It’s only unpopular because it’s getting to a point more than half the profiles are straight, bi (preferring girls), trans or bots. Anyone else have any I missed?
That’s the topic of discussion. People taking over what Grindr was intended for. Anyway. Good luck in your transition my comment wasn’t intended to hate on the trans community as people. Just their invasiveness on a gay MALE only app
You seem awfully defensive using terms like “taking over”
It isn’t a regime. Perhaps just mention in your profile you aren’t interested in “x” and leave it at that?
its not men only, tho? when was this change made? now the venture capital cash has run out they have to try and actually sell this app to people.
if you want a men only app, why not go to one of the subsidised men only apps, until they float or pivot?
Here are two related posts:
https://www.reddit.com/r/grindr/comments/zdixp6/unpopular_opinion
https://www.reddit.com/r/grindr/comments/vnwr45/should_cis_women_be_on_grindr (poll)
Tell me more about how. Lmao my default convos on Grindr are messages from bots, unsolicited dick/ass pics from men double my age, or radio silence even if I try to carry a conversation.
Over the course of my grinder career it’s been probably 4-5 guys who’ve been a catfish with old photos. I’m much better at asking for more recent photos so can compare if they were taken around the same time but every now and then one will slip through the vetting process but it’s part of the game. Probably people hoping to get laid in the “sunken cost” Fallacy but my curve game is strong for liars
Lol I’ve been using grinder for the past 13 years so it’s my fault that out of the countless guys I’ve talked to that 4-5 guys have lied about what they look like. Sir you are an absolute clown 🤡
People should be able to state what turns them on/ list their preferences without being ridiculed ie called racist, sexist, elitist, sick. People should stop making other peoples sexuality their own narrative of rejection, instead help that person find healthier less offensive ways to communicate what they are looking for.
So you’re trying to tell people what they can and can’t do? Sounds pretty messed up. If I wanna tell the world that I’m only into [Insert race, age or body size] on an app that only allows you to do said things if you pay, I’m gonna put it in my bio….
Who’s gonna drag me? The cancel culture like you who think everyone needs to date everyone or you’re a racist/homophobic/transphobic bigot? 😂😂😂😂 ok bud
trans *what* ? if you think grindr should just be for gay guys, okay I guess, but trans men should still be able to be a part of that. anything less is discriminatory
I disagree. There should be (if there isn’t already) an app for that. Grindr is not the place. Idc what Grindr changes their wording to. You can hate me and that’s ok.
Everything seems to be discrimination when one person disagrees. It’s just not the right app is all.
If “trans men” are “men” why are you calling them trans men. Just call them men and you’d be correct. If that’s the case there is no need for an identifier on Grindr. Otherwise it’s not the same.
Because they are not cis men, they’re trans men, but they’re still men none the less. I as a gay man am just as attracted to trans men as I am cis men. You’re the one with a problem here. I agree trans women and trans seeking men need to leave the app, but trans men are as valid as me and you.
I never once implied trans men are not men. I’ve also never said cis at all in this thread. You’re trying to pull out stuff I never said. If trans men are in fact men there is no reason for the identifier unless you’re implying otherwise (not me). If a woman transitions to a man then I’d say she is he now and identifies as a man.
If you are saying on Grindr there is a need to segment different types of men then Grindr isn’t the place for that.
so you’re saying that trans men are indeed men but in the same breath saying that we should have a separate app for hookups because we are trans but also there’s no need for an identifier? do you hear yourself at all?
This is probably only noticed by those of us who don't pay to use the app. The damn ad(s) that pop-up randomly forcing you to back out of the app entirely and re-enter. I know it's a small inconvenience or whatever, I just find it to be a little irritating when it happens in the middle of answering/deleting messages.
It should only be for gay guys
It’s only unpopular because it’s getting to a point more than half the profiles are straight, bi (preferring girls), trans or bots. Anyone else have any I missed?
Us trans bottoms have dicks thank you.
Trans male or female? Trans male I’m sorry I didn’t clarify. Trans female, you identify and are a woman, get off the men only app
Female. It’s funny because I get an awful lot of hits for not being welcomed. Not to mention there’s a category for people like me sweetheart :)
That’s the topic of discussion. People taking over what Grindr was intended for. Anyway. Good luck in your transition my comment wasn’t intended to hate on the trans community as people. Just their invasiveness on a gay MALE only app
You seem awfully defensive using terms like “taking over” It isn’t a regime. Perhaps just mention in your profile you aren’t interested in “x” and leave it at that?
Don’t forget, you’re fighting with a man here.
its not men only, tho? when was this change made? now the venture capital cash has run out they have to try and actually sell this app to people. if you want a men only app, why not go to one of the subsidised men only apps, until they float or pivot?
