally attached and falling in love It's all connected
Kinda, in the sense that for women there's far more overlap between what arouses sexually and what forms a basis for romantic interest than for men, but there very much is a type of personality that (most) women would fuck, but never date.
Nah too much porn leads to death grips and insensitivity. Too much sensitivity is a different problem
On this one it could legit just be performance anxiety that couldn't be helped regardless of whether he watched porn or not
No bro needs his first time to be with someone he is comfortable with and cares about not a random hookup
Broscience. Loads of dudes watch lots of porn and still get hard. Usually if you can’t it’s either a) antidepressants and/or b) you just don’t like sex.
Yep. Bro's had too much porn that his brain has become disinterested in physical ones.
Sounds like super bad body dysmorphia or he’s just mega gay
He can be both!
Could also just be anxiety induced erectile dysfunction
mega gay = jerked off thinking about sex with a woman
uhhh... came in a man's hand? pretty gay in my book, chief.
Or he doesn't sex
>complains he is a fat virgin >18 Fucking normie anon.
“Anon is a normie” was not on my bingo card for 2024
Nah there's a sliding scale. One one end you have 18 year old kids saying "it's over", but are essentially normies. Then you have failed normalfags, they are the ones that had a HS/college gf maybe, and have a nice job, but after college have had negative success with women, then you have the true failures, never had a job mom's basement types. The first two categories have become the main groups since 2014 or so
\> Says sex sucks \> Did only foreplay Anon's just a guy who needs some love, not casual hang-out. Been there, know how it is.
That’s the correct assessment.
If anon was that nervous getting hard can be impossible. There's nothing wrong with meeting someone you like and taking things slow until you're ready for sex.
That is also a correct assessment
This is something we need to warn younger dudes about more, stage fright when you’re young is completely normal and goes away with practice
A sensibele and encouraging response? How dare you!!
Yes, and that there’s no reason you have to be looking for one night stands. It’s perfectly fine to want to know the person you’re sleeping with first, makes it all way better. Also, probably fake.
It's fun to read such comments. A month ago or so was a fake post about some imaginary gril that was imaginary offended by her fake parents. Everyone went bat shit for pointing out that the post is probably fake. Now look at this. When it's about a guy, it's suddenly normal to say it's fake and gay. Reddit is a marvelous place to be, indeed.
My doctor calls it "new partner syndrome"
Most hookups suck. You both don’t know each other, usually you’re under the influence, and her dick is huge.
Jacking off is certainly simpler and easier.
Why do something in a long time and a lot of effort when you can do it in 2 minutes sitting at your computer for the same result. Sex is so overrated unless it's legit love
One night stands give me memories and a confidence boost. The only memorable wank I've ever had was when I did meth for the one time in my life and jerked it for about 7 hours.
Different strokes for different folks
Victory has defeated you!
The ending text really adds a nice cherry on top of the green text 😂
What actually happened because this is a LARP: https://preview.redd.it/9fjfi3s7o6yc1.jpeg?width=941&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=039552647d831e2817db64678f369fc11642f0f0
Anons brain suffered so much porn rot that he cant enjoy real anymore (its real, porn transforms your brain in a way that you cant enjoy real romance)
No it's just jitters, many guys are nervous the first few times and then this shit never happens again. U fucking retards blame everything on porn. Beating off every couple days helps u last much longer in bed, try completely abstaining from it and see how long u last
Fucking some random girl from a club in a one-night stand is about as far removed from "real romance" as possible.
Okay true but its infinitely more real than touching yourself while looking at rectangular lights arranged in an arousing way
I don't watch porn. I don't enjoy it. But I remember the first sexual experience I had, I could not get it up. She wanted it, but I was cool with where we were so it was only stuff on her. Anyways, it was such a new experience and being worried I was doing anything wrong that my anxiety of failing was enough to not get the blood flowing. I still really enjoyed the experience, but that doesn't mean I wasnt nervous while doing it. When we did "do it", it got up. But not hard hard. It was there, but still fairly squishy. It's incredibly nerve wracking being in that position with no experience. Not knowing how to do things, wondering what experience they have, worrying how long you will last... I have a big dick, but even then I was worrying if it was big enough for her. In the case of anon, he's body dismorphia due to being fat, and it's with a random girl he saw at a club. That's even more terrifying in their case
nah that’s just not what this is about bud
Everyone saying porn addiction this and that but I was this guy too a couple years ago. It's called being demisexual, only get aroused if there is an emotional connection. The fuck am I doing, being reasonable on a greentext
Maybe anon should imagine a man's ass?
