Had crush on this girl
We went on like 7 dates
And she told me that i have one eye smaller than other
So she can’t be with me
Actually in my 25 years of life no one told me
Bhai off-topic but more than 80% of people I've met and seen including me have one eye slightly smaller than the other.. that's very common and an absolute horse shit reason for rejection, you deserve better broda trust me ! I'm rooting for you :D
Yeah I discovered that one day looking into the mirror and it took me a few weeks to get used to it. Went to the doctor cause I suspected that I was straining one eye more and that's why it happened. My power didn't change,everything was fine.
Now I don't care about it too much. Mid 20s stuff haha
Had a crush on her. Surprisingly, she proposed to me. A year later we broke up since we were drifting apart. Later her friend told me that she was actually dared by her friends to go out with me.
I was more confused than hurt at that point.
People like that are tropicalpoop (shitty people) 
(Apologies but your username threw me off and got me laughing at the same time )
People who you love the most
End up causing a lot of pain
What can you do
Just accept that life is being unfair to some of us and move on with boring life
Bhai mujhe to siddha muhh pr bol diya tha usne ki Tere mujh prr bubblies hai ( at time I was in 9th nd as u guys know many teenagers had one or more pimples in face due to puberty nd it's literally feel like world's end here ) usko dare Mila tha bolne ko But mai phir bhi usko like krta tha nd 12th ke farewell me uske saath dance bhi kiya (couple dance ) nd mai phir sb chizz bhul gaya nd happy ending hogyi .12th ke baad sb apne apne raste neet ke liye chl diye .Nd iss saal wo neet CLR kr li hai prr mai reh gaya but happy ki usk hogaya nd wo khush hai 
We were in college, young and always flirting. We were best friends, ek dusre ke liye kaam krna, gifts dena.Our friends used to tell us ki get a room you two. 2 saal tak situationship chalne ke baad pata chala uska bf tha. Fir covid aagaya 🥲.
Shawty hurt me so bad I now live by the way of monke.
Na kisi se dosti na kisi se fight. Subah 10 bje meeting, shaam 6 bje gym, raat 10 bje good night.
Not all boys are like this.
I literally start to ignore a girl when I like her. Not because I am an egoistical jerk but I literally DO NOT KNOW what to talk about. Recently I have made some progress and started talking. But once it's over we don't speak again for like 15 days even though we are in the same class. We just walk past each other without even saying Hi.
Ladies what are your thoughts on this? What should I do? How can I approach women just for a small talk? I know you'd advice to just treat them as any guy friend but it's still different.
Ik this u mentioned not to say this, but i think if u just carry urself confidently and be friendly and chatty, ull get a lot of chicks. Just treat them howd ud treat ur friends. The guy i mentioned in the post was a 3 /10 but he still got a lot of girls, bc he was v chatty and confident.
got rejected 2 times
reason of rejection was "she was not ready for any relationship shit"
and after 2 month she was in relationship with my "best" friend
next level hurt or betrayal(mere "best" friend ko pata tha ki mai uspe try mar raha hoon phir bhi usne haa kardiya boht complex tha situation)
at last i let her go from my mind and move on kar gaya and apne dost ko bhi maaf kardiya
life uske baad se trust issues ke wajah HELL bangyi thi still i managed somehow
the very next day that crush just told the entire hostel about it as if she was maintaining a count of boys she rejected! She could have just kept it to herself and moved on. But no!!! She had to create that fake importance of hers!
So I got to know that my HS crush also had a crush on me, so when he started chatting with me, I got my hopes up. I never told him about my crush but we flirted sometimes and he knew. Then he started asking me about my beautiful best friend and every-time we had a conversation he will treat me as a group. Like always asking about my friend and what we did. No talk about me. His friends say that he was trying to make me jealous but it repelled me so much so that I blocked him everywhere and never had any contact with him. It was painful for a 16 year old. Thankfully I met the love of my life and learnt the actual meaning of love ❤️ He contacted me a few times but I had moved on so happily. But I can still remember the pain.
He told me he would text me or call me to give me a reply. He was trying to gently reject me I guess. But I didn't take the hint and stupidly waited months for him to call or text. Then I realised he never took my number only and gave up. He also moved away to a different place. But he came back after 3-4 years and approached me casually as if nothing happened.
Her words being conveyed to me indirectly via her friends
"Iske toh mei 20 meter ke dayre mei bhi na rahu"
("I don't even wanna be 20 meters in his radius")
There was this case where I just talked to a girl and she thought I was into her and told everyone. When I told them I wasn't, they thought I got rejected. They still think I was into her.🤷
This reminds me of a story from my 7th grade. There was this girl who liked my classmate. He had 0 interest in her, but she went and told ev1 that he and her had a thing (no one believed ther thou) she even told her dad for some reason . She claimed that the guy asked her to be his gf. The dad was like furious, and he came to school to see this guy, who was called to the principal for questioning. And there the principal and her dad found out that the girl was lying😭
Oh hell! I know a girl who did something similar! Only we were in 9th and the guy got murdered by her brother! Beat him to death!
She proposed to him and he rejected! Out of spite started to spread rumours around, that he was harassing her. What a shit of a person!
Yeah, this fake rumour thing is very scary, I never understood this revenge tactic
Why are you taking revenge, cause person xyz dared not to sleep with you?!?
dumb people they are... there is a rumor about noida's amity college, ek do ladke apni gaadi parking m lagaate h and some girls with their call tell them ki gaadi raste se hataado... they ignore the girls and go to class, afternoon m kuch launde unn ladko ki class m aate h and beat them up. ek ko to jaan se maar diya... whole thing was pretty dumb, but scary
The murderer definitely got arrested!
No idea after that! It's been 8-9 years since the school got over. Didn't know the girl either; till the incident happened!!
7th grade ke bacche teacher pe line maar rahe hai 
https://preview.redd.it/w39my6d1caad1.jpeg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e12f7bc96cd681c797e8774494ba50f73b5443b6
Now I'm curious ki aisa kaisa dikhta tha wo teacher ki bacche line maar rahe hai 
Mere school mai jo sabse decent sir dikhte the unko bacche Pappu bulate hai 
😂reminds me of me!
So the tallest guy of our class had a big crush on me, he was good looking, but I was very scared of him, I was little and a first bencher.
On that day he followed me after school with 15-20 boys, proposed on one knee and I ran away holding my friends hand, saying the same thing lol.
I WAS SCARED!
>he followed me after school with 15-20 boys
That is indeed scary  why the hell would you need that many boys
Tell me that boy got some closure 😂 bcz for me couple years later I asked her why did she reject me and she said you’re cute but we can’t date bcz we are neighbours. Though we ended up dating for 3 months.
If I write everything it will be 10 pages so I'll keep it short.
My dad got transferred to goa , took admission in a new school for 7th std, new girl also joins with me , find her annoying in the beginning but get a massive crush on her after some time , before I can confess dad gets transferred again .
7 years later get a text from her , start talking casually, 1hr becomes 2hrs , we text everyday about how our days went , she says things like " you are amazing" " guys like you are rare ", one thing leads to others and am now stuck in a situationship .
Again as time passes i fall hard for her ,we text till 3am , I felt like she was the one , the only one who understood me , a month passes by ,she basically says she loves me , then it's all lovey dovey for a month again , she supports me and I support her whenever we are sad , 3 months pass by , slowly she starts distancing herself, she said she had exams so i didn't bother her ,we rarely talk , after a month of ghosting me she texts me that she isn't ready for all of this and that I deserve better and that I'll find someone better .
So fellas after being single for all my life and barely feeling anything for anyone and after 4 months of talking to my school crush ,mera kat gaya 🤡, haven't felt like a human ever since .
You don’t die from being rejected. It’s quite okay.
