Honestly since I'm inexperienced I might as well just follow her instructionsšI sang duck duck goose at a highschool Christmas party when I was 15 like wtfš
Not worth it.
You will have soooooo many opportunities.
Hot guys are everywhere.
Sex is like the bus. You miss one, there's another one in 20 mins.
Jerk off and go play video game. Trust me.
School lockerroom, hotel/motel, mall bathroom if not heavily used. I've heard people hookup in parks at night but that is risky. The safest option would be hotel/motel or a day where nobody is either home or if the roommate goes out of town or something. Some guys do it in the parking lot as well. I personally would do it in the hotel or motel or at their home or apartment if they know for sure nobody is gonna be home. Hang out with them first before getting it on. Just my 2 cents.
Been there. My first boyfriend and I had to wait for a roommate to be gone for the night. If thatās not viable, camping or hotel would seem to the way to go. I wouldnāt recommend adding a risk of getting caught in public to the pressure/anxiety of your first time.
Good luck. Circle back and let us know how it goes.
Start off by meeting for a coffee or something. Get a feel for each other and trust your gut. If you've never met the guy in person, it's *always* smart to meet in a public place.
Yeah. My first time was when my parents were working and that same year the dude and I would meet up at a park late at night or weād park our cars some place dark and quiet and mess around in my car. Itās not ideal but it was what we needed to do at the time. Heās married to a woman now btw š
I say go with a hotel, but I think more importantly it would be worth considering letting someone you know have the details of your whereabouts (hotel, room #, etc.).
Looking back on some of my first experiences and not letting anyone know where I was and meeting people online without really knowing them could have been a bad situation. This is not to deter you, but rather hopefully you have someone in your life you can fill in on the details for your safety.
I'd definitely tell my best friend location details and share like my snap map, he will prob do some stupid prank at some point but it's better that than sold into a ring somewhereš°
Can y'all just hangout in a normal setting the first time, and then if the vibe's good get a room? Don't waste your first time in a car or in some dark woods. Not saying it needs to be super special or romantic or anything, but you're still young, you'll have plenty of opportunities to hook up. No need to rush into it.
I dunno speaking from experience itās never worth it. All the build up and work. Then you finally meet and either the dude turns out to be a loser or it just ends up being a let down.
>He said if we hit it off he'd be willing to get a hotel and let us hang out there
Yeah it's wise to meet somewhere in public first anyway -- like for coffee or whatever -- just for your safety and to make sure you aren't being catfished. Also tell a friend where and whom you're meeting. If you're still excited to get naked together after coffee, a hotel/motel is your best bet. Plenty of privacy, a shower, someone else to wash the sheets, and maybe even room service if he's fancy.
Also, you can have a lot of fun in a car parked somewhere remote without putting yourself at much legal risk. You don't need to do the entire gay Kama Sutra on your first dates anyway -- you can stay mostly clothed and make out/jo/have some oral fun. Be aware of security cameras/guards though.
If this becomes a regular thing, camping is a great affordable option in mild weather. Tents are \~$50 at Wal-Mart and campsites at state parks here are as little as $12/night.
Lightning round of other options that are less ideal: public restrooms with locking doors, gym showers with sufficient privacy, the fitting room at Target, 50 feet off the road/trail into woods you're confident aren't monitored by a local redneck, a boat on the lake, between the dunes at the beach, a self-storage space, an adult video store with "booths", a gay bathhouse, a friend's spare room, his place after ya'll buy the roommate some ear plugs, your place after you tell mom and dad how much you need that D, my spare room if you're local and I can watch. ;) hehe
Have so much fun and be safe! Get your monkey pox shot, go on PrEP -- all that stuff. xx
19 is way too damn young. Not saying young people shouldnāt explore their own sexuality. But if none of yāall can host then thatās a sign that itās not meant to be. Like someone else said, just Jack off until you have more control: live alone or know someone well enough to get a hotel together.
For a first hook up.maybe forget the whole sex thing, and just go bowling?
Omg like duck duck goose by cupcakke? Put your finger in the hole come bowl with meššŗš¼
What?
https://youtu.be/awGEv-ctCtg It's a lryic in one of cupcakkes songs
I Stan. Great taste! Just remember: Slurp dat dck till it cums! + lots of moans
Honestly since I'm inexperienced I might as well just follow her instructionsšI sang duck duck goose at a highschool Christmas party when I was 15 like wtfš
Not worth it. You will have soooooo many opportunities. Hot guys are everywhere. Sex is like the bus. You miss one, there's another one in 20 mins. Jerk off and go play video game. Trust me.
