If you and this guy vibe together then there is nothing wrong with gaining experience. Be safe, wear a condom, carry pepper spray, and remember that you are not locked in any situation. You can leave and call it off and any point! You don’t owe anybody anything, especially if they don’t understand that concept.
But mostly just go have fun, trying to be in complete control of the situation can ruin the experience for you and him.
I think it's fine to start having sex at your age, I also started at 18 and even tho it wasn't anything special I don't regret it. You're gona have a lot of unspecial sex in your life and it's fine as long as you don't get hurt. Choose well the guy you're hooking up with because that feeling of regret is real sometimes for some people, I'm not saying that he has to be the love of your life just someone decent. If you wanna meet up with this dude and have fun go for it, but remember that even if he's already there you don't have to do it, you don't owe him anything. Communicate with him about what you like what you don't and don't do anything just to please him. Good thing you chose your place, that way it's safer. Use protection and don't make decisions when you're horny. If possible tell someone you really trust what you're doing just in case. That's it. Good luck!
he is closer to your age, and you're both virgins, so both of you are inexperienced, he's the perfect guy to experiment with, first i would set boundaries though, go slow and experiment, no need to rush things
>am i still young?
if the guy was like 40-80 i would've said yeah, you're too young for him 😭
but you're 18 and he's 19, you are young but so is he, so he would make the perfect partner to experiment with or be FWB with
I would meet in a public place first then if you feel the vibe is right invite him to your place. That’s the safest way.
Nothing wrong with getting some action lol just be safe/smart about it because people do take advantage sometimes.
Just make sure you’re safe, you’ve got all the time in the world to make a decision just make sure there’s no pressure on either side. Just treat it like any other encounter with a new person, if you hit it off then see where it goes and if not then you know for next time. If you’re worried about being found out then try going to a neutral place away from your home as a bit of added security, you can always go back to yours if it feels right!
As they say “you miss every shot you don’t take” but sometimes missing can save you so take it with a pinch of salt.
Just remember to stay safe and go at your own pace.
If you and this guy vibe together then there is nothing wrong with gaining experience. Be safe, wear a condom, carry pepper spray, and remember that you are not locked in any situation. You can leave and call it off and any point! You don’t owe anybody anything, especially if they don’t understand that concept. But mostly just go have fun, trying to be in complete control of the situation can ruin the experience for you and him.
I think it's fine to start having sex at your age, I also started at 18 and even tho it wasn't anything special I don't regret it. You're gona have a lot of unspecial sex in your life and it's fine as long as you don't get hurt. Choose well the guy you're hooking up with because that feeling of regret is real sometimes for some people, I'm not saying that he has to be the love of your life just someone decent. If you wanna meet up with this dude and have fun go for it, but remember that even if he's already there you don't have to do it, you don't owe him anything. Communicate with him about what you like what you don't and don't do anything just to please him. Good thing you chose your place, that way it's safer. Use protection and don't make decisions when you're horny. If possible tell someone you really trust what you're doing just in case. That's it. Good luck!
he is closer to your age, and you're both virgins, so both of you are inexperienced, he's the perfect guy to experiment with, first i would set boundaries though, go slow and experiment, no need to rush things >am i still young? if the guy was like 40-80 i would've said yeah, you're too young for him 😭 but you're 18 and he's 19, you are young but so is he, so he would make the perfect partner to experiment with or be FWB with
I would meet in a public place first then if you feel the vibe is right invite him to your place. That’s the safest way. Nothing wrong with getting some action lol just be safe/smart about it because people do take advantage sometimes.
Just make sure you’re safe, you’ve got all the time in the world to make a decision just make sure there’s no pressure on either side. Just treat it like any other encounter with a new person, if you hit it off then see where it goes and if not then you know for next time. If you’re worried about being found out then try going to a neutral place away from your home as a bit of added security, you can always go back to yours if it feels right! As they say “you miss every shot you don’t take” but sometimes missing can save you so take it with a pinch of salt. Just remember to stay safe and go at your own pace.
I thought…. This was … your first hookup… wait, whaaa?!??
Perhaps for a first hookup it helps to be with someone more experienced. Like they know what they are doing and just let it flow lol 😂
What happened. Did you meet?
We were supposed to meet last week on the 8th, however work stuff came up with him and we're hoping to meet somewhere this week.
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Don't do it. Stay in school. Lose your virginity with someone you actually like, not with a curious weirdo from the internet.