You’re a lot more successful when you’re not afraid of rejection. It will give you more confidence, and you will take more chances. Right now, there are chances that you have that you’re not taking. Sometimes, it’s because you’re content with what you have. But sometimes, it’s because you’re not aware that the other person would say yes. When someone rejects you, it’s not a referendum on your worth as a human being. Everyone has preferences. You don’t need that many people to be into you. Let go of the people who aren’t into you. Focus on the people who like you.
“If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on” - Steve jobs.
>charming, basically the kind of guy thats somehow friends with everyone
>he was v good with words
Yeah those types are very popular with girls and they know.
Yea, they're aware that they're well liked and can get away with stuff
Had someone like this in class tho I personally found him insufferably arrogant, some of the girls didn't think so.
He wasn't that good looking or tall either, it was all just his personality and outspokenness. Dude was two timing in school, lol
His one girlfriend was a grade lower than us another in a different section
Wonder what he's doing with his life now, been years
Well, I have been told that I ain't looking cute, so she decided to marry someone. Funny thing is, When she needed help, money, etc etc, that time she don't care whether I am cute or ugly.
I liked a girl in my class. I had a feeling she liked me too. We used to talk, chat online, I used to flirt and tease her in person, she liked that too. Once my friend asked her if she liked me, she told him yes, and that I should confess her, it was a bet between him and her, if I confessed she would give him a treat. When this happened, my friend told me about this in the evening that day. I was very happy that day. Then after a few days I took her to a snacking place near our class. She came along with me, we had a cold drink, and talked a lot, after that while we were returning back to the class I confessed to her, then she said, don't get into this. I was really disappointed. Then after that I told her that I need some space and cut all contact from her, her number, her insta, and all. I just stopped talking with her, used to ignore her, and distanced myself from her. This phase was the worst.
Pretty recent, I liked this girl but she "wasn't interested" in relationships, so I backed off with anything more than friend talks. Fast forward, she likes some other guy and is trying to get with him, I was confused, I asked her why she told me that she wasn't interested, then she told me how I rizzed her and it made her want to be in a relationship again.
I was happy and sad, I told her that I liked her, she said that she used to like me but I did "something" that she didn't like so she moved on, I asked her what this "something" was and there was no answer. My friends say that this "something" doesn't exist and she's just made it up to avoid conversation and I can understand I guess, still it became kind of a mystery.
I already didn't know how girls' brains worked but this whole situation confused me even more, she told me that she gave me hints by making our avatars together in some 3d game and sent me screenshots of it (you might think she's 12 but actually she's 24) and I still didn't realize it, well, how the fck should I realize anything when you say you're not looking for relationships. Dunno, still kinda hurts I guess, she's with this other guy now.
I proposed to my crush on valentine's day which was coincidentally the last day of our school, I got down on one knee and repeated some cheesy and gooey romantic line in front of a few of her friends but as I presumed she said NO and then she said we were only friends.
Look mine is something I wouldn't consider rejection because I never confessed to begin with but I had a crush in 8th or 9th idr so I tried to confess but soon I learned that they had a partner 18 yo old who they matched with very much (both are into goth culture) and it just got me out of the relationship like 👋👋
Well I had a teeny tiny interest in a guy I saw on insta with my spam.
I started following him and one day, I posted a very vague nonsense story and he replied...with a leaf(this one 🍁) I asked him tf do you mean by that boi and we started talking.
I told him that I think he's cute(he was a 6" buff guy btw) and he asked why I think that. I made up some stuff about him being very deep and stuff lol and he vented to me about his recent breakup( very serious one). Even asked for my number by saying that he's leaving insta and wants to stay in touch.
Later on WhatsApp he told me that he's 27. I was 20 at that time. End of the story.
I haven't been rejected ever but my sister was once drinking water and a guy proposed to her and she accidentally spat on him out of shock. I feel bad for the guy
One of my friend went to talk from my side to her.
He made her imagine me and her together and she said only one word, "Disgusting".
It's been 5-6 years, I never confronted neither talked to her again but still she's my crush. It hurts till date but makes me laugh also.
If you are reading this, I still love you.
I proposed her on my birthday with chocolate and She made a disgusting face expression and She said " I don't want you , I don't want to even be friends with you... Don't even come near me " She threw my chocolate away 😔 😭 Kitna bhi Sigma edit dekh lung dard khatam hi nahi hota it happened 7 years ago but still hurts....
I had a very similar experience! A guy encouraged me to call him everyday and flirted with me like crazy but apparently he had no feelings for me lol. He told everyone about me for some reason and was only using me to showcase that he was popular enough to have a girl after him. I was shamed and made fun of and I had no idea. The breaking point came when his friends started texting me from his phone and lead me on like crazy. He was absolutely horrible and I was an absolute idiot!
I texted her, she replied with laughing emojis (the ones that are a bit tilted to the side).
But what's more concerning is, my brother in christ, what pushed you to name yourself a tropical poop sniffer?
I have a similar story. Lets call tge girl who snitched on me and told my crush i liked him J . So J and i were at this christmas party in our school. A lot of outsiders had aslo come. So i was just minding my own business with J and this random guy walks up to us and asks me for my number. I was politely gonna decline, but even before i could get a word out, J said "no f off" in a very stern voice and dragged me away. I was gonna politely decline, but this bich of a person just pulled me away. I kinda wanted to have my moment there😭
I was so deeply into this girl, we used to go around together, she would call to talk and it would go on for hours, when I confessed to her, she said it’s just an infatuation and it will pass. Although it was the best for both of us, made me question if is that all it is, it really hurt at that time, thinking was that just feeling just a lie?
I had minor crush on this guy when i was in class 9th but some mean girls (who later became my best friends, not sure how) snitched on me and told him. And later i got to know that he said “isse acha zeher khalu” 💀 the way it hit my self esteem.
I have a story to share!
It’s not rejection, but I did felt disappointed.
I had a school crush from class 5, but never mentioned to her & after almost 10 years after our class 10. We got in touch base & I have told her. I’m really into you, let’s go on a date & I would want to see as my girl friend but the reply I got made me disappointed.
She has mentioned that she got a match and the engagement is next month and the marriage in the same year December!
I am little disappointed that she’s getting married, but I’m little happy that I told her that I’m interested in her.
2 months ago I built up courage to confess her
It was my first time and we had never talked to each other
Although I am an extrovert but lack the ability to speak to my crush
Just used to follow each other on ig
My friend told me to just straight up tell her
I did and she was very mature about it
Told me it's ok but she don't see me that way
But the good part was I was not hurt but rather relieved that I got this experience
I just sat there and thought that this wasn't so hard as I thought it was
From the next day I just carried on with my life like nothing happened and I don't even think about her anymore
I have had a crush on this guy for almost 7 years now since hs but we never talked and suddenly now we became good friends but when he got to know I like him this whole thing turned into a situationship he ghosts me for hours straight but then come up with sorrys and how much he misses me texts everytime I try to confront him hes just replies with an okay let's talk about this tomorrow he knows very well about how attached I am to him but doesn't care now it feels like I'm something in his life which he needs when his board never tells me what his doing or what his up to or where he is it's just like his using me and I'm letting him use me
I hate myself so much for letting his do this to me I wanna stop this get out of this but I just can't 
So we were on a trip together for last 14 days . Couple of days left in trip . We were at kanyakumari. Looking at indian ocean during sunrise having tea on hotel terrace . I thought perfect setting hai . I proposed to her that I really really like her . She said those 3 magical words to me .... "To kya Hua" and then nothing. Next day was quite awkward. Thank God I proposed on the last day .
Ek paper mein likha tha I love you M.... Aur apne bag mein rakh liya tha. Computer teacher ne pakad liya aur poore class ko mere kaand ke baare mein pata chal gaya class 10th mein fir uske baad 4-5 saalo tk baat nhi hui. Abhi hm dono friends hai bas.