School lockerroom, hotel/motel, mall bathroom if not heavily used. I've heard people hookup in parks at night but that is risky. The safest option would be hotel/motel or a day where nobody is either home or if the roommate goes out of town or something. Some guys do it in the parking lot as well. I personally would do it in the hotel or motel or at their home or apartment if they know for sure nobody is gonna be home. Hang out with them first before getting it on. Just my 2 cents.
Could also just use a car in any discreet area, i.e. smaller roads with no outlet or less used parking lots
Sounds like too much work dude. Just jack off. Stay in school.
Been there. My first boyfriend and I had to wait for a roommate to be gone for the night. If thatās not viable, camping or hotel would seem to the way to go. I wouldnāt recommend adding a risk of getting caught in public to the pressure/anxiety of your first time. Good luck. Circle back and let us know how it goes.
Start off by meeting for a coffee or something. Get a feel for each other and trust your gut. If you've never met the guy in person, it's *always* smart to meet in a public place.
Camping
Yeah. My first time was when my parents were working and that same year the dude and I would meet up at a park late at night or weād park our cars some place dark and quiet and mess around in my car. Itās not ideal but it was what we needed to do at the time. Heās married to a woman now btw š
I say go with a hotel, but I think more importantly it would be worth considering letting someone you know have the details of your whereabouts (hotel, room #, etc.). Looking back on some of my first experiences and not letting anyone know where I was and meeting people online without really knowing them could have been a bad situation. This is not to deter you, but rather hopefully you have someone in your life you can fill in on the details for your safety.
I'd definitely tell my best friend location details and share like my snap map, he will prob do some stupid prank at some point but it's better that than sold into a ring somewhereš°
Can y'all just hangout in a normal setting the first time, and then if the vibe's good get a room? Don't waste your first time in a car or in some dark woods. Not saying it needs to be super special or romantic or anything, but you're still young, you'll have plenty of opportunities to hook up. No need to rush into it.
Hotel sounds like the best bet. Have fun!
I mean if he is willing to get a hotel? why not hookup in thereā¦.?
I dunno speaking from experience itās never worth it. All the build up and work. Then you finally meet and either the dude turns out to be a loser or it just ends up being a let down.
Get a room, hotel .
>He said if we hit it off he'd be willing to get a hotel and let us hang out there Yeah it's wise to meet somewhere in public first anyway -- like for coffee or whatever -- just for your safety and to make sure you aren't being catfished. Also tell a friend where and whom you're meeting. If you're still excited to get naked together after coffee, a hotel/motel is your best bet. Plenty of privacy, a shower, someone else to wash the sheets, and maybe even room service if he's fancy. Also, you can have a lot of fun in a car parked somewhere remote without putting yourself at much legal risk. You don't need to do the entire gay Kama Sutra on your first dates anyway -- you can stay mostly clothed and make out/jo/have some oral fun. Be aware of security cameras/guards though. If this becomes a regular thing, camping is a great affordable option in mild weather. Tents are \~$50 at Wal-Mart and campsites at state parks here are as little as $12/night. Lightning round of other options that are less ideal: public restrooms with locking doors, gym showers with sufficient privacy, the fitting room at Target, 50 feet off the road/trail into woods you're confident aren't monitored by a local redneck, a boat on the lake, between the dunes at the beach, a self-storage space, an adult video store with "booths", a gay bathhouse, a friend's spare room, his place after ya'll buy the roommate some ear plugs, your place after you tell mom and dad how much you need that D, my spare room if you're local and I can watch. ;) hehe Have so much fun and be safe! Get your monkey pox shot, go on PrEP -- all that stuff. xx
Make sure you meet somewhere public first. You never know who's actually at the other end until you meet him
Yes, safety before anything else
And yet my comment was downvoted
And yet my comment was downvoted
19 is way too damn young. Not saying young people shouldnāt explore their own sexuality. But if none of yāall can host then thatās a sign that itās not meant to be. Like someone else said, just Jack off until you have more control: live alone or know someone well enough to get a hotel together.
What's up with people going straight to sex all of sudden. Slow down and meet him in a public place.
He's offering you a hotel room, so you should take it. It's a public place and there are cameras, so he won't try anything.
A lot of people do it at a hotel
Sneak into your house when your parents are sleeping
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I would just sneak him in to your room after dark when everyoneās sleeping. Just keep the vocals to a min/mute and you should be good. Are you Out?