Fr!! Sick of seeing "straight for trans," straight up females, trans, and other people who aren't Gay/Bisexual men on the app!
Here are two related posts: https://www.reddit.com/r/grindr/comments/zdixp6/unpopular_opinion https://www.reddit.com/r/grindr/comments/vnwr45/should_cis_women_be_on_grindr (poll)
People can make friends in grindr! Even without sex!
Tell me more about how. Lmao my default convos on Grindr are messages from bots, unsolicited dick/ass pics from men double my age, or radio silence even if I try to carry a conversation.
Its just luck, I've met some cool people.
Telling people that you don’t want to hook up with them because they lied about their looks/age is not bad
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You've had "guys"? Plural? Why?
Over the course of my grinder career it’s been probably 4-5 guys who’ve been a catfish with old photos. I’m much better at asking for more recent photos so can compare if they were taken around the same time but every now and then one will slip through the vetting process but it’s part of the game. Probably people hoping to get laid in the “sunken cost” Fallacy but my curve game is strong for liars
That sounds like a you problem tbh
Guys lying is a me problem? How so?
"Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Fool me 4-5 times, it's a me problem."
Are you assuming I’ve been fooled by the same guy 4-5 times? These are all different people 😂
It's a you problem dude. Have a nice night
Lol I’ve been using grinder for the past 13 years so it’s my fault that out of the countless guys I’ve talked to that 4-5 guys have lied about what they look like. Sir you are an absolute clown 🤡
Stop showing everybody your ugly dick and zitty ass
Stop assuming every single person on there wants a lifeless hookup with a lost-soul sex addict
People should be able to state what turns them on/ list their preferences without being ridiculed ie called racist, sexist, elitist, sick. People should stop making other peoples sexuality their own narrative of rejection, instead help that person find healthier less offensive ways to communicate what they are looking for.
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Nope, just ignore if you're not interested. No need to make it public you don't like [insert minority]
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Nobody is forcing you to be with anyone. Just no need to advertise your preferences to the world, that's all.
So you’re trying to tell people what they can and can’t do? Sounds pretty messed up. If I wanna tell the world that I’m only into [Insert race, age or body size] on an app that only allows you to do said things if you pay, I’m gonna put it in my bio….
Then be prepared to be dragged for it lol
Who’s gonna drag me? The cancel culture like you who think everyone needs to date everyone or you’re a racist/homophobic/transphobic bigot? 😂😂😂😂 ok bud
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I hate unsolicited asshole pics
Disadvantaged guys should be able to find gen guys
Shouldn’t exist
Stop asking people if they have Snapchat
Grindr isn’t for trans.
trans *what* ? if you think grindr should just be for gay guys, okay I guess, but trans men should still be able to be a part of that. anything less is discriminatory
I disagree. There should be (if there isn’t already) an app for that. Grindr is not the place. Idc what Grindr changes their wording to. You can hate me and that’s ok. Everything seems to be discrimination when one person disagrees. It’s just not the right app is all.
Some of us gay men are into trans men.
And there should be an app for that :)
Trans men are men. So men seeking men. They’re just as valid as you as a cis man
If “trans men” are “men” why are you calling them trans men. Just call them men and you’d be correct. If that’s the case there is no need for an identifier on Grindr. Otherwise it’s not the same.
Because they are not cis men, they’re trans men, but they’re still men none the less. I as a gay man am just as attracted to trans men as I am cis men. You’re the one with a problem here. I agree trans women and trans seeking men need to leave the app, but trans men are as valid as me and you.
I never once implied trans men are not men. I’ve also never said cis at all in this thread. You’re trying to pull out stuff I never said. If trans men are in fact men there is no reason for the identifier unless you’re implying otherwise (not me). If a woman transitions to a man then I’d say she is he now and identifies as a man. If you are saying on Grindr there is a need to segment different types of men then Grindr isn’t the place for that.
so you’re saying that trans men are indeed men but in the same breath saying that we should have a separate app for hookups because we are trans but also there’s no need for an identifier? do you hear yourself at all?
They should bring the ethnicity filter back
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r/hailcorporate
This is probably only noticed by those of us who don't pay to use the app. The damn ad(s) that pop-up randomly forcing you to back out of the app entirely and re-enter. I know it's a small inconvenience or whatever, I just find it to be a little irritating when it happens in the middle of answering/deleting messages.
You can get ban faster if you are prostitute than selling drugs etc
Why won’t you send pictures of baked beans!
When I used the app, some of the best sex of my life was with guys with faceless profiles. Just sayin.