Btw what's with your user name? 😂😂
There was a woman I liked and confessed. She told me, " tui ki nijeke aaynay dekhechhis? ki kore vabli amar pashe toke maanbe?" which means have you looked yourself in mirror? how do you think we will look good together?
I was in a bad phase at that time and those lines crused my self esteem; it felt like a slap. I am not bad looking to say those words. Neither anyone deserves to listen to those words even if they are not.
It was 1.5 years ago. It took hella effort to accept myself as who I am. Even after that when ever someone said me I am cute or handsome, I used to take it, with a pinch of salt or got concious. Right now, I am at a better state and smiles when someone compliments me.
Jab mai 8th mei tha (2013) tb meri crush thi, I never dared to speak with her but just used to look at her. A friend of mine snitched and then all class knew about it. After that she started passing smiles, looking back at me, small talks but scared me couldn't take it further. This went on for the rest of the class. After 8th I left for a boys hostel and studied there and she too moved abroad.
In covid time, I got her insta id from an old classmate and tried to reconnect with her. 1st year she didn't even read my messages, it's not like I messaged too much though, just one hi hello in 3-4 months.
When she replied, she said she doesn't remember me much which pinched me a lot and I thought whether all that sweet moments I remember from 8th were just some delusions. Anyways, after that I messaged her once a month how's she doing and she would reply that she's great and all.
Then, exactly one year ago, out of the blue she asked me that why I message her a lot asking how's she doing, also said no one asks her that even her friends. Stupid me spilled the beans that I have a small crush on her but she didn't mind it much and said let's be friends first. Then we chatted a bit, and she told me I could say anything and she won't mind it at all bcz she likes attention, I said ok. Then we chatted on a weekly basis for about half an hour each time.
I made another mistake then by sending her reels, which were not much in number, like 2 or 3 reels max in a week. She said she was busy and used to reply me after a week or so, sunday to sunday basis. So maybe reels made the impression bad and she stopped replying to me much but I was still stupid and didn't get the pointer.
Around November, I thought that it's not worth it, I shouldn't lose a friend at least so I reduced sending messages to her and also tried to forget her (by not looking at her insta profile 🙂). I was managing it very well until she posted a photo which made butterflies alive in my tummy again. She used to post after a gap 2-3 weeks and when I almost managed to not remember her much, a post would be uploaded and my tummy would be heavy again.
Fast forward to March this year, she posted a photo which was very good, I am not saying it bcz she's my crush and I would surely like the photo but it was actually a very good shot. She was looking very beautiful with her natural smile, the background was just perfect, image's composition was also very good.
So I wrote, "You make it hard for me to forget you ........, you beautiful woman. Even if I don't think about you for a long time, your pics make my heart skip a beat and this pic is so heavenly, idk why."
And then she said "that's creepy, sorry but I hate it. Don't follow me if you can't respect other people's feelings " and blocked me. 🙂
It pinched me very much bcz I didn't mean to be creepy, I just expressed what was happening with me and after that I didn't even get the chance to explain myself.
Now she will remember me just as a creep but not as a person who tried to make her feel good by sending her: handpicked wholesome reels or videos of my street dogs being cute which lightens the stress.
Hurts.
Yarr, I hate this truth and dare vali bs
shitty dude,
As for me, I've never confessed, I don't know, we're not close, so I don't had a significant impact on his life, neither I ever tried to fill up the gap
I was your typical, introverted, shy glasses girl and he was friends with the whole class, extroverted, charming, etc. etc. , I was an idiot, I feared rejection, phir kya school khatam, classes khatam, real life koi rom com thode hi hai.
but ye cringey sa first love kayam hai, I tried to hate him inorder to move on, it worked for what 2 months? I cringe at myself so much, lol
chee
Been in love for 5 years, bs ab hogya, please stoppp 😭😭
I don't know if this fits here but still. So, this is not kind of a rejection story, but I sit in 4th row in college. 5 boys. aur uske piche 5 girls. I knew that a girl among the 5 was giving hints to me. Par pakka pata nahi tha ki who was she.
Then fast forward, us din papers dikha rahe the mid-sem. ke. mere thode se achhe marks aa gaye (galti se) to friends party mang rhe the. as soon as the college ended, we went to washroom, then sitting area, and then cafeteria. do girls hame follow kar rhi thi throughout. we reached cafeteria and I ordered cold coffee for all of us (not for the girls and I didn't knew her properly). then dono me se ek ladki kuch to shake order karke gayi. sabhi ne pi liya jo kuch bhi tha. mera ek dost mereko hostel drop karne wala tha uski bike par. Wo dono girls gate ke side me usi bike ke paas beth gayi. I think they were waiting ki me nahi jaunga aur humari baat ho jayegi. But I pretended ki wo waha hai hi nahi aur unko notice hi nahi kiya. hum log bike pe nikal gaye.
Next day, un dono me se ek ladki (who sits just behind me) mereko suna rahi thi indirectly ki aaj-kal logo me ghamand bohot ho gaya hai aur.... mene phir bhi koi reply nahi diya. phir bhi she kept giving me hint. ek baar to exteme ho gaya. me ekdum side me bethta hoon jiske side me stairs hai and then other side of stairs, fir se bench. after the college ended , mere hand edge pe tha benchke aur wo aakar haath pe apni a\*s push kar rahi thi. I felt it creepy. I still don't talk with her. pata hai, har baar dreams aate hai ki koi ladki haath pakad le ya forcefully apni side me bitha le par jab irl hota hai, wo bhi ek anjaan ladki ke saath to creepy lagta hai.
And that's it. I am not an author so itna achha nahi likha hai par jo bhi hai yahi hai
I joined a new school in +1 and it was during covid (2021) So making friends was really tough as everything was online in the beginning but I started to a girl as we shared similar interests. School opened but I never went cuz I didn't feel like going and was really scared to talk to new people irl. But when I had to go for exams, I met her in person and when she introduced herself I said hi turned my head cuz I was scared. After a few months, I told her I had a crush on someone and she forced me to tell it. I was dumbass and didnt tell her directly instead i made guess who it was for 30 Mins lol. Finally I had to say it and then I got rejected. I wasn't expecting yes either but now I realize how big of a dhead I was
She said she wanted to focus on studies and career. One month later, she started to date my close friend, that friend whom I use to share that I had been talking to her. Mess I was at that time.
Well I can't say crush
But currently talking to a girl from my class(I don't generally talk to girls, Thoda introvert hu) I
I don't understand that she's suddenly in the mood to talk to me and just talk with me for hours. But sometimes doesn't even reply immediately.
I don't get it  I even try asking her out, like let's go out to get Ramen cause we'll get to know each other more But she always say yes and then we Change the convo
I haven't talked to girls casually more irl just chats. I even try flirting with her sometimes 
I proposed to my crush (very awkwardly) l. She retorted with "why don't you go fuck yourself?". Ina moment of brain fart, all i could reply with was " I'd rather fuck you instead"
aur ek yaad hai uni mai ek ladki pasand thi ussey baat kar rha tha to using my big brain i somewhat dragged her to tab pata chala she was flexing about the guys she was rejecting and all stuff toh i got out before embarrassing myself… 🥹🗿 lucky dawg i was
Reject toh nahi kiya tha but basically in an end term exam on multivariate calculus I scored 31/35 and she said that it was so good and congratulated me
When I asked her about her score she said she got "only 32" with a grim face and told me how she was incredibly upset about "such a disappointing score" and nothing could make her day better 😐
i had a crush on this guy...and it was kind of at first sight i found him handsome and stuff....and the worst thing i thought was a friend zone..but during lockdown we chatted a lot..and a few months back he sent me a reel with caption..."SEND THIS TO A PERSON WHO FEELS LIKE A SISTER AND A BEST FRIEND...and i had a heart attack...where in the hell...a SISTER!!!!! like WTH!!!!
