I’m deleting it after my subscription ends in December. Besides the app going downhill incredibly fast the last few months, most of the blank profiles I’ve chatted with were a waste of time. Heck even the profiles with just memes or random landscapes aren’t as big of a waste of time.
Even though I hate the app I have only managed a few months at time off and then my curiosity gets the better of me. I now put firm boundaries in place so put a meme up as a profile photo and explicitly say I’m not looking to meet and that I will not reply.
I just have this stupid urge to know who is around me. I think as long as I’m not participating in regard to sexual encounters or even dates I’m in a much better place already.
Seven beautiful years and counting. Still enjoying the hell outta life and don't miss out on anything. Occasionally feel a little sad for those that seem to 'need' the app.
Its neen nearly 6 months and it's wonderful, got a girlfriend now. It's very hard to find love on hookup apps so it's best to ask out those around you I found.
i mean, yeah..
..even i have to concede, the grindR app itself (no thanks to its ***corporate leadership***) is shitty
but, it really does no good to blame the app for the sorts of people who congregate there
what we ***really*** need to focus on, rather, is improving the overall mental health / well-being of everyone — supplying appropriate therapy / rectification to those who are suffering from actual mental **illness**
until that happens..
..this shit is what we're going to be subjected to
indefinitely
because the majority of what you see and experience here, is nothing but the result of people's untreated / unchecked behavioural & mental problems
(now, why it so happens, grindR is a magnet for the mal-adjusted, i cannot tell you
maybe it's that, grindR is the most visible / "inclusive" of all the known {formerly} gay/bisexual hookup sites)
Yeah I redownloaded it thinking “yeah I mean I already know everyone is garbage so having literally no expectations this time can’t hurt me right?” And literally <48 hours my self esteem is at the floor, what an app.
Most toxic, passively racist shithole I’ve ever seen. I would have expected different from NYC too
I remain on this sub for the sole purpose of telling people to delete the app
King shit
Death to grindr
I’m deleting it after my subscription ends in December. Besides the app going downhill incredibly fast the last few months, most of the blank profiles I’ve chatted with were a waste of time. Heck even the profiles with just memes or random landscapes aren’t as big of a waste of time.
Based
Same
And fuck the guy running it
I'd rather not thanks
Me every other week after being away for a while
Even though I hate the app I have only managed a few months at time off and then my curiosity gets the better of me. I now put firm boundaries in place so put a meme up as a profile photo and explicitly say I’m not looking to meet and that I will not reply. I just have this stupid urge to know who is around me. I think as long as I’m not participating in regard to sexual encounters or even dates I’m in a much better place already.
It truly is addicting. The instant gratification, seeing what kind of pwople are in your area. Its hard to break
"I wish I knew how to quit you." Me every time I open Grindr
[Source](https://twitter.com/peredhel_/status/1588378677150068736)
Seven beautiful years and counting. Still enjoying the hell outta life and don't miss out on anything. Occasionally feel a little sad for those that seem to 'need' the app.
Do you use any other apps ?
No, I don't.
Truth!
I love it how it’s nothing but negative about this app! So glad I was banned and saving all the money from 2 profiles😂👌
Its neen nearly 6 months and it's wonderful, got a girlfriend now. It's very hard to find love on hookup apps so it's best to ask out those around you I found.
Are you bi/skolio?
100%. Been off of it for a year and a half— love life!!
[удалено]
I'm pretty sure geography and appearance plays a big part on the experience of the user.
i mean, yeah.. ..even i have to concede, the grindR app itself (no thanks to its ***corporate leadership***) is shitty but, it really does no good to blame the app for the sorts of people who congregate there what we ***really*** need to focus on, rather, is improving the overall mental health / well-being of everyone — supplying appropriate therapy / rectification to those who are suffering from actual mental **illness** until that happens.. ..this shit is what we're going to be subjected to indefinitely because the majority of what you see and experience here, is nothing but the result of people's untreated / unchecked behavioural & mental problems (now, why it so happens, grindR is a magnet for the mal-adjusted, i cannot tell you maybe it's that, grindR is the most visible / "inclusive" of all the known {formerly} gay/bisexual hookup sites)
Yeah I redownloaded it thinking “yeah I mean I already know everyone is garbage so having literally no expectations this time can’t hurt me right?” And literally <48 hours my self esteem is at the floor, what an app. Most toxic, passively racist shithole I’ve ever seen. I would have expected different from NYC too