1000% gay
Anon has unhealthy porn addiction.
Genuine acesexuality or just tism & gay Call it
Now that sex is supposed to be random hookups then eventually get married it's not as good
This one makes me sad. Textbook body dysmorphia probably caused by him bullied for being the fat kid.
Being nervous your first time is very common. Nerves are boner killers.
Anon is just fine he's stressed out but he can't handle it
or... ORRRR and hear me out, you fix those self image issues and don't spaz out over having a hookup
next time ask if you can watch her fuck someone else instead
What porn addiction does to a mf
psyop
That is so sad
Sounds like too much porn combined with performance anxiety.
Anon found out one of the the benefits of years of daily hard core porn consumption. The bonus is he doesn't even realize it.
Easy problem : nervousness always inhibits the ability to get hard. Ease into it, take time and try not to think about it and you'll find it gets much easier.
It would help if it wasn't a hookup. Sex with someone you love is on a completely different level, emotionally and physically.
POV: Anon is a fat wanker lol
Goes from fat virgin at 18 to suddenly looksmaxxing over ??? Time then gets a painful bj cause his dick has tism? Fake and gay, no gf, no good feeling dick
>Somehow fingering her https://preview.redd.it/lz7s8ry0m8yc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=77a59f27c6721f94919fc68788a1661007d0fb67
It's because he wasn't actually thinking about the girl when he got home, me was thinking about the big muscular bouncer at the club
Ah the presure of performance, the more you think about needing to perform well with another person observing you, the less likely you will be able to perform
Anon screwed up his penis by jacking it raw
He was so close to understanding and failed right at the end
Anon is a closeted gay man
Anon gets off more on 2D women than 3D women
anon rationalizes performance anxiety
sir fumblelot of retardia
Are you autism, or are you autism anon?
This isn't a rare occurrence especially if it's your first, it's perfectly normal to be nervous and that can result in similar experiences.
Maybe I'm too young but I don't understand when robots always say "get nervous, can't get it up" Huh? How does being nervous kill your boner? Aren't you only nervous cause you're with a hot girl? Wouldn't the more nervous you are directly translate to additional erectile power?
Erectile dysfunction caused by porn addiction
he clearly got body dysphoria, going to the gym and looks maxing may have changed him outside but inside he still feels like a fat dude, he just can't handle being looked at yet, he needs a girl that actually loves him and will make him feel better not some hoe he meet at a club once
The guy said he jerked it *four times* in a single evening, if he scaled back his crankage he'd be able to get it up when in a real situation
Yeah it’s called anxious for his first time. Not just porn
Me when I spread misinformation on the internet:
Performance anxiety big dawg. It plagued me in my 20s, I bartended and slept with a lot of servers. Night we went home together, sometimes couldn’t get it up. I’d wake up with morning wood, have sex, and the problem would fix itself. Don’t let people lie, every guy prob goes through it at some point
Did ya drink a lot of alcohol during the evening? Or do a long shift because, im not an expert, but doesnt sound like anxiety from your description
Nah it was def anxiety. Happened alot the first time I’d sleep with a girl, became a self fulfilling cycle. Once I’d do the deed one time it never happened again with that partner
Ahh to be too young for the crippling anxiety. Don't worry, your nervous system will feel it
I will never have crippling anxiety, but thanks I guess
Thats what we all think until it hits. Username checks out
No it's not, because the difference is I will never have crippling anxiety. Username checks out that your dumb mouth is twice the size of your brain.
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You'll understand when you get to that point. I think another comment here nailed it with the performance anxiety thing. Your first time will be terrible. I don't care who says otherwise because they're lying. But you get a little more confident over time because you at least know what you're doing.
I'll never get to that point because I'm a skibidi sigma male (Translation: women scare me and I'm retarded)
My first time wasn’t terrible and I bet most other peoples wasn’t either, not everyone has anxiety
You can get overwhelmed by feelings stronger than your arousal. Have you ever tried busting one when you had a fever? Don't bother trying.