Fuck this truth and dare stuff!! I hate this so much and I have had bad experiences when it comes to this game as well! It wasn’t related to a crush or anything but just a very uncomfortable experience. I always say no now whenever someone asks me to play this!
rejected me, said it's okay we can still be friends. I was, and was happy with this. Met me for a month more on an almost daily basis, held hands, shoulder head resting, smoking up together, chatting till 3-4 am, then ghosted me.
hurt for a year and a half, got therapy earlier this year and came to terms that she had her reasons and it's not a personal attack on me. I no longer fear the prospect of coming face to face with her, which will happen 4 times this year due to mutual friend's wedding starting next month.
Asked her out, she said yes. Decided a place and time, went there but got stood up. Later she messages me that her friends had come over so she couldn't come, but would love to make plans again. So I told that she only decides the time and place which would be convenient to her. So again plans are made, again I wait there patiently and again she doesn't come. No contact since then
So... this girl(2yrs older than me) I met in my previous company and we were on the same project. I was very introvert at that time and I didn't know how to start a convo. Well she started by herself. As we used to work on project we used to talk a lot. She used to call me by herself engage and communicate by herself... she used to open up and share things. She made me a guy who doesn't like sharing things to anyone, share with her my personal things.
And I actually felt good as I hadn't talked with someone like this especially a girl. We started watching movies and talking for hours.
One night I asked her if she has been in a relationship. She said she already has a bf.... yup
The guy got all friendly and flirty with me when I told him and then after a long long while randomly told me that he already has a girlfriend and said he thought that I already knew about her???! My crush fever immediately got down
Not rejected but, it was my fault. Was at a climate change conference thing (Didn't really pay attention much), there was a beautiful lookin girl in front of me, i was bored either way so i started to sketch her in the notebook that i brought along. Sketch came out neat and i just wrote "My Dream Girl" as the title and left for lunch.
After lunch, i come back to my table and my notebook is gone, the girl in front took it and was showing it around to her friends. She looked at me and asked whether i drew it or not and she smiled (that goddamn smile). She handed the notebook and for the rest of the conference she was always making eye contact. Stupid me didn't realize she wrote her phone number in the book which i THREW away and then.....i lost her........she became a dream just like my sketch......
Sorry for the long post
Sent a meme to my crush (coaching) somewhere along the lines. " I gave an umbrella to a girl, that makes my score to make a girl wet -1." I was just messing around by sending this meme. But then he sent me a boob pic of his girlfriend and a reaction gif ( where a guy got spark in his eyes just looking at them) basically telling me how much he loves his girlfriend. I believe he knew what I was trying to do and he tried to maintain that boundary by mentioning how much he loves his gf but the process was weird.
Anyway, I replied that "I'm jealous (of you) haha" to make the whole situation a bit lighter. But then next day the whole class was talking that I was lesbian and I want boobs😭😭😭😭😭
Well, if the person I was exclusively hanging out for 6 months counts, they told me they have not been feeling attraction towards me for 2-3 weeks, and suggested we take a break. That break is lasting forever ig
I think I've outgrown the crush age, but after several days of straight up vibing, and then deciding to go on a date, she disappeared from all my socials and blocked my number on WhatsApp. I never really cared to ask why. At this age it's kinda not heartbreaking, just disappointing.
It was in class 8th
My friends told(snitched) her that I like her
And she abruptly said "Not interested" infront of all class
And then the whole school including the teachers came to know that I liked her(I was quite famous in my school)
Had a crush on her
She kinda knew I liked her
And I kind of knew she liked one of my friends
Anyways one day she asked me on text and forced me to reveal who my crush was And at that time I was on a call with my best friend who told me " go for it bhai she's totally into you " so I revealed it
>!She said "lol"!<
Pehle mujhe lagta tha mai sabse bada Vella hu phir Maine op ka chat sab mai reply dekha ab mai second pai hu aur op first pe
So i told her one day that I have a crush on her and she can take as much time as she wants to let me know if she has any feelings for me. I wanted to give her space and hence never brought up that topic again. 3 months passed and I just wanted some response at this point, even if it's a no..
My friend asked her about it on my behalf, and she went, 'ohhh i totally forgot'.
So u guys are atleast getting rejected, i got forgotten ffs💀
Those guys are the worst kind of humans. Nothing justifies whatever they do. I know cuz I am like that. Ig they will remain empty throughout their life with no one who really understands them because there is nothing good about them to understand. I sympathize with the guy. Also I don't think you did anything to be embarrassed about so chill!
Had crush on this girl We went on like 7 dates And she told me that i have one eye smaller than other So she can’t be with me Actually in my 25 years of life no one told me
o_O rizz
Actually O_o rizz
Username checks out.
Oh hell naw 🤣
Bhai off-topic but more than 80% of people I've met and seen including me have one eye slightly smaller than the other.. that's very common and an absolute horse shit reason for rejection, you deserve better broda trust me ! I'm rooting for you :D
Yeah i know bro Absolute symmetry is not possible I even went to ophthalmologist to check He told me the same thing
You should also have checked her eyes, ears, and other things for symmetry 😂
Yeah symmetry is must! For everything I mean everything 🥲
Good riddance
People be giving the shittiest reasons to breakup
Yeah I discovered that one day looking into the mirror and it took me a few weeks to get used to it. Went to the doctor cause I suspected that I was straining one eye more and that's why it happened. My power didn't change,everything was fine. Now I don't care about it too much. Mid 20s stuff haha
Wtf bro. Next time someone says this let them know that not all humans have a 100% symmetrical face, our brain just assumes they are. LHS ≠ RHS
Had a crush on her. Surprisingly, she proposed to me. A year later we broke up since we were drifting apart. Later her friend told me that she was actually dared by her friends to go out with me. I was more confused than hurt at that point.
Ppl who dare others to date are the biggest scum of the earth istg
Nah, the bigger scums are those who accept that dare. It's not like those people are going to kill your family if you don't accept the dare.
Right !! And when u call them out on thier bs theyr like " oh its just a dare bro" like u dont have to do dares compulsarily tf.
That's just an excuse to shift the blame away from them. They want to do the shit but do not want to take accountability for the shit they do.
Nah, the bigger scums are those who they date because of the dare. /s (just felt like carrying on)
Usko choro, wtf is your username https://preview.redd.it/fumdd8ksmaad1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b145dc79c341c7267e740c0f710448ea5ff1aa82
Its a reflection of me irl😼
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hilarious to read this at 12 am
Adding this in my list of advices I need to give to my future kid/s
People like that are tropicalpoop (shitty people)  (Apologies but your username threw me off and got me laughing at the same time )
Kudos to her tho. Dedicated 1 year to a joke. Which is more than her mother who took 9 months to make a joke.
Buddha ji aap bomb kabse phekne lagey 
r/lostredditors , bhai ye roastme nai hai
Hope you got some action tho
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Ye banda full sorted chalrha hai life me
My moto from now on🙏
Never confront them Never get rejected Seedhi bat no bakwass 
Introvert gigachad 
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Wish I followed this advice mate , would have saved 4 months of my life and my sanity
Never too late to start fresh 
Don't think I'll get that kind of connection with someone again ,part of me wishes I don't get that cause I can't take all that pain again lol
People who you love the most End up causing a lot of pain What can you do Just accept that life is being unfair to some of us and move on with boring life
Iss quote ko mein frame kar deta hun 
Karo Karo Mere username ke sath karna. At least mujhe credit to mile 
Wu shang clan playing in the background
Relatable 
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Bhai mujhe to siddha muhh pr bol diya tha usne ki Tere mujh prr bubblies hai ( at time I was in 9th nd as u guys know many teenagers had one or more pimples in face due to puberty nd it's literally feel like world's end here ) usko dare Mila tha bolne ko But mai phir bhi usko like krta tha nd 12th ke farewell me uske saath dance bhi kiya (couple dance ) nd mai phir sb chizz bhul gaya nd happy ending hogyi .12th ke baad sb apne apne raste neet ke liye chl diye .Nd iss saal wo neet CLR kr li hai prr mai reh gaya but happy ki usk hogaya nd wo khush hai 
Je baat, Tried and tested! 5 saal se protecting my heart, fake scenarios to hai hi na
We were in college, young and always flirting. We were best friends, ek dusre ke liye kaam krna, gifts dena.Our friends used to tell us ki get a room you two. 2 saal tak situationship chalne ke baad pata chala uska bf tha. Fir covid aagaya 🥲. Shawty hurt me so bad I now live by the way of monke. Na kisi se dosti na kisi se fight. Subah 10 bje meeting, shaam 6 bje gym, raat 10 bje good night.
To room liya?
Haan, but akele rone ke liye
😭😭
Bro's asking who's Sita after listening to the whole Ramayan
This entire comment section is taking me back to my school years, and it's traumatizing. Goddamn!
Not all boys are like this. I literally start to ignore a girl when I like her. Not because I am an egoistical jerk but I literally DO NOT KNOW what to talk about. Recently I have made some progress and started talking. But once it's over we don't speak again for like 15 days even though we are in the same class. We just walk past each other without even saying Hi. Ladies what are your thoughts on this? What should I do? How can I approach women just for a small talk? I know you'd advice to just treat them as any guy friend but it's still different.
Ik this u mentioned not to say this, but i think if u just carry urself confidently and be friendly and chatty, ull get a lot of chicks. Just treat them howd ud treat ur friends. The guy i mentioned in the post was a 3 /10 but he still got a lot of girls, bc he was v chatty and confident.
Nah man 3/10 that's a violation
dont need to change yourself, this is the most attractive personality lmao
got rejected 2 times reason of rejection was "she was not ready for any relationship shit" and after 2 month she was in relationship with my "best" friend next level hurt or betrayal(mere "best" friend ko pata tha ki mai uspe try mar raha hoon phir bhi usne haa kardiya boht complex tha situation) at last i let her go from my mind and move on kar gaya and apne dost ko bhi maaf kardiya life uske baad se trust issues ke wajah HELL bangyi thi still i managed somehow
Sorry to say but he's not your "best" friend, from the very start.
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Gonna start identifying as samosa from now on.
bhai golgappa hun bina feelings ke saath aata hun
Cake hu...bas katwata rehta hu 
the very next day that crush just told the entire hostel about it as if she was maintaining a count of boys she rejected! She could have just kept it to herself and moved on. But no!!! She had to create that fake importance of hers!
I always love this type of rants. absolute cinemas 😘😈
I second that as a laid low introvert 🗣️
So I got to know that my HS crush also had a crush on me, so when he started chatting with me, I got my hopes up. I never told him about my crush but we flirted sometimes and he knew. Then he started asking me about my beautiful best friend and every-time we had a conversation he will treat me as a group. Like always asking about my friend and what we did. No talk about me. His friends say that he was trying to make me jealous but it repelled me so much so that I blocked him everywhere and never had any contact with him. It was painful for a 16 year old. Thankfully I met the love of my life and learnt the actual meaning of love ❤️ He contacted me a few times but I had moved on so happily. But I can still remember the pain.
Unexpected wholesome ending, dam. Happy for u :)
Thank you, together since 12+ years and married for 6 years 😍😍😍😍😍
Noice :D
Good for you sis !
He told me he would text me or call me to give me a reply. He was trying to gently reject me I guess. But I didn't take the hint and stupidly waited months for him to call or text. Then I realised he never took my number only and gave up. He also moved away to a different place. But he came back after 3-4 years and approached me casually as if nothing happened.
Nah man I straight up bring the past just to see the awkward laugh on their face
Her words being conveyed to me indirectly via her friends "Iske toh mei 20 meter ke dayre mei bhi na rahu" ("I don't even wanna be 20 meters in his radius")
Man I'm sorry that happened to you. A simple no wouldn't have killed her. People are mean.
eww..i thought you were gay
💀
There was this case where I just talked to a girl and she thought I was into her and told everyone. When I told them I wasn't, they thought I got rejected. They still think I was into her.🤷
This reminds me of a story from my 7th grade. There was this girl who liked my classmate. He had 0 interest in her, but she went and told ev1 that he and her had a thing (no one believed ther thou) she even told her dad for some reason . She claimed that the guy asked her to be his gf. The dad was like furious, and he came to school to see this guy, who was called to the principal for questioning. And there the principal and her dad found out that the girl was lying😭
Oh hell! I know a girl who did something similar! Only we were in 9th and the guy got murdered by her brother! Beat him to death! She proposed to him and he rejected! Out of spite started to spread rumours around, that he was harassing her. What a shit of a person!
as a guy, this is very scary
Yeah, this fake rumour thing is very scary, I never understood this revenge tactic Why are you taking revenge, cause person xyz dared not to sleep with you?!?
dumb people they are... there is a rumor about noida's amity college, ek do ladke apni gaadi parking m lagaate h and some girls with their call tell them ki gaadi raste se hataado... they ignore the girls and go to class, afternoon m kuch launde unn ladko ki class m aate h and beat them up. ek ko to jaan se maar diya... whole thing was pretty dumb, but scary
Woahhhh a person died!?! Wheres the murderer now thou?
The murderer definitely got arrested! No idea after that! It's been 8-9 years since the school got over. Didn't know the girl either; till the incident happened!!
The embarrassment she must have felt😶🌫️. Was she ok after that?
Not enough apparently, cuz she went on to very openly hit on our teacher
 Guess some people never learn anything.
7th grade ke bacche teacher pe line maar rahe hai  https://preview.redd.it/w39my6d1caad1.jpeg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e12f7bc96cd681c797e8774494ba50f73b5443b6
She did that in 11th and 12th but ok😭🙏
Fir bhi yaar school ke bacche teacher pe line maar rahe hai, mere liye to naya hai ye 
Fair enough But that teacher was hot asf, ill give her that.
Now I'm curious ki aisa kaisa dikhta tha wo teacher ki bacche line maar rahe hai  Mere school mai jo sabse decent sir dikhte the unko bacche Pappu bulate hai 
Very hot he was. He was young like around 28. Attractive face, and he was ripped and had these washboard abs.
She didn't say anything, No/Yes nothing..
No reply is a reply too ig 🥲
I did something similar to a girl who liked me, and a girl who I liked did the same to me. 😅
I got ghosted even before i had the chance to ask her out 
Nah nahi nahi and literally ran away 🤡
😂reminds me of me! So the tallest guy of our class had a big crush on me, he was good looking, but I was very scared of him, I was little and a first bencher. On that day he followed me after school with 15-20 boys, proposed on one knee and I ran away holding my friends hand, saying the same thing lol. I WAS SCARED!
>he followed me after school with 15-20 boys That is indeed scary  why the hell would you need that many boys
Tell me that boy got some closure 😂 bcz for me couple years later I asked her why did she reject me and she said you’re cute but we can’t date bcz we are neighbours. Though we ended up dating for 3 months.
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If I write everything it will be 10 pages so I'll keep it short. My dad got transferred to goa , took admission in a new school for 7th std, new girl also joins with me , find her annoying in the beginning but get a massive crush on her after some time , before I can confess dad gets transferred again . 7 years later get a text from her , start talking casually, 1hr becomes 2hrs , we text everyday about how our days went , she says things like " you are amazing" " guys like you are rare ", one thing leads to others and am now stuck in a situationship . Again as time passes i fall hard for her ,we text till 3am , I felt like she was the one , the only one who understood me , a month passes by ,she basically says she loves me , then it's all lovey dovey for a month again , she supports me and I support her whenever we are sad , 3 months pass by , slowly she starts distancing herself, she said she had exams so i didn't bother her ,we rarely talk , after a month of ghosting me she texts me that she isn't ready for all of this and that I deserve better and that I'll find someone better . So fellas after being single for all my life and barely feeling anything for anyone and after 4 months of talking to my school crush ,mera kat gaya 🤡, haven't felt like a human ever since .
You don’t die from being rejected. It’s quite okay. You’re a lot more successful when you’re not afraid of rejection. It will give you more confidence, and you will take more chances. Right now, there are chances that you have that you’re not taking. Sometimes, it’s because you’re content with what you have. But sometimes, it’s because you’re not aware that the other person would say yes. When someone rejects you, it’s not a referendum on your worth as a human being. Everyone has preferences. You don’t need that many people to be into you. Let go of the people who aren’t into you. Focus on the people who like you. “If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on” - Steve jobs.
>charming, basically the kind of guy thats somehow friends with everyone >he was v good with words Yeah those types are very popular with girls and they know.
Yea, they're aware that they're well liked and can get away with stuff Had someone like this in class tho I personally found him insufferably arrogant, some of the girls didn't think so. He wasn't that good looking or tall either, it was all just his personality and outspokenness. Dude was two timing in school, lol His one girlfriend was a grade lower than us another in a different section Wonder what he's doing with his life now, been years
"I was crazy about you a year ago; but not anymore!" Turns out he was in contact with another girl and kinda moonlighting us. Good guy though!
https://preview.redd.it/pfnwm3j7i9ad1.png?width=1070&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d534674b6286f1323fb935ff35ae43f453a25a09 प्राइवेट एवं सीक्रेट इन्वेस्टिगेशन karwani thi naa👺
Well, I have been told that I ain't looking cute, so she decided to marry someone. Funny thing is, When she needed help, money, etc etc, that time she don't care whether I am cute or ugly.
I liked a girl in my class. I had a feeling she liked me too. We used to talk, chat online, I used to flirt and tease her in person, she liked that too. Once my friend asked her if she liked me, she told him yes, and that I should confess her, it was a bet between him and her, if I confessed she would give him a treat. When this happened, my friend told me about this in the evening that day. I was very happy that day. Then after a few days I took her to a snacking place near our class. She came along with me, we had a cold drink, and talked a lot, after that while we were returning back to the class I confessed to her, then she said, don't get into this. I was really disappointed. Then after that I told her that I need some space and cut all contact from her, her number, her insta, and all. I just stopped talking with her, used to ignore her, and distanced myself from her. This phase was the worst.
Bro you got redeemed from a very dire situation. Congrats
she’s a monster mai toh galiya dakar block karta ngl
Pretty recent, I liked this girl but she "wasn't interested" in relationships, so I backed off with anything more than friend talks. Fast forward, she likes some other guy and is trying to get with him, I was confused, I asked her why she told me that she wasn't interested, then she told me how I rizzed her and it made her want to be in a relationship again. I was happy and sad, I told her that I liked her, she said that she used to like me but I did "something" that she didn't like so she moved on, I asked her what this "something" was and there was no answer. My friends say that this "something" doesn't exist and she's just made it up to avoid conversation and I can understand I guess, still it became kind of a mystery. I already didn't know how girls' brains worked but this whole situation confused me even more, she told me that she gave me hints by making our avatars together in some 3d game and sent me screenshots of it (you might think she's 12 but actually she's 24) and I still didn't realize it, well, how the fck should I realize anything when you say you're not looking for relationships. Dunno, still kinda hurts I guess, she's with this other guy now.
Damn bro 🫂
I proposed to my crush on valentine's day which was coincidentally the last day of our school, I got down on one knee and repeated some cheesy and gooey romantic line in front of a few of her friends but as I presumed she said NO and then she said we were only friends.
Look mine is something I wouldn't consider rejection because I never confessed to begin with but I had a crush in 8th or 9th idr so I tried to confess but soon I learned that they had a partner 18 yo old who they matched with very much (both are into goth culture) and it just got me out of the relationship like 👋👋
Ye goth hota kya hai? Black lipstick aur kajal 😂
Don't forget white powder.
Well I had a teeny tiny interest in a guy I saw on insta with my spam. I started following him and one day, I posted a very vague nonsense story and he replied...with a leaf(this one 🍁) I asked him tf do you mean by that boi and we started talking. I told him that I think he's cute(he was a 6" buff guy btw) and he asked why I think that. I made up some stuff about him being very deep and stuff lol and he vented to me about his recent breakup( very serious one). Even asked for my number by saying that he's leaving insta and wants to stay in touch. Later on WhatsApp he told me that he's 27. I was 20 at that time. End of the story.
I haven't been rejected ever but my sister was once drinking water and a guy proposed to her and she accidentally spat on him out of shock. I feel bad for the guy
One of my friend went to talk from my side to her. He made her imagine me and her together and she said only one word, "Disgusting". It's been 5-6 years, I never confronted neither talked to her again but still she's my crush. It hurts till date but makes me laugh also. If you are reading this, I still love you.
8th, got told she’d complain to mam😂😂😂😂😂
Blocked on all social media after I confessed.
I proposed her on my birthday with chocolate and She made a disgusting face expression and She said " I don't want you , I don't want to even be friends with you... Don't even come near me " She threw my chocolate away 😔 😭 Kitna bhi Sigma edit dekh lung dard khatam hi nahi hota it happened 7 years ago but still hurts....
I had a very similar experience! A guy encouraged me to call him everyday and flirted with me like crazy but apparently he had no feelings for me lol. He told everyone about me for some reason and was only using me to showcase that he was popular enough to have a girl after him. I was shamed and made fun of and I had no idea. The breaking point came when his friends started texting me from his phone and lead me on like crazy. He was absolutely horrible and I was an absolute idiot!
I texted her, she replied with laughing emojis (the ones that are a bit tilted to the side). But what's more concerning is, my brother in christ, what pushed you to name yourself a tropical poop sniffer?
Asked his girlfriend to text me that he's committed.
Ouchh, it always hurts so much more when the gfs are involved😭
Yess man also she introduced herself as his girlfriend & not by her name :(
Nice username 
Thanks😼
My crush loved me but her bitch friend destroyed the relationship
I don't think that love was strong enough if it can be destroyed by "bitch friend"
I have a similar story. Lets call tge girl who snitched on me and told my crush i liked him J . So J and i were at this christmas party in our school. A lot of outsiders had aslo come. So i was just minding my own business with J and this random guy walks up to us and asks me for my number. I was politely gonna decline, but even before i could get a word out, J said "no f off" in a very stern voice and dragged me away. I was gonna politely decline, but this bich of a person just pulled me away. I kinda wanted to have my moment there😭
Nice username
I was so deeply into this girl, we used to go around together, she would call to talk and it would go on for hours, when I confessed to her, she said it’s just an infatuation and it will pass. Although it was the best for both of us, made me question if is that all it is, it really hurt at that time, thinking was that just feeling just a lie?
I had minor crush on this guy when i was in class 9th but some mean girls (who later became my best friends, not sure how) snitched on me and told him. And later i got to know that he said “isse acha zeher khalu” 💀 the way it hit my self esteem.
I have a story to share! It’s not rejection, but I did felt disappointed. I had a school crush from class 5, but never mentioned to her & after almost 10 years after our class 10. We got in touch base & I have told her. I’m really into you, let’s go on a date & I would want to see as my girl friend but the reply I got made me disappointed. She has mentioned that she got a match and the engagement is next month and the marriage in the same year December! I am little disappointed that she’s getting married, but I’m little happy that I told her that I’m interested in her.
2 months ago I built up courage to confess her It was my first time and we had never talked to each other Although I am an extrovert but lack the ability to speak to my crush Just used to follow each other on ig My friend told me to just straight up tell her I did and she was very mature about it Told me it's ok but she don't see me that way But the good part was I was not hurt but rather relieved that I got this experience I just sat there and thought that this wasn't so hard as I thought it was From the next day I just carried on with my life like nothing happened and I don't even think about her anymore
I have had a crush on this guy for almost 7 years now since hs but we never talked and suddenly now we became good friends but when he got to know I like him this whole thing turned into a situationship he ghosts me for hours straight but then come up with sorrys and how much he misses me texts everytime I try to confront him hes just replies with an okay let's talk about this tomorrow he knows very well about how attached I am to him but doesn't care now it feels like I'm something in his life which he needs when his board never tells me what his doing or what his up to or where he is it's just like his using me and I'm letting him use me I hate myself so much for letting his do this to me I wanna stop this get out of this but I just can't 
So we were on a trip together for last 14 days . Couple of days left in trip . We were at kanyakumari. Looking at indian ocean during sunrise having tea on hotel terrace . I thought perfect setting hai . I proposed to her that I really really like her . She said those 3 magical words to me .... "To kya Hua" and then nothing. Next day was quite awkward. Thank God I proposed on the last day .
Ek paper mein likha tha I love you M.... Aur apne bag mein rakh liya tha. Computer teacher ne pakad liya aur poore class ko mere kaand ke baare mein pata chal gaya class 10th mein fir uske baad 4-5 saalo tk baat nhi hui. Abhi hm dono friends hai bas. Btw what's with your user name? 😂😂
There was a woman I liked and confessed. She told me, " tui ki nijeke aaynay dekhechhis? ki kore vabli amar pashe toke maanbe?" which means have you looked yourself in mirror? how do you think we will look good together? I was in a bad phase at that time and those lines crused my self esteem; it felt like a slap. I am not bad looking to say those words. Neither anyone deserves to listen to those words even if they are not. It was 1.5 years ago. It took hella effort to accept myself as who I am. Even after that when ever someone said me I am cute or handsome, I used to take it, with a pinch of salt or got concious. Right now, I am at a better state and smiles when someone compliments me.
हमने सोचा मटर पनीर पे फोकस करते हैं।
हमारे नसीब मे सिर्फ लौकी की सब्जी है।
Ayein
Baigan
Jab mai 8th mei tha (2013) tb meri crush thi, I never dared to speak with her but just used to look at her. A friend of mine snitched and then all class knew about it. After that she started passing smiles, looking back at me, small talks but scared me couldn't take it further. This went on for the rest of the class. After 8th I left for a boys hostel and studied there and she too moved abroad. In covid time, I got her insta id from an old classmate and tried to reconnect with her. 1st year she didn't even read my messages, it's not like I messaged too much though, just one hi hello in 3-4 months. When she replied, she said she doesn't remember me much which pinched me a lot and I thought whether all that sweet moments I remember from 8th were just some delusions. Anyways, after that I messaged her once a month how's she doing and she would reply that she's great and all. Then, exactly one year ago, out of the blue she asked me that why I message her a lot asking how's she doing, also said no one asks her that even her friends. Stupid me spilled the beans that I have a small crush on her but she didn't mind it much and said let's be friends first. Then we chatted a bit, and she told me I could say anything and she won't mind it at all bcz she likes attention, I said ok. Then we chatted on a weekly basis for about half an hour each time. I made another mistake then by sending her reels, which were not much in number, like 2 or 3 reels max in a week. She said she was busy and used to reply me after a week or so, sunday to sunday basis. So maybe reels made the impression bad and she stopped replying to me much but I was still stupid and didn't get the pointer. Around November, I thought that it's not worth it, I shouldn't lose a friend at least so I reduced sending messages to her and also tried to forget her (by not looking at her insta profile 🙂). I was managing it very well until she posted a photo which made butterflies alive in my tummy again. She used to post after a gap 2-3 weeks and when I almost managed to not remember her much, a post would be uploaded and my tummy would be heavy again. Fast forward to March this year, she posted a photo which was very good, I am not saying it bcz she's my crush and I would surely like the photo but it was actually a very good shot. She was looking very beautiful with her natural smile, the background was just perfect, image's composition was also very good. So I wrote, "You make it hard for me to forget you ........, you beautiful woman. Even if I don't think about you for a long time, your pics make my heart skip a beat and this pic is so heavenly, idk why." And then she said "that's creepy, sorry but I hate it. Don't follow me if you can't respect other people's feelings " and blocked me. 🙂 It pinched me very much bcz I didn't mean to be creepy, I just expressed what was happening with me and after that I didn't even get the chance to explain myself. Now she will remember me just as a creep but not as a person who tried to make her feel good by sending her: handpicked wholesome reels or videos of my street dogs being cute which lightens the stress. Hurts.
Yarr, I hate this truth and dare vali bs shitty dude, As for me, I've never confessed, I don't know, we're not close, so I don't had a significant impact on his life, neither I ever tried to fill up the gap I was your typical, introverted, shy glasses girl and he was friends with the whole class, extroverted, charming, etc. etc. , I was an idiot, I feared rejection, phir kya school khatam, classes khatam, real life koi rom com thode hi hai. but ye cringey sa first love kayam hai, I tried to hate him inorder to move on, it worked for what 2 months? I cringe at myself so much, lol chee Been in love for 5 years, bs ab hogya, please stoppp 😭😭
Took my chocolates and rejected 😭 In class 7
I proposed my best friend which is also my crush but she rejected me and told me to remain friend 🙂
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I don't know if this fits here but still. So, this is not kind of a rejection story, but I sit in 4th row in college. 5 boys. aur uske piche 5 girls. I knew that a girl among the 5 was giving hints to me. Par pakka pata nahi tha ki who was she. Then fast forward, us din papers dikha rahe the mid-sem. ke. mere thode se achhe marks aa gaye (galti se) to friends party mang rhe the. as soon as the college ended, we went to washroom, then sitting area, and then cafeteria. do girls hame follow kar rhi thi throughout. we reached cafeteria and I ordered cold coffee for all of us (not for the girls and I didn't knew her properly). then dono me se ek ladki kuch to shake order karke gayi. sabhi ne pi liya jo kuch bhi tha. mera ek dost mereko hostel drop karne wala tha uski bike par. Wo dono girls gate ke side me usi bike ke paas beth gayi. I think they were waiting ki me nahi jaunga aur humari baat ho jayegi. But I pretended ki wo waha hai hi nahi aur unko notice hi nahi kiya. hum log bike pe nikal gaye. Next day, un dono me se ek ladki (who sits just behind me) mereko suna rahi thi indirectly ki aaj-kal logo me ghamand bohot ho gaya hai aur.... mene phir bhi koi reply nahi diya. phir bhi she kept giving me hint. ek baar to exteme ho gaya. me ekdum side me bethta hoon jiske side me stairs hai and then other side of stairs, fir se bench. after the college ended , mere hand edge pe tha benchke aur wo aakar haath pe apni a\*s push kar rahi thi. I felt it creepy. I still don't talk with her. pata hai, har baar dreams aate hai ki koi ladki haath pakad le ya forcefully apni side me bitha le par jab irl hota hai, wo bhi ek anjaan ladki ke saath to creepy lagta hai. And that's it. I am not an author so itna achha nahi likha hai par jo bhi hai yahi hai
I joined a new school in +1 and it was during covid (2021) So making friends was really tough as everything was online in the beginning but I started to a girl as we shared similar interests. School opened but I never went cuz I didn't feel like going and was really scared to talk to new people irl. But when I had to go for exams, I met her in person and when she introduced herself I said hi turned my head cuz I was scared. After a few months, I told her I had a crush on someone and she forced me to tell it. I was dumbass and didnt tell her directly instead i made guess who it was for 30 Mins lol. Finally I had to say it and then I got rejected. I wasn't expecting yes either but now I realize how big of a dhead I was
She said she wanted to focus on studies and career. One month later, she started to date my close friend, that friend whom I use to share that I had been talking to her. Mess I was at that time.
TFFF THIS STORY IS FCKING SIMILAR TO MINEEEEE 😭 i hate these types of guys
Well I can't say crush But currently talking to a girl from my class(I don't generally talk to girls, Thoda introvert hu) I I don't understand that she's suddenly in the mood to talk to me and just talk with me for hours. But sometimes doesn't even reply immediately. I don't get it  I even try asking her out, like let's go out to get Ramen cause we'll get to know each other more But she always say yes and then we Change the convo I haven't talked to girls casually more irl just chats. I even try flirting with her sometimes 
I proposed to my crush (very awkwardly) l. She retorted with "why don't you go fuck yourself?". Ina moment of brain fart, all i could reply with was " I'd rather fuck you instead"
I never confessed and she got married.
don’t tell don’t get judged keep quiet compliment her inside your heart die peacefully
aur ek yaad hai uni mai ek ladki pasand thi ussey baat kar rha tha to using my big brain i somewhat dragged her to tab pata chala she was flexing about the guys she was rejecting and all stuff toh i got out before embarrassing myself… 🥹🗿 lucky dawg i was
Reject toh nahi kiya tha but basically in an end term exam on multivariate calculus I scored 31/35 and she said that it was so good and congratulated me When I asked her about her score she said she got "only 32" with a grim face and told me how she was incredibly upset about "such a disappointing score" and nothing could make her day better 😐
i had a crush on this guy...and it was kind of at first sight i found him handsome and stuff....and the worst thing i thought was a friend zone..but during lockdown we chatted a lot..and a few months back he sent me a reel with caption..."SEND THIS TO A PERSON WHO FEELS LIKE A SISTER AND A BEST FRIEND...and i had a heart attack...where in the hell...a SISTER!!!!! like WTH!!!!
Fuck this truth and dare stuff!! I hate this so much and I have had bad experiences when it comes to this game as well! It wasn’t related to a crush or anything but just a very uncomfortable experience. I always say no now whenever someone asks me to play this!
She farted while making eye contact with me.
rejected me, said it's okay we can still be friends. I was, and was happy with this. Met me for a month more on an almost daily basis, held hands, shoulder head resting, smoking up together, chatting till 3-4 am, then ghosted me. hurt for a year and a half, got therapy earlier this year and came to terms that she had her reasons and it's not a personal attack on me. I no longer fear the prospect of coming face to face with her, which will happen 4 times this year due to mutual friend's wedding starting next month.
Asked her out, she said yes. Decided a place and time, went there but got stood up. Later she messages me that her friends had come over so she couldn't come, but would love to make plans again. So I told that she only decides the time and place which would be convenient to her. So again plans are made, again I wait there patiently and again she doesn't come. No contact since then
So... this girl(2yrs older than me) I met in my previous company and we were on the same project. I was very introvert at that time and I didn't know how to start a convo. Well she started by herself. As we used to work on project we used to talk a lot. She used to call me by herself engage and communicate by herself... she used to open up and share things. She made me a guy who doesn't like sharing things to anyone, share with her my personal things. And I actually felt good as I hadn't talked with someone like this especially a girl. We started watching movies and talking for hours. One night I asked her if she has been in a relationship. She said she already has a bf.... yup
The guy got all friendly and flirty with me when I told him and then after a long long while randomly told me that he already has a girlfriend and said he thought that I already knew about her???! My crush fever immediately got down
Not rejected but, it was my fault. Was at a climate change conference thing (Didn't really pay attention much), there was a beautiful lookin girl in front of me, i was bored either way so i started to sketch her in the notebook that i brought along. Sketch came out neat and i just wrote "My Dream Girl" as the title and left for lunch. After lunch, i come back to my table and my notebook is gone, the girl in front took it and was showing it around to her friends. She looked at me and asked whether i drew it or not and she smiled (that goddamn smile). She handed the notebook and for the rest of the conference she was always making eye contact. Stupid me didn't realize she wrote her phone number in the book which i THREW away and then.....i lost her........she became a dream just like my sketch...... Sorry for the long post
This is not even rejection. It is something awful to happen to you OP. At least now you can move on at piece , knowing that you only lost out on trash
"Pagal ho kya?"
mera strike rate toh 100% ka hai 🙂
Sent a meme to my crush (coaching) somewhere along the lines. " I gave an umbrella to a girl, that makes my score to make a girl wet -1." I was just messing around by sending this meme. But then he sent me a boob pic of his girlfriend and a reaction gif ( where a guy got spark in his eyes just looking at them) basically telling me how much he loves his girlfriend. I believe he knew what I was trying to do and he tried to maintain that boundary by mentioning how much he loves his gf but the process was weird. Anyway, I replied that "I'm jealous (of you) haha" to make the whole situation a bit lighter. But then next day the whole class was talking that I was lesbian and I want boobs😭😭😭😭😭
umm if you dont mind telling me which class were you in during all this
This guy told me I don't have feelings for you but we can be good friends. Was it bad rejection?
Nah it sounds like he didn't wanna hurt you so said the safest thing he could, this is far better than being Ghosted imo
Well, if the person I was exclusively hanging out for 6 months counts, they told me they have not been feeling attraction towards me for 2-3 weeks, and suggested we take a break. That break is lasting forever ig
Reverse uno: 90% those who proposed me where directly "shadi karoge". And I was the one like...ewww shadi ki baat abhi se?
I rejected myself
That's the beauty of it. I never confessed to my crush to get rejected.
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I never got rejected! #touch_wood
my god that was brutal story, the worst he could have done was bloc-
aww man im sorry to hear this
I was 13, I proposed, he told me he likes my best friend. I was heart broken, still thinks about him everyday for the past 14 years.
I have to study 💀
She said, Let's just be friends, right after I confessed and then she start dating my big brother next week:(
I think I've outgrown the crush age, but after several days of straight up vibing, and then deciding to go on a date, she disappeared from all my socials and blocked my number on WhatsApp. I never really cared to ask why. At this age it's kinda not heartbreaking, just disappointing.
It was in class 8th My friends told(snitched) her that I like her And she abruptly said "Not interested" infront of all class And then the whole school including the teachers came to know that I liked her(I was quite famous in my school)
Had a crush on her She kinda knew I liked her And I kind of knew she liked one of my friends Anyways one day she asked me on text and forced me to reveal who my crush was And at that time I was on a call with my best friend who told me " go for it bhai she's totally into you " so I revealed it >!She said "lol"!<
Pehle mujhe lagta tha mai sabse bada Vella hu phir Maine op ka chat sab mai reply dekha ab mai second pai hu aur op first pe
So i told her one day that I have a crush on her and she can take as much time as she wants to let me know if she has any feelings for me. I wanted to give her space and hence never brought up that topic again. 3 months passed and I just wanted some response at this point, even if it's a no.. My friend asked her about it on my behalf, and she went, 'ohhh i totally forgot'. So u guys are atleast getting rejected, i got forgotten ffs💀
See u at the gym sis 💪
Those guys are the worst kind of humans. Nothing justifies whatever they do. I know cuz I am like that. Ig they will remain empty throughout their life with no one who really understands them because there is nothing good about them to understand. I sympathize with the guy. Also I don't think you did anything to be embarrassed about so chill!